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I Am Sad and Lonely

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    I know this is long but I just needed to get it

    off my back, read if you can be bothered I left my old school and everything I knew three years ago. I had to make new friends, however I couldn't make connections with anyone. I spent the whole year thinking was incapable of having good friends again, always wishing I could...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    No One Knows And The One Who Knows Doesn't Care

    If you're reading this you probably have read my other stories and know about what I'm going through. Today I was feeling happy and was singing and everything. When he came home I ran to the door to greet him. I fixed him dinner and he went to take a shower while I played some...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Is There Anyone Out There?

    I have often thought about this. Why can it be so easy for others and so hard for me? What is normal? Being in your 40s and never had a girlfriend and wanting to connect with someone very much,is this normal? There is longing for love and affection,which never comes. What is...
    JCriss JCriss 46-50, M 27 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    I Miss My Boyfriend Sm ;/ I feel

    so empty inside without him.
    13StayStrong13 13StayStrong13 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I don't know if someone know

    that I am waiting for ....
    Imisssomeone Imisssomeone 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Isolated

    I can't find anyone. I haven't had a date in almost a year. I have no idea how to meet people. I have no idea how to speak to people. Things are really hard and it would be nice to find someone who would make it seem less so. I sleep wrapped up in my sheets because I don't like...
    GnatFree GnatFree 26-30, F 22 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    It's hard being a gay guy

    who hoped he were straight.i wish things would have been otherwise,life would have been a lot more simpler...i would be more confident as a man,and made more guy friends(as opposed to having only few that i have now because i dont fit)...i would have probably had a girl that i...
    YOUNGmee YOUNGmee 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    All I Want Is To Be Loved

    one day its a dream come true and the next a nightmare come to life i love this man but how can someone make you feel so whole and then break you down to nothing... the best way i could explain it is that song two lovers by mary wells
    justjoni justjoni 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    blueguy14 blueguy14 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    turtlesweqq turtlesweqq 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    How Do You Define Loneliness?

    If you asked anyone how they could tell if somebody is lonely they would probably respond by saying that its somebody who lives alone who does not get out much and who finds it hard to fit in. Well I am lonely I have got friends but I'm finding more and more lately that it does...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 23 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I work this long weekend

    so I didn't get to go home. All of my friends have gone home. I don't know if I can survive this weekend alone...
    xxdannixx7 xxdannixx7 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    I hate being sad and alone it's

    so lonely I an isolated need friends I can't cope
    vorsajody vorsajody 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I Admit It Now. I Am Very Lonely.

    I want to be reached out for.  I want to be heard.  I want to be cared and loved for. What is wrong with the mind?  Why do I feel like this?  All alone.  Like there is nothing special about me.  I am here, so what?  You did never care about me.  You never reached out for...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    I hate this feeling of being alone,

    the one that I love is a complete mess and can't even sober up for a day, I wish I can just be with her and hold her and just talk to her, but every time we talk she's drunk or about to drink, I'm staying at my dads with our two year old daughter because my daughter can't be...
    PatchesSS55 PatchesSS55 26-30, M Apr 10

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    To Those Who Feels The Same Way.

    “Among other things, you'll find that you're not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You're by no means alone on that score, you'll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I feel very alone. I just need someone to

    snuggle up to and cuddle.... :(
    shaybaby213 shaybaby213 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Im So Low. Is There Something Wrong With Me?

    Since I was about 15 I've felt this feeling of loneliness and worthlessness , like i was disappointing everyone, or I just felt down or sad. In the last few years it has gotten alot worse, I feel miserable most days, I don't sleep regularly, its either a little or alot. I have...
    LottoRobotto LottoRobotto 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I was living with my boyfriend

    for a long while. Some unfortunate things happened and I had to move back to my parents house. I'm back in my hometown, I don't have friends here, I didn't have many friends growing up. My family thinks everything is fine, but I feel so lost. I feel like I don't fit anywhere in...
    RBH101 RBH101 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I always focus on what I lack not what I have

    owned, so I am unhappy. The key is perseverance. No mater hoe tired, hoe exhausted. Travis do not quit. He can tell how pressure changed me. He is not the type that would be broken by pressure. I get into a vicious cycle. Sometimes happy and sometimes sad.
    fitwealth fitwealth 22-25, F Apr 9

