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I Am Shallow

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    i walk around by my self cos i have no friends.

    looks mean aot to me and if i see someone who looks good to me i will stare intenty at them untill they lool away.they must know im looking cos theyre so goodlooking but as many people as i gaze apon no one has ever started talking to me.and no one ever stares at me even though...
    ancientalchemist ancientalchemist 26-30 May 23

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    I'm starting to think I'm shallow!

    And it's really affecting my situation to why I do not have a gf :/. I'm 19 and single I'm looking for a girl who's skinny or thick not to thick just a nice size in waist but I just can't seem to find my girl because I limited my choices to skinny :( what's a way to over come...
    Fetish4life Fetish4life 18-21, T Mar 20

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    why? cuz my friends always are feeding me

    outta their pockets trying to make me gain weight, and I can't say no cuz they'll freak out thinking I'm starving myself to death any ideas on how to solve this? I wish I could show em I can eat a mountain of food but that would be tough..
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    All the boys I liked,

    except one, I liked because of how they looked. I hated or didn't care about their personality at all. The only one that was an exception, I liked him because he liked me. I liked the fact that someone noticed me and adored me. I'm not going to beat myself too much about this...
    kalila37 kalila37 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I want to be the next big thing. Whether it is fashion and makeup {I'm an art major in school}, or becoming a philosopher, I want to change this messed up society of superficial...
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    If you plan on adding me to be just another person to bulk up your friend count, don't. I have no desire to associate with people who are here for some kind of popularity contest...
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    Shall I ? Maybe I Should After All, Pain Is My Guilty Pleasure. Others Have Experienced The Pain I’ve Brought Unto Them. These Cravings, My Cravings, Are Out Of Control And...
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    I've been struggling a lot with unfullfilled desires and other things like fear of uncertainty in life. Most of it there's a reason to it I have a list of mental ilnesses OCD, BPD...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    15th post. My panic attack yesterday left me emotionally and physically drained. The way I'm feeling today, there is no way in the world I am going to beat this fight. I would much...
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    i cant help it. i wont deny it and im not afraid to say what i really like. i cant stand "thick" or average or fat girls. i have never liked anything other than sexy, beautiful...
    LightSparks LightSparks 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 21

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    I was a failure from the beginning. I was the unplanned result of two idiot teenagers getting drunk at a party. I failed to be a reason for them to stay together. I failed to be a...
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    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    ... Bored shitless, lonely, have a needle almost hitting empty on the gauge of whatever this is right now, and probably a little lost. Hp it's not funny any longer. Yes the cat...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F Nov 21

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    My worst enemy is not those I can see but my head and heart that deceives me. I have learned much from the mistakes and heartache from those that I found out are shallow and fake.
    quito1969 quito1969 41-45, M Nov 22

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    I can't stand it. It wouldn't be so bad if it actually stayed on my skin, but it doesn't. Can't drink, can't eat, cant scratch, can't do anything without it coming off and caking...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 22

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    I'm failing my class. I haven't seen my grades yet, but I already know I will. If I fail, I will be an out of school youth FOR ONE SEM WHICH IS MY NIGHTMARE. Some of you might...
    okaynotokay okaynotokay 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    This is true. I have been judged many times by the way I look and I hate it. Personality means a lot to me so why do people tell you your a great person but when they find out what...
    simple2468 simple2468 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    I've came to my thoughts that I am not pressuring myself or trying my best to get someone to actually want to talk to me. Every conversation turns into a rejection or ignorance...