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I Am Scared That I Am Going to Lose All My Friends

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    I Hate Losing People.

    I'm always scared that I'm going to lose people, especially my two best friends. I would hate to lose them. I think I'm starting to drift away from some people now. Especially now school is finished. I haven't heard from some of my friends for ages. Some of them just don't...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    I get ditched a lot or people don't remember

    I'm there. I've always had this problem. Other times it's my fault. I don't keep contact with people. Whenever I want to talk to someone I always feel like in bothering them. Or they'll be mad that we haven't talked for so long. This led to a shell of sorts. I haven't tried to...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 16-17, F Apr 15, 2014

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    More than my friend, my family.

    He means so much to me. They mean so much to me. I can't escape the fact that one day I'm gonna have to let them go, but that days not gonna be today. Or tomorrow. Or in a week. If I lose them I'm gonna go down fighting and I'm not gonna stop. No matter what he says I'm gonna...
    Helloblah17 Helloblah17 13-15, F Apr 6, 2014

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    The Day I Lost Everyone Around Me

    You shouldn’t be afraid to lose your friends you shouldn’t even have to question on it let me tell you a little story.. One’s upon a time there was this boy who people hated, could not stand for what he was or who he loved but this boy had true friends that wouldn’t...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    It's Happened Before...

    ...what makes me think it won't happen again? It's almost like people get bored of me. Not really dislike, but just find that there is nothing left to talk about with me, so they just drift away. 
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    I Know It's Probably An Irrational Fear....

    - But it's a fear I can't seem to shake loose of. I know that I can count on one hand the friends I have had in my life..... The real ones, the true ones, the best ones. But not one of them are in my life now. 3 are dead, 1 is AWOL, & the other just left.... -  ...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    Growing Up Friendless...

    And only get fake friends, has really affected me a lot. Ever since I was a kindergartener, I kind of don't have much of social skills to begin with. I wanted to make friends but I was too scared. As years go by and the only friends I get were just one day friends (friends that I...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    If They Saw The Real Me

    If they truly know I'm Emo, I'm afraid they will spread rumors that I cut myself (I don't do that), always depressed (not all the time), or I'm a freak (in an all girls school, your an outsider). I can't take that. It's too much for my already broken heart to take. I'm afraid to...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F Dec 29, 2010

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    Changing,lying,loosing,scared

    i keep changing. so do my friends i am so afraid i will loose them over these changes. While some simple things stay the same others change ,not just about us but our situations,our aspirations, and we seem to drift further apart. I have less time to give them and less time for...
    UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick 18-21 Feb 13, 2011

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    " What If They Find Out??? "

    Probably like other crossdresser's, I have lived in fear of being caught by a friend or family member. I  am afraid if I and ousted, I will lose the respect and love of my family and friends. Not all people understand our life style, nor do they want to accept it. To most, we...
    davis36a davis36a 61-65 Dec 28, 2011

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    Feeling Never Goes Away....

    the feeling, and the fear that I am going to lose all my friends one day, never truly goes away :( I always am scared that i am not going to be that perfect woman that everyone here needs. I am scared that my friends aren't going to want anything to do with me anymore. I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    someone can tell me that i am the most

    important person to them a thousand times and i am still terrified of annoying them.
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Loseing And Forgetting

    I hate that I am not only losing I am also forgeting. I know it's stuipid fear but it's like if I have the memories of all the good times we had together then they are sort of "with" me in my heart where ever I go. Then i hav hope that mabey if I can rember them then they won't...
    ShybutBrave ShybutBrave 18-21, M Sep 12, 2010

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    Because I can. Happy childhood memories. I was working in the lab late one night. When my eyes beheld an eerie sight. For my monster from his slab began to rise. And suddenly to...
    PrincessLuna24 PrincessLuna24 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I want to loose 14 pounds and it's just not coming off.Been going to the gym but I'm sure it's what I'm eating so I've cut out chocolate and soda and increasing the fibre in my...
    Confused848 Confused848 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have Friends from all over the Globe.. Thank you everybody !
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am not one of those people who are good at getting to know someone. But to be honest, they don't want to get to know me back. I am always looking in the wrong places. I either...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm done forcing you to do things... if you do them, you do them. Plain and simple and if you dont, and I end up leaving you in the dust, you can't blame anyone but yourself...
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    I don't know, this is probably the wrong group to be posting in, but. I actually thought today would be the day she grew up, and stopped being so freaking scared. Today was the day...
    debonaireash debonaireash 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    I want to get a bypass. I'm overweight and need to lose 100 lbs. but I fear surgery and the effects I will have afterwards.
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    I really don't have GOOD friends. . all my friends are stupid. .. I want to meet new people
    HISHAM9in8wonderland HISHAM9in8wonderland 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    Hey guys, today's song is Walk by Foo Fighters. Hope y'all like it.
    xJesse24 xJesse24 22-25, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I do not have good friends currently, but in the past I cherished anyone I considered my friend. Good friends make life sweeter. A friend in need is a friend in deed.
    SoftCandle SoftCandle 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Three years ago my bf and I moved away from the town I had lived in for almost 20 years. I left my job of 8 years that I loved. We took a leap of faith and it backfired. I didn't...
    MireilleM MireilleM 41-45, F 12 hrs ago

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    i really thought i was done with spankings i am 14 years old after all... but yesterday my dad spanked me like crazy... it still hurts so much and i can only really lie on my...
    SadGirl02 SadGirl02 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    Making friends isn't essential to our life. Our purpose is to live life doing what we love to do. Along the way we meet people, some we connect with, others we don't. When we meet...
    joahola98wj joahola98wj 26-30, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Sometimes, I go to the Pizza Hut buffet! I eat the equivalent of 4 large pizzas! I get so full but it's so good!
    fattyfatt8 fattyfatt8 18-21, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    all of my all friends are absolute oposite of me, they all quiet shy, reserved while im all the place like, and very social
    FelineLover311 FelineLover311 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Who knows what my future will hold but one thing I'm sure of is that there will be long stretches of loneliness broken up with a fleeting glance from a stranger or a friendly...
    FriendsAreFoodNotPeople FriendsAreFoodNotPeople 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Friday I'm sleeping over his house with our son. our son is excited to have a sleep over with his sisters. I'm looking foward to being in bed with my ex and cuddle. I'm not...
    smashmouth4eva smashmouth4eva 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    so I've been here in this annoying and demonic place my whole life I grew up harnessing negativity until it molded me as a worst person and actually it change my mental state...
    aereuz2 aereuz2 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I really am.32 years old,leeching of my 56 year old mom and my 25 year old brother.I don't actually spend my either,I don't go out,I don't smoke/drink,I don't own a car...Never...
    GenuineLoser GenuineLoser 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    I am going through radical changes in my life everyday and every mistakes that I have, you know I'm learning from all of it I'm going through a ladder I think sometimes inheriting...
    aereuz2 aereuz2 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    This is the heart of which my pain derives. It is the reason I feel fear. If you have nothing to lose, then there is nothing to fear. I am terrified of liking this person too...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like I can't ever be in a relationship because my mind is back and forth between nothing and everything. I'm too scared to let anyone who has interest in me past friendship...
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