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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 226 People

    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18

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    It's almost like I'm numb now. I can't even feel anymore.
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    I am literally sick to my stomach because of everything. It's all Just one big headache. And I can't do it anymore, I can't live like I've been living. I can't allow people into my...
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    I used to be a kind, considerate, compassionate, loving, caring person. But now... Admittedly, I'm a jaded and sometimes bitter & selfish human being. It used to be that I would...
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    hurting is only in the mind, Im in the state of my mind being hurt. Coz my exlover just told me she is afraid to forget me where in fact she alrdy have a new one. Instead of going...
    casicat casicat 22-25, F Jul 13

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    Why Mother? Why do you have to ruin everything? Why do you do these to me? Why do you always see me as the bad one? Why!? Remember when i was a child and you almost gave me to my...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Being single is getting rather boring. The question is where can you meet a genuine nice lad these days without online dating is my question?
    katiehad katiehad 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    If i start smoking weed and drinking can i get a gf easily? Because being the non pothead non bad boy doesn't seem to work
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    So going through a break up... I have an auto immune disorder and while I'm normal I get sick somewhat easier, and additionally get break outs sometimes caused by my body's hyper...
    Bayblood Bayblood 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    It is another lonely night.In this chaos that i am living i would really hope to have someone who could understand me and help me to move on. I came across with that song from...
    Ralphael Ralphael 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    I used hurt myself a few years ago, I've stopped last year but i'm scared to start again, every time I get into the shower, i'm scared to turn the water to hot and boil myself...
    shawnqueen shawnqueen 22-25, M Jul 6

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    Had the toughest nursing shift last night. In my entire life, that was the very first time someone insulted and scornfully treated me with so much disrespect like I'm a piece of...
    J2911 J2911 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Forreal, i'm sick of it -.-
    Imsobored123 Imsobored123 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    I wish I could put all of my thoughts in a jar. I think too much. Thinking too much causes me to over think and analyze things I don't want to deal with. It gets too much for me...
    LeoGin LeoGin 16-17, M Jul 8

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    I'm really tired! I have such dreams I wish I can be myself without being afraid of disappointed my family, I wish they would love me for who I am and not who they want me to be! I...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I'm so sick:P I hate I being sick, I can't do anything I want and I'm hurting and I can't eat anything. Ugh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was giving a good thought about it... I'm a sensitive woman, I really am! As I have posted here in a lot of times, I've always tried to see my meaning to people... I am a good...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Even though Im 19, most of my friends are either my age or much younger than me. In addition to that, most of my friends are female, even though I am male. after that quick set up...
    ThunderST0RM1N ThunderST0RM1N 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I suppose when all logic and reason escape me, I escape myself. And so, in failing to comprehend myself, I'm left vulnerable to misunderstanding and perceptive disarray. I, of all...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    Am trapped. On a gold claim. Trying to be decent and healthy. But i reported staff. They hate that. They have company help. Their crimes get ignored. But my...
    converted converted 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    Very. And hurt. And trapped. Involuntary codependancy feeds hope. So. No way out without regret biting.
    converted converted 46-50, M 5 hrs ago

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    Even when I hurt someone unintentionally, I have trouble forgiving myself and living with what I did. Life is all about making mistakes - and that means hurting people is...
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 46-50, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Hey there, I am being bullied. Now, as the title suggests, my ex boyfriend is bullying me. I told him everything. For example, I used to cut. I told him that and I trusted him. I...
    myhaloisfromebay myhaloisfromebay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm Brooke. 16 years old. I used to be a straight A student, honour roll etc. I played hockey on three teams and took flying lessons when I could. I had a part time job and I was...
    BrookeSandhurst BrookeSandhurst 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    This will sort of be a stream of consciousness vent. I don't feel totally comfortable writing this here. Putting out my problems on the internet like this for strangers to read but...
    fibrodoodle fibrodoodle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    You know what, we are sick. We sick, cruel, abusive, and selfish as humans. We think that we are so much better than every other living thing out there. We are killers. I came...
    lifeislife12 lifeislife12 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I thought that weddings were supposed to be joyous occassions. I kept asking myself why I wanted nothing more than to burst into tears. Full on sobbing even. Truth is, I've never...
    SocialRecluse SocialRecluse 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    My mum said something that really struck a chord with me. I have been really hurt by somebody in my past who has left a mark on me. I don't like to talk about it anymore. I just...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I don't write letters to those who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I am psychotically attentive to detail, unfortunately this means my thoughts are far to complex to explain. I am going to try anyways. I know I will never be fortunate enough to...
    SaphiraJane SaphiraJane 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Ever since the people I used to consider to be close to me just became distant and flaky, I've really changed my attitude about any sort of relationship I'm in or will ever be in...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F Jul 12