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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 7, 2011

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    my mom has a diabetes and it's so high. she gets like 300, she did go to the doctor, she's taking medication, and last time her diabetes had lower to 200 something, but she just...
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    I think I'm just too cynical to believe in love. Don't get me wrong I love my independence but it's nice to have someone in your corner now and again. I want to believe in love...
    Ribsy83 Ribsy83 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm scared I'm losing my best friend and u know there isn't a great deal I can do about it
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It sounds silly since I'm only 20, but I'm scared of growing older. I'm scared of increasing health threats as my age gets older, scared of wrinkles scared of getting bigger if I...
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    All my life, Ive been alone. My father killed himself while I was a child, causing my mom into a depression. I was alone at night. Never comforted, never feeling loved or wanted. I...
    JustPlainScared JustPlainScared 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm falling in love. And its scary to me because i dont think it can be the same way I loved my past love, the one I know I would still have if he wasn't watching me from heaven...
    ForeverLoveGone ForeverLoveGone 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I love my grandma! She lives with us so she's been with me since I was born and I would say I'm very close to her. I call her mum lol. I'm scared of losing her and hate thinkin...
    champagneroses champagneroses 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I dont watch much sports on T.V anymore since im always busy and dont have time for T.V but anyways im watching the game and the colts are losing right? so anyways i get on ep and...
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M 1 Response 19 mins ago

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    Don't quite understand how the world works now, it's like we flow in a current pushing us the right way but we go against it, so confused and distort that we seriously don't...
    Sdm2987 Sdm2987 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend had open heart surgery 3 years ago. 2 years ago he suffered 2 strokes, most likely a complication of the surgery. Since then, I am constantly scared when I can't get...
    saralu923 saralu923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I was raped last night and I'm scared I haven't told my mom nor my dad no one knows
    hayhaytaytay hayhaytaytay 13-15, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Sh*tting myself..planning on coming out to my dad tonight..hope it goes ok.. Hopefully he'll accept it, then when I'm ready he will support me when I decide to tell mum (she's...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 7 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Genuinely have never been so scared in my life
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M 1 Response 52 mins ago

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    I don't know when it started, but for as long as I can remember the rush of fear is absolutely irresistible to me. That being said, horror films are a must in my life. I love...
    DacianaNorte DacianaNorte 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I don't mean to... I really don't but I've noticed that I don't eat much anymore and when I noticed I stopped not eating. But I was still losing pounds by days or weeks it scared...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I know this is a bit different but my elderly dog who has been a major part of my life has two growths on his body and I can't afford to take him to the vet and I'm really scared...
    idiotheque idiotheque 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Cut my life into pieces This is my last resort Suffocation No breathing Don't give a **** if I cut my arm, bleeding This is my last resort Cut my life into pieces I've reached my...
    greeneyedmomma greeneyedmomma 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My mom just had a biopsy done because her doctor found "a lot of very abnormal cells" from her last pap smear, she has been feeling like crap lately too and they are almost...
    RachelMGodwin RachelMGodwin 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    This is my first relationship. We have been together for 1.5 years. 3 months ago, I felt like I was being taken for granted, so I told my boyfriend I wanted to break up. I could...
    Kittys23 Kittys23 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    *"Dancing With Tears In My Eyes"* Here We go Welcome to my Funeral Without you I don't even have a pulse All alone it's dark and cold With every move I die Here I go this is my...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F Sep 6

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    Counting Stars OneRepublic Lately I been, I been losing sleep Dreaming about the things that we could be But baby, I been, I been prayin' hard Said no more counting dollars We'll...
    coffeeflavoredkisses coffeeflavoredkisses 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    Ok so I'm a girl and I think im in love with my girl best friend. It scares me a lot because I didn't think I could love a person so much. Our friendship started a few years ago...
    teddy237 teddy237 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Terrified of loosing anyone i know i love all of my friends and family,it was hard loosing my papa and i don't want to go through with that again but i know i will :/
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I love my mom. I'm scared of the future. I'm still young, but I'm afraid of losing her.
    Xxskittles1234xzX Xxskittles1234xzX 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    "The Sweetest Thing" by U2 http://youtu.be/5WybiA263bw My love throws me like a rubber ball Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing She won't catch me or break my fall Oh oh oh, the...
    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I failed in A lot of things in my past life . Like not graduating from high school which I'm going back to finish it hopefully . I don't fail . I failed in having friends . They...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Aug 29

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    Scared to death to tell my husband I want to separate....
    ReRe71 ReRe71 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    Have you ever felt a deep sensation of isolation when you're in love with a teacher who you can never be with? All the memories and time you've spent with each other were...
    Mayuko Mayuko 13-15, F 5 days ago

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