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I Am Sick Of Doing The Pursuing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 149 People

    I Want To Be Persued For A Change!

    No matter who it is: family, friends, men...feels I'm always the one doing the work of keeping in touch and they are all like "ladies in waiting". What am I not worth the effort?!? Lazy little bastards. Came. Vented. Left. :)
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Sometimes It HasThe Opposite Effect

    I tend to come on strong when I am attracted to anyone for any reason. But I must stop that. Some men don't like it. And the more you do it, the more they back away. If you like me, then chase me. Otherwise, I will not waste my energy on someone who doesn't care enough.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm Seriously Done!

    I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before...
    shadoweyes shadoweyes 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2010

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    Well

    not so much sick,just ******* lazy.sometimes
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Use To Be A Pursuer..

    Its all in your mindset people, If I meet a girl I lay my cards right away, Very direct from the get go.  there are lots that love the thrill of the chase and we they do allow you to catch them, then you get freezer burn from the cold, all done with those twisted souls, Be...
    Jackk45 Jackk45 46-50, M May 22, 2012

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    Taken

    Every girl i've eer liked, i've always had to persue. Everytime i've been told, I'm not really interested in you that way. And anyone else i think i could like, is always already taken. Why the hell can i not find a single person. Why is it fi i'm actually "kinda" good looking...
    kahosrebellion kahosrebellion 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Friends And Family

    I'm sick of pursuing my friends and family. Is there anything wrong with them calling me and not me calling them? Don't they know me by now? I will make myself quite available if they want to see me. I guess this is exactly what they are thinking too.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    For 29 years I've let fear control me and keep me from so much. Keep me from pursuing my dreams, going a little wild, or from even being myself. This is a sick and psychological...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 6

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    VillaVuka is BIG LIAR!!! He say "Most people get arrested for the first time in their teens for dumb things like Underage Possesions. I was arrested for the first time aged...
    Bergenbabe Bergenbabe 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    okay. the title is simply stupid and not creative at all, but the funny thing is i kinda feel that way. I'm sick. I'm tired. and it makes me feel sick and tired. i wish i don't...
    alifia alifia 18-21, F Nov 26

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    I am sick of you, but I love you. I see you everyday with the same memories Of you constantly ignoring me. I don't deserve that. I don't deserve that at all. I have been listening...
    CharMinji CharMinji 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    A woman's life is in danger and/or so is the fetus. What do you want her to do? Keep the pregnancy with the risks of her losing her life or have a miscarriage? What if she has...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    Ok, firstly I love animals. I own a lovely Yorkshire Terrier who is well behaved and trained. A few months I had an issue with our next door neighbors dogs jumping our and there...
    choxie22 choxie22 22-25, F Dec 4

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    (This post applies to everything except my girlfriend) I'm just ******* sick of it... I'm sick of all the lies that I tell people and they tell me... I'm sick of the same routine...
    AnonymousSigh AnonymousSigh 18-21, M Dec 2

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    How bout we all stop judging each other based on things we don't understand. I received a message from someone who made a comment along the lines of "so you're insecure, you cut...
    katie5929 katie5929 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 23

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    What if Ive done everything you're suppose to to feel for filled and its not enough. Volunteering, a job working with elementary kids, college, good grades, being a kind, silly...
    jcbinns jcbinns 18-21, F Dec 5

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    I don't get sick too often, but when I do, I'm sick longer than others. For example, a lot of my friends got sick recently. They were all sick for 3-5 days, but when I got sick...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Nov 19

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    I can't post anything anywhere anymore without some troll either personally attacking me or trying to get whatever I posted taken down. And I'm sick of it. They will even claim...
    SadDrama SadDrama 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I am a sight to see though. I honestly get physically sick thinking about myself. I'm not going to go into mass detail. I'm just going to say; the things I like and the things I do...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 18

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    I am sick and tired of people saying that "abortion is murder". And because of that, I am not going to read and comment in groups where people believe that it is murder. That...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 30

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    Very rarely I ever get sick, but today I don't know what happen, this morning i felt just fine, i went to work like normal and i felt fine, but my stomach started acting up a...
    jennymomof3 jennymomof3 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    i think its ok to be single the reason we all go crazy is probably how we were raised and the exposure to new and many friends at one time growing up. we all get that feeling of...
    1thisguy33 1thisguy33 31-35, M Nov 19

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19

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    When I was about two month old I got sick with pneumonia I almost died but they had to hook me up to a machine called a nebulizer Because of that my lungs are damaged I have a...
    natsufairy12 natsufairy12 18-21, M Nov 24

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    It's so silly. Whether or not you think abortion is murder, the truth is this is a personal decision between a woman and possibly her partner. It doesn't affect you, she's doing...
    JustSharingMaybe JustSharingMaybe 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    True, we all do it to some extent or another. I admit I sometimes judge a woman by how much make up she wears or how she's dressed. Or a man if he has "hate" tattooed across his...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M Dec 2

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    If a mother has an abortion, you wouldn't know, unless she told you. And the only one that has to live with that decision, is her and her alone. That fetus has no birth certificate...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I have diabetes, I have a liver disease that is misunderstood for an STD, I have bi polar, I have anxiety and I have agoraphobia. And recently I SEE why I'm afraid of being in...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm sick. Went to bed and woke of full blown sick. How did this happen???? It LITERALLY happened overnight. Sad. ;_;
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Ugh....sick again X( tomorrow's thanksgiving and I'm sick as a dog! I know it won't go away for tomorrow *sigh* all that good food ;-;
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Ok people of the internet world. I am sick of certain types of people...PERVS! God **** leave me the **** alone! If you are over 21 I don't even want a single message from you! I...
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    Why do i have this kind of feeling? My emotions kept rumbling and fighting inside a ruin.. in the battlefield of my heart. They were mixed emotions and i don't know what I should...
    LittleMiss04 LittleMiss04 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I wasn't feeling too bad, but my cough has worsened; I was sick an hour ago from bringing stuff up. I couldn't breathe for what felt like the longest time, my parents were about to...
    SlowlyDrifting SlowlyDrifting 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone, just to say to my friends I may be offline for a while as I'm sick. I'm laid up in bed, but not in the good way lol. Been sick, aching, headaches, body pains, not...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 26 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I've been sick since last night. For some reason, I cannot tolerate peanuts. I ate a big bag last night of spicy peanuts. Towards the end of my shift, my lower intestines were...
    moonstruckdelight moonstruckdelight 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    I don't like to complain about my life because I have a great life according to people who "know" me. People who think they know me say my life is wonderful because they see who my...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Not sleeping well selfie:p this little one is sick:(
    CountryPayton CountryPayton 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I'm sick today 0.0 9.9 O.O
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I'm sick of being around people who don't won't sh!t out of life smh I need to find new friends!
    1handsomeMan29 1handsomeMan29 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    sick of feeling alone and unwanted
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    I'm sick. And I hate it. :(
    justjayne justjayne 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 19

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    If u are sick stay home! If i hear one more person cough like they are dying or sneeze uncontrollably all day, i will quit.
    mawniegirl mawniegirl 26-30, F Nov 21

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    im having high bp in this young age and im sick of it... im feeling down... I wanna fight it n so im nt in bed jus wandering the streets..
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F Nov 22

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    I hate being sick... Come kill me now so I don't have to suffer
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    I am so disturbed that sick people walk among us..I wanna know what kind of piece of sh*t of a person would cut off 2 puppies tails and then leave them to suffocate and bleed to...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I'm so sick of dealing with boys my age they act so childish it's crazy :///
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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