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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F Aug 1, 2012

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    I was drawing Tuesday night.. And I was listening to music I do that so I don't get scared. I used to be afraid to go in my own room. me and Jake used to sleep with dad every...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I found this spider in the bath it is a big one and I am the only one that is not scared of them In the house so I put it out of the window
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    I am very happily married and have been for well over 20 years. My husband and I have four kids together. I have two boys and two girls.
    femalenakedathome femalenakedathome 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My question is so what if I am married and being the other woman? I like to ride on the thrills and love to face challenges!! I am the other woman and He is the other man.. No...
    prettygoddess prettygoddess 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Uh oh... No way to live... Not passing judgement here on anyone in these situations Been there too myself, but i do know that youve got too look deep inside why you are both...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I was married once, my marriage was annulled. I have a daughter who lives with me. She is always a part of me, and will always be with me. I need a man who will understand and...
    MissKassandra MissKassandra 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Marriage is what you make of it. I got married 12 years ago at the age of 19. We've had good years and bad years, but I believe the best years are always the ones where we both...
    jlestep jlestep 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My husband and I started dating when we were back in high school as sophomores. He was a jock and I was attracted to that. When we graduated high school we broke up for a few...
    akahlig2 akahlig2 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I've been married almost 20 years, to a man who I thought I'd be with for ever. The happiest day of live were being together. Before we met I didn't care if I died, then I loved my...
    katlance5 katlance5 41-45, F Jun 25

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    I'm married for 11 years and have 2 beautiful young children. My husband and I have grown apart. after a long career, I became a stay at home mom at least until my youngest is in...
    Llynne12 Llynne12 41-45, F Jul 1

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    Im so lonely even being married cos i married the wrong man, cos i wanted to have children so much. Now i have consequences of it. I live in loveless marriage. The only joy is my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 18 Responses Jul 10

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    I met my husband my senior year of high school. I worked with his twin, and his twin introduced us. We started dating shortly after, and things were great. My now husband and I...
    derbygirl67 derbygirl67 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have an aunt. She is 10 years older than me, she's 37. She currently lives in Texas with her husband, their 1-year-old boy, and his husband's 3 boys from a previous marriage. My...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F Jun 26

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    My name is irrelevant. My husband and I have a long history together. We met 15 years ago, as kids. He was my soul mate. Because of past drama with me I didn't act and he knew and...
    needjhim14 needjhim14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm not married to a prostitute but I've been dating one for 4 years. I've known what she does since I first met her and have no issue with it. I do get scared for her at times...
    fishturbine fishturbine 36-40, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Called the police last night. This day has been coming since 2 weeks after I married this "perfect" man. It started out with him getting "hung up" on little things. The sort of...
    DebC75 DebC75 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't know what's wrong with me. Just all of a sudden be become paranoid. It's been going on for almost two weeks. I feel watched, I feel like any second something is going to...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I am scared of the uncertainity which clouds our lives.I am scared of how everything will work out in the end. I am scared of changing yet the only way to outgrow one's fear is to...
    booklover4ever booklover4ever 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    About two years ago I thought I had it all. I was 20 years old, and he, "J" was my first boyfriend. Come to find out after he lied to me and took my virginity, J had a girlfriend...
    feliciablogger feliciablogger 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I have a bit of good news... First, I want to thank all of you that were kind, compassionate, friendly, and comforting to me. I appreciate ALL the advice and I seriously took it...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I am 27 years old. I have been married a little over a year. I haven't been happy since right after the wedding. We went to counseling and I have learned to get passed a few of the...
    silentfloat silentfloat 26-30 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Right now I'm sitting here terrified that my two year old daughter might be sick and throw up. Terrified. I'm shaking, I'm dizzy, I feel nauseous just from the thought. Why? Who...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Why do I think like this? My mother thinks I'm going crazy. She wants to take me to the doctors. I just can't sleep or eat. I'm tired but I can't sleep. I had a panic attack a...
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have a guy friend who I care about so deeply. We tell each other everyday that we love each other and we both care about each other also. Everything was going fine until he asked...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F Jun 27

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    Hi, my name is Tiffany. I have a strong connection with this experience mainly because it happened this year. I've been in relationships that range from 1month to 10months, but...
    Tiffersneeze Tiffersneeze 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    i was on this ride and at the beginning of the ride i was scared anxious, and knew something was wrong i wanted to get off but the men reassured me that nothing would go wrong i...
    AnnaDevigne AnnaDevigne 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Imagine a single flower for our soul and with each encounter of our potential find in a perfect soul mate they pick a petal from us. They disappear with apart of us, our petal...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been with my bf for 6.5 years now and we recently watched a documentary where this guy who filmed all these weddings goes back to the people years and years later and...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Life has never been that great for me, but I'm scared of it getting better. Every time it started to get better, it would go straight back to living hell and would get even worse...
    selfishmachine selfishmachine 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Is it wrong that I never want to see my English teacher again? All she did was give me a stare, and it made me cry that night, leaving me with unfinished HW She gave me the stare...
    WS346 WS346 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I don't know if I am depressed or not, I think depressed people are likely to be more devastated while I still have some strength left in me, or maybe I am just too strong as I...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'm really scared to tell my boyfriend about all the abuse I went through as kid. I am also scared to tell him about how my mom try's to control me all the time.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F Jul 1

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    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 1

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    I am so scared of being nothing...the thought of death makes me panic. I have severe panic attacks whenever I think about it. I feel like I am spiralling out of control physically...
    justaweirdo56 justaweirdo56 16-17, F Jul 4

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    i can hardly even think about it without crying. I feel it now. The hot tears running down my face. Ill have to hide it. From my parents. From my friends. From everyone. This is...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    My entire life is empty. From one to another. I am scared my parents will leave me if they find out I'm bi. My sisters already a lesbian and they want her out of the house as soon...
    malebiesexual malebiesexual 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I grew up in a country setting when I went to beauty school I was 15 on ROP. I made friends with older girls in bad neighborhoods. I got to spend the night at Sherrys home. My dad...
    JMay1994 JMay1994 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Once upon a time I was . But it happened suddenly that I stopped being scared of the dark , I would stand near a door of a dark room and lose myself there I would think and look...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I came to visit family a few days ago and I just heard that my great grandmother had a heart attack. She's a strong woman and she has lived a long life, but I'm scared. I don't...
    HEDinTHEclouds HEDinTHEclouds 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    Horror movies, horror games, jump scares, rollercoasters (and other stuff that'll probably make me sound like a psychopath), etc. etc.; they don't scare me. I like that I'm not...
    Lokilover49 Lokilover49 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    In attempt to sleep earlier, I went to bed just before midnight after completing some more of my summer homework. Summer is going to end soon and I really need to fix this bad...
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 1 Response a week ago

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    I am scared to let people close I am scared to love
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've screwed up relationships so many times in my life im scared to get close to people not because I feel as tho they will hurt me but because I'm am scared to hurt them
    kenziebear kenziebear 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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