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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    MIXED Feelings... - There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love. - I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    Happiness - I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody...
    michalmos michalmos 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love - I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please. - Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Everyday - I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic - He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    I Love His So Much - I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    Forget - i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Scared - of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that...
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    So Much So - That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 30 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    I Never Knew - i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    By Myself - I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone - I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    My Love - i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By - I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    Who Isn't? - It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Ability To Love - I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    We Are Losing Each Other - Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Its easy to say, that I am hard on myself, I always have been. Some say that I may be a bit too hard on myself, and that may be true too, but something that I am learning as some...
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    I woke up this morning to a terrifying realization. I have lived my 26 years on this life never to call anyone a significant other. I have never so much laid my head on...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm kind of scared of love because I may never find it
    UltimateGamer11 UltimateGamer11 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    If there is one thing I'm truly scared of inside, it's losing the people I truly love and care about. And losing the ones that truly love and care about me...
    ajl04 ajl04 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Most people do. Before I had my own I really hated it when people would say you don't understand what its like to be a parent unless you are one. I had so much love for my friends...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I have this fear of losing you. The fear of not having you beside me. The thought of you being gone and out of a sudden your love towards me change. That one day you decided to...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F a week ago

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    "The crown weighs heavy, heavy as I sit back in my throne" —Kongos; Hey I Don't Know "I'm only joking. I don't mean a thing I've said. What are you smoking? I'm just-a...
    Professionalgriefer Professionalgriefer 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    RobbLau RobbLau 26-30, M Apr 7

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    Below will be my understanding of the word LOVE between a man and a women. Too often, the misconception of this word can be conflicting, deceived, mistrusted, thrown around and...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not a trusting person in general so when it comes to loving people I always am scared to get attached, and when I do I'm always scared to lose them.
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F Mar 19

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    I scared. I'm scared of losing any more weight, but scared of gaining more at the same time. I was diagnosed with anorexia, and I always throw up everything i had eaten. what...
    roseinsurvival roseinsurvival 13-15 Apr 4

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    I have a question friends ..... Have you ever been so scared to see that one person you once loved ? 💭 🙈 or nahhhhhhhh ? My answer is I will be scared but at the same time...
    Revelyn Revelyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    She's more of a sister to me but I'm really scared I might mess up do something and lose her just like the rest. She's my best friend and I don't wanna lose her but sometimes I...
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have been friends with this boy for nearly 2 years now and when we first met we had a little thing together and we dated but only for a few days as I was scared of relationships...
    hannsmithh hannsmithh 13-15, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Counting stars :) Lately, I've been, I've been losing sleepDreaming about the things that we could beBut baby, I've been, I've been praying hard,Said, no more counting dollarsWe...
    iloveAdamL iloveAdamL 70+ Apr 3

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    What is this thing people call distance Is it me, or does it just seem imprinted That love will never die, when you're by my side And when our lips touch, my life is complete When...
    halo198 halo198 51-55, M Mar 19

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    soo.. my beautiful best friend is going through so much at the moment, don't want to say too much in case she finds this ahha, but I know I've been scared that I'm going to wake up...
    tabbyrose234 tabbyrose234 16-17, F Mar 21

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    Like , I feel like I cant even put up with myself. How do I be satisfied with myself . Almost Everyone I love ends up leaving. I keep getting broken up with and im so good to the...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I wrote this as a confession over a year ago... I was terrified of losing him, I had no idea what I'd do without him... and to be honest I still don't. I take it day by day. I miss...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 4

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    I'm scared to fet too close. Whenever I do get close to anyone, I alway end up losing them over self doubt. I always wonder, "why did you choose me? i'm nothing special." And i'm...
    foolishlylovingthee foolishlylovingthee 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I stare at my reflection in the mirror: "Why am I doing this to myself?" Losing my mind on a tiny error, I nearly left the real me on the shelf. No, no, no, no, no... Don't lose...
    ayeitskenzie101 ayeitskenzie101 16-17, F Mar 17

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    My mum has stage 3 lung cancer, which means its spread to her bones. She hid it from us until now. She made up every excuse to go to the doctor. Shes only 36. Shes being moved to a...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M Mar 25

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    Hiya :) Sooooo I kinda freaking out hahaha I'm 29. Male. I live in Sydney Australia, I'm pretty healthy and never been in hospital before. Yesturday I was admitted. I am losing...
    Inpuov Inpuov 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm losing my house. I'm afraid that we won't have anywhere to go when the time comes. It's all I can think of. So I'm not sleeping. I'm doing my best to keep my head up but all I...
    xtimeb0mbxx xtimeb0mbxx 18-21, F a week ago

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    Exams are soon. If anything, these are the most important ones in my life. I'm an all A-A* student, but I've lost my motivation. I don't know if it's because I'm destructed my...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Memphis May Fire - Sleepless NightsI stare deep down into the eyes of my nightmaresAs they come to lifeI feel my heart beat right out of my chestand I think I might be losing the...
    LittleRebelWolf LittleRebelWolf 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm afraid of losing my father , not least because he is family, but also because I did not want to lose it all , I love my dad , but I love my mom too, both are the best we have...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    BOBBY VINTON "Blue On Blue" Blue on blue, heartache on heartache Blue on blue now that we are through Blue on blue, heartache on heartache And I find I can't get over losing you...
    sherrianna sherrianna 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8