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I Am Secretly Attracted to Other Women

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    In Love At Work: Again!

    I love the woman sitting next to me at work. Normally i'm attracted to slim, blond woman but she is just the opposite... She's so hot! Always very short dresses so I can't look anywhere else!!!! She is so sexxxxxyyyy :) She knows that I'm lesbian (a little bi sometimes). She...
    MichelleMichael MichelleMichael 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2013

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    Confusion

    i used to go toschool w this girl. i feel attracted to her. we are close ... but i  just want to kiss her soft pink lips . and enjoy... that  always happens to  me, does tht make me bi?
    iamdiffrent2 iamdiffrent2 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Only A Few Ppl Know

    I dont kno how to approach women in person....only on the internet. I have a fear of being rejected. But I love the way a woman looks. Im insecure and dont kno if a woman would really like me. I date men bc its easier for me. My bf and I broke up recently and I'm not mad, I'm...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    I am 43 years old. I have been interested in

    women for as long as I can remember. I am not secretive about it any longer. My husband totally supports me and has no problem with it and he's not perverted about it either! It's been a very difficult journey for me. Now that I'm out I don't know where to find other women like...
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 3 Responses Feb 17

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    It's not a secret that I'm attracted to other

    women. I just wonder how many married women out there feel the same way I do?
    Nikki112170 Nikki112170 41-45 Mar 30

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    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Disowned And Unloved

    Being disowned is my biggest fear if I ever came out. I am in a relationship with a man yet am attracted to other women and during sex I sometimes have to think of other women to enjoy it. It's horrible to hide yet coming out seems much scarier.
    desdemona123 desdemona123 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    I Love a Womans Body

    Needless to say I love my husband, but I would love to be intimate with another woman.  I get hot just thinking about making out with another chic.
    kellyn38 kellyn38 26-30 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Cainda Confused

    Ok so i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him.. But sometimes during sex i will only get turned on if i think of a hot girls naked body..i also enjoy watching **** with him especially girl on girl it exites me I feels weird.. But idk i love having sex with him so i...
    ijustwanakno ijustwanakno 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Men Or Women?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Extremely Turned On By Women

    I believe this all has something to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a man as a young child. I am in a relationship of 3 years and have a beautiful son but my desire for sex with my boyfriend is gone! I secretly watch lesbian **** and i love it. When i do have sex...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    What Do I Do? Should I Seek Counselling Or Go For Deliverance In Church?

    i was once addicted to ************ and also used to watch **** a lot. i used to feel guilty afterwards and pray for forgiveness. all of a sudden after about 10 years of this bondage i realized i was free. but after sometime i realised that i was getting really attracted to other...
    maryslessor1 maryslessor1 22-25 8 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Need Experience

    I want someone who would be willing to try a girl On girl experience with me. It's always been a fantasy of mine
    curiouskitten15 curiouskitten15 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Being Bi... A Curse?

    i have always been attracted to both men and women. Ive never been in a relationship with a women. I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years but it was very abusive and violent. After that i was not attracted to men for a long time. i experimented with women a...
    waunderlust25 waunderlust25 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Love? How Can I Be Physically Attracted To Other Woman.....

    I dont know what to say...I guess I will start with the fact that I have never been with a guy or girl sexually or even had a relationship with anyone, I flirt with guys here and there and they give me butterflies and then I step back when they want a relationship. I am in...
    Idontknowhow2feel Idontknowhow2feel 16-17 4 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I would like to meet women

    who are like me. Please message me. :)
    lovelove7352 lovelove7352 22-25, F Jan 9

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    But Just A Little Bit...

    <.< >.> If I could quantify my sexual orientation, in terms of gender attraction, I'd estimate a lttle more than 90% attracted to guys, mentally and physically ;), but I can't help but admire the shapes and curves of other women- specially those who are muscular (whose...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Is It Right To Like Women To????

    Im a 14 year old girl whi has been havin wierd thoughts about my step daddy but um ive been also gettin wierd feelins about my bestii chloe i dont understand :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 70+, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Basic Instinct

    I am attracted to most women I see on the metro or street.i am married and love my wife a lot. I dont know if its love cos if it was I would not be attracted to every other women.any one out there Feel the same. I feel that we are just like animals tired by the rules of society...
    Vkrmhj Vkrmhj 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Bad Times

    So i spoke to Chloe about our kiss and how i felt, she told me that it meant nothing to her, just a thing to excite her boyfriend :( whats worse she called me a dumb dike :'( ive never been so hurt :'(
    genasparrow genasparrow 70+, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Maybe It's Just People I'm Attracted To

