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I Am Sick of Being Single

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11,730 People

    Jstaples32 Jstaples32 16-17, M Jan 11

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    Feeling Unlucky

    People tell me all the time that I am beautiful and sweet. People always tell me that I am so caring and kind. But those same people always ask me "why are you still single?" I have not been in an actual relationship since.....ever. All the guys that I have gone out with in...
    Ariraine Ariraine 22-25, F 10 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Something Wrong With Me?

    Am I expecting too much? Meeting the wrong guys? Too quirky? Uncompromising? Easily freaked? Too much emotional baggage? Affected by my past? Not meeting the right people? Getting desperate? Not letting go? Reading too much self help books? Guys too intimitated? Too...
    brightonion brightonion 26-30, F 21 Responses Dec 3, 2006

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    Sick And Tired. But Mostly Tired.

    I'll be brief....as I can't really motivate myself for digging to deep in my own minefields......I had one crush which was epic fail. Just got stonewalled and still don't know why, even after running back into her later. It was to painful to ask directly and she didn't explain it...
    DreamingTaoTiger DreamingTaoTiger 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    I'm Kinda Sick Of It At This Point

    I find it really, how do I say... Depressing that every girl I know goes for a guy that either uses them for sex and hurts them, or cheats and treats them like dirt, then they complain to me about it and how they can't find a nice guy. Honestly, I am apparently a gay friend or...
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 13 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Quite honestly I'm sick of being single

    and I'm sick of being treated horribly in relationships. It's lonely and tiring. I just want to love someone.
    userunknown404 userunknown404 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I have been single all my life I have been

    pretty scared lately about this. I have not done anything with a woman before not even a kiss. Weird i know but i have always been working on my carrier . I just want to have love is all.
    ImNotRice ImNotRice 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    Single

    I bored of being single I have nothing to do
    Skatergirl16 Skatergirl16 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M Jan 9

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    Can I Find One Decent Guy My Age ?

    .. That Can Be Himself . 😒
    FlawsAndAll FlawsAndAll 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    7 years and counting that's how long I have

    been single. After, awhile you just start losing hope no matter how hard you try to hold on to it. It starts fading. I constantly find myself fighting off the feeling of loneliness it loves to creep up in my mind especially in the middle of the night. I go on with my days as...
    acquiredtaste acquiredtaste 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    ive been single for 6 years now

    and it annoying when you see people in relationships and you think why can't I be with someone I mean 6 years of being single is long enough for me thanks
    Paddymarsh92 Paddymarsh92 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 24

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    That moment when 14 year olds have a better

    love/sex life than you. God
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    Hey, I think i may have understood

    why we all feel this way. I recommend you guys especially women to read the book "Women who love too much " I had a better understanding now about me and why i am feeling that way. Men should read it as well its a very good book for all people who wants love but cant seem to...
    happysha17 happysha17 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Benkind Benkind 18-21, M Feb 17

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    lukeshort46 lukeshort46 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    Good two snow days to have a boyfriend.

    And enjoy the snow and each other.
    TheRealKelly TheRealKelly 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    WHY? I'm 23, to explain my story,

    I nearly got kicked out of college this time last year for innapropriate behaviour which in my eyes was like getting the death scentence for stealing an apple, as part of being allowed to stay, it was advised that I try not to get into a relationship, then I fell for this girl...
    hawaii50n1fan hawaii50n1fan 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    So Left Out...

    I want to experience what true love is... so much that it hurts! I know that my soulmate is out there, but i can't find him... and he can't find me, apparently. :-( I just feel so alone and so left out. Especially when all of my friends are happy in relationships! I am happy for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    Jakd69 Jakd69 22-25, M Jan 18

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    I'm Really Sick And Tired Of Being Single

    I'm really starting to get tired and sick of being single. Ive been single basically my whole life and im starting to lose hope of finding the one. Every time I like a guy and try to gain the courage to tell them how I feel I always get rejected. I don't know why but its really...
    Slw1992 Slw1992 22-25, F 26 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Changing My Thinking

    In regard to relationships in today's society, we are so hung up on finding the “right” person to compliment us. On the surface you might think this is a good approach, but looking at the rate of divorces and breakups versus successful lasting marriages and relationships, we...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 34 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Sigh, I'm so sad I can't stop thinking about

    being alone. I feel beyond alone all the time. I'm a great girlfriend but it hurts me so badly that nothing lasts.
    corissajane corissajane 18-21, F 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I hate it I hate it, being single sucks

    and I guess i never be loved. Or ever have that relationship or ever love someone else or have that very special moment in my life, my first ever kiss so sad
    Jstaples32 Jstaples32 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    i dont want someone who thinks im perfect,

    i want someone who knows im not and loves me anyway
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    How do you lose a battle

    that you didn't even realise you were a part of ? ... simple find a pretty woman , get talking and find her to hold one of the most beautiful traits of anyone, an intriguing personality ... then discover your friend has already begun dating her as you slowly realise that once...
    LifeofaGoon LifeofaGoon 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Blind

    There are times when I've thought it was about to begin; my heart so open wide. There were times when I thought we could be together; but in with the truth, and out with the lies! I would rather be blind, than to know my loss I would rather see nothing than your sad, sad eyes...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    princeghartey71 princeghartey71 22-25, M Jan 8

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    Tomorrow will be valentines.

