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I Am Sick of People Making False Assumptions

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    Are You Still Making Assumptions?

    Did you know that what you say and how you say it directly affects the buying decision of your prospects? If you are not in tune with their desires, problems and wants then you will be unable to deliver powerful messages that resonate with them. Think about how YOU make your own...
    ceemonie2013 ceemonie2013 22-25, F Jan 12, 2013

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    All The Time

    People make false assumptions about me all the time both in my everyday life and online. And it is true, I am sick of it. I wish they would stop. On EP I often have people assume things that are not true or that I have never said. I try to be thorough in stories without going...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F Jul 27, 2011

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    Just because I have many people in my circle.

    ,don't think I am a perverted person.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    Time to End

    False assumption. Judging others or situations or ideas or making decisions ... based on fear, stereotypes, insufficient data, and so many more reason. False assumptions. They only tend to destroy and never build.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I've Had A Few Made About Me, Lol.

    I guess I can understand sometimes that people might "wonder if.." stuff, but I think it's a bit stupid to make assumptions about people when you can just reserve judgement til you know the facts.. to me that seems more sensible.I've had assumptions made about me because of my...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jun 9, 2012

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    It's Been Happening All My Life.

    All throughout my life, people have been making false assumptions about me. The earliest and most recurrent false assumption I can think of is that I'm gay. Ever since about the age of 12 I have constantly been called 'gay', 'homo', '***', '******' and the like. I do have a lot...
    TobiasNorth TobiasNorth 18-21, M May 16, 2013

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    -.-

    I really hate when my gf Accuses me of not careing or going with some one else blah blah i hate being told im this that when im not
    alucardx alucardx 18-21, M Dec 2, 2010

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    People are so quick to judge.

    They don't know me, or my story. They hear the rumors, they think they know the facts. When actually what they think they know, is completely false. Than when you try and talk to someone new, you get asked all these questions because they've heard so bad about you. Luckily, he...
    perfectlyimperrfect perfectlyimperrfect 13-15, F Jun 11, 2014

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    Here We Go Again...

    Seriously, how hard is it to try to get to know someone or understand something before you judge? And if you don't like someone or something, then steer clear of them - that's what I do!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    I Do This So Much!

    I was searching for a group that said something along the lines of 'I make assumptions', but this group is as close as it came. I don't want to blame other people for making assumptions, but I do, and it's because I do the same thing.
    keisan keisan 18-21 Jul 5, 2011

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    Assume All You Want About Me. I Doubt It's True Until You Know Me.

    I can't claim that I don't assume things about other people. I can say that I try to avoid it because I don't know what their lives have been like at all so I have no real right to do any assuming. I think everyone in their own way does their own assuming. I have been in another...
    allIeverwas allIeverwas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    My Life Is Based On False Assumptions

    No one talks to me or what to hear what I have to say. They just look at my life and make false assumptions about me. Its really annoying. Why do ppl make it their business to try to know so much of what they cant understand that they make false assumptions?    ...
    UnsureAndAlone UnsureAndAlone 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Just Got Back

    I just got back to the site after a LONG time away and the very first comment that I read was another assumption. I was always very thorough and detailed in the stories I wrote on here, yet people still make assumptions. I am used to them, as I must deal with them in life too...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F May 13, 2012

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    Forever getting called a phscho cos I'm

    mentally ill, I'm so done
    Rosexxo Rosexxo 16-17, F Jun 13, 2014

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    I Avoid It

    So is it too much to ask for others to avoid it as well? Apparently. People make assumptions about me on a daily basis, and I am sick of being judged based on false assumptions! I feel like I am being held responsible for things I did not even do - which is...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Don't Label Me

    I hate being labelled. People are constantly making assuptions about me because of my image. I dye my hair black and often wear black clothes, this does not mean I'm Emo or Goth or anything else. I don't belong to a group I'm just me. I recently decided to shave half my...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I'm mistaken for a flirt

    when I'm friendly, I'm mistaken for a ***** when I'm blunt, I'm mistaken for shy when I'm quiet. QUIT assuming and get to know me before assuming and/or judging me!
    Wings1969 Wings1969 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2014

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    Well, sick is a strong word.

