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I Am Scared to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    I've always wanted to get married but I'm afraid to ever do it. I see so many people on here and in real life that are bored or unhappy and wish they didn't get married. It's such...
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    I am from Mumbai India. Wanted to share something that has been taking me to ultimate limits of s****l satisfaction and at times sinking me into deep emotional depressive state...
    MumbaiMember MumbaiMember 31-35, M 10 Responses Oct 16

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    My friend and I began an "affair" around 8 months ago. We're both involved in very loveless long term commitments (neither of us are leaving, due to children), although neither of...
    aulaLaine aulaLaine 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 28

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    I am all your shoes also… love him but hate him. The smell pushes me away. My husband has been drinking for over 10 years. We have a rough marriage from the get go….jail...
    stuckindia stuckindia 36-40 Oct 4

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    been married 18 years and a stay home dad for 16 years.. the last 10 years I told my wife I was unhappy and wanted out and she did very little to change and now that I got a job...
    azcat6969 azcat6969 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    Well my relationship started with the good ol Facebook. We went to school together in a small bayou town. Haven't seen or heard from him since finishing school. One day i was just...
    hisbabydoll1215 hisbabydoll1215 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    I should be happy! I have an awesome husband (even though he is no where near perfect) who takes care of me very well. I'm so bored sexually I could pull my hair out. I resent him...
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    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Possible pregnant, Single, and potential baby daddy is getting married in two days. Terrified.
    Bluetoothfairy Bluetoothfairy 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    What is love? Saying "I love you" every day? Canoodling? Buying presents? Helping with chores? Having sex? Physical attraction? Loyalty? Honesty? Living together? Laughing or...
    nojokeintended nojokeintended 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M Oct 9

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    I am so tired. These past few months it has gotten worse. I don't know how to behave around new people or people I barely know, especially those I feel inferior around. That counts...
    haroni haroni 22-25, F Oct 14

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    mydarlin mydarlin 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    First off, this is completely new to me. I don't even no where to begin. So, here goes and it will be long, cause I want to put everything out there. This is my 2nd marriage and...
    Mountainsandnaturestorms Mountainsandnaturestorms 36-40, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is to all the women having affairs with married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 5

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    I married the favorite in his family. Favorites have one thing going for them non-favorites miss...they have a family cheerleading squad behind them and a family fan club! The...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    It's been a little over a month now, and I ( 22 ) have been seeing a married man ( 35 ) . At first, I wasn't even aware he was married.. We met at a bar. He was alone having a...
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    I THINK UNSOLICITED HONEY-DO LISTS SUCK!WARNING!!! What I am about to discuss below is controversial. It might offend some sensibilities. So if you read it brace yourself. WARNING...
    MarredMind MarredMind 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 16

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    I never wanted to get married growing up. I talked about it with a couple of friends because that's what girls are "supposed" to do, but I truly wasn't interested. Now that I'm...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    alexyay alexyay 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    There is this older man whom my parents who very well.. However i am very scared of him.. He gives me very weird perverted looks and always tries too touch me.. Im too scared to...
    believexo believexo 16-17, F Sep 27

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    I haven't been on in a while, because I tried to kill myself and ended up pretty bad. But I'm not dead, so it was a waste of time. I'm scared of myself now, and I'm scared about...
    Rubyrooo Rubyrooo 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I'm scared of losing everything again. I have been through some of the worst things possible and I have come a long way from all that. I'm doing so well. I've been clean and sober...
    angelwings1998 angelwings1998 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm going to the doctors tomorrow...:( because I cut myself to deep and my mom found out, so she's getting me some help:/ first she looked at me like I was stupid, then a little...
    jeyhere jeyhere 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I went to the doctors with my throat thinking it was tonsillitis. They've told me I need to go back tomorrow. It's apparently important. As my previous post states I make myself...
    kadesxx kadesxx 18-21, F Oct 8

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    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    There's several things I am scared! I'm scared to lose my bf who is locked up & I don't hear from him much or his family or friends! Nothing happening, according to his letter I...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F Oct 15

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    Im scared, away from home along ways. I miss having family to talk me about the stupid **** on tv and the **** my mom would read on the internet or my family at the fire...
    Cbh004 Cbh004 18-21, M Oct 17

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    Where to begin... I myself am married and I am currently at the beginning of an affair with a married man. This affair began primarily so that I could get over a man whom I have...
    SoSocioYaKnow SoSocioYaKnow 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So, even though I broke it off, I am still scared of my now ex. When we were together he would try to get me alone with him... When we were alone he would start kissing me and...
    xxbrokengirl98xx xxbrokengirl98xx 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm so scared i'm going to lose my mum she got a lesion taken off her finger and the doctor said it was precancerous so they got it before anything developed but what if they're...
    ccher95 ccher95 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I'm scared of everything...the dark because it manifests itself into creatures, boys because of their abusive tendencies, the thunder and wind because of how loud it violently...
    Quackimaducky Quackimaducky 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    I've been married for 10 years, & I feel more alone than I've been. We have 3 children, & I pretend to be happy for their sakes. The way I look at it, I have only 2 options. Stay...
    NubianQueen15 NubianQueen15 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 25

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    My wife and I have been married for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 25 Responses Sep 25

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    Right now. Later on down the road yes. I'm not trying to throw stones at anyone but why in the hell would you want to get married at 20? You have had no time at all to grow and...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27

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