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I Am Scared to Get Married

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    Ha Ha...knew This Would Happen

    Hello everyone.  I'm getting married in June.  I'm thinking the 3rd.  Hilarious eh?
    MonteCarlo311 MonteCarlo311 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Having Cold Feet....

    I’ve been married three times. My first marriage ended after 7 years, my husband cheated 7 times during those years. We ended up having 4 kids together after a year of divorce I met my 2nd husband, we had a whirl wind romance for 6 years, there was a lot of passion, love and...
    blujade blujade 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    Im married, she is married. But thats not the real problem. She lives millions of miles away. Its very very hard for us to meet. She is my EP love.
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    my story is a long one. i keep it secret, but am haunted by it each day. i still feel scared, and nervous. i went to brazil for a special overseas college for international...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    my mom has a diabetes and it's so high. she gets like 300, she did go to the doctor, she's taking medication, and last time her diabetes had lower to 200 something, but she just...
    dasosleefi dasosleefi 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    My friend and I began an "affair" around 8 months ago. We're both involved in very loveless long term commitments (neither of us are leaving, due to children), although neither of...
    aulaLaine aulaLaine 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm worried that I won't be though! :-( my husband said he's thinking about a separation because I won't go to marriage and sex therapy. He still thinks we live in a Sexless...
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 13 Responses Sep 7

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    I am turning 32 on September 30th and it scares me. My life isn't where it should be right now. I am still going through a painful breakup and I thought at this age I would have...
    whoateyourheart whoateyourheart 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    I am so scared about whats going to happen in the future. Im scared of getting older, I'm scared of the fear of getting sick, I'm scared of getting an illness that will change...
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    So I have an older sister that moved to the other side of the country a few years ago.. She's a year older than me and it's because our family decided to split up. She lives with...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F Sep 8

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    It sounds silly since I'm only 20, but I'm scared of growing older. I'm scared of increasing health threats as my age gets older, scared of wrinkles scared of getting bigger if I...
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 15

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    I am scared. Im scared that i've been doing and saying the wrong things lately and that im pushing away the people that matter the most to me. I don't know if im pushing them away...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 17

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    Earlier today as I was walking pup, we came across a body of a sparrow. My tiny guy sniffed it for a moment and went on with his business. Later my mother stopped by and asked...
    koorlo koorlo 22-25, F Sep 14

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    I am scared to sleep. My bf touches me in my sleep. I wake up terrified and unsure what to do. Last time I jumped awake. He says I woke him up from me jumping awake... It scares...
    Thisismynickname Thisismynickname 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    ok i'm 21 years old i still go By my given name yes i'm a at home house wife yes i know he was gay from the get go we started it off as high school friends when we started college...
    thelostboyxxx thelostboyxxx 18-21 Sep 10

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    I married the favorite in his family. Favorites have one thing going for them non-favorites miss...they have a family cheerleading squad behind them and a family fan club! The...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's been a little over a month now, and I ( 22 ) have been seeing a married man ( 35 ) . At first, I wasn't even aware he was married.. We met at a bar. He was alone having a...
    leahaxel leahaxel 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I hate to admit it, but I really am.... If there's a god, I'll go to hell. If there isn't then I'd be worshipping one for no reason. I'm just scared to waste my life away believing...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Sep 2

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    I once was scared of failure, disappointment in myself. It caused me to go stagnate. Now I am scared of not trying. A catch 22, how can I experience any failure or disappointment...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F Sep 2

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    Us. We are one, we are together. I had dreamed of it happening exactly the way it did, now it has happened. I am myself. I am the person I want to be. I'm so scared. I'm so...
    SomeGuy322 SomeGuy322 16-17, M Sep 3

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    five years later i regret marrying my female partner ;-( i should never have married her, i married her after id been hurt by one man one betrayed me the other guy was a sexual...
    gypsylife2014 gypsylife2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    I recently got out of a relationship last month. Ironically it only lasted for a month like my mom said it was just a summer romance. I didn't really believe it was true and then I...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F Sep 21

