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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have a couple fantasies... First one I want to help guide my husbands penis into another woman's p••sy and watch it go in and out and then eat his c•m out of her p••sy...
    justmeasme justmeasme 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    So I'm going to be open about something. Something I'm usually not open about to very many people. I was raped. And being raped is difficult to deal with. Actually that's quite the...
    everyonehasbeauty everyonehasbeauty 16-17, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I believe this is the major reasoning for all that holds me back from many things in my life. I allow myself to only get so close. I have deep rooted fears of being hurt again. Not...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 Mar 23

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    Once upon a time there was a little girl. She was somewhat tomboyish -- she liked snakes, sticks, and mud and only wore dresses for really formal occasions. She was a happy kid...
    Boo37 Boo37 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I made my first cut at 14 years old. I used the sharp end of a pin-on button to scratch my stomach until it bled velvety drops of blood. I thought it was harmless- a one time thing...
    Olive15 Olive15 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Having broken up with my ex, about 3 years ago, I went through the usual cycle of depression, obsession and craving. Its not unlike an addiction... So while I was in this funk, I...
    v33rh0ra v33rh0ra 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other to bits but last June his visa ran out and he had to go back to his country I told him I would wait and that some...
    xbubblesxboo xbubblesxboo 22-25, F Apr 4

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    You don't realise how bad it is until it happens to you. You can eat, sleep and it's hurts like a *****. If feel although I'm over reacting and no one understands but every song...
    Ashbash18 Ashbash18 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    ***Post of the Day*** Find out more at: www.facebook.com/FavorUponYou It's funny - I'm actually a #Muslim! The term used to conjure up images of backward Bedouin Arabs living far...
    FavorUponYou FavorUponYou 22-25, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I was seeing this guy and he kept meeting up with him and having sex then I realised that he was using me, he only used to message me when he wanted to meet up and have sex now his...
    anikaxo anikaxo 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It Was My Mission to Never have dad hurt the others when I was younger. There are 5 in my family, 3 girls (all born first, I'm 2nd oldest), and 2 boys. We weren't an overly...
    maqeurious maqeurious 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Ive been used mostly bc of how i look so people tell me they like me and lead me on then tell me they love me and soon want to get sum from me:/ ive been used alot, hurt alot...
    LovingLesbian LovingLesbian 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im emotional abuse survivor and i can tell you how people react to it. i told so many people online that ive been hurt. First they talked to me, then they ignored me and then i...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    IM ******* SICK AGAIN ;-; I have nothing to do but sit in bed puking. Someone play an internet game with me. My stomach feels like it's going to explode. Kill me now.
    RedtheEmerald RedtheEmerald 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    If your going to lie to me then whatever relationship we had is over.I used to sit there and take it but not I'm sick and tired of lies.So i don't care if it's the tiniest lie it...
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I'm sick of just being useless completely just being a by stander I'm sick of it I'm going to change now and forever I'm going to help anyone I can I love everyone and if you have...
    Life0fTheParty Life0fTheParty 16-17, M Apr 4

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    My boyfriend suggested we break up when he goes into the army. It's really hurting and I am considering talking to him and if he that's what he definitely wants, should I stay with...
    dmarie1995 dmarie1995 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Well things started too look up and crashing down they came!!! I guess I should be used to it by now!! This is my life!!! Sometimes I think it's a sign!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Well, E.P., this is not your average story and it is one that I'm extremely embarassed by and do not speak of to anyone- while at the same time being the most beautiful thing I...
    Fiftypercent Fiftypercent 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    I was single for 7 years I loved all the wrong ones and probably pushed away a few good ones and now I found myself in a relationship that I got pushed into by not pushing away...
    lulucrazyhead lulucrazyhead 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Why is it that people flirt and hit on me but then I say my feelings and end up hurt. What is it about me that people don't like. I've been trying to figure it out for years and I...
    nicolecote nicolecote 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm not going to go into much of the background, but the experience is something I've kept inside of me and is dying for a release. It began when everyone around me became so fed...
    borderlinesymmetry borderlinesymmetry 13-15, F Apr 11

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    I used to have them from about the age of four to eight or nine. I feel terrible about what I must of done to my parents. I used to scream in the middle of the night like something...
    cheley cheley 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    Yeah well. From the moment I saw him 2 years ago, I love him so much it hurts. It hurts that he doesn't feel the same way, I'm starting to think he never will. But I will never...
    JeciJecii JeciJecii 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Because of my experiences i understand peoples pains ,peoples suffering ...that is my deepest hurt.. for myself i feel no pain or hurt towards myself or my life.. regret is apart...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I am getting so sick of other people. I'm sick of being mistreated, I'm tired of fighting, I'm tired of trying to salvage relationships. I don't know what it is that I'm doing...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how I used to weigh 210 pounds. And when I think about that, it makes me hate the person I see in the mirror, and it makes me want to...
    Technickcolor Technickcolor 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I have never believed in internet relationships, so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I used to take meth. It started out as an experiment, to enhance sex. I took it for a period of 10 months. I wasn't a heavy user, buying a gram that could last me 2 weeks, but it...
    alifeofpoz alifeofpoz 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Tired and hurt today...so I wrote: I almost saw a glimmer of sunshine, then...now grey skies...again, how pathetic. I can't settle into one emotion from the grey pallet that has...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F Mar 24

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    I'm constantly hurting emotionally... I used to self harm.. it helped deal with all the problems for a while.. for a while, I was in control of my problems.. no one could hurt me...
    ForeverSilenced1126 ForeverSilenced1126 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I am done being used!! Only good enough when someone isn't around!! We were friends we talked I always listened when you two were fighting!!! And now everything is fine and...
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I have seen several ask the question…….. Why do people who have so much get depressed? The answer is because they are not you. Because you do not understand does not discount...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    My Life Of Drug Addiction By: An Addict named brad In the beginning, I shot myself in the head. Three times. With a nail gun. As I remember, it didn’t really hurt all that...
    sober4life sober4life 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    im tired of having nobody.. ive never felt so low in my life.. im thinking about hurting myself. its making me sick ive never harmed anybody before or hurt myself..i bottle a lot...
    matthu21 matthu21 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I have been with my partner since October of 2011 and love him very much. I have never been crazy about children but decided to give it a try. His son is almost 5 now and it really...
    gagnone19 gagnone19 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5