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I Am Sick of People Making False Assumptions

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    False assumption. Judging others or situations or ideas or making decisions ... based on fear, stereotypes, insufficient data, and so many more reason. False assumptions. They only tend to destroy and never build.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Assume All You Want About Me. I Doubt It's True Until You Know Me.

    I can't claim that I don't assume things about other people. I can say that I try to avoid it because I don't know what their lives have been like at all so I have no real right to do any assuming. I think everyone in their own way does their own assuming. I have been in another...
    allIeverwas allIeverwas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    Are You Still Making Assumptions?

    Did you know that what you say and how you say it directly affects the buying decision of your prospects? If you are not in tune with their desires, problems and wants then you will be unable to deliver powerful messages that resonate with them. Think about how YOU make your own...
    ceemonie2013 ceemonie2013 22-25, F Jan 12, 2013

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    I am sick of people who are gorgeous

    and think they are the shame of the nation. I am sick of girls with everything to gain but choose otherwise. I am sick of women that are immature bitter and old. Cheer the f up people its only life last time I breathed in the O2
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    It's Been Happening All My Life.

    All throughout my life, people have been making false assumptions about me. The earliest and most recurrent false assumption I can think of is that I'm gay. Ever since about the age of 12 I have constantly been called 'gay', 'homo', '***', '******' and the like. I do have a lot...
    TobiasNorth TobiasNorth 18-21, M May 16, 2013

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    Just Got Back

    I just got back to the site after a LONG time away and the very first comment that I read was another assumption. I was always very thorough and detailed in the stories I wrote on here, yet people still make assumptions. I am used to them, as I must deal with them in life too...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F May 13, 2012

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    Don't Label Me

    I hate being labelled. People are constantly making assuptions about me because of my image. I dye my hair black and often wear black clothes, this does not mean I'm Emo or Goth or anything else. I don't belong to a group I'm just me. I recently decided to shave half my...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I've Had A Few Made About Me, Lol.

    I guess I can understand sometimes that people might "wonder if.." stuff, but I think it's a bit stupid to make assumptions about people when you can just reserve judgement til you know the facts.. to me that seems more sensible.I've had assumptions made about me because of my...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jun 9, 2012

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    I Avoid It

    So is it too much to ask for others to avoid it as well? Apparently. People make assumptions about me on a daily basis, and I am sick of being judged based on false assumptions! I feel like I am being held responsible for things I did not even do - which is...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Well, sick is a strong word.

    I just dislike it. Don't assume. PLEASE. If you can't avoid it, try assuming the positive for a change. Up until a couple of years ago I sat in my smug little cocoon thinking what a good wife am I. For I knew the root of everything I said and did. I assumed my husband did as...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Just because I have many people in my circle.

    ,don't think I am a perverted person.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    Forever getting called a phscho cos I'm

    mentally ill, I'm so done
    Rosexxo Rosexxo 16-17, F Jun 13, 2014

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    Here We Go Again...

    Seriously, how hard is it to try to get to know someone or understand something before you judge? And if you don't like someone or something, then steer clear of them - that's what I do!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    I'm mistaken for a flirt

    when I'm friendly, I'm mistaken for a ***** when I'm blunt, I'm mistaken for shy when I'm quiet. QUIT assuming and get to know me before assuming and/or judging me!
    Wings1969 Wings1969 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2014

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    My Life Is Based On False Assumptions

    No one talks to me or what to hear what I have to say. They just look at my life and make false assumptions about me. Its really annoying. Why do ppl make it their business to try to know so much of what they cant understand that they make false assumptions?    ...
    UnsureAndAlone UnsureAndAlone 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    All The Time

    People make false assumptions about me all the time both in my everyday life and online. And it is true, I am sick of it. I wish they would stop. On EP I often have people assume things that are not true or that I have never said. I try to be thorough in stories without going...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F Jul 27, 2011

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    People are so quick to judge.

    They don't know me, or my story. They hear the rumors, they think they know the facts. When actually what they think they know, is completely false. Than when you try and talk to someone new, you get asked all these questions because they've heard so bad about you. Luckily, he...
    perfectlyimperrfect perfectlyimperrfect 13-15, F Jun 11, 2014

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    -.-

    I really hate when my gf Accuses me of not careing or going with some one else blah blah i hate being told im this that when im not
    alucardx alucardx 18-21, M Dec 2, 2010

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    I Do This So Much!

    I was searching for a group that said something along the lines of 'I make assumptions', but this group is as close as it came. I don't want to blame other people for making assumptions, but I do, and it's because I do the same thing.
    keisan keisan 18-21 Jul 5, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    This is something that is terrible. A person is falsely accused of something they did not do. They cant find evidence to exonerate them and they are blamed. So many of these...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    But not awesome sick. Just gross sick.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Because they leave us using this. http://youtu.be/UtBsl3j0YRQ
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    This would be a bad deal... just imagine how much more dramatic Facebook would be! It's bad enough some of these false assumptions of others people are constantly dishing out.
    bubble83 bubble83 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why can't people just be themselves. We don't care about what you're not! You'll feel free and happier when you unfake it. Try it out sometime. People making fake accounts to...
    RobinHood15 RobinHood15 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    stupid people making comments about how they want clothes that are designed for bigger people (woman). but **** them because when i go shopping now days all the nice clothes are...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I try to be nice to everyone I meet. I listen to peoples problems. If Im invited somewhere and I can make it, I let the person know. When I have an event or party, I'll have one or...
    aprilmummy aprilmummy 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    Enough said ! If you want to know anything about my post/ questions please feel free to ask. And if I chose to explain I will or I may not. Now I kindly ask that you do not let...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    MegaManX97 (TheBirdie (his 2nd profile)) intentionally searches for profiles/posts and verbally attacks people who are in a fragile mental state. Then when you respond to him, he...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I love how someone thinks they know you buy looking at you...they make assumptions that they really don't have the correct answers too...I am me, no if, ands, or butts to it. I do...
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    all gods are false. ( man made ). demons are too. BTW, Santa's fake too. try reality and truth. check the definitions of both those words. neither include the conception of the...
    skelapus skelapus 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bethcc11 bethcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bethcc11 bethcc11 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bethcc11 bethcc11 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    this is what i want to share to other people, the moment when we talk some conversation even he/she a serious type, but they are so thankful to know me to make them happy for...
    lantis0523 lantis0523 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I was at a physical differences (or something like that) conference some 20 years ago. I was in my early teens, and I don't remember all the details. During one of the breaks or...
    wuiop wuiop 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 5

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    This was a comment but I needed to share it. This are some of my experiences of messages people sent me on ep and conversations I've had. A guy sent me a video of him cutting off...
    absenceofsound absenceofsound 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I am sick of everyone and everything in my life. I'm sick of people not taking me serious.its really starting to make me angry. I'm sick of being in college, putting hours into my...
    bjman188 bjman188 18-21, M Mar 15

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    So there's lots of people that I am cutting out of my life. I'm sick of fake people and users. I don't need that from anyone.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Sick and tired of the system.. Trying to be better yet making it more worst.... That feeling that you really wanted to explode **** d*mn sh*t..... I want to cry and hide myself in...
    ellesaratoubi ellesaratoubi 18-21, F Mar 2

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    Sometimes, when I know I've eaten too much, I make myself sick. I'm worried that I will end up making this into a habit. I just hate the feeling of being full. Food scares me...
    Ambernonymous Ambernonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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