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I Am Sick of People Making False Assumptions

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    I'm mistaken for a flirt

    when I'm friendly, I'm mistaken for a ***** when I'm blunt, I'm mistaken for shy when I'm quiet. QUIT assuming and get to know me before assuming and/or judging me!
    Wings1969 Wings1969 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Forever getting called a phscho cos I'm

    mentally ill, I'm so done
    Rosexxo Rosexxo 13-15, F Jun 13

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    Are You Still Making Assumptions?

    Did you know that what you say and how you say it directly affects the buying decision of your prospects? If you are not in tune with their desires, problems and wants then you will be unable to deliver powerful messages that resonate with them. Think about how YOU make your own...
    ceemonie2013 ceemonie2013 22-25, F Jan 12, 2013

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    People are so quick to judge.

    They don't know me, or my story. They hear the rumors, they think they know the facts. When actually what they think they know, is completely false. Than when you try and talk to someone new, you get asked all these questions because they've heard so bad about you. Luckily, he...
    perfectlyimperrfect perfectlyimperrfect 13-15, F Jun 11

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    Here We Go Again...

    Seriously, how hard is it to try to get to know someone or understand something before you judge? And if you don't like someone or something, then steer clear of them - that's what I do!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    Just Got Back

    I just got back to the site after a LONG time away and the very first comment that I read was another assumption. I was always very thorough and detailed in the stories I wrote on here, yet people still make assumptions. I am used to them, as I must deal with them in life too...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F May 13, 2012

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    -.-

    I really hate when my gf Accuses me of not careing or going with some one else blah blah i hate being told im this that when im not
    alucardx alucardx 18-21, M Dec 2, 2010

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    I Avoid It

    So is it too much to ask for others to avoid it as well? Apparently. People make assumptions about me on a daily basis, and I am sick of being judged based on false assumptions! I feel like I am being held responsible for things I did not even do - which is...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    It's Been Happening All My Life.

    All throughout my life, people have been making false assumptions about me. The earliest and most recurrent false assumption I can think of is that I'm gay. Ever since about the age of 12 I have constantly been called 'gay', 'homo', '***', '******' and the like. I do have a lot...
    TobiasNorth TobiasNorth 18-21, M May 16, 2013

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    I am sick of people who are gorgeous

    and think they are the shame of the nation. I am sick of girls with everything to gain but choose otherwise. I am sick of women that are immature bitter and old. Cheer the f up people its only life last time I breathed in the O2
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Don't Label Me

    I hate being labelled. People are constantly making assuptions about me because of my image. I dye my hair black and often wear black clothes, this does not mean I'm Emo or Goth or anything else. I don't belong to a group I'm just me. I recently decided to shave half my...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I Do This So Much!

    I was searching for a group that said something along the lines of 'I make assumptions', but this group is as close as it came. I don't want to blame other people for making assumptions, but I do, and it's because I do the same thing.
    keisan keisan 18-21 Jul 5, 2011

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    Time to End

    False assumption. Judging others or situations or ideas or making decisions ... based on fear, stereotypes, insufficient data, and so many more reason. False assumptions. They only tend to destroy and never build.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Assume All You Want About Me. I Doubt It's True Until You Know Me.

    I can't claim that I don't assume things about other people. I can say that I try to avoid it because I don't know what their lives have been like at all so I have no real right to do any assuming. I think everyone in their own way does their own assuming. I have been in another...
    allIeverwas allIeverwas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    I've Had A Few Made About Me, Lol.

    I guess I can understand sometimes that people might "wonder if.." stuff, but I think it's a bit stupid to make assumptions about people when you can just reserve judgement til you know the facts.. to me that seems more sensible.I've had assumptions made about me because of my...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jun 9, 2012

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    All The Time

    People make false assumptions about me all the time both in my everyday life and online. And it is true, I am sick of it. I wish they would stop. On EP I often have people assume things that are not true or that I have never said. I try to be thorough in stories without going...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F Jul 27, 2011

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    My Life Is Based On False Assumptions

    No one talks to me or what to hear what I have to say. They just look at my life and make false assumptions about me. Its really annoying. Why do ppl make it their business to try to know so much of what they cant understand that they make false assumptions?    ...
    UnsureAndAlone UnsureAndAlone 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    If I can only have one wish my wish would be for everyone to get along and see past stereotypes. This world is so wicked full of sick people.
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    I can't post anything anywhere anymore without some troll either personally attacking me or trying to get whatever I posted taken down. And I'm sick of it. They will even claim...
    SadDrama SadDrama 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Yes; a man got up the courage to report me, a woman. It hurt my feelings. A few years later, he says to my mother, "she's taking it personally." He's not supposed to talk to me...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Being judged right away is all I'm used to. Whether it's because I don't look like the next girl, wear the same clothes, go out with a new boy every five seconds, and even just...
    xxhappilyeverafterxx xxhappilyeverafterxx 13-15, F Dec 5

