Post
This experience may contain mature content, as flagged by the community. Please click away if you do not want to see this content, or if you are not of age. To report inappropriate content, please email us.

I Am Sick and Tired of Being Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    I Am Confused

    I have found that I am always being used by friends around me. When they have problems, they come to me asking for help. When they feel frustrating, they come to me to talk. When they want to cry, my shoulders are always there for them. But I am human too, I have my own problems...
    LisaPersist LisaPersist 41-45 Mar 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To My Past & Last BF : It's Over

    " I would rather choose you than anyone else ... but i can't wait for nothing. I hate the feeling of being hanged and preserved for a years! It's too unfair to keep you if you keeping me away from you...if you keep leaving me ... if you keep me waiting !"  ...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Aug 8, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Confused - Please Help

    Stumbled upon this site by accident and am hoping it will help, as I really need someone to talk to about this niggling issue.  I met a guy about a year ago and it all seems/seemed great.  We understand each other, he treats me right, he's always there for me, sensitive...
    unsure33 unsure33 31-35 4 Responses May 16, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I need someone who I can talk to about break ups and boy drama! And someone who I can trust!!!
    AbbyRoseM AbbyRoseM 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was giving a good thought about it... I'm a sensitive woman, I really am! As I have posted here in a lot of times, I've always tried to see my meaning to people... I am a good...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im not sick of being single. I am just sick of falling for the wrong girls. Lol. I end up passing on the good ones because im focused on the baddies. I mean im good looking, have...
    sosevere sosevere 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not that I'm sick of being single it just feels like everyone I look there are couples being happy. Feeling like the only single girl in high school is not fun. I want that...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am sick of being single. I've been single for 3 years now and I have reached a point where it's really starting to get to me. Everyone I know is in already in a relationship or...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Honestly I feel like I'm being used, I'm not joking it comes to me like breathing.
    PaulinaaaO PaulinaaaO 13-15, F Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate being used by people who say they care about you. I am not stupid,I know when someone lies to me.I know Im not beautiful,not perfect,but I do have feelings that are easily...
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate being used by players. I always tell myself that I'll never fall for another one again and yet I do, over and over again. I feel like, to guys, I'm only good enough for sex...
    xkylie xkylie 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so ******* done... I hate my life. I used to have immense depression, now I'm just upset and tired of this part of my life. I want to get out and do stuff I love, but I don't...
    TheForestOfGnomes TheForestOfGnomes 22-25, M Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a friend, she switches from friend to friend constantly. Whenever she loses friendship with this one girl, she begins being friends with me. And then again. The one girl she...
    BloodProjectile1 BloodProjectile1 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I been single for almost 2-3 years its not that I do t want a relationship it's just I haven't been in the right environment to find one I'm interested in that's all and every time...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been hurt and used so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a good listener, I'm loyal, and I'm giving. People tend to use me and I'm left with no one being there for me.
    lsmith17 lsmith17 26-30, F Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why do adults/college or university level people think kids my age are so stupid? Is it because of out low test grades? Or our inability to study pile after pile after pile to...
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So ******* tired of it!! **** ******* lol Im gonna be heartless now Im not catching feelings!! Fff that!
    msmari27 msmari27 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm also sick of people telling me I'll meet someone great eventually. I won't even be on yhe depressing topic of being single when someone laughs at something I say, for example...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't even know how long it's been , I know it's been nearly 3 years sinceI kissed someone on the lips or told someone I loved them in person i get so jealous even seeing people...
    lela201465 lela201465 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so sick of hearin there's other fish in tha sea.. I DONT CARE! It;s a woman i need, not a freaking fish :P
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Its hard being single when all your friends are either a) in a relationship or b) married. And being the last single person in the group is no fun!!
    evas1228 evas1228 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    1.5 years of being single. So hard to find lesb girlfriend here 😭😭😭
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Honestly I hate being so alone. I miss having someone to just text all hours of the day. I just want to be wanted, needed, even loved.
    LittleMissBothersom LittleMissBothersom 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Being single sucks. It's annoying and it gets old.
    alexis32 alexis32 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You control your happiness and who surrounds you. Change your outlook because complaining about not being happy is a damper to everyone.
    notsofab notsofab 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't mind being single, but when your parents are so in love, along with my sister getting married soon. I'm the only single one pretty much in the whole mom side and dad side...
    theshellofthesea theshellofthesea 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so i was with a man and he was ok there are a lot of things that could have been better for the most part i just wanted a man that can grow up and not just be a boy in a man body...
    UnexpectedSuspect UnexpectedSuspect 26-30 1 Response Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It gets a but lonely now and then, yet I guess it does for most people. A few of my friends are in relationships... Yet I'm never in them. I think it's because I never really find...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have so many things I wanna buy! :(
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always have people telling me that they're there for me and then when I fall, they're not. Is it too much to ask for someone to truly be there for me?
    puttingupbarriers puttingupbarriers 13-15, F Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It isn't a new thing, meaning it's happened more than once. I've found that in group ventures I am the expendable friend. My friend (let's call her Lucy for now) invited me to a...
    emotionalapathetic emotionalapathetic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hit Youtube and type in the first song you think of...... now surf to your favorite song using only the suggestions that youtube gives you in the side bar...... Some where in the...
    BooBooo69 BooBooo69 36-40, M Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ive been single my whole life. I'm a 5''11 mixed male who trys to be the best .Im always told that im smart and down to earth but no one trys to be with me. IN the...
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The title says it all.
    museofcomedy museofcomedy 16-17, F Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I give up. I hate this. It's time to just focus on gym and nothing else. It doesn't exist
    silvermoon9619 silvermoon9619 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 23 and I find it so hard to find a guy who likes me and also I find it just as hard to maintain a healthy relationship. I have BPD and also Depression. On top of that I am...
    InsertYourLoveHere InsertYourLoveHere 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's late and i am once again (for 26years) going to bed alone ... would love to chat to a lady in the who is in the same boat as me
    LifeofaGoon LifeofaGoon 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just want to be happy with the woman of my dream's. She doesn't have to be stunning but definitely has to have brains and be a sweetheart. A plus would be a womanly woman so I...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    urrhh, I'm only not ignored by you when you're high or drunk or just bored. :(
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am single and hate it. I'm looking for someone to date virtually.
    Bsc123 Bsc123 18-21, M Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    wont lie i wish i had a girlfriend
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm just sitting here drinking with my girlfriends. They all have boyfriends, either here or theyre texting them. And I'm just by muh self. :/ Wish I had someone to hug me and...
    raesaddiction raesaddiction 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 18 male and never had a girlfriend and it sucks as I want one
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    most of the reason is that it is virtually impossible to not be self conscious when all your friends are freaking ripped and not skinny haha plus when im at the pool or something...
    xcountrycam xcountrycam 16-17, M Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My bf has me on a leash I cant do anything I have found 100% proof and says its not true and turns it around on me that I dont belive him and even kicked me out of my house knowing...
    paizleypepper paizleypepper 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel