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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Don'T Let Me Go....

    I may not see you as often as I like...I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night...But deep in my heart I truly know, you are the one that I love and I can't let go...
    kudy kudy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    So my ex called me, asking for me to forgive him for what was said! He explained how he never meant to make me feel like that way. He was simply joking... I told him regardless...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've been in this route before... Time after time, True love is so hard to find. I know this feeling is temporary just like everything in life. I am disappointed in allowing...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Every time I let myself get too close I get hurt. In my last relationship he actually knew everything about me but ended up treating me like trash. I'm done and over with him but I...
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    my mom has a diabetes and it's so high. she gets like 300, she did go to the doctor, she's taking medication, and last time her diabetes had lower to 200 something, but she just...
    dasosleefi dasosleefi 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think I'm just too cynical to believe in love. Don't get me wrong I love my independence but it's nice to have someone in your corner now and again. I want to believe in love...
    Ribsy83 Ribsy83 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Im more than torn over this...i didnt think this would ever happen. My best friends name is Freddy. We met our freshman year of high school and have been best friends since. We...
    contreras415 contreras415 16-17, F 29 mins ago

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    Stop Crying Your Heart Out Hold up Hold on Don't be scared You'll never change what's been & gone May your smile shine on Don't be scared Your destiny may keep you warm Coz...
    PepperF PepperF 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm Colin and I love my bf Trevor. We're both 14 in 9th grade. I want to share a story of extreme fear and sadness. Don't worry. It has a happy ending. However, for a while, I was...
    anotherkid anotherkid 13-15, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm losing my mind though it should be the reason all I see is dislike/hatred/rejection...could this really be the truth in life? It doesn't make sense...how could...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 16 mins ago

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    "Lost in oblivion...dark and silent and complete. I found freedom. Losing all hope was freedom." - Fight Club So if I lose all hope, will I be happy?
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Cut my life into pieces This is my last resort Suffocation No breathing Don't give a **** if I cut my arm, bleeding This is my last resort Cut my life into pieces I've reached my...
    greeneyedmomma greeneyedmomma 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My mom just had a biopsy done because her doctor found "a lot of very abnormal cells" from her last pap smear, she has been feeling like crap lately too and they are almost...
    RachelMGodwin RachelMGodwin 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    This is my first relationship. We have been together for 1.5 years. 3 months ago, I felt like I was being taken for granted, so I told my boyfriend I wanted to break up. I could...
    Kittys23 Kittys23 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    *"Dancing With Tears In My Eyes"* Here We go Welcome to my Funeral Without you I don't even have a pulse All alone it's dark and cold With every move I die Here I go this is my...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F Sep 6

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    In the land of Gods and Monsters I was an Angel Living in the garden of evil Screwed up, scared, doing anything that I needed Shining like a fiery beacon You got that medicine I...
    BookOfShadows BookOfShadows 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I have a problem dog. He's dog aggressive and I love him to death, but he makes my life difficult. We can't go to dog parks. I'm careful to avoid other dogs when we're on a walk...
    blondieG blondieG 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm scared I'm losing my best friend and u know there isn't a great deal I can do about it
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Counting Stars OneRepublic Lately I been, I been losing sleep Dreaming about the things that we could be But baby, I been, I been prayin' hard Said no more counting dollars We'll...
    coffeeflavoredkisses coffeeflavoredkisses 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I've been itching to get into a snowball war...not a fight...war. I need to find some ppl who arent scared to get hit in the face or (playful) body slam in the snow w/o complaining...
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I used to be so terrified of them. Not I absolutely love them! I've studies about the weather for a long time. I go out in the country To watch them.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    Suppose that I missed you Suppose that I care And suppose that I spent all my nights running scared And suppose that I was never there And my eyes are screaming for the sight of...
    NeverForgeIt NeverForgeIt 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    "And here we are again The door is closed behind us And the long road lies ahead Where do we go from here? It's time to make a change Let's trace the problem to its source No more...
    crandall71 crandall71 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    Ok so I'm a girl and I think im in love with my girl best friend. It scares me a lot because I didn't think I could love a person so much. Our friendship started a few years ago...
    teddy237 teddy237 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    "The Sweetest Thing" by U2 http://youtu.be/5WybiA263bw My love throws me like a rubber ball Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing She won't catch me or break my fall Oh oh oh, the...
    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I failed in A lot of things in my past life . Like not graduating from high school which I'm going back to finish it hopefully . I don't fail . I failed in having friends . They...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Aug 29

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    Scared to death to tell my husband I want to separate....
    ReRe71 ReRe71 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    Have you ever felt a deep sensation of isolation when you're in love with a teacher who you can never be with? All the memories and time you've spent with each other were...
    Mayuko Mayuko 13-15, F Sep 10

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    I survived a depression thanks to my dog, it began in 2005, i was only 15, i didn't know what i was going to do, i was not myself, from being a happy always laughing type of girl...
    TheTurtleDove TheTurtleDove 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    What's the worst thing about losing weight? -my clothes are getting baggy -can't afford to get new clothes -not sure if the weight is coming off from stress or if changing a few...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Aug 21

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