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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    my hands, Your hands Tight up like two ships Drifting, weightless waves try to break it I'd do anything to save it why is it so hard to save it? my heart, Your heart sit tight...
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    I am a social anxious, extremely shy guy... I met a girl on a mental illness forum (First girl I ever talked to)... She is 5 years older than me... we talked (through private...
    awkwardguy23 awkwardguy23 18-21, M Jul 12

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    Cause i don't know how it feels when you are in love. Many has said that you're funny, cute and kind heart but no one has ever said that i love you or i like you. And when i tried...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Today i will never forget because today I really saw you and you really saw me. Today I looked into your eyes and felt you. You held me in your arms letting me know i was safe...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I always have been I always will be, because your beautiful because your everything I ever wanted, and my dreams don't come true. I am so scared I'll lose you that I do everything...
    FeelingAmazingRightNow FeelingAmazingRightNow 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I always have been I always will be, because your beautiful because your everything I ever wanted, and my dreams don't come true. I am so scared I'll lose you that I do everything...
    FeelingAmazingRightNow FeelingAmazingRightNow 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I didn't realize that I could actually grow to tolerate him much less fall in love. He was the guy I saw Bye Bye Birdie with. The guy who taught me how to work a light board...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm terrified my mom is going to get a check-up at the doctors soon and I'm just so scared that she's gonna be diagnosed with cancer I've been crying for about 20 minutes now...
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I thought I'd write a story and for the first time I plan on it being absolutely positive. Back in 2009 when my life was starting to fall apart, I joined an online chat programme...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm just scared yanno. I'm scared that I won't be able to handle the up coming events.
    littlebigkid littlebigkid 16-17, M Jul 22

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    For the past 8 years of my 'life' I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. They say it's meant to get better, but every day just gets harder. I'm almost starting to feel...
    36chambers86 36chambers86 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have finally accepted that i have lost what i had for my husband a long time ago, maybe i have held on for so long because i have been scared to be on my own. I know my mental...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 3

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    I'm scared everyday to lose the people I care about lost. All day long I think about them and I hope that they are all okay❤️ All I want is for them to be safe and happy. If...
    bebe805 bebe805 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I think about you all the time ;'( , I can't go a night without crying , you are everything to me with you I wasn't scared I wasnt sad .. Every night I'm so scared , you screaming...
    TheDeadvoices TheDeadvoices 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Kenny Chesney - I Lost It Lyrics I had a hundred dollar ring in my hand So weak and tired I could barely stand From being up all night, prayin' she'd say yes So with a hopeful...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My dog Ginger. Brown little chow/Doberman mix. She'll be 15 the end of this month. I love her so much. I was 10 months old when my parents brought her home. I don't remember it...
    TheMonsterCookie TheMonsterCookie 13-15, M Jul 8

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    My boyfriends internet was down, all that worrying for nothing, I'm extremely happy and relieved, can't wait to see him tomorrow! Last day of school then work experience love my...
    Danosaurphilion Danosaurphilion 13-15, F Jul 10

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    When I first became a Christian...I experienced immense peace and joy. A new outlook, a new wisdom..the Bible was my best friend. And not because it was my first time hearing the...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am currently 14, When I was about four I lost my mom in a vicious custody battle. I lived with my dad and did not see my mom at all. I met my grandparents a while before i lost...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I let my fears get in the way of our perfect relationship and started our first fight after a year and a half. Now he says he needs some time to think. He says he needs space. He...
    jess1994 jess1994 18-21, F Jul 22

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    Best workout song- I see this life Like a swinging vine Swing my heart across the line In my face is flashing signs Seek it out and ye shall find Old, but I'm not that old Young...
    Katerinro Katerinro 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Six weeks since I’ve been away And now you’re saying everything has changed And I’m afraid that I might be losing you And every night that we spend alone, Could be thinking...
    IzzyIrwin IzzyIrwin 13-15, F Jul 23

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    FINALLY seeing results: My Transformation Story-- I have been having a very hard time losing weight since I decided I was TOO out of shape about a year ago. I had just ended a...
    redbeard83 redbeard83 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I can't take it anymore, I need help.... I'm losing it
    StephanyS StephanyS 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Would love to know one day that someone I care about losing actually cares about losing me as well maybe even more than I care about losing them....but I guess I better keep...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I feel like I'm losing myself completely. As if the person I had known all my life growing up is leaving and I am honestly really unhappy about it. The term “I love you, you're...
    Lucile199 Lucile199 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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