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I Am Sick and Tired of Being Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    I Am Confused

    I have found that I am always being used by friends around me. When they have problems, they come to me asking for help. When they feel frustrating, they come to me to talk. When they want to cry, my shoulders are always there for them. But I am human too, I have my own problems...
    LisaPersist LisaPersist 41-45 Mar 14, 2012

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    To My Past & Last BF : It's Over

    " I would rather choose you than anyone else ... but i can't wait for nothing. I hate the feeling of being hanged and preserved for a years! It's too unfair to keep you if you keeping me away from you...if you keep leaving me ... if you keep me waiting !"  ...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Aug 8, 2008

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    Confused - Please Help

    Stumbled upon this site by accident and am hoping it will help, as I really need someone to talk to about this niggling issue.  I met a guy about a year ago and it all seems/seemed great.  We understand each other, he treats me right, he's always there for me, sensitive...
    unsure33 unsure33 31-35 4 Responses May 16, 2008

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    I'm so sick of being used. For anything and everything some how someone uses. Anything from borrowing money to hiding things from others and it just gets so annoying and I don't...
    mlhenry mlhenry 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Whats wrong with me? Why is it that he's the only guy i cant say no to. I need someone to explain to me what they think is going on because i cant take not knowing. Me & this guy...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F Aug 26

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    So finally that time is here when i can actually see myself being used & walked over. Here's to the group of friends & people i know. They'd text me, call me & be nice to me...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to have one day where I cry the whole entire day so I don't have to cry anymore for the rest of my life. But with that I want to be held while crying so I know that I am...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I am living in Northern England, rapidly approaching the age of 35, depressed that I've never been able to have a real social life. The problem is that I'm still living with my...
    CodemonkeyNE CodemonkeyNE 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    Sometimes you just get sick of stuff and want to be an *******. Sigh....
    jaimedere21 jaimedere21 22-25, M Aug 25

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    I'm so so sick of single in spain wan I meet a girl she have boyfriend and all my friends have girlfriend and my no wat I do I want a girl to play games and kiss and taik to here...
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M Aug 27

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    Maybe sick of it, but I prefer living the single life than getting hurt.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Aug 29

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    It makes me sick. It makes me cry.
    marissabrun803 marissabrun803 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    So sick of people saying things that aren't true about me after I open up to them. So done with even considering a relationship right now. All I end up getting is accused of...
    violingirl45 violingirl45 18-21, F Sep 1

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    I can't look at my parents in the eyes anymore because I know I am constantly being judged and criticized by them. I can't be myself around them. I feel sadness every time I am...
    AxDisorientedxMind AxDisorientedxMind 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Not at all feeing good being soo untrusted disbelieved don't know what to do:(
    Patrick009 Patrick009 22-25, M Aug 28

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    Title says it all doesn't it? I miss intimacy. Being with someone who cares.
    DeadDropGoth DeadDropGoth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    So, for anyone who has read my stories, you know that I want an unconventional sort of family in the future. I fully support a nude, sexually open family. I think that a family...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Can someone just hold me please? I hate being 13. I just got thrown out into puberty like a piece of crumbled paper, I have no idea what's going on at all. My life IS tough and...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    It really brings you down, being single. I want someone that I can do stuff for and with, look after, and laugh with. Someone I can take out, and buy things for on occasion...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Usually I'm a very happy person. But not today. No I'm suicidal. I'm just sad. 7 years being friends or so called friends with someone. And they only stayed around cause you loved...
    ozzy007 ozzy007 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm single no more. Now with my first boyfriend and very happy :)
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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      I am 15 and a male and from London. I'm looking for a relationship with someone amazing :)
    oskarN55 oskarN55 13-15, M Aug 25

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    One thing that I have learned in these few years is that people who have been bullied/ostracized before in their past will not necessarily refrain from bullying/ostracizing others...
    Tomtarin Tomtarin 18-21 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Everyone around me seems to have that special someone that brightens their day...high five for all u girls out there that feel the same way cause I swear I am starting to get angry...
    Saule19 Saule19 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Who's looking for girlfriend in wales
    Chantellelikemeetingnewpeople Chantellelikemeetingnewpeople 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Exactly what it says I'm surrounded by couples I have as friends and their love is all over my FB I'm so done with it..
    VagaVawn VagaVawn 18-21, T 1 Response Aug 27

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    My sis has a new bf she broke up with her old bf and got with the new one the same day. At least she isn't forever alone like me.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M Aug 29

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    I cant stand anyone in my house. I feel so excluded from everything going on. Everything i do is wrong, what i wear, what i say, what i like, is just wrong. Why do you have to...
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I've been single for 21 years since the year of my birth. I want someone to hold, someone to hold me and someone to talk to. But I am neither open enough or normal. I have both a...
    natetiox natetiox 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    What is CougarWoo? CougarWoo.com is a Casual Dating Website for Cougars & Toyboys in the world. Join today and you’ll get instant access to our huge network of Cougars and...
    CougarDating1 CougarDating1 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I really want a girlfriend, but I'm just horrible around girls in the real world, I can't even say a normal 'Hi' to them :(
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 2

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    So I was walking on the street, a lady stopped me and asked me if she can have my number and call me sometime. I was shocked, seriously, and i just smiled and shook my head..then I...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My husband of five months now, is lying to me. It's not new. In the two years we dated I caught him in a few lies. Most all his lies have to do with money. We do not have a joint...
    ShaunaLyn ShaunaLyn 26-30, F Sep 7

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    I’ve been lonely for so long, but now I need a girlfriend who is ready to love me.. : <3 
    surender007 surender007 22-25, M Sep 7

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    I'm new here any welcome for you ? :)
    hamdi1988 hamdi1988 26-30, M Sep 8

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    I know im young, im only 21, and have my whole life a head of me. But ive never had a boyfriend. Ever. Ive been intimate with people, even loved someone but it was an awfully...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Pretty hurts .....so much as you watch them control you ''almost like a puppet'' .
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    I'm in love with someone that thinks I was born yesterday. I'm so over it!!!!!
    wishingforabetteroutcome wishingforabetteroutcome 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    When all usefulness is over, when one is assured of an unavoidable and imminent death, it is the simplest of human rights to choose a quick and easy death in place of a slow and...
    stuwey89 stuwey89 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Keep it inside  And read from the script That's all that matters right? Anything to fit in! Follow the rules you'd better do what you're told Better fix your life Before you get...
    HellBoundButterfly HellBoundButterfly 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I am a really nice girl and I hope someone out there wants to get to know me
    Thefraygirl Thefraygirl 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every ******* person at my school that I develop a relationship with stabs me in the ******* back I am just not gonna try anymore **** this Why do I even live if nobody wants to...
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    But everyone is a user anymore and no one is a true friend
    MaggieBlack MaggieBlack 13-15, F Sep 11

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    Ya! People that message me if you want to be my friend good but if you just want to see me naked or be my boyfriend it won't work! I'm taken!!
    kaiovinicius kaiovinicius 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I'm sick of it. Why doesn't anyone realize I hurt just as much as them. Why is that because I'm not athletic or do a lot of physically strenuous activity that I can't be tired? Why...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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