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I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 38 People

    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft 36-40 2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62 46-50, F Mar 17, 2012

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    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    FiendFyre FiendFyre 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz 36-40 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Lost, And So Soon

    I am not sure what to do anymore about my marriage. We've been married 3 months and been together since the day we met almost 2 years ago, I know, not very long. He finally found a job he loves and its overnight, I just lost my job so now its just him making the money. He...
    Jan 18, 2013

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    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee 31-35 1 Response Aug 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I went through stages in my sexless marriage to get where I am now. The first stage was denial, followed by hope. I told myself it would get better. The next stage was cajoling...
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43 41-45, F 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Perhaps most of my generation are supposed to be cynical about marriage, the 'it's only a piece of paper' 'divorce rates are too high' and this little gem - 'I couldn't stay...
    Teamouse Teamouse 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I feel really sad, down. I don't know why but something is bothering me. What's even more stupid is that I don't even know what's bothering me. I'm 22 and I guess I'm still trying...
    Laraamani Laraamani 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Anyone feel like you have to beg to get your husband to bed you? And on top of that, mine makes a face as though he is disgusted that i am asking for it. Truly breaks my heart. I...
    Verraoh Verraoh 26-30, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My marriage is killing me. I don't want to have to leave to a women's shelter. My family is out of state. They don't even know.
    UnicornFlavoredPizza UnicornFlavoredPizza 26-30, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    One man. One woman. (Prepare to be offended in 5...4...3...2...1....) Anything else isn't marriage. No matter what the Supreme Court says.
    Logic34 Logic34 31-35, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I lived in a sexless marriage and the no sex went on for years. My wife seemed to lose interest after our first child was born and we drifted slowly apart. We didn't fight. I...
    blueskyforgood blueskyforgood 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Coming up to my second anniversary. The last few days have been really bad. I have lost count of how many upsets and arguments there have been over stupid little things that should...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's so complicated...... I hate this because I feel as if marriage shouldn't be taken lightly. I also feel that I used to be the one to run far away from commitment. Far away from...
    SweetT2 SweetT2 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    After 30+ yrs in a productive marriage, I did decide to not stay in my marriage. Passion flew it the window sometime before" I do" and bedtime. It never returned to that...
    vulvatarian vulvatarian 70+, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I never intended to get married, but I was lonely and met someone that I felt an electrical connection with who would not stay without a ring. So I got married. As the years have...
    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Respect for marriage has been tainted just like most of the brides wearing white... Seems like today the value of marriage is literally a price tag. Instead of being importance of...
    LetsBeRealK LetsBeRealK 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Marriage is not really a big thing to me because... People who love each other will love each other regardless of if there was a bit of paper with ones last name the same, I think...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I love my wife, and I know she loves me. However, I wish our marriage could be how it used to be. I don't know how we got to this point. It's painful. I don't want to give up on my...
    ProfessorPhoton ProfessorPhoton 26-30, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Hi, I am new to this. Here's my story. I have been married for 3 years, together 7 and have two small children. Ever since my first was born (for the last 5 years) my marriage has...
    mirandan2027 mirandan2027 22-25 3 Responses a week ago

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    List of people That Are scared of me Some of my teachers My neibor My other neibor avoids me One time my sister locked her door at night when I had a point where stayed up olmost...
    swaged104 swaged104 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm so depressed right now I can't even function. Truthfully, my husband hasn't had sex with me in 3 years. I've fallen in love with a man who is married, and we are amazing...
    escapingcaptivityofspirit escapingcaptivityofspirit 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    A revelation? My husband and I started marriage counseling this past Monday. It was hard. Having to sit there and explain to a stranger why you are there...with your husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jul 24

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    My husband text me that he would rather be a monk than to have sex with me, and that if that is my need, I should go elsewhere to satisfy it. My heart sank. Finally....I have more...
    GreyStreet98 GreyStreet98 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    All of these stories scare me. I'm 29, and my husband is 34. We got together when I was 22 and he was 27.. I we each had kids from previous relationships, so our new relationship...
    AFrisco AFrisco 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F Jul 21

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    I think that the roles have reversed. He refused me for so long. I have come to the realization that I no longer have any feeling for him. I feel completely disconnected. Lost...
    TallaLily TallaLily 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I am about to become homeless. I never been so desperate, worried. I have been living with my mother for awhile now, taking care of her, as her health has been declining. Now, she...
    CoolDude2244 CoolDude2244 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Well I'm still with my boyfriend although he has had an arranged marriage last March. It kills me. He just went out there for Ramadan to finally pick her up and take her in the US...
    4evergrey 4evergrey 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have spent the better part of the last seven years giving all I knew how to give to my husband... I wasn't perfect of course, I've made plenty of poor choices throughout it all...
    Furiousfire Furiousfire 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 17

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    Procrastination is my middle name. That's why I'm here after 20 years. But this year, my goal is to leave this group and join the one (does it exist?) that says "I left my sexless...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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    This is so exciting that gay marriage is now legal. I think it's great couples are given the right to marry whoever they wish. And not a damn thing anybody can do about it. Yes I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I want out. My husband is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive to me. We have been married for 2 years. We rent a house and my car is in his name. He sold my car that I...
    Niceandcold Niceandcold 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    For once I am actually very scared. I'm scared of losing her and I'm scared of losing my purpose. I'm scared.
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M Jul 16

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    When I met my husband, I was 28, and had reached a point in my life when I was sure I wasn't going to meet the right guy. I'd been in an out of relationships with total jerks or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 15

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