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I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 38 People

    Falling Apart

    I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably...
    Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    My Marriage Is Failing

    My husband is emotionally abusive. We do not talk about anything. He spends hours in the study watching movies on the computer. He yell at us when he speaks and he spends very little time with the children. I am afraid to leave because of financial reasons. He refuses to get...
    nonamesleft nonamesleft 36-40 2 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    I Can Never Do Or Says Things Right

    To behonest I am the problem in the marriage. I am a negative thinker that is getting out of hand and this is spiraling ino my marriage. I keep causing stress when there shouldn't be any. The problem is I keep thinking we have a money/bill problem when we don't. I just start...
    Forshee Forshee 31-35 1 Response Aug 9, 2012

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    I Failed At Two Of Them...................

    and I'm still alive. If the marriage fails, it fails for a number of reasons and it's best to get that out in the open than keep it bottled up in fear. Failure is just that, something that didn't work. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to feel stigmatized by, besides, if...
    lightpainter lightpainter 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    Hapa/ Kia Kaha- Stay Strong

    I help out the adaptive paddling every third Saturday. In Honolulu, Hi on the Other side of the Island called Lanikai/Kailua Beach Park. We members participate and take children/adults from all over to get some recreation time to paddle. It is fun when ever your in Hawaii come by...
    deliciouse62 deliciouse62 46-50, F Mar 17, 2012

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    Mine Is Slipping Away

    my husband just left me two weeks ago....not sure if he will come back....he gives me no info other than he is trying to work through some things and that he doesn't know if he can get over the hurt.  i have changed the things he complains about...yet he won't come back to...
    swtz69drmz swtz69drmz 36-40 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    I Am Scared of My Marriage Failing...

    ...and I haven't even met my husband yet.
    FiendFyre FiendFyre 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Confused

    I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping...
    messedupbigtime messedupbigtime 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    New Marriage Possible Failure?

    My husband and i just got married and well we are both young and with him levaing for the first 10 months of our marriage i'm not sure it's going to last.
    mommy2be mommy2be 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    Lost, And So Soon

    I am not sure what to do anymore about my marriage. We've been married 3 months and been together since the day we met almost 2 years ago, I know, not very long. He finally found a job he loves and its overnight, I just lost my job so now its just him making the money. He...
    Jan 18, 2013

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    Am I losing my little mind? My difficult marriage story is epic and never ending but here is a snippet and I would love some feedback as I do really doubt my own sanity at times...
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    Im thinking about having an affair. I live in a sexless marriage.
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    The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person. You know they're right if you love to be with them all the time.
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    I'm more than just scared of losing you... I'm terrified, wrecked, and even dead if I ever lose you... Please, don't leave me... You're the only reason why I get up each morning...
    DarkAngel483 DarkAngel483 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I posted something up before saying I was against gay marriage, maybe I was a bit unclear. Someone started praising me all "Hurrah and gung ho, let's revel in our homophobia...
    CaptainHoof CaptainHoof 18-21, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    If being against gay marriage is homophobic, then that means a substantial number of gays themselves are homophobes. Here, Jonathan Soroff explains why some gays, including him...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/opposing-gay-marriage-may-demand-civil-disobedience-louisiana-bishop?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=650b6abe03...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Last night, I initiated sex, but my affections were not returned so I outright asked. He said he was having some digestive troubles. For the first time, I did not feel rejected and...
    Mandy578 Mandy578 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    A message for Soniador1963 and people like him. You can misrepresent all I say, you can lie about me insulting one of your friends and you can block me for pointing out your...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It is time for another American Revolution to overthrow oppressors Today’s US Supreme Court ruling against the understanding for millennia that marriage can naturally only be...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/gay-marriage-decision-opens-the-door-to-polygamy-and-religious-persecution?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=11d076770f...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Supreme Court rules in favor of same-sex marriagePosted: Jun 26, 2015 7:05 AM PDTBy Magdalena KrajewskiCONNECTWASHINGTON (AP) — The Supreme Court declared Friday that same...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and we've been talking about sex a lot recently. We've done other things. Well, I've done things to him. I haven't really...
    kwinto kwinto 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been riding a roller coaster of a marriage for almost 20 years. I want out. I've had a few chances to just walk and I've always stayed. (Once was when our son was born and...
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Greetings from Marital Maximum In-Security .. this is a letter from CellBlock's L, O, V, & E .. Hello Im Soulmate#911 & Ive been in for 16 years .. I must say, life in marital max...
    BrokenSilence411 BrokenSilence411 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    i dont know actually ...its been an awfully long time since i have felt fear but i am feeling it again...a pain and a fear of losing and failing!! fear of losing what i hold dear...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F a week ago

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    No I'm Not, I have a question. Can one of you anti gay Christians who claims that the Bible states gay marriage is wrong (even though it doesn't) explain to me what is so natural...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so scared of the future. I'm going to uni, but I'm so scared of making any wrong decisions. I'm absolutely scared to death that these wrong decisions will turn into a bad...
    notarikon notarikon 16-17 1 Response Jun 23

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    The reason is simple. I don't belong in the kingdom of love. Love isn't something my body, my mind, my thoughts are meant for. My personality is too complicated and sometimes...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 23

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    I want to fall in love one last time but because of my past relationships, one of which i lost my partner because of heart disease and the most recent because I really don't know...
    lostangelcake lostangelcake 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Okaay so i have a big operation tomorrow, its a major dental surgery. My husband is honestly not giving a single crap about it. Ive never had an operation before and im so scared...
    Anotherfrustratedgirl Anotherfrustratedgirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    I'm only young, 19, but I am terrified of relationships. I have commitment issues. I can find a guy I love and obsess over him but as soon as he gets close to me (like as a...
    IndianaRoyals IndianaRoyals 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 23

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    tried tonight to have sex with my wife. it's been 2 months. she mumbled something about sleep and I got up got dressed and she took my cell phone in an attempt to keep me there. I...
    ariesjd ariesjd 41-45, M 6 Responses Jun 22

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    My wife and I are now married for 14 years. And I had to think today about how the new technology like smartphones and mobile data plans has changed and improved our marriage...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M Jun 22

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    My wife and I are now married for 14 years. And I had to think today about how the new technology like smartphones and mobile data plans has changed and improved our marriage...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I do support Gay Marriage! Not only because I'm bisexual because I supported them when I was straight! Gay marriage is NOT A SIN! Love is love, no matter who you're with as long as...
    SarahDotCom SarahDotCom 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 22

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    I didn't even wait until marriage to become a parent. Maybe that wasn't the best idea. In any case, I don't expect my kids (sons or daughters) to wait until marriage. I'd rather...
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    My mother got pregnant with my oldest sister at 15 so she knows how adventurous teenagers can be. When I was a sophomore in high school my mother introduced the pill to me. I had...
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F Jun 20

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    Rather sad to have come here because I think this time is for real. I can't even begin to describe what I have been through during my 17 years of marriage. My wife has...
    DeepVoice999 DeepVoice999 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 18

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    Texas Gov. Greg Abbott signs Pastor Protection Act Texas Governor Greg Abbott signed legislation disallowing lawsuits against Christian pastors for refusing to marry homosexuals...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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