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I Am Sexually Frustrated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 772 People

    High Sex Drive And Not Enough Of It

    Hello I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy that has been with me for over a year now. But it seems like we hardly have sex. I have a very high sex drive and he doesn't seem to have much of one at all. I know he is attracted to me because when we do have sex, he gets...
    LadyKelli LadyKelli
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2012

    I am a frustrated cross dresser all I do is

    think about dressing up in women's clothing and having sex like a woman and having the same pleasure of feeling someone in side of me and having them in my mouth and being tuch all over just like a woman would expect to be in all there intermittent places it would be fantastic...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    I have never thought I'd be writing this

    but here we go : I am here to claim benefits. Yes, dear UK people, I, a seemingly well adjusted 31 years old professional woman is here to claim benefits - and not any kind of benefits : i want them in kind; i want them in NATURE. Daily Mail headline aside, it has been over...
    BusinessGoth BusinessGoth
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2013

    I just want to get laid finally

    and NOT be a virgin
    zephyr10101 zephyr10101
    22-25, M
    May 10, 2015
    lovedirtyoldmen lovedirtyoldmen
    31-35, F
    45 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    Feeling Unwanted...

    I'm 23 and my partner is 39. We now live together. We have sleeping together for 4 years now, first just as special friends now we are monogamous. Have been for a while although neither of us slept with others when we weren't. My problem is that I have a high sex drive and he...
    Sad141989 Sad141989
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    You Want to Talk About Frustration?

    How's this for frustration? I have yet to meet one person that cares anything about my sexual satisfaction.  Yeah, you heard me.  No one.  Ever.  I've slept with my share of people - and probably your share too - and still, I have yet to meet one single...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    Unbalanced In the Bedroom

    I LOVE sex and I am VERY responsive.  I always seem to be on the giving end of it though.  I've tried talking to my husband and telling him what I need.  He will make a very small atempt once or twice, then it's back to the same ol' same ol' lol  I also want...
    myfavmartin myfavmartin
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 16, 2008

    Well my eyes look like blisters

    because the tears just wouldn't stop last night, but I feel marginally better today. I am unsatisfied with seemingly every area of my life right now. My sex life is non-existent and I am so frustrated. I have a very high sex drive, love the man I am with and only desire him...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    I need to talk to mature adults on a particular

    subject that I can't say on here. Frustrating but I could use input on this matter to learn what you think about the subject if we are on the same
    1971bipolar 1971bipolar
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    Im a Woman Like a Man

    my bf says im like a man about sex.  I know I have more sexual desire than other women or maybe than men.   It's not my fault.    My bf and I have been together for about 5 months and live together.  We used to have sex 5 days in a week. But...
    sssstttt sssstttt
    1 Response Sep 22, 2008

    Yes I Am!!

    I only had one sexual partner in my life."MY HUSBAND"  . before marriage sex was great , we would literally have sex all night,do it every where cannot get our hands off each other, after marriage it got a little bit less , first son it got more less , second son rarely , now...
    sallyadam sallyadam
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 4, 2011

    I really need to suck on a guys toes

    that are sticking out of a leg cast
    Gaylegcaster Gaylegcaster
    46-50, M
    Sep 11, 2015

    Tonight Especially

    It's been about 8 weeks since I last had sex. Probably not long by some people's standards, I guess. My marriage broke up recently and I am now newly single and happy to be that way! I could find someone to ****, tonight if I wanted that, but... I don't. Dammit. What I want...
    BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 22, 2011

    Yes I am hornee (******* censors)

    as hell right now and always. No, that doesn't mean I'm a pervert or trying to solicit from others. Been far too long being this way with no outlet for my desires and feelings. I wish it were as easy for me as it appears to be for soooo many other people, but it's not. I'm...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2015

    okay so i wanna role play idc i want to bad

    about my sick twisted fantasy
    Eroticwriter34 Eroticwriter34
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I Need the Release!

