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I Am Sick of My Angry Husband

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    Married to an angry man for six years.just left with my daughter for the 2nd time we have out own place. He claims he will change as he has said a million times he is getting help but so afraid to go back for fear it will go right back to how it was before. Iove him I miss him...
    Hsoak Hsoak 31-35 2 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Over It!

    I've been with the same man since I was 21. About 17 years now. You do the math :). We have 2 kids together, now teenagers. He's had anger issuses most of our relationship. I've even took the kids and left him twice. The most recent was 3 yrs ago. I've been back for almost 2. My...
    Mellowme Mellowme 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Room to Room

    I have a friend who I talk to a lot throughout the day.My husband hates her,he says the time I spend talking to her I could be talking to him.Is he kidding?If he had anything to talk about other than who left a sock on the floor or who let the cat up from the basement maybe I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Angry Black Man On the Loose!

    I am sick and tired of this angry idiot.From sun up til sundown he complains and nags.I have never met a man who nags and complains as much as he does.He is driving me to drink and I don't even like alcohol!He never has anything good to say about anyone and he nags and is mean to...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 12 Responses May 11, 2008

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    Don't Look Out That Window!

    I love looking out of my kitchen window or any window that we have.I love animals&enjoy seeing them.We have birds,deer,Ducks and other animals that frequent our yard. This crazy idiot that I married says something every time I look out of the window.When it first started...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 9 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Promises, Promises

     I am 56 years old and have 3 grown children. I have been married for 2 1/2 years to a man ( not my children's father) who was very abused as a child by both his mother and step father. In the time we have been together , a total of 3 1/2 years, he has had angry outburst that...
    Promise4me Promise4me 56-60 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Tear,tear

    Due to my husbands incredible mean streak I am being forced to take my kitty tango to an animal shelter this evening.He hates my kitty and doesn't want him to walk around the house like most house pets are allowed to. I got my Tango when he was 4 weeks old and he's just like one...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2008

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    I Have The Moody Blues

    I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 7. Over this time he has been prone to moodiness, rages, depression, self-destructive behaviour, insomnia, computer addiction, and generally unable to manage himself effectively. If we work together, and I am very firm, things...
    kalenka kalenka 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Angry Husband

    My husband gets angry and negative. He calls me names and puts me down. He says he wants a divorce and is always negative. I don't believe in divorce. He doesn't believe his anger is an issue. He use to be so caring when we were dating. I feel like he isn't even the same person...
    Jessica1shadow Jessica1shadow 18-21 6 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    He's Still Here

    While attempting to take my kitty Tango to the animal shelter my 7 year old daughter was crying inconsolably.I did my crying earlier before she got home so I was pretty calm and told her that one day we would get another pet.That didn't help much she held the kitty in her arms...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Man, it's just crazy

    why do people who are supposed to love me, hurt me. I'm not gonna even try to figure that out. I've been married twice, my first husband cheated on me a lot but never physically hurt me. My now husband is faithful but he hit me a few times, now ironically I dont care if he...
    sat78 sat78 31-35, F 1 Response May 23

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    I Am Sick Of My Angry Jealous Husband

    i am so sick of my angry and jealous husband, i thought he is just jealous person but no, he think I'm big liar, he keeps calling me a LIAR and a cheater!!! i cannot say hi to a man, even my current boss, if he calls me after working hours for an emergency request, my husband...
    babylillie babylillie 26-30, F Dec 31, 2011

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    Valentines Day Disaster Because Of My Angry Husband

    The day started out great, he took some money out of my savings account because he no longer has any income, he has no job. I got a necklace and 2 dozen flowers and balloons. I was surprised at the the job. I got home and he had some vodka and we had a disagreement about the...
    stepwilliams86 stepwilliams86 22-25 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    I Am So Tired Of Walking On Egg Shells!

    I have been married for almost two years. The anger started early. It gradually turned into physical abuse, and mental abuse became more frequent. I am considering divorce. First off, he refuses to admit it's his choice to be abusive and not my fault for making him angry. I can't...
    bgulley314 bgulley314 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    I knew my husband for 4 years

    before we got married and boy oh boy was i shocked to find out who he really is. I knew that he came from a broken home. His mom and dad got divorced and he grew up in a violent abusive household watching his mother being beaten up and cheated on by his father. When i dated...
    bigballofhatred bigballofhatred 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    10 Years Means Nothing

    In the 3 years leading up to my 10 year anniversary I had pointed out the one thing I wanted, the 10 year band to match my wedding ring/engagement set. I pointed it out when it was on store closing sales, so $500 ring was $96. Then as my anniversary comes up, MIL and FIL want to...
    shepherdweshallbe shepherdweshallbe 36-40 Jun 17, 2013

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    Crazy

    I am really starting to believe that my husband has a mental problem.He has been watching Tyler Perry plays over and over again.He then quotes some of the advice Tyler gives towards the end of his play.Now he is brainwashed into believing that I am cheating because I hum and sing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 23, 2008

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    They're Everywhere...

