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I Am Scared of Disappointing People I Love

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    Egads !!

    OMG.. OMG ..  OMG .. me too ! me too !!!
    Auror Auror 31-35, F Apr 3, 2010

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    But Equally Nervous Of That Being Played Against Me.

    I've been through a lot already with previous relationships. I have a hard time trusting sometimes. I worry that if I get too close to a person, there's the possibility that they might use this fear against Me and try to play Me. But I'm not dumb or blind. The very moment I first...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M May 23, 2011

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    Scared Is The Word

    or is it Grease? Joking aside, I think that I will not, ultimately, live up to their expectations, that I will muck it up in some way. I forget that they like or love me because of who I am. I think that, ultimately, I will let them down. Irrational, and self...
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 14 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    I just got my grades a few days ago.

    Although it's not bad (my friend said it was a high grade), I didn't meet the expectation set by my mom. And I can't stop blaming myself for it...
    PrincezzSn0w PrincezzSn0w 18-21, F Apr 12, 2014

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    I fear having to disappoint certain people I

    love I don't even like it when people say that to me. Example: I disappointment a girl I used to like and I cried my eyes out
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M Nov 28, 2014

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    Making Mistakes

    I do get scared sometimes.  I have a lot of responsibility on my shoulders and I do worry that I'll mess things up and that I will disappoint my family.  But I do know that they are there to support me ... we've been through tough times before and have come through...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 25 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    I Dont Like Disappointing People

    My whole life it seems like I have disappointed people. My dad, cause i didnt graduate high school. My mom cause i didnt always choose the right people to hang out with. My sister cause i did drugs. My granddad cause i didnt spend time with him. My self. For listening to...
    sexilexi89 sexilexi89 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    I think I have a serious disappointment complex. It controls my life. I set ridiculously high standards for myself so that I won't disappoint other people. And it has ruined my...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Which is why I spend most of my time on the Internet. I'm scared of people. I'm scared that they will leave me, reject me, after realizing how much of a freak I am. Here, no one...
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I'm really tempted to delete all of my stories and questions. For some reason, I feel so uneasy exposing my thoughts and secrets here even though it's an anonymous website and I...
    shioshishio shioshishio 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The one and only woman in my life that I really do love and care about is going through a real difficult time and I am failing her by not being there for her when she needs me...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    My boyfriend of a year always goes clubbing with his friends even on his birthday and New Years and all these special occasions and his friends do not like me. I don't like it at...
    truehoe4eva truehoe4eva 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I am worried and scared. I do love her very very much. She loves me too. But what if I am not good enough? What if I hurt her? Her life has been so much pain already. She doesnt...
    steveblue steveblue 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Be love, Be joy... Wrap yourself in happiness and let it shine through you completely. Loveliness is like a magnet. Be that magnet people love to be around. Make yourself joyful...
    Euphorialbeauty23 Euphorialbeauty23 22-25, F Jan 28

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    "Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of trouble, attempts what is above its strength, and pleads no excuse of impossibility." - Thomas A. Kempis This is so true. When two...
    FBR4536 FBR4536 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    no matter how much it upsets me to see people love beautiful faces so much, I can't blame them. I know it's human nature and kind of inevitable.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Happy VD people! Love y'all!!
    Sparklestefffy Sparklestefffy 22-25, F Feb 14

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    Horzier take me to church. I am going to use that for our new routine in my class. The video is so just fed let's be honest but come on people love is love here I think the video...
    Sunshinegal4u Sunshinegal4u 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Finished Unity in less than a week. That's about the expected time. I have to admit that I'm not really an Assassins Creed fan... so I didn't really enjoy the game. But I can see...
    MondRubberduck MondRubberduck 16-17, M Feb 19

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    alot of people love him for his good looking face. i heard about him by ISF and i thought 'that's a great person' and then i searched his name and it was so great, seeing a TV star...
    SabiDarrio SabiDarrio 18-21, F a week ago

