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I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 38 People

    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz 36-40 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee 31-35 1 Response Aug 9, 2012

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    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62 46-50, F Mar 17, 2012

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    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    FiendFyre FiendFyre 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft 36-40 2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    Hi everyone, I guess I'm a refuser, and I found this forum because my partner has told me about how she's been reading these postings for solidarity. She says that when I touch...
    badger2blue badger2blue 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    Thanks for asking friend<3. Naughty. I have to file for divorce. I usually pull away to gain strength. It is pulling all inside of me. Questioning everything. Also, sadly...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    reading experiences on how so many husbands and wives cheated on their significant other scares the hell out of me. i bet they were madly in love when they said their vow. but yes...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I know that my husband and I don't belong together anymore. He's hit me, cheated and disrespected my family and friends for years, but... he's my high school sweetheart. I've been...
    riahrae90 riahrae90 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hey guys I'm failing school. I want squall it's not like I want to fail school, what is seed I want to succeed. I parents right now. Everybody's even make everybody's losing hope...
    TheSignOfLibra TheSignOfLibra 13-15, F Dec 12

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    I'm turning 30 next week I see people pitty me because I'm single I feel pressure to marry have kids I don't want to do it till it feels right.I don't want to be a statistic...
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    She will always be someone special in your life :'( I'm so done with all this. I wonder if you will tell me you skyped or is it a secret? You should have asked how I would...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm scared to tell my friends I'm not a virgin and even more terrified that my mom might find out. I'm not ashamed that I did it though. This boy makes me so happy.
    kcinkc kcinkc 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 14

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 10

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    It's been a long time since I wrote: If you have read my previous articles then you already have the background or a lot of it. If not my situation is as follows: I have been...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Don't ever think you're completely secure in a relationship. I say this because you can't know another persons mind or heart. Like me, you can't believe you're living a fairy tale...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am not a virgin, I have also been married before and have unfortunately had many experiences of sex without marriage. I really enjoy sex, however, I have always believed sex...
    jrsybelle jrsybelle 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am like an after school Au Pair (or in america "babysitter" for this little girl who lives near me named Vivien but I just call her Viv. And her and her mum got in a bad car...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    Yes I'm scared of relationships. Every time I have liked a guy and tried going for it they would hurt me before we even got into the relationship so I have been scared of getting...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 10

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    I have to have knee reconstruction. So I am scared of the future. Learning how to walk again. Losing my job most likely, living with little to no money. Unable to move much, unable...
    migglesmining migglesmining 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage, I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait...
    AlissiaMarie AlissiaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I have always been scared of the ocean, i know how to swim but I'm scared of sharks and jelly fish. People are like there is a small chance that you will ever be bitten. I say...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    I am so tired of living in a sexless marriage. It's a nightmare. I need to leave, get a divorce, and be on my own but I have no clue how to leave, and be on my own. I keep thinking...
    loveangelmusicbaby0 loveangelmusicbaby0 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I have had too much rejection in the past, especially for my age; and none of it has been dating. I have absolutely, positively, 100% no chance with dating. So I am scared to even...
    Guest4111 Guest4111 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    Ive been married for 1 year and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my...
    shakii00 shakii00 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Wow... the title couldn't fit me better... I've been married for 14 yrs to a man that use to be a good man... that is before he retired from the army and before he started getting...
    neydi1972 neydi1972 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 3

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    My brother scared me yesterday I freaked out and elbowed him in the face by accident because i was leaning backwards. I guess its not weird to hurt people when you scared but i...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F Dec 4

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    I'm Roman Catholic and believe that the reasons are based on evidence rather than faith. That said, I struggle with gay marriage and even the Biblical references on it. I've...
    originnone originnone 51-55, M 10 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm scared because I don't know what to do. I'm scared to do the wrong thing. I don't want to hurt either one of you. I also don't want him to do something bad because of me.... I...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F Dec 7

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    I'm scared. Two people whom I don't even know off the internet threatened to kill themselves over EP tonight and they logged out before I could help them. I take very harshly to...
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I'm seeing this really amazing guy, and I'm crazy about him. Its the kind of thing where you fall fast and hard, and although there have been lots of things that tell me he is...
    KC94 KC94 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I am scared of my neighbur from Blake Lane # 203. When I got Bank Security sending me updated address on April 2011 and had their address, I was not sure why it was their address...
    clayache clayache 70+, T Dec 11

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    You know what hurts? What really, really hurts about my marriage? That I am my Husbands Best Friend. He's told me this. It's true, all the good friends I've known him to have...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 11

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    Does anyone else get really scared, and not know why they are scared?
    Blackbutterflies99 Blackbutterflies99 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    From being in a sexless marriage for the last three years or so, I have really become discusted and sad with my life. This last year has been zero attempts because of menopause I...
    Feelingnotsogreat Feelingnotsogreat 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    i am not scared of the consequences of touchin very controversial topics as feel the more u are scared of them the bigger darkness befalls u about them so take them on head on and...
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 13

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    Active efforts to work on our marriage are "on-hold" to an extent over the holidays at my wife's insistence, though I struggle to believe good things can come from letting serious...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 15

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    Well at the end of July my mother in law moved in, and was told she would be helping, well no such luck. Our sex life and intimacy has only gotten worse. I feel more like a...
    Fotoman Fotoman 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 15

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