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I Am Sick of People Making False Assumptions

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    Im tired of people treating me like i'm

    mentally retarded just cause of the way i sound, just because i have a stutter. Stop treating me like i'm child!! I understand you perfectly fine!! I'm not deaf i'm not retarded, I know how to speak and it sounds great in my head i just have a hard time getting it out. And i can...
    DyslexicCookie DyslexicCookie 22-25, F Jul 27

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    I really hate when my gf Accuses me of not careing or going with some one else blah blah i hate being told im this that when im not
    alucardx alucardx 18-21, M Dec 2, 2010

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    Forever getting called a phscho cos I'm

    mentally ill, I'm so done
    Rosexxo Rosexxo 16-17, F Jun 13, 2014

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    Assume All You Want About Me. I Doubt It's True Until You Know Me.

    I can't claim that I don't assume things about other people. I can say that I try to avoid it because I don't know what their lives have been like at all so I have no real right to do any assuming. I think everyone in their own way does their own assuming. I have been in another...
    allIeverwas allIeverwas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    Just Got Back

    I just got back to the site after a LONG time away and the very first comment that I read was another assumption. I was always very thorough and detailed in the stories I wrote on here, yet people still make assumptions. I am used to them, as I must deal with them in life too...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F May 13, 2012

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    I Avoid It

    So is it too much to ask for others to avoid it as well? Apparently. People make assumptions about me on a daily basis, and I am sick of being judged based on false assumptions! I feel like I am being held responsible for things I did not even do - which is...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I'm mistaken for a flirt

    when I'm friendly, I'm mistaken for a ***** when I'm blunt, I'm mistaken for shy when I'm quiet. QUIT assuming and get to know me before assuming and/or judging me!
    Wings1969 Wings1969 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Just because I have many people in my circle.

    ,don't think I am a perverted person.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    Time to End

    False assumption. Judging others or situations or ideas or making decisions ... based on fear, stereotypes, insufficient data, and so many more reason. False assumptions. They only tend to destroy and never build.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I've Had A Few Made About Me, Lol.

    I guess I can understand sometimes that people might "wonder if.." stuff, but I think it's a bit stupid to make assumptions about people when you can just reserve judgement til you know the facts.. to me that seems more sensible.I've had assumptions made about me because of my...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jun 9, 2012

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    Are You Still Making Assumptions?

    Did you know that what you say and how you say it directly affects the buying decision of your prospects? If you are not in tune with their desires, problems and wants then you will be unable to deliver powerful messages that resonate with them. Think about how YOU make your own...
    ceemonie2013 ceemonie2013 22-25, F Jan 12, 2013

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    It's Been Happening All My Life.

    All throughout my life, people have been making false assumptions about me. The earliest and most recurrent false assumption I can think of is that I'm gay. Ever since about the age of 12 I have constantly been called 'gay', 'homo', '***', '******' and the like. I do have a lot...
    TobiasNorth TobiasNorth 18-21, M May 16, 2013

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    I Do This So Much!

    I was searching for a group that said something along the lines of 'I make assumptions', but this group is as close as it came. I don't want to blame other people for making assumptions, but I do, and it's because I do the same thing.
    keisan keisan 18-21 Jul 5, 2011

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    Don't Label Me

    I hate being labelled. People are constantly making assuptions about me because of my image. I dye my hair black and often wear black clothes, this does not mean I'm Emo or Goth or anything else. I don't belong to a group I'm just me. I recently decided to shave half my...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F Nov 24, 2009

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    All The Time

    People make false assumptions about me all the time both in my everyday life and online. And it is true, I am sick of it. I wish they would stop. On EP I often have people assume things that are not true or that I have never said. I try to be thorough in stories without going...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F Jul 27, 2011

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    People are so quick to judge.

    They don't know me, or my story. They hear the rumors, they think they know the facts. When actually what they think they know, is completely false. Than when you try and talk to someone new, you get asked all these questions because they've heard so bad about you. Luckily, he...
    perfectlyimperrfect perfectlyimperrfect 13-15, F Jun 11, 2014

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    Here We Go Again...

    Seriously, how hard is it to try to get to know someone or understand something before you judge? And if you don't like someone or something, then steer clear of them - that's what I do!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    Well, sick is a strong word.

