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I Am Sick Of Doing The Pursuing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 153 People

    I Use To Be A Pursuer..

    Its all in your mindset people, If I meet a girl I lay my cards right away, Very direct from the get go.  there are lots that love the thrill of the chase and we they do allow you to catch them, then you get freezer burn from the cold, all done with those twisted souls, Be...
    Jackk45 Jackk45 46-50, M May 22, 2012

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    Sometimes It HasThe Opposite Effect

    I tend to come on strong when I am attracted to anyone for any reason. But I must stop that. Some men don't like it. And the more you do it, the more they back away. If you like me, then chase me. Otherwise, I will not waste my energy on someone who doesn't care enough.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Friends And Family

    I'm sick of pursuing my friends and family. Is there anything wrong with them calling me and not me calling them? Don't they know me by now? I will make myself quite available if they want to see me. I guess this is exactly what they are thinking too.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Well

    not so much sick,just ******* lazy.sometimes
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Want To Be Persued For A Change!

    No matter who it is: family, friends, men...feels I'm always the one doing the work of keeping in touch and they are all like "ladies in waiting". What am I not worth the effort?!? Lazy little bastards. Came. Vented. Left. :)
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Taken

    Every girl i've eer liked, i've always had to persue. Everytime i've been told, I'm not really interested in you that way. And anyone else i think i could like, is always already taken. Why the hell can i not find a single person. Why is it fi i'm actually "kinda" good looking...
    kahosrebellion kahosrebellion 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I'm Seriously Done!

    I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before...
    shadoweyes shadoweyes 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2010

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    My class decided to skip school tomorrow and I've been getting spam messages all afternoon cuz they won't shut up with their stupid texting group chat and apparantely they don't...
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    This has been happening the past couple months. (Before anyone asks, I am not pregnant) No matter what I eat, whether its a small amount or a bigger amount, I feel sick. I use to...
    beautifulgoodbye beautifulgoodbye 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Dad called me down stairs He told me to take the cough drops out of the bag. I see. Cough drops and candy... candy :P I said "You didnt get me candy?" He said. "your sick bad girl...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    NOBOYS NOBOYS 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    My husband finally said it. That he wants a divorce.... It isn't the first time. He said it more then 20 times... We were in bed & like all the other nights i hugged him from...
    me992 me992 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 15

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    SO MY IN LAWS ARE DRIVING ME NUTS. FIRST HIS FATHER IS THE BIG ISSUE.VERY SELFISH,IMMATURE, AND INCONSIDERATE. HE LEAVES MY MIL IN THE HOUSE ALONE ALL DAY AND SPENDS AT HIS TIME AT...
    rave28 rave28 22-25, F Sep 15

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    I care so much about everyone and everything and I'll gladly help with more than enough patience, but I just feel really sad when I give all of my kindness to someone and show them...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F Sep 21

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    I'm tired of it.. Seems like I'm pleasing other persons around me and makes me sick.
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Dammit. Alternate plan for the day - stay home, in bed, not talking, and force down a bunch of stuff I wouldn't normal consume in concentrated doses. I'm not a baby when I am sick...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Now I am set back in my plans for the week. I can't go out and look for jobs like this. I can't even focus. I had to cancel all of my social plans for the week since job hunting...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    disasterland disasterland 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I'm so sick of trying So sick of crying But on the inside I'm dying
    WhySufferxx WhySufferxx 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I hate being sick. Now for some reason, I've been sick (cold, flu) for past two weeks. It's so horrible. I've been few days at work and tried to live my life, but it just doesn't...
    ddaa0 ddaa0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    My dad has been blind for almost 3 years. This has affected me in ways i would've never even thought could affect me. Everyday he gets mad at every single thing me or my mom or 10...
    angelinamaria angelinamaria 13-15, F Sep 13

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    I'm contemplating on whether j should watch catching fire on netflix while laying here and being sick, or just lay here and be sick
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Sep 18

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    Not really lol This is just the closest title I can get to what I want to say.. What I really wanted for my experience title is "I feel sick when I see sexy things".. I mean, it's...
    WouldyeKindly WouldyeKindly 13-15, T Sep 18

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    Totally always get sick, even now I'm kinda nauseous. Motion Sickness I had it bad too.
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F a week ago

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    So I woke up today sick. My temperature is 38c and everyone is asleep I went to the toilet and called my dad. I won't go to school today. I want my big sis she the only one who...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I am so very tired of being in physical pain!!! My neck and base of my skull feels like a sledge hammer hit me. And I know my family has to be sick of hearing me saying "my neck...
    BohoBeAchMom BohoBeAchMom 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    I have shared a story in "I am sick of being single" a couple of months ago. And here I am again! I'm still sick of being single. Not to boast my trumpet but I think I am a nice...
    AmyL0ve AmyL0ve 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So sick of people saying things that aren't true about me after I open up to them. So done with even considering a relationship right now. All I end up getting is accused of...
    violingirl45 violingirl45 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Why do people think that the world revolves around them!!! Everyone else's problems don't matter as long as you're okay, sick of people like this so bloody selfish
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I don't get sick, dammit! This is not ok with me. Also could be that I just quit smoking after accidentally chain smoking over the weekend. Bah!
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F Sep 2

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    Well, I just went into my mothers drawers, because she has some Rennie, (which is used when you feel sick/have bad acid), and guess what I found? A Big, pink vibrator. Someone kill...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I think I got good poisoning from the sushi place I went to and now I'm like really sick. Everyone who reads this should sing me soft kitty.
    oxoAlbertaoxo oxoAlbertaoxo 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I'm so sick I can't even eat my stomach is burning now I don't know what to do with it hurts me so much :(
    jumanachan jumanachan 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Still feeling sick this morning, at work trying not to puke, wishing for sleep. May leave early May have to stay, maybe I'll squeeze a nap in
    CookE114 CookE114 22-25, F Sep 9

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    can't go outside, can't be with my friends, can't work without sneezing or coughing.. and worst i can't kiss my B.F cause he might get sick too!!!!! -____- i really hate it!!!!!
    redfoxylady18 redfoxylady18 18-21, F Sep 9

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    I'm sick in bed and feel horrible.. I need some cheering up :(
    dsasl dsasl 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    My husband of almost 13 years has been a diabetic for almost 11 years and he got very sick about a year ago and has been diagnosed with Severe Gastroparesis. We have 3 amazing...
    Jewel1201 Jewel1201 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I had a spark of hope last month. But the tears put it out. I'm so tired of coming back to the pain. It's like how they say you are in the woods without a compass. I circle back...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    No kidding - parents called it the "boo boo sickle"...
    Jacques0041 Jacques0041 46-50, M Sep 10

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    Not exactly true title but close. I am sickened that there are so many perverts and pedophiles that respond to the children in sexually suggestive ways.
    don0063 don0063 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    I can't go to the football game tonight because I'm sick😭 Omfg. I'm so mad rn.
    xxsamelovexx xxsamelovexx 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 12

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    Super sick :(( with lots of assignments to do
    FlyMeToTheMoon708 FlyMeToTheMoon708 18-21, F 1 Response