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I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 38 People

    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee 31-35 1 Response Aug 9, 2012

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    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62 46-50, F Mar 17, 2012

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    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft 36-40 2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    FiendFyre FiendFyre 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Lost, And So Soon

    I am not sure what to do anymore about my marriage. We've been married 3 months and been together since the day we met almost 2 years ago, I know, not very long. He finally found a job he loves and its overnight, I just lost my job so now its just him making the money. He...
    Jan 18, 2013

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    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz 36-40 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    really don't want to fail more than I already have. midpoint is so soon. ahhhh.
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    So rock me momma like a wagon wheel Rock me momma any way you feel Hey momma rock me Rock me momma like the wind and the rain Rock me momma like a south bound train Hey momma rock...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Funny situation I'd like some input on. So anyway, Lucy has facebook, I've left her to her privacy and not snooped. It's often left open on our shared computer , for whatever...
    1RedKing 1RedKing 41-45, M 9 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 22 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So, even though I broke it off, I am still scared of my now ex. When we were together he would try to get me alone with him... When we were alone he would start kissing me and...
    xxbrokengirl98xx xxbrokengirl98xx 13-15, F 1 Response 42 mins ago

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    I didn't ********** last night, but I did exchange sexual words with a woman (also in a sexless marriage) on EP last night. We were just about to video chat when her husband came...
    JamesPople JamesPople 51-55, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have married with someone that i'm not so sure to marry with. I met him after i broken heart with ex boyfriend. I liked him and felt happy with him, and was very happy when he...
    Paisley1515 Paisley1515 31-35, F Oct 4

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    I miss touch. I mean, I really miss being touched. The kind of touch that conveys intimacy and a real personal affection with someone special. I no longer fantasize about sex...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 27 Responses Oct 8

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    The clock is almost reaching midnight here. My brain is still so active of thinking about my life. Yes, I am still in my sexless marriage. You could say I am cowered to make the...
    Raisingup Raisingup 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 11

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    The tide is high but I'm holding on I'm gonna be your number one I'm not the kind of girl who gives up just like that Oh no ..................... Song by Blondie that my brain...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Conversation (HoH) - rejected (this is fine though and we discussed potential dom/sub which was also rejected) both are fine to reject So next thought was something I want to...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am sure this post is probably going to get some negative feedback, but be it as it may, i apologize if i offend anybody. Im sure it does not apply to all as it once applied to...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 6 Responses Oct 11

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    Nearly done. He didn't come home last night, because it was raining and there was bad traffic, so he decided to wait at a friends place for a while, which eventually became morning...
    andthentherewaslight andthentherewaslight 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 25

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    I got myself in a bit of trouble the other day... at work my husband texted me saying that he has bad news. And I got all worried so as soon as I got off I called hin and he told...
    HisBabyGirl64 HisBabyGirl64 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 and a half yrs now. We had a break up about 6 months ago mostly because I felt like we were at a stall mate. I wanted marriage he wasn...
    lovelynlively lovelynlively 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I've always wanted to get married but I'm afraid to ever do it. I see so many people on here and in real life that are bored or unhappy and wish they didn't get married. It's such...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    THE TRUTH BEHIND THESE KINDS OF MARRIAGES.Last week, I wrote an article for my blog titled: Six Reasons That Your Marriage Will Fail. One of the areas that I highlighted was...
    MarredMind MarredMind 36-40, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last year it's been "my wife is selfish" or "my wife is unreasonable." But...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    At a truck event this Saturday. I say to my wife there are sure a lot of women would like trucks here, or perhaps women who like guys that like trucks. I catch a small smile from...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 12 Responses Oct 6

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    Another note from the other side.... I write this not to rub things in, but really out of pure amazement and happiness, as a way to maybe offer hope. My boyfriend and I had some...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 25 Responses Oct 9

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    I bought my first vibrator but I'm scared to use it does it really feel that good ?
    sometimeshorny sometimeshorny 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 14

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    I have a fear. Seeing as how we all agree my husband is a narcissist/sociopath I'm scared about the divorce. He makes a lot of money and I'm afraid it will be used against me in...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 14

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    I woke up this morning from s nightmare! In it my Husband was the hated, & feared "monster"!! We're a month past our 10 year anniversary(which we don't celebrate) & I've just kinda...
    Katherinespost Katherinespost 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    When I was 18 I went to a rock/alternative night with a friend. We took refuge from the mosh pit in the techno room which wasn't so crowded. I was struck by a man on the dance...
    Alexandria9 Alexandria9 31-35, F Oct 14

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    Last nights update: We both worked, but there was communication through text while apart. (Not my favorite medium for conversation so I kept it light) Gave her a link to...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    And the jig is up. Got my lawyer consult scheduled for this afternoon via phone, but then get a text 20 mins ago from the wife: "OMG did you read this email on my computer...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago. I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first...
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F 20 Responses 1 day ago

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    My dad sent me this months ago when I told him I want to marry my boyfriend. I think this is fabulous advice and something refusing spouses have either forgotten or never learned...
    papaya6 papaya6 22-25, F 15 Responses Oct 3

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    I feel very sad each time I read people talking bad abour marriage...comparing it to a prison...love cemetery...not knowing why they should marry...wanting to be eternal lovers...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 10

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    I am a doctor and went through some of the experiences on this site.... Felt like i should also share some of my experiences which i faced in my life.... Yes Doctors are not immune...
    saiprasadbhavsar saiprasadbhavsar 26-30, M Oct 9

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless