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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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