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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 21-25, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    today I ended a relationship with a Man truly loved, but most unfortunately he didn't love me back. It got me thinking how fragile things are, we were together for a year and...
    rrb988 rrb988 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    maybe against would be a strong word, but i dont agree with force arranged marriage. what i feel more painful however is the fact that... for children who love their parents, they...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    isn't for the most part every one unhappy in their marriage? I know its wrong but my body is broken so I am still married due to money, our kidd, I love my in laws n he wont leave...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    My husband terrifies me when he's been drinking. He becomes incredibly nasty and has even hit me at times. He doesn't understand that I'm anxious about him drinking because of the...
    JenniBob JenniBob 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 18

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    Hi I'm new here. I'm not sure where to turn. I feel so lost and lonely. I recently found out my husband has been carrying on a relationship with my twin sister for 10 years+. I...
    jenc12 jenc12 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Jan 19

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    Still on track since my last post. Had our first yoga session, emotional intimacy is much stronger, physical intimacy is more frequent. We are reading "the five love languages...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    For over 20 years I lived a life with very little sex. The times we did have it were mostly initiated by me. After many years of this it really messes with a person's psyche...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm scared of losing my 2 awesome little dogs, one of them is kinda starting to get old. Though she is very active. The youngest one is really active and she really likes me, she...
    Morgee3304 Morgee3304 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is the walk away wife script. http://youtu.be/eyty0xb7IMM Every situation is different but at least 90% of this can ring thru in one way or another IMHO Well I was the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    my wife wont stop lying to me. I'm incredibly unhappy with our relationship, but I don't want to lose my daughter... My wife is incredibly lazy, she doesn't work, clean, cook, or...
    ryartz ryartz 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    I caught my husband trying to cheat on me. he said he loves me and wants to make it work. he has done almost everything I have asked ,sex life is great but he isn't in love with me...
    marthak marthak 26-30, F Jan 8

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    So I've been majorly overworking myself and spreading myself thin so obviously I got really sick. This is the third day I've been in my house with my mom and I'm scared to leave. I...
    Brokenandvulnerable Brokenandvulnerable 22-25, F a week ago

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    Well , yesterday we had our first joint counselling session. Beforehand I was very anxious. I had a knot in my stomach and a pain in my head. I wasn't sure if H would appear, but...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 26 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am really scare and depressed .I may be smiling in the outside but in the inside i am just slowly breaking and falling apart .Last year since I gotten depression it really hit me...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I have been in my prison sentence of a marriage way to long I have given everything I can think of for my marriage and nothing works I had a glimmer of hope yesterday evening...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a rocky history in my relationships. Due to some past childhood trauma and history of adult abusive relationships, I carry a feeling of being burdensome in my current...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    My wife wants me to sleep with other women. I'm 34, she's 34, we have a daughter, and I think we fight too much. She is very touchy about any time I even bring up our lack of...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M Jan 8

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    This is something I've thought about for quite some time. I've had the marriage thing, and for all sorts of reasons, admittedly, some my fault, it did not work. Now after being...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I was forced to grow up fast. my way of thinking and behaving was not for people my age. so to fit in, i changed my self to complete new person, acting dumb, hyper etc... Now i...
    Fabulousbitch123 Fabulousbitch123 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For those of you who don't know, in July I got pregnant and had a miscarriage at about five weeks. For the last few months, I've been dealing with it as best I can. I have...
    ReesesPeaces ReesesPeaces 16-17, F Dec 27, 2014

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    I had a dream which kind of weirded me out, I felt like my soul died. Basically I don't remember the beginning of the dream but I remember that I did something wrong and I was...
    AnonymouS00k AnonymouS00k 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    its actually over. but ill never ever forget what we had. its pretty sad that i honestly dont even know if you loved me. you go from the break up to being perfectly fine. like you...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    You know that thing where, for days and weeks, and maybe even longer, you are strolling along in life, thinking and maybe even knowing that I think I might be doing more than okay...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been married 12 years, and have been struggling to keep my marriage together for approx 6 years. Last night (yeah, Saturday) things came to a head (again). I implored my...
    Screamadelika Screamadelika 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Looking back how things are so different, In the beginning oh we were so in love, inseparable, No amount of time could pass that we were not together, Always close and never close...
    crafty36 crafty36 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I'm so heartbroken, scared and confused. I feel like I'm too old to start all over. I'm 25 (I know it's not old but I just feel like after 3 terrible relationships I'm old) and I...
    newstart1315 newstart1315 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I decided not to wait :$ My ex and I have started to date again and things started to change cause we both are 17 now and in last year of high school. I clearly remember my first...
    victoriakim97 victoriakim97 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    How much difference 12 hours makes... First of all thanks for the encouraging and direct words in my last post. I was going through a moment of weakness and your comments helped...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 7 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    When my husband cheated, it ended in a pregnancy. My husband is pro-life and she had strong feelings for him so wanted to keep the baby. Two years later and I still harbor deep...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F Jan 15

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    since I can just vent my frustration with everyone anonymously I would like to say.... I hate my life... I hate can't leave this relationship.... other day a guy hit on me and my...
    sahanara sahanara 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I have documented last week about my marriage.Do for 2 days I have had an opportunity to live on her and romance her.Both days all seemed like it was headed in that direction...
    brent54 brent54 26-30, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Its been a long time since Ive been in a relationship and every relationship I had lasted only about a month and I always get cheated on. Thats why I developed this way of thinking...
    mihochancullen mihochancullen 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    My foster family saw my cuts today, and they were fresh from last night. They want to make me see a therapist and go to a rehab like place for people who self harm, but I'm scared...
    lostgirl2001 lostgirl2001 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I told someone I love them last Friday and we haven't talked since that night and I'm really scared because I don't want to be hurt but I really do care about them a lot but I'm so...
    JoeyFire JoeyFire 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Last night I dreamed that my best friend and I was gonna go on a cruise to the Bahamas or somewhere I don't really remember, but anyways after we talked about to cruise I ended up...
    clb13 clb13 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I served my wife the divorce papers tonight. So I have officially started the process and my hope is that by this time next year I will no longer be married and trapped in a...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 10

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