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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 393 People

    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18, 2014

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    my gUY OF 4 YEARS IS PULLING OUT HIS MOLER

    TOOTH IN THE MIRROR RIGHT NOW CAUSE ITS BEEN HURTING HIM,,,HE WANTS ME TO GUIDE HIM,,I WONT AND CANT,,SO HE IS PISSED N BLAMING ME FOR NOT GETTING IT ,+HE YANKING WITH PLYERS,,,TO INTENCE
    carriesafreak carriesafreak 41-45, F Feb 17

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 26-30, F Jul 29, 2014

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1, 2014

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6, 2014

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1, 2014

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Like foreal y'all don't

    even know... I am absolutely tired of being used by guys. I am not some freaking toy for you to play with. I am not some pawn on the chess board for you to move around wherever and whenever you choose to do so. I am not your possession. And most importantly, I am worth a whole...
    DrPepperFanatic97 DrPepperFanatic97 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I'm always used to do the family chores

    and they gossip alot of me, I'm so sick of this kind of thing now.. Coz I'm just being used.
    Danzcho Danzcho 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    there's this guy whom I used to treat

    as a true friend... but eventually, I started to realize that he only comes closer to me when he's in need of my help... also my best friend told me that even she has noticed it... yeah, it kinda hurt me, but at least I've learned something... to you my dearest friend: I'll...
    pitchy28 pitchy28 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm sofl tired of being hurt by people. Mostly guys. It's like you cant rely on or trust anyone but yourself. Sometimes I think it would be easier to stop dealing with people.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm a very insecure person. I've been this way for as long as I can remember. I'm a sensitive person and get my feelings hurt very easily. When I was young, I would get picked...
    JennieThorne JennieThorne 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm to the point that I no longer flinch... A normal reaction has been overblown and mutated. I already hurt - so, full to the brim with pain, anger takes over. I hate it. Even...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 Feb 10

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    I'm always the one getting hurt. i open my heart always and it's never reciprocated...it's almost like I enjoy getting my heart broken...makes me remember.that I'm not worth loving...
    canikeepyou canikeepyou 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I wake up with the same feeling as I went to sleep. My heart beats extremely fast. My thoughts are continuous. I just want to be happy again. Why can't I get that? I am not perfect...
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I should not say that all men have hurt me. I do not think that all men are evil or blame everyone in my life but I have been hurt by a lot of men. I don't want to be bitter and I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I would rather just say nothing if asked a question that my answer could hurt them. Just turn the question back to them asking what they think. Being hurt sometimes never leaves...
    harrietgeorge harrietgeorge 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    I'm a very nice person but because of that I'm more cautious of other peoples feelings than my own and u know its not fair to me and I know they don't really care. But, I just can...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    For those who worry about being hurt - follow the advice above. I have always believed this to be true...
    Liverpool47 Liverpool47 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm craving bread. :( I want bread, pizza, cookies, cakes....I'm just over this gluten free crap. I feel hungry all the time too. I want pancakes! :( but if i eat them, I'll feel...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    Single life is hard for most of us. As Men It can be lonely & as woman it can be hard . I've been dating for awhile & its fun being single if you know how to use it well for...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    I have faced many challenges in my life and all I want to say is that BE BRAVE while I was in Highschool i was that shy and quiet girl towards year 7 and 8 (beginning of highschool...
    MyPreciousHeart MyPreciousHeart 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    It feels like I lost everything I cared for in only few days. All hope is gone. The man I loved most, school... He said he didn't love me and I feel so fooled. It wasn't him, who...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I hate being the bad one out of my family but it hurts to know that everyone is comparing me to my older brother...why wont people just get into their heads that I'm not him and I...
    gabii354 gabii354 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've been dealing with this for over 10 years now, most of this time I have been in a dark hole. It went as far as me losing all hope and even forgetting who I am, who I used to be...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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