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I Am Separated, Soon to Divorce

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    I Was Once A Rare And Beautiful Flower!

    Every time I think I am doing fine riding my bike along the the healing trail of separation, taking a breath of relief from all the up hill struggles and emotional pain. Something happens to knock me clean off the beaten path!!!As I start to appreciate the cool breeze brushing...
    Wiltingflower Wiltingflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    I am soon to be divorced.

    Signing an agreement in the next two weeks. I was very unhappy in my marriage so in one hand I will be relieved on another I still worry about my three children. I know it's better in the long run for them to see me happy, but doesn't make it easier to see the pain this causes.
    Electricdino Electricdino 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Separated An Extremely Lonely

    I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids.  Me and my husband decided it was no longer working, we had basically turned into friends with benefits.  We got together when he was 19 and I was pregnant shortly after and decided to get married.  Happened...
    jlm1128 jlm1128 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Alone, Confused And Orphaned

    I have been in a loveless marriage for some time. My 'wife' came home after work, on my birthday, to inform me that we were gonna seperate. I was surprised but not... We talked more to each other then we had ever before in quite some time. The other day I went to call her mother...
    lomivi lomivi 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Wish...

    Do I really secretly wish that I could turn back time and not subject the two little ones to all the changes that have happened since we decided to have them... would they have been better off to have drifted onto others that they would have experienced a family that remained...
    Liminalghost Liminalghost 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I went to visit my soon to be ex wife today

    for the first time in months, we spent some time catching up etc! I'm now left feeling sad & regretful having thought that I'd gotten over her & was moving forward! Can anyone possibly cheer me up & chat a little?
    AlexeiVincenzo AlexeiVincenzo 31-35, M Mar 22

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    How Long Can You Go Without Sex?

    I came across this question here on EP. I found some of the answers very enlightening. If you are like me and have some extra time on your hand, have a read, I think it is very interesting.
    newdawn07 newdawn07 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2012

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    Getting On With Life

    My daughter, 28 years old and an HR executive with an IT Corporation, is going through separation from her 5 year old marriage.  She had married her boyfriend after 5 years of going steady.  Even then I had known that the differences between their background...
    holayouse holayouse 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Separated An Extremely Lonely

    I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids.  Me and my husband decided it was no longer working, we had basically turned into friends with benefits.  We got together when he was 19 and I was pregnant shortly after and decided to get married.  Happened...
    jlm1128 jlm1128 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    My husband of 18 years just asked

    for a divorce on my birthday after we had sex! What do I do now, this is all new to me? I'm so confused and scared for me and my 4 kids! Help please!!!
    dorritym dorritym 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    My husband and I have really grown apart over the past few years. We have three young children and I love them more than anything, which is the only reason I haven't left him. He...
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    Today I found out that my dad was having an affair with my stepmom who I like before my parents got divorced. I was 8 when my parents got divorced and in my stepmoms old picture...
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    Going through a divorce. We separated for 4 months now. it's been hard for i have 3 young kids, 7, 4, 2 years old. I have moved back to my home country after finding out my wife...
    flexoverdeal flexoverdeal 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I am recently separated from my husband of almost 16 years. Not by my choice. The last 3 years have been difficult. My husband works away from home and the time in between has...
    cjanisch70 cjanisch70 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I don't have a home right now. At least my heart doesn't think so. I come "home" to a stranger's house, my new roommate a life long bachelor. I don't have dinner with my beautiful...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm frustrated. I'm beating myself up, wondering why in the hell I ever married the man I did. We've officially been separated longer now than we were together while married for. I...
    HeathenPoet HeathenPoet 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I am deeply in love with my husband. We have been friends since we were 12 years old. We lost contact after high school. We both married other people. My first husband passed away...
    newlife01 newlife01 51-55, F Aug 4

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    Persistent changes + sufficient time=changes she can believe in. My counsellors tell me this time and time again. My mentor a family therapist said he just heard of a couple who...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Many friends have hidden their love for other men such as have them secretly and I never did that but I fell in love with my friend I met at a gym in my town. I pay him to help me...
    SlipperyRope SlipperyRope 22-25, F Aug 6

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    So other man. The bible says adultery is the only grounds for divorce. I may take this door walk through it and then blow up the house. Well I can't stop all good changes in me...
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    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Joaquinsz2539 Joaquinsz2539 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Can a man be in love & pull away? I began a relationship 3.5 months ago with a friend who I have known for 5 years. He has been separated for 4 years & his divorce will be final in...
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    How I miss those days .. when MM and I used to chat for hours. I so believed in him. How I miss those days when all was pure in my heart.. I had hopes... I truly loved that...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 9 Responses Jul 25

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    When we decided to get a divorce, my husband moved out and got his own place. We are now separated. We own a business together so we have to go to business related events and...
    lycheechan lycheechan 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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