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I Am Shallow

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    why? cuz my friends always are feeding me

    outta their pockets trying to make me gain weight, and I can't say no cuz they'll freak out thinking I'm starving myself to death any ideas on how to solve this? I wish I could show em I can eat a mountain of food but that would be tough..
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 3

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    All the boys I liked,

    except one, I liked because of how they looked. I hated or didn't care about their personality at all. The only one that was an exception, I liked him because he liked me. I liked the fact that someone noticed me and adored me. I'm not going to beat myself too much about this...
    kalila37 kalila37 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I'm starting to think I'm shallow!

    And it's really affecting my situation to why I do not have a gf :/. I'm 19 and single I'm looking for a girl who's skinny or thick not to thick just a nice size in waist but I just can't seem to find my girl because I limited my choices to skinny :( what's a way to over come...
    Fetish4life Fetish4life 18-21, T Mar 20

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    At the mall today I saw a model practicing on

    the runway. I was like wow...he's got a tattoo on his right arm, wears a cap/some type of hat. And his eyes are so beautiful... Overall I don't care much about personality I care more about looks and confidence.
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    i walk around by my self cos i have no friends.

    looks mean aot to me and if i see someone who looks good to me i will stare intenty at them untill they lool away.they must know im looking cos theyre so goodlooking but as many people as i gaze apon no one has ever started talking to me.and no one ever stares at me even though...
    ancientalchemist ancientalchemist 26-30 May 23

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    Really am I judge people on the spot based on

    looks here, and I know some have been kind to me but c'mon shirtless photos? :/ I admit I do this a lot and choose to speak to others according to their avatar picture. And change my mind on a lot of things a lot and tend to scare people away for the same reason. But hey...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F Oct 16

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I can be shallow too at some points. Not gonna lie. I just hate seeing women play the victim and label the whole visual judging thing as a male thing because it isn't. Life goes on...
    MoniiiBabyy MoniiiBabyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Whilst new here, I appreciate that some people are interested in me, and get random messages. What does get me is those that message me, and ask have I got a web cam, can you send...
    blindfoldstacy blindfoldstacy 41-45, T 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I've let past affection and feeling cover up a bigger desire. I've let fear, insecurity, and immediate pleasure rule me at times in life... Reflecting my past without a dwellers...
    LienOnYourDreams LienOnYourDreams 31-35, M Sep 29

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    Haven't You Ever Herd The Saying? Don't judge a book by its cover, well its the same thing here on EP. I mean, really, who judges someone, based on the avatar that they have. Sure...
    SouthernBella89 SouthernBella89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    *pulls my hair* why did I do all that in the first place, *pulls my hair* now I can only wait...why? Why do I have to be so indecisive and shallow? Or is it that I'm just not that...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Several Months ago somebody messaged me here asking for advice on a question I posted and so I offered the advice like I do... Then like every single day for 2 whole months almost...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I am extremely shallow with emotions concerning looks, so people I find attractive and change my mood very fast I cry, starve myself or even cut myself if I feel hated and disliked...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    With its stunning sands and coral lagoon, Baros is quite possibly probably the most image great of all of the Maldives islands. An personal vacation resort providing a whole...
    Jacksonpj05 Jacksonpj05 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Why are some people so weird? Found out today that someone who posted on one of my experiences has blocked me.... Even though the only communication we have ever had was their...
    HPage HPage 46-50, M Sep 27

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    I know this is shallow...well, I admit that I'm a shallow person. Every Friday entries in an index card with signature should be submitted. My problem is, last Thursday, my...
    Chitanda Chitanda 18-21, T 1 Response Sep 28

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    Before you say you hate yourself please read this...about me I assure you. You'll feel better about yourself. I'm 24-years-old still living with my parents and although I don't...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 30

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    What's to say about it, it's normal, biologically we are programmed to like younger women more not much we can do about that. Sure some will disagree with me and that's fine too...
    strict4u strict4u 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 1

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    I often wonder if I am really picky. I am a 21 year old virgin who has never been on a date. I have many friends who think my standards are just really high because I turn down...
    popcorngoo popcorngoo 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Its inner beauty that matters, not outer beauty. If you are gorgeous and bitchy then chances are you will end up alone. The 'stunners' are usually so wrapped up in themselves...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 21 years old and suffer from body dysmorphic disorder. I hate what I see when I look in the mirror. I get complimented and told how beautiful I am by people on almost a daily...
    tgeex3 tgeex3 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Clearly...it's obvious I want people to want to be near me and like my presence but I change my mind a lot + mood swings so I think they're better off without me. I'm...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25

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    this summer my skinny girlfriend and I were paddling our canoe around the lake. we came to a place in the forest where we could pull up on shore and have lunch. we were swimming...
    daydreamerz daydreamerz 56-60, M Sep 25

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    What do girls look for in a guy? I'm not saying all girls are shallow, so please don't think that. The thing is, I know a lot of girls go for guys that are good looking.. That's an...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 26

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    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Jenipe Jenipe 31-35, M Sep 26

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    In all, I did fifteen dives. It would've been far more, but I received drinking water trapped in my ear which was relatively unpleasant. In the long run, I went to see the doctor...
    Willy52yt Willy52yt 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    we so often use our bodies to make a first impression on people. That's ok, when we first meet someone, their looks draw us in to want to talk to and get to know them. But I know...
    hanskywalker hanskywalker 18-21, F Sep 27