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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2010

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    As a girl still in high school,

    it is one of my worst fears to get pregnant. Not only will I have to deal with the baby when it comes, but I'd be labeled as "That pregnant chick." Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with this fear, they get all that pleasure while we have to grow a human in us. Not...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 11, 2014

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I'm really scared that I'm gonna be pregnant.

    I had unprotected sex with a guy who already has two kids and he ********** in me. I take bc but I'm not very consistent and I'm scared as hell. I can't get pregnant right now. I still can't support myself and my parents would disown me if I was pregnant. Scared as hell. I've...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I had sex with him a few days ago.

    He got wet and we had sex, shortly after he pulled out and started to *********. It has been 3 days, is it possible that I might be pregnant? I'm extremely scared. Please do not nag or scold me.. I need some serious advice. He said he pulled out in time, could he have actually...
    kimbeerlyyx kimbeerlyyx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 5 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    I just found that I'm pregnant (apparently there's a slim chance of getting pregnant even on birth control), I'm not stable to have a baby and I have so much to do still.
    nevercouldmeansomuch nevercouldmeansomuch 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    Already 16 and no luck yet getting pregnant :( its so hard finding someone I just want a child already!!! :( my period is almost 2 weeks late though so maybe!!!
    futureteenmommycourtneydjp1467 futureteenmommycourtneydjp1467 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 10

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    anyone interested in getting pregnant message me. I live in georgia
    messi2123 messi2123 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    I was rapped and molested almost all my life.my uncle use to touch me when I was younger and my older brother rapped and molested me since I was 8 until the age of 11 it stopped...
    Mandy1305 Mandy1305 13-15, F Apr 18

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    I really want to get pregnant but I'm afraid of meeting up and getting into a dangerous situation or getting an STI. I've been looking into getting s.p.e.r.m. Shipped to me from...
    AriTheTechie AriTheTechie 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    me and my boyfriend went a little over board with the whole sex thing last month and he is always precumming, I didn't think of anything then I threw up and felt nausea for like a...
    shhitsa shhitsa 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    Well I am 15 years old I been dating my boyfriend for 2 months I lost my it by him.... I was rapped so I trust my boyfriend we used a condom the first time but it ripped a little...
    Mandy1305 Mandy1305 13-15, F Apr 18

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    Im 15 and im a week late for my period... Im scared I might be pregnant....
    PregnantTeen2000 PregnantTeen2000 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm afraid of someone getting close to me. I'm scared of letting you know all of my feelings for you. I'm afraid of you getting into my personal space. I'm scared of others getting...
    Hippodippo257 Hippodippo257 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm really terrified of getting attached to people as well as places. I never wanted to buy anything I couldn't just pack in a bag and move. It used to fill me with a lot of...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't have a car, but I drive. But only when I'm back home and I use my parents car. However, I only drive on the streets I know. Now I moved to a place where it's almost...
    mtea mtea 26-30, F Apr 14

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    I have been having a lot of family issues and they are getting worse. I came home from a week away to not being welcome in anyway. My mother still cooked me dinner but because of...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F Apr 16

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    ... I'm so scared to love again. I'm so scared to desire forever with a person; only for them, after many years, to betray/to cheat/to fall out of love/to hurt. I'm so freakn...
    Ichizu Ichizu 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Yep. People would say "it's part of life, it's natural" but for people who are scared like me, don't understand. I'm not saying I don't want to love, I don't want to say I'm...
    ThatBritishVirgin ThatBritishVirgin 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    Well I already fallen in love again, I'm just scared to open up to him really. He's told me he loves me, and I want to say it back but I just can't get myself to. I'm scared of...
    blooop123 blooop123 18-21, F Apr 21

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    I just feel terribly scared of the man who got a restraing order on me i case if he still seeking revenge ... I'm so so scared if him ...I do not want anything from him ...I ve got...
    Powerlesss Powerlesss 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    At the start of this week, I never thought that I was going to have to attend therapy until the end of the school year; that's all my University can offer me.Coming in as a...
    LoZtMe LoZtMe 18-21, F Apr 15

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    I put myself through a lot and even lost myself, I haven't became who im supposed to be ,always wanting to find someone i can grow with because im scared to be alone. I finally...
    moondesires moondesires 18-21, F Apr 13

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    Can anyone who has been pregnant or is trying to be pregnant help me out? Okay so me and my fiancé has been having sex every other day but we have been trying for about 6 months...
    kaileyy48 kaileyy48 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I am so worried , and scared. I want to go see my dads parents , but I am scared they want let my mom come backs and get me. It wouldn't be so bad but my mom doesn't have custody...
    Jack0121 Jack0121 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    It's official; I'm going to be a mom! Kitty and I are expecting a child <3I am so happy right now you guys don't even know. I literally cried I was so happy when I found out...
    jojokarel jojokarel 26-30, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F 2 days ago

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