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I Am Scared of Relationships

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    am seeking for a woman

    that will love me..from age 45 to 55.for a serious relationship..
    woodyalbert woodyalbert 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    The most complicated part of a relationship is

    figuring out whether to try harder or let it go.
    verygraceful verygraceful 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    you know you're hurt

    when you can feel your heart physically break. awesome.
    allie72465 allie72465 16-17, F Jun 29

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    Can somebody give me some advise my best friend

    is a boy and I like him he moved a few days ago I wanted to tell him I like him but he left before I could tell him😭 now I really like him what should I do call him and tell him ok or should I well no don't know please give me some advise should i never tell him or should I...
    guitara19051000 guitara19051000 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm only young, 19, but I am terrified of

    relationships. I have commitment issues. I can find a guy I love and obsess over him but as soon as he gets close to me (like as a friend) or shows interest in me I loose all feelings because I'm scared of commitment and relationships. It sucks so bad, I'm scared I'll never...
    IndianaRoyals IndianaRoyals 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    they end in bullshit

    and bloodshed. litterally.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Find Me Somebody To Love...

    Here's an excerpt from a conversation I was having with a friend. I feel somewhat vulnerable putting this piece up but what the heck, perhaps it will prove to be beneficial to some. I hope it will. I have always known that inorder to be able to give, you must first be happy...
    Scorpio1987 Scorpio1987 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    Ive never been in one.

    . and from what my friends have been through..it doesnt sound great. It sucks because I know Ill probably go through a breakup..assuming the first person im with most likely wont last. Who usually stays with the first person they are with nowadays?
    jtymez4 jtymez4 26-30, M 3 Responses May 27

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    I'm finally meeting my best friend.

    . I've known him for two years. He lives in another country.. And now the anxiety is kicking in.. I have two months. I've never been an insecure type.. But I've had recent weight gain because of birth control I had a bad reaction to. Now I'm uncomfortable in my own body, have...
    Bicurious12345 Bicurious12345 18-21, F 5 Responses May 23

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    I just want to cry a lot right now

    but I am unable to. I just do not need any love or care which cannot last for long or about which I do not know its fate. When they do not express, I do not what is going on in their mind. And I do not know what to say to them. I am too scared to have a bond.
    deceptiveoutofcloset deceptiveoutofcloset 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Im scared to get my heart broken again,

    but i want to be in one with someone who wont dump me because of me being weird which is what my ex did to me
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15

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    In every relationship I've had,

    I've given everything. Literally everything I have to give. And was happy to do it. I can't explain how good it made me feel to be so invested in someone's happiness. It didn't matter their flaws and imperfections. I loved them. And I had a revelation tonight while I was driving...
    Bicurious12345 Bicurious12345 18-21, F 8 Responses May 29

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    HMMB HMMB 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 21

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    am so scared of relationships,

    i fear a heart break i wanna love but i dont have the strengh in me anymore its all gone am so sad so confused......
    sly15 sly15 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    And yet I just got in one.

    I don't believe in forever, I don't believe in a lot of things. But sometimes I just use 'cynicism' to hide. I'm really just a coward and afraid of getting hurt. I don't want to let myself get too happy and then have the happiness ripped away from me. I know I'm young and I...
    EmJ317 EmJ317 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I know this may sound silly to some people,

    but the reason why I'm single and have always been is because I'm scared that if I get into a relationship with a nice guy, he'll do a 180 and start to abuse me, and I'd be too weak and scared to leave. I never want to go through an abusive relationship, physically, mentally...
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19

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    I am scared if commitment

    and I'm scared to let myself go and do things that are illogical under the name of love.
    ambrosia999 ambrosia999 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F Aug 4

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    I don't know if I want one because I'm so damaged. Im dark and twisty, and I'm to screwed up for anyone.
    mynameisthatgirl mynameisthatgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I am not ashamed to admit it.

    I am scared of relationships.It has been 3 years since break up and it still haunts me. I have trust issues.I am scared to emotionally invest in a new relationship because last one left me drained out, exhausted and heart broken. It's difficult for someone who gives all when in...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 20 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I wish i wasn't scared to love

    and would chose the right guys that can love me. I always chose the wrong ones because I know that I won't fall be attached and I can run away quickly. I make it so I can run for the exit and he most likely won't run after me. When guys are capable to love I run the opposite...
    bettybloops bettybloops 22-25, F 14 Responses Apr 16

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    I am. They honestly ruin everything

    if they don't work out. I had a friend that I care for more than anything, we had this deep connection and he meant the world to me in many ways. He still does. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes . We fell in love and for me, it was perfect. He said and did so many...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Been hurt too many times now,

    starting to give up..
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 6

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    I don't like serious relationships.

    I've had bad experiences. I do not like the baggage that comes with them. I'm a decent looking guy. Have some charm and social skills. But, for the past 8 years or so, I've avoided relationships. However, I feel like I come off as too much of a 'nice guy'. If I get involved...
    someone901 someone901 31-35, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My last relationship was mentally traumatic.

