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I Am Sick of Being Used

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    Stop Squeezing Me!

    I don't like being in the middle of things, sandwiched in between peoples problems with others. The stress from constantly hearing all of it just isn't worth it anymore. Moral of this story is ...Don't work for drama filled friends.
    VoteForPedro VoteForPedro 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Used And Manipulated

    Is that all I am to you? A mere Puppet, just pull my strings and Ill do what you say? Break free If only it was that easy. Why do I have to be the one thats played with, led on to believe that Im worth something? Then after youre done with me, you cast me aside, beat me down...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    Im seeing someone, and hes great.

    . so great! he treats me so well.. the only problem with him is he doesnt want a relationship till summer.. so right now its just sex, and dont get me wrong. its great.. but i like him.. and what if he meets someone else amazing? can i hear some advice? is he using me? am i being...
    tiannadianee tiannadianee 18-21, F Feb 21

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    Liars...

    I hate being used, and everyone who used me - there out of my life now, I've usually just overlooked them being users and thought well I can't exactly stop being 'friends' with them cause I barely have anyone anyway. But I don't care no more. I only get messages or texts if I...
    brokenalways brokenalways 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    My friend asked me to drive him

    and his girlfriend to a place an hour away and now were waiting outside some building for god knows why. I only got myself to blame because I didn't even argue about it.
    royalanarchist royalanarchist 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I am done being used!

    ! Only good enough when someone isn't around!! We were friends we talked I always listened when you two were fighting!!! And now everything is fine and dandy and your no where to be found!!! I'm not here for your convenience and no longer will!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Get Out Of My Life And Stay Out.

    You have a tattoo in memory of your brother, "These colours never run". The only thing that runs in your family is being a total loser. I found out on my birthday of all days that you didn't care. No card, no present, not even a simple text message to say "Happy Birthday". A...
    Mimimanxcat Mimimanxcat 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2011

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    In college, there's obv going to be those

    who are without... But sheesh, just because I have a car and exceptionally helpful parents does not mean I'm not struggling. I'm learning how to budget and manage my money better.... I can't just be dishing out rides.... These people don't even have the decency to show gratitude...
    littlemissplur littlemissplur 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Being Used

    Being used,Had enough,Sick of it,It's gotta stop,If it don't,Watch out!
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Jun 6, 2012

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    I was seeing this guy

    and he kept meeting up with him and having sex then I realised that he was using me, he only used to message me when he wanted to meet up and have sex now his never replies to my messages and it really hurts cause I started to get deep feelings for him , now I find it hard to...
    anikaxo anikaxo 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Taken For Granted.

    Recently my sister ended up homeless due to her inconceivable spending on things she did not need. She had a partner who worked and earned an honest income, when I stayed with her and her partner over a year ago in their home they treated me like dirt, I was thrown into the cold...
    libragirl29 libragirl29 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2012

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    Skyfox12

    bad friends/users. we all have them right? the ones that use you and then throw you away. i've run into alot of those. i've learnt to read them first before anything can reach further. i've been able to weed out a few, maybe there still are some in my life but sooner or later...
    SkyFox12 SkyFox12 18-21, F Aug 17, 2012

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    My girlfriend is a sl*t!

    I have been a good little girlfriend for long enough but its time to complain! She has me, to fill her p*ssy needs but than she also has a boyfriend for whenever she wants d*ck... For a while there (approx a year) I was fine with it but tbh Im kinda p*ssed off...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    I Feel Like I May Be Getting Used.

    I am a freshman in highschool. I am dating a senior. he lives behind me, and we hangout all the time. I haven't had sex with him yet and we have been dating for a long time, he has asked, and almost gotten me there. He is SO sweet to me, he puts me first all the time. I can be...
    emilyrussell1 emilyrussell1 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Beyond Sick Of It.

    I gave my boyfriend $400 dollars to help his aunt with bills with no thank you. I just bought EVERYTHING to fix up a room for him to move out of his aunts because she kicked him out. I spent $1,000 with no thank you, Everytime we go out to eat or go shopping he expects me to pay...
    jeepgirl912 jeepgirl912 18-21 1 Response Jun 26, 2012

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    my best friend since year 8 has used me

    for all I am worth and I am fed up with it. Just now I had to finish her blog for Uni - which is due tomorrow- because she was "stuck" but even my mother could see right through it. not only did I give her the topic but she wrote things straight from my mouth and stated that...
    red1995 red1995 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I'm Not Your Personal Therapist, I Have Feelings Too.

    Sometimes you just decide that enough is enough. In my life, every person that I have ever met, has used me for comfort. In real life, and on the internet. I understand that I am a good listener, I understand that I am non judgmental and forgiving. I understand that it is easy to...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Sick of Being Taken Advantage of

    I have a problem with asking family members (talking adult children here) for money they owe me.  I have issues around being assertive about this I feel they know it and take advantage of me. I feel resentful and don't know how to rectify this situation.  I also feel...
    cello cello 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2007

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    I hate the fact that I have to "buy" friendship,

    i'm wasting so much on my friends never have any money left for myself. Im sick of it now, I do it cause I dont want to end up alone. I always buy them lunch or whenever they feel hungry, NOT ONCE they have ever bought me anything. Whenever I'm with my friends after school I don...
    RrTrueAllMe RrTrueAllMe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I'm On The Brink Of Exploding Due To Others.

