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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    So, there is this guy at my college, he is an english tutor / (Intern) and is about 2-4 years older than I (im 20). I've liked him since last year. I haven't spoken to him, I've...
    sillykittycat sillykittycat 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I'm scared I won't be able to move. I'm having trouble finding somewhere to live and I'm scared I won't get into de anza. I'm really scared that I won't be able to be with my...
    CeBeY1 CeBeY1 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    my parents go to my aunt's son marriage, and they will stay there for 3 days, they told me that my brother will accompany me at home. but just then my brother told me that he got...
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 1 Response May 16

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    I have a rare condition which will kill me by the time I'm 25. It scares me knowing that I don't have long left, I'm 21 soon. I don't want to die. I just don't feel ready. I'm...
    Amber2694 Amber2694 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm 15 years old, and have 4 sisters and 1 brother. My brother is 25 and sisters are 20, 18, 6, 4 My mums around 48-49 but my dad is 59. I'm really scared atm, I'm scared my dads...
    HazardCFC HazardCFC 13-15, M 1 Response May 17

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    Random thoughts of an email I didn't send to a friend I am making some blueprints for : Hi, I hope I can help you with your home plan. I honestly don't look forward to show it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been married for 4 years now and I'm so unhappy my husband would rather play video games and smoke pot can spend time with me. he sleeps in bed with me maybe 3 times a month...
    lonelyandconfusedwife2015 lonelyandconfusedwife2015 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 4 Responses May 2

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    Still Looking for a refund… It’s been three years since my last post on this topic. So as a bottom line update, things have not gotten really better. Mostly we are just...
    Goinpublic Goinpublic 31-35, M 1 Response May 17

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    He's in the pub again, getting pissed because it's easier than having to deal with things... I'm physically shaking as I write this because I'm that scared of him coming home. I...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    Boyfriend of 4 years and me (in LDR) are currently in a break. 1.5 months ago he told me he is not happy anymore and not sure that he still wants a future with me. I realize that...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F 7 Responses May 11

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    I got out. Best decision of my life. Every situation is different, and ending a marriage (particularly when there are children involved, which there are for me) is a serious...
    ericseviltwin ericseviltwin 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I'm really terrified of getting attached to people as well as places. I never wanted to buy anything I couldn't just pack in a bag and move. It used to fill me with a lot of...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3

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    Whenever someone ask me for the momment. "What are you going to do", "Where are you going". I wont be telling it to anybody until i actually have done it. Maybe only in the last...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M May 4

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    I'm Carson. I'm a sixteen year old ftm. I'm scared to come out to my parents. Two weeks ago I got my hair cut off like a scene boy. My mom yelled at me in the car afterwards and...
    kloudkat kloudkat 16-17, T May 10

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    Im not feeling strong enough for this. When will i ever hear "im sorry, i didnt mean to hurt you"?or "i want something good for you", im not even asking for "i love you" thats my...
    Liz890 Liz890 26-30, F 4 Responses May 17

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    I'm in a sexless marriage. My wife and I have been together for 5 years. We knew each other too short of a time to actually truly get to know each other and we were both playing...
    SomethingLessConspicuous SomethingLessConspicuous 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've been married for almost seven years now, together for closer to ten. We have two wonderful children, both of which are loved. I feel like I should be happy in my marriage...
    enjoymentofquiet enjoymentofquiet 31-35, M 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    when i woke up, i felt bad for having a midnight snack just before i slept. and then my tummy grumbled then i thought, "oh, so i actually didn't eat anything last night..?"
    drunkpotato drunkpotato 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I had a dream last night .
    Adrien001 Adrien001 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    I met my wife in December of 1988 at a singles gathering at the Methodist Church. We seem to hit it of and when the weather outside had gotten worse and she did not want to walk...
    spenser60 spenser60 61-65, M 1 Response May 17

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    For the last few weeks i have been having a recurring dream where i am in bed, during the day, having amazing sex with a friend of both mine and my wife’s. The person i have been...
    watertrance watertrance 41-45, M 1 Response May 4

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    Very hard to write something on here for the first time, but I'll say that reading other people's experiences has made me confident enough to admit to myself (and here) that I've...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am not in a completely sexless marriage, but if my wife and I have sex 4 times a year I would be surprised. I do not fully understand my wife. There have been times she says she...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 28

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    Ok need some help! I want you to tell me a truth, am I overreacting? Today is our 3 year dating anniversary (something H finds hilarious that I want to celebrate as we now have...
    KFallon92 KFallon92 22-25, F 6 Responses May 10

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    It's still fresh in my memory when I was a kid, I could imagine living all by myself when I grow up rather than having a family on my own or having a child without a husband. Long...
    Sunset27 Sunset27 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I was disciplined last night because I allowed my friend Laura to visit when the kids were here and also I let her smoke in the house because it was raining. My husband doesn't...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 9 Responses May 1

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    I've been needing to say this out loud for a long time now and I have never had anyone to talk to. I can't even talk to my best friend about it. I met my husband when I was 17...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 4

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    Not /scared/ per se, more just... Harsh dislike. Hard to describe. I have this problem where every time someone tells me they like me, I immediately dislike them. I could be as...
    LittleWolf21 LittleWolf21 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    It was one of the scariest dreams I've had in a long time. I was lay in my bed (in my dream) and there was a body next to me, I've read a lot about sleep paralysis and I'm not...
    alysg alysg 16-17, F 1 Response May 9

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    I'm scared of failure.... of ending up like most of the rest of my family. I mean, I don't hate their way of living, it's just that I don't like it that they just gave up any small...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 16

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    Project: Get a life. Day 1. Goals: 1. Marry a depressed white guy and turn both our lives around. Save our souls for a few years, till youth lasts and then I say goodbye to life...
    kiddishguypete kiddishguypete 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am a male living in London away from my family from last 4 years. We both are bankers and shd got this life time opportunity in New York, hence she had to move. We hardly have...
    unsatisfiedwives unsatisfiedwives 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I live in New Zealand and gay marriage was legalized here a couple of years ago. So there is currently a referendum circulating in my area to make gay marriage illegal again (it...
    peter1992 peter1992 22-25, M 6 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    So their is this boy I like. And my best friend Makayla spread rumors that's I wanted to kill him and his girlfriend. I told him I liked him last week Wednesday and the next day we...
    tdarleen tdarleen 13-15, F 2 Responses May 12

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