I Am Sick of Being Used

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    i am just so sick of becoming friends with

    people like close friends i give my everything to them get really attached talk to them for nights straight really bond really care about them and then they meet someone they fall for them they treat me like complete trash and just say nice words so it doesnt seem like they dont...
    LemonSyrup LemonSyrup
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    When people only message you

    because they want to see your body or bang it... I'm sick of it.
    sweetdisaster24 sweetdisaster24
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2015

    there are two kinds of people in this world.

    users and the ones being used.since it goes against my nature to use people, I am to be used, right? well I giess everyone serves a purpose. lol
    deleted deleted
    Aug 28, 2015

    Im seeing someone, and hes great.

    . so great! he treats me so well.. the only problem with him is he doesnt want a relationship till summer.. so right now its just sex, and dont get me wrong. its great.. but i like him.. and what if he meets someone else amazing? can i hear some advice? is he using me? am i being...
    Roseyyheart Roseyyheart
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014

    I Am An Enabler

    I hate the feelings when I discover that I have been used again and again.  I know that I am letting it happen to me but am powerless to stop it.  I hurt so bad that I just want to run and hide from the world.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 1, 2008

    Taken For Granted.

    Recently my sister ended up homeless due to her inconceivable spending on things she did not need. She had a partner who worked and earned an honest income, when I stayed with her and her partner over a year ago in their home they treated me like dirt, I was thrown into the cold...
    libragirl29 libragirl29
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2012

    I hate the fact that I have to "buy" friendship,

    i'm wasting so much on my friends never have any money left for myself. Im sick of it now, I do it cause I dont want to end up alone. I always buy them lunch or whenever they feel hungry, NOT ONCE they have ever bought me anything. Whenever I'm with my friends after school I don...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    I need someone who I can talk to about break ups

    and boy drama! And someone who I can trust!!!
    AbbyRoseM AbbyRoseM
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014


    bad friends/users. we all have them right? the ones that use you and then throw you away. i've run into alot of those. i've learnt to read them first before anything can reach further. i've been able to weed out a few, maybe there still are some in my life but sooner or later...
    SkyFox12 SkyFox12
    18-21, F
    Aug 17, 2012

    Iv been used by guys

    why cant guys like me & thats it .. can i just find that one amazing guy . . . ? Pls Find Me Quicker 🙍.. Why Do SOME Guys Use Girls? Can there be more nice guys around here ? i just want to find that right guy for me thats all i want and ill be happy again
    tatianax3 tatianax3
    18-21, F
    Jun 14, 2014

    Over It!

    Honestly.. All my life I've been used and abused. No guy EVER likes me for ME! All they see me as is a piece of meat. They just all like me because of my body, it's Soo annoying. Is it me? Do I come off that way? Idk.. Like I have such an AHHH-MAZING personality, but no...
    AnqelicaP AnqelicaP
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2013

    Yup......She probably banged

    so she thinks she's queen for 10 minutes.... Keep staring at the fat pig until I give the order
    whatisthat51 whatisthat51
    51-55, F
    Nov 10, 2014

    I've... Broken... And I realize it.

    .. I don't see value in other people anymore. I legitimately want to be rude, mean and overbearing just to cause others pain which I've begun to enjoy. I was disturbed by my anger before... I'd been getting in disputes at work for little reason, almost got fired last week... I...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    My girlfriend is a sl*t!

    I have been a good little girlfriend for long enough but its time to complain! She has me, to fill her p*ssy needs but than she also has a boyfriend for whenever she wants d*ck... For a while there (approx a year) I was fine with it but tbh Im kinda p*ssed off...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I'm tired of it. Granted I brought on myself

    but it's always the same thing. I desire more then this. It's a struggle.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 15, 2015


    I hate being used, and everyone who used me - there out of my life now, I've usually just overlooked them being users and thought well I can't exactly stop being 'friends' with them cause I barely have anyone anyway. But I don't care no more. I only get messages or texts if I...
    brokenalways brokenalways
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2012

    I get used all the time

    if I loan someone money once or twice. They always seem to com back to me and ask for money when I have to let them go out of my life. They know how to contact me. I have earned to say "NO" or just have to ignore them. However, it is like I have $$$$ written on my forehead or my...
    wisdom26 wisdom26
    46-50, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    In college, there's obv going to be those

    who are without... But sheesh, just because I have a car and exceptionally helpful parents does not mean I'm not struggling. I'm learning how to budget and manage my money better.... I can't just be dishing out rides.... These people don't even have the decency to show gratitude...
    littlemissplur littlemissplur
    22-25, F
    Mar 28, 2014

    I'm so sick of it! They only message me asking

    for help of homework or whatever relationship problems! After they're well gone off, i realized they toke my help for granted!!!!
    LRxIce LRxIce
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    So many people on here have used me

    for nude pics (not saying I sent them), or they just think I'm "attractive." Listen, if that's what you intend on doing with me, I will block you, so don't even bother.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

    It seriously kills me

    so much. I thought I really liked a guy, and I really thought he liked me. But now he won't talk to me after I did something that I wish I wouldn't have :/ this kind of stuff always happens to me. I'm so sick of getting heartbroken and i just want to be happy honestly
    musiclife17 musiclife17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    So I been seeing this man

    for a while now and he moves things inside of me ! I love being around him, joking , playing juss being us ! I love the way he kisses me, hugs me, holds me etc. But Idk how to express my feelings bc I'm afraid they might qet hurt aqain! Can some one help me out please?????
    lizmartinez lizmartinez
    26-30, F
    May 14, 2014


    I wonder whether they'll be a time when I won't just be the girl on the side. The one you ditch when your girlfriend finally comes around. The one you use to impress your friends. The one you never want to speak to again.
    morningbelle101 morningbelle101
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2013

    For 4 years now, I've been used by literally

    every person I've come into contact with. I just turned 18, so life should be great for me, right? New opportunities, college, all that good stuff. Well, it's unfortunately the exact opposite. Friends, girlfriends, everyone I've met has used me. Almost ALWAYS it's to give them...
    deathknight3000 deathknight3000
    36-40, M
    Feb 24, 2016

    I'm Not Your Personal Therapist, I Have Feelings Too.

