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I Am Scared My Marriage Wont Last

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 31 People

    We Often Joke About Divorce But Lately Im More Serious About It..

    IM SO FRUSTRATED THESE DAYS. I REALLY THOUGHT THINGS WOULD BE BETTER.. AND THEY ARE IF U SEE IT FROM A DIFF POINT OF VIEW.. LET ME SAY THAT I REALLY DO LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 3.5 YRS (TOGETHER 8). BUT IM STARTING TO SEE THAT THIS LOVE IS THE KINDA OF LOVE U HAVE FOR A FAM MEM. LIKE...
    drakent21 drakent21 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Is Love Enough?

    my husbands philosophy is that if you dont talk about it, the problem doesnt exist...yeah, ok. i dont htink i was his type from the beginning. i was "thick." i got the impression that he usually dated petite girls. i'm 5'10 and big boned. i will never be petite..lol. i...
    ktsm0m ktsm0m 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    FEELING Scared and Alone

    WHERE DO I BEGIN?  I KNOW I NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS OR I FEEL I WILL SIMPLY CONTINUE TO GET MORE AND MORE DEPRESSED. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS, THE LAST 5 YEARS I HAVE FELT MY HUSBAND AND I DRIFTING FARTHER AND FARTHER APART.  I HAVE...
    loneliness loneliness 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Will My Marriage Survive the Storms?

    I finally found my soul mate and we just married last christmas eve, but already there are major issues. i have two boys, ages 9 & 11 and he has a boy age 10 who has adhd.  we can't agree on one single thing as far as discipline goes for the kids.  he's too tough...
    randynserena randynserena 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Dont Be Nice.... They Will Appreciate Nasty

     Firstly and most importantly the " outlaws " are not treating you horribly because you are you or indeed they are afraid of loosing their son, brother.  It is irrelevant who you are and what is more,  this is exactly how they want you to think. They...
    ANNIEB1234 ANNIEB1234 36-40, F Oct 24, 2009

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    So recently I have been sort of seeing messages

    my husband is sending to this other woman. Not that he is cheating on me or anything like that... BUT he has been deleting what he is writing to her as I have on two occasions now caught a glimpse of a few messages. I'm a little concerned that he is divulging all our marriage...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    2 Many Involved

    I am so scared my marriage won't last do to the constant meddling of my husbands family. Since we started dating there has been tension, comments, lies, insults, and rumors generated by his family. I don't know if it is because they feel I am taking him away or if it is because...
    babyblueshorty2003 babyblueshorty2003 21-25, F 6 Responses May 3, 2007

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house...
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F 4 hrs ago

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    I married the nicest guy in the world. I mean it. He is a dream guy to have for any girl. I am every girl's envy. Every single guy who wants to hit on me or thinks off, gets to...
    confusedhelp311 confusedhelp311 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    Where to begin ... My wife and I experienced a set back in our attempts to improve our marriage. I found some evidence last week of an on-going emotional relationship she got...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    I only have one week of high-school left. Ever. It feels so weird to think that I was in a "safe environment" for about 12 years and that I'll be 18 soon and I will have to make...
    Frangenia Frangenia 16-17 Oct 27

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    I'm so F()$@ing Alone I know plenty of people in my life. I used to think I was alone when I was surrounded by people. Now I realize, I'm so alone because, I am alone. It's a...
    Atlas0Scar Atlas0Scar 18-21, M Nov 8

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    Its that wonderful thing we call fear...again! It must be! It surely is the only answer to explain constant procrastination. I have noticed ( not sure if you have ;) that it doesn...
    LifeOfARoseCat LifeOfARoseCat 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    I'm very scared of balloons. Especially the ones with helium. As a kid I ran out of the house when balloons were being popped by my mom. I can't stand the loud bang from a rubber...
    Balloonboy33 Balloonboy33 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 4

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    I need help. Let me start off by saying I'm not a Jesus person, I don't go to church, I don't pray and all that but I do have morals, I have promises I made to myself long ago, I...
    ZoeandMax ZoeandMax 18-21, F Nov 5

