I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 518 People

    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis
    18-21, M
    May 26, 2011

    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2012

    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz
    1 Response Jan 4, 2011
    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 27, 2014

    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac
    61-65, M
    Apr 21, 2013

    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23
    18-21, F
    Aug 19, 2011

    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki
    26-30, F
    Jul 29, 2014

    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted
    Mar 4, 2010


    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2013


    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo
    1 Response Sep 3, 2008

    so...it is my birthday today.

    ..and last night I sobbed...and this morning I sobbed even more. I opened FB and the one person who I had given three and a half years to..gave me a generic happy birthday.. didn't even toss in my name... I should have known better...after all he put me through....and his...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2016

    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014
    31-35, F
    Jun 6, 2014

    I'm so tried of being hurt

    and used by every guy.I open up to them then the just use me.I am so guarded anymore.I don't even let my family know how i feel. That's how I am i guess.I rather be single than be hurt and used by anymore.
    punkglampire punkglampire
    Jun 20, 2015

    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Aug 1, 2014

    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75
    41-45, F
    Jul 22, 2014

    Why does it seem like everyone gets tired of me

    after awhile? It's like I'm a toy that people play with for awhile then they get tired of it and hand it off to someone else just for the cycle to be repeated again and again. I'm a person. Not an object. For once I'd like someone to acknowledge this. All my choices are always...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 2, 2015

    Like foreal y'all don't

    even know... I am absolutely tired of being used by guys. I am not some freaking toy for you to play with. I am not some pawn on the chess board for you to move around wherever and whenever you choose to do so. I am not your possession. And most importantly, I am worth a whole...
    DrPepperFanatic97 DrPepperFanatic97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

    every single person take my kindness

    for weakness I end up betrayed I always end up trusting the wrong people and I think that us because I'm so in need for a friend, that I trust anyone....
    ohimjustagirl ohimjustagirl
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2015

    there's this guy whom I used to treat

    as a true friend... but eventually, I started to realize that he only comes closer to me when he's in need of my help... also my best friend told me that even she has noticed it... yeah, it kinda hurt me, but at least I've learned something... to you my dearest friend: I'll...
    hummingtree hummingtree
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2014

    these thoughts are random.

    .. i type as it comes to me. i am just so overwhelmed with emotions i have to get this all off my chest. I am a mom of five kids, with one baby on the way. They are all to the same man, A man that i have grown to dispise over the course of 6 months. I am so lost and confused...
    ctzellers ctzellers
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2015


    carriesafreak carriesafreak
    41-45, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    I'm always used to do the family chores

    and they gossip alot of me, I'm so sick of this kind of thing now.. Coz I'm just being used.
    Danzcho Danzcho
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014

    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn
    Apr 18, 2014

    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2011

    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2008
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