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I Am Sexually Frustrated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 615 People

    OK, Here's The Deal...

    I am here because I would like to meet a woman with whom I can have conversations that are interesting, honest, and at times stimulating (yes, that kind of stimulating). She needs to be mature, intelligent, reasonably friendly, and genuine. Independent. Adventuresome. Halfway...
    rex4040 rex4040 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Well my eyes look like blisters

    because the tears just wouldn't stop last night, but I feel marginally better today. I am unsatisfied with seemingly every area of my life right now. My sex life is non-existent and I am so frustrated. I have a very high sex drive, love the man I am with and only desire him...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I am in my early 20s,

    my boyfriend is 28 years old. We've been together for 3 years. We've been keeping up a long distance relationship for 3 years.... we used to you know, text sexy things to each other and stuff all the time.... I always had to initiate it. I felt like I was forcing him to do...
    sandpitturtle sandpitturtle 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    You Want to Talk About Frustration?

    How's this for frustration? I have yet to meet one person that cares anything about my sexual satisfaction.  Yeah, you heard me.  No one.  Ever.  I've slept with my share of people - and probably your share too - and still, I have yet to meet one single...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    lustandlove lustandlove 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    I Dont Know

    I dont know how long I can hold out. I love my wife dearly and I know she loves me, but Im beginning to feel more like a friend than a lover. I find myself thinking all kinds of crazy things.....wishing for "pity *****", finding a no-strings-attached **** buddy...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    Frustration

    I got married before 5 yrs.but I had sex only 020 times. My wife has no interest in sex . Wt. should I do
    drvirendra drvirendra 31-35, M Oct 15, 2013

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    lovedirtyoldmen lovedirtyoldmen 31-35, F 8 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Wow.

    Sad update to be honest. Just read my last post and realised it said we only had sex once or twice a month. Well now it's once a month if that. Generally it gets to about 6-7 weeks between each time we do have sex. Doesn't look hopeful. Anyone else in this position??
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    KarmaLove12 KarmaLove12 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Sex Drive Too High???

    i think my sex drive is too high, i want sex all the time, as soon as i wake its my first thought, i play with myself a few times a day and sex from my partner about once a fortnight, i need it more than that but hes always too tired :(
    Cmih Cmih 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    good4nothin1 good4nothin1 31-35, M May 21

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    I have never thought I'd be writing this

    but here we go : I am here to claim benefits. Yes, dear UK people, I, a seemingly well adjusted 31 years old professional woman is here to claim benefits - and not any kind of benefits : i want them in kind; i want them in NATURE. Daily Mail headline aside, it has been over...
    BusinessGoth BusinessGoth 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I need to talk to mature adults on a particular

    subject that I can't say on here. Frustrating but I could use input on this matter to learn what you think about the subject if we are on the same idea....lol
    1971bipolar 1971bipolar 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I Can't Get No Statisfaction

    reasons why: any sex I have ever had has not lasted more that two minutes, I don't feel any pleasure...ever,  I have never had an ******, and lastly, no guy has ever cared enough about me to see that I get any pleasure out of it. why do I keep having sex with...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    I just want to get laid finally

    and NOT be a virgin
    zephyr10101 zephyr10101 18-21, M May 10

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    It has been awhile since being on here,

    but I am still needing to explore the edge sexually of a touch in my innermost parts, I yearn like crazy.
    StarvedLady StarvedLady 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Tonight Especially

    It's been about 8 weeks since I last had sex. Probably not long by some people's standards, I guess. My marriage broke up recently and I am now newly single and happy to be that way! I could find someone to ****, tonight if I wanted that, but... I don't. Dammit. What I want...
    BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse 36-40, F 4 Responses May 22, 2011

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    I'm Sexually Frustrated 18+

    Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I am a 43 year old british guy who is technically still a virgin. I have suffered From depression for the last 10 years. I take anti...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Horny And Upset

    I live a pathetic existence. I'm craving sex, fixating on this one friend of mine now. Literally chewing ice, eating chocolate, and peeling labels. I cooked him a dinner last night only to be thwarted in my efforts, mid-anecdote, by his less attractive drunken cross town...
    chrismoren chrismoren 22-25 Sep 28, 2013

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    High Sex Drive And Not Enough Of It

    Hello I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy that has been with me for over a year now. But it seems like we hardly have sex. I have a very high sex drive and he doesn't seem to have much of one at all. I know he is attracted to me because when we do have sex, he gets...
    LadyKelli LadyKelli 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Each time I write it's worse.

    Last time it got to just under six months that's half a year! Before we slept together. My heart is sinking when will I next be held. It's been 2 months now. I'm guessing I've a long wait...
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F Feb 2, 2014

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    When my boyfriend and I have sex he comes too

    fast leaving me sexually frustrated. I get mad, I don't know what to do..
    Latinshorty Latinshorty 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    Elevator Ride

    It doesn't matter what you do, there is always something to add to the frustration. Example my elevator ride. I'am in the hospital quit often will my wife, approxiately two and a half months out of the last 3 and a half, she has a critical illness and is constantly in and out for...
    alone8140 alone8140 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    I Need the Release!

