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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 16-17, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    I have such a low self esteem, it's very frustrating. Recently I've fallen for a guy from my work and I can't even get myself to talk to him. Maybe he is married... How could I...
    DaNiZn DaNiZn 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    My friend is always mean to me, in a nice way. I went to practice one day and I was really mad because I had basically picked out off of my flaws. And she asked me what my...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I know I have issues with my own self. It's like I hate myself so much I don't even enjoy my own company, I don't like being by myself, being what I am. My self confidence couldn't...
    infinitetenderness infinitetenderness 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I found this article and believe it to be True. Grace for Imperfection July 2, 2015 Unconditional love and acceptance – isn’t that what every one of us searches for as we...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was overweight growing up. From when I was about 6 to sometime after I turned 12 when I began to realize how terrible my eating habits had gotten. After being about 160lbs in 5th...
    Elliearellano Elliearellano 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been getting my things together to do this for a while and am finally ready. I applied for my firearms license and had been planning to do it that way, but I now have the...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just lost the love of my life due to money His family puts money before everyone. I had a stroke, couldn't contribute towards the expenses and they decided I was a burden...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Whenever I see someone struggling with something, like if someone was trying to open a door while carrying a big stack of books, I am always willing to stop what I'm doing and go...
    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I can't stand the guilt that i feel at the moment. It's just...not right. I feel that it's my time to go now. I have nothing to look forward to in this life any more. I'm on the...
    BeccaAna16 BeccaAna16 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i used to think of myself attractive and i do remember that like yesterday..i was one of those teenage guys who would do my hair for more an than an hour to make sure it looks...
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M Jul 21

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    I know in your eyes, I did the most unimaginable, unforgivable thing. I am human. I did what I did to forget all the hurt, disappointment, and to keep from having horrible...
    purtyinpink17 purtyinpink17 36-40, F Jul 21

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    Actually I have lost ALL of my self-worth and self-esteem. I'm completely empty.
    1sososad 1sososad 46-50, M Jul 21

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    What more can I say? Suddenly I realize I'm chasing, even if just in thought, and then I have to stop myself--like a reset button. I wonder why I am so persistent in wanting the...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    There are people that are so uncomfortable with their own sexuallity that they feel the need to pick on others! It drives me insane. If you are sad and down and need someone to...
    Declanx Declanx 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    This is all natural no makeup and my hair natural ... I could never walk out like this in public . Do any of you guys know how I can be more confident in my natural self ? And also...
    adriannag0416 adriannag0416 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I feel ugly😭😭. Can anybody tell me wat they think
    Louis568 Louis568 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Olga.. No matter how many times I punch the mirror it still reflects still projects still renders that horrid reality all too clearly I don't look at myself and think "cute" I...
    JosephinaBallerina JosephinaBallerina 31-35, F 14 Responses Jul 18

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    These are 10 Assertive Rights I have as a human being that I have to say out loud 3 times a day... Assertive Right #1: I have the right to judge my own behavior, thoughts, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like I look better with makeup and when I don't wear makeup I feel ugly
    adriannag0416 adriannag0416 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm too ordinary. Nothing about me is different or stands out. Blond hair, blue eyes, proportional nose. So plain. Not to mention the self harm scars on my thighs. I'm surprised I...
    YoungOne1901 YoungOne1901 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    33 year old, my body is darn skinny only 48kg height 170 and all the girls I liked freaked out bcoz of my body. I been single far too long, and it seem no girls ever want a skinny...
    ausliajulz ausliajulz 31-35, M Jul 16

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    Is it odd for a guy to feel this way? well, the body image part anyway.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Okay, so, I have very big issues with my body. The biggest issue I have is that my boobs are very, very different sizes. I know that it is natural for our boobs to be different...
    alligryda alligryda 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I always feel ugly... Not because I'm fat, but my face and skin looks ugly... My nose isn't nicely shaped (I got the pug-like nose genes from my dad), I have some facial hair (a...
    salmon140301 salmon140301 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm a 21 years young and I just want to kill myself because I most definitely have HSV. How could I live like this the rest of my life. How do I tell My current boyfriend once I...
    Tattedblackhair Tattedblackhair 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Hi my name is Paula, im not really going to go into detail about my life, all i can say is i struggle with the way my face looks. Most of the time people reject me on how my face...
    summergirl001 summergirl001 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I've been unemployed for ages, I'm going through a divorce but can't afford to move away from my ex, and I have a crush on someone I can probably never have.
    Slim79 Slim79 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I absolutely hate myself. I can't remember a time I actually loved myself. I find everything about me to be detestable. I also became the person I never wanted to be
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I want to die so I stop suffering I'm tired of being bullied ppl in my class think I'm weird and they hate me too so I've been thinking why the hell am I still here if I'm going...
    imapainter imapainter 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I was molested and sodomized before I even entered school. It happened a lot. And it shaped the person I am. The person I hate. And I really don't think I'll make it.
    anthonymunizz anthonymunizz 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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