I Am Scared of Sex

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    If there was no way it would hurt

    and there was no possibility of getting pregnant I wouldn't be a virgin. However I am TERRIFIED that the condom isn't going to work. I'm scared its going to break. I have been on the pill for a little over a moth but I worried there will be complications. Ugh
    awkwardailey awkwardailey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2014

    It Is Frustrating.

    I am 16, I don't plan to have sex it is just that I am scared of anything that can escalate to sex. I hate guys because they make me feel scared yet I have a lot of guy friends but not one of them flirts with me in any way and we are more like brothers. we meet and play video...
    unknown1692 unknown1692
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2013

    I Say The Feeling Is Normal

    To be young and scared of sex simply means that you are not so presumptuous as to believe that you are God's gift to the other sex. It is not trivial learning to please the opposite sex. To be young and completely unafraid of sex is evidence of arrogance or of having grown up too...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 1, 2011

    I Was To As A Child

    after many years of being raped and abused by others it was a very scary thought to have sex or make love with a person i loved but as it worked out we had many hours of playing with words and just touching each other and kissing till the one morning of graduation from the 8th...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jun 30, 2011


    i use to hate that word "sex" when i was little anytime i would hear it i would cover my ears and humm. my brothers and mom would tease me with it. one time i was humming while my brother and his wife where teasing me. then she said something but of course i didnt...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2009

    Idk I just am. I love to m:::

    and watch p:::: but it's to scary for me to think of me actually doing that stuff. I like a lot of kinky things and yes I want to so them but not yet not now. It is just to scary.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 18, 2014

    Around a year ago I was drunk

    and had a bad experience. I put myself in the situation as I was the only one responsible for the state I was in that night, so I wouldn't define it as 'rape' but I said no and the boy continued anyway with two of my friends watching next to us and laughing. I was too...
    hayl13 hayl13
    18-21, F
    Mar 22

    I am a 33 year old woman.

    I know im very attractive (sorry but you can only be told enough times before it sinks in I know this sounds really cocky). ive never had sex. I think its fear of the intimacy of someone really getting to know the real me. my mother verbally and emotionally abused me as well as...
    funkykristi funkykristi
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

    Unusual Fear...

    I don't fear sex in a way that you might automatically assume. It's not fear in the context of religion or that it's wrong or that's it evil. No fear there. It's complex, different, hard to explain and a little overwhelming for me. I don't know how to get it all out and make...
    Neur0ticism Neur0ticism
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2008
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