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I Am Sick of Being Single

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    I've been single for over 4yrs

    now & ready to get back out into the world again, even of it's only to meet new friends. I'm laid back, out going & genuine. I enjoy music, movies & sporting events. I'm new here so this is a work in progress, bear with me please! :D Thanks!!!
    truebluenwaitin truebluenwaitin 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm also sick of people telling me I'll meet

    someone great eventually. I won't even be on yhe depressing topic of being single when someone laughs at something I say, for example, and then pops off with, "omg you're gonna make a guy real happy someday. Just you wait. He's gonna be so lucky!" And then it's like thank you...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    Sigh, I'm so sad I can't stop thinking about

    being alone. I feel beyond alone all the time. I'm a great girlfriend but it hurts me so badly that nothing lasts.
    corissajane corissajane 18-21, F 7 Responses May 19

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    Im a handsome, middle aged guy

    who has been single for many years. I mean no nothing in anyway shape or form when it comes to women. Im tired of being lonely. I know what my problem, Im to scared to approach women. Everything else I can handle, its my approaching them that is hindering me. Can someone save me...
    Jharri55 Jharri55 51-55 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I have been single my whole life.

    I know that I am still young. Sure being a freshman in high it's normal to be single. But I see people in relationships and they seem so happy. I'm scared of the rejection though. People don't seem to get me at all. I'm a very loving person and caring at that. I feel like I'm...
    allyarcher9898 allyarcher9898 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Miss Independant

    I hate being single but everyone thinks that I am a independant succesful woman who is happy being on her own... but I'm not. I put up a huge barrier and act all strong and tough but really I would love to have someone to curl up next to everynight (other than my cat). I think...
    Bonden Bonden 22-25, F 41 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I just want to get laid!

    Is that so much to ask?!?
    purposebuilt purposebuilt 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm 23 and single. I have been single

    for my entire life which I am sure makes my father happy but, screw that lol. I think it's time for me to find somebody who wants me for me. And considering the small fact that I live in a small town where everyone dates everyone I need to go out of town lol. I'm at a point in...
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    so i was with a man and he was ok there are a

    lot of things that could have been better for the most part i just wanted a man that can grow up and not just be a boy in a man body. so yeah before him i was single for like 5 yrs which is a super long time but i didn't mind cause i was never lonely. now that im back to...
    UnexpectedSuspect UnexpectedSuspect 26-30 1 Response Jun 30

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    Blind

    There are times when I've thought it was about to begin; my heart so open wide. There were times when I thought we could be together; but in with the truth, and out with the lies! I would rather be blind, than to know my loss I would rather see nothing than your sad, sad eyes...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    I've been single since birth.

    .-. Most girls I meet are either 1)older or younger than me 2)taken 3)only want to be best friends 4)don't date guys with long hair 5)other stupid reasons.
    jacedrew jacedrew 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I am single and hate it.

    I'm looking for someone to date virtually.
    Bsc123 Bsc123 18-21, M Jul 12

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    Alone and No Mate In Sight

    I am a girl in her 30s had 3 relationships I have dark hair bright eyes listens to Lisa Ono & reads Paulo Coelho laughs out loud a size 6 day dreams while travelling loves the smell of freshly baked bread likes sharing her candy with the people at work I want a...
    brightonion brightonion 26-30, F 23 Responses Apr 10, 2007

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    Message To My Future Girlfriend/Wife

    This is a message to my future wife/girlfriend... I don't know when I will meet you. I don't know when I will see your beautiful face for the first time. I don't know the future but I do know what I promise to give you. I promise to love you unconditionally. I promise to hold...
    TwoTearsInABucket316 TwoTearsInABucket316 31-35, M 18 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    It's late and i am once again (for 26years)

    going to bed alone ... would love to chat to a lady in the who is in the same boat as me
    LifeofaGoon LifeofaGoon 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I was dating this guy

    and he just decided all by himself that we would be in a relationship. Unfortunately. .I didn't get the memo. So I just went along with it because I am so tired of being single. But then he started tripping over me not answering my phone and little things. I just couldn't...
    Chanta85 Chanta85 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Float77 Float77 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 21