    First off, I am a happily married young woman and I'm also kind of confussed.  My husband was out at the bar one night (which is fine by the way, I do it too haha), and when I spoke to him the next day he told me this story.  The bartender there had also been drinking a little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Does any other women girls have an overwhelming attraction to women girls that they can't function through the day without thinking ov them, I am always attracted to straight girls...
    Nicby Nicby 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am very attracted to women. I guess that is why I am bisexual :) My 1st sexual experience, consensual experience, was with a woman, well with a girl I should say :) I do love...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 23

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    Let me first say that I'm not here to judge. I use to be the other women, so I know exactly how you all are feeling. I just thought that maybe I would share my experience. Maybe...
    tamstaub tamstaub 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Wow i was the other women,,, you are their cheating on your husband,, then he came to the bar ,he was crying over you,,, until he met me, i change the way he was thinking about you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I was the other women. For four years I was the other women and I tried to make myself believe I didn't care and not feel guilty. I loved the man involved It wasn't just sex I...
    jessgold jessgold 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I honestly believe that you can love both men and women but some people show it a lot more, men have this charm, funny, strong and caring side and women have this tender, loving...
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had open conversation with my love about our situation this week. I expressed to him everything i had in my mind and my heart, the good and the bad. I expressed to him my fears...
    CountryGirl028 CountryGirl028 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i love how a women feels smells and looks . My husband loves that about me . I hope one day my husband and i can share a girlfriend . I love men too . I am no confused as most...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny...... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I read lot's stories about affair,,, all the women had the affair never blame the man she had sex with or her self ,,, it all way the husband fault ,,, why he busting his but to...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i think it's completely normal... women size each other up constantly. what's she have that i don't have? boobs. ok. my butt is better that hers. i like her shoes. she has nice...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I can't believe I'm writing this. I would say I'm straight but I'm highly curious about having an encounter with another woman. I actually have a fantasy of having a best friend...
    everythingchanges0033 everythingchanges0033 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    I like women, love them. I unfortunately despise guys in a romantic sense, and I admire girls more than anything really. I have had crushes (big ones) on girls before, but they've...
    DoctorFemale DoctorFemale 18-21 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I clearly know we cannot be continue seeing and talking each other and maintaining such bonding forever. Eventually it would die off. I hate the feeling of counting down towards...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I just want to rant here. I was so fed up by mm inconsiderate behavior. I have did so much traveling to help him buy stuffs. And what I got in return was he just meet me to get...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Hey(: any other bicurious ladies 16-19 wanna text?(: Message me and we'll talk about it?(:
    xXiiHeartYouuXx xXiiHeartYouuXx 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Update!!! So in my pervious post I said I think it is time for me to move on. But I only did for a couple days. Now it is coming up to a year since the affair has started...
    TashaNash TashaNash 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Girls can be so brutal. I've found myself in such a difficult situation with someone who is ment to be my best friend. Not ideal :/
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm 21, in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, but ever since I was like 13-14 I've been so interested in having anything with another girl. I have dreams and...
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    We had a full 3 hours today. But somehow we couldn't enjoy this time as his wife start questioning him why is he need so much take out running errand. Mm so was afraid that she...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It so hard to be with someone and not be able to ask questions...im at starbucks doing some work...he said he'd join me ...but to not try and pick him up from his house that he...
    CountryGirl028 CountryGirl028 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I got home from work signed on, wanting to read and catch up on what I missed, supporting other women who are in the same yet different, situations as me. I can't. I have no...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 15 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I am more attracted to women than men. I'd say that I'm 85% lesbian. Only because I've never been with a woman. The farthest I've ever gotten was a make out session. Nothing other...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 6

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    So I am new to this site.... Had to find a way to talk about everything I am going thru... So I am involved with a man that has been in a relationship with another woman for 13...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Right now I appreciate allot of the comments from the other women who are supportive of other women. I am both the other woman and wife. I am out as the other woman because he got...
    christinehart christinehart 56-60, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm seeing a guy who's 37. I'm 19. We've been seeing each other about 4 months and he's so good to me. We get along better than anyone I've ever met. We finish each other's...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 24

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    I am missing my guy so much tonight! I haven't seen him since Wednesday and don't get me wrong I loved my long weekend with my kids but they're with their dad tonight so now it's...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    we have everything, this amazing bond, we know everything about each other, the electric sexual chemistry, amazing sex, the security of knowing he always there for me, everything...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I never thought I'd be this person.... the "other woman." I never knew that there were so many other women out there who were going through the same thing I am. It's almost a...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    I love to open doors for others including other women, older folks, handicapped individuals, and any else who needs assistance.
    femalelovesanimals femalelovesanimals 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Last night, this all became too real. I'm hurting today. Last night at work, my MM and I slipped away for about an hour and we really talked. Unfortunately, I "drunk talked". I...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 12 Responses a week ago

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