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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Marriage is not really a big thing to me because... People who love each other will love each other regardless of if there was a bit of paper with ones last name the same, I think...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    for last 15 years..nothing. No hand holding even...have my own room. Married 33 years and friends & family are noticing. I actually feel sorry for him! I am wondering if he is...
    TNord TNord 51-55, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm living in a mostly sexless marriage. Once a week is the highlight of it all. I remember the passion and yearning we once had for each other and wonder where did it go. What...
    Azariha Azariha 36-40, F 6 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am new to this. Here's my story. I have been married for 3 years, together 7 and have two small children. Ever since my first was born (for the last 5 years) my marriage has...
    mirandan2027 mirandan2027 22-25 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't show atleast I try not to but just thinking about going back in 48hours how these 2 months changed everything and still at night I get these nightmares that are breaking me...
    milind3012 milind3012 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for about 10 years. It didn't start that way, and it's not due to marital problems, but rather the result of my spouse developing chronic physical...
    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    A revelation? My husband and I started marriage counseling this past Monday. It was hard. Having to sit there and explain to a stranger why you are there...with your husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses 5 days ago

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    After 20 years of marriage, I can honestly say the love is not as strong as it once was. My husband has shown that he is not the person I thought he was. He has lied, cheated, and...
    Zeta4ever Zeta4ever 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We did not have the same religion I didn't have standards We were into drugs We lived the fast lifestyle Now that my standards changed He didn't like it so we grew apart From what...
    MyDoctorLove MyDoctorLove 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    All of these stories scare me. I'm 29, and my husband is 34. We got together when I was 22 and he was 27.. I we each had kids from previous relationships, so our new relationship...
    AFrisco AFrisco 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    How to restore broken relationships and marriage Hello to the people of this forum< Am Brooke Campbell from Texas and i can say that am the happiest person on earth since last...
    brookecamqbella64 brookecamqbella64 26-30 Jul 21

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    I think that the roles have reversed. He refused me for so long. I have come to the realization that I no longer have any feeling for him. I feel completely disconnected. Lost...
    TallaLily TallaLily 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I think I could just do with some advice, I have been married for 20 years nearly 21... We have been together for 25... We have 3 kids 21,19 and 13.... We married young, I was 16...
    lynny1978 lynny1978 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    last time.. i asked a girl out....she was all good, pretty and nice,..but then...i found out she was with someone else i guess she didn't like me at all .And I"m scared that..if i...
    IsaacXavier IsaacXavier 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I didn't wait until marriage because i don't think virginity matters at all. What matters is the person who will be your last .
    2fuckingturnt 2fuckingturnt 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    Marty has really stepped up to the plate. His batting average is 100% home runs and grand slams. Last night was a grand slam. He has decided since spanking me everyday or almost...
    Martys4ever Martys4ever 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    Well I'm still with my boyfriend although he has had an arranged marriage last March. It kills me. He just went out there for Ramadan to finally pick her up and take her in the US...
    4evergrey 4evergrey 31-35, F Jul 17

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    I have spent the better part of the last seven years giving all I knew how to give to my husband... I wasn't perfect of course, I've made plenty of poor choices throughout it all...
    Furiousfire Furiousfire 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 17

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    I've been cheated on, lies, hurt. no communication I always give tons of chances and stay loyal to who I love kept hurting me in every ways. then last break up. I stopped looking...
    bhk92 bhk92 22-25, F Jul 17

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    I want out. My husband is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive to me. We have been married for 2 years. We rent a house and my car is in his name. He sold my car that I...
    Niceandcold Niceandcold 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    No i didnt. I was a curious little cat, i was naive, eager, in need some kind of affection, lonely and sad. I've done it with a couple of people and the first guy, well lets...
    lonelywandererx lonelywandererx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    When I met my husband, I was 28, and had reached a point in my life when I was sure I wasn't going to meet the right guy. I'd been in an out of relationships with total jerks or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 15

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    im. literally scared of everything im scared of my secrets being found out im scared of hurting someone im scared of hurting myself im scared of losing control im scared of...
    bromaeda bromaeda 13-15, T 1 Response Jul 13

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    Black judge under fire for refusing to perform a gay ‘marriage’ on religious grounds TOLEDO, OH, July 10, 2015 (LifeSiteNews) -- A judge in the Toledo area is under fire from...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M Jul 13

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    Ugh. I am so depressed in my marriage. We've been together almost 10 years. Married for 5. There is no love. I stay for all the wrong reasons. My husband is lazy and the most...
    Kittinxoxo Kittinxoxo 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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    I am extremely unhappy in my marriage :-( Got married in 2012 been 4years and I hate every minute of it ! My husband and his family are deceiving people.My relation was online...
    Mask12 Mask12 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    so my dad is going on his 5th marriage, my mom is on her unhappy number 3 marriage. in my 26 years of life I have experienced divorce between my parents and their significant...
    bretneyc bretneyc 26-30, F Jul 11

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    In less than one week, I will be moving out of my hometown that I have spent the majority of my life in. I graduated from college last summer and my time in school is the only time...
    kateokee27 kateokee27 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I have strange feeling that i have fever i wont just lay down i faint often i'm so lazy i can't see things clearly i just have strange feeling like today is my last
    Sozdar Sozdar 18-21, F Jul 8

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    ok so here the full thing why I'm scared of balloons first off I wasn't always scared of them to be honest when I was very little balloons was my favorite thing to play with I...
    colorfulshadow colorfulshadow 22-25, F Jul 8

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    Everytime I hear the word, marriage, I think of Shirley Long from Money Pit "Why do we need a piece of paper from the state of New York.' but marriage can make or break a...
    LonerGirl24 LonerGirl24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    It's been a while since my last update, so I figured that I'd bring my posts up to speed. I'm still married. And still sexless. Things haven't changed at all. Right now, it's...
    Sweetie64 Sweetie64 46-50, F 24 Responses Jul 8

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    ‘I feel distant from my spouse. I feel like we’re a million miles apart.’ ‘I try to get my husband to open up, but instead he just shuts down.’ ‘I don’t know if I...
    Mashara Mashara 22-25, F Jul 8

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    "Then the saying will come true: Death is swallowed by triumphant Life! Who got the last word, oh, Death? Oh, Death, who’s afraid of you now? It was sin that made death so...
    sarahrassy sarahrassy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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