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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa 22-25 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    I'm way too kinky with my best friend,

    but I've been holding in my sexuality for so long.
    peteraj22 peteraj22 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    I just realized and accepted to myself

    that I'm bi. My boyfriend knows but if he talks about it my first reaction is to deny it even though I know that he knows I'm bi-I don't know why I do that but I do. The only others who know is my mother who is in Heaven, and a friend because I told her I have feelings for her.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other

    women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 7 Responses Mar 30, 2014

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 9 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    I never have the guts to do anything

    but I have pondered what it would be like to be with a woman
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I am very much in love

    and attracted to another woman secretly. She is my cousin. Her name is Carole, age 37, married with lots of children, and from Phoenix, Arizona. I am in Miami, Florida. We will be together in the summer months often. I want her to know how much I love her and want to share...
    redheadfemale redheadfemale 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 8

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    BlueLiving BlueLiving 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    Confusion

    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I've known that I'm attracted to other women

    since I was about 14. I haven't told anybody. My family will not be excepting of this. I'm debating moving across the country so that I can finally be myself and not put on an act for the sake of others beliefs and feelings.
    herecomesthedark herecomesthedark 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Unexpected

    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23 46-50 5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 5 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in

    women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it and he's not perverted about it either! It's been a very difficult journey for me. Now that I'm out I don't know where to find other women like...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 5 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    It's not a secret, but I live in a small town

    filled with straight people, so my feelings towards them have to be somewhat secret. Wish I could meet just one lesbian here :(
    WeepingWillow27 WeepingWillow27 31-35, F Feb 8

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    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2014

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    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2014

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    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I've been bicurious for a long time and would love to meet others with the same curiosity.I think I would love to experiment with other women or at least get to know people in the...
    Curioussouls Curioussouls 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    The most common term for this is a square jaw, but I call it a flat chin. Flat means sexy in this case. Some of these women also have angular, heart-shaped or chiseled jawlines...
    drmjr drmjr 46-50, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have weird *** fantasies about having sex with Older women. I'm attracted to females but not girls my age. I prefer someone older. I think I'm bisexual but I'm not sure but I...
    Adridee Adridee 16-17, F Feb 14

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    So what does everyone think of these women do you guys really support them like do u wake up every morning and say I'm glad she's doing what she's doing hurt another person and her...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i am a newly married woman- to a gorgeous tall and generously loving man, but i have found he and i share the same taste in women...?
    757va4lovers 757va4lovers 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I remember coming to this site to read experiences OW had with MM. So I can gain insight on what occurs and what's similar to my experience. I had been involved in a brief affair...
    pinkopal pinkopal 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    this has been a long weekend. my car is in the shop and I have been stuck at home. MM had had a big job to do this whole week. ( he owns his own computer business) so for the...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    My brother was in the hospital this past week and I was a total wreck. I drove to Maryland to be with my brother in the hospital. Chris was not supportive at all. He barely spoke...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F Feb 2

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    Sooo me and my MM have been seeing each other for about 7 months now. We can only hang out a few days a week for like 30 minutes after work. But we started hanging out early early...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Me: "let's run away. To a place where you don't lose your keys, and work is optional, and you don't have to leave your girlfriends bed if you don't want to!" I knew darn well tht...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok girls this has been a messed up week. I have an issue with trust with my MM. I made the mistake at looking at his facebook. What I found was really no surprise. He was chatting...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    So, last week when he said he wanted to stop sexual contact, he had a few reasons. Can't get caught now because of business dealings, a family situation with a grown child of his...
    shitbyrd shitbyrd 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    im dating a man i love. id nevr chear..but the idea of teasing and flirting with and making out with a butch woman...my ex was my only girlfriend and she awakened a vert bucurious...
    melbug melbug 18-21, F Feb 2

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    A guy I work with everyday, Jeff, and Steve are really good friends. Jeff obviously doesn't know me and Steve are a thing. I love when Jeff talks to me about Steve in secret. It's...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Heyy any Qts out there!💕
    BabbyyBoo14 BabbyyBoo14 18-21, F Feb 6

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    God I'm feel I'm going mad !!!i leave my partner who I never loved to hear my FB tell me today to get on with my life without him.im going crazy I can see his house from mine it's...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F Feb 6

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    Feel like I'm going to crack up FB stayed away last 3 weeks since I left my partner .just tells me hes busy and things change.he has been there for me for 2 years now hes tells me...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 10

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