I Am Sick of People Making False Assumptions

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 561 People

    I've Had A Few Made About Me, Lol.

    I guess I can understand sometimes that people might "wonder if.." stuff, but I think it's a bit stupid to make assumptions about people when you can just reserve judgement til you know the facts.. to me that seems more sensible.I've had assumptions made about me because of my...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo
    31-35, M
    Jun 9, 2012

    It's Been Happening All My Life.

    All throughout my life, people have been making false assumptions about me. The earliest and most recurrent false assumption I can think of is that I'm gay. Ever since about the age of 12 I have constantly been called 'gay', 'homo', '***', '******' and the like. I do have a lot...
    TobiasNorth TobiasNorth
    22-25, M
    May 16, 2013

    My Life Is Based On False Assumptions

    No one talks to me or what to hear what I have to say. They just look at my life and make false assumptions about me. Its really annoying. Why do ppl make it their business to try to know so much of what they cant understand that they make false assumptions?    ...
    UnsureAndAlone UnsureAndAlone
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

    People are so quick to judge.

    They don't know me, or my story. They hear the rumors, they think they know the facts. When actually what they think they know, is completely false. Than when you try and talk to someone new, you get asked all these questions because they've heard so bad about you. Luckily, he...
    perfectlyimperrfect perfectlyimperrfect
    16-17, F
    Jun 11, 2014

    Are You Still Making Assumptions?

    Did you know that what you say and how you say it directly affects the buying decision of your prospects? If you are not in tune with their desires, problems and wants then you will be unable to deliver powerful messages that resonate with them. Think about how YOU make your own...
    ceemonie2013 ceemonie2013
    22-25, F
    Jan 12, 2013

    That's why im so sick of myself.

    :) Today, i will figure out if i pass or fail my job application. I assumed that i already failed, given that they didn't anymore contact me for more than a week. Yesternight, the HR contacted me and she said she will post the results tomorrow. I acquired hope, i felt a little...
    yayepisoverimsad yayepisoverimsad
    22-25, F
    Feb 2

    I Avoid It

    So is it too much to ask for others to avoid it as well? Apparently. People make assumptions about me on a daily basis, and I am sick of being judged based on false assumptions! I feel like I am being held responsible for things I did not even do - which is...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    Don't Label Me

    I hate being labelled. People are constantly making assuptions about me because of my image. I dye my hair black and often wear black clothes, this does not mean I'm Emo or Goth or anything else. I don't belong to a group I'm just me. I recently decided to shave half my...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2009

    Time to End

    False assumption. Judging others or situations or ideas or making decisions ... based on fear, stereotypes, insufficient data, and so many more reason. False assumptions. They only tend to destroy and never build.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

    I know this site is almost gone,

    but I am trying to get over the feeling of assumptions on myself. I am making progress, but the judging myself is still there. I want this victim and judge in me gone.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    Apr 19


    I really hate when my gf Accuses me of not careing or going with some one else blah blah i hate being told im this that when im not
    alucardx alucardx
    18-21, M
    Dec 2, 2010

    I just started dating this guy on the first of

    February. His name is Michael, and I like him a lot! My parents however, are making false assumptions as to what kind of person he is. I am the middle child, so my older sister is also trying to interfere. She claims Michael is not worthy of me but he makes me so happy. Isn't...
    Prettyinpink33 Prettyinpink33
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    When people judge you by what other people say

    and then they say it to and then you hear it so much that you believe it #ihateeveryone
    KittyLannister KittyLannister
    16-17, F
    Jan 24

    Assume All You Want About Me. I Doubt It's True Until You Know Me.

    I can't claim that I don't assume things about other people. I can say that I try to avoid it because I don't know what their lives have been like at all so I have no real right to do any assuming. I think everyone in their own way does their own assuming. I have been in another...
    allIeverwas allIeverwas
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2012

    I'm mistaken for a flirt

    when I'm friendly, I'm mistaken for a ***** when I'm blunt, I'm mistaken for shy when I'm quiet. QUIT assuming and get to know me before assuming and/or judging me!
    Wings1969 Wings1969
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2014

    Forever getting called a phscho cos I'm

    mentally ill, I'm so done
    Rosexxo Rosexxo
    16-17, F
    Jun 13, 2014

    Im tired of people treating me like i'm

    mentally retarded just cause of the way i sound, just because i have a stutter. Stop treating me like i'm child!! I understand you perfectly fine!! I'm not deaf i'm not retarded, I know how to speak and it sounds great in my head i just have a hard time getting it out. And i can...
    DyslexicCookie DyslexicCookie
    22-25, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    All The Time

    People make false assumptions about me all the time both in my everyday life and online. And it is true, I am sick of it. I wish they would stop. On EP I often have people assume things that are not true or that I have never said. I try to be thorough in stories without going...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2011

    I Do This So Much!

    I was searching for a group that said something along the lines of 'I make assumptions', but this group is as close as it came. I don't want to blame other people for making assumptions, but I do, and it's because I do the same thing.
    keisan keisan
    Jul 5, 2011

    Just Got Back

    I just got back to the site after a LONG time away and the very first comment that I read was another assumption. I was always very thorough and detailed in the stories I wrote on here, yet people still make assumptions. I am used to them, as I must deal with them in life too...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    May 13, 2012

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