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I Am Sick Of Doing The Pursuing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 155 People

    I'm Seriously Done!

    I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before...
    shadoweyes shadoweyes 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2010

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    Sometimes It HasThe Opposite Effect

    I tend to come on strong when I am attracted to anyone for any reason. But I must stop that. Some men don't like it. And the more you do it, the more they back away. If you like me, then chase me. Otherwise, I will not waste my energy on someone who doesn't care enough.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I Want To Be Persued For A Change!

    No matter who it is: family, friends, men...feels I'm always the one doing the work of keeping in touch and they are all like "ladies in waiting". What am I not worth the effort?!? Lazy little bastards. Came. Vented. Left. :)
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Taken

    Every girl i've eer liked, i've always had to persue. Everytime i've been told, I'm not really interested in you that way. And anyone else i think i could like, is always already taken. Why the hell can i not find a single person. Why is it fi i'm actually "kinda" good looking...
    kahosrebellion kahosrebellion 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Use To Be A Pursuer..

    Its all in your mindset people, If I meet a girl I lay my cards right away, Very direct from the get go.  there are lots that love the thrill of the chase and we they do allow you to catch them, then you get freezer burn from the cold, all done with those twisted souls, Be...
    Jackk45 Jackk45 46-50, M May 22, 2012

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    Well

    not so much sick,just ******* lazy.sometimes
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Friends And Family

    I'm sick of pursuing my friends and family. Is there anything wrong with them calling me and not me calling them? Don't they know me by now? I will make myself quite available if they want to see me. I guess this is exactly what they are thinking too.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    My husband has alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency. He has been pretty sick for the past few years. He is now on oxygen. He has 12% lung capacity and is on the active double lung...
    csusanne csusanne 51-55, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Today I got sooo sick. I was running around outside in the heat and I had just drank a bunch of soda before I went outside and I guess all that running around caused me to barf up...
    allisonhashope allisonhashope 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    They don't trust me at all. My mom was raped by two different guys before she got married and now all she does is pick on me for wearing certain clothes. I decide to wear a pair of...
    puppylove16 puppylove16 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    yeah i think i have a mental sickness
    Animus1993 Animus1993 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been sick every day for two weeks now. I don't know what is wrong with me. I have been to the ER because I was so weak and diarrhea throwing up so much that I really felt I...
    Kornloves22 Kornloves22 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    this is a repeat post: There has to be a reason why im not finding a job. I make one mistake on one job, and it shouldnt cost me my life. My whole family doesnt even work, except...
    awesomeguy3125 awesomeguy3125 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yeah, I do, and I'd love to share them with someone sometime, but only if they actually have dark twisted fantasies themselves, and imagining cheating on your wife, or doing it...
    SolePatrol SolePatrol 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm sick and tired of not sleeping at night.Its really annoying.I sleep in till 2pm in the mornings then and then it goes around but my sister wants me to stay awake so I will be...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF HER. SHE IS VERBALLY ABUSIVE AND PUTS ME DOWN AND IS MOODY AND USES ME AND MAKES ME DO WHAT SHE WANTS AND I CANT EVER BE MYSELF I HAVE TO HIDE AND GO ON...
    lilhipfelicity lilhipfelicity 16-17 5 days ago

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    In been very sick for the past couple days with the flu, any tips or cures??
    aislin1801 aislin1801 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not doing what I should do for the past 20years of my life.. pathetic..
    fallenangle fallenangle 22-25 a week ago

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    I have been working hard lately but I know that I should be doing something productive today. I can call about the layaway that may have been put back, I can go air up my bike, I...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F Jul 26

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    ugh,,, after a long time I got fever and cold seriously,,, from yesterday I am in bed just sleeping, eating and watching tv,,, but it's good because it's weekend,,, so that I can...
    notagain4u notagain4u 26-30, M Jul 25

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    im so sick.of being single... i want to have.bf but obviously no luck because boys said " to test how strong ur relationhip. is through sex" and i dont like having sex yet im not...
    maryabcd06 maryabcd06 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I've always wondered if the process of making someone hate their life is worth it. What makes it so great for the people that tear you apart bit by bit, until your an empty shell...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F Jul 23

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    enough of it! i'm so sick of over hearing my parents saying stuff like "gays are gross" and "gays aren't people" if they simply knew i supported gays, they would make me live with...
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I got sick on Thursday with a cold… It was the worst on Saturday but I hate the after cold sickness like I still have a cough and my throat gets sore when I cough but either from...
    KingofNorway KingofNorway 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    So I have been in a lot of pain and have overall felt really sick here lately and I've been so tired. I've been to the doctor, but we are still trying to figure out what is going...
    tinkbell1 tinkbell1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I'm not a religious person, but I am almost more sick of the fact that our society believes all Christians are gay bashing people. The only Christians we seem to notice are the...
    TheDopeAura TheDopeAura 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    What i hate the most is having to do a lot around the house whilst there are visitors around home like doing favours for people don't return the favour to me. It drives me...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M Jul 22

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    i really am sick of my life...so god damn boring im over everything
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I am tired.Tired of being sad. Tired of being threatened and tortured. Tied of being lied to. Tired of being treated unimportant and stupid. Tired of being scared of saying or...
    somwherebetweenheartnhead somwherebetweenheartnhead 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Being a widow parent I find I am constantly worried sick. Will I make the right choices for my son? Will we be financially ok? Are we going to always struggle? What do I tell my...
    AryaLouise AryaLouise 36-40, F Jul 21

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    I'm sick of creeps messaging me
    PaigeOfSteel PaigeOfSteel 16-17, F Jul 21

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    There's a love to hate thing here as when I'm sick I just lounge around on the couch underneath my Minion duvet but the sickness I get normally hurts more than usual as I have a...
    HarleyQuinn1995 HarleyQuinn1995 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Wouldnt say sick and tired d say ive aceapted the fact and will remain reclusive and isolated cause of the fact. Tired of being hurt.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I really hate being sick cause Whenever i'm sick i get dizzy caugh alot have fever, headaches and stomach ache so i always end up in the ER or in my doctor's office. And i get sick...
    naomie10210 naomie10210 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I just want to be healthy!! I am tired of being sick all the time!! I don't like going to doctors! I don't like being poked with needles!! I don't like nurses!!! I don't like...
    BrokenAngel38 BrokenAngel38 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I'm sick and tired when my father doesn't keep his promises and let's his girlfriend still stay in his house. All they did was argue on the trip that we were on to Orlando FL...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 1 Response Jul 17

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    Why out of all days must I get sick?! Freakin date tomorrow and I'm sick :(
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 17

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    I always feel terrible when I'm sick and I get dizzy way to easy
    XxmadyyXX XxmadyyXX 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 17

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    In the middle of the night last night I woke up with really bad stomach pain and I ended up throwing up about three or four times during the night. I ended up staying in bed for...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Not every night but most nights I have.Sometimes its for no reason whatsoever but then its the daily struggles.I'm crying right now over stomach pain.Its really sore and its...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm just so sick of it.The struggle is back.I am sick of trying to be the peacemaker with my friends.They always say I'm the fun one.I'm not I'm the one that puts on a smile to...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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