    I just dislike it. Don't assume. PLEASE. If you can't avoid it, try assuming the positive for a change. Up until a couple of years ago I sat in my smug little cocoon thinking what a good wife am I. For I knew the root of everything I said and did. I assumed my husband did as...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    This is something that is terrible when a person is falsely accused of something they did not do. They cant find evidence to exonerate them and they are blamed. So many of these...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    But not awesome sick. Just gross sick.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 26

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    Because they leave us using this. http://youtu.be/UtBsl3j0YRQ
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 27

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    This would be a bad deal... just imagine how much more dramatic Facebook would be! It's bad enough some of these false assumptions of others people are constantly dishing out.
    bubble83 bubble83 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I hate cheaters people who thinks it's ok I read some post people having affairs or being the other woman and are ok with being with married man or woman. To me it's All BULLSH*T...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    stupid people making comments about how they want clothes that are designed for bigger people (woman). but **** them because when i go shopping now days all the nice clothes are...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I've been called a hypocrite because they couldn't view my activities on the app.. they assumed i set my activities visibility off.. i hve no idea what their assumptions on WHY i...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 8 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm sorry I haven't been in EP for a few days posting my experiences but I am very sick at the moment and have been feeling awful all week long. Plus I went to go see The Who...
    Daredevil1942 Daredevil1942 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    If you don’t live with mental illness, don’t make assumptions about what is and isn’t a symptom. Depression isn’t always sitting in a dark room, crying. It’s forgetting...
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    To the dude out there, (I'm not giving a sick guy any face to spare) so this is directed to tomcam who blocked me for really stupid reasons. what did I even do to deserve being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I need someone sincere to talk to I feel like ending my life I was seeing a guy for 5 weeks ... I knew he was a player and saw red flags from the go ... He's also a very bad man...
    imnormalbutlonely imnormalbutlonely 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    all gods are false. ( man made ). demons are too. BTW, Santa's fake too. try reality and truth. check the definitions of both those words. neither include the conception of the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29

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    and when they're the people you love, it will double the pain.. assumptions are like baseless accusations, they'll hurt no matter what..and the fact that they're the loved ones who...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 10 Responses Apr 2

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    I hate people. I really do. I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    So you can't even reply to a simple hello? What, you know nothing about me and you've already made assumptions?
    lukeskywalker89 lukeskywalker89 22-25, M Apr 11

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    I thought I'd make another post about being a member at a methadone clinic... Well, I have been a patient since October of 2012, so quite a while now. Anyway, this is really my...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    When you're very lonely or been through so many bad times in your life.You make mistakes with some people or a person you may put your trust into deeply. I'm so damn lonely that I...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I hate it that the people who have hurt me are living happily and making progress in their lives. It makes me question the existence of God and His justice ..It seems that all...
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Over a year ago I became symptomatic with CDA type 2 and hemochromatosis. Both are blood disorders, the first one CDA is more serious and very rare. They both essentially store...
    gottakeepyourheadup gottakeepyourheadup 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Yes I accept them but that doesn't mean they don't make me absolutely insane sometimes. My crazies are out in full force at work today. It's always a challenge to work with so...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    It is what happens on this site all the time I guess. There are so many unused accounts and users looking for a few pep talks over a few days, weeks or some months telling you that...
    rockingentleman rockingentleman 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    yesterday i felt sick.so i was gone at hispital.there where i was waited for doctor at check up queue.when i reached at checked up room someone patient said to doctor that Patient...
    searchnew searchnew 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    I am a child of divorced parents. I'm new here, clicked on something about bullying and ended up being about divorce with an angry mob saying "dump him! dump him!" I have a...
    railhead74 railhead74 36-40, M Apr 15

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    ALL THAT FALSE CRAP IS TRACKED WHILE I AM SPEAKING DEAD FOR LIKE 3 YEARS...
    REDPORKSLOB123 REDPORKSLOB123 51-55, F Mar 28

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