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I Am Sad and Lonely

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    How to save a life-The Fray This reminds me of

    when she broke up with me. I think I thought about killing myself 100 times that day. I almost did when I was walking home. I saw this grey sedan and I thought what a great car to walk in front of. I wonder if it looks better with blood on the windshield. I think about what I...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 7

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    The truth is, It's not

    that Im anti social. I WOULD LOVE TO make connections with people, but Im always getting beaten up by my insecurities. So I sometimes try to avoid talking to people because Im afraid of rejection.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response May 7

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    I feel better when im busy.

    I just don't know how long i can continue wearing this mask.
    waruchen waruchen 31-35 Oct 13

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    I think I have been feeling lonely

    since 2008. I moved 300 miles from my family and friends. I have 1 friend where I live now. In fact she is always too busy to hang out with me. I get tired of trying to reach out and getting told no. I organize a book club but the people in the book club only seem to want to...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I keep writing about you I don't know why I

    stare at this blank paper and all I feel is rage anger and frustration knowing that after everything you did to me you are okay, and probably don't care about what I have to say I feel so lost, I lose my mind trying to think of the exact moment I lost you a fire starts in my...
    Santi0924 Santi0924 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    It's much more easier to smile

    and pretend to be happy.. But you know when you just have one of those days when everything just makes you upset and it becomes harder and harder to stay the strong one? Crying has become part of my routine that it doesn't even help anymore. I know a lot of people feel...
    TansssIBDxUC12 TansssIBDxUC12 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 24

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    Yes,I'm sad and lonely.

    Nobody loves me. Nobody understands me. I'm not a bad person,but people don't like me. I think that I shouldn't exist. I just want to die.
    woundedpersona woundedpersona 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    How Do You Define Loneliness?

    If you asked anyone how they could tell if somebody is lonely they would probably respond by saying that its somebody who lives alone who does not get out much and who finds it hard to fit in. Well I am lonely I have got friends but I'm finding more and more lately that it does...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 21 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I just really need to talk to somebody.

    I need to vent, and I have no one to vent to. I'm just really....sad.
    feraligatr001 feraligatr001 13-15, F 12 Responses Apr 3

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    i was engaged to my ex fiance we been dating

    for 4 but 5 days before the wedding he was thrown in jail for something he didn't do because his ex friends he used to hang out with awhile ago was trying to him get back for exiting them out of their lives. I had a job but then i lost it because i was supposed to move in with...
    Tristechica22 Tristechica22 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    And I not good enough

    for men that I like even here? I'm ugly to them? :'(
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    It's because I've isolated myself thinking I'm

    no good for anyone. And in isolation I realize I can't stand myself too, how do I get away from myself?
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 24

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    Paralysis

    i was in a pretty bad car accident and it left me paralyzed and i have only a couple friends no one else really gets what its like
    billygarms billygarms 18-21, M 9 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I just came to know that I failed in two

    subjects in college. I feel really really bad. I feel angry at myself for letting this happen. I don't know how break this to my mother (she has been going through a lot due to my father cheating on her). I don't want her to worry about me because she already has so much to...
    TheRedDevil07 TheRedDevil07 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    I guess I’m going through a life crisis,

    I don’t know what I want anymore, I don’t know who I am, it seems like I’ve totally lost my sense of identity. I have constant mood swings, I feel powerless and vulnerable. I feel very lonely. Misunderstood. Unloved. Ugly. Worthless. I feel like nothing matters, I don’t...
    DouceFolie DouceFolie 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    I have been the other woman

    for 3 years, l wasn't proud of cheating, if you had asked me before if l could ever do that then my answer would most definitely have been no. I fell in love with a man l've known since the age of five. He was everything to me, best friend and lover. Neither of us wanted to...
    SANSAN444 SANSAN444 41-45, F Oct 25

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    Thanks everybody! The person

    who said they would never leave me left me. So i feel pretty bad right now
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 4 Responses Nov 16

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    I feel so horrible inside.

    This is tearing me apart. I love you. I love you. I want to find you, but I know you fear and hate me. It wasn't me. It isn't me. Please find me. I love you. F*** this hurts.
    Lucienn Lucienn 22-25, T 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I just want someone who cares about me

    and loves me :( I feel so alone.
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I am too sensitive and too emotional.

    I care about people too much and I have so much emotions that I cannot control. I am a guy so I always get told to 'be a man' since most people expect men to be tough and confident. Never cry and positive all the time. Sadly, I don't have any of those qualities no more because...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 19

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    Hey everyone I have created a chat

    for people who are lonely or sad or hurting. It's a Skype account (username:maddieclues) we can see each other through video or chat on the messenger to talk about what's putting you down and problems and frustrations. Maybe even medical questions, anything you're comfortable...
    MadisonJones MadisonJones 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I just want to be able to find

    that one guy that I can't stop thinking about, that I'm always wanting to talk to, that's always there for me and that I can trust.
    Teenmomma014 Teenmomma014 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    Infinite Sadness

    I´m sad and lonely because I have no friends but my cats. I´m sad and lonely because I´m stupid and clumsy and an unacheever.  
    Dragonette Dragonette 41-45, T 35 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I LOOK FORWARD TO MY BEDTIME -

    It's usually around 11.00 - now I'm living back home my parents encourage me not to stay up too late I will clean my teeth, go to my bedroom and change into my nightie I know I should get my clothes ready for work tomorrow - but I often don't bother and end up grabbing a skirt...
    carolyn25 carolyn25 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I finally understood

    even when it hurts a lot that is karma's a b***! If you love someone and it's meant to be he'll stay. If not then maybe it's not meant to be :'(
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    I used to believe that I'm a strong person.

