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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.Β  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Terrified actually! 😫 To think one day there

    will be a human growing inside of me scares the hell out of me.
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2010

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Please message me. I'm only 14, I'm scared please
    sydneym17 sydneym17 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I keep finding out people are getting pregnant and having babies...I'm happy for them, I am. But I'm just over here like...when is it my turn to have this opportunity? I want to...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    My dear child: I am scared to bring you into this world. There is much evil happening and it is getting worse. The oppressors are being supported and praised because people are...
    babykitten24 babykitten24 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm 25 weeks pregnant (The 26 week mark is tomorrow) and I can't wait until my baby is here :) I know it'll be hard but I can't change what happened and I love my baby more than...
    RoseArrow94 RoseArrow94 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My parents announced that we are going to Disneyland in a few weeks. Normally I would be happy, but I'm worried. My parents have always been in a lot of debt. We have almost lost...
    kberry95 kberry95 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have two daughters and both times I was pregnant my husband knew before I did. He had cravings for food he never liked before and had nausea. With my first child, he ignored...
    roseblossom90 roseblossom90 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I know it is not healthy and try to not do it, but I push people away because I do not want to lose someone I love so much again. Becoming a widow changed me in many good ways...
    sofarsogoodDD sofarsogoodDD 36-40 2 hrs ago

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    I have severe endometriosis and was diagnosed when I was quite young, when I first started having sex we didn't use any protection and for the first few months I used to have panic...
    PunkAndDisorderly PunkAndDisorderly 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I am pregnant and I'm 13 but I turn 14 next month so I'm pregnant by my boyfriend and he's 14 too like we only been dating for 4 months I was stupid to have unprotected sex we are...
    mommy2beonly14 mommy2beonly14 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm from Ontario and I am looking to get a woman pregnant, if you are interested just message me and we can talk :)
    acanadianguy acanadianguy 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    Pregnant means life and that is awesome! Extreme pregnancy!!!(for those that know which movie i referenced you are awesome)
    JessaRayLynn JessaRayLynn 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know Forsure but Ive been getting crazy symptoms, and I should of started my period 2 days ago. I'm cramping and bloatd but what I've read that's normal?before I even said...
    icrave17 icrave17 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I really need a boyfriend there for me when I wake up in the middle of the night scared and be there to comfort me so I am not scared anymore
    AAmmyyPPiiee AAmmyyPPiiee 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm just scared yanno. I'm scared that I won't be able to handle the up coming events.
    littlebigkid littlebigkid 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    I am 19, I am pregnant to a 25 year old guy.. This wouldn't be all too bad if my partner wasn't a drug dealer, if he hadn't been in and out of jail, of he isn't a violent person...
    jessicamayx jessicamayx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm not pregnant but I want to be. I know having a baby will be hard But I truly believe I can do it I know it would be scary to have a kid but I want one really bad I want him...
    ALEYXI ALEYXI 13-15, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I got pregnant by someone who was my really good friend for years. and I really looked up to him and valued him but he turned into a jerk. I thought he was a really warm person who...
    aboutdreams aboutdreams 22-25, F Jun 23

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    I think I may be pregnant? I've had really sore breasts for a week or so now and I think my period should have already started or start any day soon. I'm really worried because...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I'm 15 and pregnant and I'm Likee 3 weeks pregnant πŸ‘Œwhat shuld I do ? πŸ˜“ I'm scared to tell my parents , There Crazy πŸ†’πŸ˜
    JasmineeJay JasmineeJay 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I just need to vent this out somewhere, cause there isn't really anywhere else I can. I'm currently running of 3-4 hours sleep per night, at best, because I'm really scared of...
    SuperLemon SuperLemon 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I've found out I'm pregnant I don't know what to do I'm scared and worried my parents would kill me if they find out . I need help fast I have no idea what to do I'm very confused...
    MJsgirl MJsgirl 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm 16 and thirteen weeks pregnant with twins. I'm so scared about becoming a mom but it also feels so exciting. I'm so grateful for everyone that is supporting me and I feel so...
    BrookeSandhurst BrookeSandhurst 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I think I might be pregnant. I don't know what to do. My parents are very loving, but even that being said I'm not sure what they would do if I was. I haven't taken a test, because...
    cate194 cate194 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I had a very close friend that I didn't realize I was so crazy about.. we became friends with benefits for only about a month and I became pregnant. Now he wants nothing to do with...
    EmilyTheMonster EmilyTheMonster 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    In attempt to sleep earlier, I went to bed just before midnight after completing some more of my summer homework. Summer is going to end soon and I really need to fix this bad...
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My girlfriend is pregnant, potentially with another man's baby. She regrets the mistake, but we had an agreement for her to explore what was out there. She needed final validation...
    MediPhil MediPhil 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I got pregnant at 15, I'm 16 now. I've been dating the same boy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13, we never had unprotected sex but his condom broke and I got pregnant. Baby...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F Jul 12

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    Life has never been that great for me, but I'm scared of it getting better. Every time it started to get better, it would go straight back to living hell and would get even worse...
    selfishmachine selfishmachine 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I have a dilemma, about getting an abortion or not. Firstly I am a Muslim and it is forbidden to have sex before marriage and is one of the deadliest sins. Getting an abortion is...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I failed two of my exams and my report card should be coming either today or really close and I'm so scared to see how my parents will react if they see those horrible grades. I...
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am going to be a junior in high school next year, and although I have been thinking about college since 4th grade, now is the time when I really need to buckle down and get...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    My ex and I live in the same house together but have different rooms and don't talk. If we talk we fight, he is emotionally abusive and an alcoholic. He has threatened to throw...
    Chantal83 Chantal83 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27