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I Am Sick of Being Used

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    I'm so sick of it! They only message me asking

    for help of homework or whatever relationship problems! After they're well gone off, i realized they toke my help for granted!!!!
    LRxIce LRxIce 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Sick of Being Taken Advantage of

    I have a problem with asking family members (talking adult children here) for money they owe me.  I have issues around being assertive about this I feel they know it and take advantage of me. I feel resentful and don't know how to rectify this situation.  I also feel...
    cello cello 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2007

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    So many people on here have used me

    for nude pics (not saying I sent them), or they just think I'm "attractive." Listen, if that's what you intend on doing with me, I will block you, so don't even bother.
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    my best friend since year 8 has used me

    for all I am worth and I am fed up with it. Just now I had to finish her blog for Uni - which is due tomorrow- because she was "stuck" but even my mother could see right through it. not only did I give her the topic but she wrote things straight from my mouth and stated that...
    red1995 red1995 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I feel like I'm being used all the time,

    it makes me feel worthless like I don't mean anything. That I'm just a maid or a babysitter or a hooker. I'm just being used, but that's okay because I'm not worth it. I'm really not.... 😒 most people don't know me well enough to know that I'm not worth it......
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I feel like there is nothing I can do.

    Everyone is smarter than me and can use me just at the snap of their fingertips. I fall for it every single time and most of the time it's by my own friends. I think I can outwit them but I never can. "As transparent as a ghost," they call me. People manipulate me all the time...
    KairiRune KairiRune 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I Feel Like I May Be Getting Used.

    I am a freshman in highschool. I am dating a senior. he lives behind me, and we hangout all the time. I haven't had sex with him yet and we have been dating for a long time, he has asked, and almost gotten me there. He is SO sweet to me, he puts me first all the time. I can be...
    emilyrussell1 emilyrussell1 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    traceygx traceygx 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I don't know what's worse.

    . The fact that I feel like I'm never going to be good enough for him to love me back or the fact that he's using me because he knows I love him?
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response May 14

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    Skyfox12

    bad friends/users. we all have them right? the ones that use you and then throw you away. i've run into alot of those. i've learnt to read them first before anything can reach further. i've been able to weed out a few, maybe there still are some in my life but sooner or later...
    SkyFox12 SkyFox12 18-21, F Aug 17, 2012

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    It seriously kills me

    so much. I thought I really liked a guy, and I really thought he liked me. But now he won't talk to me after I did something that I wish I wouldn't have :/ this kind of stuff always happens to me. I'm so sick of getting heartbroken and i just want to be happy honestly
    musiclife17 musiclife17 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    They use me when they are low

    when they have no one to talk to shed their feelings which makes me care for them and when everything is okay with them they just walk away.... Why does it happen always??? Is it because am stupid???????
    Abhayabhay Abhayabhay 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I hate the fact that I have to "buy" friendship,

    i'm wasting so much on my friends never have any money left for myself. Im sick of it now, I do it cause I dont want to end up alone. I always buy them lunch or whenever they feel hungry, NOT ONCE they have ever bought me anything. Whenever I'm with my friends after school I don...
    RrTrueAllMe RrTrueAllMe 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    My girlfriend is a sl*t!

    I have been a good little girlfriend for long enough but its time to complain! She has me, to fill her p*ssy needs but than she also has a boyfriend for whenever she wants d*ck... For a while there (approx a year) I was fine with it but tbh Im kinda p*ssed off...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Every now and again I ask my friend to come over

    and she never does unless I say like wanna go to get air or some where fun and I think I'm being used it's happend before so I don't know who to trust any more. The problem is I know I should drop her as a friend but I can't she has had a huge impact on my life. What should I do...
    xXLONERXx xXLONERXx 13-15, F Jun 12

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    West

    It appalls me that a person, considering my recent encounter with a person who lied to me and used me for a front to pretend they have emotions as a human being. In knowing that, STILL decided to lie and use me for sexual means. ****. You, West, for your lies and manipulation...
    toffeeflower toffeeflower 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Over It!

    Honestly.. All my life I've been used and abused. No guy EVER likes me for ME! All they see me as is a piece of meat. They just all like me because of my body, it's Soo annoying. Is it me? Do I come off that way? Idk.. Like I have such an AHHH-MAZING personality, but no...
    AnqelicaP AnqelicaP 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I'm Not Your Personal Therapist, I Have Feelings Too.

    Sometimes you just decide that enough is enough. In my life, every person that I have ever met, has used me for comfort. In real life, and on the internet. I understand that I am a good listener, I understand that I am non judgmental and forgiving. I understand that it is easy to...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    I am done being used!

    ! Only good enough when someone isn't around!! We were friends we talked I always listened when you two were fighting!!! And now everything is fine and dandy and your no where to be found!!! I'm not here for your convenience and no longer will!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Her.

    I wonder whether they'll be a time when I won't just be the girl on the side. The one you ditch when your girlfriend finally comes around. The one you use to impress your friends. The one you never want to speak to again.
    morningbelle101 morningbelle101 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    My ex uses me and it hurts

    and rubs in my face that he is happy moved on. Why do I let him use me. When I have him briefly I'm happy then he leaves and I'm devastated. Every time. Why can't I stop. Someone help me.
    me2282 me2282 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    Taken For Granted.