    That every time I screw up, there's always another round to make up for past mistakes. However, before I know it, I keep on finding myself still trapped in quicksand. I don't even know where to begin with. Everything that's just been happening to me seems like, there's nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21

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    SpiritualBunny SpiritualBunny 22-25, F Oct 9

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    ~sad~

    ~I don’t even know if this is the right group or not, I just need to throw this somewhere out of my chest~   I have been feeling very lonely lately.  I have no friends, I thought I had a best friend but she turned out to be a selfish person who only cares about her feelings...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    Dry Tears

    sometimes I can feel I am about to cry that tears will not stop running down my face. The sadness inside consumes me it eats me from the inside. But I have already cried so much for the past three years of my life the tears wont come out anymore. I wish they would come out as...
    alericcali alericcali 22-25 4 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Okay so there is this guy,

    I'll call him X. I met him back in May 2013, and from June 2013 we have been in a relationship. He was the perfect boyfriend. Very loyal, honest, loving, decent, brainy etc. It was a long distance! But we never really felt any distance, we talked a lot, skype, phone, and we were...
    lonelysoul1194 lonelysoul1194 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    People say I look depressed all the time

    but I'm a very happy person ...
    heavenmescud heavenmescud 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I am starting to hate the feeling of being

    lonely and sad. I just want someone to be there for me...=[
    Ashamedpooperim21yrsold Ashamedpooperim21yrsold 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    I wish I had him I wish he was close I crave

    his touch, I crave him being close to me I crave him I need him
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I am introverted, and this would be no problem

    at all, but my friend..... I've had enough. I cut myself on the arm. It feels good and yes I'm masochistic, so the blood makes it even better. If you guys have been paying attention to my experiences, you would know how all this pain has built up. I cant keep internalizing it, I...
    FinalSoldier FinalSoldier 13-15, M Oct 17

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    I don't know what to do anymore.

    .. I'm at my breaking point. I've been disappointed and abandoned by my friends way to many times... I don't like where I live, it feels like nobody really wants me around, I have no one to hang out with. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me around either... I rarely see him. I'm...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I want to find someone to talk to,

    a decent and honest man.
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M Jun 11

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    My parents think I have pba

    because I laugh a lot, but I laugh a lot so I don't cry a lot
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Ubumnyama Ubumnyama 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    67 Healthy Things To Do When You Feel Lonely

    Here is a list of some fun things to do in life that do not rely on Television and Internet. Time Alone Reading Books Listening to Music Listening to Radio Listening to Audiobooks/Podcasts Blogging Playing Musical Instruments Drawing Writing Songs and Poems Cooking Taking Photos...
    ABCDEF7 ABCDEF7 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Isolated

    I can't find anyone. I haven't had a date in almost a year. I have no idea how to meet people. I have no idea how to speak to people. Things are really hard and it would be nice to find someone who would make it seem less so. I sleep wrapped up in my sheets because I don't like...
    GnatFree GnatFree 26-30, F 22 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    i have a lot of friends

    but i dont have any best friend
    shaniaandoko shaniaandoko 13-15, F Oct 11

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    I've never feel this lonely my entire life.

    This is the time when I can use some hugs, kind words & encouragements from my friends, but they are all too busy with their own life.
    youbrokeme youbrokeme 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    Im So Low. Is There Something Wrong With Me?

    Since I was about 15 I've felt this feeling of loneliness and worthlessness , like i was disappointing everyone, or I just felt down or sad. In the last few years it has gotten alot worse, I feel miserable most days, I don't sleep regularly, its either a little or alot. I have...
    LottoRobotto LottoRobotto 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    My parents just said they wished i was bot born

    and am a burden to them..they say I am a failure and a freeloader..and no one likes me. I am just sad....and cant even cry. The only thing I ever done was to take their happiness care..studied hard..tried to make them happy but they aren't happy with me. I feel yo suicide..and...
    divich01 divich01 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 31

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    karollinnn karollinnn 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    DepressedAngelxoxo DepressedAngelxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Seems all I do is work

    and come home and sleep then repeat the process all over again and again. Why did they print money anyway. Money is the root of all evil. Can't live without it and can't take it with you when you die.
    cajunlady123 cajunlady123 51-55, F Nov 10

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    That feeling you get

    when you want to cry so bad but no tears will come out.
    Shadesofautumn Shadesofautumn 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 27

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    I'm Lonely

    I am secretly a lonely person. I don't like to be alone. I wish I had more friends and I did things for them! I wish I were outside with the bunnies and someplace fun where the sun was warm and the grass grew luscious. I wish I could turn the clocks of time back when I was in...
    defconfigueroa defconfigueroa 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 29, 2012

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    Feeling really stressed

    and overwhelmed about school... I don't really know what to do at this point. I wish I had at least one person who I could talk to about anything. One person. I'm so stressed :(
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 1 Response