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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 21-25, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Has your refuser ever told you that you are beautiful or good looking? I firmly believe that when you love someone you find them incredibly attractive and beautiful. I have never...
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    She will always be someone special in your life :'( I'm so done with all this. I wonder if you will tell me you skyped or is it a secret? You should have asked how I would...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I feel scared to tears that I see life flashing by whilst living in a sexles marriage. I support everything willingly & happly for wife and family but every day for several years...
    wngiag wngiag 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    It's been a long time since I wrote: If you have read my previous articles then you already have the background or a lot of it. If not my situation is as follows: I have been...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    From being in a sexless marriage for the last three years or so, I have really become discusted and sad with my life. This last year has been zero attempts because of menopause I...
    Feelingnotsogreat Feelingnotsogreat 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    Don't ever think you're completely secure in a relationship. I say this because you can't know another persons mind or heart. Like me, you can't believe you're living a fairy tale...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I feel nervous typing this as my beautiful baby sleeps beside me and my very handsome husband, who is a great father and a good person, snores nearby. I just feel so ungrateful, or...
    iamowl iamowl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I am 23, a wife, and mother. I have a very high sex drive as most people my age do but it's like my husband and I are lucky to have sex once a month which isn't my doings. We've...
    Amb0331 Amb0331 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I'm turning 30 next week I see people pitty me because I'm single I feel pressure to marry have kids I don't want to do it till it feels right.I don't want to be a statistic...
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F Dec 2

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    I am in a sexless marriage. I can't even say we have sex 1 a year. Last time it was our wedding night 4 years ago. My husband has made so many excuses as to why and it's all my...
    Pippa131 Pippa131 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm scared to tell my friends I'm not a virgin and even more terrified that my mom might find out. I'm not ashamed that I did it though. This boy makes me so happy.
    kcinkc kcinkc 13-15, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    My gran got cancer last year, I didn't realise how serious it was until a few months ago. The chemo is hurting her but she's trying to stay strong and fight against the cancer. I'm...
    J3N11 J3N11 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm really anxious because I skipped my period for the month of November, and while I normally do have irregular periods (I didn't get my period in August either) things are...
    ryan2496 ryan2496 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Haven't spoken to my husband in 2 days. I can tell that he is ready to talk to me again, but I am not ready. I seriously though about staying in a hotel last night. But this being...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F Nov 23

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    Haven't spoken to my husband in 2 days. I can tell that he is ready to talk to me again, but I am not ready. I seriously though about staying in a hotel last night. But this being...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F Nov 23

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    Last night was the worst night of my life I didn't sleep at all and it was all my own fault you sent me a pic which was a massive thing for you and instead of just taking it and...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Never had a relationship last over a year. It amazes me how people can have a relationship that last a long time. Most people annoy me within a month of dating. It's not like I'm...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok. So it not completely sexless...but 1. Sex is not...at least for the last 5 years an 'appropriate' topic. Toys...only for only for children....the other things are not 'Toys...
    DayPassion DayPassion 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    I don't think it will last much longer. There's a lot of hostility and the word "divorce" is being throw around a lot.
    Handsome78 Handsome78 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 21

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    I love the beginning stages of a relationship where you've just met someone, you don't know if they like you like that yet and so you get to flirt with them meanwhile until one of...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F Nov 21

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    Every time I think about this my heart threatens to pound it's way out of my chest. Okay so I'm getting some feeling for this amazing guy. But I'm scared. And at first I thought...
    DeijiDaze DeijiDaze 18-21, F Nov 22

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    Went walking downtown with my lil sister and her boyfriend. We then went to the red pepperoni and She told this cute waiter ( who is my age) that I said hi, he looked at me and...
    TheHurting TheHurting 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Been 2 years with no affection from my husband! Heck I can count on one hand the times we have kissed in the last two years. We don't talk, we don't do anything together ever and...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    Last year at university... Have no idea what to do after. So afraid that I won't be able to pass all the exams and write a research and more afraid to even finish it...lots of...
    qlara qlara 18-21, F Nov 24

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    I fell for a people-pleaser. The problem is, he doesn't seem very interested in ME. He mostly avoided me when we were seeing each other (except the very beginning of course) and...
    elevating elevating 36-40, F Nov 25

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    InfiniteTearDrops InfiniteTearDrops 13-15, F Nov 25

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    I have been married 21 years in December. My husband came to me in September and said he no longer has feelings for me. That he loves me and does not want me hurt, but does not...
    surfergirl2009 surfergirl2009 36-40, F Nov 29

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    JaneEbony JaneEbony 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I can't believe I was censured and my comment deleted. Just trying to reach out and I poured out my soul about what it's like being married to a hypercritical person who can't be...
    Chandler1929 Chandler1929 41-45 Dec 7

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    I am like an after school Au Pair (or in america "babysitter" for this little girl who lives near me named Vivien but I just call her Viv. And her and her mum got in a bad car...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
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