I Am Sexually Attracted To Intelligent People

sapiosexual - a person sexually attracted to intelligence in others 10,891 People

    I don't understand the connection between the

    two but I m utterly inclined towards intelligent ladies
    XbandoleerX XbandoleerX
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2016

    In a day of 'swipe left

    for no, right for yes' I have found a degree of intense shallowness that has taken over society.
    0JP0 0JP0
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Jan 6, 2016

    That moment when you're having a really

    engaging conversation with someone and the more they speak the more intelligent they become in your eyes. You can't help but stare at them in amazement and suddenly you become aroused at the thought that someone can be so mentally stimulating. Definitely the key to the panties.
    GoldenRoses GoldenRoses
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    As I think about it,

    although my internal sexual orientation has had its fair share of confusion, being in some way sexually attracted to someone i feel is more intelligent than I am has always sort of been a constant. It's not like intelligence is the only thing that works for me, but it's...
    mickitg mickitg
    46-50, T
    1 Response Feb 7, 2016

    theres something about a man

    who can talk about all types of subjects. to learn from his knowledge and impart any knowledge i might have on him. it makes me that much more attracted to a guy. idc what he looks like if he has brains i am so right there.
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Apr 28, 2014

    I love learning and asking questions

    so me and an intelligent person go together like peanut butter and jelly.
    powerStorm powerStorm
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    It's more attractive to listen to somebody's

    thoughts and take on life rather than the usual mundane details
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    I am. I think it's more about the passion

    and dedication required in my own experience. I know a little about biology, but when my friend explains basic concepts to me in more detail, it's something special. similarly, I don't think many people care that much about Rossian moral philosophy and the relevant...
    seriouslyscarred seriouslyscarred
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    Theres a smart guy in school.

    Not a hot one. He is tall thought and his hair 😍 The thing is, he is too scared to make a move
    Anon0070 Anon0070
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    I love a man who can be

    both smartassed and sensual.
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    21 Responses Oct 4, 2015
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    Why do I like nerds better

    than hunks? Why? Damn it, i have a crush on this guy! :D
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    I wish I have a vibrator ,

    it would be awesome sometimes hand ************ could be tiring
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2016

    A cover model or a woman

    who I can talk to, literally, about anything and have a decent conversation with? *sarcastically* yeah, that's a hard one. I'm more turned on by bookworms, that girl sitting in the corner at Starbucks that no one wants to talk to because she's got four books open, a laptop, with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    On what level do you connect sexuality with

    intellect. I have found the sex is better with intelligent people on a physical level as well as a mental level. Anyone else?
    psikeo psikeo
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    Who is this person? Someone

    who knows how to play with words and sentences and crafts beauty with language. Someone who makes me think, deeply and introspectively, and challenges my beliefs and what I think is truth. Someone who can remember quotes and punchlines to jokes and can weave them into their...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Feb 24, 2016

    Sapiosexual. It's called being sapiosexual.

    =) I practically jumped the guy who shared the word with me. ;) *Not often someone uses a word -in my own language, anyway- that's new to me. And what a word!! ****, but it's Beautiful! ;)
    AdoraGel AdoraGel
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    This is really strange.

    ..I've had no feelings for anyone for 3.5 years, and now after this school retreat I'm all turned on after getting to know a lot of nice guys >__>;. When guys share their true feelings everything is so much more different than when they joke around and act like Ds. I was so ready...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    Been out celebrating ,

    had too many and can't sleep ;)
    doctor50 doctor50
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    Intelligence is intoxicating.

    To use it when talking of sex, is delightful?
    JoelleED JoelleED
    22-25, F
    7 Responses May 27, 2014

    I think an intelligent guy is attractive

    and reliable. Sexually I find them to be experimenting
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    Want an intelligent girlfriend,

    with whom I can curl up close, and talk like real friends, and then make love. Any advice?
    sexylove555 sexylove555
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 22, 2015

    I am a scientist and work with many female PhD

    scientists and I have to say I am very attracted to them. The fact that they are very smart and educated and some of then have a wild sexual side to them is very exciting to me.
    melbeacher melbeacher
    51-55, M
    10 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    Intelligence is something that's key

    for me as a person, not just in relationships. I will say and I am happy revealing to the open world, I've been single for 6 months, going on 7 soon. Long term relationship and I ended it, moved on to travel, job promotion and I needed to do what I want, no holding back my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    I want an actual person too

    that is smart/on par with me if can smarter so I could feel comfortable surrendering as a female smartass to a male smarties. So there won't be weird reverse role
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2016

    I need a woman that's going to arouse my

    intellect as well as my loins
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    Speak To Me

