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I Am Secretly Bisexual

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 635 People

    A Few Experiences

    My first experience was with a friend when I was around 13. I was spending the night with him, and he went into his sister room, which adjoined his by a common bathroom, and came back in wearing her slip. And a teenie hard on. That made me pretty hard, which he noticed by the...
    pantypal69 pantypal69
    46-50, M
    4 Responses May 2, 2012

    My First Time

    I had fantasies for years about men. I was married at the time and we had 3somes with other women, but couldn't get one set up with a man. I kept looking and met this guy online that seemed familiar. I was chatting with him one night when she was out of town. It turns out I...
    KyBiLovesCock KyBiLovesCock
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2013


    So, I am married, and love, yes love, my family. I got married to my high school sweetheart. I am secretly bi, and nobody will ever know. Exception you ;), but I have to get with guys as often as I can. I had a bff with benefits, but recently called it off completely. I am only...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 12, 2013

    Keeping It Quiet

    I've been heteroflexible for about 7 years. I only have relationships with women, but, enjoy the occasional play time with a guy. I really do appreciate BOTH men and women's bodies. I have my limits on what activities I participate, though. I focus on ****-play. I enjoy guys...
    santoshouse santoshouse
    36-40, M
    Dec 5, 2011

    Yeah I am secretly this :( don't know how my

    fronds and family would react
    mywayhome mywayhome
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2015

    Finally Happened

    I finally had a bi-sexual experience with a woman.  I had a thr**some with a woman and her boyfriend.  It was so wonderful.  I was very nervous at first.  The man wanted to watch his girlfriend and I first.  I started by sucking on her breasts...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 29, 2009

    Rediscovery Of My Bisexuality

    After being married for many years, and engaging in many affiars with women (I find it hard to be monogomus) I was surfing the internet when I found a story about a website, called LA Exotics, where the author had discovered escorts who acted independently. I went to the site and...
    iornrose iornrose
    66-70, M
    Apr 5, 2011

    Is She Giving Me A Signal

    I am secretly bi and I am very comfortable that way.I have had sex with only close friends who are also so secretly bi and came on to me first because I am afraid to approach or flirt with women.Anyway I recently became friends with this woman at work, we hung out a few times and...
    Silvafoxx Silvafoxx
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2012

    Me Too

    I had a gay experience with a friend in high school once we played around with each others things. Now I have been married twice and have 2 daughters in their mid to late 20's. and six months ago started a bi-sexual affair with a co worker and I love it. Giving him oral is such a...
    Dawn87 Dawn87
    41-45, M
    Apr 23, 2012

    Why Have I Waited Till Now?

    I'm looking for my first experience with a man soon. I'm 42 but have always had fantasies...have been chatted up by really sweet guys in the past. Am kicking my self for it now that I didn't go for it. Technically, I am still straight...but does ************ to bi and gay...
    icankeepasecret icankeepasecret
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2009

    Bi Is For Bisexual

    Maybe it's hormones but I'd like to have sex with guys and girls (in my mind) it would be great it's for real. gay videos turns me on. but in real life, sex feels weird for me (just talking about it) <<< lack of experience maybe? I play with myself thinking gay (male...
    bibi19 bibi19
    18-21, F
    Oct 18, 2012

    I Am Bi

    I am secretly bi and would like a secret boyfriend. someone who is the same situation as me whom i can talk to about it, and of course to get naked together
    timmol timmol
    31-35, M
    Mar 28, 2013

    I Can't Really

    I can't really express my feelings in real life that I'm bisexual. But on this site I can. So, I'm not really sececative, but in real life I am. I wish I could tell people how I really feel about liking girls and guys. Will anybody ever understand and not judge because of...
    ascs ascs
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2009

    Becoming A *****

    After my experiences with a transexual had rekindled my desire for ****, I discovered Adult Friend Finder,, and Backpage. While surfing through those, I found that there were several other married men like me with similar desires. I met Paul (or so he called himself)on...
    iornrose iornrose
    66-70, M
    Apr 5, 2011

    If They Only New

    I am 43 but look that of my 23 year old daughter. people mistake us as sisters. she has bi and gay friends as much as straight friends. she still would be a quite shocked that her nother us bisexual.
    sexyandlovingit sexyandlovingit
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

    My Ascent Part 2 ....

    So I got married seven years ago. Stopped playing around when we moved in together right years ago. That last about three years. Then I went back on AFF and other sites and found some single women and coupels to play with on a one time basis. The interent is wonderful. My...
    41-45, M
    Nov 15, 2010

    Hidden All My Life

    I'm 27 years old and no one in my family knows. My wife knows, despite the fact I waited 6 years to tell her. My best friend knows, and his wife. That's pretty much it.
    FreqDisaster FreqDisaster
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

    Dominating A Transvestite

    After my experience with Paul, I continued to search the net and found Stephanie (steve) a transvestite who wanted to be dominated. We exchanged several emails to establish he was a complete fem and bottom only, seeking domination. We met in a parking lot and arranged for him...
    iornrose iornrose
    66-70, M
    Apr 5, 2011

    ***** ****

    i love ***** but since i was young i had girls fingering me. I love panties. i love getting sucked and pumping ****
    treepruner treepruner
    41-45, M
    Aug 18, 2010

    I Keep Going Back

    The first time I tried having sex with a guy was in college - we were roommates, and like all 18 year old guys we were constantly horny.  We were lying around in our beds across from each other talking about being horny, and it suddenly occurred to me that I wanted to put his...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 15, 2011

    I Am Secretly Bisexual

    I never liked to go out when I got to highschool, alot of my friends liked going to town and socialising. I started going out and making friends at about the age of 15. During highschool, I made friends with a new guy, he was very shy and was bullied. I felt he came across as...
    HiddenSecret123 HiddenSecret123
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 25, 2011

    I am so horny for another woman.