    .. And yet again I don't even have a close friend let alone a date for the day. Guess I'll just have to get used to it
    autumndays32 autumndays32 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 13

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    It would be nice just to have someone around to

    do stupid simple things with. Someone to watch doctor who with, someone who gets me. Being single has allowed me time and space to be honest about what I truly want but after three years of being single, I'm kind of tired of if.
    ByFe ByFe 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Really tired of being single

    when I know I would make a good girlfriend. Because -I'm not to clingy. I give you the space you need. -I trust you until you give me a reason not too. -I'll go out and have fun with you, you wanna hang out with your friends I'll go with you if you want me too. If not I trust...
    XoAmber XoAmber 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    I don't want to be single anymore

    but I'm scared to be in a relationship and getting taken advantage of. I don't know where the good guys are near me but I'd love to find one. I don't want to be alone anymore.
    Amelia34 Amelia34 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Miss Independant

    I hate being single but everyone thinks that I am a independant succesful woman who is happy being on her own... but I'm not. I put up a huge barrier and act all strong and tough but really I would love to have someone to curl up next to everynight (other than my cat). I think...
    Bonden Bonden 22-25, F 41 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    FINDING and Keeping a Life Partner, An Interesting Article

    A good piece of advice to share and pass on to everyone.. > > FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER > > Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A. > > When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no >...
    brightonion brightonion 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Even now trawling 'adult dating' sites

    for an experience or two to help give me confidence... It's not even what I'd really like but I'll take *anything*!
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Message To My Future Girlfriend/Wife

    This is a message to my future wife/girlfriend... I don't know when I will meet you. I don't know when I will see your beautiful face for the first time. I don't know the future but I do know what I promise to give you. I promise to love you unconditionally. I promise to hold...
    TwoTearsInABucket316 TwoTearsInABucket316 31-35, M 17 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I’m tired of waking up by myself.

    I roll over and there’s plenty of room in my bed; there’s no one waiting for me in the kitchen. I’m tired of eating breakfast alone. I turn on the TV so there’s some noise while I make my food. It’s not conversation, but it’s better than silence. I’m tired of...
    hoovermp hoovermp 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Mongyy Mongyy 18-21, M Feb 14

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    I hate small talk, I'd

    rather just have some company and watch a movie or listen to music. It's nice just having someone there...
    Jakd69 Jakd69 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I'm bisexual and I'm going to fall in love.

    I'd love to have a girlfriend.
    williamshana williamshana 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I just want to be happy with the woman of my

    dream's. She doesn't have to be stunning but definitely has to have brains and be a sweetheart. A plus would be a womanly woman so I may woo her. Is that asking to much? I don't think so.
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M Jul 11, 2014

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    I'm so happy, after two years I might be in a

    great relationship with this amazing girl, we're just getting to know each other first, hope everything goes right 😁
    cinemakid93 cinemakid93 18-21, M Jan 8

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    I just think that I am doomed to single hood,

    forever! And I'm accepting it, hurtful but what can I do? There's no sense of forcing someone, or forcing for that thing to happen if it's not meant to happen. I just have to accept the fact that, there has to be someone, to be just ME.
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Float77 Float77 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Alone and No Mate In Sight

    I am a girl in her 30s had 3 relationships I have dark hair bright eyes listens to Lisa Ono & reads Paulo Coelho laughs out loud a size 6 day dreams while travelling loves the smell of freshly baked bread likes sharing her candy with the people at work I want a...
    brightonion brightonion 26-30, F 22 Responses Apr 10, 2007

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    mia957 mia957 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12, 2014

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    I'm sick of being single.

    It gets tiring, having nobody to relate to, and only being able to talk about shallow things. I get lonely at times, mostly at night. Sex is a relatively minor thing for me, but physical contact would still be nice. However, my life isn't how I want it to be yet. There's a lot...
    Unbeholden Unbeholden 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate being single so much.

    I love to cuddle and have someone to spend my days with. I hate sleeping alone, so so much. I get really lonely at night. I miss having meaningful, sensual sex instead of random, unfeeling hook-ups with guys who just want to use me. I'm a good girl; I don't cheat, I'm loyal and...
    amberalive amberalive 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    Understanding Life At 30

     Disclaimer: This is not humour. This story is about a tumour that just doesn’t seem to get out of my life. I am turning 30 in a couple of months. Now please do not shoot back with questions and statements like: When are you getting married?Are you getting married at all...
    eyes04111981 eyes04111981 31-35, M 21 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    I have been single my whole life.

    I know that I am still young. Sure being a freshman in high it's normal to be single. But I see people in relationships and they seem so happy. I'm scared of the rejection though. People don't seem to get me at all. I'm a very loving person and caring at that. I feel like I'm...
    allyarcher9898 allyarcher9898 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Sick And Tired Of Being Alone....

    I am sick and tired of being alone. I would love to be in a relationship. But I am not settling for just anyone. I have enough respect for myself to know that I want a man that is kind and loving. Respectful towards me, but wants to make sure NO ONE hurts me. But lets me do my...
    writergirl32 writergirl32 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    I'M Just

    Tired of being single I walk down the hallways every day and see happy couples and I want that because I've had ONE relationship and I swear on my life I loved her and I still do but she cheated twice and she does love me I know that too but she won't go back out with me right...
    chichin30 chichin30 26-30, M 70 Responses