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I Am Scared to Change

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    Scared To Change

    Scared to change,Was,Not now,I've changed,Once I accepted things,Life flowed,Now,I'm on my way.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2012

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    I have therapy on Monday I don't know

    why I am scared but I am I don't know if my therapist is a man or a women for some reason girls don't like me that much I hope she or he is nice
    nadirah96 nadirah96 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    As a Person Yes. ...

    As a person yes. what happens if it turns out bad?  
    cluck cluck 16-17, F Feb 9, 2007

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    to Many Chances

    i have been given so many chances. i have 3 girls, a wife which i have promised so many times that they do not trust me anymore.i am in out patient treatment yet it is not helping. i want to just die.i am tired of feeling sorry for myself. i think that there is no other option.
    farrell farrell 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2006

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    I've already changed sooo ...

    I've already changed sooo much, i'm used to it!! But I am TERRIFIED to die!
    chateone chateone 18-21, F Feb 9, 2007

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    Real Life Pause Button

     I've seen my mother's house tonight. Spent the whole night there and never really feeling at home at all. I wonder if every change in my life is worth enduring cause at the end of the day, all I really remember is the way it used to be. It is a good thing that mom's out of...
    thegirlinterrupted thegirlinterrupted 18-21, F Dec 6, 2009

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    Too Scared And Too Depressed

    Every second of everyday I am reminded that i need to change.  I need to change everything about me, everything about how I act, how I look, how I treat people, how I react to things.  But I'm too weak.  I'm too weak and scared and depressed to make a change...
    FallingStarr FallingStarr 18-21, F Mar 10, 2010

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    This might be my last job to live my life, I've worked for 5 different jobs in 5years, after graduating college. Now I am 27, I've dated 4 different wonderful man in a serious...
    27girl 27girl 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    I've had enough of the bullshit. Second marriage, second time of lies! No more, I'm living a lie. I know that wife is a cheater. I have been playing the fool, pretending...
    dave6866 dave6866 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Picking yourself up after a drastic change in your life and losing a friendship at the same time is very hard. I know, because I am going through it right now. It's a change that...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm scared what people will think if I change
    taylor125 taylor125 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    My last boyfriend was a volatile guy. When we started out we were so happy, he was just what I needed; he was so different to anyone I'd met, it was exciting being around him and...
    Jonesie96 Jonesie96 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I have always been a good student but I have major confidence issues and trust issues. Thats because i was bullied , and molested as a kid . I am too scared to raise my voice...
    hustlerespectloyal121 hustlerespectloyal121 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I like you now but what happens if I change my mind or you care more than I do or things change . People leave and I'm not prepared for that .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    So tonight Shelby faceted me and i left my towel on the ground. My mom comes in my room and starts yelling me over a towel that was on the ground for 5 minutes. Shelby ends the...
    caileenclaire caileenclaire 13-15, F Mar 15

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    My partner and I have been together almost 2 years now. They have been seriously tough we have had more downs then up even before we started dating. I am madly in love with him and...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I hope you can't even imagine the pain I went through. People say there's 3 types of abuse... Take em all, put em in a blender, mix it and out comes a big disgusting mush of pain...
    bluecupcakes bluecupcakes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    JohnnysAngel JohnnysAngel 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I hate my anxiety, for example, everyday, I sit in school everyday I'm stressing over stupid petty things, like each class I worry over having to work w people, because all my...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Mar 17

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    Death, it is a main factor in our lives. In my opinion, death is the center of many things in human life and society, like the principle of “carpe diem” (enjoy the present...
    DiegoSMarinho DiegoSMarinho 16-17, M Mar 18

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    The future is scary as ****. Your whole life could change in a matter of minutes. Everything you worked for could just disappear. You could die tomorrow. Or you could win the...
    Shadowshow Shadowshow 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Why are people so resistant to physical aging, when it's natural for your body to change and age. I guess its the same kinda thing as when girls think they need to be thin, blame...
    Nessa11231 Nessa11231 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am often scared if what my future will bring..
    Diriva Diriva 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've always been.. I'm scared of getting close, I'm scared of the end, I'm scared of judgement. I'm not even a good person by myself, and sharing myself with someone wouldn't...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 5

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    Idk I just can't sleep anymore I keep waking up early, I keep having bad thoughts come back then they go away everything is just killing me inside Idk why but I'm just happy to...
    shyguy747 shyguy747 13-15, M Mar 12

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    So today I have a hospital appointment I am very scared about. Iv gone through each scenario in my head, at least 10 times. And I'm really scared about what tests they might need...
    strawberryblonde89 strawberryblonde89 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I'm Scared of Life... like every day you woke up you feel nothing but fear.... I'm also terrified with strangers and scared of people around me.. I'm Scared of everything ....
    Ehnyl Ehnyl 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    I am 27 weeks pregnant. I have ALWAYS wanted a baby and now that I am pregnant, I'm really scared I won't make a good mother. I have very bad social anxiety and very low self...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi everyone, i was just finishing of my coursework's, and i remembered the EP app. I was really distracted by this app for a long period of time, reading a lot of experiences and...
    Masuka99 Masuka99 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm scared of losing people, I wonder if people are scared of losing me.........
    kst97 kst97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I just found out my rapist had unblocked me on Facebook and he's been watching me. I'm beyond scared. I still haven't reported it. I got too scared. How can I tell my boyfriend the...
    ddc95 ddc95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I am scared if commitment and I'm scared to let myself go and do things that are illogical under the name of love.
    ambrosia999 ambrosia999 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    My Dad. His heart isn't working the right way. Its skipping beats. I'm so scared to lose my Dad. He's the person I've modeled myself after. Looked up to. I'm so scared.
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I am ftm and have been for at least a year. I have told everyone I know... Except my family. My dad has a shot gun in the garage for the boys I bring over... What if I'm the boy...
    Hunter239 Hunter239 13-15 Mar 7

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    I scared that I have scared him away...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    **WARNING: A big rant ahead, so read it only if you'd like :3 I know that i'm still young, but I'm a bit scared of falling in love and, eventually, getting married in the future...
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 13-15 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I was raped by my exboyfriend when we were still together... I was 14 and he was at the same age as me. He didn't physically rape me but mentally pressured me a lot and force me to...
    qingxiaqiantong qingxiaqiantong 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I get sort of close and then I get scared and I push them away. I wish I could be able to get close but I'm too scared and I just push them away and i'm left alone.
    Insanity404 Insanity404 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I am really scared.. I am scared of my past, my present and my future and I cannot seem to escape from this prison that is called my head. I don't want to go the way I am heading...
    BloodRedRiver BloodRedRiver 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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