    Recently my sister ended up homeless due to her inconceivable spending on things she did not need. She had a partner who worked and earned an honest income, when I stayed with her and her partner over a year ago in their home they treated me like dirt, I was thrown into the cold...
    libragirl29 libragirl29 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Iv been used by guys

    why cant guys like me & thats it .. can i just find that one amazing guy . . . ? Pls Find Me Quicker 🙍.. Why Do SOME Guys Use Girls? Can there be more nice guys around here ? i just want to find that right guy for me thats all i want and ill be happy again
    tatianax3 tatianax3 16-17, F Jun 14

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    In college, there's obv going to be those

    who are without... But sheesh, just because I have a car and exceptionally helpful parents does not mean I'm not struggling. I'm learning how to budget and manage my money better.... I can't just be dishing out rides.... These people don't even have the decency to show gratitude...
    littlemissplur littlemissplur 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I'm On The Brink Of Exploding Due To Others.

    I feel that everyone is drifting away from me. Eversince my luck became good these past few months. It seems a though people just don't want to be there for me anymore. I don't flaunt with my mouth like them. But when I flaunt with my actions, they say that I am boastful. I hate...
    fredsimpson fredsimpson 22-25 3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    I Am An Enabler

    I hate the feelings when I discover that I have been used again and again.  I know that I am letting it happen to me but am powerless to stop it.  I hurt so bad that I just want to run and hide from the world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    My friend asked me to drive him

    and his girlfriend to a place an hour away and now were waiting outside some building for god knows why. I only got myself to blame because I didn't even argue about it.
    royalanarchist royalanarchist 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Im seeing someone, and hes great.

    . so great! he treats me so well.. the only problem with him is he doesnt want a relationship till summer.. so right now its just sex, and dont get me wrong. its great.. but i like him.. and what if he meets someone else amazing? can i hear some advice? is he using me? am i being...
    tiannadianee tiannadianee 18-21, F Feb 21

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    GuccioGucci GuccioGucci 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Liars...

    I hate being used, and everyone who used me - there out of my life now, I've usually just overlooked them being users and thought well I can't exactly stop being 'friends' with them cause I barely have anyone anyway. But I don't care no more. I only get messages or texts if I...
    brokenalways brokenalways 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    I was seeing this guy

    and he kept meeting up with him and having sex then I realised that he was using me, he only used to message me when he wanted to meet up and have sex now his never replies to my messages and it really hurts cause I started to get deep feelings for him , now I find it hard to...
    anikaxo anikaxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I need someone who I can talk to about break ups

    and boy drama! And someone who I can trust!!!
    AbbyRoseM AbbyRoseM 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    "You are so hot!" You say

    that like it's a good thing. This guy I liked for 4 years now recently started talking to me again. Long story short, he ended up kissing me (without feelings). And every time we talk it's only about making out. I feel so ashamed of myself. He never replies to me when I just...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 15 Responses May 14

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    Stop Squeezing Me!

    I don't like being in the middle of things, sandwiched in between peoples problems with others. The stress from constantly hearing all of it just isn't worth it anymore. Moral of this story is ...Don't work for drama filled friends.
    VoteForPedro VoteForPedro 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    So I been seeing this man

    for a while now and he moves things inside of me ! I love being around him, joking , playing juss being us ! I love the way he kisses me, hugs me, holds me etc. But Idk how to express my feelings bc I'm afraid they might qet hurt aqain! Can some one help me out please?????
    lizmartinez lizmartinez 26-30, F May 14

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    You Were Never Friends (UPDATED)

    My "friends" don't know I exist. They would rather drink every weekend, hide their cars at my house and use me as a safe house so their parents don't know what they are really doing. They are not typically dependable people and use me as a way to get around to most places because...
    CarlyOnline CarlyOnline 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2012

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    I was in a party with a guy

    who I thought liked me. He was my first kiss. Weird thing is, I didn't know he'd be there. We started talking last April then stopped at the end of May, and he broke my heart. Then, suddenly I see him at a party. He grinned at me, and I was shaking, and I was actually about to...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F Jun 12

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    Whats wrong with me? Why is it that he's the only guy i cant say no to. I need someone to explain to me what they think is going on because i cant take not knowing. Me & this guy...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm so sick of being used. For anything and everything some how someone uses. Anything from borrowing money to hiding things from others and it just gets so annoying and I don't...
    mlhenry mlhenry 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F Aug 26

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    I want to have one day where I cry the whole entire day so I don't have to cry anymore for the rest of my life. But with that I want to be held while crying so I know that I am...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Aug 23

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    Usually I'm a very happy person. But not today. No I'm suicidal. I'm just sad. 7 years being friends or so called friends with someone. And they only stayed around cause you loved...
    ozzy007 ozzy007 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Every ******* person at my school that I develop a relationship with stabs me in the ******* back I am just not gonna try anymore **** this Why do I even live if nobody wants to...
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    But everyone is a user anymore and no one is a true friend
    MaggieBlack MaggieBlack 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Ya! People that message me if you want to be my friend good but if you just want to see me naked or be my boyfriend it won't work! I'm taken!!
    kaiovinicius kaiovinicius 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I live in a city that is very expensive and only work in a fairly low paid industry. long story short I cant live with family and I am a Christian who believes it is better for me...
    funkykristi funkykristi 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    it turns me on to think of just trying to see if a guys seed will make it to the finish line. our dna mixing to form this new life. the process of it all turns me on. him thrusting...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    I hate always finishing last and being used I guess it's my own fault cuz I can't say no or be mean I can be honest but I can't be the complete jerk who takes advantage of whoever...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I don't like being used. At all
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Aug 23

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    i love being used like property i dont know why
    MoodyMegan69 MoodyMegan69 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    I have never had a real relationship in my life I was usually just being used or taken advantage of. Don't get me wrong I'm a pretty girl. No kim kardashion by far but I'm fine. I...
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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