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    It hard to realize that I have that fear. I am the one that loves to live a home life. I'm the one that loves to share. I'm the one with that fanatic spirit that yells out: marry...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I feel scared to tears that I see life flashing by whilst living in a sexles marriage. I support everything willingly & happly for wife and family but every day for several years...
    wngiag wngiag 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well I have to get test done on Monday to see if I have Leukaemia and lung cancer. My doctor is worried about me cause I have been bruising for no reason and he said that there is...
    Byebyebabe Byebyebabe 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Okay guys I have a huge question. I can't just seem to find the right answer to . Here it goes . I am in a relationship with a guy . The father of my child . We have been together...
    wondering2014 wondering2014 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    14years of marriage, 18 years together and sex has never been a priority for my husband. He was sexually abused by a camp counselor as a child and that abuse has affected our...
    Notlovingit Notlovingit 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Marriage is more than just paper... Marriage is a promise; a series of promises that sometimes may be hard to keep but will be worth it. Marriage is the forever bond between man...
    Zoopetiz Zoopetiz 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I'm 25 and I joined this group 3 years ago. I made a post about being unhappy in my marriage over 2 years ago and guess what? I'm STILL miserable! I hate the thought of having to...
    Lovely0521 Lovely0521 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    Actually, I'm scared to hell of injections, but not from VC or IV needles or any needle used to draw blood outta my body. I know the needle will go directly to one of my veins. The...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F Nov 7

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    Last weekend my husband took me for a planned weekend away, the destination was a surprise though. When I realised we were going to Hastings I was really happy, my mum grew up in...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F Nov 16

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    It's been years since the last time I fell in love. I like flirting and going out with guys but when things start to get serious I shut them out immediately. I get scared and just...
    Sofiie Sofiie 18-21, F Nov 4

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    last year i was raped and im always scared ive tried to kill myself everyday and night since it happened i feel so scared and alone my body is all cuts and scars i dont know what...
    alanahlouise alanahlouise 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I'm scared of... probably hundreds of things in this world. Many of these fear came from my past, came from random moments and others were just because I had them. And most of them...
    jxstagirl jxstagirl 13-15, F Nov 7

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    It came for me last night When I was exploring The world of art and drawing Learning to enjoy Beauty that was there It came for me again and did not make a sound...
    funsummer74 funsummer74 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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    I was 16, and my boyfriend and I went to the movies to see some nameless scary movie. Things got a little hot, so I pretended I was too scared and we went outside. One thing led to...
    xlovelykittyx xlovelykittyx 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 4

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    Hi, I just registered and this is the first time I am sharing something that is so difficult for me...I came to this forum because I feel I am breaking inside. I am 36, married to...
    esti1978 esti1978 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 7

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    I was dumb and scared n peer pressure and life... **** it....
    NoLoveInMe NoLoveInMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I feel nervous typing this as my beautiful baby sleeps beside me and my very handsome husband, who is a great father and a good person, snores nearby. I just feel so ungrateful, or...
    iamowl iamowl 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 23, a wife, and mother. I have a very high sex drive as most people my age do but it's like my husband and I are lucky to have sex once a month which isn't my doings. We've...
    Amb0331 Amb0331 22-25, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I was walking into a path of grass inbetween a large frozen lake and a building. There was a light on that was attached to the building and I was looking for my dog that was taken...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Oct 28

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    After my last one ... I can not even bear the thought of falling in love As soon as someone lovely comes along or someone i could potentially be with my stomach aches from the...
    generationlover generationlover 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I have once drove 13 hours straight. That how much I love driving. And it sucks that I get scared of driving and crashing again. I crashed twice last week and got so depressed that...
    dusk12 dusk12 22-25, T Nov 9

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    I am scared that this will not last. I feel so happy and it scares me because I am happy because I had people help me get here. the thing is people always leave me and I love these...
    Anicia47 Anicia47 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    I have always been close with my dad until about 2 weeks ago. He became very touchy feely in all the wrong places. He threatens me all the time. I was having dinner about 30...
    chlo3ann3 chlo3ann3 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27

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