    Have you ever felt this way? Sexual frustration is the worst! If I had balls they would be blue! Haha What with different schedules, different rooms, wrong timing! What's a girl got to do to get some Luvin?  
    WinterMountain WinterMountain 36-40, F 18 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Won't Have Sex!!!

    i'm turning 22 soon and my boyfriend is 30 years old. we've been dating for almost 3 years. we used to have an adventurous sex life. i am an adventurous person and i like trying out new things. we are a happy couple who loves doing and hanging out together. it is just the lack of...
    FraggleLee FraggleLee 22-25, F 33 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    Im a Woman Like a Man

    my bf says im like a man about sex.  I know I have more sexual desire than other women or maybe than men.   It's not my fault.    My bf and I have been together for about 5 months and live together.  We used to have sex 5 days in a week. But...
    sssstttt sssstttt 26-30 Sep 22, 2008

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    Something New To Me

    Today for the first time ever, I cried about being "alone". I'm an introvert, so being by myself doesn't really bother me much, so I guess you can say that I cried not because I was lonely, but because I have an insatiable urge for physical contact that hasn't/isn't being met. I...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    And the worst part is

    that I have a man who sleeps in the same bed as me and has not shown interest in sex all month! WTF! he's my fiance like really?
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I am a frustrated cross dresser all I do is

    think about dressing up in women's clothing and having sex like a woman and having the same pleasure of feeling someone in side of me and having them in my mouth and being tuch all over just like a woman would expect to be in all there intermittent places it would be fantastic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13

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    HellifIknow2015 HellifIknow2015 31-35, M Jul 4

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    Yes I Am!!

    I only had one sexual partner in my life."MY HUSBAND"  . before marriage sex was great , we would literally have sex all night,do it every where cannot get our hands off each other, after marriage it got a little bit less , first son it got more less , second son rarely , now...
    sallyadam sallyadam 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    So unlike most people I'm frustrated in a

    different way, let me explain; I've always been in straight relationships all my life, everyone who knows me knows I'm straight, or thinks they know. They don't know! Turn out they don't know me at all and I'm not sure I know me. Like I said, straight relationships always and I...
    Jamie87H Jamie87H 26-30, M May 12, 2014

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    Unbalanced In the Bedroom

    I LOVE sex and I am VERY responsive.  I always seem to be on the giving end of it though.  I've tried talking to my husband and telling him what I need.  He will make a very small atempt once or twice, then it's back to the same ol' same ol' lol  I also want...
    myfavmartin myfavmartin 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    Want This World To Be Happy Place

    hello friends , i am medical practioner by profession i want to share some medical fact and mystery to be happy always 1) we all are destined to be happy and prosperous, but y most of them are not happy? ans- actually we all search a happiness in something which is of some...
    chokien chokien 22-25 Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm still a damn virgin,

    won't any women help me I don't care about your age,or what you look like, just need to be local
    Jeffdeaf1994 Jeffdeaf1994 18-21, M Feb 8

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    I think it is wrong to call women ******

    or loose just because they like to have sex a lot. Men do the same and never face criticism. Trust me, if I had the ability to get laid with a different girl every day (or the same girl everyday) I would. My policy is, a girl is only a ***** of she screws every guy but me. Wait...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M Jan 1, 2014

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    Celibacy Blues

    With little more than 5 hours till I bid a pensive farewell to being 22 and relatively carefree, I find myself somewhat nostalgic and wistful for a time when activities performed on my bed were not limited to just sleeping ( or attempting to sleep in my case). A whimsical time...
    LuluVegas LuluVegas 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    okay so i wanna role play idc i want to bad

    about my sick twisted fantasy
    Eroticwriter34 Eroticwriter34 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    So Frustrated But In The End It's A Choice :/

    I am soooooooooooo sexually frustrated! Sex is all I can think of honestly. I'm 19 years old and I only was kissed for the first time last year when I was 18 but since thenI have very quickly increased my sexual activity except I still haven't had sex.I really want to but my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    it there any cd tv or lady boys in

    Cambridgeshire that can help me with my frustration I need to have sex the same way women's have it soon as possible
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 26

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    Just So You Know, Guys...

    It's never OK to leave your woman unsatisfied in bed.  Unless she specifically tells you to leave her alone and cease in your efforts, you need to do everything within your power for as long as you physically can to get her off. Yes, it gets tiring sometimes, but crikey...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    It Sucks

    well it does not i guess....in that respect its been 8 months and god i feel in the mood all the time, i recently came so much it was unreal, was so subtle with my hand was intense, but i wish i could have shared it with someone. honestly drives me insane :(
    milksnatcher milksnatcher 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Newly Alone And Perpetually Aroused. Where's The Off Button?

    I am getting divorced after being with the same guy for 10 years. After we got married, the sex took a serious nose dive despite my attempts to keep it going. Once I recognized him as an abusive drunk, there was no sexual attraction. It's been 2 years since I've had sex, and...
    SweetBabyQ SweetBabyQ 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    Throwing In The Towel

    I have completely lost the desire to keep myself in shape. Although I still have a shape, just not a shape that is attractive to the opposite sex. Yet, when I was doing 90 minutes cardio a day several years ago my shape wasn't appealing to any woman then either. I guess I figure...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    I am sexually frustrated I'm 26 I'm in a

    relationship I'm not happy I seek attention from strangers I'll never meet
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 18

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