I Am Sick of People Saying Abortion Is Murder

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    If only humans laid eggs like birds/lizards/etc,

    this whole abortion debate nonsense would be null. Humans are kinda badly designed lol
    IdealTruths IdealTruths
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I'm Not against nor for it.

    It happens for a reason. "Don't judge that girl untill you've walked a mile in her shoes"
    DragonFaery DragonFaery
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    Myth: Abortion is murder.

    No it's not. The definition is murder is to unlawfully kill a human being. During the times abortion is legal, a fetus does not count as a human being. When a woman has a legalized abortion, she is not breaking any laws. Abortion is just a medical procedure. That is it. If a...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    Christians And Abortion

    I am a former pro-life Christian. Though I never believed abortion was murder, I was against it because I felt like the Bible spoke against it. But when I started studying the issue after I left Christianity, I realized that the Bible did not say anything about abortion. This and...
    JoshInJesus JoshInJesus
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    If you force a woman to give birth this is what

    will happen. She will do reckless thinks, like drink or take drugs, because she doesn't care about the fetus. She won't waste time seeing a doctor or taking vitamins because she doesn't care. She will give birth and toss the child into an uncaring and over burdened system where...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    So saw a new doctor today.

    They won't prescribe me the Mirena or another IUD because of the tubal, even though one untied. The pill is out because I take other meds. The ring and patch are over $100 a month... on top of regular insurance. My insurance won't cover birth control because of the tubal... so...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    I had an abortion in March.

    The people at the clinic were nice, the drip felt good, I enjoyed how friendly those in the operating theatre were, and drugged sleep was amazing. Am I supposed to feel guilt? Because I do not. Why should I? There are too many humans already.
    Lucienn Lucienn
    22-25, T
    13 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    Okay. I have posted a few times about this.

    I got a tubal and one of them untied, meaning I can get pregnant again. I have contacted my old OB and she can't help me, I called a few lawyers and I have no case. I moved and the doctors around here don't offer much and what they do offer is expensive. Everyone down here says...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    It gets old, doesn't it?

    I get sick and tired of people saying that it's murder, when the definition of murder is to unlawfully kill a human being. If abortion is legal, then how is it murder? That makes no sense. To say that it's murder, is nothing more than just a person's personal belief. I respect...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    Abortion (as long as it's

    before 3 months) is not murder. I don't agree with planning to defund planned parenthood. What if a young girl gets raped and gets pregnant? I believe if it's a case of rape, then you should be able to get an abortion. In an emergency case like that. All I can say is...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    I have an update to my story.

    My boyfriend and I have decided that the two hour trip is worth it! After I find out if I'm pregnant or not I can go to PP. I called them today and I would be able to go in next week for my first visit, if I'm pregnant. It takes 2-3 visits to have the abortion. Now usually PP...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    God is against abortion right?

    Wrong! Read Numbers 5:11-31,basically if you think your wife is cheating you're commanded to take her to the priest. She is then forced to drink a concoction that will abort any child she's carrying if it does not belong to her husband and render her barren for the rest of her...
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    Freakn' Christians!

    It's ironic how the christian bible bashers whom preach abstinence to rowdy teens are against abortion. Abortion is just a symptom of the lack of contraceptives. And if abortion is murder then who's to say that every time I jerk off I'm not killing millions of possible humans? I...
    Issac95 Issac95
    18-21, M
    23 Responses Mar 11, 2009

    i had an abortion at 18.

    I thought it would be easier, but it just made me depressed and wonder what life would be like with the baby...
    doesevenmatteranymore doesevenmatteranymore
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    If abortion is murder are you gonna also going

    to incriminate all those poor women who have miscarriages with involuntary manslaughter?
    cdbvsw cdbvsw
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 1, 2015