    Mind games that exceeded all my expectations would ensue over silly things. I was respectful and loyal, but that wasn't necessarily reciprocated. The relationship did teach me a lot about the kind of person I'd like to spend my time with, and I've met a few girls that I deeply...
    Supergalacticsamurai Supergalacticsamurai 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    my ex husband told me the other day

    that I could never satisfy him in bed cause I was never confident anout myself. thank you, any confidence I had gained is now gone. I'm scared of being with anyone because I don't want to disappoint them
    you2312 you2312 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 2

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    I don't want my Heart Broken again So I don't

    throw all my cards in at one time
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    My experience is weird ,

    I am in love with both of exes and not able to move on weird but true. Scared of new relationship. After meeting people for couple of times , I withdraw myself. It could be that I dont wanna get hurt no more but I still want to be loved.
    hurtangel hurtangel 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    I'm terrified of the fact

    that the Mother of my child and I might not get back together. We began to grow apart after our daughter was born. Fighting constantly, no communication, no intimacy, no sex. Our daughter is fifteen months old, and, I have been in recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction...
    DaddioFurniture DaddioFurniture 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I've been in and out of love

    but rarely in a serious relationship. It always seems like someone else feels I either need commitment or change before taking the next step. Don't get me wrong, I'm pleased with who I feel I am its not just me that needs pleasing.
    57charlie 57charlie 56-60, T Aug 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    I am currently going through a break up its

    been almost 2 months he ask me to leave so many times and I stayed because I wanted this to work it took a lot for me to finally let him go, I haven't dated anyone since because of fear. He wanted to remain friends and still communicate even though he knows it would hurt. How...
    BeautifulNiffa BeautifulNiffa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I was in an abusive, violent

    and honestly terrifying relationship for a year and half with a boy who clearly didn't love me. not only did he force me into sex, he used to beat me, put knives to my throat, smash things over my head, cheat on me, banned me from wearing makeup, skirts and shorts, wasn't...
    princesskatie7 princesskatie7 16-17, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I'm not scared just overly cautious.

    You just never know. That's the scary part. Disney movie relationships exist in Disney movies. In real life things happen in relationships. Things change and people change. Feelings can change as well. Even understanding all of this it somehow gets to me. They say you should use...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 4 Responses May 8

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    i don't ever wanna get into a relationship.

    . ever.. The only girl that I've loved in a world that love doesnt even exist for me.. not from my parents, not from my "friends", none... she was there and she loved me.. only to find out that it was nothing but a ******* LIE!! all that she has told me, all that she made me...
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 26

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    Relationships are truly wonderful.

    When two people are genuinely in love it's truly something. However, when relationships end it sucks. For my experience it was a matter of my partner not being in tune with her feelings and feeling things were rushed. We no longer had anything in common. It didn't feel like that...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    i talk a big talk online

    but i just cant do it i alway chicken out. i feel uneasy around new people but i lust for a relationship. what do i do?
    Bitchenwolf Bitchenwolf 18-21, F 6 Responses May 31

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    KindredKings KindredKings 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I have spent the better part of the last seven

    years giving all I knew how to give to my husband... I wasn't perfect of course, I've made plenty of poor choices throughout it all but I never stopped trying to better myself and our marriage. We are still married and he is content living like strangers, while I am not. I come...
    Furiousfire Furiousfire 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 17

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    A boy makes his girl jealous of other women,

    A true gentleman makes other women jealous of his girl.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    Yes, my guard is up and shouldn't it be.

    It is hard to keep trust only to get hurt. It is hard to open up yourself to someone only for them to use that information to manipulate you and destroy you. It is hard to be lied to when you are blindly thinking that your partner has your back. It is hard to spend all of you to...
    Healthyhappylife Healthyhappylife 41-45 3 Responses May 26

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    Is is possible to be in a relationship with

    someone your not too physically attracted to?
    janie94 janie94 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 27

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    Yep. People would say "it's part of life,

    it's natural" but for people who are scared like me, don't understand. I'm not saying I don't want to love, I don't want to say I'm scared. But I am. It's stopping me from being able to do things. If I was to meet up with a male, I'd automatically start to think about that...
    ThatBritishVirgin ThatBritishVirgin 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    It's difficult being with someone who's the

    opposite of you but yet love as much as I do. It does get frustrating for the fact we show each other our love different ways.
    ladylush13 ladylush13 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I just saw this story about 2 people

    who were in a relationship for almost 4 years and they broke up 5 months ago. I don't know why I got too scared, it made me realise how much I love my boyfriend and oh god, I don't know why I'm scared and my heart is pumping really fast.. I hate breakups Btw I'm 17 and I'll be...
    ReemNoctis ReemNoctis 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 30

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    Scared of wasting my time.

    Scared for falling for someone that's going to screw me over. Scared of not being loved back. I'm not cold hearted I'm just scared & tired. Why is that so hard to understand?
    MissingMistake MissingMistake 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago