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I Am Sick of My Angry Husband

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    I Am So Tired Of Walking On Egg Shells!

    I have been married for almost two years. The anger started early. It gradually turned into physical abuse, and mental abuse became more frequent. I am considering divorce. First off, he refuses to admit it's his choice to be abusive and not my fault for making him angry. I can't...
    bgulley314 bgulley314 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    I Have The Moody Blues

    I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 7. Over this time he has been prone to moodiness, rages, depression, self-destructive behaviour, insomnia, computer addiction, and generally unable to manage himself effectively. If we work together, and I am very firm, things...
    kalenka kalenka 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    He's Still Here

    While attempting to take my kitty Tango to the animal shelter my 7 year old daughter was crying inconsolably.I did my crying earlier before she got home so I was pretty calm and told her that one day we would get another pet.That didn't help much she held the kitty in her arms...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Promises, Promises

     I am 56 years old and have 3 grown children. I have been married for 2 1/2 years to a man ( not my children's father) who was very abused as a child by both his mother and step father. In the time we have been together , a total of 3 1/2 years, he has had angry outburst that...
    Promise4me Promise4me 56-60 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Don't Look Out That Window!

    I love looking out of my kitchen window or any window that we have.I love animals&enjoy seeing them.We have birds,deer,Ducks and other animals that frequent our yard. This crazy idiot that I married says something every time I look out of the window.When it first started...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 9 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Yep Still Miserable

    I'm back and nothing has changed only gotten worse. If I enjoyed the taste of alchohol I would be an alchoholic by now. If I werent too afraid of drugs and the outcome and the thought of selling myself I would be an addict. This man get's on my nerves soooo bad. The fussing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 3 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Angry Husband

    My husband gets angry and negative. He calls me names and puts me down. He says he wants a divorce and is always negative. I don't believe in divorce. He doesn't believe his anger is an issue. He use to be so caring when we were dating. I feel like he isn't even the same person...
    Jessica1shadow Jessica1shadow 18-21 6 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    Tear,tear

    Due to my husbands incredible mean streak I am being forced to take my kitty tango to an animal shelter this evening.He hates my kitty and doesn't want him to walk around the house like most house pets are allowed to. I got my Tango when he was 4 weeks old and he's just like one...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses May 12, 2008

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    10 Years Means Nothing

    In the 3 years leading up to my 10 year anniversary I had pointed out the one thing I wanted, the 10 year band to match my wedding ring/engagement set. I pointed it out when it was on store closing sales, so $500 ring was $96. Then as my anniversary comes up, MIL and FIL want to...
    shepherdweshallbe shepherdweshallbe 36-40 Jun 17, 2013

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    Fed Up!!!

    My husband has been out of work since January because he was injured at work and the dr.took him off,he has been getting unemployment in the amount of $50 every 2 weeks since he previously defrauded the unemployment  and they are now taking their money back so that is all he...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 2 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    What Now

    Married to an angry man for six years.just left with my daughter for the 2nd time we have out own place. He claims he will change as he has said a million times he is getting help but so afraid to go back for fear it will go right back to how it was before. Iove him I miss him...
    Hsoak Hsoak 31-35 2 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    It Never Ends!

    I tried to have an enjoyable mothers day but someone just had to **** me off!Yes you guessed right it was the angry black man again!He knows that I am very defensive when it comes to my children and my cat Tango so he just had to go there. One of my children is extremely lazy I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 4 Responses May 12, 2008

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    I am sick and tired of my pissed off abusive

    husband. I don't feel like a victim but he broke my nose a few days ago. Even though he has put his hands on me a few times before, I just couldn't believe. Things are fine if I let him act like a jerk and I stay quiet but once I let him know how I feel all hell breaks loose. I...
    sat78 sat78 36-40, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Valentines Day Disaster Because Of My Angry Husband

    The day started out great, he took some money out of my savings account because he no longer has any income, he has no job. I got a necklace and 2 dozen flowers and balloons. I was surprised at the the job. I got home and he had some vodka and we had a disagreement about the...
    stepwilliams86 stepwilliams86 22-25 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    No Matter What I Do, My Husband Is Angry With Me!!

    It seems that no matter what I do, my husband is angry. And then after he gets angry about something, he turns it on to me and I end up apoligizing for something that is not my fault or he does something wrong and I apoligize for questioning him about it or knowing that he is...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    I knew my husband for 4 years

    before we got married and boy oh boy was i shocked to find out who he really is. I knew that he came from a broken home. His mom and dad got divorced and he grew up in a violent abusive household watching his mother being beaten up and cheated on by his father. When i dated...
    bigballofhatred bigballofhatred 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    Ha Ha Ha

    It's early and the kids all just left for school and daycare.This idiot is trying to **** me off already!My sister called and he started yelling "you are always on the phone I need to take care of some business and I can't use the phone" First of all before the phone...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    They're Everywhere...

    Trust me on this - angry, negative people come in all different "flavors".  ( My "angry person" happens to be male, Cherokee, and Polish "flavored", but they are everywhere. )  An angry, negative person is always a drag on your spirit, but...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 13 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    Angry Spouse

    My husband has been diagnosed with dysthymia years ago and has reaccuring episodes of constant anger over the slightest things.He just got admitted to the mental health center again after 15 years of hiding that things were okay, and it's all my fault according to himeven though...
    ArowynStrider ArowynStrider 51-55 Jun 8, 2012

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    I Am Sick Of My Angry Jealous Husband

    i am so sick of my angry and jealous husband, i thought he is just jealous person but no, he think I'm big liar, he keeps calling me a LIAR and a cheater!!! i cannot say hi to a man, even my current boss, if he calls me after working hours for an emergency request, my husband...
    babylillie babylillie 26-30, F Dec 31, 2011

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    Crazy

    I am really starting to believe that my husband has a mental problem.He has been watching Tyler Perry plays over and over again.He then quotes some of the advice Tyler gives towards the end of his play.Now he is brainwashed into believing that I am cheating because I hum and sing...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Room to Room

    I have a friend who I talk to a lot throughout the day.My husband hates her,he says the time I spend talking to her I could be talking to him.Is he kidding?If he had anything to talk about other than who left a sock on the floor or who let the cat up from the basement maybe I...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 5 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Angry Black Man On the Loose!

    I am sick and tired of this angry idiot.From sun up til sundown he complains and nags.I have never met a man who nags and complains as much as he does.He is driving me to drink and I don't even like alcohol!He never has anything good to say about anyone and he nags and is mean to...
    diamond33 diamond33 31-35 12 Responses May 11, 2008

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    Over It!

    I've been with the same man since I was 21. About 17 years now. You do the math :). We have 2 kids together, now teenagers. He's had anger issuses most of our relationship. I've even took the kids and left him twice. The most recent was 3 yrs ago. I've been back for almost 2. My...
    Mellowme Mellowme 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Man, it's just crazy

    why do people who are supposed to love me, hurt me. I'm not gonna even try to figure that out. I've been married twice, my first husband cheated on me a lot but never physically hurt me. My now husband is faithful but he hit me a few times, now ironically I dont care if he...
    sat78 sat78 36-40, F 1 Response May 23

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    I feel so sick. tired exhausted migraine entire body aches.....seriously this sucks......
    LittleBirds0827 LittleBirds0827 36-40, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    He is trying s hard t make me get upset he knows my sons principles brother and he is having him harass my son and my sons a good kid why would anyone use there child to get back...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Dec 11

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    I am still sick from yesterday, but a little better... My fake Mother cussed at me all morning She said that even though I had diarrhea, stomach pains, and vomiting, that I'd...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Why do i have this kind of feeling? My emotions kept rumbling and fighting inside a ruin.. in the battlefield of my heart. They were mixed emotions and i don't know what I should...
    JinxRaven JinxRaven 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I don't get it, I decided to be the bigger person and actually apologise first to my friend because I was sick of us gifting most of the time, so I sent him a message apologising...
    colourfulskeleton colourfulskeleton 13-15, F Dec 14

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Were both in our early & mid 20s (married young) and have two children under 3.. We never have sex. I stay home a the kids all day...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 16

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    I've been married for two almost two years. I have two children. I feel like I'm losing my mind. my husband is very controlling. And very critical. I thought that over time we...
    gracethisis gracethisis 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I got married 6 months before.Just 6 months and we arguing all the time.Earlier I thought as ours is a arranged marriage ,so things would settle down gradually,we would have to...
    lifesdisaster lifesdisaster 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    I married the man of my dreams 18 years ago I been with him for 20. For the last 10 years he started to change. And now he is so horrible to me. I have run his business from the...
    pjs1460 pjs1460 51-55, F Dec 17

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    I can not stand how awful and mean my husbands family is to me .but yet he expects me to say that I like them? Would you like peole that are mean to you and his sister says really...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 17

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    I don't understand why no sex or making sure you supposingly never have kids is the answer. That's entirely unfair to the people who take precautions and enjoy sex. It offends me...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    5 of my family members died in the past 12 months. Cant i get a break from depression or do i have to lose everyone close to me until i have nothing left? Im angry and sad and i...
    Sourr Sourr 16-17, F Dec 10

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    Bf wouldn't let me stay over last night or give me a ride to hospital when my fever wouldn't go down. Too busy wrapping presents for his son and planning to leave for Christmas...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ''I am that black night that hates the Moon. I am that wretched beggar who is angry with the King. Out of kindness He calls me in but I am angry and invent excuses. I have...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    I feel angry most of time. Whenever I see something is going wrong or someone is trying to do bad things whether that is to me or to other then I feel so much angry then it makes...
    Simplegirlstory Simplegirlstory 22-25, F Nov 26

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    (This post applies to everything except my girlfriend) I'm just ******* sick of it... I'm sick of all the lies that I tell people and they tell me... I'm sick of the same routine...
    AnonymousSigh AnonymousSigh 18-21, M Dec 2

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    My first year without you my love.Wish you stayed home the night you left and ignored me. I learned this one life we get, we can't leave family friends or loved ones angry. There...
    DeeplyLoves DeeplyLoves 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    It is definitely a love/hate relationship with my AH. One moment I see the old him and it fills my heart with joy and some sadness because I miss that him. The next day he may...
    KatieDarling7 KatieDarling7 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Well, I caught a nasty flu on day three of my relactation project. I am still not feeling the greatest. He didn't want to stop nursing because I was sick. He asked me if he still...
    bfwife2 bfwife2 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 8

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    He has NOT once helped me during Christmas in 7 years now. When I worked, I paid for my side and some of his. Now, I do have to rely on him for my side. There's around 50 people on...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    Containing this air that fills my lungs, trying to breathe and calm down. There is much building inside I cannot control much longer. A rage of fury, fire uncontrolled in which I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I'm angry the majority of the time. Bad tempers run in my family, but mine is getting out of control and I know it's time to change. I think I get angry instead of feeling sad or...
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am sick and tired of people saying that "abortion is murder". And because of that, I am not going to read and comment in groups where people believe that it is murder. That...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 30

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