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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    I'm scared of who I'm becoming :/ there is literally 2 distinct different sides to me... 1) is a wreckless, careless girl, who doesn't value much at all, doesn't want much for her...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 59 mins ago

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    disclaimer - im infj. and my fingers are numb and cold so im not typing well, sorry about that. :3 not sure if this is gonna post. i dont remeber what i've written on this site...
    surfnatty surfnatty 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been married for 1 year and We have a 4 month old baby. I'm so miserable in this marriage and I have no one to talk to. I always have to pretend to society (family, friends...
    Honeymonster27 Honeymonster27 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    It's not unusual for my Husband to be physically affectionate. We have a very close, very loving marriage. We're soul-mates who have been married 24 years (I'm 42, he's 52). He...
    xxLionessxx xxLionessxx 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 30

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    Over the last two centuries, women began to rebel against their God given design as a helper for man and began to demand marriages that removed all roles. Instead of women acting...
    biblicalgenderroles biblicalgenderroles 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I want to make some lasting genuine friendships with people who are also looking for the same. Good friends to talk about life and daily things we do. Want friends who can be there...
    cdef12 cdef12 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My marriage is over. After a year of fighting, crying, sleeplessness, and anxiety attacks I picked up my stuff and left my husband. Frankly, he looked relieved that I was leaving...
    blythe19 blythe19 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm scared that I'm going to lose someone who means a lot to me. I typically don't give my opinion on other people's marriages when I think they should end, but I'm terrified the...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was with the ex for almost 3 years. We were each other's first and very much in love. We talked about marriage and kids. He constantly told me he was never gonna leave me unless...
    ccarol9073 ccarol9073 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I recently went through a serious upset . My spouse did something sexually that I literally told him not to seconds b4 he did it. Now he says it was a joke , & that he thinks its...
    AsylumLeech132 AsylumLeech132 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    An update. I've told my hub I want a separation. Made it clear him not having finances to pay for his own place is his responsibility. He tried saying I know his bipolar keeps him...
    AsylumLeech132 AsylumLeech132 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    i keep telling myself that things are ok and that we do love each other. but as soon as i see him, my feelings change :( i just dont love him anymore!!! everything he does annoys...
    xsignorinax xsignorinax 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well wishes & encouragement appreciated! Hubby & I are going to the city for the next four days to check things out. Our hope is to move there this summer as a big step forward...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was rapped and molested almost all my life.my uncle use to touch me when I was younger and my older brother rapped and molested me since I was 8 until the age of 11 it stopped...
    Mandy1305 Mandy1305 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Throughout all of history no society ever accepted marriage to be between two people of the same gender. There were plenty of societies that practiced polygamy and polyandry or a...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    My last boyfriend was a volatile guy. When we started out we were so happy, he was just what I needed; he was so different to anyone I'd met, it was exciting being around him and...
    Jonesie96 Jonesie96 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I have always been a good student but I have major confidence issues and trust issues. Thats because i was bullied , and molested as a kid . I am too scared to raise my voice...
    hustlerespectloyal121 hustlerespectloyal121 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I feel like my chest is being crushed or compressed and my breath is short. I feel scared and panicky, but some how I'm just barely able to keep calm on the surface. I don't know...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Last night Sir gave me maintenance which I gratefully accepted. But last night was the first time He has required me to do corner time. I was to kneel in the corner with my head...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I feel so alone in my marriage. Last weekend I was off and had made plans to meet friends at a show - I know everyone playing in the band, and several folks buying tickets. I had...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    Over the last week or so I have decided I want to end my marriage. Each day that passes makes me more resolved to do so. I just need to find the moment to tell my husband. There's...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 5

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    Idk what to do, 4 years ago I had 3 seizures, I started going on meds regularly,and I haven't had one ever science I started meds. But last night I was with my boyfriend and he had...
    cherylkatie24 cherylkatie24 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I've been going back and forth on whether or not to post this but I think it's good for me to get it off my chest. But in the wake of all that's going on in Indiana I felt I needed...
    lesbianjen lesbianjen 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm scared of everything lately. I'm scared of living. I'm terrified of dying, which I suppose is why I stay. The fear of death and what's after is more overwhelming than the fear...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm scared of starting over. Of being alone. Of regretting leaving. Of regretting not leaving. He's a workaholic and I feel like I may as well be the hired help! I think I feel...
    MissBellaBoo MissBellaBoo 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I am still in a green card marriage. I love him and I believe he loves me. He often travels back to Europe for work because we need the money. I just landed a great job which I...
    reydog reydog 46-50, F Apr 11

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    Hi Friends, I am going to tell you about my love experience. I need your prayers to fulfill my wish. I believe you nice people will not comment any bad thing. Now I am 27 years...
    MeriMyau MeriMyau 26-30, M Apr 12

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    Update: I know I haven't been saying anything lately, so I wanted to catch you all up. I got my settlement, moved out and filed for divorce. He had a massive heart attack the day...
    Imafreebird Imafreebird 51-55, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    i was robbed today of cell ph id car and house keys +++++ last week my pc crashed due to virus and im using someone elses pc....your messages is something i look fwd to and value...
    urwright urwright 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am scared to meet someone new that almost takes my breath away, that makes me pause, think longer, and take a breath before I proceed. I am afraid to meet this "perfect" being...
    74Kitty 74Kitty 22-25, F a week ago

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    I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT I AM READING... I have read so many stories of sexless marriages on here.. No intimacy! I am so sorry for many of you. I was treating my spouse very similar...
    KeraJo75 KeraJo75 36-40 5 Responses Mar 25

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    My husband and I haven't been intimate in about 3 years now It's gotten to the point where I don't bother him any more about the issue except to test the waters and try to show...
    Rena4 Rena4 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    I have a question for other DD, TIH, BDSM couples. so one of the young lady's on ep had something to say about the fact that I'm pregnant, and being disciplined in my last post...
    taliahood taliahood 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I worked my tail off since Friday in preparation for Easter! There was SO much to do with all the shopping, cleaning, cooking (followed by more cleaning lol), getting everyone new...
    MsTinaJo MsTinaJo 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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