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I Am Scared of Getting Pregnant

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    As a girl still in high school,

    it is one of my worst fears to get pregnant. Not only will I have to deal with the baby when it comes, but I'd be labeled as "That pregnant chick." Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with this fear, they get all that pleasure while we have to grow a human in us. Not...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 11

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    Scared of Getting Pregnant

    I'm really scared of getting pregnant, me & my partner both want kids, I'm 28 now and have kept on putting it off each year cuz i am really scared. I want 2 kids of my own. My dad died unexpectedly nearly 4 years ago, whom I was close to. Since then I have suffered panic...
    shellsy shellsy 26-30 6 Responses May 19, 2008

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    If only there was a way to have sex without

    getting pregnant. Nothing's 100% but I wish there was.
    Senoritacoco Senoritacoco 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    I Hope I Don't Get Pregnant.

    I'm not sure where this fear of getting pregnant stems from, but I've been scared for awhile now of pregnancy.  I'm afraid of being on anti-depressants if I get pregnant, afraid of not being a good mother because I don't know how to put my foot down and say no to even the...
    Zarita Zarita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I Need Someones Help

    4 months ago i lost my virginity and we didn't use protection, we used the "pull out" method and i know for a fact that he didnt ********* inside me. but that was back in may. later on in may i got my period, in june i got my period and in july i got my period. i usually get it...
    hannzy hannzy 16-17 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Fear of Pregnacy Affects My Life

    I have a deep seated fear of pregnancy. I really do not want children. I know there is birth control, but I am afraid of that failing. I feel more comfortable if I use condoms and birth control, but so many men seem to not want to use them! I really have been...
    ChihuahuaSweetheart ChihuahuaSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Terrified

    Is a much better term, the more I think about it the more I am sure it has had a much bigger influence on my lack of a sex life than I had ever realized. No, I am definitely not ready for that, not even close. And I'm not sure I ever will be.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Worries

    I am 26, married, and living in a house with my husband with a stable income. I am just scared that I am making a mistake if I have a baby. I don't know if you heard that Kim Kardashian is expecting (shouldn't she wait until she's divorced?) and it was a HUGE deal. I'm scared...
    ellelovelyelle1234 ellelovelyelle1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Scared To Lose Another Baby....

    I don't want to go through the same bitter situation again. I don't want to experience another miscarriage. I lost the first want one early this year. The baby was just about 7 weeks. The fetal heartbeat just stopped. I really don't want the same thing to happen again.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Help

    Folks I am 40 yrs old was on the combined pill from the age of 15 due to horrendous periods but bled regularly from the age of 8 (very young) got taken of Logynon a few months ago and put on Cerazette (mini pill) cause of my age and weight. Now cause I do not take a period I am...
    scared40 scared40 36-40 Jul 13, 2012

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    Not Ready Yet

    I'm currently in the middle of a pregnancy scare and I've decided to take a test tomorrow but getting through tonight has been rough. I'm about to enter my senior year of college and I'm just not ready and I can't finish school if I am pregnant. I know I'm being paranoid because...
    seeker92 seeker92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I've Been Pregnant Once And Scared Of Getting Pregnant Again, :(

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a baby. Im only 16 and he is 17 and it's affecting our sex lives as i'm terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm finding it hard to chose a good contraception. I can tell he is annoyed with me but he won't admit. What...
    buttonsx buttonsx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Pregnant & Terrified That My Marriage Will Fall Apart...

    I have recently found out that I am pregnant, although I was pretty confident I was pregnant prior to taking the test. I have been married for 2 years and have a wonderful, loving and supportive husband. We are both 27 years old (or will be by the time the baby comes). We are...
    aburns20551 aburns20551 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Beyond Scared

    I'm scared of getting pregnant because I don't trust anyone to be there for me if it were to happen. No one. How do I know this? Easy. I've been pregnant in the past. It was the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. My guy who got me pregnant (my ex) was flipping...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2010

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    My Boyfriend and I Are Careful

    We take all of the right precautions, but i still get scared that I might get pregnant someday and I won't know until it is too late to do something about it. I don't want to raise a child in an environment that is financially unstable.  It would be cruel to do that to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Terrified actually! 😫 To think one day there

    will be a human growing inside of me scares the hell out of me.
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Worried

    I think I'm pregnant and I'm freaked out. I waited until I had an anxiety attack to take a home pregnancy test by myself. I can't tell if it's positive or negative and I really can't handle retaking it alone. I was breaking down in tears and hitting myself in the lower stomach...
    DragonflySolo76 DragonflySolo76 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    I'm really scared that I'm gonna be pregnant.

