I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    I've never been with a woman before.

    I've been married & dated men. But since I've hit my 40's, I can't help but want to try something different. I know women are more sensual. I hope that this is the year that I have my first experience with a woman. It's been difficult meeting a woman who is into women. It's...
    RememberSeptember RememberSeptember
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2014


    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23
    5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    I am very much in love

    and attracted to another woman secretly. She is my cousin. Her name is Carole, age 37, married with lots of children, and from Phoenix, Arizona. I am in Miami, Florida. We will be together in the summer months often. I want her to know how much I love her and want to share...
    redheadfemale redheadfemale
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1
    8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 30, 2013

    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    I've known that I'm attracted to other women

    since I was about 14. I haven't told anybody. My family will not be excepting of this. I'm debating moving across the country so that I can finally be myself and not put on an act for the sake of others beliefs and feelings.
    herecomesthedark herecomesthedark
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    I am pretty certain I've been attracted to women

    since I was very young. I don't even know where to begin to go about it and meet other bi-sexual or lesbians in my city. I live in Ottawa, Ontario.. I don't know the gay community that well. None of my straight relationships have ever worked out and at times I've felt very...
    roset851 roset851
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    I never have the guts to do anything

    but I have pondered what it would be like to be with a woman
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2014
    BlueLiving BlueLiving
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    I'm way too kinky with my best friend,

    but I've been holding in my sexuality for so long.
    peteraj22 peteraj22
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2014


    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2013

    I'm a married woman and I think I may be in

    love with an acquaintance. She's on my mind constantly and I have elaborate fantasies about her. I don't want to be unfaithful to my husband and I don't feel that there is a likely chance she would reciprocate these feelings. I still can't get her out of my head. I get along...
    sylessegirl sylessegirl
    41-45, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Mar 7, 2013

    I've never been with a wins

    but have always fantasized what it would be like.
    Luvcocky Luvcocky
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    It's not a secret, but I live in a small town

    filled with straight people, so my feelings towards them have to be somewhat secret. Wish I could meet just one lesbian here :(
    WeepingWillow27 WeepingWillow27
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj
    1 Response May 12, 2012

    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2012
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 7, 2014

    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa
    4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38
    10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    Iam not a lesbian. It's more of an emotional

    attraction thing with women so I consider myself bisexual because Iam open to experiences with the right woman however I don't sleep around! I'm looking for the right person be it a man or a woman!
    SoulMateGirl SoulMateGirl
    36-40, F
    Nov 16, 2015

    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 31, 2013

    Laying in bed thinking of her.

    He begins to stir behind me. It’s her breath that I wish for on my neck as he reaches in front of me. I close my eyes and try to imagine her lips running down my spine, but instead I feel the stubble of his goatee. My body responds as it always does. I decide to take...
    sylessegirl sylessegirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 4, 2015
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2014
    Magatane1 Magatane1
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015
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