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I Am Scared to Change

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    I have therapy on Monday I don't know

    why I am scared but I am I don't know if my therapist is a man or a women for some reason girls don't like me that much I hope she or he is nice
    Froyojogo Froyojogo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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     I've seen my mother's house tonight. Spent the whole night there and never really feeling at home at all. I wonder if every change in my life is worth enduring cause at the end of the day, all I really remember is the way it used to be. It is a good thing that mom's out of...
    thegirlinterrupted thegirlinterrupted 18-21, F Dec 6, 2009

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    to Many Chances

    i have been given so many chances. i have 3 girls, a wife which i have promised so many times that they do not trust me anymore.i am in out patient treatment yet it is not helping. i want to just die.i am tired of feeling sorry for myself. i think that there is no other option.
    farrell farrell 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2006

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    Scared To Change

    Scared to change,Was,Not now,I've changed,Once I accepted things,Life flowed,Now,I'm on my way.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2012

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    I've already changed sooo ...

    I've already changed sooo much, i'm used to it!! But I am TERRIFIED to die!
    chateone chateone 18-21, F Feb 9, 2007

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    As a Person Yes. ...

    As a person yes. what happens if it turns out bad?  
    cluck cluck 16-17, F Feb 9, 2007

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    I did stupid things in my past that were really immature and idiotic but i hate when people act like a person cant change. Stop bringing up my past its over now im tryna move on...
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    In august 2014 I was raped by a man in a hotel room. Only 3 people know about this and they all live away from me. You could say it was my fault I mean why did I go into that hotel...
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    I'm not scared just overly cautious. You just never know. That's the scary part. Disney movie relationships exist in Disney movies. In real life things happen in relationships...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 3 Responses May 8

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    But also trying to find the courage to change the things I can& the wisdom to know the difference.
    Sugasug Sugasug 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    In December of 2014, my life was changed forever. I was a depressed teenager, and I always remained cold towards my entire family. I pretty much hated everyone and anyone that...
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    I changed my mind about moving. Every year we get tired of the snow and talk about moving to Florida. I spent my two week vacation there and it was crowded and everyone drove like...
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    Not /scared/ per se, more just... Harsh dislike. Hard to describe. I have this problem where every time someone tells me they like me, I immediately dislike them. I could be as...
    LittleWolf21 LittleWolf21 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    When I look back at my life, my friends, my family, the world in general, it is undeniable that everything and everyone changes over time. Therefore I feel unable to promise to do...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I used to be abused by my dad, back when i was 14 and 15 years old, when my sister moved out and wasn't there to protect me... I've always had problems with my parents... my mom...
    AliceaA17 AliceaA17 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3

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    i am scared of losing my other half. i get increasingly scared now as me and my other half are in different school now. due to all the arguments before maybe our love is nt the...
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I am scared of so many things. Of love, my future, my thoughts and actions. I am scared that I will always love him and will have to see him love other people that aren't me and...
    WhyWasIStupid WhyWasIStupid 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F Apr 28

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    And there's nothing that'll change that because things will never be the same. I don't even feel like I'm the same person. Like a part of me died inside.. I've always been the...
    RainBow018 RainBow018 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    It hurts when you finally realize that the person you thought was meant for you really isn't. You had this illusion in your mind that this would be the person you were meant to be...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 1 Response May 2

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    I'm ready. I deserve to be happy. I'm scared but I'm going to do it anyway. I have to fight for what I want. Don't believe me just watch.
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I feel fear, like any man, woman and child I feel fear and why wouldn't I? The future is unknown to me, each day. the world seems to get worse and worse, all this talk of ISIS and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10

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    He was my first everything and I let that get to me... When you're young (like I still am) you only see the bright side, and then all the bad in the world knocks you off your...
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    How do you let go of the demons that haunt your past, scared,angry,bitter afraid to trust,love or heal. sometimes I just feel like curling up in a ball crying my eyes out. my...
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    I'll be honest. I am scared. I am scared to take that leap of faith in facing this future that I might or might not have. I know that bring scared is normal, but it can be so...
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    I'm scared I won't be able to move. I'm having trouble finding somewhere to live and I'm scared I won't get into de anza. I'm really scared that I won't be able to be with my...
    CeBeY1 CeBeY1 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I will be turning 23 this month and I've still never been in a relationship. I'm so lonely. I live by myself in a very remote area and I don't have enough money to move, I've lived...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Although ..I am a happy and bubbly sunshine...there's a moment that I could get scared to..... and I am scared..
    cherry2015 cherry2015 36-40, F 3 Responses May 1

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    Hippodippo257 Hippodippo257 16-17, F May 2

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