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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 269 People

    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I'm 15. I've had a lot of ratio ships thy failed. Two of them with my best friends. Now they have boyfriends and I feel so broken inside that I can't handle myself...
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    I don't have any feelings left. Not love , hate ,passion for life. I have had my heart ripped inside out more times than I can count in the last 6 months . The shear lack of trust...
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    2 Years ago, my ex basically left me for another women. At 1st he told me he never stopped loving me, and he hoped That I would never stopped loving him. After a few months of not...
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    I'm tired of being hurt. It's caused me to developed an uncaring attitude towards girls who claim to have feelings for me. If she starts to take me for granted, treating me like...
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    Being hurt is the reason I have trust issues...
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    I need a boyfriend :/ but I'm afraid of being hurt again.....
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    I have a flu :( I wanted this weekend to be great but now I'm sick e.e
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    I'm tired of always feeling sick or being in pain. I feel like crying, but all that does is give me a headache to go along with everything else... I'm done.
    Christinamarie3095 Christinamarie3095 41-45, T 4 hrs ago

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    I hate this. I feel like ****. My throat is still hurting. I think I'm gonna puke everywhere. Urgh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    So I'm sitting in bed crying and listening to music with my headphones in. Why? Because my husband is being a complete arsehole. He gets really nasty after a few drinks and has...
    NotSuchAnInnocentGirl NotSuchAnInnocentGirl 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Each time I get hurt it's like I lose a piece of my soul..my dignity...my piece of mind...and my heart gets ripped apart .When that hurt became constant, I got used to it.Got used...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I don’t like giving up on people i don’t like believing that some people will never learn to get along i refuse to give up. Hate me love me i don’t really care, or at least i...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    (This post applies to everything except my girlfriend) I'm just ******* sick of it... I'm sick of all the lies that I tell people and they tell me... I'm sick of the same routine...
    AnonymousSigh AnonymousSigh 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I am to a point that the hurting and sadness are normal and any joy is frightening . I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life and many of the bad things I have caused , I just...
    chris121458 chris121458 51-55, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wish my parents would stop fighting. This literally happens all the time. No, they are not getting divorced, but sometimes I think it could be a good idea (I definitely don't...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 20

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    For some reason this has been on my mind recently, so I thought I'd share, in case someone else is struggling with the same issue. I used to be anorexic. I remember being a kid...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I tell myself there are a lot of people worse off than me, and i have days where i feel capable of anything. But it's not enough. I'd like to apologise to those on Ep whom i've...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I had met this girl at work. She had started working there a day or two before and it was the first time I met her. Needless to say she was far too friendly the first few times...
    Wannafeelyourredviper Wannafeelyourredviper 22-25, M Dec 8

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    I get it. I'm easily replaced. It's what I've told everyone. When I start talking to someone I tell them at some point, everyone leaves me. They say I'll never leave you. And that...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    We've been friends for ten years. Every 2-3 years, you screw up your finances; I bail you out; you promise to get your life together. I'm sick of enabling your bad behavior. You...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I don't get it! I used to have a strong immune system; I used to get about one cold or fever every six months. Now, it feels like I'm getting sick just about every month! I just...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel so sick My stomach been hurting for 2 days Today was really bad I felt like my inside my stomach and throat was a fire when I sat on a chair it hurt worse so I sat on the...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I've been getting more upset at my Mother than usual lately. She's always played favorites with my little sister, I learned to deal with that. But my daughter is 3 and she has...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    If only I knew what to do right now but sadly, I don't. I'm just lost and stuck in my own thoughts. I'm trying so hard to keep a brave face and to get out of my head, as being in...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I met a guy online three months ago. We got along well and decided to meet a month ago. It was like a date, he picked me up from my house, he paid for everything, complimented me...
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    I hate university. I'm a freshman in my first semester here and deep down, I feel quite uncomfortable about things here. It's been about 2 months since I started uni and I feel sad...
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    Okay. My experience. Lately at school this girl and I we would tell each other about our problems. We never judged each other. We had a great Bond. She was nice and she helped me...