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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    I am scared, I need to change jobs

    and although the change is needed and I want it I can't help but feel like this is going to ruin things. I am scared that I will hate it, that I won't get along with people and the the job will slowly wear me down to nothing. I am terrified that this will ruin us, I am so...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M Oct 9

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    What's there to be scared of?

    I lost love. It only cleaved my heart and soul in two, and left me nothing but a husk of a person... no joy, no happiness, no reason to exist. Yea, nothing to be scared of there (!).
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    You Can

    Who am I ? I would say that Im pretty open minded,not very judgemental. I have a good amount of information in my brain and commen sence,but I like to goof around sometimes. Im good at keeping secrets. I sometimes act mellow and calm in certain situations/enviorments so that...
    indeed16 indeed16 18-21 5 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    I rather loose love and be single,

    than to be in a relationship and be half loved. I feel like I'm a part time girlfriend. Never thought I'd be in a relationship that only lasted 2 1/2 months. I feel like finding a dark cave and crying in it for a few days
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    It's happened so many times before. I'm so afraid to truly open up my heart to him. Even though he's told me 1000's of times he'll never hurt me... I just can't allow myself to...
    embercakezz1999 embercakezz1999 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    So my ex called me, asking for me to forgive him for what was said! He explained how he never meant to make me feel like that way. He was simply joking... I told him regardless...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I didn't grow up in a romantic family. Truthfully, I've never seen my parents kiss AT ALL. It's kinda sad. I'm super picky on boys and have never had a boyfriend. Of course I've...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Every time I let myself get too close I get hurt. In my last relationship he actually knew everything about me but ended up treating me like trash. I'm done and over with him but I...
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 20

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    I once had a HUGE crush on this one particular guy and was obsessed with him for like 7 years. YIKES. Then one day I finally got the courage to tell him I like him. Then, he told...
    Faustina2001 Faustina2001 13-15, F a week ago

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    One Broken heart means it's just one step closer to happily ever after! So let every heart break in the past go and move on.
    Faustina2001 Faustina2001 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Never trust someone who hurt you once. Once they hurt you, if they made you cry, made your heart broke, let that person go. Never trust them again because they might hurt u more.
    Faustina2001 Faustina2001 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    We are texting right now. It's 6 am here. I told him I heard sirens, I wanted to make sure he's ok. He's a cop and that's one of my regular fears. That something will happen to him...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I'm a girl and I think I've fallen in love with my best friend. We were friends since kindergarten and primary school, we were never lost contact to each other. But normally to all...
    sherlock183 sherlock183 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Why didn't I just let him kiss me tonight ... :( He was holding me so tight I fell my body melting next to his . Am afraid that once he kisses me I will love him and never want...
    Verano93 Verano93 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I met this guy about a month ago at school. We've been best friends ever since:) But then I realized I could no longer feel emotion. I felt nothing when we kissed. I just felt...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F Sep 28

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    Hold up Hold on Don't be scared You'll never change what's been and gone May your smile (may your smile) Shine on (shine on) Don't be scared (don't be scared) Your destiny...
    AdamV13 AdamV13 70+, M 3 hrs ago

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    Well of course I am! That would be pretty silly if I loved someone, lost them and life continued normally. I am so scared of losing the people that mean the most to me. I love them...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Oct 2

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    I'm in a seriouse relationship with this wonderful man who means the world to me, and who loves me very much. I've been torturing myself with doubts and fears. You see, I have a...
    Emilia94 Emilia94 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm living alone since December. I was ok I thought but it's getting harder. I feel scared in the house at night. My neighbours were broken into and that was when I started...
    seattlebabe76 seattlebabe76 36-40 4 hrs ago

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    Ok so here is the thing she is my best best friend and she is easy to talk to i mean conversations follows simply , she is goofy and a little wired kinda like me , she got bullied...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm scared of losing everything again. I have been through some of the worst things possible and I have come a long way from all that. I'm doing so well. I've been clean and sober...
    angelwings1998 angelwings1998 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    My best friend is the only person I have. I love her more than anything in the whole world. She just started dating our other friend, and I think I might be jealous of him. I don't...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 4

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    I used to much more. I felt like at anytime they would siappear and that's a self fulfilling prophecy. My codependent behavior made me do a lot to try for them to not leave ... I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    The more time I am alone, the more I realize some things. You'd think I'd tell myself this relationship was no good for me, but I'm not. The reason why we are struggling is obvious...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Oblivion I always see and hear the word called Oblivion, i thought it is beautiful, an art but i saw the true meaning of this word; i never thought it would scare me. Oblivion is...
    LittleMiss04 LittleMiss04 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The first time i tried it i was 14 my boyfriend dared me to do it and even though i was scared i took them all off and jumped in. The lake belonged to a man that he worked for...
    deb72 deb72 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My best friend is a firefighter and I am beyond scared of losing him.. That EVERYTIME the pager goes off, I say a silent prayer
    missmorgan3400 missmorgan3400 18-21, F Oct 7

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    So I gave my heart away about 3 times and I was crushed each time is it wrong for me to be scared to want to tell the person I like that I like them?
    PatriciaHope PatriciaHope 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I would probably win the lottery 30 times before I could get Ebola in the U.S , I love being here :3 ... I can sneeze and cough and then tell the person next to me I have Ebola and...
    Attzero Attzero 13-15, M 1 Response 42 mins ago