    I had unprotected sex with a guy who already has two kids and he ********** in me. I take bc but I'm not very consistent and I'm scared as hell. I can't get pregnant right now. I still can't support myself and my parents would disown me if I was pregnant. Scared as hell. I've...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I'Ll Have No Family

    I'm so scared. I'm 14 and I know that my mum would hate me forever if I became pregnant. Every time that my boyfriend and I have sex, I consider all the consequences and dismiss them. Why? I'm so stupid! I've even gone so far as to pray that I don't lose my reason when my...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    And want to speak to other women about it. It was the most terrifying experience of my life. One I didn't think I was going to live through at the time. It's funny how your mind...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    This is getting directed towards any girl who is less than 20 years old... More and more teenagers are getting pregnant these days, and it's really sad in my opinion. Like we hear...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 27

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    The thought of a 12-15 year olds getting pregnant makes me sick. Why are you people even having sex at 12? Damn, when I was 12 I barely knew what sex was, I hated boys at 12 and...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28

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    I've always thought about it, and loved the thought of being pregnant young. I love children! You will always see me pointing out cute babies anywhere I go. I'm 15 right now and I...
    MissJazmineeeee MissJazmineeeee 13-15, F 11 Responses Sep 28

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    Yes continue to judge . I feel really bad about it because I'm a good student and I knew the consequence about having unprotected sex but still did it .. I had a little girl named...
    toobreezzee toobreezzee 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    Before you start judging me, listen to my story and try to understand. I'm primarily here for support, guidance and help. I'm a young women who just landed her first corporate job...
    brokendreams123 brokendreams123 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    My boyfriend and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past year and a half but nothing has happened, I know that we can but were not. I get so sad when I see my friends and...
    YummyKupkakes YummyKupkakes 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28

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    I just want it to be my turn soooooooooo badly. I'm starting to wonder if I will ever get the chance to have a baby. There r things wrong with my body that might keep me from...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    So me and my boyfriend had sex 9 days ago and again 7 days ago and he ********** in me both times, I have my periods every two weeks and its due today but it hasn't come yet, what...
    Tiaa23 Tiaa23 13-15 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I am pregnant with twins 7 months far.... I was dating a guy until last year but he left me and now I am all alone in this.... I would love to chat with people about my pregnancy...
    vickkyy123s vickkyy123s 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    First off, I'm going to start this out by saying I had an abortion about 5 years ago, you was not there to experience why I had one, so don't judge me for my actions. I was almost...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Possible pregnant, Single, and potential baby daddy is getting married in two days. Terrified.
    Bluetoothfairy Bluetoothfairy 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    just about 2 years in the beginning of December 2012 I lied about being pregnant to my boyfriend. See I thought I was because my period was late and j went 2 months without even...
    livelaughlove08642 livelaughlove08642 18-21, F Sep 29

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    I'm 15 and I'm 11 weeks pregnant and I don't want to be but I can't get rid of the fact I might Love what it is im carrying may it be a boy or a little girl. I'm turning 16 in 9...
    Abbey0910 Abbey0910 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 1

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    I found out something today which didn't make me so happy. I'm 21 years old and I'm pregnant. I took the pregnancy test thing and it turn positive. I literally fell to the ground I...
    x3myonewish x3myonewish 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm 10 week pregnant, and this sounds cruel but as I said earlier I can't keep the baby. And I've booked to go to the "Private Clinic" next Friday to get an abortion. I made the...
    x3myonewish x3myonewish 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Im 15, The father he's 16. i was in love(thought) we planned for a baby, i went along not second guessing, i first took the test nine days after it was negative..... now just a few...
    BumpsInTheRoad BumpsInTheRoad 13-15, F 9 Responses Oct 1

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    I am 21 weeks pregnant with my first. It is a boy and I am very excited. I am also losing my mind. It's nerve wrecking knowing that your entire life is about to change. My fiance...
    nickimagee nickimagee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    I'm living alone since December. I was ok I thought but it's getting harder. I feel scared in the house at night. My neighbours were broken into and that was when I started...
    seattlebabe76 seattlebabe76 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My husband and I found out just a week before our wedding in July that I was pregnant! I was so excited because I thought that I couldn't have children (no cycles for one year, on...
    eroshiyda eroshiyda 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 29

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    I honestly believed that this man...no, scratch that..this boy would never cheat on me. We have known each other for roughly ten years which is most of our lives. We had our fair...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I am pregnant again now with twins this time. I already have two teenagers one boy and one girl. I am due on December 23rd. I am very happy, glowing, and getting the babies room...
    singlepregnantmom singlepregnantmom 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    I can't wait to have another baby. I know that right now, it would be bad timing. But if I were to ever get pregnant, I would keep it. Especially since it would be with somebody I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to be pregnant, and I want to have a baby. I'm only 18, so I know it's not a good idea yet. My boyfriend and I love each other, we plan on getting married, but we have to...
    Veronicaculture Veronicaculture 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well, it happened. I've lost the person I love. He's gone. He presented what he thought would be deal breakers for me in this relationship, and I accepted them. He left me anyway...
    NastasyaFilippovna NastasyaFilippovna 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm going to the doctors tomorrow...:( because I cut myself to deep and my mom found out, so she's getting me some help:/ first she looked at me like I was stupid, then a little...
    jeyhere jeyhere 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    ok so maybe I don't know for a fact I'm actually pregnant that's what I need y'all's opinion for please!!! So last Sunday me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he cummed in...
    ImAPandaBear ImAPandaBear 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 1

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    I am scared... I'm only 15..... I told my dad and he won't even talk to me anymore...
    Bellacallidora Bellacallidora 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 6

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    Hi everyone, I am sort of new at this so I hope this goes right. well I am going to be a mom soon, I'm due in Fed. I very scared at don't know what to expect to come, But I hope...
    kiraj1 kiraj1 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I am sort of new at this so I hope this goes right. well I am going to be a mom soon, I'm due in Fed. I very scared at don't know what to expect to come, But I hope...
    kiraj1 kiraj1 13-15, F 5 days ago

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