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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 360 People

    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 13-15, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    i dont really have much self esteem anymore. i used to be really fat but even then, I was happy and I felt pretty. nowdays, i dont. it's like, everyone tells me im pretty and that...
    TrueLondon TrueLondon 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I've already posted about my self esteem so this will be about Confidence. My confidence is at minimum. BELOW even. It always is. I try to find reasons why I should have...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 20

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    There was a small time in my life that my confidence started to bloom. I modeled for a few photographers, I was happy with the way I looked minus a few things if course. I...
    MarKri MarKri 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Please tell me I'm more than a stupid tv show... I was saying goodnight to my mom a few minutes ago and trying to talk to her about tomorrow morning, and she basically just...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I have a hard time in life and relationships in general because i have a really low self esteem, idk why this is, i just know its there and i can't do anything about it.. Ive tried...
    Cheesyboy Cheesyboy 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    /rant Today on my regular minecraft server (which I almost don't want to play on anymore.) I was told I by a staff member that the youngsters who play deserve to be berated and...
    PrettyLikeHelloKitty PrettyLikeHelloKitty 26-30, F Sep 10

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    I really do. Growing up being told that you're a failure and never going to amount to anything tends to have that effect on someone. On a side note since my esteem is so low it...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 9

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    I know for a fact that I could never have someone who I believe is extremely beautiful. So, I settled for just anyone who could make me happy. I just wish she knew that if I do...
    iamokaynow iamokaynow 31-35, M Sep 4

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    Stevie Wonder - for once in my life Listen to this song, read the lyrics and then imagine you singing it to your self, magical will happen lol... On the real though, love to me...
    OhGK OhGK 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I'm not a fan of Ulrika Johnson. But I do know one thing about her: she said whenever anybody told her they loved her, she automatically lost respect for them. Because how could...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to kill myself. I told my dad that I was lesbian. He was greatful I told him. But I told my grandma and she hates me. She said she wants me out of the house. I just want to...
    Marisacruz20 Marisacruz20 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 13

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    Last night was our monthly Retrouvaille support group (called CORE) for marriage meeting. Summary, for anyone new to this part of EP, we are over a year since I discovered his...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Its a sickness they have. Unless they got screwed like most today who get taken by corporations or laws meant to help keep poor in poverty.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    If I told you that I dream of going to sleep and never waking up, would you believe me? I am surrounded by so many people who love me but none of them understand me. I like to...
    nina654321 nina654321 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I'm gonna die! I'm killing myself
    kaiovinicius kaiovinicius 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 17

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    I just really tired of people who say stupid stuff to me like saying there my Friends v.v I should just die alredy I have nuthibg in this world anymore
    alonzokim alonzokim 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    Im soo stupid. I had my chance at love a while back but i was too stupid and blind to notice she was in love with me. I messed up i just want to kill myself so i dont have to keep...
    CuddlesNSnuggles CuddlesNSnuggles 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It makes me angry when people reach out for help with this and no one cares to give them a hand. People these days are cruel and selfish and need to wake up and look around them...
    lshidonil lshidonil 16-17, F Sep 22

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    This is NOT my story. This story belongs to Annie3321. I am posting it here for those that struggle with staying. It is amazing insight into what happens once the "affair fog...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Those types of people can be dangerous.
    seotelkniwt seotelkniwt 61-65, F Sep 1

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    I hate it when people bully others I wish I could just get violent but I know that won't solve anything
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M Sep 15

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    This it the most anoying ******* thing ever when there like oh I'm so popular and my shoes this and my this and I'm that it drives me crazy seriously no one cares but them if you...
    drew725 drew725 13-15, M Sep 8

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    I was bullied on elementary school and at the junior high but now there was a new guy who thought the same thing and I broke all my emotions open so I his elbow joint and he choked...
    jack3683 jack3683 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    I've also while I was younger grew up being bullied and even kicked in the forehead because a bully tried to say I took his bus seat. Even got stabbed in the back by another...
    babyglp babyglp 46-50, M Sep 15

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    So I have been doing a lot of reading on cheating, exploring The Other Woman section of EP...generally just obsessing over it. Not only can I not understand The Other Woman(/Man...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Points finger > You don't know who you are.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M a week ago

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    Oh god yes. My mom's whole family are nothing but bigoted asshats. They think they're better than everyone else, and judge and look down on everyone.
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I honestly do wish it was easier to forgive the ones who hurt me. But once i think about what they did to me i become so angry and i don't want to feel this way anymore. I don't...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Are you ready to show the jerks in your life just how strong you are? Is it time for people to recognize? I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV where people who have a rivalry or an...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I really just don't like myself.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I hate the way I look and I just feel like no one will ever be interested in me. Anyone else feel that way??
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Olga No matter how many times I punch the mirror it still reflects still projects still renders that horrid reality all too clearly I don't look at myself and think “cute” I...
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 3

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    I feel like I'll never have a relationship because I will never believe someone likes me.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    All I do on here is post about how much I dislike myself. I really need to get my **** together lol.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I have trouble trusting people which stops me from having any kind of relationship. I want someone to talk to but I know I won't open up at all. I had to talk myself to putting...
    BoMolly BoMolly 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Always when I have to speak in front of many people my face turns red and I speak weird. My friends call me shy. But I just think it's not my people.
    Ramakichi Ramakichi 18-21, F Sep 10

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    I question my work ablity. I have been doing the same work for 18 years. I fear that my son will not call me all the time. I fear that he will get in trouble.
    littleoreo littleoreo 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 11

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