          Speak to me, but not just in words. Speak to me in ideas and concepts, theories that have never seen daylight. Show me a world I've never seen; the world you see. Open my mind to the possibility that I've had it all wrong, and then build me a bridge to your reality. Take...
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad
    51-55, M
    8 Responses Oct 29, 2013

    You can be the hottest guy in the world

    but With no brain to match?, It just throws me and i know it must throw allot of others too. Looks don't mean anything if there's no connection beyond a face. Great loving and a great relationship always begins in the mind , well in My opinion :)
    SmurfyC SmurfyC
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    I've met someone who provides hours of

    scintillating conversations; he has a brilliant mind, and a big heart. He understands when I am sad for no reason, and just need to hide. I know that I could love him, forever.
    ZenLioNESS719 ZenLioNESS719
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    Didn't know this was a thing

    but I'm pretty sure most people find intelligence attractive, right?
    passivity passivity
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    I have always been. They interest me,

    and it makes them even look so much sexier :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 13, 2016

    My new husband was a single child

    and lived a sheltered life. We have only been married a few weeks now, and since he comes from a religious family, we lived strictly apart until our wedding night. All that went well, so I won’t say more about it. But a couple of days after the “big night” things began to...
    bakeddolores bakeddolores
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    I feel like the sex is

    so much better when it's with a partner who I can have meaningful conversation with!
    Cat052314 Cat052314
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    If you feel like you fit this criteria,

    feel free to pm me sometime :) there is a severe lack of intelligent conversation in my life
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    20 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    I find intellect to be extremely attractive.

    I very much appreciate physical attraction and know that for things to progress it is a necessary for a relationship. However, I have met people online who I have been extremely attracted to without once seeing there face. Conversation and a quick wit, intelligence and charm...
    Saintlysinner Saintlysinner
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    I was attracted to his intelligence

    and logic but I fell in love with his soul.... doesn't stop me from creaming my jeans watching him play me chess and watching his mind work.....His soul is breathtaking, his heart is extraordinarily beautiful, his mind is amazing and his intelligence is just hot!.He is my...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    happysexCOCK happysexCOCK
    22-25, M
    Mar 27, 2016

    This is very true for me

    but they must also have high emotional intelligence.. For some reason when men realize that I find this is attractive, a few go overboard by being pedantic and that's incredibly unattractive. When you're a wise and intelligent guy, humility is the cherry on top.
    GiiGi GiiGi
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    There is something so

    so erotic about having an intellectual conversation in bed while lying naked next to each other. Just pushing the limits of inhibition, intellect and exposure - physically and mentally.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Apr 12, 2015
    AshleyNichole1995 AshleyNichole1995
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 26, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    Do you give HINTS so they will do

    that thing that you like ???
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    I fully believe that physical attraction comes

    first...we're human; we tend to be ruled by lust to a certain extent. However, there is nothing like finding a person that you connect with on a level beyond sexuality...that's the definition of a soul mate: being able to fit intricately with another in every facet of the human...
    flightlessbird314 flightlessbird314
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 31, 2014
    Heavenly15 Heavenly15
    56-60, F
    9 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    Intellect is more important to me

    than sex. Smart is hot. Smart is brave. Smart is enticing.
    lk092690 lk092690
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    A man can be a GQ model

    and be boring to have a conversation with and I wouldn't even give him a second thought ... Nothing more attractive than a smart man who isn't only well read, but has good plans for his life and makes wise decisions in all aspects of his life
    tcross71 tcross71
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I am sapiosexual! I'm also attracted to older

    guys, who are around 40-50. Only my closest friends know and my girlfriend embraces it and understands. I'm a mess, really. I'm a bisexual, sapiosexual female. So I basically wanna jump on anyone who's really smart, and older. Oh well.
    iwannabefreewee iwannabefreewee
    16-17, F
    11 Responses Mar 18, 2016

    I'm A Sapiosexual

    When I enter a room I notice the regular players, the women, and the intellectual in B& N's... If you know yourself ... you know people. When I do converse with intelligent people that are attractive to me as well.. I start to perspire a bit because intelligence is my weakness...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69
    36-40, F
    14 Responses May 27, 2013
    sirnatural sirnatural
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    I'm studying astrophysics right now.

    I might be rather open to my partners, but it's always nice to have an intelligent conversation or two.
    BennettStark BennettStark
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2016

    Intelligence is a by product of seeking a

    different goal to just being educated so you can get a job. Intelligence is the start of the path to wisdom. Some people just stay at the start and don't actively seek to gain wisdom so they can make a difference if some kind. They are happy to be the people who gave minds...
    Banyousbabe Banyousbabe
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    Smart is sexy. The further I go through life,

    the more I crave smart people - for friendship, and for more-than-friendship.
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Apr 22, 2014
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