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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    I had sex with him a few days ago.

    He got wet and we had sex, shortly after he pulled out and started to *********. It has been 3 days, is it possible that I might be pregnant? I'm extremely scared. Please do not nag or scold me.. I need some serious advice. He said he pulled out in time, could he have actually...
    kimbeerlyyx kimbeerlyyx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    As a girl still in high school,

    it is one of my worst fears to get pregnant. Not only will I have to deal with the baby when it comes, but I'd be labeled as "That pregnant chick." Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with this fear, they get all that pleasure while we have to grow a human in us. Not...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 11, 2014

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2010

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 5 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    I'm really scared that I'm gonna be pregnant.

    I had unprotected sex with a guy who already has two kids and he ********** in me. I take bc but I'm not very consistent and I'm scared as hell. I can't get pregnant right now. I still can't support myself and my parents would disown me if I was pregnant. Scared as hell. I've...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So it's been 6 months of trying. Always telling myself it'll happen when it's meant to happen. Maybe now isn't the right time... It can get pretty depressing. Most of the time I...
    St4rbright St4rbright 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't think I'd get pregnant myself, but I find pregnant women sexy. There's something about them carrying around another life that I find attractive and interesting.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I am an anxious person when it comes to relationships, whether they are familial, romantic or platonic. The closer I am to somebody, the more I fear of making mistakes. In the past...
    crystalhaze crystalhaze 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Feeling kind of helpless. I'm so tired. My eyes, face and body. I don't know where I'm going in life. I'm excited for the journey that is in front of me. Also scared. When my...
    sweetJerseyGirl sweetJerseyGirl 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm 33 years old, have a successful job and up until 3 months ago was happily married. The day after my birthday this year after getting back from an overseas work trip i was...
    tvalexis tvalexis 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I found out on the 26th that I am pregnant again. I have a 2.5 year old daughter who is my absolute life and am not ready for another. All I can do is cry about it. I feel so awful...
    lifeisbeautiful89 lifeisbeautiful89 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I have a daughter, Hazel, with my boyfriend of over 5years. When I got pregnant with Hazel he wanted me to get an abortion because we "weren't ready" and we don't have much money...
    MissLizzieD MissLizzieD 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I don't have clear memories of situations from my childhood but there are some things I remember. one of those things is that whenever I caught myself in a good mood I would get...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My name is Devon Nicole Manson I am 14 and 8 Months Pregnant with my baby names Nicole. Since I got pregnant people have treated me different. Nasty names referring to me sleeping...
    BabyyGurl1999 BabyyGurl1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Its not so much scared, its more worried. We're going to have a natural birth when we get pregnant. I'm kind of high risk (I have epilepsy and anemia) so there's one thing to be...
    WildFlowerChild19 WildFlowerChild19 18-21, F Jan 4

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    I started seeing this guy in September and things ended in November because my job kept me from seeing him. The day after things ended, (which to be honest was more his decision...
    bariel17 bariel17 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 10

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    So, my boyfriend and I weren't thinking and some stuff happened over break... We didn't use protection.... I am 16... I am scared that if I am pregnant, my parents will kick me out...
    xxbrokengirl98xx xxbrokengirl98xx 16-17, F Jan 5

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    22 weeks pregnant ^__^ I'm so excited and scared,
    treya15 treya15 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    pregnant and telling my mom the news today. nails biting scared
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    I am pregnant and this is my first time. I didn't plan it, but it happened and I plan on keeping it. Morning sickness has been kicking my butt that I am worried to sleep cause I...
    calypsomadness calypsomadness 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    This all has been so traumatic for me. I'm 26 years old and the father of this baby is 31. I have one child, he has no children. We were together for 5 years. When I had my...
    Brokenwings03 Brokenwings03 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm scared of guys I don't know why I just always have been its stopped me getting in to relationships I'm shy aswell. There is one guy I'm not scared of and he's asked me out...
    anestacia anestacia 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Yes I am pregnant, but the pregnancy wasn't planned and I'm nervous. The father knows, and he's happy for the both of us. I'm not getting an abortion btw
    addielove addielove 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    still wanting to get pregnant. getting discouraged.
    nurturingwoman nurturingwoman 41-45, F 16 Responses Jan 3

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    It's probably not smart to surprise a woman by letting her know you plan on getting her pregnant while having unprotected sex, but I did it anyway. I'll share the story in the...
    Oracler Oracler 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Correction; I'm scared of falling in love again. I'm scared of the heartbreak that will come when we break up out of nowhere, I'm scared of getting too used and attached to him...
    Kayleehere Kayleehere 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Anyone fancy getting a 16 year old pregnant? Message me below x
    Claudiahopefullymumtobe Claudiahopefullymumtobe 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    Anyone fancy getting a 16 year old pregnant? Only accepting 16-18 England, msg me x
    Claudiahopefullymumtobe Claudiahopefullymumtobe 16-17, F Jan 9

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    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Jan 9

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    So this guy and I have known for 4 years got together and after a month we had sex. We didn't use a condom and he said he didn't c** in me, well two days later I called him and...
    imateenagewasteland imateenagewasteland 16-17, F Jan 18

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    and the saga continues...the closer we get to the child support hearing next month the meaner he becomes. Most Fridays he was getting the kids, so I could work weekends. During...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    We were both 41. She wanted me to knock her up a few years before. Unlike previously, it had taken a few months of (very fun) trying. So I didn't think she was very fertile any...
    devotedhusband devotedhusband 46-50, M 18 hrs ago

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    It's not that I am scared of relationships all together. I am terrified of getting into a bad one and wasting time learning what doesn't work.
    Letmebepatient Letmebepatient 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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