    I feel that everyone is drifting away from me. Eversince my luck became good these past few months. It seems a though people just don't want to be there for me anymore. I don't flaunt with my mouth like them. But when I flaunt with my actions, they say that I am boastful. I hate...
    fredsimpson fredsimpson 22-25 3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    You Were Never Friends (UPDATED)

    My "friends" don't know I exist. They would rather drink every weekend, hide their cars at my house and use me as a safe house so their parents don't know what they are really doing. They are not typically dependable people and use me as a way to get around to most places because...
    CarlyOnline CarlyOnline 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2012

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    Her.

    I wonder whether they'll be a time when I won't just be the girl on the side. The one you ditch when your girlfriend finally comes around. The one you use to impress your friends. The one you never want to speak to again.
    morningbelle101 morningbelle101 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    I Am An Enabler

    I hate the feelings when I discover that I have been used again and again.  I know that I am letting it happen to me but am powerless to stop it.  I hurt so bad that I just want to run and hide from the world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    West

    It appalls me that a person, considering my recent encounter with a person who lied to me and used me for a front to pretend they have emotions as a human being. In knowing that, STILL decided to lie and use me for sexual means. ****. You, West, for your lies and manipulation...
    toffeeflower toffeeflower 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    nklein nklein 36-40, F Apr 11

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    People use me all the time, it seems that I can not say No!
    cowboy331 cowboy331 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Ive been used mostly bc of how i look so people tell me they like me and lead me on then tell me they love me and soon want to get sum from me:/ ive been used alot, hurt alot...
    LovingLesbian LovingLesbian 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I used to be to overly obsessed with materialistic endeavors and open to anyone and almost everything, after being used for this I have changed dramatically and no longer intend to...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M Mar 29

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    Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how I used to weigh 210 pounds. And when I think about that, it makes me hate the person I see in the mirror, and it makes me want to...
    Technickcolor Technickcolor 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I feel stupid for trying to seek out other people who could tolerate me, but I miss the sense of companionship. Lately, I kind of need it. It sucks being used to being alone, then...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Apr 4

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other to bits but last June his visa ran out and he had to go back to his country I told him I would wait and that some...
    xbubblesxboo xbubblesxboo 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I was single for 7 years I loved all the wrong ones and probably pushed away a few good ones and now I found myself in a relationship that I got pushed into by not pushing away...
    lulucrazyhead lulucrazyhead 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I am getting so sick of other people. I'm sick of being mistreated, I'm tired of fighting, I'm tired of trying to salvage relationships. I don't know what it is that I'm doing...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    It Was My Mission to Never have dad hurt the others when I was younger. There are 5 in my family, 3 girls (all born first, I'm 2nd oldest), and 2 boys. We weren't an overly...
    maqeurious maqeurious 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    If your going to lie to me then whatever relationship we had is over.I used to sit there and take it but not I'm sick and tired of lies.So i don't care if it's the tiniest lie it...
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I'm just sick and tired of it all. The feelings and being so emotionally sensitive all the time. The mood swings and not being happy for long. The stupid thoughts of you and I and...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I'm sick of just being useless completely just being a by stander I'm sick of it I'm going to change now and forever I'm going to help anyone I can I love everyone and if you have...
    Life0fTheParty Life0fTheParty 16-17, M Apr 4

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    I'm sick if being bullied of being frowned soon or being told I'm not good enough for my family... I seriously want to leave it all but I know my little sister needs me when she's...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Whoever asks me how I am.. I say I am fine, and yet I am so sick (flu) and staying home alone. My ex used to take good care of me, and I didn't want him fussing over me, and now I...
    Aileen73 Aileen73 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm tired from crying from cutting from being lonley from fake friends from lies from all the dramas from the pain from wishing to die from breathing from blinking from smiling and...
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been sick for two days and I'm done with it :((((
    iflipppppp iflipppppp 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I'm sick and tired of feeling like crap every single day. I'm sick and tired of being alive. I hate this feeling and it never, never goes away.
    mysteryhatcat mysteryhatcat 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I m so crew helmed by work. I work so much over time for 3 years that I am serious lack of sleep and have drained out all my energy. I look so sick and tired that everyone in the...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm trying to be strong, but really it's not that easy.. Yeah maybe I vent on here "too much" but if you even knew the half of what was going on with my physically & emotionally...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I just left my new job because I'm sick. No, I don't regret it because the customers and my coworkers don't deserve to have a sick girl serving them. But it makes me feel guilty. I...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It is what it is. I am sick of being single. pretty much all throughout high school i pretty much never had a girlfriend. at least longer than two weeks in 4 years. I wasnt really...
    ouslecas0 ouslecas0 18-21, M Mar 25

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