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I Am Shallow

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    I'm starting to think I'm shallow!

    And it's really affecting my situation to why I do not have a gf :/. I'm 19 and single I'm looking for a girl who's skinny or thick not to thick just a nice size in waist but I just can't seem to find my girl because I limited my choices to skinny :( what's a way to over come...
    pantylover95 pantylover95 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I Have No Problems On Saying It

    I am shallow and picky, im not affraid to say it, why should i? I ill look at you and i u r hot and goodlooking then u have my attention, make me laugh and talk a looot, interesting things, and ull get a relationship. Im not humble either, im gorgeous, why should i be with...
    sexyvixen7 sexyvixen7 26-30, F Jan 18, 2012

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    One of my worst flaws,

    I am completely and utterly shallow. I have fallen for many a guy who I found to have great company with, sharing laughter and common interests but he just didn't have the looks and I couldn't strain myself to kiss/date them. It's good to know what I find attractive but I can...
    porcelainwitch porcelainwitch 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    Am I Shallow?

    All my girlfriends were good looking. Pretty face, nice bodies. I'm not handsome, I admit. I've got holes on my face from the zits I'd always squeezed when I was a teen. I've got flat nose and dark skin, much like a neanderthal. I'm attracted to women who is physically opposite...
    snob snob 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Ya, They Even Made A Movie About It.

    Well who would believe it? I don't want to be around weak persecuted against people. I am shallow. I need strong fighters. I need people who will strengthen my wrath. I am a simple, shallow little person and you cut me down. Oooo. I'm delightfully evil and ticked today...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jun 13, 2012

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    I Don't Make Great Conversation

    My only interests are foreign movies and spectator sports (and in the latter case, only what concerns my favorite teams, the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers). Anything else, I don't have much to say and I quickly lose interest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    So What, I'm Shallow

    I know what I like and I want what I want. I refuse to settle for less. I feel like I am a pretty girl, so therefore I should be able to get a goodlooking guy. Sorry if it's wrong... =
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Am Shallow

    Don't judge, we all have flaws. When it comes to my friends I always connect with ones that are uglier than me most of the time. Every friend I have ever had that never lasts is usually because I get jealous because they are prettier than me. My true friends aren't as pretty. I...
    JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent JustLikeYouOnlyDifferent 13-15 Jul 4, 2012

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    Oh Yes I Am Shallow

    They can be the nicest guys in the world, but unless they're a bit attractive, I won't date them....  shallow, shallow, shallow.
    MissFriendly MissFriendly 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2007

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Of the Norm?

    I truly believe that we as a human race are shallow to a certain point.
    Xininah Xininah 18-21, F Jan 13, 2008

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm shallow like a kiddy pool, so what! I choose only to date, kiss, or sleep with highly attractive men, and all my friends and family know it . if you don't look like you could be a model than i don't want you. i usually put each guy i date through a test. If we go out in...
    cupcakez360 cupcakez360 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    I Have No Reason To Be Shallow, Yet I Am

    I'm not perfect. I'm lazy and stubborn and my body could use some work. Yet I find myself being picky with anyone that shows interest in me. Too short, too skinny, too fat, bad grammar, weird hair...I am SO PICKY. It seems like anyone who has feelings for me isn't good enough. I...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    So its not a great trait

    I work hard, just so I can be shallow. Ohh...that sounds soo bad now that I think about it.. But its true at least. Hey, if I can't be honest with other shallow people who can I be honest with? So I'm not gonna lie, it started my second year of High School. I became like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    I Hate Myself For This

    It's the one thing about myself that I truely despise. There isn't much to say other than I seem to be incapable of being attracted to women who are a not to a certain extent in shape. Not that I'm the fat guy being picky, I'm out of shape and I know it, and women who are on par...
    onthepedestal onthepedestal 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Silly Girl

     Everyone lets me control them     But you know what...? I can see through everyone though I live in plastic, I am pschologically brilliant I am tainted I am skewed and I will understand you
    strangetimes7 strangetimes7 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    i walk around by my self cos i have no friends.

    looks mean aot to me and if i see someone who looks good to me i will stare intenty at them untill they lool away.they must know im looking cos theyre so goodlooking but as many people as i gaze apon no one has ever started talking to me.and no one ever stares at me even though...
    ancientalchemist ancientalchemist 26-30 May 23

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    I Think Being Shallow Is Good

    The worst kind of conversation: Oh and y'know the environment is so important and my political views are so interesting and it's all so complicated and if only we could just do something but the corporations blah blah and what are your views on religion and do you think we are a...
    StevieStillwater StevieStillwater 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    I am completely, totally shallow.

    I need to be physically attracted to a guy before I can become emotionally attracted. It's just the way I am, and I honestly don't feel bad about it. I feel like physical attraction makes emotional attraction more intensified because when you find a guy who has a rockin 8 pack...
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F Mar 31

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    How Do We Not Be Shallow?

    I think im getting very shallow these days. Not with other people, I can love women who aint the best looking but i would still find them beautiful because their personality willl shine through. I can love people irrespective of how they look....but that aint the problem. I am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    In a Matter of Speaking...

