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I Am Scared That I Am Going to Lose All My Friends

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    I Hate Losing People.

    I'm always scared that I'm going to lose people, especially my two best friends. I would hate to lose them. I think I'm starting to drift away from some people now. Especially now school is finished. I haven't heard from some of my friends for ages. Some of them just don't...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    I get ditched a lot or people don't remember

    I'm there. I've always had this problem. Other times it's my fault. I don't keep contact with people. Whenever I want to talk to someone I always feel like in bothering them. Or they'll be mad that we haven't talked for so long. This led to a shell of sorts. I haven't tried to...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Apr 15, 2014

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    Feeling Never Goes Away....

    the feeling, and the fear that I am going to lose all my friends one day, never truly goes away :( I always am scared that i am not going to be that perfect woman that everyone here needs. I am scared that my friends aren't going to want anything to do with me anymore. I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    If They Saw The Real Me

    If they truly know I'm Emo, I'm afraid they will spread rumors that I cut myself (I don't do that), always depressed (not all the time), or I'm a freak (in an all girls school, your an outsider). I can't take that. It's too much for my already broken heart to take. I'm afraid to...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F Dec 29, 2010

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    Loseing And Forgetting

    I hate that I am not only losing I am also forgeting. I know it's stuipid fear but it's like if I have the memories of all the good times we had together then they are sort of "with" me in my heart where ever I go. Then i hav hope that mabey if I can rember them then they won't...
    ShybutBrave ShybutBrave 18-21, M Sep 12, 2010

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    Growing Up Friendless...

    And only get fake friends, has really affected me a lot. Ever since I was a kindergartener, I kind of don't have much of social skills to begin with. I wanted to make friends but I was too scared. As years go by and the only friends I get were just one day friends (friends that I...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    " What If They Find Out??? "

    Probably like other crossdresser's, I have lived in fear of being caught by a friend or family member. I  am afraid if I and ousted, I will lose the respect and love of my family and friends. Not all people understand our life style, nor do they want to accept it. To most, we...
    davis36a davis36a 61-65 Dec 28, 2011

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    I Know It's Probably An Irrational Fear....

    - But it's a fear I can't seem to shake loose of. I know that I can count on one hand the friends I have had in my life..... The real ones, the true ones, the best ones. But not one of them are in my life now. 3 are dead, 1 is AWOL, & the other just left.... -  ...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    someone can tell me that i am the most

    important person to them a thousand times and i am still terrified of annoying them.
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    More than my friend, my family.

    He means so much to me. They mean so much to me. I can't escape the fact that one day I'm gonna have to let them go, but that days not gonna be today. Or tomorrow. Or in a week. If I lose them I'm gonna go down fighting and I'm not gonna stop. No matter what he says I'm gonna...
    Helloblah17 Helloblah17 13-15, F Apr 6, 2014

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    It's Happened Before...

    ...what makes me think it won't happen again? It's almost like people get bored of me. Not really dislike, but just find that there is nothing left to talk about with me, so they just drift away. 
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    The Day I Lost Everyone Around Me

    You shouldn’t be afraid to lose your friends you shouldn’t even have to question on it let me tell you a little story.. One’s upon a time there was this boy who people hated, could not stand for what he was or who he loved but this boy had true friends that wouldn’t...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    Changing,lying,loosing,scared

    i keep changing. so do my friends i am so afraid i will loose them over these changes. While some simple things stay the same others change ,not just about us but our situations,our aspirations, and we seem to drift further apart. I have less time to give them and less time for...
    UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick 18-21 Feb 13, 2011

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    It couldn't be anymore perfect... Being best friends for 6 years and seeing each other date other people, but still have that friendship that everyone and even ourselves at one...
    njensen816 njensen816 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I know this is a long story, but trust me, its a good one! If you read it all the way through let me know! When I was around 11-12ish years old there was this group of friends...
    NathansEP NathansEP 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    So in 2 weeks I have prom and I need to fit in my dress. I started this diet with my mom and it really works. Your suppose to lose all this water weight. My mom already Lost 2 lbs...
    JJsGirl19 JJsGirl19 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I met that terrible woman today. Nicks uncles "ex" wife that loves to string the both of them along. I mean like the moment I got there he had this painful look on his face...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Today I am going to try a 10 day fitness program. My best friend lost 4lbs when she tried it. I can definitely see the results coming! She invited me to join her and even...
    VirgoGal1106 VirgoGal1106 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    hi friends,how r u all???friends can u tell me where & how I can donate my kidney for money.I need money badly,so friends please help me...
    RubelloveNaima RubelloveNaima 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    So we have been married for 5 years. I am 25, she's 26, we have 1 kid, and another on the way. My wife and I have had quite the "exciting" marriage to say the least. We always...
    bt2311 bt2311 22-25 Mar 30