    Have you ever felt this way? Sexual frustration is the worst! If I had balls they would be blue! Haha What with different schedules, different rooms, wrong timing! What's a girl got to do to get some Luvin?  
    WinterMountain WinterMountain
    36-40, F
    17 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    When my boyfriend and I have sex he comes too

    fast leaving me sexually frustrated. I get mad, I don't know what to do..
    Latinshorty Latinshorty
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    I Dont Know

    I dont know how long I can hold out. I love my wife dearly and I know she loves me, but Im beginning to feel more like a friend than a lover. I find myself thinking all kinds of crazy things.....wishing for "pity *****", finding a no-strings-attached **** buddy...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

    Newly Alone And Perpetually Aroused. Where's The Off Button?

    I am getting divorced after being with the same guy for 10 years. After we got married, the sex took a serious nose dive despite my attempts to keep it going. Once I recognized him as an abusive drunk, there was no sexual attraction. It's been 2 years since I've had sex, and...
    SweetBabyQ SweetBabyQ
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Dec 23, 2011

    It Sucks

    well it does not i that respect its been 8 months and god i feel in the mood all the time, i recently came so much it was unreal, was so subtle with my hand was intense, but i wish i could have shared it with someone. honestly drives me insane :(
    milksnatcher milksnatcher
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    I'm Sexually Frustrated 18+

    Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I am a 43 year old british guy who is technically still a virgin. I have suffered From depression for the last 10 years. I take anti...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    I am still needing to explore the edge sexually

    of a touch in my innermost parts, I yearn like crazy
    deleted deleted
    Nov 24, 2015

    Would Talking to you Sexually help you with

    you're FRUSTRATION.........)
    TooTricky2Trick TooTricky2Trick
    41-45, M
    Mar 26, 2016

    I've been with my current girlfriend

    for a little over 7 months now, and although I love her to death the weight of my own sexual frustration and the needs I have that aren't being met are really bringing me to a bad place. In the beginning I never worried about sex. I was just so smitten to be in her presence, and...
    BingoTaylor BingoTaylor
    22-25, M
    Jan 10, 2016

    My Heart Hurts

    I married when I was 25 (I am now 61) and married the woman of my dreams...very beauitul and a fantastic body. We did not have sex before marriage because she wanted it to be something special. We had a great wedding and wonderful honeymoon. My wife then informed me that we...
    virgin1950 virgin1950
    61-65, M
    47 Responses Nov 2, 2011

    So unlike most people I'm frustrated in a

    different way, let me explain; I've always been in straight relationships all my life, everyone who knows me knows I'm straight, or thinks they know. They don't know! Turn out they don't know me at all and I'm not sure I know me. Like I said, straight relationships always and I...
    Jamie87H Jamie87H
    26-30, M
    May 12, 2014

    OK, Here's The Deal...

    I am here because I would like to meet a woman with whom I can have conversations that are interesting, honest, and at times stimulating (yes, that kind of stimulating). She needs to be mature, intelligent, reasonably friendly, and genuine. Independent. Adventuresome. Halfway...
    rex4040 rex4040
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

    My Boyfriend Doesn't Like Sex.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. A month ago we moved in together. Before we moved in together he was over at my house every single night. We had sex very regularly until we moved in together. Since then, We've only been intimate a handful of times. I am a very...
    mandagurrlface mandagurrlface
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 2, 2012

    Just So You Know, Guys...

    It's never OK to leave your woman unsatisfied in bed.  Unless she specifically tells you to leave her alone and cease in your efforts, you need to do everything within your power for as long as you physically can to get her off. Yes, it gets tiring sometimes, but crikey...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jul 27, 2008


    I have been married to the same woman for 30 years. Our early years, right up to about 5 years ago were exciting, erotic, action packed, fun, and NO HOLDS BARRED! Things have changed from sex 4 times a week minimum to 2 times a month maximum. My wife was free spirited, sexual...
    tulsaokiej tulsaokiej
    5 Responses Aug 4, 2008

    My Boyfriend Won't Have Sex!!!

    i'm turning 22 soon and my boyfriend is 30 years old. we've been dating for almost 3 years. we used to have an adventurous sex life. i am an adventurous person and i like trying out new things. we are a happy couple who loves doing and hanging out together. it is just the lack of...
    FraggleLee FraggleLee
    22-25, F
    38 Responses Jan 12, 2010

    Each time I write it's worse.

