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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    So, what does a man do that is married, and yet has been alone for several years? Does he try to fix the problem? Yes, he does, he tries, go to counseling, and is promised things...
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    I'm not married... When I was younger (before I had kids) I never wanted to get married, I had no intentions of ever getting married! To me, marriage was stupid & all it was to me...
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    Loretta78 Loretta78 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    I am married, I am married. I AM MARRIED. Time to take few steps back and get my head straight.
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    milind3012 milind3012 18-21, M Jul 25

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    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    CoolDude2244 CoolDude2244 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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