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    ~sad~

    ~I don’t even know if this is the right group or not, I just need to throw this somewhere out of my chest~   I have been feeling very lonely lately.  I have no friends, I thought I had a best friend but she turned out to be a selfish person who only cares about her feelings...
    Mockingbird0 Mockingbird0 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    Just going to sleep sad again

    because this emptiness will never get filled love isn't coming
    Grey88 Grey88 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 11

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    I smoke because I have no one worth stopping

    for I drink to kill the pain of the realization that I'm utterly and totally alone I daydream because life is better there I don't sleep because my mind likes to torture my soul It's an endless cycle of why's I say my time will come I think I'll walk in the sun one day...
    paradoxkey paradoxkey 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Infinite Sadness

    I´m sad and lonely because I have no friends but my cats. I´m sad and lonely because I´m stupid and clumsy and an unacheever.  
    Dragonette Dragonette 41-45, T 35 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I LOOK FORWARD TO MY BEDTIME -

    It's usually around 11.00 - now I'm living back home my parents encourage me not to stay up too late I will clean my teeth, go to my bedroom and change into my nightie I know I should get my clothes ready for work tomorrow - but I often don't bother and end up grabbing a skirt...
    carolyn25 carolyn25 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Paralysis

    i was in a pretty bad car accident and it left me paralyzed and i have only a couple friends no one else really gets what its like
    billygarms billygarms 18-21, M 9 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Why I'm On This Internet Site

    I'm 19 years old and I've never really had a friend. I'd be lying if I said that it has never bothered me, because it does and it always has, despite the fact that I have only recently acknowledged it as a problem. As I get older I am becoming extremely lonely, to the point where...
    Winter154 Winter154 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    My seventeenth birthday was two days ago.

    My dad was is out of state. I didn't get so much as a birthday card. My sister somehow managed to make MY birthday about HER. No, I'm not better..
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    When love comes is when u get

    so excited until that love leaves u alone...
    kpopsinger kpopsinger 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I think I have been feeling lonely

    since 2008. I moved 300 miles from my family and friends. I have 1 friend where I live now. In fact she is always too busy to hang out with me. I get tired of trying to reach out and getting told no. I organize a book club but the people in the book club only seem to want to...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel really alone lately,

    the person who was always there left me. It was my fault, I was selfish. I wish I could get some advice on how to fix this. I really want her back in my life.
    IzzyTheGreat IzzyTheGreat 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    13StayStrong13 13StayStrong13 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    At the end of the day,

    no one really cares if I'm okay. I might as well be dead and gone. Perhaps than someone would maybe one day wonder where I went. But just for a short moment. I wont be missed. Of course I would never hurt myself or my family. Those are for granted. I mean friends, online...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My boyfriend of 28 dead 2 weeks ago.

    I feel so lost in side. He died of cancer how evil is that. I miss him so bad and don't no how I'm going to get over this I feel so empty. Also I'm living at his family's house and like 2 hours drive home . I don't have friend up here as I moved in 7 months ago. Will I ever stop...
    fluffyjen fluffyjen 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I used to believe that I'm a strong person.

    That every time I screw up, there's always another round to make up for past mistakes. However, before I know it, I keep on finding myself still trapped in quicksand. I don't even know where to begin with. Everything that's just been happening to me seems like, there's nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I Broke Up With My Best Friend. (Long, But A Good Read.)

    I also really liked hanging out with his friends. In fact, you could say I have no other friends except them. As my relationship soured and my feelings changed, I started to see a particular friend of his differently. I learned more about him. The day I realized I was really...
    HappyLittleTuffet HappyLittleTuffet 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Feelin' Like Milton..

    I'm starting to feel like how it must feel to be Milton on Office Space. You know, the crazy guy on there that no one listens to, that's overprotective of his stapler and rubber binder ball? That's how I've been feeling lately. My mother will call me.. she'll ask how I'm doing...
    MissBehaviour MissBehaviour 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    what do you do when the person you love

    and did everything for tells you to move on. i cant believe he told me to move on and hes not the only guy out there. shouldnt he see that i only saw him? i loved him. i did everything for him. and when im upset he just leaves me alone and tells me its just a phase. i almost...
    somegirl117 somegirl117 18-21 1 Response Mar 28

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    I just really need to talk to somebody.