    Last time it got to just under six months that's half a year! Before we slept together. My heart is sinking when will I next be held. It's been 2 months now. I'm guessing I've a long wait...
    Sad141989 Sad141989
    22-25, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    Sex Drive Too High???

    i think my sex drive is too high, i want sex all the time, as soon as i wake its my first thought, i play with myself a few times a day and sex from my partner about once a fortnight, i need it more than that but hes always too tired :(
    Cmih Cmih
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 28, 2013

    it there any cd tv or lady boys in

    Cambridgeshire that can help me with my frustration I need to have sex the same way women's have it soon as possible
    deleted deleted
    Jul 26, 2015

    When you realize how much sex is being had out

    there in the world and you're not a part of any of it. 😬😬😤😤😓😓
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest
    22-25, M
    Oct 27, 2015

    Celibacy Blues

    With little more than 5 hours till I bid a pensive farewell to being 22 and relatively carefree, I find myself somewhat nostalgic and wistful for a time when activities performed on my bed were not limited to just sleeping ( or attempting to sleep in my case). A whimsical time...
    LuluVegas LuluVegas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2009

    And the worst part is

    that I have a man who sleeps in the same bed as me and has not shown interest in sex all month! WTF! he's my fiance like really?
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014
    lustandlove lustandlove
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    I am sexually frustrated I'm 26 I'm in a

    relationship I'm not happy I seek attention from strangers I'll never meet
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    It has been awhile since being on here,

    but I am still needing to explore the edge sexually of a touch in my innermost parts, I yearn like crazy.
    StarvedLady StarvedLady
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2014
    HellifIknow2015 HellifIknow2015
    36-40, M
    Jul 4, 2015
    good4nothin1 good4nothin1
    36-40, M
    May 21, 2015

    I'm still a damn virgin,

    won't any women help me I don't care about your age,or what you look like, just need to be local
    Jeffdeaf1994 Jeffdeaf1994
    22-25, M
    Feb 8, 2015

    I think it is wrong to call women ******

    or loose just because they like to have sex a lot. Men do the same and never face criticism. Trust me, if I had the ability to get laid with a different girl every day (or the same girl everyday) I would. My policy is, a girl is only a ***** of she screws every guy but me. Wait...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks
    46-50, M
    Jan 1, 2014

    Elevator Ride

    It doesn't matter what you do, there is always something to add to the frustration. Example my elevator ride. I'am in the hospital quit often will my wife, approxiately two and a half months out of the last 3 and a half, she has a critical illness and is constantly in and out for...
    alone8140 alone8140
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2013

    I can't help it. i mean i have been this way

    now since i was 16 years old, i lost my virginity last year to a girl who used me directly for sex and went away, but any who. i just someone to call my own you know?
    BlockiestJet753 BlockiestJet753
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    Wow. I'm happy that I'm not alone in this

    situation but it's also very upsetting because I know how all of you feel. It's a horrible feeling. It's not just about the sex. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 29. When we first got together our sex life was great! He was so passionate and he would always want me. But once we moved...
    Runegem Runegem
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    I am in my early 20s,

    my boyfriend is 28 years old. We've been together for 3 years. We've been keeping up a long distance relationship for 3 years.... we used to you know, text sexy things to each other and stuff all the time.... I always had to initiate it. I felt like I was forcing him to do...
    sandpitturtle sandpitturtle
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 7, 2014

    My Boyfriend Won't Touch Me!

    My BF and I have been together for almost 6 years and are absolutely best friends. We love eachother very much but I am unhappy with our sex life. We rarely have sex, usually only a couple times a month, every once in a while we will have little spells where we actually have it a...
    GlitterQueenXO GlitterQueenXO
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2012
    KarmaLove12 KarmaLove12
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    I Can't Get No Statisfaction

    reasons why: any sex I have ever had has not lasted more that two minutes, I don't feel any pleasure...ever,  I have never had an ******, and lastly, no guy has ever cared enough about me to see that I get any pleasure out of it. why do I keep having sex with...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Dec 26, 2007
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