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I Am Shallow

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    It just doesn't become of one to be so wrapped up in their looks. They fade and in the end all that's left is your personality. Let it shine through.
    ifilayhere ifilayhere 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Just because I may have some interest in things here of a mature nature it doesn't define me, or anyone else for that matter, as a person. Humans are sexual beings, but it’s only...
    stetson69 stetson69 41-45, M Mar 22

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    The funny thing is people who scream looks don't matter 24/7 can be the most shallow and judgemental people of them all.... All I have to say is I'm often prejudged as superficial...
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    IF god existed this is what I would say to him: Sir with all due respect, it's not fair that you created beings with the capacity to get addicted to pleasure and feel pain because...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    IF god existed this is what I would say to him: Sir with all due respect, it's not fair that you created beings with the capacity to get addicted to pleasure and feel pain because...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    “Sadness is silent, it is yours. It is coming because you are alone. It is giving you a chance to go deeper into your aloneness. Rather than jumping from one shallow happiness to...
    mfeazye mfeazye 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Silversyn Silversyn 18-21, F Mar 26

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    "A little learning is a dang'rous thing; Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian spring: There shallow draughts intoxicate the brain, And drinking largely sobers us again...
    sailor764 sailor764 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    My name is Cheyenne, and im almost eighteen now. but when i was just fifteen, my life was turned upside down. i was a good student, a principles pet, my family and friends where...
    CheyChey26 CheyChey26 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Well I saw my twin get spanked lots of times and some of those times it was knowing I was next. I always witness once our next 2 older brothers get it real good with the yard...
    Canuck05 Canuck05 41-45, M Mar 19

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    To you pathetic EP makes; Of course all the guys would respond to this. You're an attractive female... You men are pathetic. I'm a guy saying this too. You only seem to obsess over...
    liquescent liquescent 18-21 Mar 19

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    How do I politely tell someone to back off? I cannot stand this person at work. She's the type that think she's smarter than anyone. She's shallow, rude, promiscuous , never has a...
    GidgetLabelle GidgetLabelle 46-50, F 8 Responses Mar 20

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    I have had many experiences in life that most people just would not understand or would judge me for. It makes me fear opening up to people. Even people who have sworn that they...
    keribaby keribaby 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Yes really. Obviously I have my preferences too like everyone else and I do appreciate something nice to look at but when it comes to call, what is a persons looks or "hotness...
    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M Mar 20

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    It's really simple really...Life is as hard as we make it! Many of us say that others just don't understand them! I say Fooey!!! I use to be one of these ppl! I chose to live a...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 20

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    IN MY MIND'S EYE I can see you, lying there, waiting for the pleasure my touch will bring. I can see you, body trembling, breathing shallowly, eyes half closed in knowing...
    SaucyMama SaucyMama 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Desperately need a friend... I'm sorry this is a long background story but this is the abbreviated version. I'll try to make things clear. It may just come off as shallow, whiny...
    ArtsyPatrick ArtsyPatrick 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 21

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    27F just diagnosed, it all started with seizures 3 months ago, I was about to go to bed and my hands went tingly, then my arms, and my breathing become shallow, I had terrible...
    brandedangel brandedangel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Thinking of emigrating ? Australia is indeed much more comfortable than many other countries of a lower material standard of living. However, that is where any benefit stops. It...
    Spankerr Spankerr 51-55 1 Response Mar 21

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    THIS IS TO MY STUDENTS. I cannot really say this to them directly, so I will just let it all out here. I'm just so sick and tired of their immaturity. *** What the hell are you...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Inner beauty? I'm sure it's very splendid. As a teen a girl I fancied responded to my advances thus: 'some people are beautiful on the outside- others are just beautiful people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 22

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    Don't sugarcoat your crap - It will still smell badly. Just get it out and be done with it, don't just stand there looking constipated for the sake of shallow fucken "happiness".
    Akurou Akurou 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I have this thing with my friends that I jokingly call the "Aura of Secrecy". They think it's a cutesy thing where I ask them who they like and dumb things like that. I start off...
    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M Mar 23

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    Ya I know what u all are thinking. I'm only 15 and shouldn't be saying stuff like "I love you" to anyone other than my relatives. The thing is that Aidan IS my relative...
    stephiestoo stephiestoo 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a major pet peeve. I hate when people think they can predict things about me or they "know me sooo well". All the people who REALLY know me (and I wouldn't say that's a lot...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Pressure on my chest, hard to breathe these shallow breaths. The weight of death is upon me. It’s stillness encompassing and caressing me. What is to be expressed when one feels...
    mysoulachesforyou mysoulachesforyou 31-35, F Mar 24

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    I am spending the afternoon at poolside listening to the sounds of the afternoon, the birds calls, the crickets chirp, the noise of the nearby traffic, while observing the...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I am gay and I don't have a problem with it. I have a problem finding the right guy. I have never been in a relationship. Every guy I come across is so shallow and empty. I would...
    AugustAeonsworth AugustAeonsworth 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    This might sound silly, but for so long I've wanted a dog. If you've even grazed through my profile, you can see I'm not the best at communicating with people. Not something I...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Hello Everyone Out There Its very frustrating when you come across your life situations and you need to decide something big which could change the life which once you planned...
    Andrieke Andrieke 22-25, M Mar 25