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    I'm scared of failure, I'm scared of talking to people and I have no idea how to survive last year of university
    qlara qlara 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I am scared of the dark..sometimes. I don't mind it if I'm talking with someone or if I have someone with me but, when I'm alone I get scared. I always let my thoughts get out of...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    It's my boyfriends nans birthday dinner tomorrow night and I am so scared because his brothers girlfriend is going to be there and she doesn't like me for no reason at all! I'm...
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F Sep 22

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    In December, my lovely fiance and I will be married. He is enlisting in the Army and I've never met someone as amazing and weirdly awesome. I just can't imagine being with anyone...
    WynonnaMarye WynonnaMarye 18-21, F Sep 22

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    So when I get married I want this gorgeous dress I picked out. It is so beautiful and I want it so bad. I have gorgeous shoes picked out too. Honestly after thinking though I...
    KandyLuv KandyLuv 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Suicidal have been haunting me for as long as i could remember. So does depression. I knew something was wrong with me but i couldn't say a word. I was scared. The society around...
    alexyay alexyay 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is this older man whom my parents who very well.. However i am very scared of him.. He gives me very weird perverted looks and always tries too touch me.. Im too scared to...
    believexo believexo 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 24 years old, married, and have 3 kids. My children are my life, there all I have left in this world. I'm married to a guy that drinks every other day. He suffers from anxiety...
    Precious2009 Precious2009 22-25, F Sep 9

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    i wanted to get married ,,but now im not too sure any more .maybe too many near misses ...but what ever the reason i dont know any more just sitting on the fence i guess..i know a...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Hello Everyone, My first post here, and the first time I've ever expressed this to anyone. I've been going crazy inside for years now and feel like I'm going to explode if I don...
    theunfree theunfree 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 12

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    I had an affair with mm before I met my husband. I was 19 and an absolute rebellious party girl. My family and I were going to a high profile society event and I went to get my...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been married for 10 years, & I feel more alone than I've been. We have 3 children, & I pretend to be happy for their sakes. The way I look at it, I have only 2 options. Stay...
    NubianQueen15 NubianQueen15 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    My wife and I have been married for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 22 Responses 6 days ago

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    Right now. Later on down the road yes. I'm not trying to throw stones at anyone but why in the hell would you want to get married at 20? You have had no time at all to grow and...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I have read so many of your experiences it's like a mirror to my own life. Who knew 21 years ago when I married my husband I would suffer like this daily! I didn't know my husband...
    Niff73 Niff73 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I meet him in 2002 at a national rainbow gathering...we married the next year...In a simple little ceremony out side in a circle on my sisters place...the preacher his name was...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 6 hrs ago

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    i dont want to do it.i prefer to die....i know its my last chance...but i cant....im scared of dying while surgery... :"(
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm Married for almost 7 years, my wife suffers from CP (Cerebral Palsy), I remember falling in love and planing our wedding together and I would noticed that she would stress out...
    joepepe25 joepepe25 31-35, M Sep 2

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    15. I'm just scared if having to wake up everyday and face reality.
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M Sep 2

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    It's a weird feeling inside of me, I don't know if I'm scared or nervous or what but it won't go away
    lostInsidemyself1222 lostInsidemyself1222 16-17, F Sep 2

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm scared that I'm going to be set up to be let down, like if I even try to put myself out there then I'm just going to fall and have nobody to catch me. It's hard.
    teebagg teebagg 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I am here to scare you all :P no actually I am here to see how I can Leo you not be scared of male strippers
    njamspike njamspike 16-17, T 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I had to give myself 2 injections a week for 3 years straight. I get blood work done every month. I got over being scared if needles.
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    If I can't sleep with my TV on I have to sleep with this night light app I have. It's really embarrassing but I'm too scared to wake up while it's dark and I wake up at least 5...
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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