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I Am Seperated

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    Just Seperated From My Husbandt - I asked my husband of 6 years to leave.  It has been 3 days and the roller coaster of emotions I am going through is enough to drive me into...
    sidney94 sidney94 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    I Am Confused - my husband left me says he wants to be friends and i told him i do too but i still love him. I told him i hurt after we talk because i see him doing things that he...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    My Biggest Mistake - I met my now husband 4 years ago. We have only been married 7 months. And I want to leave him, I know it sounds cold but I have come to dispise him. I work 40...
    dyingtogetout dyingtogetout 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    5 Yrs Of Marriage...and Now He Wants A Separation. - I've been married for 5 yrs now. He went home to visit family. While on the plane ride home he saw and old classmate from high...
    ladycbg ladycbg 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    The Worst Thing - the worst thing about being separated is when strange creatures enter my home.... Since my stbx left me I have had a dog, cats, flying squirrel, gophers, several...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F Jun 8, 2012

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    My Thought's On Being Seperated - When two people meet and then get married you don't realize it at the time but you end up growing and changing into someone else and I don't mean...
    leah77 leah77 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Wonderlust - I joined the Army in Jan 2003, after a little less than a year of basic and job training I returned home and met this seemingly wonderful man. We embarked on a...
    huggies2383 huggies2383 26-30, F Feb 16, 2013

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    Wife Wants Trial Separation, I'm Willing To Work On Me But She's Not Willing To Work On Herself - So, I have ADHD and I have a little bit of a history of being denied promotion and...
    elguerro elguerro 36-40 2 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    Solution That Got My Wife Back To Me. - Hello friends my Name is Dirk, I wish to share my testimonies with here with you all, i just read through various storied and matrimonial...
    dirksteven dirksteven 36-40, M Jul 17, 2013

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    Uhmm...... - Today something strange happened today my friend called me by my 1st name....now i know this doesn't seem like it should be strange, but it was. My mom called me by...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F Jan 19, 2012

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    My Soon to Be Ex Wife and I Are No More.... -  The last year things have been really bad.  You can read some of my other stories about that though if you want.   We...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    About To Seperate - Right now I am about to leave my wife. I work in construction and she works in teaching. She has a job she really likes and she makes pretty good money. I have...
    silverton3 silverton3 46-50 2 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Have Been Seperated For A Year - Hello - i have been seperated from my husband for a year now. In the year we were trying to make it work. I tried very hard to make it work. But...
    Maggy1977 Maggy1977 31-35, F Jul 18, 2012

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    Sticking With My Decision - Its been almost a week since he's left and its lonely in my home. I am.lonely...but when my kid is around my anxiety goes away. My husband and I are...
    mama70707 mama70707 31-35, F Apr 8, 2013

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    For The Love Of God.. Can We Change The Name Of This Group And Spell Separated Correctly? - I mean, COME ON! It's sad that it's spelled wrong.
    janesmith12 janesmith12 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    I'm Not Seperated....i'm Separated - Now separated for 6 months from my high school sweatheart and wife of 22 years.  We both shared and endured many years of various addictions...
    sonny999 sonny999 41-45 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    Losing The Love Of My Life - I have been with my wife for 15 years and we have two beautiful boys together ages 12 and 15. 3 months ago she started doing things that weren't normal...
    car7270 car7270 41-45 2 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    A Little Depressed - Life is such a struggle sometimes....School is hard i am so worried i won't pass my classes....My son came off the school bus yesterday crying that he was the...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I Made A Mistake And Now I Have To Live With The Consequences - So I finally ended my 7yr relationship with the man I intended to spend the rest of my life with. 4 yrs we fought to...
    anewme11 anewme11 26-30, F Dec 10, 2012

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    So, This Is A Thing That Happened - I don't know where to start, and sadly I don't really know what im looking for, either. I appreciate finding a place like this though. My...
    cuteusername cuteusername 36-40, M Jul 14, 2012

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    I have been seperated for about 6 months now. I couldnt go on anymore feeling trapped in my marriage. I am much happier now, I've not shed one tear since the split. It was hard...
    claretnblue claretnblue 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Marriage Sucks! - For me to write my story would take a couple pages but I'd rather spare you with the entire picture and just say a few things. Marriage sucks!....lol. It can...
    Greatestislove Greatestislove 41-45, M 8 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    AGAIN - I REALLY WANTED THIS MARRIAGE TO WORK I WAS MARRIED 23 YEARS THE FIRST TIME AND THAT DIDN'T WORK OUT. SO THIS TIME I BENT OVER BACKWARDS  .. BUT I SOON FOUND OUT...
    JES58 JES58 56-60, M 4 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Move On (poem) (Story 26) - Wish he'd apologized sooner Wish he'd realized faster Now I look over the tragedy of my life And move on Wish the years had been different Wish there...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2012

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    Short And Sweet - To keep it short and sweet, my husband up and walked out on me and my kids one day. It's been a couple months now, and I know my part in the failed marriage. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Ounce Of Hope - My husband and I have been together for 12 years. About 2 months ago I saw my husband was looking at houses to buy. We always are "looking" so I thought no big...
    2miracles 2miracles 31-35 4 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    We'Ll See Where It Goes... - My husband and I have been seperated since August. I was the one who kicked him out, not because I didn't love him, but because he wasn't fulfilling...
    LaDispute LaDispute 22-25 Apr 12, 2013

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    I Am Seperated - My husband and I have not been communicating lately and then found out he has been talking on line to a woman he knew in high school on facebook. He says nothing...
    deeglorioso deeglorioso 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    I Just Became Separated - hi i am a 45 yr old man that was happily married for 3 years. i know i screwed up by not always having a job but always tried to bring in some sort of...
    ilostmyheart ilostmyheart 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    Seperated But Still Living Together - Unfortunately I have no where to go.  If I leave, the house will foreclose.   I pay the mortgage and my husband pay all the other bills...
    tenaj tenaj 41-45 4 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    Hurt And Bewildered - i will try and make this short and to the point. married 12+ years. 2 great sons. last week my wife  says that she no longer loves me and wants a divorce...
    bake4life bake4life 46-50 1 Response Sep 16, 2011

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    My Divorce - Well there isnt much to tell without going into details but I am 22 and have a toddler and my divorce will be final in about 5 months . It has been a rough road to go...
    Mommy428 Mommy428 22-25, F Sep 24, 2012

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    9 Years..... -   9 years of having a best friend at my side   Venting and experiencing life   Family members came and went, but you did not bend   Jokes only...
    Sage0525 Sage0525 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2012

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    3 Months Separated - After reading all the other stories relating to separation and divorce, I felt compelled to write my story of where I'm at 3 months post separation. My ex and...
    ChangeOfHart ChangeOfHart 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    "A Broken Heart" - We were friends since middle school we never thought of each other in that kind of way because we were young. When I got into high school we became very close it...
    loving loving 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    Seperated And Debriefing - Ok this is long winded but I need to get it out. Got married in 1995. Met husband in 1991 after college when I moved to Dallas for a job. We hit it...
    tmcwtf tmcwtf 46-50 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Pay Back Is A ..... Yea Well You Know - I am writing this for all you that are following my story. Tonight my ex came to my house, apparently his girlfriend stole his wallet and...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F 6 Responses May 27, 2011

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    Trying To Mend. - So. . . I've been separated from my wife for about 1.5 years now. Still not divorced. I finally feel like I'm not crazy because I'm not with her (at least...
    insertusername insertusername 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Disfunctional - well lets try this again lol My wife and I have been seperated for 1.5 yrs now . my wife was going to file for divorce then she changed her mind.  I have...
    jsmith280517 jsmith280517 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 16, 2008

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    Newly Seperated - Too many details to get into. All here are going through the same stuff. I read your stories and I can relate. A place I'm sue none of us thought we would be. I'm...
    Tsunami75 Tsunami75 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    2 Years Apart Now -  My wife and i separated after 13 years of marriage and the only reason we did is due to location.  I work in Los Angeles and after 5 years here she...
    Midnightghost Midnightghost 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Happy Anniversary? - Well, its nearing the point where we have officially raised our beautiful 14 month old son longer as single parents than as a married couple. I also note that...
    richardg76 richardg76 31-35 Oct 3, 2011

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    25 Years.... - AND never thought I would be here--in a chat room--without my best friend. The love died. We  had an amazing marriage--sudenly single--and feels so foreign.
    onward onward 51-55 2 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    Coping With "the Other Woman" - My son is currently in baseball, and we have several games every week. This week has been amazing because my husband's (when do I stop...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 17, 2012

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    I'm The One Asking For The Seperation ... Need Perspective From The Other Side - After almost 21 years of marriage I have asked my husband for a separation. The initial divorce...
    soconfused31 soconfused31 41-45, F 9 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    I Was There - It is a nowhere land neither fish nor fowl. You dont have the comfort of a marriage yet have no hope for a better future. 
    jeanvaljean123 jeanvaljean123 51-55, M 2 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Sad...sad...and More Sad...what Is Wrong With Me? - I have been married for 23yrs and until 3 years ago I thought I had a pretty good marriage. 3 Years ago I found out that my...
    amm4 amm4 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    not like a baby will make our toileting relationship any better anyway.... I've been so damn baby achey for about the past two years now. Married for 7, I'm 31 - finally...
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    People say we are horrible. We are heartless and don't give a damn about our children. That we should have tried counseling, communicating, or stepping away from our marriage...
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    He began telling rumors about me so I would leave him alone. That didn't work for him. But no we're seperated and my heart has been shattered beyond repair. ANd i don't know how he...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 29

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