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I Am Searching For Who I Am

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    The Questions

    Is it real? Is it made up? Is it what I want? Is it what I have or do I really have it after all?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    Who The Hell Am I?

    During my senior year of hs I made the tragic mistake of giving in to peer pressure and transforming my self into someone I'm really not. Up until that time, I'd had my act totally together; my grades were high, I had a small but very close circle of friends I could rely on, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Self-discovering.

    Hi! I'm new here so... I hope I can find someone to share my feelings with. :) Here goes... Each day, I feel like I'm forgetting who the real me is. My personality changes each day and it leaves me clueless to why it's happening. Then suddenly I'm escaping from my...
    techystones techystones 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2009

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    Who Am I Really??

    How did I get so lost?  I always had a good sense of self growing up.  I was so confident- I always put my all into reaching and accomplishing every goal I ever had.  I was healthy and active and quite happy.  Now I am so uncertain,  scared, unhealthy...
    chiak chiak 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    Still Searching For Real Me..

    I have always had this feeling of not really knowing the real me and besides that..having a low esteem and confidence. Recently..I am kind of gaining my self esteem and confidence because of my partner who encourages me and also always tell me the things I am good at that gives...
    lifeblock lifeblock 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Who Am I?

    I don't know who I am. I don't think I ever did to be honest. I have tried to search within me but I just am afraid to anymore. Afraid I will get lost somehow. I am scared of few things but one thing I am is of never finding who I am in life. I don't...
    kthimm1 kthimm1 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    Sacred Name

      I remember searching for my true name. Then when I had the good fortune to drown I was able to embrace the Devine on the other side. I felt that I could ask one quick question and asked what is my true name? The answer was literally Devine. My ideal self was I-Devine...
    Dewduster Dewduster 66-70, M 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Mental Break

    I am taking a break from life I am going to an isolated area by myself for a few weeks. I can't figure out how to quit hurting the ones I love I ruin every relationship I have ever been in. I hope I find a way to change myself for the better
    xHurley xHurley 31-35, M Feb 27, 2013

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    Accept me for who I am. I'm proud to have grey hair in my early 20s.
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    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F Aug 25

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    Nozomu Nozomu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Nozomu Nozomu 18-21, F Aug 26

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    I forgot to say based in the UK i'm live in the North East but anyone anywhere is welcome:) Hey:) i'm Nozomu and i'm a therian, Looking to form a new pack i am an Alpha female and...
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    I really hate people who think being gay is wrong I love nothing better than a **** in my mouth and homophobia who thought of that word phobia is scared they just nasty twats
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