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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    As a girl still in high school,

    it is one of my worst fears to get pregnant. Not only will I have to deal with the baby when it comes, but I'd be labeled as "That pregnant chick." Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with this fear, they get all that pleasure while we have to grow a human in us. Not...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2010

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    Terrified actually! 😫 To think one day there

    will be a human growing inside of me scares the hell out of me.
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    I'm really scared that I'm gonna be pregnant.

    I had unprotected sex with a guy who already has two kids and he ********** in me. I take bc but I'm not very consistent and I'm scared as hell. I can't get pregnant right now. I still can't support myself and my parents would disown me if I was pregnant. Scared as hell. I've...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am 16 years old and I recently had unprotected sex with a 20, soon to be 21 year old, he didn't finish inside me but I heard you can still get pregnant from pre-*** (which all...
    laxgirl110 laxgirl110 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Back when I was thirteen my family was friends with my rapist's family, so we treated each other like family. We trusted each other. I even had a crush on my rapist. So when he...
    LolitaChrisbell LolitaChrisbell 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I have tried getting pregnant since I was 22 years old which is about 4 years ago. I am hoping this year will be the year we succeed.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know this is a bit different but my elderly dog who has been a major part of my life has two growths on his body and I can't afford to take him to the vet and I'm really scared...
    idiotheque idiotheque 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I can't sleep. I can't get over the pain of knowing my partner is depressed and is pushing me away. I don't know what else to do. I so desperately want to feel loved. I need to...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I am going through so much, I am on the verge of being homeless and I am all alone trying the best I can to help myself. When my boyfriend found out I was pregnant he completely...
    diamondjewelz31 diamondjewelz31 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I wake up with worry overcoming me. Sleep doesn't tend to come easy for the same reason. I am, I believe a smart person, although I never apply myself due to my constant worry and...
    depressedlonelyabused depressedlonelyabused 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    And I feel bad about it. Most people really enjoy being pregnant but I'm miserable. I'm scared that I'm not going to be connected to my baby because of the side effects of being...
    ElyssaLauren13 ElyssaLauren13 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My dear child: I am scared to bring you into this world. There is much evil happening and it is getting worse. The oppressors are being supported and praised because people are...
    babykitten24 babykitten24 26-30, F Jul 22

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    Baby daddy is now in my and Rosalie's life. We are still trying to work things out. Idk how things will play out. I'm kinda scared he's getting too attached, but whatever. I'm 16...
    KyleenSEV KyleenSEV 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 5

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    Hi! I posted this is one of the threads here, but I decided to post this again. August 9, 2014 I am 22 weeks pregnant. I have had instances wherein I bled because of too much...
    cindyann85 cindyann85 26-30, F Aug 8

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    I have an app on my phone which keeps track of my periods. I stupidly had unprotected sex on the 4th of July and then when I looked on my app it said I was fertile on that day. He...
    hayl13 hayl13 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Hi I'm sorry to post these kinda stuff buy I'm really worried Do I got my period on June 30 my mums bday and I she was at wurk so I called her and I was all like mum yea mum umm I...
    Shinecarberry Shinecarberry 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    We didn't do it with a con from and I always did with a condom... I am truly scared right now.. That I might be pregnant 😔😔 I'm only 18 I have so much to look forward I'm...
    Jic195 Jic195 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have alway loved kids, and even tried with my exhousband, but when I still hadn't got my period today, I got so scared about what would my Master say. But as I went to work and I...
    Kirsebaera Kirsebaera 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    I found out I was pregnant last night after taking 3 pregnancy tests. My bf and I are really disappointed in our selfs I think it's worse for me I have a 5 month old for a...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I have been feeling crummy the past few days. I noticed some weight gain, throwing up, my breasts and nips were very tender to touch. made a doctor appointment for today. When I...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 25

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    I do and I dont. It is probably not his fault. We will never know if my eggs were ever good to begin with. He made us wait till we were married so nobody could think that he...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    She woke up as usual before going for the bus (she catches the same bus to our academy). The babies started to kick and she felt the first sharp pain hit, then another a couple of...
    ChloePawson ChloePawson 13-15, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    (continued from part one...) She entered the cafeteria, the pressure of the babies and her need to wee constantly building up inside her belly. She went straight for the bathroom...
    ChloePawson ChloePawson 13-15, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm 25 weeks pregnant (The 26 week mark is tomorrow) and I can't wait until my baby is here :) I know it'll be hard but I can't change what happened and I love my baby more than...
    RoseArrow94 RoseArrow94 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    there is one living right across the street from me a sweetie with a hubby and a son they moved in about 5 months ago and she's really getting big now. she's so adorable she's...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jul 27

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    I haven't had sex ever since I got pregnant :/ and I really want to I'm getting Sexually frustrated
    yoncex3 yoncex3 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    This may get some ugly responses but here it goes I gotta tell some one. I had an abortion a few months ago, and I am still with the same man. I am a few days late on my monthly...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I told you about how my affair started with mohit but in past somethings happened which should not. As this is the only place where I am anonymous ,I am more than happy to tell...
    sexgodesspalak sexgodesspalak 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    my mum not well :( im so scared of losing her... she just threw up soo much and shes slowly getting blind :( it hurts seeing her like this and rejecting to go hospital because she...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Ebola is introduced into the human population through close contact with the blood, secretions, organs or other bodily fluids of infected animals. In Africa, infection has been...
    DaviidBeckhaam DaviidBeckhaam 31-35, F Aug 7

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    I really love when someone is pregnant. I love everything about it. The nice big belly, leaking ****, hormones. My wife is pregnant with our 5th child right now. I love her even...
    DaddyBen982 DaddyBen982 22-25, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I am so overjoyed when someone in my family or a girlfriend is pregnant. I have had 15 kids of my own and love being pregnant and motherhood so much. I have 7 girls and 3 of them...
    vickianderson69 vickianderson69 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    When I was 16 I got pregnant, and I lived the feeling of being fat, and having a belly. I gave the baby in adoption eventually, but I just couldn't resist the urge to get pregnant...
    lifebeingborn lifebeingborn 22-25, F 6 Responses