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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 265 People

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    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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