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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    I tried and tried to get her to understand, we read marriage books and even went to counselling but she never GOT it. Career was and is still more important. I finally could take...
    TNnomad TNnomad 61-65, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hmm.. when the spouse is not interested in finding job in my country, not interested in adapting to my country.. I can adapt to the lifestyle of his country, but I guess I wont get...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    You can learn a lot about a man by his perception of marriage. Somen think of marriage is a government conspiracy, another man can think marriage is only good for having sex with a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've never been very fond of marriage. No, my parents never got married. No, I didn't really want them to get married nor did I not want them to. I think I just realized after...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    We had 'the chat' last night. It was difficult to express how I felt. I didn't want to hurt him. Divorce was not discussed but laid everything out on the table. Seems that he...
    CupidBowLips CupidBowLips 36-40, F 22 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is it somehow me? I need some honest advice/thoughts from complete strangers. So I have been married for just over 2 years and haven't had bouncy cuddles for just over a year. I...
    Goneburger76 Goneburger76 36-40, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    The Poignancy Of Love The majestic beauty of this enchanted place stands pale in its comparison to thee crested in a night of armor a simple wanderer of the truth in a deathly...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    It's hard to explain what it feels like to wake up in the morning knowing that the space beside you will be cold whether he's lying there or not. I've been with my husband 15...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My uncle has always had a drug problem and a few years ago he went to jail for possession of Cocaine and mugging people. He also did things to me like steal my money (I was like 10...
    MacKenzieRaae MacKenzieRaae 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I thought sex was like a ***** (obviously), and I remember trying to give it as hard and fast to a girl as possible. That was hilarious in hindsight. Oh, and I lasted like 15...
    lajohnnyguy2 lajohnnyguy2 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I mean I would love to be in a relationship. I want to know what it's like to be in a relationship. But for as long as I can remember, I was one to never be able to keep a long...
    MrIppikodoku MrIppikodoku 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Things have been horrible between me and my husband for some time now. No intimacy , him seeing other women, me not caring about it, you know all the signs we are more friends than...
    KittyKurious KittyKurious 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I scared for my mentality. I'm scared of myself. I'm scared that all these thoughts messing about in my head will their toll. I'm scared that I am wrong. I'm scared that I'm right...
    skeletoncliquetop skeletoncliquetop 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My husband calls me names and puts down my flaws every time he is mad. He takes one small thing like a difference of opinion and blows it completely out of proportion by telling me...
    Pennyheart Pennyheart 31-35, F a week ago

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    So no one on my family knows this. I didn't wait till I got married to have s*x with a guy. The reason none of them know is cause they are all Christians and would be upset with me...
    MsKennedy MsKennedy 22-25, F 42 Responses Feb 1

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    It all started quite early, I don't remember when. He wanted to "teach" me how to do stuff, like chopping wood, splitting it into manageable chunks and the like. I thought he was...
    FluttersJay FluttersJay 18-21, T Feb 1

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    Especially ,if you have an abusive spouse.I was watching a program on domestic violence last night.The wife had left but still her husband pursued her and hit her car with his and...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    Married for 21 years, no sex for the last 12 years. And by no sex, I mean absolutely nothing. To start with it was pretty good, but got less over time, which is quite normal. 12...
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I just want to share. I joined this place after two years of struggles in my marriage. I have gone by various names in here : Thedarkenedshadow Dsop Some people have followed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Maybe it's because of the lack of romantic experiences in my life so far. The word "drama" comes to mind. I walk on the street and hear people yammering about their ex to friends...
    bender898989 bender898989 26-30, M Jan 27

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    My husband and I have been married for almost four years, together for 10. We spent the first three years together without disagreeing or arguing even once. It was sheer bliss, I...
    TjbDetroit TjbDetroit 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Last night was one of those nights when I really took a moment with my thoughts. I rolled in from work about 7pm. Zero lights on in the house. So I figure no one is home. But as I...
    babalulu babalulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    I was my ex yesterday and i had a dream about him last night it was so awkward honestly in my dream i went to see him and he told me he loved me and I think we were shopping with...
    sabzzzz sabzzzz 18-21, F Jan 26

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    hey there , I am Frank. i,m from new berry . 3 months backs i was so tired from the daily issues i was having at my marriage front . Everyday we tried to give our relation a new...
    franklampard14 franklampard14 31-35, M Jan 25

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    my husband and i have been together for 30 years. in the last two years i found out he was cheating on me with someone he knew when they were 15. i gave him divorce papers signed 4...
    jaws92 jaws92 46-50, F 12 Responses Jan 24

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    Irritated I am not sure how I feel about this. My ex husband is getting married again. I actually feel pretty good about that. Apparently my kids "new mommy and little sister" (as...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    A close family member is dying therefore I had to travel to Europe on Christmas Day. My husband, as usually is not here to support me, nor does he care about all the Ain he has...
    Astriabirdy Astriabirdy 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I have been married for just 3 years today (25 Jan) and having one daughter aged 2. Since our marriage, we don't really have sex much often. It's not that either of us having an...
    nazrule11 nazrule11 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I have been reading through most of the stories here and I don't see illness involved unless it's mental illness. My situation is a little different, my wife has been battling...
    jj8171966 jj8171966 46-50, M 7 Responses Jan 23

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    I need some advice please. A friend has been in a 20 year relationship (no kids, not married). Six of those years have been sexless and loveless. Lots of damage was done and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 23

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    So I was part of the sexless marriage group from 2008, I have now been divorced for almost a year. At the time I finally decided on a divorce he was seeing 8 other women, some...
    spiderb spiderb 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Last night i didnt get any sleep because of IT , IT will not allow me to sleep. IT was telling me to do something an i can go to sleep in peace. IT is an evil spirit (demon) IT has...
    oreomine12 oreomine12 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    My boyfriend and I have been arguing the past few days. Tonight, he just informed me that he thought it was best if we stopped sleeping in the same bed/ room. I thought this...
    NerdMama NerdMama 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Well, my wife asked why I have been so down lately. I told her because our celibate marriage is very depressing to me. Her Responses 1) She is not sorry we are in a celibate...
    flashjohn flashjohn 46-50 Jan 21