    People need to understand the difference

    between an «embryo», a «foetus» and a «child». An embryo is a simple set of diploid-eukaryote cells in its earliest stage of development, while a foetus is a developing human being that can't think for itself and acts as a parasite inside the womb of a woman, whereas a...
    Avoutrye Avoutrye
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    An acorn is not a tree,

    an early fetus is not a baby.
    imitosis imitosis
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    I must say that abortion is not black

    and white. It is not always wrong or always right. Just like many things in this world, it depends on the situation. Here however, I want to share my side of the story. Even though I am not a woman, abortion still has a personal tie to me, and here I aim to demonstrate why and...
    Contentio Contentio
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    I missed my period. Have an appointment this

    week. I did everything to avoid this! As you guys may know from previous posts. I got a tubal and when it FAILED I took some over the counter birth control. But here I am! Now if I'm pregnant I have to pay for an abortion... all because my insurance won't pay for good birth...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2016

    In respond to an awesome previous post,

    I have read about rapists having the legal rights to see the children, they forcefully created. Now for people that are against abortion, even in the cases of rape, this is as ignorant as they come. If a woman is raped and ends up pregnant, she should be given every right to...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    mind your own ******* business.

    . Maybe the girl is too young and her body isn't developed enough to handle giving birth. It could kill them. or they have a great future and a baby would get in the way of that. Or maybe they don't have the money or a place to stay to give the child a good life.
    myhappylittlepill myhappylittlepill
    16-17, F
    23 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    People say "Doctors have the right to deny a

    woman an abortion if it goes against his beliefs." but the truth is he took an oath to do what is best for his living, breathing patient. If he wants the right to say "No" he should work for a Catholic hospital. Doctors and nurses can't deny patients surgery if the patient is a...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    It annoys me when people say "murder" to

    describe abortion. Using "murder," we already run into some problems. Murder means, "the unlawful act of killing a human being." The first problem is that abortion is legal. Therefore, murder cannot be used since it is "the unlawful act." Second, it's to even debate that a fetus...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    Abortion is not murder.

    If women are getting their abortions done at a clinic, where it's safe, that doesn't make it illegal. And there's a cut off for when they stop being legal, which is around 20 weeks. So nobody's murdering babies. Nobody's killing children. And nobody is unlawfully killing human...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    I don't believe that other people should get to

    decide whether a woman chooses to abort or not. It should be her decision only.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    UPDATE!! I made my appointment with PP today.

    I go in next week. Because I live so far away they will only make me do one visit. Which is great. Finally getting some where with this problem!
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    Women in Texas are now being forced to preform

    abortions on themselves. Who will take care of their children if they die in the process? That's MORE children in the system when we can't even care for the ones we have! This is becoming ridiculous!!
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    Basically, from all of your answers,

    you moms want to get your children aborted because you're selfish. You know it. I've heard excuses. "Well I'm not gonna be a good mom!" Then train. Better the baby lives than not exist. Please hear me out. Please stop this monstrous thing.
    Heffie0504 Heffie0504
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    Ever noticed that a large majority of people

    saying abortion is wrong are male? You have no idea what it's like to be a pregnant woman. You can leave whenever you want. That **** sucks. Men are allowed to walk away. Women are always stuck with the consequences of an action done by TWO people. ITS NOT MURDER! When we die...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    Why do we actually bother wasting our time on

    pro-birthers? At the end of the day, all they are is gas and wind. They have no power over women and their choices, in a country where abortion is legalised. They can protest and whine like btches, but they can't stop you from making that choice. All they are are mouthpieces.
    FatalOrca FatalOrca
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    I am having my first abortion ever this coming

    saturday. I am nervous about this, but I know I'm making the right decision. I don't need to defend my actions on this. I want to post my frustrations however when researching all things that have to do with abortion. I'm pro-choice, and have been before I even got pregnant. But...
    happiness31 happiness31
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 20, 2014

    It's so silly. Whether

    or not you think abortion is murder, the truth is this is a personal decision between a woman and possibly her partner. It doesn't affect you, she's doing what is best for herself/her family. I don't even understand why people judge and say it's okay when they were raped/their...
    JustSharingMaybe JustSharingMaybe
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    ..... maybe it doesnt matter what you are sick

    of hearing, doesn't anyone else have a say? who is going to speak for those who cannot??? will you? https://youtu.be/BmCWHfPCAHY .
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    So I talked to my boyfriend about my worries

    and our options. He agreed with me. We'll save $200 in case. $200 once is simply easier than $100 a month. I wish it was easier and we didn't have to think about this. It's like "Why did we even get the tubal?"
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    Forced and illegal abortion is wrong.

