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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    My last boyfriend cheated on me 15 times I kept going back to him cause I felt like I'll be alone forever if I left him he made me feel like he was the only guy on this planted...
    tamaraiwannaknow tamaraiwannaknow 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Well that was proven correct.. I'm Lonely now.. I want a boyfriend again.. Presumably one in Canada, it'll make things easy
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F Aug 11

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    my hands, Your hands Tight up like two ships Drifting, weightless waves try to break it I'd do anything to save it why is it so hard to save it? my heart, Your heart sit tight...
    IzzyIrwin IzzyIrwin 13-15, F Jul 23

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    Love..Controversial topic isn't it. Does it suck or is the best thing to happen to a person. Its like one of the biggest risk you can take out there. Love obviously requires love...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 Aug 3

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    I know this is a bit different but my elderly dog who has been a major part of my life has two growths on his body and I can't afford to take him to the vet and I'm really scared...
    idiotheque idiotheque 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Frank Sinatra - my way And now, the end is near; And so I face the final curtain. My friend, I'll say it clear, I'll state my case, of which I'm certain. I've lived a life that's...
    fmercury fmercury 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    All my life, Ive been alone. My father killed himself while I was a child, causing my mom into a depression. I was alone at night. Never comforted, never feeling loved or wanted. I...
    JustPlainScared JustPlainScared 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    my mum not well :( im so scared of losing her... she just threw up soo much and shes slowly getting blind :( it hurts seeing her like this and rejecting to go hospital because she...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I'm falling in love. And its scary to me because i dont think it can be the same way I loved my past love, the one I know I would still have if he wasn't watching me from heaven...
    ForeverLoveGone ForeverLoveGone 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I love my grandma! She lives with us so she's been with me since I was born and I would say I'm very close to her. I call her mum lol. I'm scared of losing her and hate thinkin...
    champagneroses champagneroses 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I didn't realize that I could actually grow to tolerate him much less fall in love. He was the guy I saw Bye Bye Birdie with. The guy who taught me how to work a light board...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm terrified my mom is going to get a check-up at the doctors soon and I'm just so scared that she's gonna be diagnosed with cancer I've been crying for about 20 minutes now...
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    My boyfriend had open heart surgery 3 years ago. 2 years ago he suffered 2 strokes, most likely a complication of the surgery. Since then, I am constantly scared when I can't get...
    saralu923 saralu923 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm just scared yanno. I'm scared that I won't be able to handle the up coming events.
    littlebigkid littlebigkid 16-17, M Jul 22

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    Everyday for the past four years, I have been scared. It has basically just been my mom, brother, and I, and I became my mom's confidante when I was 13. I had to grow up really...
    SeemsEverythingGoesWrongInLife SeemsEverythingGoesWrongInLife 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I cannot exist without him. I don't think he can exist without me either. The problem is he doesn't even feel like existing. I don't want him to feel like a burden on me. His...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 10

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    I can't sleep. I can't get over the pain of knowing my partner is depressed and is pushing me away. I don't know what else to do. I so desperately want to feel loved. I need to...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I have been in a relationship for 9 years with a man I truly love and couldn't see my life without. However, I feel he truly is an alcoholic, although I never saw it before, maybe...
    karma553 karma553 26-30, F Aug 5

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    "Scare Away The Dark~Passenger" It's the meaning of life and it's streamed live on YouTube But I bet Gangnam Style will still get more views We're scared of drowning, flying and...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    The hole. My boyfriend was put in "the hole" yesterday. This sucks. I'm so scared all of his hard work will be for nothing after this. I don't think he can talk to me until he gets...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I don't mean to... I really don't but I've noticed that I don't eat much anymore and when I noticed I stopped not eating. But I was still losing pounds by days or weeks it scared...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think about you all the time ;'( , I can't go a night without crying , you are everything to me with you I wasn't scared I wasnt sad .. Every night I'm so scared , you screaming...
    TheDeadvoices TheDeadvoices 18-21, M Jul 27

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    I am a bit scared to admit this, but i am afraid to leave EP. I've made some good friends here. I mean i am here since may of 2013, i am here all day. I do need my friends, and if...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I don't know what to do for him. He randomly didn't speak to me all day yesterday, even though our conversation that morning was wonderful. I stayed up all night so I could be...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 10

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    So last fall was my first semester at college (I go to county college). In my basic freshman class (foundations for sucess) I met this great kid. I ended up getting feelings for...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I let my fears get in the way of our perfect relationship and started our first fight after a year and a half. Now he says he needs some time to think. He says he needs space. He...
    jess1994 jess1994 18-21, F Jul 22

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    My mom is everything to me. My dad left us when I was like 4 so she's all I really got. I am angry towards her sometimes about my life and situations I have but I love her so much...
    loneGmusic3 loneGmusic3 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    She's alway saying "If something ever happens to me.." Like No . Nothing can ever happen to you !! You fund my present, my future, my life. You are who I go on adventures with. We...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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