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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 424 People

    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Like foreal y'all don't

    even know... I am absolutely tired of being used by guys. I am not some freaking toy for you to play with. I am not some pawn on the chess board for you to move around wherever and whenever you choose to do so. I am not your possession. And most importantly, I am worth a whole...
    DrPepperFanatic97 DrPepperFanatic97 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18, 2014

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Why does it seem like everyone gets tired of me

    after awhile? It's like I'm a toy that people play with for awhile then they get tired of it and hand it off to someone else just for the cycle to be repeated again and again. I'm a person. Not an object. For once I'd like someone to acknowledge this. All my choices are always...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F May 2

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1, 2014

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6, 2014

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    my gUY OF 4 YEARS IS PULLING OUT HIS MOLER

    TOOTH IN THE MIRROR RIGHT NOW CAUSE ITS BEEN HURTING HIM,,,HE WANTS ME TO GUIDE HIM,,I WONT AND CANT,,SO HE IS PISSED N BLAMING ME FOR NOT GETTING IT ,+HE YANKING WITH PLYERS,,,TO INTENCE
    carriesafreak carriesafreak 41-45, F Feb 17

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1, 2014

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    there's this guy whom I used to treat

    as a true friend... but eventually, I started to realize that he only comes closer to me when he's in need of my help... also my best friend told me that even she has noticed it... yeah, it kinda hurt me, but at least I've learned something... to you my dearest friend: I'll...
    hummingtree hummingtree 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 26-30, F Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm always used to do the family chores

    and they gossip alot of me, I'm so sick of this kind of thing now.. Coz I'm just being used.
    Danzcho Danzcho 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Why?? The life I live is not for me I don't get the point of me always being hurt and sad. And all the people that hurt me moved on with thair lives like its nothing.
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    I hate when my stomach hurts cause I've had a fear of getting sick to my stomach since I was little so I worry that will happen.
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    Hey guys, so here's what's happening. 20 minutes ago i ate something I am allergic to but I didn't know. I'm having a painful allergic reaction. I'm having trouble digesting. My...
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    I live in a small town where everyone seems to judge everyone else. Just going to the store,or listening to people around here makes me sick. If you had a life,you wouldn't have to...
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    Nature was naked, and I was also... Sweet, sane, still Nakedness in Nature! - ah if poor, sick, prurient humanity in cities might really know you once more! Is not nakedness...
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    When the house is really clean and I have nothing else to do, it is the best. I like all the blinds open and the front door open. I sit on my couch, listen to music and look...
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    i used to be sick and tired of life, then i got sick and tired of being sick and tired, now im sick with a throat infection , cold and fever and tired as i have low pressure due to...
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    You know a long time ago I thought family was evrything... but I was wrong Yet I can't do anything about since it's not my choice in the matter right? every single day I and hurt...
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    To hurt I've sat Next to the beach Salt and wounds overtake me I've grown To love it seems Pain and harm overwhelming What does it mean? For me to look up And see stars...
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    Depression is like being sick for a really, really long time. Everything you do is always tough. Sometimes you don't have the energy to do anything at all. It's hard to sit up...
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    Ugh I hate being sick! In 2011 when I was 25 I was diagnosed with Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease. I used to smoke a pack of Newport 100's a day. I was told the first time I...
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