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I Am Scared of Disappointing People I Love

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    I fear having to disappoint certain people I

    love I don't even like it when people say that to me. Example: I disappointment a girl I used to like and I cried my eyes out
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M Nov 28, 2014

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    I Dont Like Disappointing People

    My whole life it seems like I have disappointed people. My dad, cause i didnt graduate high school. My mom cause i didnt always choose the right people to hang out with. My sister cause i did drugs. My granddad cause i didnt spend time with him. My self. For listening to...
    sexilexi89 sexilexi89 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    I just got my grades a few days ago.

    Although it's not bad (my friend said it was a high grade), I didn't meet the expectation set by my mom. And I can't stop blaming myself for it...
    PrincezzSn0w PrincezzSn0w 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2014

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    Making Mistakes

    I do get scared sometimes.  I have a lot of responsibility on my shoulders and I do worry that I'll mess things up and that I will disappoint my family.  But I do know that they are there to support me ... we've been through tough times before and have come through...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 25 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    I wonder how I'll face my parents

    when they find out what I've done. I hope they'll still love me.
    reyrey022 reyrey022 26-30, F Apr 18

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    Though I know God doesn't judge me In a

    negative light I do worry about disappointing him when I screw up. I know he will love me unconditionally but I don't use that as an excuse to be less than what I know he knows I can be. I Just want to please him all the time.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Scared Is The Word

    or is it Grease? Joking aside, I think that I will not, ultimately, live up to their expectations, that I will muck it up in some way. I forget that they like or love me because of who I am. I think that, ultimately, I will let them down. Irrational, and self...
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 14 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    But Equally Nervous Of That Being Played Against Me.

    I've been through a lot already with previous relationships. I have a hard time trusting sometimes. I worry that if I get too close to a person, there's the possibility that they might use this fear against Me and try to play Me. But I'm not dumb or blind. The very moment I first...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M May 23, 2011

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    Egads !!

    OMG.. OMG ..  OMG .. me too ! me too !!!
    Auror Auror 31-35, F Apr 3, 2010

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