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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    I have been dating a married man for about 2 weeks now. His wife is not nice. She has said that she don't ever want him to be happy. she is out of state right now and he is happy...
    deseret deseret 26-30, F 41 mins ago

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    Why do all married men, and I mean ALL, lie about the most basic of things? I've met and had affairs with a few married men and friends with some. Each and everyone lied about...
    tinkerbell71 tinkerbell71 41-45, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Full moons were meant to be spent alone, I think. We couldn't sleep, so we started to talk about big, stupid, hypothetical questions, just to play with ideas until we felt tired...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just want to put it out there. I am HAPPILY married to a very loving and supportive man. He is my rock, and my best friend. I would never even think of doing anything to hurt...
    Lotusflower80 Lotusflower80 31-35, F 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm scared Of future. I'm scared To go on with life. What if I'm alone in the future.. Can't let go of the past..
    AiCutter AiCutter 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Because I was in a very abusive marriage, I am scared to try again. It has been three years since I escaped. For the first year and a half, I didn't date at all. I only...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't used to get scared easily but now I get scared quite easily and I'm really jumpy I don't know why !
    Mistyclouds Mistyclouds 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Scared of wasting my time. Scared for falling for someone that's going to screw me over. Scared of not being loved back. I'm not cold hearted I'm just scared & tired. Why is that...
    MissingMistake MissingMistake 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I told him a few nights ago I was very lonely - he started screaming at me and threatening me... Now a couple days later, nothing. Just dead silence - honestly I don't know what...
    lostinnewengland lostinnewengland 41-45, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    Whenever I look at myself, I get scared. Not in a way where I run and hide from my reflection, but I feel like I'm looking at someone else. And when I see my own scared eyes, I get...
    PiggyToe PiggyToe 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It isn't that I don't think I'll ever get married, it is that I don't think I'll ever want to get married. With divorce rates over 50% and a biased divorce court, I don't want to...
    AdArbitrium AdArbitrium 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I don't know why I'm so scared of them, I have phobia of them and i get these anxiety attacks when i see them and I get restless. I wish I wasn't scared of them.
    yukishiro yukishiro 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Do you know this feeling when you watch someone so important to you grow older and older and older. And the older this person gets the scarier it is. The fear of losing that...
    aliveness aliveness 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    my country is suffering from insecurity problem. i don't really feel scared before. but now i am so scared :(
    empress4 empress4 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am scared of spiders not so much the very small ones but medium to large I am very scared
    susango1 susango1 31-35, F a week ago

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    I'm going crazy...my husband is more like my bestfriend. I don't want to hurt him but I'm more attracted the women...there is no one else...and I've only made out with a few girls...
    kt8sure kt8sure 26-30, F a week ago

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    When I was 11 Me and my best friend Ruby were having a sleepover at her house and she chose for us to watch the Grudge together. I've never watched horror movies so I don't know...
    Kaylalie Kaylalie 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    the crazy thing is I'm hurting and my hearts breaking. my husband came home stressed from work. didn't sleep drank an entire bottle of tequila and started arguing. broke the tv...
    PhoenixGoddess PhoenixGoddess 22-25, F Aug 22

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    Most people are scared, Most people don't make any achievement because they are scared, Most people lose each other because of being scared, most people miss the chance because...
    listenup listenup 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I think my former teacher was physically attracted to me. He's in his 50's and married with kids, but looking back, I feel that his words and actions were more than just friendly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 20

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    I think I have come to the realisation that my husband may be a narcissist. I have been gradually becoming more and more unhappy, and started researching the types of behaviours he...
    iamnoonyouknow iamnoonyouknow 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    A month ago, I met this awesome guy who I met at work. He gave me his number and we connected. We talked about sports and our kids and our jobs, we have a lot of things in common...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 18

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    I married my hus cos i was scared to end up forever alone. Now i have a daughter but i dont love my hus. I paid the price for a child, but im not happy inside now. I married him...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm so scared to go back because I had a very bad year ... last year. I'm afraid of screwing it up.. it was so bad last year I tried to commit suicide,.. So I'm super scared
    idkubutimkk idkubutimkk 13-15, F Aug 16

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    Just this past Thursday I was raped again. He was an ok friend of mine and I thought nothing of it when he asked to hang out. I told him why I was hesitant and that was a terrible...
    scarsthatsmile scarsthatsmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    So here is my story... I am in love with a married woman. I don't know what to do. Let me tell you a back story. The woman I am in love with used to be my wife. When we first...
    KHD77 KHD77 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    My MM is very unhappy in his marriage. She had cheated on him 7 times before we met. It was a random meeting and we fought the connection for awhile. But it was too strong to fight...
    kelle72 kelle72 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 15

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    You know how people say "You look like you've just lost your best friend?" Well, I have. I mean, he's not dead or anything, thank goodness. He's just lost to me. For most of our...
    GraceDracul GraceDracul 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 14

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    I am a little bi curious In N.E Ohio and would like to find a married guy or a married couple to help me with this.
    Milkman4uinOhio Milkman4uinOhio 56-60, M Aug 13

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    Wow, the past few months I've had so much stuff bottled up and just wanting to tell it to anyone but I don't even know where to start. I am some what happily married. Some what...
    Kbm1234 Kbm1234 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 12

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    legitimately get married to the person i will spend the rest of my life with. i will only marry one person my whole life. i rufuse to have any after, because the person i marry...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm interested in talking to someone who has been married for 20 or more years. I have been married 25 and I think it's coming to an end. I'm worried about my wife and us And...
    dyperman dyperman 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 11

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    I have thought about this for years. I have a fantasy about being someone's secret wife. I want to find a married man who has a fantasy of having a second family. We would live as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 11

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    Married for 19 yrs to a good women. I am 54 she is 48. We have had a rocky last 10 yrs we both work hard. 2 kids. 17 &14 I caught her once with an old boy friend back when 9/11...
    Ag214 Ag214 51-55, M Aug 9

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    I like how almost all of my friends are in long term serious relationships or getting married or are married or have kids or are pregnant and I'm sitting here single, still waiting...
    Razdaman Razdaman 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I'm getting married to the most beautiful woman on earth. We picked a place to get married and dresses (mines blue hers is red) I've gotten gift from my friends. I'm can't wait, to...
    Soggysarah Soggysarah 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    So almost a year ago I had a nightmare. No big deal for most people but I have only had two (including this one) in my entire life. I know lucky me. But problem with that is the...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I don't know when it started, maybe when i lost all my friends and realized i had none and was all alone or when i became scared to see the only guy i had ever been in love with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 7