I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

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    Hello. I've been married

    for 10 years, my husband and I have been together for 12. He was the love of my life when we got married, but he quickly changed into an abusive alcoholic. After a few years of him being in and out of jail, I had finally had enough and threatened to leave, he stopped drinking...
    itZbitZ itZbitZ
    36-40, F
    Mar 22

    Lost, And So Soon

    I am not sure what to do anymore about my marriage. We've been married 3 months and been together since the day we met almost 2 years ago, I know, not very long. He finally found a job he loves and its overnight, I just lost my job so now its just him making the money. He...
    Jan 18, 2013

    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62
    46-50, F
    Mar 17, 2012

    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 8, 2013

    I have been with my husband

    for 21 years now, we have been through a lot together, I have been by his side and he has been by mine! The problem is for about a year now we have torn apart from each other, I try my hardest to have fun with him on our one day off work together but it always seems like we are...
    lilvida78 lilvida78
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz
    36-40
    1 Response Jan 16, 2008

    I feel like I'm in a torn marriage

    where I can no longer give my all. This situation is done but my husband does not want to let go
    Abuttabby Abuttabby
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 20

    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 9, 2007

    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2
    41-45
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2008

    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft
    36-40
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

    I'm so frustrated today.

    .. I wish could disappear just for a week
    Abuttabby Abuttabby
    26-30, F
    Mar 21

    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee
    31-35
    1 Response Aug 9, 2012
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