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I Am Sick and Tired of Being Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    To My Past & Last BF : It's Over

    " I would rather choose you than anyone else ... but i can't wait for nothing. I hate the feeling of being hanged and preserved for a years! It's too unfair to keep you if you keeping me away from you...if you keep leaving me ... if you keep me waiting !"  ...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Aug 8, 2008

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    Confused - Please Help

    Stumbled upon this site by accident and am hoping it will help, as I really need someone to talk to about this niggling issue.  I met a guy about a year ago and it all seems/seemed great.  We understand each other, he treats me right, he's always there for me, sensitive...
    unsure33 unsure33 31-35 4 Responses May 16, 2008

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    I Am Confused

    I have found that I am always being used by friends around me. When they have problems, they come to me asking for help. When they feel frustrating, they come to me to talk. When they want to cry, my shoulders are always there for them. But I am human too, I have my own problems...
    LisaPersist LisaPersist 41-45 Mar 14, 2012

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    I'm so sick of it! They only message me asking for help of homework or whatever relationship problems! After they're well gone off, i realized they toke my help for granted!!!!
    LRxIce LRxIce 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    So many people on here have used me for nude pics (not saying I sent them), or they just think I'm "attractive." Listen, if that's what you intend on doing with me, I will block...
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I feel like there is nothing I can do. Everyone is smarter than me and can use me just at the snap of their fingertips. I fall for it every single time and most of the time it's by...
    KairiRune KairiRune 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Whats wrong with me? Why is it that he's the only guy i cant say no to. I need someone to explain to me what they think is going on because i cant take not knowing. Me & this guy...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Being a nice guy and very giving and understanding comes at a price. Usually I end up being used and taken advantage of. I know that I have no one to blame but myself for this but...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I do not know if this is the right place to put this kind of stuff. but i need some where that i can openly speak. i am just so sick of being the disappointment in my family i have...
    kirky1987 kirky1987 26-30, M Aug 10

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    talking to someone online and just being used for online sexual use.. but i enjoy the attention even if it is negative
    starvingsnowflake starvingsnowflake 16-17, F Aug 19

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be, there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I'm honestly so tired of feeling on my own, I need someone to talk to, hate this empty feeling I have. Makes it so hard to just get out of bed sometimes
    teebagg teebagg 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I want to have one day where I cry the whole entire day so I don't have to cry anymore for the rest of my life. But with that I want to be held while crying so I know that I am...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Aug 23

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    Im sick of it.. I've been single for almost 2 years now...
    lemus97 lemus97 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Sometimes you just get sick of stuff and want to be an *******. Sigh....
    jaimedere21 jaimedere21 22-25, M a week ago

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    I'm so so sick of single in spain wan I meet a girl she have boyfriend and all my friends have girlfriend and my no wat I do I want a girl to play games and kiss and taik to here...
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Maybe sick of it, but I prefer living the single life than getting hurt.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    It makes me sick. It makes me cry.
    marissabrun803 marissabrun803 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So sick of people saying things that aren't true about me after I open up to them. So done with even considering a relationship right now. All I end up getting is accused of...
    violingirl45 violingirl45 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I hate how I cant find that one person who completes me I hate being single
    kikolola kikolola 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    The guy who sold me a truck did. He asked what you dont drink. Me said no. Him replied with a guy who looks like you Me thought he was being funny. Me pictured many...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 17

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    I can't look at my parents in the eyes anymore because I know I am constantly being judged and criticized by them. I can't be myself around them. I feel sadness every time I am...
    AxDisorientedxMind AxDisorientedxMind 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Not at all feeing good being soo untrusted disbelieved don't know what to do:(
    Patrick009 Patrick009 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Title says it all doesn't it? I miss intimacy. Being with someone who cares.
    DeadDropGoth DeadDropGoth 16-17, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Usually I'm a very happy person. But not today. No I'm suicidal. I'm just sad. 7 years being friends or so called friends with someone. And they only stayed around cause you loved...
    ozzy007 ozzy007 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am not anyones spare time or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 1

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    It's cool and all after a while, but sometimes I just need someone to talk to. I'm single and ready mingle :P ***Scratch that, I'm happy the way I am. I forgot why I became single...
    Arcencielx Arcencielx 13-15, F Aug 2

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    So sad that you can't please everyone to love you. It's S*ck.
    kiminion14 kiminion14 18-21, M Aug 3

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    Now accepting boyfriend applications. 👏
    lierinmartin22 lierinmartin22 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I never judge anyone before i get to know them, so it really annoys me when people judge me -.-
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Newly single in need of a friend preferring a female friend. Anyone interested?
    Dleushon Dleushon 31-35, M Aug 7

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    Well what is wrong with younger men? They want an older woman then they change their minds when they get to know you and have an excuse to go get something and never return'
    Wondernips Wondernips 51-55, F Aug 8

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    i dont want to do online dating i really want to find someone i n real life but it never works out we end either too much friends or one of us just isnt interested either me or the...
    Sumptous Sumptous 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I've been single my whole life. I've never went on a date and I've never done anything with a girls. Which shattered my self-esteem and self-confidence in ever finding a girl or...
    jm4life jm4life 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I've been single my whole life. I've never dated or even kissed a girl. Can anyone relate?
    jm4life jm4life 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    “By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.” ― Socrates So, yeah, them's the breaks.
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M Aug 16

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    I feel very lonely I can't even talk to girls I like and I am attracted to I get hesitated and shy And it's like mainly because my previous attempt have gone failed My first crush...
    1nfern0o 1nfern0o 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    if u dont like me, **** OFF. I am who I am, so dont judge me, u dont know what the **** I been thru. I got my life, you got your life. Take me as I am or not at all, take me or...
    Tommyswag Tommyswag 18-21, M Aug 17

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    Only God can judge me. So back off haters!
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I just want to be myself without receiving hate and I don't understand how that is too much to ask for!
    Ellyhi Ellyhi 13-15, F Aug 17

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    Or hug deprived. Or pleasured.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 18

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    Who are we? We are who we think we are. We are who we say we are. We are what we are. Before anybody can accept us we must accept ourselves and be proud of it. So suck it up...
    shadowgem shadowgem 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    So this boy I've been talking to for about 2 weeks stopped talking to me. We talked non stop and he kept saying how much he liked me and we hung out for like 3 hours and talked and...
    aharrison1698 aharrison1698 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I'm single no more. Now with my first boyfriend and very happy :)
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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      I am 15 and a male and from London. I'm looking for a relationship with someone amazing :)
    oskarN55 oskarN55 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    One thing that I have learned in these few years is that people who have been bullied/ostracized before in their past will not necessarily refrain from bullying/ostracizing others...
    Tomtarin Tomtarin 18-21 3 Responses 6 days ago

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