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I Am Sick of My Angry Husband

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    Angry Husband

    My husband gets angry and negative. He calls me names and puts me down. He says he wants a divorce and is always negative. I don't believe in divorce. He doesn't believe his anger is an issue. He use to be so caring when we were dating. I feel like he isn't even the same person...
    Jessica1shadow Jessica1shadow 18-21 6 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    I am sick and tired of my pissed off abusive

    husband. I don't feel like a victim but he broke my nose a few days ago. Even though he has put his hands on me a few times before, I just couldn't believe. Things are fine if I let him act like a jerk and I stay quiet but once I let him know how I feel all hell breaks loose. I...
    sat78 sat78 36-40, F 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Don't Look Out That Window!

    I love looking out of my kitchen window or any window that we have.I love animals&enjoy seeing them.We have birds,deer,Ducks and other animals that frequent our yard. This crazy idiot that I married says something every time I look out of the window.When it first started...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 9 Responses May 14, 2008

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    10 Years Means Nothing

    In the 3 years leading up to my 10 year anniversary I had pointed out the one thing I wanted, the 10 year band to match my wedding ring/engagement set. I pointed it out when it was on store closing sales, so $500 ring was $96. Then as my anniversary comes up, MIL and FIL want to...
    shepherdweshallbe shepherdweshallbe 36-40 Jun 17, 2013

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    I Am Sick Of My Angry Jealous Husband

    i am so sick of my angry and jealous husband, i thought he is just jealous person but no, he think I'm big liar, he keeps calling me a LIAR and a cheater!!! i cannot say hi to a man, even my current boss, if he calls me after working hours for an emergency request, my husband...
    babylillie babylillie 26-30, F Dec 31, 2011

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    Promises, Promises

     I am 56 years old and have 3 grown children. I have been married for 2 1/2 years to a man ( not my children's father) who was very abused as a child by both his mother and step father. In the time we have been together , a total of 3 1/2 years, he has had angry outburst that...
    Promise4me Promise4me 56-60 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Fed Up!!!

    My husband has been out of work since January because he was injured at work and the dr.took him off,he has been getting unemployment in the amount of $50 every 2 weeks since he previously defrauded the unemployment  and they are now taking their money back so that is all he...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    I knew my husband for 4 years

    before we got married and boy oh boy was i shocked to find out who he really is. I knew that he came from a broken home. His mom and dad got divorced and he grew up in a violent abusive household watching his mother being beaten up and cheated on by his father. When i dated...
    bigballofhatred bigballofhatred 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    I Am So Tired Of Walking On Egg Shells!

    I have been married for almost two years. The anger started early. It gradually turned into physical abuse, and mental abuse became more frequent. I am considering divorce. First off, he refuses to admit it's his choice to be abusive and not my fault for making him angry. I can't...
    bgulley314 bgulley314 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    He's Still Here

    While attempting to take my kitty Tango to the animal shelter my 7 year old daughter was crying inconsolably.I did my crying earlier before she got home so I was pretty calm and told her that one day we would get another pet.That didn't help much she held the kitty in her arms...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    I Have The Moody Blues

    I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 7. Over this time he has been prone to moodiness, rages, depression, self-destructive behaviour, insomnia, computer addiction, and generally unable to manage himself effectively. If we work together, and I am very firm, things...
    kalenka kalenka 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Angry Black Man On the Loose!

    I am sick and tired of this angry idiot.From sun up til sundown he complains and nags.I have never met a man who nags and complains as much as he does.He is driving me to drink and I don't even like alcohol!He never has anything good to say about anyone and he nags and is mean to...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 12 Responses May 11, 2008

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    Hurt people hurt people.

    Healed people heal people. I want to start healing after all the hurt.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    Man, it's just crazy

    why do people who are supposed to love me, hurt me. I'm not gonna even try to figure that out. I've been married twice, my first husband cheated on me a lot but never physically hurt me. My now husband is faithful but he hit me a few times, now ironically I dont care if he...
    sat78 sat78 36-40, F 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    Room to Room

    I have a friend who I talk to a lot throughout the day.My husband hates her,he says the time I spend talking to her I could be talking to him.Is he kidding?If he had anything to talk about other than who left a sock on the floor or who let the cat up from the basement maybe I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 26, 2008

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    It Never Ends!

    I tried to have an enjoyable mothers day but someone just had to **** me off!Yes you guessed right it was the angry black man again!He knows that I am very defensive when it comes to my children and my cat Tango so he just had to go there. One of my children is extremely lazy I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 4 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Yep Still Miserable

    I'm back and nothing has changed only gotten worse. If I enjoyed the taste of alchohol I would be an alchoholic by now. If I werent too afraid of drugs and the outcome and the thought of selling myself I would be an addict. This man get's on my nerves soooo bad. The fussing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 3 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Ha Ha Ha

    It's early and the kids all just left for school and daycare.This idiot is trying to **** me off already!My sister called and he started yelling "you are always on the phone I need to take care of some business and I can't use the phone" First of all before the phone...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    Tear,tear

    Due to my husbands incredible mean streak I am being forced to take my kitty tango to an animal shelter this evening.He hates my kitty and doesn't want him to walk around the house like most house pets are allowed to. I got my Tango when he was 4 weeks old and he's just like one...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2008

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    No Matter What I Do, My Husband Is Angry With Me!!

