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I Am Sex Deprived

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    Deprived Of Her Sex Altogether.

    My wife told me this past weekend that she will no longer let me have sex with her. I am allowed to ********** but no sex with her of any kind. NONE! She will only have real men use her ***** from now on.
    confinedhubby confinedhubby 41-45 5 Responses Jul 7, 2011

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    Young And Restless

    Im almost 16 and ive had sex with two guys. First guy was just a casual partner when i was 13 and ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we dont have many sexual encounters unless i make the arrangements yes being young takes a big factor but were safe and careful...
    Sjkcjkmak Sjkcjkmak 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭✋✋✋✋ Lol I'm not even mad though.
    XVGlitters XVGlitters 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    FORGOTTEN

     I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS, TO BE HONEST IT HAS BEEN ROUGH AND HARD TO  AT TIMES. WE HAVE BEEN HAVING ISSUES SINCE WE WERE MARRIED A YEAR. WE NEVER HAVE SEX AND WHEN WE DO ITS LIKE HES ONLY DOING IT TO SHUT MY MOUTH. I HAVE EVEN HAD AN AFFAIR AND WANTED TO...
    totallyforgotten totallyforgotten 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2008

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    Valentines Day

    Valentines day was 8 months ago. And it was a beautiful day. This was the first valentines day I got to spend with someone special. I drove down to see him, we exchanged gifts and then made sweet love to each other. It was fantastic. That was the last time I had sex. He was the...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    ITS STRANGE BUT TRUE, I WAS ONCE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP FOR WUITE SOME TIME SEXUALY DEPRIVED AND EQUALY ALMOST HIGHY PASSIONATE ABOUT EXPERIENCING CHEMISTRY AND FEELING...
    BIGIZBETTER BIGIZBETTER 36-40, M Jun 25

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    I am so confused and upset right now... It's a lengthy story... But I need to get this out before it really does drive me insane!! This probably isn't the right place to post it...
    mm1357 mm1357 36-40, F 18 Responses Jul 13

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    Observations from amazing night of passionate sex last night. Aftermath. I only post this because i use to spend a lot of time wondering weather or not I could go through w...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 21 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I love sex without protection! I'm 18, I've had sex 4 times during the age of 14. never used a condom. loved it!
    jessicatooreal jessicatooreal 16-17, F 10 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have been doing this on the phone for years now and it doesn't get old when you do it for the first time with a stranger you don't know it just makes it that much more exciting...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    who wants to be sexual with me? ;)
    jessicatooreal jessicatooreal 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I love babes in sexy lingerie or a g-string makes me wet msg me if you have one 😉😉😉😘😘😘
    lesbianbrittny69 lesbianbrittny69 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I cant help it - my brain is stuck in arousal mode. Whenever I see a woman, the first thing I think is "I wonder if she likes giving bj's" I turn everything sexual, and I walk...
    dominateone dominateone 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    WHY? SEXUAL ANOREXIA. Bazaar posed an interesting question to me: I thought I should post my response on the main page in hope that it may help others. It's a question we all ask...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 25

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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 14 Responses Jun 27

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    I think the hardest thing for me, looking back on how I got into a sexless marriage, was that it was a long slow process (a death by a thousand cuts). In some ways it would have...
    runninginthedark70 runninginthedark70 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 25

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    From Psychology Today "Contrary to conventional wisdom, married couples—and their cohabiting counterparts—have more sex than the nonmarried, a fact confirmed in a 2010 survey...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    My college sweetheart and I have been married 21 years and we have three children (11-20). My wife desires no sex. I pay very close attention to and meet her needs in all other...
    NoTalkJustDo NoTalkJustDo 41-45, M 10 Responses Jul 13

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    He's a great guy, thoughtful, considerate, spiritual. Been married ten years. Sex has dropped down to about once every couple months. When it does happen it's great and he seems to...
    PaulGrand PaulGrand 46-50, M 10 Responses Jun 22

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    I could be wrong of course and looking too much into it, but that's how it feels and what my gut tells me. I am very emotional when it comes to sex and need it in cycles or I...
    sasst92 sasst92 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    What can I say? I love sex. I am very in tuned with my sexuality. I know what I like, I know what I don't like. I know what I'm doing in the bed room. I've accepted the fact that...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Myths about low sexual desire: "Myth #3: If your partner wants sex but you don't, you can express your love in other ways. We tend to think that people should be able to choose...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    There was this particular person who commented on my sexiness. So I asked him, how could he say so when he hasn't even seen me. His answer was like the words in my head that were...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm in a same sex relationship, we've been together for over a decade. Same sex marriage isn't legal in our state but we had a commitment ceremony several years ago and consider...
    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sexless Marriage is a Biblical Reason for Divorce This is a re-post of a comment I wrote to someone that TheWendigo suggested I post as a story, in case it helps anyone. I am...
    UndefinedValue UndefinedValue 31-35, F 13 Responses 1 day ago

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    As a holder of a Bachelor's degree in psychology and a years worth of experience working with people who have intellectual/developmental disabilties ranging from mild to severe I...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 22

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    Well massive update tonight .... Yesterday i posted about my 6 month plan. Well it would seem this has dramatically changed!!!!! My story in brief i am 32 love sex and live with a...
    desper8 desper8 31-35, F 28 Responses Jun 23

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    Is anybody else in the same boat? I never EVER imagined myself being in my 20s and in such a horrendous situation. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. The first year...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for 14 years. It started going down hill within the first year and I knew then something wasn't right. I've poured my heart out to him so many times...
    ABlueChristine ABlueChristine 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 29

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    I am mostly naked when Im out on the streets because I love to show my sexy body for people but I also love to dress sexy in a bra, a garter, stockings, a sexy top, a short skirt...
    nakedmartin nakedmartin 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I've been reading posts here and I guess I'm what most of you would call a "refuser", and here's why: my husband's "sexy" touch creeps me out and knowing that the sex (if I allow...
    equila equila 41-45 21 Responses Jul 11

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I've been reading for a couple of weeks and I couldn't believe that it's not just our dysfunction. We've been married for 12 years but "together" since high school that's like 24...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Am Looking For Someone Going Through The Same Thing. I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F 19 Responses 4 days ago

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    Read and weep or read and vow to take the steps under your control to make your life better. "Don't believe us? A Reddit thread popped up this week asking married folks to weigh...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not a whole lot to tell. My wife announced over 10 years ago that there would be no more sex. She has hip and shoulder joint pain from being a hairdresser, so I don't blame her for...
    greyeagle45 greyeagle45 66-70, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is my story. I'm a 38 yr old woman in a long term (15 yr). live in relationship with a really, really lovely man. He has always been kind and supportive of me and having...
    Skye001 Skye001 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 22

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    I met my husband when I was 23 I am now 27. And so much has changed since then. Some for better some for worse. He was a drug addict. His father died the year my mother died...
    fantisizer fantisizer 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 22

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    I must clarify that I believe there is a distinct difference between making love and having sex. I'm referring to having sex only. I think if you want to have sex and there is...
    Neglectedlover Neglectedlover 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain. Reading other stories on here makes me think that I don't have it so bad, but in reality, it FEELS like emotional torture. My husband and I are...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain. Reading other stories on here makes me think that I don't have it so bad, but in reality, it FEELS like emotional torture. My husband and I are intimate...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 4 Responses Jun 25

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    Countdown to D-Day: 10 days and counting…. Last night was rough. The days leading up to July 6th – the day I’m announcing to my H that we’re getting divorced and handing...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 10 Responses Jun 25

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    I finally decided to post a few stories and contribute to the site. What better place to start than one of my main pet peeves with modern society. In today’s world where everyone...
    Silverrun5 Silverrun5 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I've been married for 28 years. On our honeymoon of 2 weeks, we had sex three times. Our sex life went downhill from there. The only time my wife had a strong desire was during her...
    Dirtyoldman728 Dirtyoldman728 61-65, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Things are moving rapidly now. For years I tried to get him to understand my pain in being denied sex and my needs. I would tell him the thing I would like most in the world from...
    Aubergine7 Aubergine7 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 28

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