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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church? - i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Disowned And Unloved - Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to...
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Extremely Turned On By Women - I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Cainda Confused - Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Only A Few Ppl Know - I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman..... - I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 4 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Is It Right To Like Women To???? - Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i...
    genasparrow genasparrow 70+, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    I would like to meet women who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F Jan 9

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    In Love At Work: Again! - I love the woman sitting next to me at work. Normally i'm attracted to slim, blond woman but she is just the opposite... She's so hot! Always very short...
    MichelleMichael MichelleMichael 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2013

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To - First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 Mar 30

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    Being Bi... A Curse? - i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    But Just A Little Bit... - <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Basic Instinct - I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Bad Times - So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb...
    genasparrow genasparrow 70+, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    I Love a Womans Body - Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic...
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Need Experience - I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Confusion - i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me...
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Men Or Women? - i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Yeah secretly..and it will remain that way.
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Nicby Nicby 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am very attracted to women. I guess that is why I am bisexual :) My 1st sexual experience, consensual experience, was with a woman, well with a girl I should say :) I do love...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 23

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    Let me first say that I'm not here to judge. I use to be the other women, so I know exactly how you all are feeling. I just thought that maybe I would share my experience. Maybe...
    tamstaub tamstaub 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Wow i was the other women,,, you are their cheating on your husband,, then he came to the bar ,he was crying over you,,, until he met me, i change the way he was thinking about you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I was the other women. For four years I was the other women and I tried to make myself believe I didn't care and not feel guilty. I loved the man involved It wasn't just sex I...
    jessgold jessgold 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I had open conversation with my love about our situation this week. I expressed to him everything i had in my mind and my heart, the good and the bad. I expressed to him my fears...
    CountryGirl028 CountryGirl028 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    I honestly believe that you can love both men and women but some people show it a lot more, men have this charm, funny, strong and caring side and women have this tender, loving...
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I like women, love them. I unfortunately despise guys in a romantic sense, and I admire girls more than anything really. I have had crushes (big ones) on girls before, but they've...
    DoctorFemale DoctorFemale 18-21 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    i love how a women feels smells and looks . My husband loves that about me . I hope one day my husband and i can share a girlfriend . I love men too . I am no confused as most...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny...... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I read lot's stories about affair,,, all the women had the affair never blame the man she had sex with or her self ,,, it all way the husband fault ,,, why he busting his but to...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i think it's completely normal... women size each other up constantly. what's she have that i don't have? boobs. ok. my butt is better that hers. i like her shoes. she has nice...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I can't believe I'm writing this. I would say I'm straight but I'm highly curious about having an encounter with another woman. I actually have a fantasy of having a best friend...
    everythingchanges0033 everythingchanges0033 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 29

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    I clearly know we cannot be continue seeing and talking each other and maintaining such bonding forever. Eventually it would die off. I hate the feeling of counting down towards...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I just want to rant here. I was so fed up by mm inconsiderate behavior. I have did so much traveling to help him buy stuffs. And what I got in return was he just meet me to get...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Hey(: any other bicurious ladies 16-19 wanna text?(: Message me and we'll talk about it?(:
    xXiiHeartYouuXx xXiiHeartYouuXx 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Girls can be so brutal. I've found myself in such a difficult situation with someone who is ment to be my best friend. Not ideal :/
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm 21, in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, but ever since I was like 13-14 I've been so interested in having anything with another girl. I have dreams and...
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    We had a full 3 hours today. But somehow we couldn't enjoy this time as his wife start questioning him why is he need so much take out running errand. Mm so was afraid that she...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    It so hard to be with someone and not be able to ask questions...im at starbucks doing some work...he said he'd join me ...but to not try and pick him up from his house that he...
    CountryGirl028 CountryGirl028 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am more attracted to women than men. I'd say that I'm 85% lesbian. Only because I've never been with a woman. The farthest I've ever gotten was a make out session. Nothing other...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 6

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    So I am new to this site.... Had to find a way to talk about everything I am going thru... So I am involved with a man that has been in a relationship with another woman for 13...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Right now I appreciate allot of the comments from the other women who are supportive of other women. I am both the other woman and wife. I am out as the other woman because he got...
    christinehart christinehart 56-60, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm seeing a guy who's 37. I'm 19. We've been seeing each other about 4 months and he's so good to me. We get along better than anyone I've ever met. We finish each other's...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 24

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    I am missing my guy so much tonight! I haven't seen him since Wednesday and don't get me wrong I loved my long weekend with my kids but they're with their dad tonight so now it's...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    we have everything, this amazing bond, we know everything about each other, the electric sexual chemistry, amazing sex, the security of knowing he always there for me, everything...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I never thought I'd be this person.... the "other woman." I never knew that there were so many other women out there who were going through the same thing I am. It's almost a...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    I love to open doors for others including other women, older folks, handicapped individuals, and any else who needs assistance.
    femalelovesanimals femalelovesanimals 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Last night, this all became too real. I'm hurting today. Last night at work, my MM and I slipped away for about an hour and we really talked. Unfortunately, I "drunk talked". I...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think this is it for my life.. I didn't think secrets would come out 2 years later however it's finally happening. If my family find out about him I'll be out- I want to turn...
    conflicted2014 conflicted2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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