    No woman should ever have to be denied the right to choose. If a woman decides she wants to have a safe and legal abortion, it is her right to choose. Legal abortions are not murder. There is nothing wrong with it. Believe me. I understand why a woman would have an illegal...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    If a woman is raped and chooses to have an

    abortion, why would anybody put shame and blame on her? If you do that to a woman, you are just adding to her trauma. Being raped takes a lot out of a woman. It's a painful thing to experience. If she has not recovered from that, what makes people think that she can be healthy...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2015

    Every Single Chance I Have

    I say to those who say abortion is murder, "Tell me how many unaborted babies you've adopted to help relieve the misery and heartache of overcrowded, understaffed, poorly run orphanages and the misery, heartache, and suffering of children who are passed from one greedy, abusive...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2012

    I don't care if anybody believes it's murder.

    Abortion should always be legal. Period.
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    So you're against abortion,

    against birth control and against WelFare?... well aren't you a special kind of stupid. #ProChoiceIsProLife #AntiChoiceIsProAbuse
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    I feel like it would be an easier decision to

    make if the whole adoption and foster system worked better. Most of them grow up without parents or consistency. Personally I would never get an abortion, and I am not sure if it murder or not, but it hurts my heart to see that there are a lot of women that think there is no...
    AlyssaKuro88 AlyssaKuro88
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    Abortion is not murder.

    You're not killing anything. You're killing a combination of cells that act as a parasite inside you. If you commit abortion in the first/second trimester, you're fine to go. All those pro-lifers need to stop being complete f*cking morons and understand that a fertilised two...
    Stythe Stythe
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2014

    I Will Post This Once Again.

    "There’s a concept called bodily autonomy. It’s considered a human right. Bodily autonomy means a person has control over who or what uses their body, for what, and for how long. It’s why you can’t be forced to donate blood, tissue, or organs. Even if you’re dead. Even...
    MissMotie MissMotie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2013

    Honestly Liberals kill me.

    Because I am against the death of unborn babies does not mean that I do not support women. I do not support murder. You might say well they are not the same murdering an adult and murdering an unborn child but they are. What is it that defines our humanity? Is it our...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2013

    To all of these anti-abortion "pro-life"

    individuals. You don't start living until you're born. So why should abortion matter? Simple. People can't wrap their heads around a fetus. People don't understand that animals abort their children and partake in infanticide all the time. You don't see anyone picketing outside...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    The only person who has to live with

    that decision is the woman having the abortion. Therefore nobody else deserves the right to butt in and start throwing around their beliefs. It would be illegal surely if it was murder.
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    In 31 states in America rapists have legal

    rights to see their children. So basically abort or face your rapist every weekend to hand over your child...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    I just saw a picture of an abortion at 10 weeks!

    !! It looked like my period last month...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    Honestly, I think that a woman has the right to

    do whatever she wants with her body. Its her decision so let it be
    TheWanderingWarrior TheWanderingWarrior
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    I would like to politely ask everyone here,

    if you have time, to read the following article: http://www.theblaze.com/contributions/abortion-fans-are-bad-at-science-and-even-worse-at-making-rational-arguments/ I listened to the video referenced therein, and then read through the article itself afterwards. While I think...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    While they are out there screaming "murderer",

    women are still going to the abortion clinics, terminating their pregnancies. Abortion is not murder because it is legal. You can't murder something that you can remove from your body, legally. It is a woman's body, it is her choice.
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 14, 2014
    Thatguyisme Thatguyisme
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    Abortion is about women's rights?

    Right? What if the baby is a girl? What about HER rights?
    Heffie0504 Heffie0504
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    At the end of the day

    if you're not going to be living her life, birthing the child or paying her bills you have no place to judge her. You don't like when people judge you so why judge them?
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2015
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