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I Am Scared to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    I'm just scared of commitment. Or it's more of a dislike rather then being scared of it. I can't date to long because then I feel trapped. People normally want to have a family...
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    It's still fresh in my memory when I was a kid, I could imagine living all by myself when I grow up rather than having a family on my own or having a child without a husband. Long...
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    Just received my exs proposal for future of custody of our girls. None of it puts them first. It's heart breaking the life he wants to force them to live. I'm so scared he'll...
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    I'm really terrified of getting attached to people as well as places. I never wanted to buy anything I couldn't just pack in a bag and move. It used to fill me with a lot of...
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    HELP!!!!!I haven't slept with him. But I want too and I know he does to. I'm 23 and a virgin. He is much older man And my supervisor. I've worked with him for years, I truly think...
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    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 30 Responses May 17

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    davex4 davex4 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    In august 2014 I was raped by a man in a hotel room. Only 3 people know about this and they all live away from me. You could say it was my fault I mean why did I go into that hotel...
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    I'll be honest. I am scared. I am scared to take that leap of faith in facing this future that I might or might not have. I know that bring scared is normal, but it can be so...
    Syafika Syafika 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    CeBeY1 CeBeY1 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Leaderkyuzizi Leaderkyuzizi 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I will be turning 23 this month and I've still never been in a relationship. I'm so lonely. I live by myself in a very remote area and I don't have enough money to move, I've lived...
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    cherry2015 cherry2015 36-40, F 3 Responses May 1

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    I'm Carson. I'm a sixteen year old ftm. I'm scared to come out to my parents. Two weeks ago I got my hair cut off like a scene boy. My mom yelled at me in the car afterwards and...
    kloudkat kloudkat 16-17, T May 10

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    I am ashamed to say I've truly been questioning what the point is in everything.. I feel trapped... I am lost. I'm scared because I used to dream so much about my future and now it...
    Helen91x Helen91x 22-25, F May 11

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