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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other

    women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 1 Response Mar 30

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    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F Jan 9

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    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa 22-25 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Unexpected

    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23 46-50 5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 4 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Confusion

    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Just Venting On A Work Crush :(

    My story is a bit different from the other women her. I am out and in a great relationship, there is a new girl at work. I think about her all the time , not in a sexual way , just wonder what she is doing. I know she is attracted to me as we'll, but I just stay as far as I can...
    mlbgrl77 mlbgrl77 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2013

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    BlueLiving BlueLiving 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in

    women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it and he's not perverted about it either! It's been a very difficult journey for me. Now that I'm out I don't know where to find other women like...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 5 Responses Feb 17

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    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    At some point I would like more real, genuine relationships with other women. But I have some problems that prevent me from understanding what other women do with their lives. I'm...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I've always been differnt from other women. I hate when I hear women giggle so I always avoid that. I don't like when women act all jolly so I avoid that. I hate when women try to...
    Esmahan Esmahan 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    This really bugs me. Women always attack other women like what? Women are the first to call other girls *******, ***** and all that. I'm just like why? Why can't we be friends...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I met my partner whilst he was with some one else, we're now living together. He left his girlfriend. Within a few months he started to sleep with other women, he admitted it and...
    lixie23 lixie23 36-40, F Jul 11

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    This week is going to be a long week. He is going on holiday with his family which means he will only be able to send the odd message, we usually spend every evening messaging each...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    You make me feel alive. That's what he comes up with. Says that now he feels like he's searching for other ways to feel normal and happy again. He doesn't want us to leave for...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I can be such a flirt online so I find it funny when other girls flirt with me haha...can't help but smile like crazy.
    Stubborngirll Stubborngirll 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    2 months passed..... It's has been 2 months last seen and talk to him. I feel that he has been pretty well cause I peep his wife blog and he celebrated her birthday and gave her a...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F Jul 10

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    Mixed emotions! This morning was fantastic, met up with him and sat in the sun talking... Thursday are usually our evening to be together but we are finding it harder to keep...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I found out that the reason my boyfriend has not proposed is that he is still married! We have lived together for 9 years, he walked out of court during his divorce and never...
    Geobie Geobie 41-45, F Jul 1

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    I didn't know, he told me they were separated and were on the way for divorce.. Then he disappeared out of my life.. And I found out later they got back together..
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Meet mm for a while since 2 month. I'm the one approach him and he soften his attitude towards me. But we are no more in so call relationship he doesn't want. We met whenever he...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F Jul 13

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    We serve, respect and obey our wives because we love them. Last night i learned why we must serve, respect and obey other women. Because women are all equal and we must serve them...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I am 30 years old and i am finding myself more attracted to women in their late 30's to mid 40's. They are so much more mature and experienced, in my opinion.
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M Jul 13

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    What is Hot? It doesn't have to be a run way model. An actress on TV or in the movies. An Olympic female athlete or the home coming queen in any small town. Hot is what you want to...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I am so tired of hearing the neverending professional dress code rules applied to males and females but primairly to females. There are many reasons why I can't stand professional...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Its the women who brought us to this world . Well everyone respects their mother's and so should be the attitude to other women . Women should have equal rights and they should be...
    Sandy84b Sandy84b 26-30, M Jul 23

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    Hi girls! I'm Melanie. I'm new here and was just curious to see what this is all about. I'm looking for feminine women who like other women. I need to get my sexy chat on. So, hit...
    bisexualgurl69 bisexualgurl69 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Yes i.m the other women,,, divorce women yes i go out with single man,,,,you have more fun,,,nice place's he take me to, and not waiting by no phone,,, my single just drive by and...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30 Jul 21

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    I once saw a photo that said (not word for word) that if you ask a lot of girls, they'll tell you that they spend more time looking at other females rather than males. They're...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    And the other way around...married men should avoid other women, single or not.
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I never get tired of seeing a good-looking older woman... I wish that I could peer into their minds and see what makes them tick... if they're sizing up other women or comparing...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    This is the first time I wrote something like this, if you cared enough to read...Thank you.. On the other day I saw a post here that said something like "we -the other women- are...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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