I Am Scared of Men

I came to a realization today concerning the question of men, and how i believe myself to be afraid of them. I thought it over and have concluded that I am mostly afraid of the ones I'm attracted to. In which case, it stands to reason...

For most of my life I was overweight and boys and men would say horribly mean things to me, and my worst memory was when a boy refused to sit next to me in class because I was fat. After being tired of the torture I decided to diet and...

I don't understand why I am still scared of men. I just recently ended a 4 year relationship with a man. I still find myself scared of good looking and intelligent men. I feel that I may not be attractive enough or that they are...

I am 34 and want to be married and have a lifelong companion. My parents have a great marriage and so do my sisters. I am so fearful of men that I'm afraid I'll be alone forever. I have no problem speaking with men on a professional...

Was sexually harassed by a much older, bigger boy when I was young. And then I moved to a new city. And I was harassed by boys for three years straight for being "ugly". I was punched, slapped, and made fun of viciously. "Would you...

I am 20 years old and feel completely scared and insecure near boys, especially those I like. I am afraid they look at me and think I am ugly. It's hard for me to even go out because I feel all guys watching and judging me. I feel like...

Right, I just have to say that I do not hate men, I greatly crave being with a man intimatly but I am having a real problem even taking anything further. I have had offers of what seem very nice guys but I always think there is a...

Recently I've become aware that I might have a fear of men. Since I'm attracted to men, and not women, this is definitely something to worry me.

My background with men, and the possible cause of this, is that I didn't have my father...

Here goes...

Ever since i was small, I have feared men, almost all in general. However i do feel attracted to them, older men, I had even believed to be in love with a married one, about four months back, but that's a different story...

I have never been great around guys and now it has become even more of a challenge for me. I started a serious relationship with this guy when I was 16. He was the first guy I really opened up to. I could be myself, there was no lying...

This is a bit difficult for me, because im dutch so i hope you all understand my story. I have never told anyone this, and hope i can do it now. My name is Lauren and im 16 years old. I have had a wonderful life with my mum, stephdad...

I'm in my mid-20s, I grew up in a cult that I recently left, and I'm relatively attractive. I don't know how to deal with men, or more importantly, how to read them. I'm not completely clueless, just a little, lol. If they are forward...

I am like mute around them. They even seem to hate me. They scold me in public like a child, even if I don't do sh!t wrong. My male teacher even blew up at me in class for no reason and made me cry. I'm not fat, ugly, annoying, or mean...

well if any of you have read my stories you will know I have a lot of passion deep down in side of me. Yet iam really a shy person. i have never had a partner because I don't go out much. I was verbally abused in the past by boys...

Men scare me. I don't know why. On a conscious level, I know that they're human just like me. A lot of them are lovely and very nice. I get along with men better than I do with women sometimes.
They start talking to me and as long as I...

There is one man I am not afraid of.
Also, I'm not afraid of some priests I've known.
And little boys are great.

I read  "The Game" and "manhood101", where relationships are simple matters of conquest. There is no trust, there is no connection. Only sex. I know that men are different, not all are assholes. But even biologically, humans are...

I'm 30 years old and I've gradually realized that I am afraid of men. I can't stand men's stares and advances. They make me feel ambushed and unprotected. This has nothing to do with body image or sexual abuse. It's been like this since...