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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen - Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet.... - I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F Aug 1, 2012

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    I'm married and have a child. I don't love my wife. I met someone who was supposed to be just a harmless fling but I love them with all that I am. I can't just kick my family...
    iamsumwun2 iamsumwun2 31-35, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm scared that I may go on a live my life without ever being loved by someone outside of my family. I'm also scared that I may never have someone who would want to spend the rest...
    fallingpetal fallingpetal 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I'm a bisexual woman and have recently began my first relationship with a woman which is not just a one night stand. We spent time together and recently the night together...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been married for 9 yrs in this relationship for over 20yrs, 3 kids... but I am in total love with woman.......
    ilovewoman1602 ilovewoman1602 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    He's married and far away from me. How I got in this situation ? I have no idea, all I know is it has to end somehow, both for me and for him. He's the most wonderful person I have...
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am very happily married for four years. We have three beautiful biracial babies.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I loved my husband blindly for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response 18 mins ago

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    I was one to get attached to people way too fast but I've learned to disconnect myself from people before I get to that point. I grew up without my biological father around but...
    fgarci04 fgarci04 18-21, F Apr 7

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    It happened again.. I can't believe it. I seem to be a magnet for these people. Do I look like a sl*t or wh*re or something? It seems like it sometimes.. It happened two weeks ago...
    livelaughlove2904 livelaughlove2904 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I've been seeing this guy for over 5 months. He is married but not living with his wife. They have two children together. She uses the kids to get back at him for leaving her. She...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I want to start by saying I love my husband very much. I am the only person that is in his life that he trusts. It's killing me inside to know that I want so badly to be with a...
    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I should feel worse than I do right now. I spent the shower thinking about running. Getting an abortion and just running from him. I want to be a mom, and I want to be with him...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I am scared. Scared of dying. And scared of the unkown. When we die it is not known what becomes of us. Will we just be a body - less soul floating around in the sky or will be...
    Ziriviri Ziriviri 13-15, F Mar 19

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    I met someone a few weeks ago. Just when I thought I'd never meet another woman I had anything in common with along comes 'A' into my life. She is smart, athletic and beautiful...
    switchhitter70 switchhitter70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Well I found in March im pregnant with his baby when I told him he was so happy when he saw the first sono he smiled and said he loved me he said if the baby has a different last...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I have gotten myself into a mess! Have been having a affair for a few months now. When it started I thought it would be like having a "good buddy" someone I could talk with and...
    Bella0206 Bella0206 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This all happened about 5 years ago. It was like 12:00am and I was sleeping. I woke up because I could hear my big brother walking to my bedroom. I pretended I was asleep so he...
    Ella09098 Ella09098 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    10 days to go!!! I'm nervous and excited and scared and stressed haha.
    georgiemayb georgiemayb 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I always have a light on. I cannot go to sleep with out one on. I am scared of what can hide in the dark since i know what i can hide in the dark side of me. I am terrified of...
    0neUp 0neUp 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Everytime... Just everytime I try to make new friends, i get so scared that i would have a panic attack. Im so used to the fact that people leave me into broken pieces but this is...
    Amature14 Amature14 13-15, F Mar 18

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    I'm scared to love again. Scared to be hurt again. Scared of never finding someone who will love me for who am and not judge me. Scared of being lied to again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7

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    I am not used to telling anyone anything of this sort. So other than my girlfriend of six years no one else knows the inner battle that I have been fighting. When I say every male...
    KatherinaM KatherinaM 22-25, F Mar 19

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    I am a paranoid person when it comes to health, that's probably why I am scared of doctors and hospitals so much! So, you could imagine how paranoid I could be about cancer, it is...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Mar 22

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    I'm scared of looking for a relationship because I'm scared of rejection. I'm scared of wanting a relationship because I don't think anyone will want one with me. I just feel so...
    josieyup josieyup 22-25, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    I am scared to have a relationship- my first "real" relationship I was forced into with an older man. I was completely betrayed and now feel to scared to let my gaurd down and go...
    unknown331 unknown331 16-17 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm in Florida for spring break. I'm terrified. What if I see her? She goes to college near where I'm staying . . . Thanks to her, I have eight identical nightmares a night, and am...
    AVampireGirl AVampireGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am 16 and I still sleep with the light on. I not so much scared of the dark, I am scared of what might happen in the dark. I have no control. I do not want to get over this fear...
    KeiraRhiann KeiraRhiann 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I scared. I'm scared of losing any more weight, but scared of gaining more at the same time. I was diagnosed with anorexia, and I always throw up everything i had eaten. what...
    roseinsurvival roseinsurvival 13-15 Apr 4

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    I am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend (let's call her A) and we are madly in love... The thing is that I've tried once to tell my mom that I was in love with A...
    DemonSauce DemonSauce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hi there, well, I thought this was a very good site, so I want to try out to see if I get some points of view towards this experience. Well, first of all, I a male Mexican, I am...
    RobbLau RobbLau 26-30, M Apr 7

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    I am scared of many things. But right now, I am scared of my depression coming back, from oozing its way back into my mind. From returning to its home, which is still recovering...
    BunnyGruff BunnyGruff 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I am scared because it's raining again...I heard there is another a storm coming into our country. Now it's raining again.I'm scared of heavy rain specially when I'm home alone...
    NatsukiKuroneko NatsukiKuroneko 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It has been a long time since I have logged into EP. I am scared that I may have to give up my home due to lack of work. In fact I am terrified of the decision on day of being food...
    lookin4sumthing lookin4sumthing 26-30, M 19 hrs ago

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    I have been married for 5 years, together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    One of the biggest day in my life, tomorrow. I will get the result for my final exam in elementary school ( i'm 18 btw ) . I'm taking 11 subjects for this exam. Everyone expecting...
    adriennelle adriennelle 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I am not a trusting person in general so when it comes to loving people I always am scared to get attached, and when I do I'm always scared to lose them.
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F Mar 19

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    When I was 18 years old, I was raped. I have never really spoken of it before. One night, after the bar, completely intoxicated, me and my friend met a couple of English men. We...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I don't sleep alone, If I do it's always with the lights on... I'm scared! My mind is always thinking of something then my heart starts beating fast.... I'm scared of the dark.
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F Mar 31

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    (using google translate) lol okay I didn't get really scared it's just that I fell asleep in class a little wile ago and it was ssr (silent sustained reading) I was falling asleep...
    dragin2000 dragin2000 13-15, M Apr 3

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I terrifies me that there are so many different courses that my future can take. What if I don't get accepted into a good college? What if I end up hating my job? What if I have no...
    jazzamore jazzamore 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I married a man 24 years my senior. When we got married it was great at first. I was 20 and he was 44 years old. I felt very excited married to an older man. He treated me like his...
    Sexyshysweetie Sexyshysweetie 41-45, F 17 Responses Apr 5

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    I am scared of falling in love I am ok with liking someone But if they like me back I freak out n avoid them Cause I am scared of getting hurt Or hurting them
    Weirdgirl218 Weirdgirl218 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I have a question friends ..... Have you ever been so scared to see that one person you once loved ? 💭 🙈 or nahhhhhhhh ? My answer is I will be scared but at the same time...
    Revelyn Revelyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I don't know why, but I love heights even though I am scared of them. You might say that I can't be terrified if I can even bare them, but I get scared standing on a chair! I have...
    LizzPixie LizzPixie 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago