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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 1

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    My ex was upset and was thinking about killing him self yesterday and he calls me and I talked him outta of all that and then we talked all night and he thanked me before we got...
    xxjuiletxx xxjuiletxx 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I Cause To Much Disturbance On 'Earth' . Sorry About That Guys ... Maybe I Should Of Just Left Four Years Ago When I Was So Near It...
    KaliKween KaliKween 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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      My grandmother told me she would be willing to disown me for falling in love with a black man. This is the most extreme and traumatic example of how she treats me on a...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am literally sick to my stomach because of everything. It's all Just one big headache. And I can't do it anymore, I can't live like I've been living. I can't allow people into my...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Jul 22

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    i am so done with having friends. I learn that i dont have to have many friends. and i feel that yes audrey is the one friend i need, yeah, i hope. I am so sick being 'okay' to...
    Rascalex Rascalex 16-17, F Aug 7

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    i am so done with having friends. I learn that i dont have to have many friends. and i feel that yes audrey is the one friend i need, yeah, i hope. I am so sick being 'okay' to...
    Rascalex Rascalex 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I hurt the person I love. The person I'd give my life for. I didn't do anything explicitly wrong, I suppose it's because I never gave enough time, even when I felt I was. I said...
    Beccyayresxxx Beccyayresxxx 18-21 Aug 10

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    I have to let go the past. I think I've hurt someone equally as being hurt by someone. I want to stop beating myself up , or feel guilty, or look for problem in me- it should be...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
    jord4567 jord4567 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I am sick of people who are gorgeous and think they are the shame of the nation. I am sick of girls with everything to gain but choose otherwise. I am sick of women that are...
    AristotleOnassis AristotleOnassis 22-25, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My ex bf made me go through depression.. I loved him, but he just used me all along. He was still in love with his ex gf. After timed passed, I began to forget him.. My heart...
    EmmaParsons EmmaParsons 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I loss my mom and the same week loss my relationship only to find out he was playing me to get back to his ex girl friend . All three of us attend the same church . He told...
    Clarineclarice Clarineclarice 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I friggin hate being sick. Just started last night with a stuffy nose & today I've been sneezing all day & my throat hurt a little now I keep feeling the urge to sneeze & my throat...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    more retards,sick ppl,idiots and the most stupid humans on the planet come everyday on this site
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I'm so sick:P I hate I being sick, I can't do anything I want and I'm hurting and I can't eat anything. Ugh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I feel like there is nothing I can do. Everyone is smarter than me and can use me just at the snap of their fingertips. I fall for it every single time and most of the time it's by...
    KairiRune KairiRune 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I was giving a good thought about it... I'm a sensitive woman, I really am! As I have posted here in a lot of times, I've always tried to see my meaning to people... I am a good...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F Jul 28

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    I have given up on trying to be a good person. I have made my decision that i'm done being different that i'm done with being the "nice guy." Im sick of people making me feel like...
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 8 Responses Aug 1

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    Although I am a very private person I used to love sunbathing nude and skinnydipping when no one was around. Our swimming pool is very secluded and not visible from the street or...
    Anthony1962 Anthony1962 51-55, M 18 hrs ago

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    I was out of shape, had really low immunity, and was suffering chronic joint & muscle pain for a couple of years. It sucked. Doctors just kept telling me it was all in my head...
    ladymaverick31 ladymaverick31 31-35, F 12 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    lets say you live most of your life till now thinking yourself to be something. then you fall lower than the lowest thing in your world. then you try, and try and try and keep...
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm so sick of it! They only message me asking for help of homework or whatever relationship problems! After they're well gone off, i realized they toke my help for granted!!!!
    LRxIce LRxIce 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    What the hell is wrong with people thinking that they can just use other!?!?!? Like seriously!?!? Does it make them feel better?!?! or am I just the stupid one for having fallen in...
    dexxie dexxie 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You know what, we are sick. We sick, cruel, abusive, and selfish as humans. We think that we are so much better than every other living thing out there. We are killers. I came...
    lifeislife12 lifeislife12 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I have three children and gave up a career of teaching to stay at home with them. I did all the things a parent wants to do- I read to them, played with them, encouraged them, was...
    Hateisexhausting1 Hateisexhausting1 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Just woke up and being so self hurtful signed into his Facebook.. 4 days after he left me he's saying to a girl that someone else won't be her next bf if he has anything to do with...
    missdan missdan 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    So many people on here have used me for nude pics (not saying I sent them), or they just think I'm "attractive." Listen, if that's what you intend on doing with me, I will block...
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    It hurts you know, that you shove me in the corner. One day you'll look back and I won't be there. I hope that day comes soon, I'm sick of being your after thought, your last...
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I technically still live at home. I rent out the basement of my parent's house til I can afford a place of my own. Since it's my space down here, I have fully adjusted to being...
    redinblueink redinblueink 22-25, F 6 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    The past week, has been the most draining week of my life. I've put so much of my time and energy into a relationship, that wasn't even worth it. And I'm so frustrated and hurt...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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