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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Im scared... Is this DDay? My MM and i talked over the phone while both of us are on our way home... I texted him wer he was later and he said hes almost home (we sdont text wen...
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    I don't know. I want to get married one day. yea I'm still young and have loads of time. I even planned on saving myself for that one guy but what if it never happens or if, god...
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    My husband and I have been together for about 8-9 years and married for 2. I always thought I was happy and was living the life I wanted.. Job, house, husband.. But then I started...
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    I'm scared of everything lately. I'm scared of living. I'm terrified of dying, which I suppose is why I stay. The fear of death and what's after is more overwhelming than the fear...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 27

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    So I'm sitting here on my own again while my husband is at the pub... I feel like he doesn't want to be around me, he works so many hours and I hardly see him then when he is off...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 15 Responses Apr 15

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    When I posted that bit yesterday about having an affair, I was just angry. I'm not really going to have an affair. I would be too scared to. Then on top of that, the idea of me...
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    FallenAngel1997 FallenAngel1997 16-17 1 Response Apr 9

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    Of everything and things I know I shouldn't be scared of.I'm scared of things I know I shouldn't be scared of coz they r completely normal and right but I feel scared every time I...
    tomg2200 tomg2200 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I don't have a car, but I drive. But only when I'm back home and I use my parents car. However, I only drive on the streets I know. Now I moved to a place where it's almost...
    mtea mtea 26-30, F Apr 14

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    I have been having a lot of family issues and they are getting worse. I came home from a week away to not being welcome in anyway. My mother still cooked me dinner but because of...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F Apr 16

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    I'm scared of every aspect of my life right now. I'm scared that I won't end the semester as strong as I began it. Scared that I'll lose my scholarship, scared that I'll fail my...
    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm scared that nothing will work out in the end. I'm scared that all dreams of mine will be crushed. I'm scared that I'll be worthless. I'm scared of...everything.
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    ... I'm so scared to love again. I'm so scared to desire forever with a person; only for them, after many years, to betray/to cheat/to fall out of love/to hurt. I'm so freakn...
    Ichizu Ichizu 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone, i was just finishing of my coursework's, and i remembered the EP app. I was really distracted by this app for a long period of time, reading a lot of experiences and...
    Masuka99 Masuka99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I AM SCARED. I am scared because I dont want anyone else to have your heart, I dont want anyone else to kiss your lips, I dont want anyone else to be in your arms, i dont want...
    msb2015 msb2015 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 4

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    Yep. People would say "it's part of life, it's natural" but for people who are scared like me, don't understand. I'm not saying I don't want to love, I don't want to say I'm...
    ThatBritishVirgin ThatBritishVirgin 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm scared of who I'm becoming :/ there is literally 2 distinct different sides to me... 1) is a wreckless, careless girl, who doesn't value much at all, doesn't want much for her...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well I already fallen in love again, I'm just scared to open up to him really. He's told me he loves me, and I want to say it back but I just can't get myself to. I'm scared of...
    blooop123 blooop123 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Not scared.. terrified. I stay up all night worrying. I worry if someone gets in a car. I worry when it rains. When I was in elementary school I would purposely make myself sick...
    DeIuxedEdition DeIuxedEdition 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My ex was my first love. As first loves go, I envisioned marrying this guy and having his kid. It took me years to get over the relationship. It took me forever to get over it...
    LARINgitisEx LARINgitisEx 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Ifeeluberish Ifeeluberish 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F Apr 4

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    moondesires moondesires 18-21, F Apr 13

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    I am just expecting too much from my future... that I do not know what I will do if I end up messing it up... I am too scared to end up failing... I am just way to scared that I...
    hummingtree hummingtree 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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