I Am Sick of Being Judged

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    Sick of Being Judged

    I have always stood out from the people around me. I played 3 sports in high school and am now playing college volleyball and people that don't know me just label me as a jock. I am so much more than that. I love music, especially hardcore, rock, in your face screamo...
    xxegyptcentralxx xxegyptcentralxx
    Dec 15, 2008

    Just because I have a past

    and a pretty bad one at that, I'm judged by everyone I come across. Everyone's leaving my life and Can't have anyone knew come into my life because when I'm honest with them about everything they leave and never turn back.
    OmAaKsLoEnY OmAaKsLoEnY
    22-25, M
    Jan 17, 2016

    How bout we all stop judging each other based

    on things we don't understand. I received a message from someone who made a comment along the lines of "so you're insecure, you cut yourself, and you have a kid ... Great combination." And then they blocked me before I could respond. For starters, this is a place to remain...
    katie5929 katie5929
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    She's Emo? You'd cut too

    if you've gone through what she has She's Anorexic? You would be too if you were called fat everyday She's a *****? She made one mistake and it cost her, her reputation She's Loud? She's invisible at home and wants to be heard She's a Geek? She wants to go far to help her...
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow
    16-17, F
    Feb 26, 2015
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2014

    Why do people judge self harmers?

    We are just the same as you. Why call us attention seekers? If we did it for attention we would cut in front of your face, not cover up our arms, not wear a fake smile. We just want happiness so why judge us for that. Why call us mean things when you know it's just going to hurt...
    CatWithScars CatWithScars
    16-17, F
    Jul 17, 2014

    I made a mistake and sexted a guy

    and everyone found out. And they all judge me for it even though it happened a long time ago and I've changed. And I just want people to understand that your past doesn't make who you are. And to stop judging people when you don't know there story
    gracie805 gracie805
    16-17, F
    Mar 29, 2014

    I used to when I was little.

    Now I don't care. People who judge me usually get me wrong. It shows how stupid they are...which I enjoy. :D
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    I'm Different But Worthy To Get To Know

    I hate being judged.  Yes, my breast are big; but it doesn't mean I'm dumb or that I'm after your husband/boyfriend.  No, I don't follow fashion, drive an expensive car, or own a big house; but does that make me a person unworthy to know?  Yes, I'm 40 and do not...
    notreallythere notreallythere
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2010

    I have always been judged

    for being gay and for having certain sexual interests. It sickens me but it has become a fact of my life.
    keribaby keribaby
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    Why do adults/college

    or university level people think kids my age are so stupid? Is it because of out low test grades? Or our inability to study pile after pile after pile to notes only to fail in memorizing every little detail for a test? Truth is, we're just as smart as you all were (well most of...
    himynameishikari himynameishikari
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    I was born with a life threatening birth defect.

    I have had 11 intestinal surgeries, 9 of them before I was a year old. I have a belly covered in scars, and have spent a life time trying to hide them. People can be soo cruel. My scars are an everyday reminder of how strong I am, and that even when the deck is stacked against...
    awhimandaprayer awhimandaprayer
    31-35, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    I am who I am, not who everyone else wants me

    to be. I do not judge other people for their habits, comments, etc. If you respect me, I'll respect you. If not, I will still respect. I am not going to let disrespect change the way I treat people. I am representing myself, not others!
    Profweird Profweird
    22-25, M
    May 28, 2015

    I can't look at my parents in the eyes anymore

    because I know I am constantly being judged and criticized by them. I can't be myself around them. I feel sadness every time I am home. :(
    AxDisorientedxMind AxDisorientedxMind
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    I'm sick and tired of people commenting on what

    I do with my life. Shut the hell up and let me live my ************* life. I can't deal with anything anymore. I'm at the end of my rope.
    Playlist98 Playlist98
    18-21, F
    Mar 15, 2015

    It sucks to say it but it's one of those things

    that you will always encounter in some way somehow. We just have to learn to brush it off and not let it get to you every single time. If not it will drain you ( physically and mentally)
    romi777 romi777
    31-35, F
    Jul 17, 2014

    Im tired of walking through a corridor

    and having a load of people turn to look at me with such a judgemental look on their face. Its so demeaning when you are walking down the street and people just watch you or start laughing after making some comment about you .i think others should focus on themselves and make...
    GetJinxed GetJinxed
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    Again The Gavel Slams And I Am Out Of Order.

    But it's good to keep in mind that this will happen.It hit me again today.I've been reccommended to be hired for the position of director of our local free food program at a church down the street.I've been volunteering there for a while and get along well with all involved-or so...
    dubkebab dubkebab
    46-50, M
    8 Responses Dec 18, 2010

    My friends know that I am bisexual.

    They also know that I had a crush with someone from our clique. She was a girl and she was not happy that I liked her. Then I became close with someone from our batch and they all assume that I am hitting on her to get back to that friend who rejected me. I am sick of their...
    UniquelySavage UniquelySavage
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    I hate being judged because I don't have kids.

    You're not a person around here unless you have some.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    Its a bit annoying when I come on here

    genuinely looking for a bit of advice and some sad person has to make a comment about my boyfriend or my relationship. 1) I am 17. Not 7. I am independent and mature. I understand things about relationships and things that happen in a relationship. 2) I have been in a...
    abimcc abimcc
    18-21, F
    Nov 28, 2014

    I've been called fat,

    ugly. Told to kill myself, and yes that affected me. But now if you called me fat or ugly I know it's not true, I know I have flaws but I find myself beautiful and amazing
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2014

    I came on here so I wouldn't be judged.

    And then someone that doesn't even know me judges me.
    cheerleader24 cheerleader24
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    **** OFF!!! I am so tired of being judged

    and ridiculed for MY LIFE and MY CHOICES. So what people don't like me or my decisions. Guess what?!? I don't ******* care anymore!!! I'm so over trying to make other people happy with me and my life. My parents don't agree with my life choices and my "so called friends" are...
    Changeallaround Changeallaround
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2014
    Mathaniel2012 Mathaniel2012
    26-30, M
    Nov 3, 2015

    He Who Is Sinless Let Him Throw The First Stone..

    Things in life are difficult but I was always taught to forgive (I was brought up in a very christian house hold) . But I did not realize that that is harder to do and far harder to do when it is concerning yourself. I had a difficult childhood, one that was never talked about...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    You cannot read the lot of those

    who daily pass you by in the street. How do you know the wild romances of their lives; the trials, the temptations they are even now enduring, resisting, sinking under?
    fadingstar77 fadingstar77
    18-21, F
    Jan 13, 2015

    I get judged by people

    who don't even know me. I don't understand how they can hate me when they don't know me or anything I go through. I get called ugly, fat, wh**e, by people I've never met. All I want to know is why.
    TealMarie TealMarie
    18-21, F
    Jan 27, 2014

    Wow...people need too get a life.

    ..you have no idea how much words hurt...stop judging me...you only get one side of the story and not the other....just because half looms bad doesn't mean that the other half won't change the whole thing...
    SnowBunny246 SnowBunny246
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2014

    if u dont like me, **** OFF.

    I am who I am, so dont judge me, u dont know what the **** I been thru. I got my life, you got your life. Take me as I am or not at all, take me or leave it. Otherwise, **** U.
    Tommyswag Tommyswag
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 17, 2014


    AnimusVita AnimusVita
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

    One thing that I have learned in these few

    years is that people who have been bullied/ostracized before in their past will not necessarily refrain from bullying/ostracizing others just because they know what it feels like. On the contrary, they will more likely go on to bully/ostracize unknowing people after discovering...
    Tomtarin Tomtarin
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2014

    waking to a beautiful morning with the devil in

    tow. pressure in my head she has no soul. repedative thinking. my spin is kinking. take away my breath. I'm not afraid of death. the beatings go on. panic attack I feel it in my back. no time to lose. nothing to gain. rip me apart if you can. that is the plan. can't tear down...
    mybadwhereami mybadwhereami
    31-35, M
    Jan 17, 2015

    A million words would not bring things back

    as they were, I know because I've tried. Neither would a million tears, I know because I've cried. But now I can see the flower upon which my life grows, blooming into a rose. See the hope and courage in the strength of the petals. As long as I am, I will be. The flower will...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck
    22-25, F
    Jul 25, 2014

    You're not a judge, but

    if you're gonna judge me, sentence me to another life.
    deleted deleted
    May 6, 2015

    I Am

        i am sick of being judged by people who don't understand me .
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 5, 2009
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude
    16-17, M
    Dec 9, 2014

    I just want to be myself without receiving hate

    and I don't understand how that is too much to ask for!
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    Aug 17, 2014

    I'm Sick

    I'm sick,Had enough,Being judged,People who don't know me,What right,Have they got?Judging me,Enough's enough,It's gotta stop.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 15, 2012

    So I forgive Somebody

    for hurting me, but when I **** up a little, they judge me so hard core and pretty much just shut me out...That's so wrong...
    OhItsYou OhItsYou
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    I am so ******* tired of people judging me.

    ..I am human just like you are...I make mistakes just like you....sometimes out of those mistakes comes the most amazing things. Like my son for instance. I love him so much and wouldn't trade him for anything in the world:D
    CuteBlondie321 CuteBlondie321
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    A lady gave my friend a look today

    that said it all. "Why are you friends with HER of all people?"
    pastelxcats pastelxcats
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2014

    Who Gives You The Right.

    Face it we all have judge someone in our life time.  We are not perfect.  What separates us is when we realize what we are doing  and come to the conclusion that it is not our place to have judgment on other just judgment on ourselves.
    llady99 llady99
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2011
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