I Am Sick Of Being A Loser

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    SO I was typing how to stop being a loser

    and found this site. Most people were speaking of why they are a loser and I didn't see anything on how to change. I do want to change. I am not down with suicide because I do have two cats and I do not trust anyone else to care for them as I do. Also I help my parents at home...
    Overit1 Overit1
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    First of all, please excuse my English,

    I'm no native speaker. I was googling something like "I am fat an ugly" because I actually AM fat and ugly. I asked my brother and sister if they could rate how fat I am like 30 minutes ago and they tried to ignore my request but after repeating it over and over again they told...
    MyChemicalDepression MyChemicalDepression
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2014

    I Don't Know What's Wrong With Me

    I just don't know... I mean I'm just such a failure. I thought if I kept busy and worked a lot I would forget about it, I worked three 12 hour days a week and four 9 hour days, every day every week. I was more or less happy but my boyfriend wasn't. He demanded that I quit one of...
    chumpsandwich chumpsandwich
    18-21
    Nov 30, 2013

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