    I just dislike it. Don't assume. PLEASE. If you can't avoid it, try assuming the positive for a change. Up until a couple of years ago I sat in my smug little cocoon thinking what a good wife am I. For I knew the root of everything I said and did. I assumed my husband did as...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    My Life Is Based On False Assumptions

    No one talks to me or what to hear what I have to say. They just look at my life and make false assumptions about me. Its really annoying. Why do ppl make it their business to try to know so much of what they cant understand that they make false assumptions?    ...
    UnsureAndAlone UnsureAndAlone 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    once I just use my face make people laugh long time, but I don't know what thing happened..
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    I spend 2-3 hours on the metro stations, markets once a week, just observing people, combing crowds and just watching people, and enjoying the order of chaos our life is.
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    Today, I was driving to the mall with my mom. We were going to catch the early show of The Man from UNCLE as we both had some stuff to do later in the day and I didn't to watch it...
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    Lately, I've been hearing people say hamburg instead of hamburger. I don't know why, but it drives me CRAZY! Why the **** can't people just say the word. Another one I hate is...
    DavidBianchet DavidBianchet 41-45 6 hrs ago

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    And sick from sad. And sad from society sick And sickened by society causing sad.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    So it has occurred to me that someone in the midst isn't as nice or supportive as they appear. And being that I'm always warned but never take heed i deserve whatever feelings im...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    UndyingWraith UndyingWraith 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I thought I found a friend on here but it was A Nother false lie!!! I can't believe ppl only care about there needs and what they want!! Like I was going to ever send u money...
    Yukinaru Yukinaru 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm sick with some Spanish fiestas. I had to switch off the TV yesterday, as every day. The reason this time is that they were broadcasting videos about how a bull or a little bull...
    mmorgam mmorgam 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well this day can't get any ******* worse.
    KStyles96 KStyles96 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so damn tired 😩 and every little ******* thing is making me so ******* angry and very upset and i ******* hate it. So much bills💰 to pay today. - Now I need a damn...
    sunshineh13 sunshineh13 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Tomorrows a big day for my country, they plan to overthrow the government. And I mean it. It's pretty scary and I wouldn't actually be to concerned about it, well, if I wasn't...
    SugarDoughnut SugarDoughnut 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am incredibly sad and lonely. We moved across the country so that we could be near my husband's children and grandchildren. Instead, I've been shunned. I don't know if it's...
    jennifr1966 jennifr1966 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So, no need for bullshit, false modesty, or useless manners. Say what you mean and be who you are, and don't ask a question unless you want an answer. We'll geet on fine then.
    AAJames AAJames 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am so tired of being used by 'friends', being treated badly by family members and made to feel like I am nothing. All I have done is care for others and all it has done in...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Use a dating site for obvious reasons. Message people to try and get to know them for a relationship, no reply. Message people to try and be friends, no reply. What the hell have...
    JonnySlackMallon JonnySlackMallon 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    It's funny how some people make assumptions of who I am based on a few posted experiences. A few parts doesn't make the whole.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Recently, I've been queued in that I might be a psychopath/sociopath, whatever. Yes, I'm empathic and for the last couple years believed that maybe I was bipolar. A dear...
    Mountainweaver Mountainweaver 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    People are sheep. They follow what they are told, whether they understand it or not. Think back to that whole "gluten is bad for you, DON'T EAT IT!" from the media. That was what...
    Aberzhulan Aberzhulan 22-25, M Aug 23

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    I am a perfectionist i always got anything if i want. I didn't care how hard it is or how long it will take. I always reach out what i want. But three months ago i lost my...
    Gloriaboszaman Gloriaboszaman 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    School just started and I feel myself getting sick. -_- just a scratchy thoat and cough but SERIOUSLY!? School just started and germy people already got me sick :P now I'm gonna...
    AllieKat17 AllieKat17 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Like the title says, I can't stand cheap people. I also can't stand when people get free stuff all the time and are catered to for doing absolutely nothing. And these are the same...
    usualobject88 usualobject88 26-30, F Aug 22

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    I wish ppl would read my profile before adding me or trying to chat with me. I am not trying to sound like an EP snob or come off as rude, but I have mostly all the information...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40