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I Am Saving Myself For Marriage

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    True Love Waits - I'm not saving myself for marriage because of religious beliefs. I'm saving myself because I think it's the right thing to do. I wouldn't want to get to my...
    oobergoobergreengirl oobergoobergreengirl 18-21, F 15 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    It's a Tough Road, But I Know It Is the Best -  I'm Catholic, and even a lot of my Catholic aquaintances find me a bit conservative in terms of my morality, but my faith is...
    moonsnail moonsnail 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    Saving Myself For My Husband. A Gift From God That Should Only Be Shared With You're One True Love. - This life is a test.Our virginity should not just be thrown around to any guy...
    jeninneibrahim jeninneibrahim 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Marking - I have something to say about this, but no time to type it yet........so it will be easier to find later. 
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2011

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    Although I believe in God, my decision to wait until marriage isn't about tradition or religion, it's about me respecting myself and having self confidence. I hope to find a man...
    genieinthebottle7 genieinthebottle7 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I am strict catholic- I believe that the commandment, "thou shalt not commit adultry," not only means cheating is a najor sin but also sex before marriage is and you will be...
    BrokenGlassDoll BrokenGlassDoll 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    My Desicion - Im 19. all of my friends are having sex but Im still a virgin. To be honest, I wasn't planing on saving myself in the first place. Actually, I met the perfect guy and...
    kate212 kate212 18-21 4 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Saving Myself - My fiancee and I are not having sex until our wedding night. I know he has had sex once, and I have accepted that, as it was before we met. I have given him head...
    virginbride2013 virginbride2013 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    I think its a very good thing to save my self. All of my friends and i mean all are not virgins anymore and niether is my own boyfriend. I told him that i will only lose my...
    goofygurl01 goofygurl01 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    And It's My Decision - It used to be because of religious reasons, but I have since drifted away a bit from that and I have decided that I wasn't only wanting to save myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    My Decision... - Not too long ago, I made the decision to save myself for marriage. I wasn't raised in a Christian home, but I gave my life to God recently. In His word, he says to...
    krs89 krs89 22-25 6 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Eternal Life - There is no other pleasure in the world that I have experienced that is more joyful than having sex with the woman I love above all other women in the world, even...
    ZigMcZag ZigMcZag 70+, T 6 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Because i'm smart enough to know that if any guy wants to have sex with you, then he should have no problems with marrying you and being in a long term relationship with you. And...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 23

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    "Im like the Porsche at the auto-show, there's no 'test drive'." The best things in life are worth waiting for, & must be earned. In return, you are guaranteed quality ;)
    genieinthebottle7 genieinthebottle7 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 3

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    Ok You Can Stop Saving Now... - My boyfriend and I decided to save ourselves for marriage. We actually bought rental property together and moved in together too...yet restrained...
    imathinkin imathinkin 51-55, F 11 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    For The Next Time... - I am divorced and I have children, so I'm obviously not a virgin, but as much as I love sex I'm saving myself for the woman I will one day marry. There were...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    It's Something I Really Want To Do. - I have always decided to do this since I was little. It is what I want for myself. To save myself for marriage is something that I think...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Gay Virgin, Waiting For Marriage?... What? - That is usually the reaction I get when people find out. But it doesn't matter this is how I feel. This is how I have always felt, bump...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    Call me crazy, call me weird, call me whatever you want. This is something I intend to do. It is mainly for religious reasons. At the same time I am a major worry wart and I would...
    jame1017 jame1017 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 20

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    Seriously who's going to take me seriously my personality is too contradicting to one another. I have two separate personalities. Brightness : I wish everyone even ones I dislike...
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    Week three. I am moved into my apartment and paid for the first full month. Husband (stbx? who knows) now realizes that I'm not playing around this time. I am not going back to...
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    In the future I think I wont get married. I don't want to get married. I can't explain why but I feel a hole inside me. In my soul I feel wounded. I keep thinking to myself...
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