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I Am Sexually Frustrated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 500 People

    I Dont Know

    I dont know how long I can hold out. I love my wife dearly and I know she loves me, but Im beginning to feel more like a friend than a lover. I find myself thinking all kinds of crazy things.....wishing for "pity *****", finding a no-strings-attached **** buddy...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    Sex Drive Too High???

    i think my sex drive is too high, i want sex all the time, as soon as i wake its my first thought, i play with myself a few times a day and sex from my partner about once a fortnight, i need it more than that but hes always too tired :(
    Cmih Cmih 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Won't Have Sex!!!

    i'm turning 22 soon and my boyfriend is 30 years old. we've been dating for almost 3 years. we used to have an adventurous sex life. i am an adventurous person and i like trying out new things. we are a happy couple who loves doing and hanging out together. it is just the lack of...
    FraggleLee FraggleLee 22-25, F 28 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    KarmaLove12 KarmaLove12 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Being Led On

    I know my ex isn't really big into my lifestyle, he doesn't care for bdsm the way I do. I can't get pleasure out of vanilla sex anymore so at times he caters to my needs but for the last 2 days it's all been a bunch of bs. Yesterday he comes over with all this stuff he bought and...
    Freshlyused Freshlyused 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    My Girlfriend Won't Sleep With Me.

    Hi. I'm a young woman and I...really enjoy sex. Really. Very. Much. I can go three times a day. Now I know that's not common and I can live with that. I can do twice a week. But my gf had problems. She's had a terrible youth and childhood traumas are taking their toll. Which...
    MadM47 MadM47 26-30, F Jul 17, 2013

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    My Personal Hell

    My husband and I hardly ever have sex. We've been married for nearly two years, and we've only slept together a handful of times, and even then, it's for just a few minutes. It got to the point to where I always initiated, and stopped after being rejected/blown off too many times...
    TheRedFlame TheRedFlame 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Newly Alone And Perpetually Aroused. Where's The Off Button?

    I am getting divorced after being with the same guy for 10 years. After we got married, the sex took a serious nose dive despite my attempts to keep it going. Once I recognized him as an abusive drunk, there was no sexual attraction. It's been 2 years since I've had sex, and...
    hottandalone hottandalone 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    It Sucks

    well it does not i guess....in that respect its been 8 months and god i feel in the mood all the time, i recently came so much it was unreal, was so subtle with my hand was intense, but i wish i could have shared it with someone. honestly drives me insane :(
    milksnatcher milksnatcher 22-25, M Aug 7, 2013

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    Frustration

    I got married before 5 yrs.but I had sex only 020 times. My wife has no interest in sex . Wt. should I do
    drvirendra drvirendra 31-35, M Oct 15, 2013

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    So Frustrated But In The End It's A Choice :/

    I am soooooooooooo sexually frustrated! Sex is all I can think of honestly. I'm 19 years old and I only was kissed for the first time last year when I was 18 but since thenI have very quickly increased my sexual activity except I still haven't had sex.I really want to but my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    lustandlove lustandlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    High Sex Drive And Not Enough Of It

    Hello I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy that has been with me for over a year now. But it seems like we hardly have sex. I have a very high sex drive and he doesn't seem to have much of one at all. I know he is attracted to me because when we do have sex, he gets...
    LadyKelli LadyKelli 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Something New To Me

    Today for the first time ever, I cried about being "alone". I'm an introvert, so being by myself doesn't really bother me much, so I guess you can say that I cried not because I was lonely, but because I have an insatiable urge for physical contact that hasn't/isn't being met. I...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    4years Of Marriage And I Still Feel Undesirable :(

    I've never been so sexually frustrated in my marriage as I am RIGHT NOW! We've been going strong for 8 long years and married for 4. We started out having sex 3-4 times a night on the weekends due to him living out of state on a military base. When he moved home and I moved in...
    liloakjr liloakjr 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    I have never thought I'd be writing this

    but here we go : I am here to claim benefits. Yes, dear UK people, I, a seemingly well adjusted 31 years old professional woman is here to claim benefits - and not any kind of benefits : i want them in kind; i want them in NATURE. Daily Mail headline aside, it has been over...
    BusinessGoth BusinessGoth 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Just So You Know, Guys...

