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I Am Sexually Frustrated

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    The Same - Me and my fiancé has been together for about 3 years now .. We been knowing each other for about 7 years .. Wen we got together we did it 6 times a day.. As year went...
    Dejuanae Dejuanae 18-21, F May 27, 2013

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    Horny And Upset - I live a pathetic existence. I'm craving sex, fixating on this one friend of mine now. Literally chewing ice, eating chocolate, and peeling labels. I cooked him a...
    chrismoren chrismoren 18-21 Sep 28, 2013

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    Im a Woman Like a Man - my bf says im like a man about sex.  I know I have more sexual desire than other women or maybe than men.   It's not my fault.  ...
    sssstttt sssstttt 26-30 Sep 22, 2008

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    Am I Supposed To Give Up Now? - Until a few years ago my wife of 30+ years and I had our pleasurable times and 'proper' sex a couple times each week, then each month. It kept me...
    madman13 madman13 56-60, M 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    To Be Married But Alone - Just out of my reach, but close by. The sound of his voice, talking to someone else but not me. To care about him but not be cared about. Days going by...
    rdsluvdone rdsluvdone 41-45, F May 26, 2012

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    Beyond - I have been beyond sexually frustrated for weeks on end. I so badly need to get laid more than anything else right now!
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27, 2013

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    Frustrated - I've been with my sort of bf for over 2 years (sort of b/c he broke up with me but we are working to get back together). Anyways when we first got togther we had sex...
    Ashie Ashie 22-25, F Sep 1, 2011

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    You Want to Talk About Frustration? - How's this for frustration? I have yet to meet one person that cares anything about my sexual satisfaction.  Yeah, you heard me. ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    4years Of Marriage And I Still Feel Undesirable :( - I've never been so sexually frustrated in my marriage as I am RIGHT NOW! We've been going strong for 8 long years and married...
    liloakjr liloakjr 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Is My Boyfriend A Refuser? - I am a intelligent  attractive mid thirties woman. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. From the beginning it has been very...
    Jheni Jheni 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    My Personal Hell - My husband and I hardly ever have sex. We've been married for nearly two years, and we've only slept together a handful of times, and even then, it's for just a...
    TheRedFlame TheRedFlame 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Unbalanced In the Bedroom - I LOVE sex and I am VERY responsive.  I always seem to be on the giving end of it though.  I've tried talking to my husband and telling him...
    myfavmartin myfavmartin 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    I Can't Get No Statisfaction - reasons why: any sex I have ever had has not lasted more that two minutes, I don't feel any pleasure...ever,  I have never had an...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Yes I Am!! - I only had one sexual partner in my life."MY HUSBAND"  . before marriage sex was great , we would literally have sex all night,do it every where cannot get our hands...
    sallyadam sallyadam 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    Newly Single, Sexually Frustrated - When I was in a relationship, my ex and I mostly had an amazing sex life. it was.. AMAZING! I'm single now, I know the same problem must be...
    angelcar angelcar 18-21 Jan 9, 2012

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    Throwing In The Towel - I have completely lost the desire to keep myself in shape. Although I still have a shape, just not a shape that is attractive to the opposite sex. Yet, when...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    Arggggg - I am sexually frustrated! !!! I got laid but the sob that I hooked up with didn't get me to climax
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    OK, Here's The Deal... - I am here because I would like to meet a woman with whom I can have conversations that are interesting, honest, and at times stimulating (yes, that kind of...
    rex4040 rex4040 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I can't help it. i mean i have been this way now since i was 16 years old, i lost my virginity last year to a girl who used me directly for sex and went away, but any who. i just...
    BlockiestJet753 BlockiestJet753 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I think it is wrong to call women ****** or loose just because they like to have sex a lot. Men do the same and never face criticism. Trust me, if I had the ability to get laid...
    Evolutionrocks Evolutionrocks 46-50, M Jan 1

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    Just So You Know, Guys... - It's never OK to leave your woman unsatisfied in bed.  Unless she specifically tells you to leave her alone and cease in your efforts, you need to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Elevator Ride - It doesn't matter what you do, there is always something to add to the frustration. Example my elevator ride. I'am in the hospital quit often will my wife...
    alone8140 alone8140 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    A Day Shy of 8 Months - Yes.  Eight long and lonely and frustrating months of absolutely no human contact.  No physical connection.  No warm hand to hold mine. ...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    So Frustrated But In The End It's A Choice :/ - I am soooooooooooo sexually frustrated! Sex is all I can think of honestly. I'm 19 years old and I only was kissed for the first...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    My Man Is Way Unexpierenced! - i love him more than anything but i have my needs!!!!
    lock1210 lock1210 41-45 1 Response May 26, 2012

