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I Am Scared of Losing Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 424 People

    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 22-25, F Oct 28, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 7, 2011

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    You Can

    Who am I ? I would say that Im pretty open minded,not very judgemental. I have a good amount of information in my brain and commen sence,but I like to goof around sometimes. Im good at keeping secrets. I sometimes act mellow and calm in certain situations/enviorments so that...
    indeed16 indeed16 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    I am scared, I need to change jobs

    and although the change is needed and I want it I can't help but feel like this is going to ruin things. I am scared that I will hate it, that I won't get along with people and the the job will slowly wear me down to nothing. I am terrified that this will ruin us, I am so...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M Oct 9, 2014

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    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M Nov 13, 2014

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    What's there to be scared of?

    I lost love. It only cleaved my heart and soul in two, and left me nothing but a husk of a person... no joy, no happiness, no reason to exist. Yea, nothing to be scared of there (!).
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2014

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    I'm struggling with crazy intensive mood swings

    so a lot of the time I end up feeling really depressed and isolated or angry and irritated for no reason at all the whole situation is taking its toll on me and it doesn't help that his mother hates me and is trying to sabotage our relationship . he gets into fights all the time...
    darkangle12 darkangle12 18-21, F Apr 9

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    The one and only woman in my life

    that I really do love and care about is going through a real difficult time and I am failing her by not being there for her when she needs me because I am scared she will pull away from me and I am unintentionally pushing her away when all I want to do is pull her closer to me...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    My boyfriend of a year always goes clubbing

    with his friends even on his birthday and New Years and all these special occasions and his friends do not like me. I don't like it at all and I tend to be quite of with him because the thought of him being around girls all night drunk out of his face with his friends telling...
    truehoe4eva truehoe4eva 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I honestly feel lost,

    I love you to pieces and I want nothing more than to be with you But Looking at how the first week of my new job has gone, judging by how tired I am, and by the fact you haven't even been working and we barely talk can you honestly see it working? I sorry I had to write this on...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M Nov 13, 2014

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    My real life fear is becoming reality I don't

    no what to do I feel dizzy and sick I can't lose her she means so much to me but she wants time and I no if she has that I will lose her I can't compete.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Not scared.. terrified. I stay up all night worrying. I worry if someone gets in a car. I worry when it rains. When I was in elementary school I would purposely make myself sick...
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    i am scared of losing my other half. i get increasingly scared now as me and my other half are in different school now. due to all the arguments before maybe our love is nt the...
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    Boyfriend of 4 years and me (in LDR) are currently in a break. 1.5 months ago he told me he is not happy anymore and not sure that he still wants a future with me. I realize that...
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    I'm booking myself a one-way flight I gotta see the color in your eyes Yeah tellin' myself I'm gonna be alright Without you baby is a waste of time Yeah, our first date, girl, the...
    ItsJustRebecca ItsJustRebecca 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I really really want a close successful relationship but I am so scared of also losing that person and I am just also scared of getting close in general. I am tired of getting...
    FFPower FFPower 22-25, M 2 Responses May 14

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    That time, two years ago now, I got stuck in the bathroom because of the zombies outside I wasted two hours scared in the middle of the night It's almost back to that I'm terrified...
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    I am 48 years old. I know it's coming soon. I'm afraid of what menopause is going to do to my sex life. I'm afraid of losing desire, I'm afraid of losing the ability of having...
    Janna78 Janna78 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I'm one of those people that have this enormous imagination that gets dangerous at times. It's been happening before, but for the last week I've been sleeping tighter and dreaming...
    TunedOut TunedOut 16-17, F May 4

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    I'm losing my best friend to the attention of someone else. It honestly used to be me and her against the whole world now its just me alone while she gets other friends and does...
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    I want to lose my virginity, but I'm scared. Sometimes I think about what other people will think, and sometimes I think I'm not old enough but I really want to. I'm afraid of...
    thegirlwithloveinhereyes thegirlwithloveinhereyes 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    quietfighter quietfighter 18-21, M 1 Response May 2

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