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    People love to blame God for the bad things that happen like there's no such thing as satan, smh do you really think it'd be fair to force everyone to do right? No that's why there...
    slimvince slimvince 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Morning people. Love when sleep isn't interrupted. It's a beautiful thing to wake up feeling refreshed
    MeLBear133 MeLBear133 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm kind of glad people can't read my thoughts sometimes. I just find learning about certain things, or doing research on certain things, that "normal" people wouldn't really find...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    To love, and to lust . To Love lust To lust for love Ones said to be bad And the other good They both look the same on the surface But to me both are worthless Those...
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm scared to get close And I hate being alone I long for that feeling to not feel at all The higher I get, the lower I'll sink I can't drown my demons, they know how to swim <...
    jeyhere jeyhere 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    "50 most positive one liners 1. Have a firm handshake. 2. Look people in the eye. 3. Sing in the shower. 4. Own a great stereo system. 5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard...
    bigboy4chat42 bigboy4chat42 41-45 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    It truly shows a sign of weakness when you refuse to stick to what you post. If you honestly feel that way, you're entitled to post it. I find it disappointing to see people delete...
    endlesschapters endlesschapters 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I am an anxious person when it comes to relationships, whether they are familial, romantic or platonic. The closer I am to somebody, the more I fear of making mistakes. In the past...
    crystalhaze crystalhaze 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I met an amazing woman, we took it slow as friends first... first kiss... first date... and i of course developed feelings for her and she did it as well... you know, that kind of...
    sparrowmctavish sparrowmctavish 26-30, M Feb 4

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    smitha143 smitha143 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I am scared of the people in this house. They abused my wife to the point where her brain felt the need to split up and have alters handle it. She has DID because of what they...
    Remotay88 Remotay88 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Yes I'm alone sometime's & I feel so scared being alone. I've lot of friend's and everyone's busy with there life as for myself I feel like life hate's me I don't belong here...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    A discussion on one of the threads today has given me such great hope. For so long I thought the matter of sexual abuse had got people so scared that nobody would believe or...
    purplemessenger purplemessenger 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I am not scared of death but very very scared of loosing people I love a lot...After my Dad passed away, I just realised that nothing can be as scary as death.. The emptiness of...
    Waldena Waldena 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    The girl Alissa from Beyond Scared Straight that started crying when she met the inmates and got scared. I think she is so cute and i know she did bad stuff to be on the show but I...
    storykid storykid 18-21, M Feb 3

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    Not sure if he meant it or if he just loved the person he thought I was. I'll probably never know. It's ok though, honestly throughout that relationship I felt like I had a weight...
    Anotherrose96 Anotherrose96 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    I enjoy chatting with open minded people, who can relate things through life experiences. I find mature people to be good. I love to meet people who I can meet in reality and not...
    UKMALE31 UKMALE31 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    "Am I gonna be lonely for the rest of my life?" I think it's no longer a question for me. People change but I know myself to well to engage in a relationship. That's why I'm scared...
    Someonefrom1980 Someonefrom1980 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Something really weird happened Thursday at school. I was waiting to be called down to a club that I'm in so I was hanging out in Mr. Z's classroom talking to my friends. They got...
    Meangirl83 Meangirl83 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Fu#k the Grammy's...they know nothing when it comes to hard rock/metal.as always disappointing
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 9

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    I am scared to get attached to someone. I am scared to love. I want you. I like you a lot. But I'm scared of you. I'm scared to get hurt. I know one day your going to walk...
    fifidogg fifidogg 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I am scared of being abandoned. I am scared of not being good enough. I am scared of never being loved. I am scared of being lonely. I am scared of what others think of me. These...
    bananaloc bananaloc 22-25, M Feb 2

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    I realized that , I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years , and yesterday I tried to break up with himI realized then that I've been scared the whole time of being alone that I've...
    Delusionalkrysti Delusionalkrysti 22-25, F Feb 3

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    I still miss him, 35 years later. We had a beautiful love story, but he got scared and ended it. However, it never really ended. We still talked on the phone. He said he still...
    ldsgirl923 ldsgirl923 51-55, F 7 Responses Feb 5

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    "She walks in beauty, Like the night of cloudless climes and starry skies; And all that's best of dark and bright Meet in her aspect and her eyes." - Byron For me, there is no...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I need to have a conversation with my husband but I'm scared. It's so easy to just go along always agreeing it's so easy to always do what I've done. I'm scared because I already...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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