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    I Love My Wife Too Death, But Sex "Hurts" For Her! I Am Beyond Blueballs - My wife and I have known each other since we were kids. We got married early and had wild sex all thru...
    Mixeddesirezz Mixeddesirezz 61-65, T 10 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Each time I write it's worse. Last time it got to just under six months that's half a year! Before we slept together. My heart is sinking when will I next be held. It's been 2...
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F Feb 2

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    I have never thought I'd be writing this but here we go : I am here to claim benefits. Yes, dear UK people, I, a seemingly well adjusted 31 years old professional woman is here to...
    BusinessGoth BusinessGoth 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Newly Alone And Perpetually Aroused. Where's The Off Button? - I am getting divorced after being with the same guy for 10 years. After we got married, the sex took a serious nose...
    hottandalone hottandalone 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    I Dont Know - I dont know how long I can hold out. I love my wife dearly and I know she loves me, but Im beginning to feel more like a friend than a lover. I find myself thinking...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    My Boyfriend Won't Touch Me! - My BF and I have been together for almost 6 years and are absolutely best friends. We love eachother very much but I am unhappy with our sex life. We...
    GlitterQueenXO GlitterQueenXO 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Something New To Me - Today for the first time ever, I cried about being "alone". I'm an introvert, so being by myself doesn't really bother me much, so I guess you can say that I...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    Fizzled - I have been married to the same woman for 30 years. Our early years, right up to about 5 years ago were exciting, erotic, action packed, fun, and NO HOLDS BARRED! Things...
    tulsaokiej tulsaokiej 46-50 5 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    Tonight Especially - It's been about 8 weeks since I last had sex. Probably not long by some people's standards, I guess. My marriage broke up recently and I am now newly single...
    BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse 36-40, F 4 Responses May 22, 2011

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    Wow. - Sad update to be honest. Just read my last post and realised it said we only had sex once or twice a month. Well now it's once a month if that. Generally it gets to about 6...
    Sad141989 Sad141989 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    Sex Drive Too High??? - i think my sex drive is too high, i want sex all the time, as soon as i wake its my first thought, i play with myself a few times a day and sex from my...
    Cmih Cmih 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    Want This World To Be Happy Place - hello friends , i am medical practioner by profession i want to share some medical fact and mystery to be happy always 1) we all are destined...
    chokien chokien 22-25 Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm Sexually Frustrated 18+ - Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Nov 27, 2013

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    UGH! - It has been since June 13th 2010, since I have had sex....:( I am beyond sexually frustrated.....I am going ******* mad!...I am going ******* crazy....I need sex...I need to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 2, 2013

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    Sexually Deprived - I don't know but its been 3 years sense I had sex and yes its frustrating. I mean i really gotta get laid and its tough to find someone geez. :(
    justpro justpro 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 10, 2013

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    Being Led On - I know my ex isn't really big into my lifestyle, he doesn't care for bdsm the way I do. I can't get pleasure out of vanilla sex anymore so at times he caters to my...
    Freshlyused Freshlyused 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Doesn't Like Sex. - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. A month ago we moved in together. Before we moved in together he was over at my house every single...
    mandagurrlface mandagurrlface 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    My Perfect **** To Cure My Frustration - I've always had amazing sex, from all the girls I've ever had sex with something unique was apart of each of them. Sadly though those type...
    simplelife1234 simplelife1234 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Reminiscing About Good Times - It seems like only last week when we were first married. We enjoyed sex spotaneously if safe. One evening we were in a swimming pool. Her beautiful...
    madman13 madman13 56-60, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    The Teaspoon Of Life - As a married man of 35 years I constantly look back and deal with sexual frustration. First I am being fair I do not believe my wife when she says she is...
    Darksideofme255 Darksideofme255 56-60, M Jun 7, 2013

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    My Heart Hurts - I married when I was 25 (I am now 61) and married the woman of my dreams...very beauitul and a fantastic body. We did not have sex before marriage because she...
    virgin1950 virgin1950 61-65, M 54 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    My Girlfriend Won't Sleep With Me. - Hi. I'm a young woman and I...really enjoy sex. Really. Very. Much. I can go three times a day. Now I know that's not common and I can live...
    MadM47 MadM47 26-30, F Jul 17, 2013

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    Everyone up to tease me tonight. ;)
    lustandlove lustandlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    High Sex Drive And Not Enough Of It - Hello I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy that has been with me for over a year now. But it seems like we hardly have sex. I have a...
    LadyKelli LadyKelli 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    It Sucks - well it does not i guess....in that respect its been 8 months and god i feel in the mood all the time, i recently came so much it was unreal, was so subtle with my hand...
    milksnatcher milksnatcher 22-25, M Aug 7, 2013

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    Help Me Understand Why I Get Rejected A Million Times A Day By My Boyfriend! - My boyfriend of 5 months doesnt want to have sex with me. There is no depression, no lack of sex...
    angryyfemale angryyfemale 18-21 2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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