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I Am Sick of Being Hurt and Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 265 People

    Sick Of Watching My Husband Be Used!

    Myself and my husband have had a baby together she is 9 months old. since she was born she had a few medical issues which we have struggled with. His family are so unsympathetic. when she was in hospital nobody called or came to see her! there were no cards etc. which really...
    Atkinz Atkinz 22-25 1 Response Jan 4, 2011

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    Really, I Am.

    There is only so much that people can give you, but there is no limit to what you can do for yourself. I don't know when things will get better but I will try, and in doing so maybe, just maybe, it'll start changing.
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I am not anyones spare time

    or down time. I am Primetime so, I should be your All The Time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 1

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    Eh

    im sick of only being a friend...and someone to be depended on to always be nice and sweet....when all i am is a friend who dies for a chance to be a lover...im sick of it
    sasoridomo sasoridomo 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    I Don'T Know If I'M Being Used

    So since July I've been with this really great guy and before he left for bootcamp we started "talking" and talking about starting a relationship after bootcamp. Then the day he left his ex was coming after me saying my guy and her where gonna get back together and told me all...
    CrazyBeautifulNavyLife CrazyBeautifulNavyLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Why Can't I Leave You?

    Yeah, well maybe you dont care how im feeling. You've treated me like dirt from the moment i thought we were going to be together, forever. It's tourcherus. I'm tired of you pinning me down. I have a hole in my heart. But i cant say its over, i want love, its lust. I cant believe...
    zoebug23 zoebug23 16-17, F Aug 19, 2011

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    Dont Judge Me

    first of all im very closed off so this is a big thing for me to say .....im 15 and i have always suffered from depression and self estemm issuesabout 3 months ago i started talking online on a teen chat site and it was all ok until the day i met up with an 18 year old after that...
    darkanonamusgirl22 darkanonamusgirl22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Marriage

    Hi i have a situation were i need advice am married for 6 years but knew him for 13 years we have 3 kids n am planning on leaving him but am scared he has threatened me to take my kids away...just this morning he got home drunk n very aggressive i have notice that every time he...
    perdida07 perdida07 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    I've been hurt and used

    so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going to be just like the rest that I think I am subconsciously pushing him away. I have a lot of insecurity due to my past as...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    How I Live

    I live in fear of being hurt. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    It seems like everyone I start trusting I get

    hurt. Just like when I tell them something personal they turn around and use it on me. I cant trust anyone anymore. Im a nice person. People say Im too nice but thats the way I was raised. Plus I dont like being a ***** unless I have to be. I used to be the quiet and shy type...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F Jun 6

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    I need to stop going back to you cause I don't

    want you to think that I'm weak. I need to realize my self worth & move on, no more pain...
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Why Am I Not Worth Caring About

    I feel so empty and worthless
    nalahbug nalahbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    my boyfriend broke up with me not

    even a week ago , he said its cause he didn't wanna date anyone for a year or so . well 5 days later he's dating my bestfriend . my exs bestfriend apparently has had a crush on me for a long time and wants to date me . I'm not ready for all the lies and the hurt . it seems like...
    brokkenn brokkenn 13-15 Apr 18

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    I'm So Tired

    so what is the point of going on when you live in a place you don't belong, no one can see who you really are and each word they say leaves another scar, you cant even walk 2 feet without getting pushed or beat, you feel like you're nothing at all wanting to scream, wanting to...
    DrowningSoul DrowningSoul M 4 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be,

    there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have crazy dreams/ideas, who motivate you, who are open minded and supportive. I think that people ought to treat everyone with kindness...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    Sometimes I Shout Out Loud "no Mr.nice Guy"

    People are different, relationships among humans are complicated, but their is one simple thing that combines all of them...NEEDS...some need love, others need friends to talk to , but they get material in one point or another.most people around me use the peaceful part of mine...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M May 26, 2011

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    Why Do I Always Seem To Attract Users?

