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I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

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    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    FiendFyre FiendFyre 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft 36-40 2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee 31-35 1 Response Aug 9, 2012

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    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62 46-50, F Mar 17, 2012

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    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz 36-40 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    I'm scared of... probably hundreds of things in this world. Many of these fear came from my past, came from random moments and others were just because I had them. And most of them...
    jxstagirl jxstagirl 13-15, F Nov 7

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    Every time I think about this my heart threatens to pound it's way out of my chest. Okay so I'm getting some feeling for this amazing guy. But I'm scared. And at first I thought...
    DeijiDaze DeijiDaze 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm back from the dead people, not dead really just not in the mood to deal with anyone. I'm sick of depression, sick of my horrible lonely marriage, and now it's the holidays...
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been having problems for a while now. He is an addict. He was struggling with opiate addiction when we met, but went into methadone treatment and has been...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am a junior in college. Totally floundering right now. Drowning it feels like. Failing 2 out of 5 classes I am enrolled in currectly. I don't know what I want to do. I don't know...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 6 Responses Oct 30

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    I need help. Let me start off by saying I'm not a Jesus person, I don't go to church, I don't pray and all that but I do have morals, I have promises I made to myself long ago, I...
    ZoeandMax ZoeandMax 18-21, F Nov 5

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    I feel scared to tears that I see life flashing by whilst living in a sexles marriage. I support everything willingly & happly for wife and family but every day for several years...
    wngiag wngiag 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I married the nicest guy in the world. I mean it. He is a dream guy to have for any girl. I am every girl's envy. Every single guy who wants to hit on me or thinks off, gets to...
    confusedhelp311 confusedhelp311 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    Okay guys I have a huge question. I can't just seem to find the right answer to . Here it goes . I am in a relationship with a guy . The father of my child . We have been together...
    wondering2014 wondering2014 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm pretty sure I'm failing science. I just don't understand it and science is the class where I forget to turn in most of my work
    marioo15 marioo15 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    I made up my mind at the beginning of the summer that I wanted to have sex before school started this year. I had just started dating my current boyfriend and I guess the curiosity...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 26

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    I was 16, and my boyfriend and I went to the movies to see some nameless scary movie. Things got a little hot, so I pretended I was too scared and we went outside. One thing led to...
    xlovelykittyx xlovelykittyx 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 4

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    It hard to realize that I have that fear. I am the one that loves to live a home life. I'm the one that loves to share. I'm the one with that fanatic spirit that yells out: marry...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I was dumb and scared n peer pressure and life... **** it....
    NoLoveInMe NoLoveInMe 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Where to begin ... My wife and I experienced a set back in our attempts to improve our marriage. I found some evidence last week of an on-going emotional relationship she got...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    Mom and Dad are what my marriage would simply be like (I wish). Marriage is harder than I thought, there were ups and downs during my parents' marriage. But what I saw at them, how...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F Oct 25

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    It never really occurred to me that my teachers could be a danger to me or anyone around me until the day I graduated from Primary school. I saw this teacher(who never taught me...
    AbyssalSilence AbyssalSilence 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    14years of marriage, 18 years together and sex has never been a priority for my husband. He was sexually abused by a camp counselor as a child and that abuse has affected our...
    Notlovingit Notlovingit 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What is money if you can't spend it on the one you love. Selfishness and thinking of oneself in a higher light than others is vain. Marriage is meant to be an equal state not one...
    2coolkj 2coolkj 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    We were distant. For the past 2 weeks I barely saw her and barely messaged her. I don't want to lose her. I don't want to be alone. I'm sorry for my imperfections. If only I...
    SomeGuy322 SomeGuy322 16-17, M Oct 25

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    I'm scared of falling in love. I'm scared of being friends. I'm scared of talking. I'm scared if social interaction because what if they judge me
    rawerimadino rawerimadino 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    Well it looks like all the courts are going to deny any arguments against gay marriage and it's going to be political suicide to argue against gay marriage at this point. I think...
    Diaperdragon Diaperdragon 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 28

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    I'm very scared of balloons. Especially the ones with helium. As a kid I ran out of the house when balloons were being popped by my mom. I can't stand the loud bang from a rubber...
    Balloonboy33 Balloonboy33 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 4

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    Yup I get scared. I get scared after watch scary movies at night and I get scared when I go on a night time walk. My biggest fear is being replaced. I hate it but I can't help it...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    Actually, I'm scared to hell of injections, but not from VC or IV needles or any needle used to draw blood outta my body. I know the needle will go directly to one of my veins. The...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F Nov 7

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    Two unhappy people in a marriage equals an unhappy marriage. One unhappy person in a marriage is soon joined by the other. True happiness can only come from within.
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Marriage is more than just paper... Marriage is a promise; a series of promises that sometimes may be hard to keep but will be worth it. Marriage is the forever bond between man...
    Zoopetiz Zoopetiz 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Marriage means a team. U feel safe, loved and secured but nowadays people take marriage as a licence and if things don't go well they either bonk someone else outside the marriage...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've been married for 25 years and even thought my marriage is not meeting many of my needs, I am petrified to leave it! For many years, my husband would not touch me sexually. I...
    Needhopeandsupport Needhopeandsupport 51-55, F 5 days ago

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