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I Am Shallow

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I'm shallow. I have high standards.

    I don't even measure up to my own standards. I wish I wasn't like this. I'll probably be alone forever.
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Feb 1

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    I think im shallow because

    if I'm not physically attracted to someone i really will not even consider dating them but if you have a great personality & are ok looking i probably will but i really hate that im shallow ill provably be alone forever
    godessd godessd 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    All the boys I liked,

    except one, I liked because of how they looked. I hated or didn't care about their personality at all. The only one that was an exception, I liked him because he liked me. I liked the fact that someone noticed me and adored me. I'm not going to beat myself too much about this...
    kalila37 kalila37 18-21, F Oct 10, 2014

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    i walk around by my self cos i have no friends.

    looks mean aot to me and if i see someone who looks good to me i will stare intenty at them untill they lool away.they must know im looking cos theyre so goodlooking but as many people as i gaze apon no one has ever started talking to me.and no one ever stares at me even though...
    ancientalchemist ancientalchemist 26-30 May 23, 2014

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    I'm starting to think I'm shallow!

    And it's really affecting my situation to why I do not have a gf :/. I'm 19 and single I'm looking for a girl who's skinny or thick not to thick just a nice size in waist but I just can't seem to find my girl because I limited my choices to skinny :( what's a way to over come...
    ZeldaGuardian95 ZeldaGuardian95 18-21, T Mar 20, 2014

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31, 2014

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    why? cuz my friends always are feeding me

    outta their pockets trying to make me gain weight, and I can't say no cuz they'll freak out thinking I'm starving myself to death any ideas on how to solve this? I wish I could show em I can eat a mountain of food but that would be tough..
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    I'm working on it to change since

    so many people seems to hate it. I don't get the idea at all I'm just being honest with the way I am.
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I've finally got Nicole Richie's body type!

    Yay! Now I've just got to sustain it :/
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    this might be a bad idea posting here but... I believe I am shallow. really shallow. I can be talking to someone online, having a great connection but then I get a pic and I am...
    releaseshame releaseshame 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I beat myself up about this all the time...I've had a boyfriend 4 years now and I'm not sexually attracted to him AT ALL. I think there was a time when I was...erm...but that was a...
    leeniebubbles leeniebubbles 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    I love life, and I love to have fun. You girls out there that that think you are so sexy, sensuous, so appealing. That have these hot bodies. I got news for you, they won't last...
    davideo1952 davideo1952 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    There's not a lot going on in some people. They have a single purpose, self gratification, perhaps. It's very unattractive!
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A girl I've known since 7th grade asked me if I wanted to be her date to see Pixels. She did something once before back then. Unlike that time I agreed. Maybe dinner afterwards...
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Today, Some people were discussing working out and being fit on EP and in real life. Both times stated that, people who like to make themselves look good are shallow. I was quite...
    BodybuilderAdam BodybuilderAdam 22-25, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Brookshire Dome is a shallow piercement salt dome with caprock as shallow as 3150'. It is a large dome approximately 4 miles by 3.5 miles in dimension covering approximately 5,000...
    annwh1t3 annwh1t3 18-21, F Apr 24

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    If you meet someone on a dating website and they seem beautiful you are probably going to find that they are shallow or a gold digger. Sometimes this isn't the case, sometimes...
    callum00000 callum00000 26-30, M a week ago

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    A few days ago i had a memorable experience...To put this experience in perspective. I need to get to know someone really well and have an emotional connection before my groin and...
    mayabotanica mayabotanica 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    sometimes it feels like everything is clear and then reality hits again....I believe I have come to the conclusion I am more materialistic then I thought originally...I am not...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Don't bother with hypocrite or judgemental people who criticize you and put you down. They're too shallow to recognize their own weakness. It's easier for em to try to make others...
    Angieinthewonderland Angieinthewonderland 18-21, F Apr 23

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    I Took a Life It's Saturday afternoon. It has been a long week. Last Saturday I told my wife I want a divorce. Yeah, it has been that long of a week. I'm laying on the couch, one...
    tkski tkski 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    Which music though? It's noticeable that threads like this are dominated by single song-titles. I like so much music covering such a range that I have no one "favourite" - it's...
    Perspicares Perspicares 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Well I heard from him again as I expected. But it's been a few days now and it's been quiet. Normally I would be bothered by this but not now. It's been kind of nice. I think I am...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    "cowboy's crux" a cooler breeze takes the edge off the south florida heat haze lizards and shallow drinkers keep you company on your front porch in the night a fiesta of lights...
    mudmen mudmen 51-55 Apr 24

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    all i want is a loyal girlfriend that doesn't use me for my money, like the past few girlfriends ive had havent tried to get to know my personality :( also, alot of people know i...
    Morganwilliams49 Morganwilliams49 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    In a world where shallow close minded and stuck up know it alls make up 90 percent of our population , we need as many deep thinkers as we can get lol
    Blackandugly Blackandugly 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24

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