    It's never OK to leave your woman unsatisfied in bed.  Unless she specifically tells you to leave her alone and cease in your efforts, you need to do everything within your power for as long as you physically can to get her off. Yes, it gets tiring sometimes, but crikey...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    So unlike most people I'm frustrated in a

    different way, let me explain; I've always been in straight relationships all my life, everyone who knows me knows I'm straight, or thinks they know. They don't know! Turn out they don't know me at all and I'm not sure I know me. Like I said, straight relationships always and I...
    Jamie87H Jamie87H 26-30, M May 12

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    I think it is wrong to call women ******

    or loose just because they like to have sex a lot. Men do the same and never face criticism. Trust me, if I had the ability to get laid with a different girl every day (or the same girl everyday) I would. My policy is, a girl is only a ***** of she screws every guy but me. Wait...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M Jan 1

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    Each time I write it's worse.

    Last time it got to just under six months that's half a year! Before we slept together. My heart is sinking when will I next be held. It's been 2 months now. I'm guessing I've a long wait...
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F Feb 2

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    Arggggg

    I am sexually frustrated! !!! I got laid but the sob that I hooked up with didn't get me to climax
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    It has been awhile since being on here,

    but I am still needing to explore the edge sexually of a touch in my innermost parts, I yearn like crazy.
    StarvedLady StarvedLady 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    Unbalanced In the Bedroom

    I LOVE sex and I am VERY responsive.  I always seem to be on the giving end of it though.  I've tried talking to my husband and telling him what I need.  He will make a very small atempt once or twice, then it's back to the same ol' same ol' lol  I also want...
    myfavmartin myfavmartin 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    Stupid Ep

    Wow, I can't say O R G A S M on here. that's wierd.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Horny And Upset

    I live a pathetic existence. I'm craving sex, fixating on this one friend of mine now. Literally chewing ice, eating chocolate, and peeling labels. I cooked him a dinner last night only to be thwarted in my efforts, mid-anecdote, by his less attractive drunken cross town...
    chrismoren chrismoren 18-21 Sep 28, 2013

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    Im a Woman Like a Man

    my bf says im like a man about sex.  I know I have more sexual desire than other women or maybe than men.   It's not my fault.    My bf and I have been together for about 5 months and live together.  We used to have sex 5 days in a week. But...
    sssstttt sssstttt 26-30 Sep 22, 2008

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    My Boyfriend Won't Touch Me!

    My BF and I have been together for almost 6 years and are absolutely best friends. We love eachother very much but I am unhappy with our sex life. We rarely have sex, usually only a couple times a month, every once in a while we will have little spells where we actually have it a...
    GlitterQueenXO GlitterQueenXO 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    My Heart Hurts

    I married when I was 25 (I am now 61) and married the woman of my dreams...very beauitul and a fantastic body. We did not have sex before marriage because she wanted it to be something special. We had a great wedding and wonderful honeymoon. My wife then informed me that we...
    virgin1950 virgin1950 61-65, M 53 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    I Just Can't Do It!

    Growing up I have always been interested about human sexuality. To the extreme to where I would read medical books about the sexual reproductive systems and sexuality. The therapy woman always found this to be abnormal. During my first 18 years of life, I learned about the...
    ladymorticia ladymorticia 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Doesn't Like Sex.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. A month ago we moved in together. Before we moved in together he was over at my house every single night. We had sex very regularly until we moved in together. Since then, We've only been intimate a handful of times. I am a very...
    mandagurrlface mandagurrlface 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Newly Single, Sexually Frustrated

    When I was in a relationship, my ex and I mostly had an amazing sex life. it was.. AMAZING! I'm single now, I know the same problem must be infuriating him, probably even more than it is for me, but.. **** it is annoying. Being a woman, ******* give me energy, and after getting...
    angelcar angelcar 18-21 Jan 9, 2012

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    When my boyfriend and I have sex he comes too

    fast leaving me sexually frustrated. I get mad, I don't know what to do..
    Latinshorty Latinshorty 26-30, F Sep 16

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    Celibacy Blues

    With little more than 5 hours till I bid a pensive farewell to being 22 and relatively carefree, I find myself somewhat nostalgic and wistful for a time when activities performed on my bed were not limited to just sleeping ( or attempting to sleep in my case). A whimsical time...
    LuluVegas LuluVegas 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Want This World To Be Happy Place

    hello friends , i am medical practioner by profession i want to share some medical fact and mystery to be happy always 1) we all are destined to be happy and prosperous, but y most of them are not happy? ans- actually we all search a happiness in something which is of some...
    chokien chokien 22-25 Oct 3, 2013

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    Tonight Especially

    It's been about 8 weeks since I last had sex. Probably not long by some people's standards, I guess. My marriage broke up recently and I am now newly single and happy to be that way! I could find someone to ****, tonight if I wanted that, but... I don't. Dammit. What I want...
    BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse 36-40, F 5 Responses May 22, 2011

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    Wow.

