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I Am Scared About Being In Love

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    Being Single And Realizing You Lost Someone You Could Have Had

    Being single sucks and it sucks even more when you come to realize too late that you let someone slip through your hands that you could have had. Then you always question yourself as I have been for the past 2 years why I didn't move on him when I had the chance. Hurts even more...
    JerBearFL JerBearFL 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    I see you everyday. We've become close.

    You know me inside out. We are truly friends. But why are my feelings getting so strong ? I think about you. I miss you when you're not around me. And I get that little feeling in my gut when you pull my chair closer to yours In class. What are these feelings ? I want to...
    meekm meekm 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I Push People Away

    After my divorce, I have had a string of guys I have pushed away that wanted to settle down and I don't know how to stop shutting down. :( I do want a partner but fear being all in with my heart. ugh!!
    jelo18 jelo18 36-40, F Jul 27, 2013

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    Im Scare Of Falling In Love

    But I cant help it....when I least know it Im already in  love and then....comes the heartbreak!!!!! I dont want to fall in love again....but I dont know HOW not to fall in love...because its something that just happens....I cant control it...or can I?????....any ideas...
    jackietlvr jackietlvr 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    I Always Shiver

    I always shiver, My heart just quivers, when I am told 'I love u', when I am touched and fondled. I do not know if it is guilt, I do not know if it is fright,   but............................ I always smile to proposals, I always smile to fondles,   BUT...
    de4m de4m 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Things Always End

    Being in a relationship is hard.  I haven't been in an actual relationship since my freshman year of high school.  I'm a freshman in college now.  I hate not being able to trust people but at the same time to me it makes sense.  Why trust someone when you've...
    thatonegirl18 thatonegirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2009

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    What'S Lobe Got To Do With It?

    I want someone I'm comfortable and confident with, someone I trust with everything in my life and who is loyal. These are also what I hope for in return so I must ask what that L word has to do with it. If it happens great if not so be it
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 5, 2013

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    Cautious

    I"m scared to fall for a guy and for him to love me back, only for him to find out something is wrong with me and then he wouldn't love me anymore. I guess that could also be "I'm scared of being hurt."
    Tryin2BHopeful Tryin2BHopeful 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    Scared is such a drama word.

    More like... Hesitant. Not afraid to lose...but at the same time... I hate wasting time. I know who I want. And it sure sounds like he wants me too. But... I have this feeling I'm much more attached than he is. And I understand why. You know how... Sometimes you fall hard for...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F May 3

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    I Rather Be Alone and Single Than Face Another Heart Break

    hey, i know it sounds wierd but i am totally affraid to love hard! its like when i love someone its unconditionally, threw the thick and the thin, i am loyal and i have came across alot of men that i gave my all to and tried and cried over and still left alone hurt. I find that...
    sopink sopink 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    I Am Surrounded By Idiots

    I don't really know what's in the air but most of the people I know who are or have been in love are so stupid or at least they seem that way. I am afraid that if I ever fall in love I will just be so stupidly in love. I want to be in love because i find it cute but I just don't...
    Blavoe Blavoe 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Love Isn't Scary, It's The Part Of Opening Yourself To Another That's Scary.....

    Love isn't scary, it's the part of opening yourself to another that's scary. Being vulnerable, intimate and exposing yourself to be hurt is what scares me.  I know the longer I wait and the more I close myself off...the harder it gets....
    HelenBak HelenBak 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    All Good Things.........

    Must come to an end as the saying goes. I guess that's why being in love loving someone and having their love scares me. I'm always waiting for it to end so I never get fully invested so that way it's easier when it does happen. Almost like a business arrangement. I mean if we...
    EnchantingMinx EnchantingMinx 22-25, F Nov 18, 2013

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    I Want To Feel...

    I've always being scared of falling in love. I don't date much because I know because I know I might get hurt and so, whenever I'm in a relationship I shut down my emotions. This makes it much easier to walk away. But I don't want to. I want to put my heart out there but I don't...
    dinma dinma 26-30, F Nov 4, 2013

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    Scared Of Love And Relationships

    I have no problem in communicating with a guy and talking about regular things. But when those talks grow more and more intense and it reaches till the point where someone asks me to have a love relationship, I get scared! It has happened to me twice.....There was this guy, who I...
    citygirl9841 citygirl9841 18-21, F 1 Response May 18, 2012

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    Love Is The Other Obscene Four Letter Word

    Love has made me cry and hurt, so I just dismiss it as this amazing thing that makes you feel like you are high all the time. Those times are dead and buried. I used to be in love with love, but it has become a thing to fear. As much of a romantic I am, I can't still stop looking...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    I Don't Want to Get Hurt Again....

    I don't want to Love anymore, because the hurt of love, can hurt more than anything else in the world, and I just am not strong enough to handle that kind of pain. I am not strong enough. I don't know how to handle being hurt by love. It hurts me so bad, and I just can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    Scared Of Love And Relationships

    I have no problem in communicating with a guy and talking about regular things. But when those talks grow more and more intense and it reaches till the point where someone asks me to have a love relationship, I get scared! It has happened to me twice.....There was this guy, who I...
    citygirl9841 citygirl9841 18-21, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I Almost Don'T Believe In Love..