    Trust me on this - angry, negative people come in all different "flavors".  ( My "angry person" happens to be male, Cherokee, and Polish "flavored", but they are everywhere. )  An angry, negative person is always a drag on your spirit, but...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 13 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    Ha Ha Ha

    It's early and the kids all just left for school and daycare.This idiot is trying to **** me off already!My sister called and he started yelling "you are always on the phone I need to take care of some business and I can't use the phone" First of all before the phone...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    No Matter What I Do, My Husband Is Angry With Me!!

    It seems that no matter what I do, my husband is angry. And then after he gets angry about something, he turns it on to me and I end up apoligizing for something that is not my fault or he does something wrong and I apoligize for questioning him about it or knowing that he is...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    It Never Ends!

    I tried to have an enjoyable mothers day but someone just had to **** me off!Yes you guessed right it was the angry black man again!He knows that I am very defensive when it comes to my children and my cat Tango so he just had to go there. One of my children is extremely lazy I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 4 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Fed Up!!!

    My husband has been out of work since January because he was injured at work and the dr.took him off,he has been getting unemployment in the amount of $50 every 2 weeks since he previously defrauded the unemployment  and they are now taking their money back so that is all he...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    Yep Still Miserable

    I'm back and nothing has changed only gotten worse. If I enjoyed the taste of alchohol I would be an alchoholic by now. If I werent too afraid of drugs and the outcome and the thought of selling myself I would be an addict. This man get's on my nerves soooo bad. The fussing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 3 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    I am sick and tired of my pissed off abusive

    husband. I don't feel like a victim but he broke my nose a few days ago. Even though he has put his hands on me a few times before, I just couldn't believe. Things are fine if I let him act like a jerk and I stay quiet but once I let him know how I feel all hell breaks loose. I...
    sat78 sat78 31-35, F 1 Response May 23

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    Angry Spouse

    My husband has been diagnosed with dysthymia years ago and has reaccuring episodes of constant anger over the slightest things.He just got admitted to the mental health center again after 15 years of hiding that things were okay, and it's all my fault according to himeven though...
    ArowynStrider ArowynStrider 51-55 Jun 8, 2012

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    This experience pretty much sums up my life right now. I have no friends. None. I block people out as I'm afraid of getting hurt and my anxiety is awful. Maybe it's the stuff I've...
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    Unreal!! I am so angry I am shaking. I have had an awful day. I have been accused of so much the last few weeks I can hardly fathom it. My daughter left me to live with her dad and...
    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Married 25 years. So I am trying to recognize that what he really wants is for me to "go away" and all I really want is to connect. Our ongoing battle has really been about my...
    Sueg323 Sueg323 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    I am realy sick of all these idotic men bothering me. so far about 40 men have sent me messages saying that i look very sexy , i don't mind stuff like that but after that they...
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    I broke with my husband last week. This time he was a bit crazy and pretty off the limits. He knows i am pretty much into nudity and he was the one who quite pushed me to try it...
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    Dammit. Alternate plan for the day - stay home, in bed, not talking, and force down a bunch of stuff I wouldn't normal consume in concentrated doses. I'm not a baby when I am sick...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    22 years old this Winter with his mother's brreasts still firmmly in his mouth! From birth until age 12 he shared a bed with his mother. Even his younger sister began sleeping...
    MarinaDokar MarinaDokar 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    SO MY IN LAWS ARE DRIVING ME NUTS. FIRST HIS FATHER IS THE BIG ISSUE.VERY SELFISH,IMMATURE, AND INCONSIDERATE. HE LEAVES MY MIL IN THE HOUSE ALONE ALL DAY AND SPENDS AT HIS TIME AT...
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    I'm a 24yo female newlywed, happily married to DH. I also have (had) a 25yo male friend I've known for years. Let's call him Erik. I've known Erik longer than I've known DH...
    ohhwanderlust ohhwanderlust 22-25, F Sep 2

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    I'm so sick of doing everything in the house and being told I never do anything. Or being on my feet all night trying to clean up and get my basement finished and get a nursery...
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I am very sad to be writing this.... because I never thought I was capable of feeling this way, but I have to face the truth of the matter. I love my husband, but not as my...
    oogabooga777 oogabooga777 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
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    im not completely sure if i should be upset with my husband or not but i am, i have never been married before so i dont know how these things work. I think my husband's ex is very...
    izzyd izzyd 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I met my husband 13 years ago whilst I was working in a local newsagents. He was always there and was the boss's friend. He lived with his gf just 2mins away. He always talked to...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I found out after I separated from my husband that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I hate my husband because he always comes first. His drinking comes first. His needs/wants come first. He doesn't care if I need sleep, if I'm sick, pregnant, whatever, he will...
    sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My sweet husband has taken care of me and the kids for the past 2 days. I'm sick in bed and he was keeping the kiddos far away so I could get some sleep <3
    erieclover erieclover 31-35, F Aug 22

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    Why do I ALWAYS get put on the back burner?! My husband chooses everything over me and our kids. I'm ******* sick of it. What's love anyway, right??
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