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I Am Sex Deprived

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    Valentines Day

    Valentines day was 8 months ago. And it was a beautiful day. This was the first valentines day I got to spend with someone special. I drove down to see him, we exchanged gifts and then made sweet love to each other. It was fantastic. That was the last time I had sex. He was the...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    FORGOTTEN

     I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS, TO BE HONEST IT HAS BEEN ROUGH AND HARD TO  AT TIMES. WE HAVE BEEN HAVING ISSUES SINCE WE WERE MARRIED A YEAR. WE NEVER HAVE SEX AND WHEN WE DO ITS LIKE HES ONLY DOING IT TO SHUT MY MOUTH. I HAVE EVEN HAD AN AFFAIR AND WANTED TO...
    totallyforgotten totallyforgotten 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2008

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    Deprived Of Her Sex Altogether.

    My wife told me this past weekend that she will no longer let me have sex with her. I am allowed to ********** but no sex with her of any kind. NONE! She will only have real men use her ***** from now on.
    confinedhubby confinedhubby 41-45 5 Responses Jul 7, 2011

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    😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭✋✋✋✋ Lol I'm not even mad though.
    XVGlitters XVGlitters 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Young And Restless

    Im almost 16 and ive had sex with two guys. First guy was just a casual partner when i was 13 and ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we dont have many sexual encounters unless i make the arrangements yes being young takes a big factor but were safe and careful...
    Sjkcjkmak Sjkcjkmak 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I don't have anyone I could talk to, but I am dying for sex. I was sex deprived as a kid, because my parents controlled my life too much. They consider sex as a kid of sin. In the...
    pblack pblack 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    While sexless it is not loveless. I often am ashamed because I don't always "get past" my own physical needs. Here's a little background. My wife, while not "touchy feely" is a...
    expromiscuous expromiscuous 41-45 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I want to have sex with one so bad, like 14-15. (Im 16 btw, it wont let me change it)
    Gaywhore9 Gaywhore9 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Mmm morning sex is the best sex.. Might have just found a keeper ;)
    Nana12345678910 Nana12345678910 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I lived in a nearly sexless relationship for almost a decade. At first, of course, it was great, but it faded so very quickly, and became routine and VERY infrequent, like, four...
    incorporealist incorporealist 36-40, M 9 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    It's very appealing to me when people don't arbitrarily conform to the sexual standards and narrow definitions society has created. Like what you like. Love who you love. You don't...
    KindLoveFree KindLoveFree 36-40, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I have an extremely high sex drive and it's difficult sometimes when my partner just isn't in the mood.
    flosserette flosserette 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    The Scarlet Letter - Last night was very eventful in the Cherish household. I was drawn and quartered in front of my children, and the scarlet letter "A" branded on my forehead by...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 26 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Defineatly looking for more kinky sexy girls to have fun with online, hit me up and check out pics if your interested girls xx
    69morninglory69 69morninglory69 26-30, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I love it more than just like it, being doing it for years with webcam too so you can act out those sexy creative images and it's safe for both party's. If things aren't going how...
    69morninglory69 69morninglory69 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    Love a nasty girl to sexy with
    Naughtythoughtss Naughtythoughtss 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    It's nobody's fault, really. Life is just busy. At least that's what we say. But then my disproportionate sex drive argues, and I need an outlet.
    Wordsmith21 Wordsmith21 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I love my dad more than anything and wish I could have sex with him.
    JeremyCooper JeremyCooper 16-17, M 28 mins ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    My "best friend" tried to rape me when I was 12, I don't want something like happen again, where someone I thought I could trust betrays me. But I'm not sure I could avoid it if a...
    KamiTheBear KamiTheBear 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too tight or...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm a 22 year old female in a loving committed relationship of 1 year with a 30 year old man. The relationship is great except when it comes to sex. The sex is good when we do have...
    Twistedlover13 Twistedlover13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 8 Responses Aug 24

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    OK, so I don't actually have a totally a sexless marriage but here's my input & what we have that others don't have. Communication. We've been together for 20 years, married for 13...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
    adeptlinguist adeptlinguist 51-55, M 24 Responses Aug 26

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 23 Responses Aug 26

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    As it says I love sex but I'm not desperate I'm not worried if I go a few weeks without it or a month it's not a big deal & no I would not chase someone for sex or date someone...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 5

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    It was New Year's Day seven years ago when I got the message. My niece called me to tell me my Dad was on the way to the hospital. It seems she had found him in the garage in a...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 19 Responses Sep 7

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I AM CURRENTLY working for a sexy demanding female boss. This is something I have always wanted but sort of gave up on. I always had male bosses as well as an unsexy female boss...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 Sep 9

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I guess I don't really know what I am, nor do I really care to put a label on it, but when you label it, I guess it's easier to find others who feel similarly and who you can talk...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm sure we all have read the story of the guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet of his failed attempts at sexual advances. I've read more than a few articles on the story...
    chuckdaly chuckdaly 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 22

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Aug 24

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    So I love my wife and don't kid me wrong she's my soulmate, but we can never have sex. You see my wife suffers from Lichen sclerosus which hurts her and makes it hard for me to...
    Aqualung27 Aqualung27 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 1

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    Yesterday we once again had a chat, I had to chip and chip at the hardened exterior of his, to try and talk. He opened up a little more than usual perhaps because I was getting...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 8

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    I have been asked this question many times, but I think its time to revisit it again. This took place the other night out with friends. The question was , As a t girl how do you...
    MiriamK MiriamK 56-60, T 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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