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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 476 People

    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other

    women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 7 Responses Mar 30

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    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    I've known that I'm attracted to other women

    since I was about 14. I haven't told anybody. My family will not be excepting of this. I'm debating moving across the country so that I can finally be myself and not put on an act for the sake of others beliefs and feelings.
    herecomesthedark herecomesthedark 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I never have the guts to do anything

    but I have pondered what it would be like to be with a woman
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 4 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa 22-25 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    BlueLiving BlueLiving 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I just realized and accepted to myself

    that I'm bi. My boyfriend knows but if he talks about it my first reaction is to deny it even though I know that he knows I'm bi-I don't know why I do that but I do. The only others who know is my mother who is in Heaven, and a friend because I told her I have feelings for her.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Confusion

    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'm way too kinky with my best friend,

    but I've been holding in my sexuality for so long.
    peteraj22 peteraj22 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 18

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in

    women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it and he's not perverted about it either! It's been a very difficult journey for me. Now that I'm out I don't know where to find other women like...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 5 Responses Feb 17

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    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Unexpected

    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23 46-50 5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    And have been ever since 2 years ago when my best friend and I went on a camping trip, We had no idea but the rugby team of our favorite all boys school was also there on training...
    impulsivehuman impulsivehuman 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I am addicted to sex with men. Please understand, I don't want a relationship or a boyfriend and I certainly don't want to be married again. I love *******, but I never got much...
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox 36-40, F 23 Responses Nov 25

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    People still get surprised at women who like women. It's kind of odd, like, where have you been? Under a rock? CX Kidding.
    Mydogsaremylife Mydogsaremylife 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I need a really good chat! ;) women only!!
    marilife marilife 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    want to chat with bi curious women! ask me anything! ;) 21 and over please!
    marilife marilife 31-35, F Nov 26

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    I wouldn't mind nor object to be with a woman who is bi i love to see two beautiful women love n enjoy themselves eachother n me enjoying myself too
    howard1945 howard1945 51-55, M Dec 9

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    I will soon no longer be the other woman. I told MM last night that things need to wind down between us because I am moving on. He took it pretty well but I could tell he was sad...
    daughterofapreacherman daughterofapreacherman 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I'm not the high maintenance woman nor do I talk about makeup and beauty regimes. We are not ever going to be barbie dolls so why bother,lol. It's the inside that counts and the...
    MayWestKnowsBest MayWestKnowsBest 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I made it just through the week many tears on my own.fb checked in twice just said are u ok no other communication as he says over.we have contacted vertually every day for 2 years...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    To say the least. I want to own her, protect and r avage in an never ending turmoil
    Zabecki Zabecki 51-55, M Dec 2

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    Girl on girl fantasies just intrigue me. Cute girlies hmu :3
    juriaajurden juriaajurden 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I've been seeing my mm for a while and my husband knows about him. He knew before I even left our home and recently he has been threatening to inform my mm's W about us. He even...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    His second affair with me started on Halloween, for days I was in disbelief, completely "convinced that he was lying. I had spent months crying over him and he wanted to continue...
    GallowsCalibratorx GallowsCalibratorx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    Need another female to talk to.
    verycurious89 verycurious89 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Bicurious-Bisexual-In-NYC/954235
    marilife marilife 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I have to wait 5 weeks to know where I stand with MM. I hope I can wait that long. My MM is 19 years older then me. He also has type 2 diabetes. He has been married twice. Has...
    yori1983 yori1983 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    If your single when u start affair and they have a partner.They get upset if I start seeing someone??why do they want us say at home upset because they haven't contacted us.
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    Hes told me today unless I leave my partner we won't have any contact.ive cried all day feel like I'm going to crack up hes been my rock since my seperation from my ex h.
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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