    Well tonight I have been drinking... more than usual, but Ive come to a temporary epiphany that I must write down before I forget it in the morning. I have realized that my shallowness has kept me away from some really great girls. We all seek attractiveness in our mates...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 3 Responses May 23, 2008

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    I can be really frustrated and even depressed when I notice how many shallow people are around me. To be clear: I define shallow as people who have trouble expressing their own...
    rzuman rzuman 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have always hated shallow people especially girls who would only look for a guy who's athletic or handsome sometimes even both.This hate started when a girl I have known for a...
    Athenian101 Athenian101 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Today the weather was really hot, and i was walking under the sun.i saw a cafe and decided to go in and get a cold beverage while i catch my breath. I walked to the counter.There...
    farirai farirai 18-21 Jun 27

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    If you judge someone based on looks, then to be honest you deserve to be alone, to be THAT shallow, that judgemental, to think you know a person based on just seeing their avatar...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It really pains me when I see someone I "friended" acts this way. If looks is all you care about, you are in for a rude awaking some day..beauty fades...charterer is what remains...
    JustmeraeAgain JustmeraeAgain 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I have always loved fat but i never fully realized it until I got older. As a kid I would stuff pillows and blankets under my shirt simulating me being fat, and it always felt so...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    And sometimes I wonder, why we care so much about the way we look. And the way we talk and the way we act and the clothes we bought, how much that cost. Does it even really...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    SHOWING YOU THE DARK! It was a small thing. A truly silly thing, really. A tiny little text I sent in a moment of Pain. The desire of wanting to connect.. connect someone who...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 32 mins ago

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    I'm 17 and I love makeup and clothes and girly stuff like that. People say that it's shallow to like that sort of stuff, but I know I'm not a shallow person. My interest in makeup...
    chuhulil chuhulil 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Haven't posted in a while. I must say I'm generally pretty impressed with my sd since she left home for school. She eats FOOD now (like cooks, and there's veggies and stuff!). She...
    septemberiscoming septemberiscoming 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    If you will allow me to be very shallow...... one that I like.. one that I will search out in a crowd I like skinny men with brown hair.. not that much taller then me.. about 5...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F Jul 8

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    Ok I know this is super shallow but tonight she used my soap for my face.it was so obvious because 1.it was wet and there was soap suds.the kind that only appear when someone...
    redroseofgrace redroseofgrace 18-21, F a week ago

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    Ok so i just tried having a conversation with this girl on ep, I said hello, asked how she was, and the snob nosed shallow stuck up b*tch simply responded with 'ewww your fat' 2...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It's like in the Lord of the Rings when Smeagol says to Gollum, "Go away, and never come back!" and then starts laughing and jumping up and down, shouting, "Smeagol is free!" That...
    selbeditor selbeditor 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Oh my, I better prepare for a sh*tstorm when this has been posted. I just really don't give a crap. Heck, all of the girls in my class always wear makeup, crop tops and shorts...
    Revii Revii 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I went down to lake this afternoon (Sat 19th) at flute lane park and witness some fellow get out of his vehicle and just run down the lane leaving me wonder why does he feel the...
    Canuck05 Canuck05 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    You cannot remember when the summer nights that wouldn't end and the leaves of autumn falling like gold from the trees that the soft wind would rend never would mean that the...
    RasaDesign RasaDesign 41-45, M Jun 22

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    I am so incredibly alone. I'm so alone, I can't breathe sometimes. It's crippling. Everyone I've ever loved has either abandoned me or completely screwed me over or both. I'm only...
    ghostoflettyally ghostoflettyally 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm real, I breath the same air as you. I've had a fortress built wide and deep around not only my heart, but around me for many years. The doors have been slammed closed and...
    Sogwili Sogwili 46-50, M Jun 22

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    Appears more clear in its simplest form Nobody sees tears when youre standing in a storm Abandoning the norm, and handling the harvest Measuring the worth by the depth of the...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F Jun 22

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    I have quite an innie belly button but when I stretch backwards, the little knot inside my navel can be seen. The inside of my belly button has teeny creases and folds with the...
    torivega torivega 13-15 1 Response Jun 22

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    This might seem like the most shallow thing ever but I gave up a handbag that was really dear to me and that I always wanted to have, it was quite expensive. I gave this handbag to...
    fearlesslyliving fearlesslyliving 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Good lord at auto corret edited* Ok. Ok. I give. Edited!!!! A little auto correct is a *****! Maybe just try to do something to play with my words and for fun until I can get this...
    TheShadowedGirl TheShadowedGirl 31-35 Jun 22

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    I was born with breathing problems and my heart actually stopped when I was only a few minutes old. My dad didn't care and he didn't care the other 2 times I almost died as a...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I love day dreaming and romance stuff. that seems really shallow when I say it like that but I just love to let my mind wander. and I get way to emotionally invested into books...
    agbcja77 agbcja77 13-15, F Jun 22

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    I remember having a crush on this smart guy from an all-boys-school. I was so attracted to him yet my friends can't understand me. My friends could be shallow sometimes. I admit he...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    So, the subject really nails down my goal here... I'd really like a girlfriend. The problem is that I'm exceedingly shy, especially when it comes to girls I find attractive. I open...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Jun 23

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    and i wish people would stop assuming that: i will be thin i will starve myself i throw up i'm shallow i have no idea of the consequences of what i'm doing to myself i count...
    Skirefly Skirefly 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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