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    I'm so sick of hearin there's other fish in tha

    sea.. I DONT CARE! It;s a woman i need, not a freaking fish :P
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Changing My Thinking

    In regard to relationships in today's society, we are so hung up on finding the “right” person to compliment us. On the surface you might think this is a good approach, but looking at the rate of divorces and breakups versus successful lasting marriages and relationships, we...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 34 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    mia957 mia957 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    But I don't want to be in a relationship

    because I am lonely ....
    DKames DKames 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I don't mind being single,

    but when your parents are so in love, along with my sister getting married soon. I'm the only single one pretty much in the whole mom side and dad side of family. I've taken quizzes of why I'm single and cried plenty of tears.. I just need to know there's hope in finding my man...
    theshellofthesea theshellofthesea 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Something Wrong With Me?

    Am I expecting too much? Meeting the wrong guys? Too quirky? Uncompromising? Easily freaked? Too much emotional baggage? Affected by my past? Not meeting the right people? Getting desperate? Not letting go? Reading too much self help books? Guys too intimitated? Too...
    brightonion brightonion 26-30, F 23 Responses Dec 3, 2006

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    So Left Out...

    I want to experience what true love is... so much that it hurts! I know that my soulmate is out there, but i can't find him... and he can't find me, apparently. :-( I just feel so alone and so left out. Especially when all of my friends are happy in relationships! I am happy for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 29 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    I'm 18 male and never had a girlfriend

    and it sucks as I want one
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Sick And Tired. But Mostly Tired.

    I'll be brief....as I can't really motivate myself for digging to deep in my own minefields......I had one crush which was epic fail. Just got stonewalled and still don't know why, even after running back into her later. It was to painful to ask directly and she didn't explain it...
    DreamingTaoTiger DreamingTaoTiger 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Understanding Life At 30

     Disclaimer: This is not humour. This story is about a tumour that just doesn’t seem to get out of my life. I am turning 30 in a couple of months. Now please do not shoot back with questions and statements like: When are you getting married?Are you getting married at all...
    eyes04111981 eyes04111981 31-35, M 21 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    Its hard being single

    when all your friends are either a) in a relationship or b) married. And being the last single person in the group is no fun!!
    evas1228 evas1228 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Honestly I hate being

    so alone. I miss having someone to just text all hours of the day. I just want to be wanted, needed, even loved.
    LittleMissBothersom LittleMissBothersom 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    7 years and counting that's how long I have

    been single. After, awhile you just start losing hope no matter how hard you try to hold on to it. It starts fading. I constantly find myself fighting off the feeling of loneliness it loves to creep up in my mind especially in the middle of the night. I go on with my days as...
    acquiredtaste acquiredtaste 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    I'm so lonely I just want to cuddle with someone

    and watch movies and kiss them when I want. I want him to grab my butt when I least expect it or push me up against the wall and kiss me. The romantic stuff ya know?
    hn6653 hn6653 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm Kinda Sick Of It At This Point

    I find it really, how do I say... Depressing that every girl I know goes for a guy that either uses them for sex and hurts them, or cheats and treats them like dirt, then they complain to me about it and how they can't find a nice guy. Honestly, I am apparently a gay friend or...
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 13 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Population too low here,

    I need to move. This is where I live (picture inserted) Borneo. I need imported girlfriend/wife please thanks! Not much humans at my place. Good thing there is wifi internet connection here or else I be chopping trees and hunting all day long.
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    alexis32 alexis32 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Sick And Tired Of Being Alone....

    I am sick and tired of being alone. I would love to be in a relationship. But I am not settling for just anyone. I have enough respect for myself to know that I want a man that is kind and loving. Respectful towards me, but wants to make sure NO ONE hurts me. But lets me do my...
    writergirl32 writergirl32 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Finding The Right One Is Frustrating

    By all regards I have a good, stable life, but I am missing that special lady to complete it........I am not like a whole lot of others my age, I don't drink, I don't smoke, nor do I indulge in drugs and in general I avoid the party scene. I am happy doing simple things like...
    SuperheroFanboy SuperheroFanboy 26-30, M 12 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    Feeling Unlucky

    People tell me all the time that I am beautiful and sweet. People always tell me that I am so caring and kind. But those same people always ask me "why are you still single?" I have not been in an actual relationship since.....ever. All the guys that I have gone out with in...
    Ariraine Ariraine 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Single

    I bored of being single I have nothing to do
    Skatergirl16 Skatergirl16 13-15, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I'M Just

    Tired of being single I walk down the hallways every day and see happy couples and I want that because I've had ONE relationship and I swear on my life I loved her and I still do but she cheated twice and she does love me I know that too but she won't go back out with me right...
    chichin30 chichin30 22-25, M 72 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    I'm so ******* done..

    . I hate my life. I used to have immense depression, now I'm just upset and tired of this part of my life. I want to get out and do stuff I love, but I don't have anything come to mind that I'd be interested in the outside world.
    TheForestOfGnomes TheForestOfGnomes 22-25, M Jul 7

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    I've been single for a little too long.

    .. 15, male, and I prefer chubby girls, but I'm open to anyone. Hit me up, I guess.
    METALHEADXFA METALHEADXFA 13-15, M Jul 7

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    Single!!!🙍🙍😞😣😫😪😕😐😑😏😟😦😧
    Heathersmith34 Heathersmith34 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Ive been single my whole life.

    I'm a 5''11 mixed male who trys to be the best .Im always told that im smart and down to earth but no one trys to be with me. IN the romantic sense of the word
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I am 23 and I find it

    so hard to find a guy who likes me and also I find it just as hard to maintain a healthy relationship. I have BPD and also Depression. On top of that I am anti social and also I lack having time to see the boyfriend when I have one. I seem to find that people see all this as...
    InsertYourLoveHere InsertYourLoveHere 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I been single for almost 2-3 years its not

    that I do t want a relationship it's just I haven't been in the right environment to find one I'm interested in that's all and every time I'm about to date someone something happens or I move due to my moms jobs etc. Its so stressing and annoying that's I kept my distant...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I give up. I hate this.

    It's time to just focus on gym and nothing else. It doesn't exist
    silvermoon9619 silvermoon9619 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    I left my ex a little over a year ago

    after being with her for 4 years and since then haven't found anyone else I want to be with. Probably because I work quite a bit and don't have time for going out and meeting girls. Would definitely like to be in a relationship again, really miss having someone to enjoy life...
    arjeff482 arjeff482 31-35, M Dec 14, 2013

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    I am a 15 year old emo girl,

    I am only 5'1, I live in Troy, New York, I am pansexual/bisexual, I am single, I am a virgin, never had my first kiss, I am very hated here I never had a bf or gf in the same city as me, my shortest relationship was less than one day my longest was a day before 3 months, my...
    emoliz emoliz 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Only me and a few of my mates are still single,

    the rest are taken or are about to ask a girl out. It's awkward when one of my mates brings their girlfriend with us to hang out, they always ignore us or go off with another couple in our group. Then I'm just their scrolling on my phone pretending to talk to to someone, feeling...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Really tired of being single

    when I know I would make a good girlfriend. Because -I'm not to clingy. I give you the space you need. -I trust you until you give me a reason not too. -I'll go out and have fun with you, you wanna hang out with your friends I'll go with you if you want me too. If not I trust...
    XoAmber XoAmber 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    I just want to be happy with the woman of my

    dream's. She doesn't have to be stunning but definitely has to have brains and be a sweetheart. A plus would be a womanly woman so I may woo her. Is that asking to much? I don't think so.
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M Jul 11

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