I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 710 People

    My mother constantly tried to ***** me of my

    confidence when I was growing up. I was never thin enough, my nose was never slim enough, the list goes on.. I always envied those children who grew up with a mother who nurtured their confidence. Now that I'm away and I hardly see her, I definitely feel much more confident and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx
    18-21, M
    11 Responses May 1, 2011

    There was this guy out on the streets a few

    weeks back staggering around in a really exaggerated way; I'm not sure if he was drunk or on drugs. He was well dressed and acting like a complete tool. As I was driving past I couldn't help but stare. Next thing I knew he gave me the finger. It was completely unnecessary and...
    DragonTheDragon DragonTheDragon
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile
    31-35, F
    Nov 25, 2010

    I see it all too often.

    Some of the the most wonderful and amazing people fall victim to this. Some people would say it's weakness. It is weakness but it's the person who takes advantage, trying to keep someone down who's weak. I just can't have any respect for people who think they are right to treat...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 18

    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS
    18-21, F
    Apr 17, 2010

    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 4, 2012

    cos that means we are not perfect.

    i hate myself i can't accept people who they are,even though i don't like people force me to change my opinions and they don't let me be just me
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Feb 24

    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 31, 2010

    My best friend does that to everyone

    and it's really obvious that she does it to cover her own insecurities, but it's so annoying and people who doesn't know how she is always end up hurt
    Danimonita Danimonita
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 2
    Indigoxjosias Indigoxjosias
    18-21, M
    Nov 11, 2015

    it's only fare if we try make the World a

    comfortable place for everyone. don't judge or try diminishing somebody for being themselves
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    16-17, M
    Feb 2

    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2013

    (P.s.my experience only,

    I pray one day I will get over with) Maybe a loved one, closed people can hurt your self-esteem. I felt speechless, when someone suffering enough traumas, why keeps adding more??? Putting someone on more medications, stress out mentally/physically, and even lose appetite...
    yunxi yunxi
    26-30
    Oct 8, 2015

    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja
    13-15, T
    2 Responses May 5, 2013

    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

    Employers did more damage to me

    than anyone really. I worked hard, did a good job and just got taken advantage of and was never given a raise. Also, all the times I got turned down when I tried asking a gal out for a date hasn't done me any good. After awhile, I just gave up trying. Now I just hate life...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 18

    I was told a few months

    that one of my high school teachers is like that. She was my IEP counsellor and I have noticed her tendencies to put a few of the students down. She's done it to one of my friends several times. But then I was told by my other friend that the same woman had told one of the...
    odessa94 odessa94
    18-21, T
    1 Response Sep 23, 2015

    I mean, yeah, maybe you're feeling really bad

    about yourself but don't put other people down just cause you hate yourself. Talk to someone. Someone you trust. If you can't or don't want to, well..just try and be a better person, by being polite and helpful. I hate people who bully others, it annoys me.
    nobodynumbah8 nobodynumbah8
    16-17, F
    Feb 4
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