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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 432 People

    Unexpected

    lonley, husband away on business,  I know sounds so tipical,  but true,  having a bad day, called my friend, said come on over need to put back a few, well she came along with the boyfriend, we had way to much, wound up in the bath tub together just us girls...
    sunnynm23 sunnynm23 46-50 5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    BlueLiving BlueLiving 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Confusion

    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I just realized and accepted to myself

    that I'm bi. My boyfriend knows but if he talks about it my first reaction is to deny it even though I know that he knows I'm bi-I don't know why I do that but I do. The only others who know is my mother who is in Heaven, and a friend because I told her I have feelings for her.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    I'm attracted to every gender.

    But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in

    women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it and he's not perverted about it either! It's been a very difficult journey for me. Now that I'm out I don't know where to find other women like...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 5 Responses Feb 17

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    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F Jan 9

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    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    In Love With My Best Frnd

    it was new yrs.. we both were drunk.. dancing singing n having fun.. i was attracted towards my best frnd.. i asked her out for a smooch she sai ok.. i was so vry happy... i smooched her in the most passionate way tht i could ever smooched any one.. i was felling vry happy abt...
    vishakhaa vishakhaa 22-25 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 4 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other

    women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm way too kinky with my best friend,

    but I've been holding in my sexuality for so long.
    peteraj22 peteraj22 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Looking for another girl to fool around with!

    If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    No Secret: In Love With Love'S Magic

    0kay maybe it is no secret, I kissed her in front of her family (even mine) in a public place with loads of people....... and i kiss and hug her before other people at work and i don't fuckkking care who sees, i find her attractive and i make a point of getting it through to her...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am a 22 year old living in Vermont. Over the past few years, I have really started thinking about myself sexually with another women. I've always considered myself "straight...
    lenorjj lenorjj 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    What to say... I am no longer the other women. It has been a long time coming. I was seeing him for 1 year and 4 months. We are now friends... Rather have him then a friend then...
    TashaNash TashaNash 22-25, F Sep 2

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    I hate being the other women but for some reason I always am
    shibabe1996 shibabe1996 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I always hit on other women. I find them all beautiful. There is this one bartender at my local bar that I love flirting with. She's flashed me a couple times and allowed me to...
    Mrhughcock Mrhughcock 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am single. He is married. We have secretly been together for over 6 months. He comes to my house almost every day. He says he's going to leave so we can be together. Will he...
    bonitamalikewhoa bonitamalikewhoa 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I've always had an infatuation with other females, especially ones that aren't your typical cookie-cutter Barbie type. I like confident girls who don't act like *******, and...
    Vixen2010 Vixen2010 22-25, F Aug 31

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    It's starting to take over my head. I see women kiss each other and I can't help but think it's the most beautiful thing ever. I see women look at each other with feelings so deep...
    Unexplainedbeauty Unexplainedbeauty 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    a couple of times when I've been tipsy or drunk I've tried kissing my friend, ever since the first and also last time I've been wanting to kiss a women again, I can't help but...
    sammy14xx sammy14xx 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Any bi women who wanna talk or maybe share pictures message me
    sweety7268 sweety7268 18-21, F Aug 31

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    So he tells me he had a heart to heart with his MOTHER about us over drinks on the weekend. He said he regretted it and hadn't planned it they just got into it too far and nobody...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Their a man live here in our small town,,,his wife cheated on him with another man, Her husband found out about it , and never said a word to her,, and her business trip she when...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I've always just wanted to talk to another woman about these sexual feelings I have , inbox me .
    quietk quietk 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I'm actually in bed of my guys as house n dog sitting while they go away.just heartbreaking .x
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Me n hubby go out to adult entertainment clubs. He thinks its for him, and its truly for me
    sexytoo sexytoo 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Ok mine went away last night n messaged me early hours see you when I get back.not heard anything rest of the day.i don't want an essay just hi or anything .am I out of order for...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F Aug 23

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    Can't flipping sleep. Nearly approaching 3:30 am. Ladies, care to chat? Age 22+ please.
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Aug 24

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    My MM still f--cks his wife. I'm just being blunt here.. Unless he has a plan to leave or they had a long standing sexless marriage before you came into the picture, in my opinion...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    Guess they had a 'fabulous' weekend and are more in love than ever and so happy, life is so perfect. Smiling pictures together, her gushing how everything is amazing. Even though...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I just found out my MM hinted to his MOM that something is going on between us!!? Whaaaat?? I'm in shock right now.
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm sure mine is still sexing his wife although we have unproved sex. And he's suppose to come in the am before work
    Truone16 Truone16 31-35, F Sep 3

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    Do you guys ask for money and bills to be paid by your mm
    Truone16 Truone16 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 3

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    Not gonna lie. Love a flirt once in a while 💋
    MillieJohns MillieJohns 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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