I Am Secretly In Love With My Husbands Best Friend

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    Confused And Fustrated

    Long story but I will give the short version. I fell in love with my husbands friend when I was 18 and my husband and I were living together but not married. My husband didn't have a clue when his friend left his wife and daughter and came to live with us just so he could be...
    hotmomma81 hotmomma81
    26-30
    May 16, 2011

    My Secret Love

    I met my now husband Ryan* (*not his real name) via eHarmony 2.5 years ago.  We were matched online and met in person on the same day.  We had a ton in common and could talk hours on end.  Two days later I met Matt*.  (*not his real name)  I was going to...
    lumpster1214 lumpster1214
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    I Am In Love With My Husbands Friend

    I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 2. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and we have one together 5 years old. My husband has had a lot of health problems over the past 2 years. There is a 17 year age gap between my husband and me. I told my husband I was...
    amidumb amidumb
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2013

    I Am In Love With My Husbands Best Friend!

    I have known this guy for about a year and a half, him and his brother go to my house all the time.  They are actually my husbands employees, but my husbands loves them as brothers.  About a month ago, my family (my husband and my 2 kids, ages 1 and 3) and I went on...
    karen02 karen02
    22-25
    3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

    ... And He Knows

    First of all, would like to ask everyone for an excuse for my bad English, it's not my native. I'll try to be brief in this story: I've been together with my husband for more than 5 years, relationship has always been decent, he loves me a lot, I do love him back too. He has 4-5...
    gldch gldch
    22-25
    4 Responses Jul 13, 2010

    I'm In Love With Him But He Feels Bad.

    I'm 35. I was with my husband twelve years. He was violent several times but not always...pretty extreme though. Well I finally ended it when he broke my nose. I didn't have contact with any of his friends for a couple of months. I did finally check in with a few as I heard they...
    locsbutterfly locsbutterfly
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2013

    In Love With My Husbands Best Friend.

    I'm 20 years old and met my husband at 18. he is 29 now and was 27 then. my mom had a big problem with our relationship because of the age difference and the fact that he has a 6 year old son and kicked me out shortly after we started dating and i moved in with him. soon after...
    tellisforeverurs tellisforeverurs
    18-21
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2011

    I'm In Love With Him But He Feels Bad.

    I'm 35. I was with my husband twelve years. He was violent several times but not always...pretty extreme though. Well I finally ended it when he broke my nose. I didn't have contact with any of his friends for a couple of months. I did finally check in with a few as I heard they...
    locsbutterfly locsbutterfly
    36-40, F
    Aug 8, 2013

    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird

    tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at first. He was in the army and so is D. Both have deployed to terrible places, both have a case of PTSD but D handles it differently than A. A...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2014

    My Husbands Best Friend

    I have a major crush on my husbands best friend. I have been married for over a year but have been with my husband for 8 years. I was originally "set up" to be with my husbands best friend, but plans always fell through because of me. When I originally...
    LovergirlJSC LovergirlJSC
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 22, 2008

    I Don't Think It Can Ever Happen

    About six months ago, my husband and I started spending a lot of time with a new friend of his, who I'll call James. At first, I didn't pay much attention to him, but after a while we started flirting a little. Then one night, after a LOT of alcohol, the three of us ended up in...
    wahiiba wahiiba
    26-30
    Jul 6, 2010

    I Love My Husbands Best Friend

    i meet my husband at recruit school for the defence force, three months later we eloped. hubby was everything i wanted sweet caring sexy thoughful. six months later i meet his best friend (bf) and liked him but not in that way. after two years of marriage i ws pregnant and my...
    rainbeaulion rainbeaulion
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    Friends Attractive Wife Wants Me

    Hi all. I am married to a very beautiful woman for almost twenty years; she is such a nice person and morally formed. I was twenty one and she was eighteen when we got married and we were both virgins at that time. We have three children and are a very close knit family. The...
    Repentanthusband Repentanthusband
    36-40
    Aug 8, 2012

    Greener Grass

    I feel so selfish. I am so selfish. My husband loves me. I love my husband. Times are hard and we are strong I am sure we will make it through. If not for us for our 4 kids. But I am falling in love with his best friend. We are both attached and have kids. We know that there is...
    notsohappyeither notsohappyeither
    31-35
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Is It So Wrong To Fall In Love With Someone Else When You Are In A Dead Marriage?

    I have shared the story of my marriage on here before and with the anniversary we just had, yep it's still there, I did not even get a card, a single lousy flower or even a hug. I even had made reservations to a B&B, but "going to a B&B is a waste of time and work is more...
    HawkEye23 HawkEye23
    36-40
    4 Responses Sep 13, 2013

    This is seriously killing me.

    I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them like an idiot but I would do anything to make him happy. I have a baby with my husband and I don't want to hurt anyone but I...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    Two Way

    Me and my husband just moved next door to this guy that he is now best friends with and I been coming on to him for sex and he was down for it until I told him I changed my mind and now hes been cursing me out but I still really like him. I message him on a social site and he...
    Michele1990 Michele1990
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2013
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