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    The first time I made love was with my current boyfriend. He had asked if I ever climaxed. I giggled feeling a bit odd, then I answered no. I remember him kissing me, and telling...
    sinnamonsie sinnamonsie 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I don't understand why no sex or making sure you supposingly never have kids is the answer. That's entirely unfair to the people who take precautions and enjoy sex. It offends me...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    the other day i was not doing much, making dinner. when the managers son showed up at my door, knocking.. he shows me a paper with my nic on it.. saying it is a negative review...
    FreeThinker2 FreeThinker2 46-50 Dec 8

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    I hate my cousin steals from everyone in my family. He's stolen diamond earrings from my mom, hundreds of dollars from his mom, & the most recent was he stole Xanax and a diamond...
    thuggafu007 thuggafu007 18-21, M Nov 23

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    He has no right to throw his self-hatred at me. He has no right to treat me like dirt because it's easier than hating himself. Who was the man I grew to know? Who was that person...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    (This post applies to everything except my girlfriend) I'm just ******* sick of it... I'm sick of all the lies that I tell people and they tell me... I'm sick of the same routine...
    AnonymousSigh AnonymousSigh 18-21, M Dec 2

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    A woman's life is in danger and/or so is the fetus. What do you want her to do? Keep the pregnancy with the risks of her losing her life or have a miscarriage? What if she has...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I am sick and tired of people saying that "abortion is murder". And because of that, I am not going to read and comment in groups where people believe that it is murder. That...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 30

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    So here I am again....after months away from here I've decided to return. Things for me are just horrible. I'm on medication now, which is making me so Ill nauseous 24/7 can't...
    sewamazing72 sewamazing72 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    It's a little odd but I find that when I am at work, not the facility, nor staff but with my residents I am my happiest.... Even when I am terribly down and my shoulders are being...
    orchids2blu orchids2blu 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People and their lies and false promises....I have seen so much of it lately...I have been told I have to take risks and let people in but honestly I am just tired of being hurt. I...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I also hate people who accuse others of being fake. I'm not talking personality wise, I just mean on the Internet. It seems as though people can't handle the fact that there are...
    qwernia qwernia 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Feeling very suicidal and upset right now. It really is time for me to kill myself. I don't belong on earth. I'm unwanted, unloved and hated by every person on this planet. I feel...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    okay. the title is simply stupid and not creative at all, but the funny thing is i kinda feel that way. I'm sick. I'm tired. and it makes me feel sick and tired. i wish i don't...
    alifia alifia 18-21, F Nov 26

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    Ok people of the internet world. I am sick of certain types of people...PERVS! God **** leave me the **** alone! If you are over 21 I don't even want a single message from you! I...
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    VillaVuka is BIG LIAR!!! He say "Most people get arrested for the first time in their teens for dumb things like Underage Possesions. I was arrested for the first time aged...
    Bergenbabe Bergenbabe 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I don't like to complain about my life because I have a great life according to people who "know" me. People who think they know me say my life is wonderful because they see who my...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    I'm good at making people feel better and I like to make people feel better but the ironic thing is that I don't like to receive help from others and I'm almost always sad or...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    VillaVuka is BIG LIAR!!! *Extensive but I speak TRUTH!! He say "Most people get arrested for the first time in their teens for dumb things like Underage Possesions. I was...
    Bergenbabe Bergenbabe 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I don't get sick too often, but when I do, I'm sick longer than others. For example, a lot of my friends got sick recently. They were all sick for 3-5 days, but when I got sick...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Nov 19

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    I like how everyone is making stereotypes about kids and saying how we are all bad and expect everything when you all forget that how you act whether related or not affects us also...
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M Nov 21

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    Don't you just love it when you're kind to someone and you're there for them when they need you, and then they decide they don't need you anymore so they block you? I'm sick of...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F Nov 27

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    Ok, firstly I love animals. I own a lovely Yorkshire Terrier who is well behaved and trained. A few months I had an issue with our next door neighbors dogs jumping our and there...
    choxie22 choxie22 22-25, F Dec 4

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