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I Am Shallow

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I'm starting to think I'm shallow!

    And it's really affecting my situation to why I do not have a gf :/. I'm 19 and single I'm looking for a girl who's skinny or thick not to thick just a nice size in waist but I just can't seem to find my girl because I limited my choices to skinny :( what's a way to over come...
    ZeldaGuardian95 ZeldaGuardian95 18-21, T Mar 20, 2014

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    All the boys I liked,

    except one, I liked because of how they looked. I hated or didn't care about their personality at all. The only one that was an exception, I liked him because he liked me. I liked the fact that someone noticed me and adored me. I'm not going to beat myself too much about this...
    kalila37 kalila37 18-21, F Oct 10, 2014

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    I think im shallow because

    if I'm not physically attracted to someone i really will not even consider dating them but if you have a great personality & are ok looking i probably will but i really hate that im shallow ill provably be alone forever
    godessd godessd 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    why? cuz my friends always are feeding me

    outta their pockets trying to make me gain weight, and I can't say no cuz they'll freak out thinking I'm starving myself to death any ideas on how to solve this? I wish I could show em I can eat a mountain of food but that would be tough..
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31, 2014

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    I am trying to become less shallow,

    but I probably will not so I will just have to bask in it. My vanity is also extremely high and is something I must change!
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I'm shallow. I have high standards.

    I don't even measure up to my own standards. I wish I wasn't like this. I'll probably be alone forever.
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Feb 1

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    i walk around by my self cos i have no friends.

    looks mean aot to me and if i see someone who looks good to me i will stare intenty at them untill they lool away.they must know im looking cos theyre so goodlooking but as many people as i gaze apon no one has ever started talking to me.and no one ever stares at me even though...
    ancientalchemist ancientalchemist 26-30 May 23, 2014

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    Haven't You Ever Herd The Saying? Don't judge a book by its cover, well its the same thing here on EP. I mean, really, who judges someone, based on the avatar that they have. Sure...
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    Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are judged on their looks and many thrive on our self doubt. We are visual creatures. I think looks matter to a certain extent. I don...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    why do divide people up into groups?who will fight for the civil rights of necrophiliacs ,zoophobia is a choice as well insest no different WHY MUST WE DEAL IN GOOD BETTER...
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've experienced "love at first sight!" However I realize that this type of love is extremely shallow. The more you know about the person, the more qualities they have that's...
    noodle425 noodle425 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Well, I love my mother, but I also hate her in some ways. She was a wonderful, even magical, mother until I was 10 and then she withdrew her affection and attention. I didn't...
    terbug terbug 61-65, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Call me shallow but all I care about is fake tan, glitter and getting huge boobs hehe. ANyone wana chat to a bimbo? Or give me tips
    RosieBimbo RosieBimbo 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    This site was great when I first discovered it, around 4 or 5 years ago. I was told by some long time members it was even better before then. But over the last year or so, I've...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 16

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    This is gold. True words. Preach it.
    JoshNorris JoshNorris 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    I'm super lonely right now. I am trying these dating websites, but guys aren't interesting. Most are shallow and I don't like that.. I am thinking I might end up being an old cat...
    confusedstars confusedstars 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    Its a couple months till i am 27 and i have never been in a relationship. All of my friends and family have a significant other in their life and i always get asked where is my...
    DragonKing223 DragonKing223 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I wonder if people see me as a loyal and kind person. Or do they see the stangest weirdo they've ever seen? What if everybody is just that shallow?
    reivven reivven 13-15, F Jun 15

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    Because I am so much more than my username and avatar. I am a person. I have shared many of my thoughts here...both good and bad ones. My stories reflect who I am better than...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 13 Responses Jun 15

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    I feel like its getting harder to talk to guys online. i used to be good at it but tbh, i think ive gotten a bit shallow and only talk to certain ppl. I dont just mean looks, i...
    thatblackguyakame thatblackguyakame 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    Me and my husband are very sexual people! And we want a another woman or a couple to join our bed! This is not easy for me to find because I'm a shallow person and I need to be...
    shedevil666 shedevil666 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    I think I really like him but I'm not attracted to him. We've never met in person and we've been speaking for a few months now. We speak on the phone, whilst playing ps3 online...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 18-21, F Jun 14

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    So I was sharing a tub of pineapple sherbet with the man I take care of..he had his side and I had mine. I was using a heavy duty plastic spoon so I couldn't get much onto my...
    mguinm mguinm 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    I do, although I hate to admit it. I just feel it makes me come off as weak and pathetic. I know I have many great qualities but so much of how I think of myself is tied to what...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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