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    Today was not a good day. First off when school started one of our lunch ladies had passedout. Ambulance had to come and everything. She is now at the hospital, currently still...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Although as it stands, in a new accusation in court of naked male celebrities v. Although for a few of people a person's troubles actually are always over, additionally their...
    partisonme partisonme 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I have been having a lot of family issues and they are getting worse. I came home from a week away to not being welcome in anyway. My mother still cooked me dinner but because of...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    HELP! I need advice Well this guy Met in November of 2014 he lived next door to me. We started hanging out and then by December I had a little crush on him and he did too. And...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Heyy everyone! So I've been getting messages about losing up to 15 lbs in just 21 days, although I want to note that it costs some money. If you would just like pointers on what...
    tycruz92 tycruz92 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    We saw our neighborhood fox again! It crossed through our patio while we were just inside. If being chicken is to be scared, is being fox to be brave?
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 41-45, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I want to lose weight. I want to lose at least 10-15 pounds. I want to be so skinny, I can barley walk. So skinny, my bones stick out. I really wish I was skinny like all the other...
    crazydreamer101 crazydreamer101 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    so my coworker said he's going to buy his wife a gift (just cause) and asked my opinion ... all I'm thinking is "how the **** does that happen?" ..i dont get "just cause" gifts
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

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    I like being curvy dont get me wrong, but sometimes it sucks a lot. Lets just say i'm not the most athletic or toned. It also sucks cause its hard to find cloth that fit me well...
    abbybear2 abbybear2 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm scared of every aspect of my life right now. I'm scared that I won't end the semester as strong as I began it. Scared that I'll lose my scholarship, scared that I'll fail my...
    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i don't know any androgynous people. i love androgyny. androgyny is a state of mind, not just a fashion statement. it looks great when done right, but i like it when there's more...
    zudobug zudobug 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have a really good friend and we get along so well and hang out a lot, but my god I hate her best friend whom I've known since high school and she drives me ******* nuts like omg...
    Allj93 Allj93 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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      Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,Relationships are what makes up society. We all live our lives and go about everything trying to be happy. It is hard to be happy in life and...
    TrustIsLife TrustIsLife 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Is not weird for me to have some like insects crawling on my body at some times ? It won't go away unless if touch that area. And it scares me to the point I can't sleep thinking...
    PitchPerfect01 PitchPerfect01 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I don't have friends in real life but talking to my online friends whether it's on FB, KikMessenger, Skyping, or eve people on PSN I find my self laughing out loud and feeling so...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    So back when i was in 5th grade i had no one until i met a girl and we became Bff (i'm a dude) we laughed we had fun we talked day and night and the whole year it was just PERFECT...
    themainguy themainguy 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    I didn't realize until today how much I need to lose weight. I'm not "fat" but I'm a little chubby. And in the photos taken of my siblings and myself, I look like I've gained 10...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    i will always be a loser and im proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    JolenaMartins JolenaMartins 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    hi everyone, i am HummingTree :)... and i love music especially the sounds that nature gives, and... oh, I love Trees (u can see my username) haha :)... well, my real name actually...
    hummingtree hummingtree 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Idk, but it really ****** me off when people say they are like too fat/too skinny or want to lose/gain weight...but do nothing about it. Like, dude, you are not going to become...
    TheArtisticOne TheArtisticOne 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Sure they are real, I am real. I always try to be real both on and offline. But gathering the fact that there are fakes in real life, there are also fakes in online friendships...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm scared of everything lately. I'm scared of living. I'm terrified of dying, which I suppose is why I stay. The fear of death and what's after is more overwhelming than the fear...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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