    Sad update to be honest. Just read my last post and realised it said we only had sex once or twice a month. Well now it's once a month if that. Generally it gets to about 6-7 weeks between each time we do have sex. Doesn't look hopeful. Anyone else in this position??
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    I Can't Get No Statisfaction

    reasons why: any sex I have ever had has not lasted more that two minutes, I don't feel any pleasure...ever,  I have never had an ******, and lastly, no guy has ever cared enough about me to see that I get any pleasure out of it. why do I keep having sex with...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    The Same

    Me and my fiancé has been together for about 3 years now .. We been knowing each other for about 7 years .. Wen we got together we did it 6 times a day.. As year went by ..Then like 2-3 times a day .. Then got locked away for almost a year.. So it was still 2-3 times a day...
    Dejuanae Dejuanae 18-21, F May 27, 2013

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    A Day Shy of 8 Months

    Yes.  Eight long and lonely and frustrating months of absolutely no human contact.  No physical connection.  No warm hand to hold mine.  No loving lips to kiss mine.  No protective arms around me.  No love making.  Nothing.  And it's...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    The Teaspoon Of Life

    As a married man of 35 years I constantly look back and deal with sexual frustration. First I am being fair I do not believe my wife when she says she is happy with ******* only me, And I am not happy how our sex life has become so boring and the lost the adventurous attitude is...
    Darksideofme255 Darksideofme255 56-60, M Jun 7, 2013

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    Yes I Am!!

    I only had one sexual partner in my life."MY HUSBAND"  . before marriage sex was great , we would literally have sex all night,do it every where cannot get our hands off each other, after marriage it got a little bit less , first son it got more less , second son rarely , now...
    sallyadam sallyadam 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    I'm Sexually Frustrated 18+

    Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I am a 43 year old british guy who is technically still a virgin. I have suffered From depression for the last 10 years. I take anti...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    I can't help it. i mean i have been this way

    now since i was 16 years old, i lost my virginity last year to a girl who used me directly for sex and went away, but any who. i just someone to call my own you know?
    BlockiestJet753 BlockiestJet753 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I am in my early 20s,

    my boyfriend is 28 years old. We've been together for 3 years. We've been keeping up a long distance relationship for 3 years.... we used to you know, text sexy things to each other and stuff all the time.... I always had to initiate it. I felt like I was forcing him to do...
    sandpitturtle sandpitturtle 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    You Want to Talk About Frustration?

    How's this for frustration? I have yet to meet one person that cares anything about my sexual satisfaction.  Yeah, you heard me.  No one.  Ever.  I've slept with my share of people - and probably your share too - and still, I have yet to meet one single...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    Throwing In The Towel

    I have completely lost the desire to keep myself in shape. Although I still have a shape, just not a shape that is attractive to the opposite sex. Yet, when I was doing 90 minutes cardio a day several years ago my shape wasn't appealing to any woman then either. I guess I figure...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    Well my eyes look like blisters

    because the tears just wouldn't stop last night, but I feel marginally better today. I am unsatisfied with seemingly every area of my life right now. My sex life is non-existent and I am so frustrated. I have a very high sex drive, love the man I am with and only desire him...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    OK, Here's The Deal...

    I am here because I would like to meet a woman with whom I can have conversations that are interesting, honest, and at times stimulating (yes, that kind of stimulating). She needs to be mature, intelligent, reasonably friendly, and genuine. Independent. Adventuresome. Halfway...
    rex4040 rex4040 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I Need the Release!

    Have you ever felt this way? Sexual frustration is the worst! If I had balls they would be blue! Haha What with different schedules, different rooms, wrong timing! What's a girl got to do to get some Luvin?  
    WinterMountain WinterMountain 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Sexually Deprived

    I don't know but its been 3 years sense I had sex and yes its frustrating. I mean i really gotta get laid and its tough to find someone geez. :(
    justpro justpro 26-30, M Aug 10, 2013

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    Fizzled

    I have been married to the same woman for 30 years. Our early years, right up to about 5 years ago were exciting, erotic, action packed, fun, and NO HOLDS BARRED! Things have changed from sex 4 times a week minimum to 2 times a month maximum. My wife was free spirited, sexual...
    tulsaokiej tulsaokiej 46-50 5 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    My Perfect **** To Cure My Frustration

    I've always had amazing sex, from all the girls I've ever had sex with something unique was apart of each of them. Sadly though those type of girls have declined and I am seeing a girl for regular visits but its really freaking boring! I love my sex to be rough, hard and...
    simplelife1234 simplelife1234 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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