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I Am Sad When Bad Things Happen To Good People

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    They Dont Deserve It

    Its why I question karma sometimes. If you are doing good then why should bad things happen to you?  It always happens to me. Over the years, I have tried to be a nice person but in return, what do I get? People using me and a worsening depression.  I guess you...
    reset reset 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2010

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    Wouldn't It Be Nice?

    If bad things only happened to bad people?
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

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    A Sad Lesson

    Tonight I got one of those phone calls. The minute I heard her voice I knew something was very wrong. "Hi Mom." "Hi Honey. What's wrong?" A sob. "I got home from work and we've been robbed." My daughter's Navy husband is out at sea on a two week mission. My little...
    datura datura 56-60, F 44 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    Evil

    There is no need to hurt someone who can't fight back, but people still do...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 12 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time

    Ever had a person tell you wrong place wrong time... well this happened to me recently thought i would share it with you.  My late husband and i were eating  with our daughter who was almost two yrs old, at a fast food chain in visalia ca.  It was the busy lunch...
    innocentlYours innocentlYours 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I See It More Than I Should

    I have a friend online who lives in Japan. I have talked with him for months and tried to help him with some bullying issues he faced here on EP once that eventually forced him to leave. Friends...I can't to this day, understand why things that happen to him happen. This guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 13, 2011

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    Special-ed student records bully and HE'S the one in trouble?!Imagine being tortured every day, shoved, called names and tripped. Then imagine no one helping you, and when you...
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    So I'm 16. For a while now, or ever since I can remember, I get bad feelings. I can tell when someone is talking about me even when my name is never mentioned. I can feel when...
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    I wonder why, yet at the same time I know why. I'm referring to why things happen. Now I believe things happen because it's necessary for balance - good and bad.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I think things happen it is for a reason
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M Aug 16

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    Let me rephrase that - I get EXTREMELY sad when I see happy couples. Not because I'm envious of what they have, but rather because it's something that I don't think I even have a...
    justsayyes2 justsayyes2 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    You know, I hate it when people who seem good change their photos to show their true colors...you finally find out that they are perverts!
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    Nothing solidifies a new friendship at the ripe ol age of 24 quite like a sleepover. Today I came home from a weekend trip with a girlfriend, her boyfriend and her 7yr old son...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F Aug 11

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    It really upsets me! As a Christian, I don't thrust my beliefs in other peoples faces to avoid making people uncomfortable. I discuss it rationally when a situation arises. Yet it...
    LostApothecary LostApothecary 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I strongly believe that I have become smarter and more intuitive with age, as I think most people do. Still I find myself thinking that my ability to decipher who is or isn't a...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I've always adored Jean Grey portrayed by Famke Janssen. And what I observed to myself is that im so affected about whatever sad happens to her, in the movies. I really become...
    Prinzyon Prinzyon 16-17, F Aug 9

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    My sister is a doctor and she's always busy, her husband is also a doctor. She always asks me to look after her 1 year old. I love my nephew. But sometimes they're asking for too...
    l3lackmamba l3lackmamba 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    There's something about my inner sense of justice that makes me both hurt and angry when I find myself witnessing these situations.
    BigAndFast BigAndFast 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    The older i get the worse it gets. I always kept telling myself it would get better with age. Well it hasn't. There was this girl that i always had the biggest crush on since...
    SuperCracker78 SuperCracker78 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    When you have social anxiety and Tourette's, you are used to being labeled as a weirdo. I'm not the type that show my emotions. For instance I hardly cry. So if you hurt my...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Finding the right people to be your friends is a task in itself and once you find them another task is to see if they are they are good enough to be really close to your heart...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I mean is it that hard to find decent people now days?! Most people have stupid and unnecessary things as their priorities and it gets annoying meeting the same type of people!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Ohwow! I had a magnificent meditational session; and from a very deep tranquil state came a profound, ecstatic experience that affected all my senses. This seems like a time of...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F Aug 19

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    He works out of town for two weeks. When he's home I do give him his space. But he's gone early in the morning, sometimes till noon. He goes out a lot. I stay home a lot. We have a...
    HushedThoughts HushedThoughts 22-25 Aug 15

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    I dont let many get close to me... Not because im snobbish or antisocial... Im just very guarded... Ive been hurt much in my life and i put up walls to protect that from happening...
    sunpea sunpea 36-40, F 15 hrs ago

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    As long as popuptarget is on here I know I won't break. You're like the rice membrane around those Japanese Ice cream ball things. It's what makes the ice cream fun.
    Naty14 Naty14 13-15, F Aug 9

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    i hope the lord and the ones i've hurt can forgive me. some of the things i did as a youth or while under an influence of some sort probably shouldn't be forgiven as the...
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M Aug 10

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    I do these things that end up screwing me over and make someone else have the time of their life, but I have yet to regret it.
    Riku007 Riku007 16-17, M Aug 13

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    It is what it is. We are just a species trying to make life as good as we can. Unfortunately we are still at the stage of looking out for ourselves rather than looking out for...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Online I have learned that is easier to let me come into my life. Maybe it's because I can lay all my cards on the table and you can take me or leave me. I think in person I worry...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 3

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    Yup, with a fine toothed comb. I realize all people want to do is hurt me. Story of my life. Everyone but my mom. I'll give her, her props! I guess that's why I stick to reading...
    GarnetRoses GarnetRoses 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    people just aren't there for you like they say they'll be. so I kinda just closed myself off from people these past 2 or 3 years.
    SailorGoon SailorGoon 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Online at least I can be a bit chatty, but even online I don't let people close easily. I'm trying to keep previous damage in the past, but I'm still quite cautious. Hopefully in...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Why so serious? Some people may think I am snob and serious person. Sometimes I am, sometimes I am just shy or tired. I might accelerate to extreme seriousness if needed. It's a...
    JAD01 JAD01 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    My heart Is a many faceted substance. While it slumbers, dark watchmen hold vigil. Their shields are stout, their manner fiercely protective.It becomes pliant and awakens...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Im happy to be with people with sense of humor or those that agrees with me. Unfortunately not all are like that.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    There is too much hate in this world. There is enough for everyones needs, but not enough for everyones greed.
    deanybear deanybear 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Every time something comes up that's cute, my heart breaks. I don't know why, but I don't like it because I can't enjoy anything happy or nice. Does anyone else feel like this?
    ORCoastal ORCoastal 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I think this search will never end.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Please don't say your crazy or go to a doctor I really don't need it OK ? I see spirits, ghosts what ever you want to call them I'm not mental OK I am in desperate need of advise...
    blade125 blade125 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Idk. You guys look like kings and queens to me right now in comparison smh
    Naty14 Naty14 13-15, F Aug 16

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    I am really shocked. What kind of coach would make one of his players cry in a Little League game that is being nationally televised? It makes me sick to my stomach to watch...
    ICRETO ICRETO 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Sometimes? Usually . .
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I am now since I scared this girl.
    narutobuddy narutobuddy 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    I haven't built just a wall around me; I've constructed a bomb shelter inside a nuclear bunker set into the side of a mountain.
    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 4

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