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I Am Shocked At What Some Women Wear

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    But Not In a Bad Way

    when i see a woman in a short mini skirt and tube top, my initial thought isnt 'wh0re' or 's!ut'....normally my first thought is 'DAAAMN'. i admire women who are comfortable dressing like that. they posess a confidence i could only dream of having. i just wish more people werent...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 21 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Omg, Ladies, Omg.

    I am utterly shocked and appalled at what women wear these days. SHOCKED AND APPALLED.  Actually, there's only a few instances when I truly care: 1. A mom with young children is dressed like a total ***** 2. A mom and her 12 year old daughter are both...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Shocked and Aroused

    While I agree there's a time & place when certain things are inappropriate I love the human form (both male and female) and as long as there aren't little children around I don't see any problem with sexual expression.  
    SufferSilent SufferSilent 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Last Nights Outfit

    Tesse reminded me that I am too old for some things. Like last nights outfit. I wore hotpants, with thick thick tights and red heels. And I couldn't find a top I liked, so I wore my underwear with a shrug on top.   classy lady................
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    Wal Mart

    there are two contributing factors that absolutly disgust me.   1) Wal Mart 2) Mid July     i hope and pray that if i ever become.... the "Careless" type someone would jsut shoot me. i'm all about self esteem but if your in  tube and mini...
    arielsinthesky arielsinthesky 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2009

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    Ick

    some of the girls you see on nights out here are terrifying...............   I swear they confused Tshirts with dresses sometimes..... And that is not a skirt, its a belt. I can see you bum. Please put some knickers on.       Saying that, I have the...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    It Comes In All Sorts

    There's women who like to look like ******. Like 'Hey is that your underwear? No that's my skirt.' There's also women who dress like they have no shape at all. Like they're afraid to be considered attractive. Then there's women who still dress like they're 18 when they're 50...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Sad Sacks

    I mean... really? I'm all for comfort, but damn. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Nearly Nothing

    It shocks me sometimes to see what some women wear anymore.  Now I am no saint when it comes to clothing.  I like to dress sexy and show some cleavage, but I think there is a limit to looking sexy and looking like a hooker. (No offense to hookers) I think that it turns...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    The Way Some Women Dress In Public...

    ...doesn't leave a lot to the imagination anymore. If women choose to dress a certain way in public, they shouldn't complain about any "attention" that my come from said outfit.
    bro4luvin bro4luvin 31-35, M Jan 17, 2013

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    Some Are Too Conventional

     Clothing is there to enhance your body.  If you've got a great bod, dress to accent it and thrill the rest of our eyes!
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Fashionista I Am Not ...

    and never will be. But when women that are way to large wear pants that are super low wastedm with thongs - and high heels... Wooo eeee --- I think they had a VERY challenging wardrobe malfunction! 
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Among Other Things

    I am often shocked at what some women wear. And, depending on the woman and article/s of clothing (or lack thereof) I am also dismayed, appalled, disgusted, confused, and amused. A few things that cause me to feel this way about what other women are wearing: Camel Toe...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 49 Responses Dec 28, 2008

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    Fashion Is Going to the Dogs!

    I was shopping at the mall earlier today, and I was disturbed at the growing popularity of Uggs. I honestly thought those ugly things were going to disappear after about a year or two. Shoe stores now have Ugg sections! Ugh! Some other things that is a fashion no-no:   1...
    marshay marshay 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Like Ik I'm not ugly or anything, but I get slightly shocked when someone says I'm attractive. I think everyone does though, just cuz it isn't one of those things you hear every...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M Jun 28

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    It's always hard to believe compliments when society is always tearing you down. Slowly I'm starting to open up and realize that what someone else considers unattractive can be...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I guess after a childhood of feeling "different" and being the only kid in a wheelchair that i knew, i started to get extremely low self esteem to the point of even being suicidal...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jul 16

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    I dont know if they are lying to me or not. There are millions of people they could say it to. But why me? Im not perfect. Heck. I dont even wear makeup. And i could name a million...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Rather i look for the person waiting to win the bet or finish the dare. Or ask me where they can do Lasik. Shocked?! Hell yes I'm shocked! Didn't think halogens became that...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Not really, I'm more shocked if they don't find me attractive... Grow some self confidence- it's good for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Love to sneak peaks at ladies in pants to see if they are wearing hose. I love the look of sheer black hose under jeans.
    tammy300 tammy300 46-50, T Jul 9

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    It is not that I have a low self-esteem because I am a very strong independent woman; however the fact of the matter is that I do not adhere to the ideals of beauty that our...
    Rltdancer Rltdancer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I guess because society pushed on us teens that fat girls are ugly and thin is the "In" trend all that other crap that I just believed it and even though on some good days I find...
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I do not think that anyone is ugly. however, if there is a person that exists I think it is me! hahaha! I am ok with it.:p I really do not care about looks. :P I get shy all the...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    All the time :/ I don't know why.. But I think more importantly it's all about who you are then what you look like.. I mean who are we to judge who's attractive or not.. The heart...
    misssleepy misssleepy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    when they say "your beautiful" or "damn you cute". I just kind of laugh to myself and say thank you. I dont know it's just when I look into the mirror I just see a girl what I see...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Seriously, like what? Are you blind? You need me to take you to the eye doctor? 👀
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I met a girl on this app. and I think I like her she is cute and smart and funny and she finds me cute and funny. What should I do I need help form girls
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Whenever anybody says that they find me attractive in my mind in just like "what the fuckkk is wrong with you?" 😳 Lmao.
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have never believed it when someone says I am beautiful or attractive. I have been battling depression for as long as I can remember and I just have extremely low self confidence...
    Kaylamarie9413 Kaylamarie9413 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I've been told by many people that I'm pretty, but people also pick out a lot of my flaws. I guess because society is so judgmental I find it hard to believe when someone says I'm...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F Jul 9

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    This is actually a very deep issue for me. I can't seem to accept compliments. I once went through a time where I was getting bullied, they picked out all my flaws and insecurities...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    It surprises me when someone calls me attractive. And I hardly ever believe it. 😒 I can never tell when someone is being honest or just trying to make me feel better.
    joshbeaudoin joshbeaudoin 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I just don't see it and apparently not many others do either. So when I hear someone say they find me attractive I find it hard to believe. Sometimes it just feels insincere and...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F Jul 17

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    My boyfriend says this, that's about all haha I literally smiled for an hour the other when someone told me I was pretty.
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I have weird teeth and I'm fat but I get a lot of flirting and compliments. For some reason.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    My sister in law has a best friend that added me on Facebook and we have been playing a game on there so we chat all the time. She knows my older brother and she knew who I was...
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    We are at the airport not your hotel :-/ and if you're going to do it, at least wear some that fit! Your *** crack has damaged my eye sight. If you don't care how you look, there...
    breathtakingyou breathtakingyou 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Like I just don't see it .____. Like how
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    But then i realize my inner self comes out and am elated that they do.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I really am I thought I was the ugliest person alive
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F Jul 1

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    YAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS 😭😂 It surprises me that I even have a boyfriend
    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F Jul 1

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    No one is ugly but there are times when people compliment me on my looks or e.t.c and I get flattered on the inside. I feel like I look normal but I never really pay attention to...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Call me an attention seeker but i love it when people compliment me
    alexiadahl alexiadahl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    And I never really believe them
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    CUS I'm ugly and I've been cheated on and I'm never the only girl in a relationship Yup 🙍
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Idk why but when people say it to me I just feel like they're joking with me or they're just tryna be nice
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I don't really have a reason.
    Naty14 Naty14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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