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I Am Scared of Losing Love

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    My Love

    i love my boyfriend i honestly do. weve been together for 4 years and i feel the passion slipping out of this relationship. we aruge constantly and at times i feel as though things wont change. i feel like we are growing apart and im losing the best part of me. i feel lost and im...
    xlovelyxdarknessx xlovelyxdarknessx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Happiness

    I am afraid of one of the worst events how to exist in love. Firstly, I am under a great thing that there is nothing to lost when you are falling to love with somebody. It is because of I think about this feeling in a real serious way, I think when you owing somebody love you...
    michalmos michalmos 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    We Are Losing Each Other

    Everyday I feel like I am losing the love of my life. We are losing it and it will only be worse. I want to live with her and love her, but of course it won't happen because we are losing each other. I am scared. I am really scared.... She says that she wants to marry me, but it...
    mubia78 mubia78 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    So Much So

    That I am afraid of love period. I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 30 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    My Girlfriend.......... Should I Be Worried? Advice Please.

    Ok. I hope someone can relate to this or at least give me an idea of what I can expect from this. So without any further delay Here is my story. Ok. disclaimer please read before continuing to the story. Before anyone who reads this gets a forgone conlclusion, please know I love...
    concernedlover concernedlover 31-35 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    I Love His So Much

    I never thought I could find anyone as amazing as my current boyfriend. I love him completely and utterly but it scares me. We have been together for just under 9 months we are both only 19 and this is the first time that either of us has been in love. The fact that we are so...
    topsyturvy topsyturvy 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    Losing My Mind, Lost In Love.

    I am so scared of losing any kind of love I get. My family doesn't really get along and most definately never shows love. Their biggest idea of "love" is screaming and yelling until you eventually change all the things they want you to. Me and my boyfriend have been...
    L0vetheway L0vetheway 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    I'm Scared To Be Alone

    I feel as though I don't really have anyone to talk to nowadays. Times have been hard for me socially since I became a pregnant teenager. I feel abandoned by my friends and in times like these I always had my boyfriend to at least comfort me and make me not feel like a total...
    jackibear jackibear 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Falling Out Of Love With Love

    I was in a committed relationship for almost a year, and we had plans for our future, when everything came to an abrupt halt, because he raped me. Obviously, we couldn't stay together after this. After this happened, I have found myself slowly losing my love for everyone. My...
    LadyInWhite LadyInWhite 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    I Never Knew

    i was losing you. right before my eyes, you were fadeing. i didnt know how to stop it. i didnt know you would come to me in hopes of staying alive. i was afraid to let you see how i loved you. i thought you had been hurt by time and loss but now i know you were dying. and i was...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F Oct 1, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Is An Illegal Hispanic

    He was here in the United States for 13 years and 6 weeks ago ICE found him and he is currently awaiting deportation back to Honduras. This is his 2nd time in 13 years that he has been deported. He didn't do anything wrong this time around except for a "violation of probation...
    krissyruiz84 krissyruiz84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Scared Of The Moments That Fly By

    I'm scared of the moments that fly by when I'm not with you, my true love. I wish i met you sooner, so u had someone when you went through the worst, and as I'm here... your not. I know you love me, eventhough you don't tell me you do unless i say it first. I know you think I'm...
    k8ewazhere k8ewazhere 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    MIXED Feelings...

    There are times when I have mixed feelings when I discover that I will be happiest staying. On some level, it means recommitting to a relationship that is too good to leave under the conditions, but I'm also afraid of settling for sharing him, which is clearly unsatisfactory...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    By Myself

    I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart! He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this...
    MindySlaughter MindySlaughter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Who Isn't?

    It's only natural to fear losing something as precious and gratifying like love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Dec 7, 2011

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    Everyday

    I'm scared.. I need reassurance every day! I'm always afraid that either I'll fall out of love.. or someone will take their love away from me. Even after hearing someone say it.. It's hard for me to believe that they will always feel that way, or that I'll always feel that way. I...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Scared

    of him leaving me either for someone else or just because he's sick of being with me. It scares the heck out of me but I can't help it. Plus sometimes, I get paranoid that there's someone else already.
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Forget

    i'm not falling in love falling in love why can't i hide this? this ache in my heart this pain in my chest just run away i'm running away you look through my eyes and into my soul i try and disguise what i can't control i'm not falling in love falling in love he knows about...
    MissMoxy MissMoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Ability To Love

    I'm losing hope finding someone that really matter to me, i don't mean families and relatives, i mean lover. I still really can't meet one that is truly there to be with me, through difficult ordeals. I have a few close buddies that will go through all those for me, but it is...
    estles estles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    I'm scared to love again. Scared to be hurt again. Scared of never finding someone who will love me for who am and not judge me. Scared of being lied to again.
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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
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    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Counting stars :) Lately, I've been, I've been losing sleepDreaming about the things that we could beBut baby, I've been, I've been praying hard,Said, no more counting dollarsWe...
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    What is this thing people call distance Is it me, or does it just seem imprinted That love will never die, when you're by my side And when our lips touch, my life is complete When...
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    Man to be honest this was in tenth grade never met this girl in my life, never had spoken to her, never you bother to introduce myself and I had her for my bio class. It wasn't...
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    soo.. my beautiful best friend is going through so much at the moment, don't want to say too much in case she finds this ahha, but I know I've been scared that I'm going to wake up...
    tabbyrose234 tabbyrose234 16-17, F Mar 21

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    Like , I feel like I cant even put up with myself. How do I be satisfied with myself . Almost Everyone I love ends up leaving. I keep getting broken up with and im so good to the...
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