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I Am Scared of Losing People I Really Love

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    Saying you want to spend the rest of your life

    with someone,.it still scares me because I don't want to lose her 😪😪
    XodolsWasHere XodolsWasHere 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Love Hurts...

    When you love someone, it is much more than just a feeling. You invest time in getting to know them on a totally different level. The amount of time, trust, interest you give is huge, and the emotions run deeper than just at surface level. It is a real and overwhelming feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 11, 2013

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    I am an anxious person

    when it comes to relationships, whether they are familial, romantic or platonic. The closer I am to somebody, the more I fear of making mistakes. In the past, I used to distance myself when I thought I was messing up, but I have learned to overcome this feeling. However, I am...
    crystalhaze crystalhaze 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I'm shipping out tomorrow

    and I am so scared I'll be losing someone before I can get back. But it will most likely happen and I've spent so long preparing for that eventuality, though it all goes away when the loss is so close. I'm scared. I'm scared. I'm scared. I'm scared for the ones I love and the...
    bakeittwice bakeittwice 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    School just ended. There were a lot of tears

    and it was really emotional. I ******* hate my school with a passion. The rules are stupid, the kids are judgmental losers, and the staff are plain hateful. But I met some of the most amazing people. I had a group that welcomed me, and we all sat at one round table at lunch...
    ForeverJayy ForeverJayy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    I finally start to speak my mind And

    now it seems to push you away I just want to be there for you but it seems more like I am a bother I want to hear about your day but you don't want to speak I want to be your shoulder to lean on In your time of need, but you ignore it I offer a word of encouragement but you...
    wil137 wil137 26-30, M Nov 10, 2014

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    I have always wanted to die,

    but what if people really love me? Are they afraid of losing me? I'm terrified of losing someone I love. But how would it affect them if I killed myself? I have wanted to for so long...
    childlover4evr childlover4evr 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    I need to have a conversation with my husband

    but I'm scared. It's so easy to just go along always agreeing it's so easy to always do what I've done. I'm scared because I already know the answer and I'm afraid to hear it from him. I want to have a baby he won't even talk about it. I e tried to just accept that I won't have...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    The more time I am alone,

    the more I realize some things. You'd think I'd tell myself this relationship was no good for me, but I'm not. The reason why we are struggling is obvious to me. I'll keep it to myself in case he comes to read this. I've written a lot of stuff to him in my private notes on my...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    theres only one person on here ,

    and she knows who she is ;) this applies for you.
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8, 2014

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    I have always wanted to die,

    but what if people really love me? Are they afraid of losing me? I'm terrified of losing someone I love. But how would it affect them if I killed myself? I have wanted to for so long...
    Childlover4evr2 Childlover4evr2 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I feel horrible for what I have done.

    He left his email up on my laptop after leaving for work this morning. My intentions were to complete my last 2 finals until I saw something in his email that has me worried. I'm not familiar with military talk, procedures, standards, nor regulations first and foremost. But his...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F Dec 10, 2014

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    I'm going to lose you all.

    My parents found out about EP and now I'm going to die. They will take away the only people I care about, and the only reasons I'm still alive. I love you guys. I love you so so much. *hugs you tightly* I'm sorry it all had to end this way.
    PorcelainGrenade PorcelainGrenade 13-15, F 11 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    If there is one thing I'm truly scared of

    inside, it's losing the people I truly love and care about. And losing the ones that truly love and care about me...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    It's a very unpleasant feeling,

    I try not to get attached to people because I'm scared of the day that I'll lose them. Maybe it's because of bad experiences that I feel like that but anyhow it's a very bothersome thing.
    Psychedilc Psychedilc 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I get attached too soo .

