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I Am Scared That I Am Going to Lose All My Friends

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    Growing Up Friendless...

    And only get fake friends, has really affected me a lot. Ever since I was a kindergartener, I kind of don't have much of social skills to begin with. I wanted to make friends but I was too scared. As years go by and the only friends I get were just one day friends (friends that I...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    " What If They Find Out??? "

    Probably like other crossdresser's, I have lived in fear of being caught by a friend or family member. I  am afraid if I and ousted, I will lose the respect and love of my family and friends. Not all people understand our life style, nor do they want to accept it. To most, we...
    davis36a davis36a 61-65 Dec 28, 2011

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    someone can tell me that i am the most

    important person to them a thousand times and i am still terrified of annoying them.
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    It's Happened Before...

    ...what makes me think it won't happen again? It's almost like people get bored of me. Not really dislike, but just find that there is nothing left to talk about with me, so they just drift away. 
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Feeling Never Goes Away....

    the feeling, and the fear that I am going to lose all my friends one day, never truly goes away :( I always am scared that i am not going to be that perfect woman that everyone here needs. I am scared that my friends aren't going to want anything to do with me anymore. I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I get ditched a lot or people don't remember

    I'm there. I've always had this problem. Other times it's my fault. I don't keep contact with people. Whenever I want to talk to someone I always feel like in bothering them. Or they'll be mad that we haven't talked for so long. This led to a shell of sorts. I haven't tried to...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Apr 15

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    I Know It's Probably An Irrational Fear....

    - But it's a fear I can't seem to shake loose of. I know that I can count on one hand the friends I have had in my life..... The real ones, the true ones, the best ones. But not one of them are in my life now. 3 are dead, 1 is AWOL, & the other just left.... -  ...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    The Day I Lost Everyone Around Me

    You shouldn’t be afraid to lose your friends you shouldn’t even have to question on it let me tell you a little story.. One’s upon a time there was this boy who people hated, could not stand for what he was or who he loved but this boy had true friends that wouldn’t...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    I Hate Losing People.

    I'm always scared that I'm going to lose people, especially my two best friends. I would hate to lose them. I think I'm starting to drift away from some people now. Especially now school is finished. I haven't heard from some of my friends for ages. Some of them just don't...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    Loseing And Forgetting

    I hate that I am not only losing I am also forgeting. I know it's stuipid fear but it's like if I have the memories of all the good times we had together then they are sort of "with" me in my heart where ever I go. Then i hav hope that mabey if I can rember them then they won't...
    ShybutBrave ShybutBrave 18-21, M Sep 12, 2010

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    If They Saw The Real Me

    If they truly know I'm Emo, I'm afraid they will spread rumors that I cut myself (I don't do that), always depressed (not all the time), or I'm a freak (in an all girls school, your an outsider). I can't take that. It's too much for my already broken heart to take. I'm afraid to...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F Dec 29, 2010

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    Changing,lying,loosing,scared

    i keep changing. so do my friends i am so afraid i will loose them over these changes. While some simple things stay the same others change ,not just about us but our situations,our aspirations, and we seem to drift further apart. I have less time to give them and less time for...
    UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick 18-21 Feb 13, 2011

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    More than my friend, my family.

    He means so much to me. They mean so much to me. I can't escape the fact that one day I'm gonna have to let them go, but that days not gonna be today. Or tomorrow. Or in a week. If I lose them I'm gonna go down fighting and I'm not gonna stop. No matter what he says I'm gonna...
    Helloblah17 Helloblah17 13-15, F Apr 6

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    Its very annoying. Some people just don't care. They let it go on and on, until its convenient for them to get out and stop it.
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    Look I don't think you guys understand what you are about to do. You may think you do but you don't Someone will lose their kid. Someone will lose their friends and someone will...
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    I'm scared to lose my boyfriend. I love him too much. I'm scared I'll mess up our relationship or he'll stop being interested in me. And I'm only this way because I mess up all of...
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    Well, i was bestfriends with this girl since primary school (im in secondary school now). We used to be like sisters, but one day she completely backstabbed me. She told me that i...
    GeorgiaMartin GeorgiaMartin 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    There are many reasons why I want to lose weight, and one of them is for this guy I heart alot. You cannot blame any overweight girl for dreaming about this. But this guy is...
    MPBJane MPBJane 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I don't know if I am depressed or not, I think depressed people are likely to be more devastated while I still have some strength left in me, or maybe I am just too strong as I...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I really don't trust people, people say I'm socially awkward but I just cannot stand going through all the nice stages of having a new friendship gaining someone's trust making new...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I've had a friend for about 2 years now I met her as a mutual friend but we clicked right away she's three years older than me but right away that didn't matter we are always...
    persishine persishine 16-17, F Jun 29