    It seems that no matter what I do, my husband is angry. And then after he gets angry about something, he turns it on to me and I end up apoligizing for something that is not my fault or he does something wrong and I apoligize for questioning him about it or knowing that he is...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Crazy

    I am really starting to believe that my husband has a mental problem.He has been watching Tyler Perry plays over and over again.He then quotes some of the advice Tyler gives towards the end of his play.Now he is brainwashed into believing that I am cheating because I hum and sing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Angry Spouse

    My husband has been diagnosed with dysthymia years ago and has reaccuring episodes of constant anger over the slightest things.He just got admitted to the mental health center again after 15 years of hiding that things were okay, and it's all my fault according to himeven though...
    ArowynStrider ArowynStrider 51-55 Jun 8, 2012

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    They're Everywhere...

    Trust me on this - angry, negative people come in all different "flavors".  ( My "angry person" happens to be male, Cherokee, and Polish "flavored", but they are everywhere. )  An angry, negative person is always a drag on your spirit, but...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 13 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    Valentines Day Disaster Because Of My Angry Husband

    The day started out great, he took some money out of my savings account because he no longer has any income, he has no job. I got a necklace and 2 dozen flowers and balloons. I was surprised at the the job. I got home and he had some vodka and we had a disagreement about the...
    stepwilliams86 stepwilliams86 22-25 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Over It!

    I've been with the same man since I was 21. About 17 years now. You do the math :). We have 2 kids together, now teenagers. He's had anger issuses most of our relationship. I've even took the kids and left him twice. The most recent was 3 yrs ago. I've been back for almost 2. My...
    Mellowme Mellowme 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    What Now

    Married to an angry man for six years.just left with my daughter for the 2nd time we have out own place. He claims he will change as he has said a million times he is getting help but so afraid to go back for fear it will go right back to how it was before. Iove him I miss him...
    Hsoak Hsoak 31-35 2 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    I have been married for 5 years now and my husband doesn't like taking me out on dates. He doesn't plan anything and never wants to spend time with me and we argue non stop about...
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    My husband's son, daughter-in-law, three grandkids, their four dogs, various lizards, snakes, and a cat moved in with us last November, six months ago. They are losing their...
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    I'm sick of people telling me "it's gonna be okay" well yea because it's not happening to you.
    tabshao tabshao 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am so sick and so tired of my husband ,his mother sat in my livingroom right infront f me and infront of my family and put my family down and if I say anything negative about his...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1

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    i would not want it any other way!!! i recently found this on-line a few years ago. It is a great list of ideas on ways to submit to your Husabnd. i found this list giving me new...
    goodgirl456 goodgirl456 31-35, F 5 Responses May 7

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    First off, I believe children weren't meant to be raised in blended families. They have only become the "norm" in the past 30 years or so. I acknowledge that in this day and age...
    SaraIsBroken SaraIsBroken 31-35, F 2 Responses May 19

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    Oh god where do I begin? This is a man who once threw a glass of chewed tobacco in my face for insulting his sister. Physical, verbal, mental, emotional, sexual you name it, he's...
    Bellalargo Bellalargo 31-35, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I thought I was being unreasonable when I found this post. The biggest mistake I made was ask my husband to bring his 18 year old come and live with us, because the SS tried...
    enoughtuff enoughtuff 36-40, F 1 Response May 14

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    I hate this. I hate it. I hate everything and I don't care anymore. I'm sick of feeling false hope, of my family dangling their love in front of me like a piece of meat in front of...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F May 13

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    I find that my situation is different than many I've read here and also very much the same. Some of these posts actually make me think "I don't have it so bad", but the bottom line...
    iwant2bhappyagain iwant2bhappyagain 56-60, F May 9

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    I depressed and sad and tired of living like this. My divorce has been the darkest cloud. Living in limbo and not knowing what my husband truly wants has been killing me. For...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F May 17

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    i think standing up to someone who is literally crazy, only makes them more desperate. they need to further their maligning adgenda by getting you to believe you are crazy/wrong...
    LeighChristine LeighChristine 26-30, F May 17

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    I had to add 2 new friends to my small collection. I'm not sick... or so I think. I don't know how you call it, but anyway, to shorten the story, I have an herniated disk and two...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Since we first got together 15 years ago I have struggled with my husband's irresponsible and selfish financial behaviour. He only works on projects that he wants to do and for the...
    Christina6581 Christina6581 46-50, F May 14

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    A couple of days ago I was sure my husband was an undiagnosed narcissist with passive aggressive tendencies. And while he still continues to display traits and behaviors consistent...
    blutiger blutiger 41-45, F May 9

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    This isn't love. Love shouldn't be this hard. My husband of nearly 13 years hates me. We went out with friends tonight and had some drinks. We got home, I tucked the little one...
    2toosad 2toosad 31-35, F May 10

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    I have to spell out intimate time for my husband. I literally said anytime even if I'm tired or angry, I'm game and this guy still acts like a asexual nerd.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I am sick and tired if him causing trouble all the time . For no reason are you really that dense I am so sick and tired of this
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses