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I Am Scared of Disappointing People I Love

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    Scared Is The Word

    or is it Grease? Joking aside, I think that I will not, ultimately, live up to their expectations, that I will muck it up in some way. I forget that they like or love me because of who I am. I think that, ultimately, I will let them down. Irrational, and self...
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 14 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    But Equally Nervous Of That Being Played Against Me.

    I've been through a lot already with previous relationships. I have a hard time trusting sometimes. I worry that if I get too close to a person, there's the possibility that they might use this fear against Me and try to play Me. But I'm not dumb or blind. The very moment I first...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M May 23, 2011

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    Making Mistakes

    I do get scared sometimes.  I have a lot of responsibility on my shoulders and I do worry that I'll mess things up and that I will disappoint my family.  But I do know that they are there to support me ... we've been through tough times before and have come through...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 25 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    I fear having to disappoint certain people I

    love I don't even like it when people say that to me. Example: I disappointment a girl I used to like and I cried my eyes out
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M Nov 28

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    Egads !!

    OMG.. OMG ..  OMG .. me too ! me too !!!
    Auror Auror 31-35, F Apr 3, 2010

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    I Dont Like Disappointing People

    My whole life it seems like I have disappointed people. My dad, cause i didnt graduate high school. My mom cause i didnt always choose the right people to hang out with. My sister cause i did drugs. My granddad cause i didnt spend time with him. My self. For listening to...
    sexilexi89 sexilexi89 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    I just got my grades a few days ago.

    Although it's not bad (my friend said it was a high grade), I didn't meet the expectation set by my mom. And I can't stop blaming myself for it...
    PrincezzSn0w PrincezzSn0w 18-21, F Apr 12

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    I'm scared. Two people whom I don't even know off the internet threatened to kill themselves over EP tonight and they logged out before I could help them. I take very harshly to...
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    My Mother died and left my brother and I financially well off. She left EVERYTHING to he and I. Both of us struggled financially for years. I had gradually turned things around...
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    I don't care what kind of "be hopeful it'll happen" BULLSHIT people decide to throw at me in response to this post. When I love, I love 100 times more intensely than other people...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I wish the world wasn't so selfish. It depresses me to know their are homeless people in the world. I wish to help them all but, I don't have enough to go around. There aren't any...
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    It is hard to understand people. Love can be fun and helpful to us if we would just give it a chance. I have been loved and hurt before. I think it's good to try to be optimistic...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The words he spoke to me are forever etched in my memory. Today, for completely unrelated reasons, those words are haunting me. My first love and I met in elementary school. In...
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    Besides for the fact that she was gorgeous, why do people love her so much? This isn't hate I'm just curious because she died decades ago and people are still frolicking on the...
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    Любовь, похожая на сон, (English transaltion by me) Love that is like a dream I look into your eyes like in the mirror I'm afraid of losing my reflection in...
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    even myself... i am trying to.... but i Tell myself I have no friends Believe I am a worse person than I am Do not know that people love me Why?
    clarkee clarkee 51-55 2 Responses a week ago

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    I came across this today. This is sooo how I feel. Of everything I have seen, it's you I want to go on seeing: of everything I've touched, it's your flesh I want to go on...
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Eminem is really an inspiration to me, he started at the bottom with a drug addicted mom and no dad all the way to having millions of people love him. Without all of those...
    ChloeLTFU ChloeLTFU 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Love shouldnt hurt. Love is if two people love each other and not reject and hurt them. Unfortunatelly i never expirienced love. I feel like a teenage still being at home and has...
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    I have only felt this way about one guy. and it ended very very badly. I honestly don't know if I'll ever be able to feel that way again. I know people love more that once in their...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Dec 15

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    People love to judge, or point the finger at something or someone a individual desires to entertain, or have relations with. Yet, trying to understand or becoming knowledgable of...
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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    December 1. Letting People Be There for Us. Sometimes, we need nurturing. Sometimes, we need people to support us. Many of us have been deprived of support and nurturing for so...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Dec 1

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F Dec 14

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    Well... I really am sad today. It's not that big of a surprise. I really think I screwed life up pretty astoundingly. I wish I was dumber, but instead I'm kinda bright, but have...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 10 mins ago

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    i stayed up all night watching tv and around 6am when i was reading a book online i felt my heart slowing down and i started kinda suffocating, i felt like my whole body was going...
    simplyjena simplyjena 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    First: There may be writing mistakes, so don't judge pls :( It began in April 2014, nothing special, thats what i thought. A good friend of mine was celebrating her birthday in...
    chrysantheme chrysantheme 16-17, F Dec 4

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    I find my experiences with online unknowns is the stereotypical conversation of sex. Why? Why not get to know the person? Why not experience what they have to offer and if it...
    acidpixiedust acidpixiedust 36-40, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    He's so not evil. The fact that he did not fix the things he said he would is disappointing, but it surely doesn't make him "evil." Also, right now is a hard time to be President...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
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    I love sucking on big ample boobs any real busty ladies with a personality n don't rip pics of the net and bit scared to show there face let's chat uk based plz
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    "From child hood, going up" When I was 10, I had a crush on my cousin. things got good but sooner or later me and my family had to go abroad. When I was 12, I had a girl i liked...
    PreChY PreChY 16-17, M Nov 30

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    Fear. The one thing that I hate about love is the fear it gave me. I got so scared of loosing it yet I am screaming longing for it. I got scared when I saw they got sick. Would it...
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