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I Am Shallow

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    Dark of Me by Hopless-healer, Oct 2, 2009, 8:14:58 AM Literature / Poetry / Narrative / Urban & Spoken Word Look deep, past the shallows, past the surface...
    Silversyn Silversyn 18-21, F Mar 26

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    "A little learning is a dang'rous thing; Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian spring: There shallow draughts intoxicate the brain, And drinking largely sobers us again...
    sailor764 sailor764 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    The funny thing is people who scream looks don't matter 24/7 can be the most shallow and judgemental people of them all.... All I have to say is I'm often prejudged as superficial...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Oh how shallow virtual relationships are. After months of daily messages and giving of myself to a few here, I take several days off. After months of sharing passionate kind words...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    (holy crap do I ever blab... enjoy) yup... I did... and it was amazing... I have never ever done that with anyone before and I pushed out 2 kids... but that... nope.. that was...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 12 hrs ago

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    I have this thing with my friends that I jokingly call the "Aura of Secrecy". They think it's a cutesy thing where I ask them who they like and dumb things like that. I start off...
    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M Mar 23

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    Ya I know what u all are thinking. I'm only 15 and shouldn't be saying stuff like "I love you" to anyone other than my relatives. The thing is that Aidan IS my relative...
    stephiestoo stephiestoo 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a major pet peeve. I hate when people think they can predict things about me or they "know me sooo well". All the people who REALLY know me (and I wouldn't say that's a lot...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Pressure on my chest, hard to breathe these shallow breaths. The weight of death is upon me. It’s stillness encompassing and caressing me. What is to be expressed when one feels...
    mysoulachesforyou mysoulachesforyou 31-35, F Mar 24

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    I am spending the afternoon at poolside listening to the sounds of the afternoon, the birds calls, the crickets chirp, the noise of the nearby traffic, while observing the...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I am gay and I don't have a problem with it. I have a problem finding the right guy. I have never been in a relationship. Every guy I come across is so shallow and empty. I would...
    AugustAeonsworth AugustAeonsworth 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    This might sound silly, but for so long I've wanted a dog. If you've even grazed through my profile, you can see I'm not the best at communicating with people. Not something I...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Hello Everyone Out There Its very frustrating when you come across your life situations and you need to decide something big which could change the life which once you planned...
    Andrieke Andrieke 22-25, M Mar 25

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    "Perv." "Creeper." "Dirty Old Man." "Lecher." "Cougar." Those are the labels which seem to adhere to your character like bathroom tissue to your heel, if you have the gall to date...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 31-35, M 5 Responses Mar 25

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    A pretty face can make me blush, but intelligence and a good heart can make my heart flutter and mind fill with them. I've looked at so many people on here thinking they were...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I do not only accept it I love it so so much! Its one of my favorite charachteristics. I'm ******* glad i'm not as boring and like shallow minded as the mass. Thumbs up for the...
    toughbaby toughbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    One Night: My Nightmare My subconsciousness opens up to the darkest blackness, yet I am keenly aware of every exaggerated sound around me... footsteps, doors opening and closing...
    ahyokaatuyastanvusdayvhvsgi ahyokaatuyastanvusdayvhvsgi 36-40, F Mar 26

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    Well i was just sending a fellow gay guy a friend request because its always cool to befriend another gay like myself so we can share experiences. Right after i do this, he...
    RihannaFan1026 RihannaFan1026 13-15, M 5 Responses Mar 26

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    As a black female that has dated majority white and Hispanic guys, I can personally say that interracial relationships are no different from any other. It just seems so ignorant...
    maribear maribear 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Loveless A flame will fade Just as a flower No matter how bright No matter how white as the mortal butterfly love shall shallow . Still 22. 4:00am Waiting for the sun
    RoobieCatenis RoobieCatenis 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Words float in transient limbo A few lines across waiting Is it true or interesting The eyes can only read Whatever the ego wants to know There is true feeling though From...
    itsRman itsRman 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I found this TREMENDOUSLY eye opening. I read this last night on a message board about affairs and had to share ----- "Love", within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is...
    Wikedangel Wikedangel 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    I do not know why I prefer to date older men, but I always seem to be more attracted to them. I never really have gone out with a guy younger than 23. Yet, 23 seemed unsatisfying...
    PlurDan PlurDan 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I know I am changing, after so many years of plodding along, trying to please everybody while coping with one problem after another...and another.. too damn tired to fight back...
    RobLucy4964 RobLucy4964 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I love being on things outside. Ever since I was young I have always enjoyed peeing on objects outside. I love the splashing sound it makes. Plastics are the funniest to pee on as...
    splashy34 splashy34 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I ve decided to stay shallow . Here s to hoping I find a pretty girl :)
    Thomasdf14 Thomasdf14 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 28

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    By being alive I am taking resources that could enable someone else to live. Why should I be "happy" when others are suffering in Africa who have nothing? That's why I don't like...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    It is problematic for girls too, but in a different way. And hell, they can at least get free drinks :-) I am not going to list all the usual complaints (like the need to message...
    janecek janecek 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Does anyone here the cries at night of the girl drowning in her sorrow? She needs to be heard but her breath is too shallow. She knows that she's been wrong and created her own...
    Emrald18 Emrald18 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    My brother is dark skinned and he is constantly asking me if he's ugly. I believe he is good-looking. Great genes run through our family. All his friends have light skin and he...
    Babybird77 Babybird77 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29