    .. But because of my fear to losing people, i couldn't love freely.. My girlfriend recently broke up with me without any reason.. :( I badly want her back just wish to hold her tight in my arms so that she can forget the world..
    dieinyourarms dieinyourarms 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    The thought genuinely terrifies me - I HAVE

    lost people I love, and people have abandoned me. It's a fear I've got and people wonder why I'm so clingy, and that makes me scared I'm trying too hard and... The cycle continues.
    DisguisedAsMe DisguisedAsMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    My 1 year old cousin was rushed to the hospital

    a few hours ago. They say she might have some very serious desease. I love her too much to lose her.
    AnnaJackson12345 AnnaJackson12345 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Ive been betrayed by people I love

    so many times, ive lost so many people I care about. I cant take it anymore, im afraid il lose everyone I love.
    Louisaxxx Louisaxxx 18-21, F Jan 31, 2014

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    You still make my heart flutter

    when I hear you coming down the hall. I still smile when I hear your laugh from another room. You still excite me when I think of you. I love to rub your back, kiss your neck and touch you as we pass by. Why don't you feel the same? I cannot remember the last time you touched me...
    alostson alostson 36-40, M Jan 27

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    I cannot exist without him.

    I don't think he can exist without me either. The problem is he doesn't even feel like existing. I don't want him to feel like a burden on me. His depression is temporary. He is such a loving, wonderful boyfriend. I cannot explain his behavior lately. It makes no sense, and it...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 10, 2014

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    2 friends in 3 days, I don't want to live this

    way if I lose someone else before the end of the year, I'll break, cry and my parents don't know what happened
    MariKun MariKun 16-17, M Dec 8, 2014

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    My boyfriend had open heart surgery 3 years ago.

    2 years ago he suffered 2 strokes, most likely a complication of the surgery. Since then, I am constantly scared when I can't get in touch with him. I was expecting the surgery, but it was still hard to see him in the hospital so vulnerable and weak and in pain. The strokes...
    saralu923 saralu923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2014

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    My Father Is Fighting For His Life..

    Hi readers..this is my first post..I've never blogged before..neither do I have a twitter account. In fact, I hate using computers to share personal stuff. But in this case..it's abit different. The past week for me has been an emotional rollercoaster ride...and I've been...
    injektilo3 injektilo3 26-30 5 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    I've lost so many people I love in the last few

    years I don't think I can handle anymore heartbreak
    nowimawarrior nowimawarrior 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Fears Are Real ... For All of Us

    Fear is the emotion common to everyone. It is also something that I struggle with and I try to allow it to be all-consuming. I am not afraid of dying because I know that is inevitable and have accepted salvation as my answer. So fear of what you ask? As you know if you've read...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I just been informed

    that my dad may only have a few days to a few weeks longer to live... I have already lost my mom when I was 19; I am now 24 and about to have a baby that may never know either of his grandparents... Why is life so hard?
    emeraldtriangle420 emeraldtriangle420 22-25, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Well, it happened. I've lost the person I love.

    He's gone. He presented what he thought would be deal breakers for me in this relationship, and I accepted them. He left me anyway. How is it? How is it I am me, beautiful, intelligent, intuitive, yet he fled and treats me like I'm worthless, useless, ugly? Anger is care. Love...
    NastasyaFilippovna NastasyaFilippovna 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2014

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    I Will Not Accept Losing My Daughter.

    It never will be acceptable.  I can't even imagine losing her.  I feel like I would die with her.  A big part of me would.  It would only be my other children and grandchildren that would keep me breathing.  My daughter and I have always been connected in...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 21 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Well of course I am! That would be pretty silly

    if I loved someone, lost them and life continued normally. I am so scared of losing the people that mean the most to me. I love them because they are irreplaceable so losing them would leave a big hole in my life.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Oct 2, 2014

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    My senior. My William.

    My first kiss. My best friend. He doesn't want to exist anymore. He hasn't wanted to exist for a long, long time. He told me this. And now he won't text back.
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook 16-17, F May 1, 2014

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    maybe it's really losing those people.

    maybe it's not. either way, it really hurts. especially when you see they don't seem to mind that you're not really part of their life anymore. bf, gf, bff, whoever. it hurts and it's sad :/
    youngandinexperienced youngandinexperienced 16-17, F Feb 6

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    I Am Afraid....

