I Am Sick Of The People Who Bring Negativity In My Life

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    Getting Kicked Down Repetitively Really Hurts.

    I'm getting tired of getting back up again. I'm used to disappointment, but I can't stop it from hurting every single time it happens. I'm always surprised, for the most part, even though I can be pretty cynical. In a nutshell here's the briefest of what's been going on: I...
    cmazzarone cmazzarone
    22-25
    Jul 18, 2010

    I'm Not Perfect, And I Don't Pretend To Be

    and just because you think you are helping me does not make you right. telling me all things that i do wrong does not make it fact. it makes it your opinion. just because i'm not like you does not make me wrong. it just makes me different.  who are you to judge? am i...
    juggalove juggalove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2010

    I have compassion for those with mental illness.

    When it causes them to behave in a way that is threatening, or abusive, I think I have the right to exclude them from my life. This is not a decision I want to make, it is necessary for my health and well being. Ultimately, I am not responsible for how someone behaves, but I can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    Hopefully, They'll Be Gone Soon

    These two girls in my class used to be my friends. We had a HUGE falling out last year over something petty and stupid. Now, every time they see me, they always have to make an unnecisary comment about the way I look or something. Me and my friends try to be the better people...
    miikagirl16 miikagirl16
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 4, 2010

    Easier To Be Alone Than To Deal With This Negativity

    I don't have many friends. I have aquaintances, but not many close friends. I am dealing with some personal stuff right now and I needed someone to talk to. I could not reach any of my closer friends right away, so I made a mistake and called someone who used to be a close friend...
    Sunburst Sunburst
    22-25
    Feb 12, 2011

    Get Happy~

    I am a happy apple that long ago rid myself of the drama queens and downers that once haunted my life. I've lived long enough to know that life is precious and short. My motto is "be happy anyway" Peace and happiness are often all about personal choices. I have worked with the...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012

    "phasing" Them Out, Hit's The Spot.....

    I ended at least 5-7 "friendships" last year. People were REALLY beginning to grate on my soul....very much so indeed! I was pals with a 20 years older than me who became utterly co dependent on me, to the detriment of my own life. Very needy, like an energy vampire She would...
    kindakooky kindakooky
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2011

    People Can Only Do You Allow

    I understand that negativity is a downer and that comes from people who are in pain in their own life. They always seek out others that are in some kind of pain and drag them into their life. It goes with that old sayin "Misery Loves Company". For some reason, it makes them...
    settersten settersten
    51-55
    1 Response May 4, 2010

    Empty Your Baggage Before It Weighs You Down

    It never really occurred to me that I was the reason that my life was filled with negative people, financial hardships, and failed relationships. From childhood I was made to believe that I was to be seen and not heard, please everyone around me because that would make them...
    settersten settersten
    51-55
    May 5, 2010

    A Lot Of People Like This In My Life....

    Especially my mother who berates me for my decision not to get back in touch with my old friend who hurt me a lot. We were best friends for years but I got tired of her constantly changing plans and letting me down. I also got tired of her always wanting things her own way and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 2, 2011

    Everybody Back Off . . . .

    "Life is short. In one minute you can lose it. In one minute it can all be gone. Don't worry so much about money. Live your life. Live every second of it" ~ Chilean Miner Mario Sepulveda  One of my cousins posted this quote as her status today, and it is SO perfect for...
    teach82 teach82
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

    2013

    Ok so Im the type of person who can always put a smile on my face and crack a joke even if i am sad. I just have this positive energy and everyone around me loves my good vibes and happy smiles. Then there are these people who try to suck everything out of me. They are so...
    Getemtiger Getemtiger
    31-35, F
    Jan 16, 2013

    Arghhhhhhhh

    Like this colleague of mine with whom I share an office. She's the type that thinks that the glass is half empty. She "knows" that all her attempts at anything will fail, or that people want to steal her stuff, etc. She always complains about everything. And will definitely make...
    SunnySmile SunnySmile
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2010

    "ughhhh"

    i HAD this boyfriend that i THOUGHT i was serious about. i let him treat me like crap and then when we broke up id take him back. but everytime we'd break up he'd go around spreading rumors about me. but somewhere in my heart i still wanted to be with him so i kept taking...
    HisDepartureAug302010 HisDepartureAug302010
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 4, 2010
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