    When I was little my dad left me and my mom, that was the worst day of my life. I'm not saying my mom doesn't love me, or that people don't have it worse off than me, because they do. What I'm saying is to me losing my dad was the worst thing that could ever have happened to 5...
    Victoriapower19 Victoriapower19 18-21, F Jun 8, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    If you have looked at any of my stories you can to a point understand why I Am Scared About Being In Love. But there are some parts that you are missing. Yes, there is what my dad,his friends and grandpa T did to me. But that's not the complete reason.Now I can let you guys met...
    HopingForABetterTomorrow HopingForABetterTomorrow 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Given Up On Love

    I've been in so many failed relationships and my most recent one has left me entirely heartbroken. I keep telling myself that I am progressively moving on and getting better day by day but I don't think I will ever truly and fully recover. Not that I will never get over him, I...
    lovelybones2339 lovelybones2339 26-30 2 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    Do You Think...

    Do you think there is an age, a time in one's life, when being in love, being together with someone, being involved with another is just too complicated? Because one of the two in a couple has to care for an elderly parent, because one's children don't want their parent to be...
    mscoolbear mscoolbear 31-35, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    I have many friends who are, or at least have been in a relationship. So, I always get asked as to how I feel about being single. The truth is, I am not missing anything, because I...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I've made a lot of stupid choices in my life. Most days, I don't worry about being a failure, I feel as if I already am. There are days I get up and I feel motivated to do...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Does it not scare you thinking of what you will be five years to ten years from now? Does it not worry you if you end up poor? Does it not bother you if you really are doing really...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jul 23

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    This year at school I'm doing a special program that allows me to do both my 8th and 9th grade years in one so the I can skip to tenth and my mother was so happy that I got this...
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M Jul 23

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    It has been a while since i wrote about what i do in this life. You see as i love all people around me at ep or around the world. they don't love me and i am not like need to have...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 31

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    Now don't get me wrong: I like NICE guys, especially if they're nerdy & my idea of the perfect man/lover/boyfriend/husband is Link! You know Link: the video-game elf dressed in...
    prettygirl366 prettygirl366 31-35 10 hrs ago

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    I thought I was very lovable. Then by a series of life events and relationships mishaps, I am starting to realize; maybe I am hard to love. I am bossy...and needy. I dont trust...
    MsRebel MsRebel 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    He gives me a spank like it's a love tap. Do it like you mean it!!! It makes me frustrated!!! Do it and do it right!
    Sunshine0615 Sunshine0615 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm 14 and I love diapers :) Message me
    Diaperboy1213 Diaperboy1213 16-17, M Jul 27

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    I dream almost every night about it, so realistic I wake up thinking I'm pregnant, but then I look down to see if my belly is still there and all I am is filled with disappointment...
    MissABell MissABell 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 29

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    Any girls who would want to chat about this please message me
    abdl72 abdl72 18-21, M Aug 4

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    If you what to talk about diapers I like messy and wetting stories come talks to me :p
    DVDiaperboy DVDiaperboy 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Never have been never will be. It isn't as if I don't try, I try my hardest to be worth the love I give but I have to face facts. Some people are worth the love and affection they...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I wrote this a few days ago. It's all about the relationship I've been in for the past couple years One sided love I've got to break away From this mental prison I put myself in...
    Beyonder33 Beyonder33 31-35, F Aug 12

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    A love story is everyone's desire to have. As for me, I haven't had one just yet. I almost did but that love story ended two years ago. I want a love story like Romeo & Juliet but...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    what goes up must come down. the higher you get the harder the fall. and that terrifies me.
    bonedecay bonedecay 13-15, F Aug 11

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    Today at work (I work at a fast food restaurant), I really stuffed my face with free food from mess up orders. I could see my coworkers kept giving me disgusted looks and kept...
    slightlypudgy slightlypudgy 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    It's something I would wanna do at least once in my life.
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm just a sad person in general. I know life shouldn't be sad but idk I just stay sad
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Anyone in the Long Island area wanna chat?
    schumy schumy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Well let's start off here . I've been adopted since I was 5 hours old . My older sister was adopted too and my mom that adopted me has 4 other kids. My older sister taylin (that...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I don't know it's something I would wanna do at least once
    Poiro787 Poiro787 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I use to at least. I dreamed that I was married to my former boyfriend and was carrying his child even though I personally in waking hours don't want to be pregnant. It was nice...
    Marysone Marysone 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Just lying in bed needing my diaper to be changed wishing my husband would change me and sucking on a pacifier hoping to fall a sleep
    Jungle46 Jungle46 46-50, F Aug 5

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    I really want to feel another man's **** getting hard in my hands.
    padraig412 padraig412 51-55, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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