    Dear Friends and loved ones, I am afraid of losing all of you who read this and those too, who do not. I am an imperfect woman. My flaws are many and I am ashamed even to think of them. With that comes the question, will they all still love me and care for me if they know...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Its not being scared,

    its being sad.. Sad that the beautiful texts were having is gonna stop. The stories we created plotting us in a really magical and charming world with no fears or regrets about our past or the anyone.. Its really a shame that its gonna stop, but its for the better, yes im the...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 16-17, M Feb 3

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    I am not afraid of them.

    i fear what they are capable of; torture, rape and murder,
    AsIfYouKnowMe AsIfYouKnowMe 70+, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I just realised why I distance myself from

    relationships, its because Im scared of losing anyone close to me. I have wasted so many years when I could have been in some really great relationships, Ive decided now that the next gurl who shows interest in me, Im going to accept her, Ill even consider another Trans Gurl if...
    TrannyinSydney TrannyinSydney 26-30, T 2 Responses Feb 6

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    just stay there and fix those you feel nothing

    for until you screw it up and kill someone . You will not see you unless someone is a lost cause. And when you are losing him, you are not losing a person. You are losing eight and nine and ten all at once. You won't gain them back and there was no point in their deaths. No...
    AsIfYouKnowMe AsIfYouKnowMe 70+, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm in a seriouse relationship with this

    wonderful man who means the world to me, and who loves me very much. I've been torturing myself with doubts and fears. You see, I have a much different family history then him and I have had a pretty tough life. I'm scared if I was to reveal my past to him, if he would still...
    Emilia94 Emilia94 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Californialexiiiiiii Californialexiiiiiii 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My best friend is the only person I have.

    I love her more than anything in the whole world. She just started dating our other friend, and I think I might be jealous of him. I don't want to be like that though. I need to let her have a life outside of us. We've already decided that we're living together once we graduate...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 4, 2014

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    Don't Go

    I can't bare to see you walking out. I can't bare to see you fading away. I just need you here. Breathing awake and right here. I'm not finished with you. I need your arms to shelter me. I need your love. I need your affection. I need your attention. I...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2009

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    I am not scared of death

    but very very scared of loosing people I love a lot...After my Dad passed away, I just realised that nothing can be as scary as death.. The emptiness of that person in our heart, can not be replaced with anything...
    Waldena Waldena 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I often wonder how I could go on

    if I lost my loved ones, my child, parents, my only friend. Especially if I'm used to talking to them everyday, it's pure agony trying to imagine such a thing. death. I will never be the same if something bad was to happen to the people that I love. I know life and death is real...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    Last night was the worst night of my life I

    didn't sleep at all and it was all my own fault you sent me a pic which was a massive thing for you and instead of just taking it and appreciating it I went off on one about how I will delete as you didn't want to send it when I should no you are independent enough to make your...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    I Don't Want To Grow Up...

    Ever since I was a little girl, I have always dreaded growing up. I would cry every night for a week before the first day of school. My parents would ask me what was wrong. I always responded "I don't want to grow up." They would always tell me that when I was older, I would want...
    TeenageDreamer32 TeenageDreamer32 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    I Just Didnt Realize How Scared I Was

    before i start....this story is not about death....a couple weeks ago my husband quit calling. i didnt know what was wrong, when i finally got a hold of him i was relieved to find out that he was fine but devestated when he said he no longer wanted to come home. he said being at...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Im Scared Shitless!!! Help!! Advice Pleaseee!!! 😰😰😰😰

    OMFG! I accidently came out to my little sis older sis!! Im freaking out my mom is going to kill me she already hates me b/c she hinted i was gay!! Im scared shitless idk what 2 do! :'( i hate crying... Im not ready to step out of the closer yet, but tomorrow i think i have no...
    Moonzbby Moonzbby 18-21 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    My mother is sick and has been

    for years. She had a cancer scare when I was around 8 but luckily there was just some sort of fungus or some other that had grown, but she still needed 2/3's of each lung removed. She is on an oxygen tank 24/7, she has COPD and many other problems. She's been losing her memory...
    SweetCyanide SweetCyanide 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2014

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    I'm in love with a guy

    that doesn't trust me. I do nothing but, try and make him happy. I'm scared all the time and I feel alone. I'm scared to have guy friends and go places because of what he might say. He doesn't even try to get to know my guy friends. I buy him things, I tell him I love him, I...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    I'm scared of losing my 2 awesome little dogs,

    one of them is kinda starting to get old. Though she is very active. The youngest one is really active and she really likes me, she is smart and funny and always pretends to be a baby and plays. She is like a very hairy baby. She loves to be held all the time and is very sweet...
    Morgee3304 Morgee3304 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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