    I am getting tired of finding nothing but users. My first wife was a good woman, and we were married til her death. My second wife used me to help her make a new start, after she got overloaded with debt and filed for bankruptcy. She then got us overloaded with debt, and then...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Take a Piece of My Heart

    Let me begin by saying that I have a big heart... I will accept anybody for who they are and love them for that individual person. Unfortunately, this has gotten me into trouble many times because I get myself too involved in friendships and relationships too soon. I really can...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    I'm just done even on ep. I always get hurt even before I say anything. I can admit feelings for a girl, they block me. I can say hi to a guy and they hate me. I can have crushes...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    you can't understand the pain of hurting till you are being hurt ed. the realization of your misbehavior with others is itself the feeling of pain.
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    I won't to get better see a future and a career ! ATM I have been signed of! How can I get well so I can look for jobs and get rest my life on track This is cause of growing up...
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    I am sick of you, but I love you. I see you everyday with the same memories Of you constantly ignoring me. I don't deserve that. I don't deserve that at all. I have been listening...
    CharMinji CharMinji 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I had really bad broke up with my ex.I still remember the words he said over the Skype screen '' This LDR is sucks, I don't love you anymore''.I locked myself at the room and feel...
    AnnePQ AnnePQ 26-30, F 16 mins ago

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    I hate asian I wish my parents got into divorced for real wish he get back into his ex girlfriend which it his long time young lover I hate him cause he don't deserve to be my...
    narinagrg narinagrg 18-21, F Nov 7

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    I sit and I listen to the words you speak to me out your mouth. The continue to break me down with every syllable. I look at you as though I don't know who you are anymore. You...
    crafty36 crafty36 36-40, F 10 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm Brooke and 17 years old. I met my first boyfriend when I was 16 and in school, he was a bit older than me, he was 19 years old. He was called William but everyone called him...
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    Each time I get hurt it's like I lose a piece of my soul..my dignity...my piece of mind...and my heart gets ripped apart .When that hurt became constant, I got used to it.Got used...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I wish my parents would stop fighting. This literally happens all the time. No, they are not getting divorced, but sometimes I think it could be a good idea (I definitely don't...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    The urge never goes away. As a matter of fact, I kind of want to cut right now. Since I quit I never have, but when I feel bad and have no outlet for my feelings, cutting again...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F Oct 29

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    One of the things that causes me a a great deal of grief is when i am used to talk to someone everyday and out of the blue they stopped keeping in touch , mostly because they no...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 7

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    this is a painful relationship. it all started because my sister died in a car accident and my spouse was the last person she knew. he claims that while she was sick with a...
    LitamalianTherpo LitamalianTherpo 26-30, M Nov 8

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    I tell myself there are a lot of people worse off than me, and i have days where i feel capable of anything. But it's not enough. I'd like to apologise to those on Ep whom i've...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    We've been friends for ten years. Every 2-3 years, you screw up your finances; I bail you out; you promise to get your life together. I'm sick of enabling your bad behavior. You...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Call it thrift therapy. I am a hardcore treasure hunting junkie. With the exception of mattresses and undergarments – I’ll buy anything used. I’d say about 95% of the stuff...
    sls84 sls84 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I shut them all out!!.. I will never let them ever get close to me or the people that they associate with to get close to me too .. Im so sick of thur sorrys & yet they choose to...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I met a guy online three months ago. We got along well and decided to meet a month ago. It was like a date, he picked me up from my house, he paid for everything, complimented me...
    take90 take90 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    It is just so unfair, but I know that the hereafter has better in store. I cannot help but cry and hurt so much. I feel so suicidal. I really have been through so much. From birth...
    SadAbdul SadAbdul 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    "Witness"Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired?Hollowed out and feeling uninspiredThe question I keep asking isWhat will it take to ease your worried mindYour worried...
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    I am used to doing everything alone. I lost my best friend in seventh grade and I've been on my own ever since. In a way I think it's made me stronger as a person; the fact that...
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    Its awful, feeling this way. Im TERRIFIED of being in a relationship. I'm scared that I will be played. I'm scared that I'll never be good enough, or pretty enough. When did this...
    Shanyyyy18 Shanyyyy18 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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