    I want it bad, but I'm afraid to finally give into my desires. It feels so wrong, but so natural at the same time.
    secretbi72 secretbi72
    41-45, F
    Dec 3, 2013

    My Ascent ....

    My first bi expereinces was always with couples. I met with couples prior to anything bi happening were the male was still in charge and just like to see his wife ******, used, serviced, or wanted to **** her husaband and someone else at the same time. Then I fell into the...
    41-45, M
    Nov 15, 2010

    Very Secretly Bisexual

    Mwm that is very bicurious. Not a single soul knows. Talk about feeling isolated. I wonder sometimes if I should tell my wife.  However, my gut tells me thats a bad idea.  I am only curious, no experience and wouldnt act on the desire even though I would love to have the...
    houfun65 houfun65
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2012

    Need Some Help Please

    Hi i recently found an text message from a man to my boyfriend, needless to say it was an eye opener, I am very liberal when it comes to sex so if he were to come out I would most likely be the one he could do that with. He hides and lies and I know he has lost other...
    couriousme couriousme
    1 Response Oct 5, 2012

    My Coworker...Oh Goodness.

    I've recently accepted that I'm bisexual, and the place where I work also so happened to hire a gorgeous, beautiful young woman. I got to work side-by-side with her a couple of days this week, spent quite a bit of time with her and chatted with her. She has a great personality...
    hooponopono hooponopono
    26-30, F
    Aug 12, 2013

    Not Much Secret Sam Stuff Here....

    Gotta join this group sounds like fun, lol!! Don't know why I want to join though? Not much secret Sam stuff goin' on with me, I'm bi and not only is it common knowledge to my family, but I've accepted myself as such! I sometimes think it would be easier bein' all one way or...
    leachera leachera
    51-55, T
    Oct 23, 2010

    Scary "2" Me

    I am married with a wonderful wife, and 3 kids. I also have a guy in my life that I dont think I could ever give up! My wife means the world to me, but my boyfriend is open to talking about all, and anything. I feel stuck, but can't part with any of them. My guy is my best friend...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 27, 2013

    I grew u out in the country

    and used to stay with a friend when I was around 14 and him and I found ways to please each other like we never knew we could ,then I had a close friend that I did some yard work for a few days later and he allowed me to have anal sex with im multiple times and he really did...
    hornyuncle hornyuncle
    51-55, M
    Feb 9, 2014

    Mad, But Miss It

    S o, Life is complicated for me.  I'm the awesome popular guy everyone loved in high school.  Sure people always questioned my sexuality just because i wasn't a normal jock or nerd.  I also was born and raised strongly catholic.  Anyway, my first year in...
    LifeThroughALens LifeThroughALens
    18-21, M
    Aug 6, 2009

    Do you have something you have been keeping

    from your girlfriend since you started dating? Maybe you intended on telling her when the time was right, but the opportunity never arose. Now you are ready to tell her, but not exactly sure how to go about doing it and you want to do it before she finds out from someone else...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014


     I have be with men and women. I'm married and love my wife. she knows that I like hear to finger me and use a ***** on me. She doesn't know that I like the real thing. I have been with men on and off since I was 15. She seems to get very turned on when she does that to me...
    marcaus2009 marcaus2009
    Jan 3, 2009

    My First Time

    I have been married for a long time now, but I still remember my first bisexual experience. I was 16 and my friend was 18. We met in the Science Club in High School (both semi-nerds). I learned that he had been raised in an orphanage before he was adopted and had homosexual...
    iornrose iornrose
    66-70, M
    Apr 5, 2011

    Small Town Bi

    I was born, grew up, and still live in a small town. As long as I can remember I have had this desire to suck ****. And although my first sexual experience as a child, was with another boy, and as an adult I did suck my friend's ****. And there was this boy that I grew up with...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 2, 2012


    My best friends and my boyfriend are aware of it but a lot of my other friends arnt. Its hard because I would really love to be able to just express myself as a really feel but there is still just too much discrimination out there. Openly a lot of my college mates would tell...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2009

    Bisexual Married Man Here...

    I love my wife completely, but I am totally bisexual.  The thing is, I am only interested in other guy's *****.  I'm not into kissing, hugging or snuggling with other guys - only playing with their *****.  I love giving oral to a well-hung guy and...
    char6169 char6169
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2009

    What Ever Does It For You

    I don't like labels. I am married but dont have sex with my wife but i have great sex with my boyfriends, guys who dress straight but like us crossdressers. I'm not so keen on doing it wih other cd's but I have with mixed results. what ever does it for you, enjoy it.
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    Apr 7, 2012


    I have had quite a number of bi experiences and have also had male/female group sex.  Once with my wife and another couple - it was so cool to see her with the other women.  I held the guys balls but he wasn't in to it too much.  Another time I was with my wife and...
    Poprocket Poprocket
    1 Response Jun 20, 2009

    I met a woman on Craigslist

    and after talking for a few weeks, I invited her over when my husband was away. Neither of us had been with a woman before. It was the most amazing experience of my life. She's coming over again tomorrow. I thought my lesbian urges would go away after I "got it out of my...
    secretbi72 secretbi72
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2014

    Thinking Of ****

      I think about big ***** all the time...... (by the way, I am a married straight male) I imagine being in a hotel room, with 10 naked guys, all of which have huge *****. My thoughts and fantasies are of everythingmy mind can think... 1. I want to feel a **** in my hand...
    tmafio tmafio
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2009
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