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I Am Sick Of Doing The Pursuing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 153 People

    I'm Seriously Done!

    I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before...
    shadoweyes shadoweyes 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2010

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    Friends And Family

    I'm sick of pursuing my friends and family. Is there anything wrong with them calling me and not me calling them? Don't they know me by now? I will make myself quite available if they want to see me. I guess this is exactly what they are thinking too.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Sometimes It HasThe Opposite Effect

    I tend to come on strong when I am attracted to anyone for any reason. But I must stop that. Some men don't like it. And the more you do it, the more they back away. If you like me, then chase me. Otherwise, I will not waste my energy on someone who doesn't care enough.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Well

    not so much sick,just ******* lazy.sometimes
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Taken

    Every girl i've eer liked, i've always had to persue. Everytime i've been told, I'm not really interested in you that way. And anyone else i think i could like, is always already taken. Why the hell can i not find a single person. Why is it fi i'm actually "kinda" good looking...
    kahosrebellion kahosrebellion 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Use To Be A Pursuer..

    Its all in your mindset people, If I meet a girl I lay my cards right away, Very direct from the get go.  there are lots that love the thrill of the chase and we they do allow you to catch them, then you get freezer burn from the cold, all done with those twisted souls, Be...
    Jackk45 Jackk45 46-50, M May 22, 2012

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    I Want To Be Persued For A Change!

    No matter who it is: family, friends, men...feels I'm always the one doing the work of keeping in touch and they are all like "ladies in waiting". What am I not worth the effort?!? Lazy little bastards. Came. Vented. Left. :)
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    ...... by people who know sweet FA. Is it a new fashion to think you're an expert in everything? I don't even think I'm an 'expert' in things I've been doing well for years. They...
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    I refuse to tell my family when I'm sick.. After 6th grade I never stayed home from school sick. In my mind, being sick is being weak & I can't let my family see my weak.. Idk why...
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    tonysflame tonysflame 31-35 1 Response Oct 9

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    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F Oct 12

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    technozy technozy 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    aliv12 aliv12 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My life sucks. I am stressful, and I cannot sleep. So my black eye circle become dark. What the hell am I doing?
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    Totally always get sick, even now I'm kinda nauseous. Motion Sickness I had it bad too.
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F Sep 24

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    So I woke up today sick. My temperature is 38c and everyone is asleep I went to the toilet and called my dad. I won't go to school today. I want my big sis she the only one who...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F Sep 27

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    I am so very tired of being in physical pain!!! My neck and base of my skull feels like a sledge hammer hit me. And I know my family has to be sick of hearing me saying "my neck...
    BohoBeAchMom BohoBeAchMom 46-50, F Sep 28

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    I have shared a story in "I am sick of being single" a couple of months ago. And here I am again! I'm still sick of being single. Not to boast my trumpet but I think I am a nice...
    AmyL0ve AmyL0ve 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    A very sick individual has especially opened an EP profile just to express his very sick views. For some inexplicable reason, at least to me, he thought I was black. He even sent...
    adarkboy adarkboy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I've been feeling horrendously sick all night, which kinda makes me think I'm not far away from being in labour. I just want to go to sleep, but I can't, because I'm scared.
    peanuttyandjelly peanuttyandjelly 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Is It Just a Bad Headache — or Something Worse !! i think weed is killing my brain cells whatever it is ... feeling sick suxx
    Thepainlover Thepainlover 22-25, M Sep 22

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    Sick of people. (Please make your story longer.)
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    I am sick of working towards my dreams I am ready to experience them for once. I am exhausted!
    DanielleJW DanielleJW 18-21, F Sep 23

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    I just watched 12 years a slave. The movie is based on a true story. My face is drenched in tears and I want to die. I don't want to be part of the human race; part of that evil...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F Sep 25

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    I feel awfully sick, my head hurts. sometimes i just don't like night shift. :(
    phanthomprincez phanthomprincez 18-21, F Sep 25

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    I'm soooo sick I can't get out of my couch :( help
    thatguy159 thatguy159 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    I have no opinion on this. I have no idea if abortion is the right thing or not, it's such a complicated decision, which is why I'm glad I never had to go through it. But if I had...
    Aepeth Aepeth 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    Nellie the elephant. - The toy dolls Walk the dinosaur - was not was Waiting for a train - flash and the pan (On second thoughts. That one. You will get sick of!)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 27

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    Here we go again. I'm sooo tired of being soooo sick and feeling like 💩. I can't stand being like this anymore
    Experiencevisionary Experiencevisionary 13-15, M Sep 29

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    Trying to decide if I should even stay at work I'm so sick I wanna .... Okay nm not posting that, let's just say puke is a understatement.
    CookE114 CookE114 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I swear The next person who says it's going to be okay.. I can't stand being lied to. Just don't. It's not going to get better it's just a lie. Counseling? **** that. it's not...
    akaKitten akaKitten 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Nothing sick and twisted but dark and brutal yes but I'm just being honest. It's funny how some people handle honesty.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response