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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 16-17, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I don't have poor self-esteem. I have poor esteem for everyone else! - Daria
    NG725324 NG725324 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    It wasn't until I searched low self esteem, did u find , and confidence. To read this was to feel validated. The internal conflicts the eternal of my existence each and every day...
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I have low self esteem in general. I went in this morning to take my drivers test for my license. I was really nervous. I passed maneuverability. After that, we went into the...
    charlieisme charlieisme 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I recently deleted all other social media from my life due to the fact that it was causing so much harm to my self esteem. I woke up every morning blindly scrolling through each...
    Danlor9991 Danlor9991 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I have low self esteem I'm 5'2 and only weigh 90 pounds,,, I hate being skinny,,, now a days guys want thick girls
    sactownbarbie sactownbarbie 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I have a new idea for you if you suffer from low self esteem. This should work for most of you: Are you a child abuser? Do you regularly punt puppies? Do you eat monkey brains...
    breadandcircus breadandcircus 22-25 4 Responses Feb 10

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    LOL. This is funny, because this group is judging others who judge others. Hypocritical? Everyone judges someone's character. How many people have NOT judged Hitler?
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am really sick of feeling like a failure all of the time. I'm tired of wanting to die every time I make a mistake. The reason why I feel this way is because all of my peers treat...
    charlieisme charlieisme 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I don't think people really need a reason for this. We're in a world where media shows standards for males and females that are impossible. It's not even one person- it's multiple...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I've feel like killing myself every few days or so. My life as been like this for a very long time, years. its not that I want to die...its that I don't want to live anymore. Sure...
    kbgsdjl kbgsdjl 22-25, F a week ago

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    i used to have self confident when i was younger but when i hit puberty it changed. all the other girls had better developed bodies and got boyfriends so easily and i never got any...
    avalily avalily 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Very very low. I've always been made fun of. I have fat legs, stomach, arms.. Everything. I also have stretchmarks in all of those areas. I hate it so much...
    WishMeLuck15 WishMeLuck15 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I find it hard to find people who understand how hard it is to never like yourself. I'm my own worst critic.
    xxmonkeynessxx xxmonkeynessxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    So I'm feeling down about my body, im slightly chubby and such, but and this is a bug but, my boobs are very small they fit into a 38 A cup. This always makes me feel bad, most...
    Cuttlefishculler Cuttlefishculler 18-21 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I owe it all to my parents, always calling me stupid and telling me that I'm a bad person who isn't good enough. Whenever I want to talk, they tell me to go to my room and talk to...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I've no real self worth. I've tried all other options. My two friends IRL are f*cking crazy, and another is a serious self harmer. I feel weak and hopeless after losing my friend...
    louisrcac louisrcac 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I just want to kill myself or die more than anything . I lost everything in my life. I'm even losing the things that kept me from killing myself such as my ability to do well I'm...
    IntrovertedKat IntrovertedKat 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    God is so good to reveal His Truths to me! I was feeling anxious about the anniversary date of DDay approaching on the 19th. I've talked to other betrayed spouses and know that...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    If I could kill myself I would. But my mind never lets me. Idk if I'm too strong to do it or to weak. Still so much I have to do but the way I feel makes me want to hurt myself...
    defeatthemind defeatthemind 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Because of me not feeling wanted. I want someone to want me. I want to feel loved. Why can't I have happiness like everyone else? I'm so unlucky it should be considered a talent or...
    IILoveHarryII IILoveHarryII 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I'm miserable! Me and my wife separated a year and a half ago. We are going thru a divorce. My wife has a lawyer and i dont. She has money and i dont. I was the stay at home parent...
    aschlee aschlee 31-35 1 Response Feb 21

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    it is really sad when someone gets bullied. it really is. the pain makes you wanna end life but you wanna be strong. to a point, I wanted to end my life because of bullies at my...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    I slam not going into reasons that's irrelevant I just want to die please help me to kill myself!
    pixie7512 pixie7512 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So many years of my life I have been so suicidal. Bravest thing I did was take so many pills to kill myself (sort of...) which was a mistake and I suffered the after after effects...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    No value of selfless love...
    ivonita2 ivonita2 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Memories, Reflection, In the Spirit of the Coming Spring... Tired of Feeling Lonely... So Here's a Good Memory: Last May my grandmother and my father and I rented adjoining...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Today, my "permanent" protective order expires. A few thoughts: A "permanent" protective order shouldn't last only 2 years & it shouldn't be nearly as difficult to obtain one. But...
    emilyflys26 emilyflys26 31-35 Feb 9

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    Today my husbands uncle passed away . He was a good man , always there for us after my husbands father passed away . He was a human so wasnt perfect , but he was honest and kind...
    yak3 yak3 41-45, F 8 Responses Feb 14

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    so I truly need help forgiving people who have hurt me... I have a hard time trusting people as Is and I decided to let a guy in my life come into it and be apart of my life we got...
    alexmorales123 alexmorales123 18-21, F Feb 16

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    And this I dont like, Id like to be able to comfort someone who cries. I try and work with it. But can it be done?, can it help?. Please dont cry. I will do alot to avoid that...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Feb 18

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    I almost died in an ATV accident in Mexico I had a girlfriend for 5 months online and in person She said she'll never leave me and she'll b with me through everything. A month...
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M Feb 8

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