I Am Scared of Losing Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 415 People

    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
    31-35, F
    Apr 25, 2008

    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2007

    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover
    4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles
    22-25, F
    Oct 28, 2013


    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2011


    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2013
    charlieedwards charlieedwards
    18-21, M
    Nov 13, 2014

    My real life fear is becoming reality I don't

    no what to do I feel dizzy and sick I can't lose her she means so much to me but she wants time and I no if she has that I will lose her I can't compete.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
    41-45, M
    29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite
    Nov 12, 2012

    My boyfriend of a year always goes clubbing

    with his friends even on his birthday and New Years and all these special occasions and his friends do not like me. I don't like it at all and I tend to be quite of with him because the thought of him being around girls all night drunk out of his face with his friends telling...
    truehoe4eva truehoe4eva
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2012

    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

    You Can

    I would say that Im pretty open minded,not very judgemental. Im good at keeping secrets. I can be alot more friendly and enthusiastic than you probably think,It just depends on the envirorment that im in. The longer that I know someone the closer/more conected/comfortable I...
    indeed16 indeed16
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Nov 15, 2010

    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

    I'm struggling with crazy intensive mood swings

    so a lot of the time I end up feeling really depressed and isolated or angry and irritated for no reason at all the whole situation is taking its toll on me and it doesn't help that his mother hates me and is trying to sabotage our relationship . he gets into fights all the time...
    darkangle12 darkangle12
    18-21, F
    Apr 9, 2015

    This feeling all starts from a innocent comment

    I lay there I think I slowly drift off I dream about it happening I wake up in the middle of the night with tears in my eyes feeing sick, I go back off only to be woken by the same dream a few hours later with the same reaction and then I am awake which just gives me more time...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 30, 2015


    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2009

    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber
    18-21, F
    Oct 1, 2010

    I honestly feel lost,

    I love you to pieces and I want nothing more than to be with you But Looking at how the first week of my new job has gone, judging by how tired I am, and by the fact you haven't even been working and we barely talk can you honestly see it working? I sorry I had to write this on...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards
    18-21, M
    Nov 13, 2014


    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 12, 2012

    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2009

    I am scared, I need to change jobs

    and although the change is needed and I want it I can't help but feel like this is going to ruin things. I am scared that I will hate it, that I won't get along with people and the the job will slowly wear me down to nothing. I am terrified that this will ruin us, I am so...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards
    18-21, M
    Oct 9, 2014

    The one and only woman in my life

    that I really do love and care about is going through a real difficult time and I am failing her by not being there for her when she needs me because I am scared she will pull away from me and I am unintentionally pushing her away when all I want to do is pull her closer to me...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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