I Am Sick Of Doing The Pursuing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    I Use To Be A Pursuer..

    Its all in your mindset people, If I meet a girl I lay my cards right away, Very direct from the get go.  there are lots that love the thrill of the chase and we they do allow you to catch them, then you get freezer burn from the cold, all done with those twisted souls, Be...
    Jackk45 Jackk45
    46-50, M
    May 22, 2012

    Taken

    Every girl i've eer liked, i've always had to persue. Everytime i've been told, I'm not really interested in you that way. And anyone else i think i could like, is always already taken. Why the hell can i not find a single person. Why is it fi i'm actually "kinda" good looking...
    kahosrebellion kahosrebellion
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

    I Want To Be Persued For A Change!

    No matter who it is: family, friends, men...feels I'm always the one doing the work of keeping in touch and they are all like "ladies in waiting". What am I not worth the effort?!? Lazy little bastards. Came. Vented. Left. :)
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2012

    Sometimes It HasThe Opposite Effect

    I tend to come on strong when I am attracted to anyone for any reason. But I must stop that. Some men don't like it. And the more you do it, the more they back away. If you like me, then chase me. Otherwise, I will not waste my energy on someone who doesn't care enough.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

    Friends And Family

    I'm sick of pursuing my friends and family. Is there anything wrong with them calling me and not me calling them? Don't they know me by now? I will make myself quite available if they want to see me. I guess this is exactly what they are thinking too.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

    I'm Seriously Done!

    I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before...
    shadoweyes shadoweyes
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2010

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