    I need to vent, and I have no one to vent to. I'm just really....sad.
    feraligatr001 feraligatr001 13-15, F 12 Responses Apr 3

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    Dry Tears

    sometimes I can feel I am about to cry that tears will not stop running down my face. The sadness inside consumes me it eats me from the inside. But I have already cried so much for the past three years of my life the tears wont come out anymore. I wish they would come out as...
    alericcali alericcali 18-21 4 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    I honestly don't know what to do.

    I have trouble explaining my feelings so I will try to make sense and not ramble about other random topics. I don't know why but I feel so sad and lonely. I can never be happy. I've pretty much just lost all hope. I cannot feel happy. I just feel pain. It might be because the...
    AshLovesLink AshLovesLink 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Goodbye my love I am going to get hurt a lot

    but I will be stronger than I have never been
    Imisssomeone Imisssomeone 26-30, F a week ago

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    I'm sad and scared...

    . I haven't talked to my boyfriend in a few hours.. He's probably mad at me, and going to yell or something.. I'm just really scared..
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm 20 years old sad **** ,

    everyday passes through , I look at it and get the feeling of how looser I am , and how I'm getting more every time I pass a day. I joined University before year a go , I was kinda excited for it , where I can see new people every day , talk and bla bla bla ... but I was...
    Bash94 Bash94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    All I ever think about is what would happen

    if I was dead. And it's not much I feel like nobody cares about me and they think I'm crazy cuz I cut. My mom thinks I do it for attention.... Who would do that??? I feel that I'm just here for no reason and everybody tells me things that aren't true to make me feel good. I know...
    Maddy1209 Maddy1209 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 4

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    Waking up every morning,

    I feel like I miss you a lot more. You told me that you are down on the weekend and up on the weekday. It's ridiculous but I trust you now I feel like you are playing game to me. It's ok I still in love with you. Thanks for letting me know what is love mean and I hope you will...
    Imisssomeone Imisssomeone 26-30, F a week ago

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    I'm Lonely

    I am secretly a lonely person. I don't like to be alone. I wish I had more friends and I did things for them! I wish I were outside with the bunnies and someplace fun where the sun was warm and the grass grew luscious. I wish I could turn the clocks of time back when I was in...
    defconfigueroa defconfigueroa 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    67 Healthy Things To Do When You Feel Lonely

    Here is a list of some fun things to do in life that do not rely on Television and Internet. Time Alone Reading Books Listening to Music Listening to Radio Listening to Audiobooks/Podcasts Blogging Playing Musical Instruments Drawing Writing Songs and Poems Cooking Taking Photos...
    ABCDEF7 ABCDEF7 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Happiness Is Never Sustainable

    I stumbled across this website. I never have anyone to talk to, mainly because if they even listen, they surely don't care.I am a single female in my mid-20's. I am actually from the East Coast of America but I moved to Hawaii about a year ago.I've never been a very happy...
    mylifenow11 mylifenow11 22-25 11 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    Hey if any of need someone come Talk to me :).

    I truly wanna help you guys Idc what age you are because were just talking :) so don't be afraid to shoot me A message ! Love y'all xox
    CustomsPatChr CustomsPatChr 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    My life is just a disappointment.

    I had a bad first marriage. It lasted 17 years but my husband was a cheater. I tried to stay with him, tried to reconcile, for my daughter's sake. It is good that relationship is over, I'm better off alone than in that kind of mess. I am an only child, Mom is an only child, and...
    OldJasmine OldJasmine 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I thought I was going to do it this time.

    . I sat on the edge of my bed, pills in my hand, crying. I had a really bad day, just like every other. There's this guy, at school. I think I like him. He's really the only person (apart from my little 'friend' group) that talks to me. He's so sweet and funny. He doesn't judge...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    I have only my income & myself.

    I work hard but my income isn't great. I should have done better being well educated but my career has been a roller coaster because it is hard working with people and after trying my best at work each time, I got challenged by my love failure. My 3 relationships have killed my...
    MaryMagdalenaM MaryMagdalenaM 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    I know I shouldn't be worried about

    relationships since I'm only 15, but everyone around me is in one and I want one too. I've never had a boyfriend
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her either. Through my mind, I was thinking, "you know what, I'm gonna try to...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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