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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1, 2014

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 26-30, F Jul 29, 2014

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    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6, 2014

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    there's this guy whom I used to treat

    as a true friend... but eventually, I started to realize that he only comes closer to me when he's in need of my help... also my best friend told me that even she has noticed it... yeah, it kinda hurt me, but at least I've learned something... to you my dearest friend: I'll...
    hummingtree hummingtree 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    Why does it seem like everyone gets tired of me

    after awhile? It's like I'm a toy that people play with for awhile then they get tired of it and hand it off to someone else just for the cycle to be repeated again and again. I'm a person. Not an object. For once I'd like someone to acknowledge this. All my choices are always...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F May 2

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    Like foreal y'all don't

    even know... I am absolutely tired of being used by guys. I am not some freaking toy for you to play with. I am not some pawn on the chess board for you to move around wherever and whenever you choose to do so. I am not your possession. And most importantly, I am worth a whole...
    DrPepperFanatic97 DrPepperFanatic97 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18, 2014

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    I'm always used to do the family chores

    and they gossip alot of me, I'm so sick of this kind of thing now.. Coz I'm just being used.
    Danzcho Danzcho 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    I came in like a wrecking ball I never hit

    so hard in love All I wanted was to break your walls All you ever did was wreck me Yeah, you, you wreck me...
    sisiyah sisiyah 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    every single person take my kindness

    for weakness I end up betrayed I always end up trusting the wrong people and I think that us because I'm so in need for a friend, that I trust anyone....
    ohimjustagirl ohimjustagirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    my gUY OF 4 YEARS IS PULLING OUT HIS MOLER

    TOOTH IN THE MIRROR RIGHT NOW CAUSE ITS BEEN HURTING HIM,,,HE WANTS ME TO GUIDE HIM,,I WONT AND CANT,,SO HE IS PISSED N BLAMING ME FOR NOT GETTING IT ,+HE YANKING WITH PLYERS,,,TO INTENCE
    carriesafreak carriesafreak 41-45, F Feb 17

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1, 2014

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    these thoughts are random.

    .. i type as it comes to me. i am just so overwhelmed with emotions i have to get this all off my chest. I am a mom of five kids, with one baby on the way. They are all to the same man, A man that i have grown to dispise over the course of 6 months. I am so lost and confused...
    ctzellers ctzellers 18-21, F Jun 10

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    .......me right now on

    so many levels
    Californialexiiiiiii Californialexiiiiiii 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    I'm so tried of being hurt

    and used by every guy.I open up to them then the just use me.I am so guarded anymore.I don't even let my family know how i feel. That's how I am i guess.I rather be single than be hurt and used by anymore.
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25 Jun 20

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    there are two kinds of people in this world. users and the ones being used.since it goes against my nature to use people, I am to be used, right? well I giess everyone serves a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 day ago

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    I was used by a girlfriend. I loved her and was given all the responsibilities of her boyfriend, but none of the privileges. Don't get me wrong, we had sex; but, to me, sex isn't a...
    4lornhope 4lornhope 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    I can't even dance now! I'm so sick and sore from being sick I'm losing flexibility and motivation! I can't even do anything active without getting tired! I finally made it onto...
    Brooke6813 Brooke6813 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so tired of being used by 'friends', being treated badly by family members and made to feel like I am nothing. All I have done is care for others and all it has done in...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I used to, now there isn't any more feeling of rage, anxiousness or even hate. Perhaps I'm so accustomed to it, sometimes even countless lies within a day, or mainly because I know...
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    uncomfortable,burning soul inside me,want to come out and say to my fiancee what she is doing is only giving me pain.i love her and got engaged to my girl ,we were in relation for...
    vegeta420 vegeta420 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I woke up at 8:30 and I asked my uncle if it's okay to have my medicines a bit earlier. And he said okay. We didn't see any harm in it. And after taking the medicine I had a yogurt...
    Lizandavan Lizandavan 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My past makes me who I am today. I have had many awful experiences occur throughout my life, and while I haven't forgiven all of those involved, I have forgiven many. Yet I'm told...
    GlitterCheeks GlitterCheeks 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I look at the definition of social anxiety it doesn't totally match my issue. I guess I am just different. First off, I get sick of being so "me oriented" but realize to...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    The girls had their dentist appointments this morning. (No cavities AGAIN by the way - I like to brag about that LOL). M had her treatment and was told not to swallow. Treament...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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