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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2010

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    As a girl still in high school,

    it is one of my worst fears to get pregnant. Not only will I have to deal with the baby when it comes, but I'd be labeled as "That pregnant chick." Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with this fear, they get all that pleasure while we have to grow a human in us. Not...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 11

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    I'm really scared that I'm gonna be pregnant.

    I had unprotected sex with a guy who already has two kids and he ********** in me. I take bc but I'm not very consistent and I'm scared as hell. I can't get pregnant right now. I still can't support myself and my parents would disown me if I was pregnant. Scared as hell. I've...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Terrified actually! 😫 To think one day there

    will be a human growing inside of me scares the hell out of me.
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I just had surgery for endometriosis, and so now is the best time for my husband and I to try to get pregnant. We are really excited at the prospect of becoming parents, but I was...
    kdav12 kdav12 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am 28. I have wanted kids since i was about 21. But i knew i was young, i wasn't financially stable and i hadn't met the right person. I have been with my fiance for 5 years now...
    babylust28 babylust28 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    All my friends are getting pregnant and I wonder when it will be my turn.
    LauraJones14 LauraJones14 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 11

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    For those of you who don't know, in July I got pregnant and had a miscarriage at about five weeks. For the last few months, I've been dealing with it as best I can. I have...
    ReesesPeaces ReesesPeaces 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    Nearly 8 weeks pregnant and hubby left.. trying to be positive but scared inside..
    hnz90 hnz90 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Yes, I am very pregnant and have not mentioned it here until now. I am 7 1/2 months pregnant and will be due on February 14, 2015. There is another immediate family member...
    happymaturemom happymaturemom 36-40, F 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I'm really anxious because I skipped my period for the month of November, and while I normally do have irregular periods (I didn't get my period in August either) things are...
    ryan2496 ryan2496 18-21, F Dec 12

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    I love getting my belly rubbed it's so soothing
    hellone1 hellone1 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I love pregnant women. I think they're sexier than non-pregnant women. I would be happy to rub your belly for you. I always assumed that it irritated pregnant women.
    analsexn69lvr3 analsexn69lvr3 46-50, M 17 hrs ago

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    i want a relationship but dont want to put myself out there an chance getting hurt im so complicated WHY
    FatGirlSwag FatGirlSwag 26-30, F 23 mins ago

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    I've been trying to get pregnant for months now. I just got through my cycle, so I hope I get pregnant soon.
    Impregme Impregme 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    All my life I've played it safe and never did anything dangerous like drugs i dont even like to drink that much but i have had my moments i try to play it safe then my friends call...
    leon625 leon625 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I love girls with a huge belly. I love to use a belly too. Talk, seen and feel a pregnant women is the best in my life. I want to talk with you for rub your belly!! pm
    bellysammet bellysammet 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I'm 15 and my 16th birthday is next month. Today I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I told my boyfriend that I think I'm pregnant and he seemed scared. He said "this is...
    baileebae baileebae 13-15, F Dec 3

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    I have to clear just a little thing up. When I say that I want to get pregnant, I do not mean that I am looking for men to message me saying that they will get me pregnant. I have...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 16

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    So like the title says ^ I'm pregnant and single...I'm 21 and my fiancé and I were going to get married in a few weeks but we broke up and now I'm just pregnant and single :/ I'm...
    scarlettroses scarlettroses 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 19

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    Not even a week after Thanksgiving and my sweatpants are tight! The waist band is resting below my belly and digging into me! My hips are also pulling at the fabric :/ My weight...
    MJ123321 MJ123321 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 2

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    My fiance and I decided last night that during my Christmas break from college we are going to start trying to get pregnant!!!!! I'm super excited and kind of scared..... Any...
    BabyFox1995 BabyFox1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    Once again I'm in the same situation a year later. I had an abortion a year ago which was really rough for me. I aborted at 18 weeks I waited so late because In the back of my mind...
    Latricehar Latricehar 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5

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    Yes I'm scared of relationships. Every time I have liked a guy and tried going for it they would hurt me before we even got into the relationship so I have been scared of getting...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 10

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    After eleven years of marriage, my husband and I separated on the advice of a marriage counsellor while still attending marriage counselling sessions. Big mistake. We also already...
    canelabunz canelabunz 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 19

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    Well, where do I begin? I've wanted a baby my whole life. I can't wait to hold my bundle of joy in my arms. I got pregnant in March of 2013 and miscarried in May 2013. My due date...
    babygirl325 babygirl325 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 2

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    My brother scared me yesterday I freaked out and elbowed him in the face by accident because i was leaning backwards. I guess its not weird to hurt people when you scared but i...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F Dec 4

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    I really would like to have a child, but my boyfriend doesn't want babies. He says that babies are ugly, smelly, cry everytime and so on. I don't think so, I only think that he is...
    soliDeogloria soliDeogloria 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 9

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    I'm almost completely sure I am pregnant. I was supposed to get my period yesterday and it didn't come and it still hasn't. I had sex exactly 5 days ago. I don't know if its...
    xxbrokendreamsx xxbrokendreamsx 13-15 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I thought it would be kind of cute to add a pregnancy survey for all us ladies to take! 1. What's the one thing you would change about pregnancy? I'd love to eliminate nausea...
    thejoneses thejoneses 22-25, F Dec 13

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    I had unprotected sex. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. we are a really happy couple so we decided talking about a family. well one night we had sex but now I'm scared. idk what to...
    brittanyandhunter14 brittanyandhunter14 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I can't stop right now feels so good to have my clothes constantly getting tighter
    Chubbyhubby230 Chubbyhubby230 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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