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    I need a texting buddy to help me lose all my fat, Im gross and feral and I need to be skinny!
    NeeDTooLose NeeDTooLose 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I am so ******* angry and frustrated all the time, feel like my life is just going **** all no where
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F Jul 8

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    So I've lived on Japan for a while and learned quite a bit of Japanese and I don't want to lose my speaking ability... Anyone looking for a new friend to help me keep my Japanese...
    SpumRocket13 SpumRocket13 22-25, M 1 Response 36 mins ago

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    I want to lose weight too, but I get concerned for so many young people who post on here. Wanting to try this extreme fasting or diet. The goal should be to be healthier and not...
    MegMichelle29 MegMichelle29 26-30, F 3 Responses 44 mins ago

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    I'm a 45 year old loser that still lives with his mother. I not only hate my life right now, I hated it yesterday, the day before that, 40 years ago, and will hate it tomorrow and...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M Jul 8

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    . I like to make up songs while I'm brushing my teeth! And it makes me laugh when I hear myself ! 2. I'm hopelessly addicted to using exclamations points excessively!!!! 3. I have...
    Alicexnum2 Alicexnum2 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    So, here's the thing, I can't do a dietary program. I can't go to a gym. I am thirteen. There is not much that I can do for myself that is legal. Both of my parents work full...
    EmmyK2001 EmmyK2001 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm scared everyday to lose the people I care about lost. All day long I think about them and I hope that they are all okay❤️ All I want is for them to be safe and happy. If...
    bebe805 bebe805 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I don't know what's wrong with me. Just all of a sudden be become paranoid. It's been going on for almost two weeks. I feel watched, I feel like any second something is going to...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F Jul 5

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    i'm writing this story for people to read and learn about something that so many ask about and rather then repeatedly writing about the same thing I'm going to put it all here I'm...
    tom67890 tom67890 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I always have been I always will be, because your beautiful because your everything I ever wanted, and my dreams don't come true. I am so scared I'll lose you that I do everything...
    FeelingAmazingRightNow FeelingAmazingRightNow 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I always have been I always will be, because your beautiful because your everything I ever wanted, and my dreams don't come true. I am so scared I'll lose you that I do everything...
    FeelingAmazingRightNow FeelingAmazingRightNow 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I have no clue what career I want to pursue although I have Ideas but I haven't made up my mind yet. I love biology and I sort of conquered chemistry this year although it was...
    l212 l212 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was drawing Tuesday night.. And I was listening to music I do that so I don't get scared. I used to be afraid to go in my own room. me and Jake used to sleep with dad every...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I wake up with worry overcoming me. Sleep doesn't tend to come easy for the same reason. I am, I believe a smart person, although I never apply myself due to my constant worry and...
    depressedlonelyabused depressedlonelyabused 26-30, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I constantly feel fat. I feel fat around all of my friends and family and I'm so pressured to lose weight. I've lost 7 lbs but its so hard and I'm afraid I won't be able to lose...
    justbarelygettingby justbarelygettingby 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm going to be starting my first year of high school soon. I'm absolutely terrified. I've been at the same school for 9 years and have been surrounded by basically that same group...
    pleasedonthugme pleasedonthugme 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't know where to begin.... My Mum and Dad were only 19 when they had me. They broke up when I was very young, but they were still civil for my sake. I lived with My Mum but...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i can hardly even think about it without crying. I feel it now. The hot tears running down my face. Ill have to hide it. From my parents. From my friends. From everyone. This is...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    Life is hard if you are a loser. I was allways a loser. Since my school years i spend my days alone. From 1 grade to 7 grade i had 2 best friends. But after i moved out from my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm a middle-schooler and this past year I had a really hard time making friends. People ignored me all the time and I would just sit by myself in class alone while everyone...
    kaseyf2801 kaseyf2801 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Okay... This is semi accurate. I do want to lose weight, I'm in my natural wall hitting area. It's weird. I don't try to lose weight, I just do... I lose and gain around 50...
    Drechavo Drechavo 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I am going through a lot right now, and I feel very much alone. I am trying to put myself back together, but I know its going to take some time. The road I am on, is a bumpy one...
    LostAriel LostAriel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Why do I think like this? My mother thinks I'm going crazy. She wants to take me to the doctors. I just can't sleep or eat. I'm tired but I can't sleep. I had a panic attack a...
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Once upon a time I was . But it happened suddenly that I stopped being scared of the dark , I would stand near a door of a dark room and lose myself there I would think and look...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I am so sick and tired of feeling like a loser. I wasn't always like this, at one point in my teenage years I even had a good social life. I've only had one boyfriend my when I was...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 16

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