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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 21-25, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    I met an amazing woman, we took it slow as friends first... first kiss... first date... and i of course developed feelings for her and she did it as well... you know, that kind of...
    sparrowmctavish sparrowmctavish 26-30, M Feb 4

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    It is the middle of the night and I have just been rejected again last night. Today, my wife flies overseas for 2 weeks and she does not show the slightest inclination to have even...
    Sub305k Sub305k 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 11

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    I found out last night that my husband has been on face book ,I haven't talked to him in over a year now . And he has been posting on his page that he is happy and that's all good...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I have been single for so long, because I didn't wanna get hurt again. Normally if I meet someone and it began to get serious I would end it. But I have been putting myself out...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    I love the rush of being scared. My heart beats fast, it's hard to breathe, I react quickly.
    stephyjane stephyjane 36-40, F 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    I am scared of being abandoned. I am scared of not being good enough. I am scared of never being loved. I am scared of being lonely. I am scared of what others think of me. These...
    bananaloc bananaloc 22-25, M Feb 2

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    Yes I'm alone sometime's & I feel so scared being alone. I've lot of friend's and everyone's busy with there life as for myself I feel like life hate's me I don't belong here...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I've only been married 1 year and 1 month. We were friends for 2 years, then together for 2..you think that would be the set up for something amazing. Today I find out that he is...
    twilightbutterfly twilightbutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    I have been married for 13 years and have 2 beautiful boys. I am married but what does that mean? What is a family supposed to be? I feel as if I'm a single mother who just...
    whatshappy whatshappy 31-35 1 Response Feb 21

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    Our counselling is going well. At some point l will do an update. H is continuing to actively participate. He appears keen to go along. We have been looking at our family...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 11 Responses Feb 6

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    I don't believe in marriage. My whole motto is 'Love exists but it doesn't lasts'. I'm normally a very optimistic person but I'm all cynical when it comes to love. That's why I...
    pam88 pam88 18-21, F Feb 10

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    I'm not scared of relationships... it's not the bond, but the people... it all depends on how sincere and committed you are...how much you put into building up a strong bond...how...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 14

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    I feel like she wont hurt me but at the same time, i thought that about all the girls i dated. And they all left me leaving me broken... I'm scared.
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Finding an inspiration that heals. Shes gone. It hurts but I will be okay. This past year has been phenomenally hard but I believe I'm exactly where I need to be. 2014 I was...
    mmn6134 mmn6134 22-25, F Feb 5

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    I know this is a little off since i'm talking about this and posting it a phew days later but bare in mind i'm just trying to figure everything out from everything before and now...
    BushMaster243 BushMaster243 16-17, M Feb 15

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    I kind of regret getting married. *The crazy thing is one of the most disturbing nightmares I ever had was while I was in my teens, and it was about me marrying a decent man who...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Last night at 2 something in the morning i decided to watch a horror film. My three kids were deep asleep in bed. My visiting sister was asleep on my couch, so that left my mum and...
    queenofhearts15 queenofhearts15 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I'm in what I'll call a one-sided open marriage... My husband (I'll call him Zack) is the one who has other relationships. Before our marriage we tried to have an extra person (a...
    zodiac79 zodiac79 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I'm somewhat unique in the fact that I am a southern Baptist who believes that gay marriage should be legal. My reasons is I have started to wonder in the last year if gay is a...
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    I am going to accept that I am to homemaker now as my wife is the sole breadwinner in our marriage. That fact is now being solidified by the fact that I am also transgendered and...
    Christinya Christinya 31-35, T Feb 7

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    It's a nightmare, and it was so clear that I doubt it was a dream. This morning while I was still in bed, i heard the sound of keys outside my apartment door, then I heard someone...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I was raped by 5 men last night...and one of them was my dad, I'm so scared that someone els is gonna try to hurt me, I feel so dirty and broken. The worst part was, my mom came...
    imsinkinkimg imsinkinkimg 13-15, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    I am too scared to fall in love. This girl that I like (we say we're boyfriend and girlfriend but we're not official) just went to her ex's house last night and hasn't texted me...
    ofskies ofskies 18-21, M Feb 8

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    I need to have a conversation with my husband but I'm scared. It's so easy to just go along always agreeing it's so easy to always do what I've done. I'm scared because I already...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    It's been since Thanksgiving that I left my sexless marriage. She has already moved someone else in. Am I bitter for thinking that they have been sleeping together for more than...
    dontgitbit dontgitbit 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    my best friend started crying at lunch today. I know about her depression and sexuality and everything and she told her sister, crying, last night, that she couldn't take it...
    themuffintitan themuffintitan 13-15, F Feb 6

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    Well tomorrow I put a end to my 17 year marriage. I am going to sign papers so they can serve my soon to be x husband so why do I feel as if I am dead inside why do I feel like...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Sometimes I just think it is funny to poke the bear ;-) So last night as my wife and I were kissing at bedtime and wrapped up in each others arms she stops me and says...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 34 Responses Feb 13

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    My husband is just so sweet. He had a prior commitment on Valentine's and it was something we expected for the last six months, so no big deal. I hate actually going out on...
    TheNerdYouLove TheNerdYouLove 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I have been with my partner for over 10 years, best friends for 5 years before that and now Married for 3 years... I thought I knew him better than myself, but have been sorely...
    Smudge5002 Smudge5002 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I had a dream last night...It was a vivid dream, and it was of my father who passed away in 2008... here is my background... We had a very challenging relationship, my father was a...
    GOATSDOROAM GOATSDOROAM 41-45, F Feb 16

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    I find out tomorrow how I went last week in a job interview. I am actually really scared to hear a rejection because although I felt I was qualified for the role, I was pitched the...
    evollove evollove 41-45 Feb 16

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    My marriage is driving me crazy. My husband got into one of those multi-level marketing scams and spends most of his time there. We have fought many times already because of this...
    blythe19 blythe19 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I haven't seen my dad in like 5 months because we got in a really bad argument last time we talked and I haven't seen much of my other family members neither because I was...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M Feb 20

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    My daughter has a few girls that she brings over to the house often. The girls trust me and talk to me about things. One friend recently told me that her mom started sleeping on...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 28 Responses Feb 21

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    I love him so much because of him I left the best guy the one who treated me like the most beautiful girl ...n I have a loss self esteem....😢 every time I think of my future...
    SHA2078640 SHA2078640 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I've posted on here before and lately shy away from this sort of thing because when I am feeling down and need some sort of encouragement it tends to turn around and slap me while...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Ah the pillow. I Hate this pillow. It's a king size pillow so not quite a body pillow but in terms of its role as the Berlin Wall of our bed it works just fine. The few times I...
    Alohaguy Alohaguy 36-40, M 23 hrs ago

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    It's been over four years and I still have flashbacks to that terrible time. Four years.....four long years......I am healing, or at least that is what I tell myself. I am in...
    survivorthrujesus survivorthrujesus 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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