I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    I am pretty certain I've been attracted to women

    since I was very young. I don't even know where to begin to go about it and meet other bi-sexual or lesbians in my city. I live in Ottawa, Ontario.. I don't know the gay community that well. None of my straight relationships have ever worked out and at times I've felt very...
    roset851 roset851
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    I've known that I'm attracted to other women

    since I was about 14. I haven't told anybody. My family will not be excepting of this. I'm debating moving across the country so that I can finally be myself and not put on an act for the sake of others beliefs and feelings.
    herecomesthedark herecomesthedark
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2014

    Laying in bed thinking of her.

    He begins to stir behind me. It’s her breath that I wish for on my neck as he reaches in front of me. I close my eyes and try to imagine her lips running down my spine, but instead I feel the stubble of his goatee. My body responds as it always does. I decide to take...
    sylessegirl sylessegirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 4, 2015
    BlueLiving BlueLiving
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014
    Magatane1 Magatane1
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj
    1 Response May 12, 2012

    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Mar 7, 2013

    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38
    10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    I'm way too kinky with my best friend,

    but I've been holding in my sexuality for so long.
    peteraj22 peteraj22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2014

    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    I am very much in love

    and attracted to another woman secretly. She is my cousin. Her name is Carole, age 37, married with lots of children, and from Phoenix, Arizona. I am in Miami, Florida. We will be together in the summer months often. I want her to know how much I love her and want to share...
    redheadfemale redheadfemale
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1
    8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

    I've never been with a wins

    but have always fantasized what it would be like.
    Luvcocky Luvcocky
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa
    4 Responses Aug 25, 2013
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 30, 2013

    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    It's not a secret, but I live in a small town

    filled with straight people, so my feelings towards them have to be somewhat secret. Wish I could meet just one lesbian here :(
    WeepingWillow27 WeepingWillow27
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    I've never been with a woman before.

    I've been married & dated men. But since I've hit my 40's, I can't help but want to try something different. I know women are more sensual. I hope that this is the year that I have my first experience with a woman. It's been difficult meeting a woman who is into women. It's...
    RememberSeptember RememberSeptember
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2014

    I never have the guts to do anything

    but I have pondered what it would be like to be with a woman
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 1, 2011


    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23
    5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2013

    Iam not a lesbian. It's more of an emotional

    attraction thing with women so I consider myself bisexual because Iam open to experiences with the right woman however I don't sleep around! I'm looking for the right person be it a man or a woman!
    SoulMateGirl SoulMateGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 16, 2015

    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    I'm a married woman and I think I may be in

    love with an acquaintance. She's on my mind constantly and I have elaborate fantasies about her. I don't want to be unfaithful to my husband and I don't feel that there is a likely chance she would reciprocate these feelings. I still can't get her out of my head. I get along...
    sylessegirl sylessegirl
    41-45, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 31, 2013
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 7, 2014


    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2012
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