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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    **WARNING: A big rant ahead, so read it only if you'd like :3 I know that i'm still young, but I'm a bit scared of falling in love and, eventually, getting married in the future...
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 13-15 1 Response Mar 10

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    After almost 4 yrs of lies, lack of affection, communication, and attention, and an almost nonexistant sex life I am ready to divorce. I have talked to my husband about spending...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F Mar 2

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    My co worker and I have been working together for close to a year and he is married and he asked me out today. He always flirts but never actually came out and said anything. I...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    My husband has had a life full of trauma. His dad left when he was 5 and started a new family halfway across the country. His mother shifted from man to man; they were ALL abusive...
    LonelyMom214 LonelyMom214 26-30, F Mar 7

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    Like many here I too had an affair with a married man... He was my boss and he was gorgeous. I had just gotten out of a terrible relationship and a close friend of mine had...
    0Mischa0 0Mischa0 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i was thinking of proposing her this april when im going to meet her on april. we already talked about getting engaged but she seems to trauma because her ex fiance dumped her 3...
    RicardoGutierrez RicardoGutierrez 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Of all the bad news I've head about relationships I'm too nervous to date again. With my depression still on my life my vulnerabilities would be taken for granted and I cannot go...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 27

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    I want to carry them myself. I've always had something with pregnancy, so it's almost a dream of mine to have a child of my own. It will have my genes, I used to be scared about...
    absenceofsound absenceofsound 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    It couldn't be anymore perfect... Being best friends for 6 years and seeing each other date other people, but still have that friendship that everyone and even ourselves at one...
    njensen816 njensen816 18-21, F Mar 19

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    Where's my great love story? Where's the one person that's supposed to love and cherish me? I'm resentful, and angry, and hurting. He promised to love me. I feel cheated. 23...
    NeedtobeNeeded NeedtobeNeeded 46-50, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    So tonight Shelby faceted me and i left my towel on the ground. My mom comes in my room and starts yelling me over a towel that was on the ground for 5 minutes. Shelby ends the...
    caileenclaire caileenclaire 13-15, F Mar 15

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    My partner and I have been together almost 2 years now. They have been seriously tough we have had more downs then up even before we started dating. I am madly in love with him and...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I hope you can't even imagine the pain I went through. People say there's 3 types of abuse... Take em all, put em in a blender, mix it and out comes a big disgusting mush of pain...
    bluecupcakes bluecupcakes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I just started posting here and I do have to say, the negativity on here in this category is mind blowing. I want to share my experience about how I met my husband. When we met, he...
    Lil5 Lil5 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I've always been.. I'm scared of getting close, I'm scared of the end, I'm scared of judgement. I'm not even a good person by myself, and sharing myself with someone wouldn't...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 5

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    Idk I just can't sleep anymore I keep waking up early, I keep having bad thoughts come back then they go away everything is just killing me inside Idk why but I'm just happy to...
    shyguy747 shyguy747 13-15, M Mar 12

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    I’m in no rush but everything seems like it is speeding up. It feels like yesterday that I was sitting in my grandma’s kitchen on the floor (we liked to do that) eating...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F Mar 13

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    So today I have a hospital appointment I am very scared about. Iv gone through each scenario in my head, at least 10 times. And I'm really scared about what tests they might need...
    strawberryblonde89 strawberryblonde89 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I'm Scared of Life... like every day you woke up you feel nothing but fear.... I'm also terrified with strangers and scared of people around me.. I'm Scared of everything ....
    Ehnyl Ehnyl 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am 27 weeks pregnant. I have ALWAYS wanted a baby and now that I am pregnant, I'm really scared I won't make a good mother. I have very bad social anxiety and very low self...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I know that I'm in my own home. I know that I am with my family, and I'm safe, and I know that the dark can't hurt me and there's nothing more than shadows but I am genuinely...
    Itscaitlin Itscaitlin 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    I know this must sound fake but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I'm scared of losing people, I wonder if people are scared of losing me.........
    kst97 kst97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I just found out my rapist had unblocked me on Facebook and he's been watching me. I'm beyond scared. I still haven't reported it. I got too scared. How can I tell my boyfriend the...
    ddc95 ddc95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I am scared if commitment and I'm scared to let myself go and do things that are illogical under the name of love.
    ambrosia999 ambrosia999 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    My Dad. His heart isn't working the right way. Its skipping beats. I'm so scared to lose my Dad. He's the person I've modeled myself after. Looked up to. I'm so scared.
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I am ftm and have been for at least a year. I have told everyone I know... Except my family. My dad has a shot gun in the garage for the boys I bring over... What if I'm the boy...
    Hunter239 Hunter239 13-15 Mar 7

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    I scared that I have scared him away...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I was raped by my exboyfriend when we were still together... I was 14 and he was at the same age as me. He didn't physically rape me but mentally pressured me a lot and force me to...
    qingxiaqiantong qingxiaqiantong 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I get sort of close and then I get scared and I push them away. I wish I could be able to get close but I'm too scared and I just push them away and i'm left alone.
    Insanity404 Insanity404 18-21, F a week ago

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    Ok so as some of you ep friends who have followed my story. And to those who haven't. I want to run something by you all and get your thoughts. As you may or may not know my...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 34 Responses Feb 28

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    I am 24, and got married at 23 and my husband is 6 years older than me and have only been married just over a year and well, I thought I had it all to start off with. We got on...
    Starwolf22 Starwolf22 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I met my best friend when I was 14 and he was 12. There was an instant connection and I fell head over heels for him. Everyone asked if we were a couple and we both said no...but...
    zippy80 zippy80 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    First off let me start by saying I Love Sex. I was always under the impression Men loved Sex too. So how is it I married the only man in the world who doesn't want sex??? We have...
    Frisco99 Frisco99 36-40, F Mar 6

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    I've been married 8 years and feel like I am wasting time every day that goes by. I guess I made the wrong decision in marrying my wife but two kids later I feel like I'm stuck in...
    Stimulatingconvoplz Stimulatingconvoplz 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I just can't seem to come to my senses when it comes to him he's so good looking, just a simple glance at him can put me in a good mood. the only downside to this is that he's...
    dolly98 dolly98 18-21, F Mar 13

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    I've been married for 15 years. Five years ago my wife was hospitalized for bipolar manic depressive. She has since been hospitalized two more times and has subsequently been...
    Usualbeachgoer Usualbeachgoer 36-40, M 10 Responses Feb 27

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    I've been divorced for about ten years and I find myself suddenly living alone and not liking it one bit. I've been married most of my life and have never lived alone for more than...
    wattsnova wattsnova 61-65, F Feb 27

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    I've been married for 18 years. Yes, I've known all long that I am Bicurious. I love my husband and I don't plan on going anywhere without him. However, I would love to make a...
    Jai72 Jai72 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 27

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    I've been married for 18 years. I have like the attention of both men and women; however, I have never been with a women. I hope to make a friend or two of other married Bicurious...
    Jai72 Jai72 41-45, F 1 Response