    Sometimes you just decide that enough is enough. In my life, every person that I have ever met, has used me for comfort. In real life, and on the internet. I understand that I am a good listener, I understand that I am non judgmental and forgiving. I understand that it is easy to...
    ForestRain ForestRain
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

    I'm On The Brink Of Exploding Due To Others.

    I feel that everyone is drifting away from me. Eversince my luck became good these past few months. It seems a though people just don't want to be there for me anymore. I don't flaunt with my mouth like them. But when I flaunt with my actions, they say that I am boastful. I hate...
    fredsimpson fredsimpson
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

    "You are so hot!" You say

    that like it's a good thing. This guy I liked for 4 years now recently started talking to me again. Long story short, he ended up kissing me (without feelings). And every time we talk it's only about making out. I feel so ashamed of myself. He never replies to me when I just...
    defi4nce defi4nce
    18-21, F
    14 Responses May 14, 2014

    I don't know what's worse.

    . The fact that I feel like I'm never going to be good enough for him to love me back or the fact that he's using me because he knows I love him?
    defi4nce defi4nce
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2014

    I hate being used again by my ex.

    She still ignore me and doesn't want me to spend time with her. She only talk to me when she is sad !!!!!! When I'm sad and try to share my feeling she trying to have an excuse and leave me.
    LonelyKittenZ LonelyKittenZ
    18-21, M
    Dec 13, 2015

    I'm sick of always being used by girls.

    ... I was in a relationship for three years with this girl. We loved each other greatly. She left me because I couldn't support the both of us. We still loved each other and for a year we dated other people and would hang out on occasion. She told me she needed to work on...
    larr4208 larr4208
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2016

    Sick of Being Taken Advantage of

    I have a problem with asking family members (talking adult children here) for money they owe me.  I have issues around being assertive about this I feel they know it and take advantage of me. I feel resentful and don't know how to rectify this situation.  I also feel...
    cello cello
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2007

    I feel like I'm being used all the time,

    it makes me feel worthless like I don't mean anything. That I'm just a maid or a babysitter or a hooker. I'm just being used, but that's okay because I'm not worth it. I'm really not.... 😒 most people don't know me well enough to know that I'm not worth it......
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

    I am done being used!

    ! Only good enough when someone isn't around!! We were friends we talked I always listened when you two were fighting!!! And now everything is fine and dandy and your no where to be found!!! I'm not here for your convenience and no longer will!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2014

    I feel like there is nothing I can do.

    Everyone is smarter than me and can use me just at the snap of their fingertips. I fall for it every single time and most of the time it's by my own friends. I think I can outwit them but I never can. "As transparent as a ghost," they call me. People manipulate me all the time...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    Every now and again I ask my friend to come over

    and she never does unless I say like wanna go to get air or some where fun and I think I'm being used it's happend before so I don't know who to trust any more. The problem is I know I should drop her as a friend but I can't she has had a huge impact on my life. What should I do...
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2014

    I was in a party with a guy

    who I thought liked me. He was my first kiss. Weird thing is, I didn't know he'd be there. We started talking last April then stopped at the end of May, and he broke my heart. Then, suddenly I see him at a party. He grinned at me, and I was shaking, and I was actually about to...
    defi4nce defi4nce
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2014

    im fed up of being taken advantage,

    and being used. most people only remember me when they need me for something, why i cant find people who truly love me and the ones who i can count on.
    kheira kheira
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2015

    You Were Never Friends (UPDATED)

    My "friends" don't know I exist. They would rather drink every weekend, hide their cars at my house and use me as a safe house so their parents don't know what they are really doing. They are not typically dependable people and use me as a way to get around to most places because...
    CarlyOnline CarlyOnline
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2012

    My ex uses me and it hurts

    and rubs in my face that he is happy moved on. Why do I let him use me. When I have him briefly I'm happy then he leaves and I'm devastated. Every time. Why can't I stop. Someone help me.
    me2282 me2282
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    I feel really sick of talking to guys

    because a lot of them just seem to want me for sex. I guess that's just kind of high school guys. I have a lot of guy friends that are hella chill with me as a friend but I know that with other girls that just want to be fwb. And it feels like most of the guys I talk to just...
    Imjustme73 Imjustme73
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    Just not a good day for me.

    ..I am just so heart broken and I have died inside...I was used and when I wasn't any more use, I was just thrown away
    LonelyStranger1 LonelyStranger1
    18-21, F
    10 Responses May 5, 2015

    I Feel Like I May Be Getting Used.

    I am a freshman in highschool. I am dating a senior. he lives behind me, and we hangout all the time. I haven't had sex with him yet and we have been dating for a long time, he has asked, and almost gotten me there. He is SO sweet to me, he puts me first all the time. I can be...
    emilyrussell1 emilyrussell1
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2012
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