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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 13-15, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 22-25, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I use to have low self esteem and would like to share my feelings so that it might be able to help others. Let me start off by saying I view myself as a perfectionist. In my...
    DavidRHall1996 DavidRHall1996 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I never ever felt like the need to make fun of others to feel popular or to raise my self esteem. I used to be the one who been into a lot of making fun of. I knew it was cos they...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 16

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    Let's talk about sex, shall we? One of the most difficult things to get past after Dday is the thought that your husband had sex with another woman. I know I struggled with this...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    No matter how hard I try, I just can't boost my self-esteem, When I look at myself, I see this hideous person with an ugly nose, huge lips, thick eyebrows, small squinty eyes...
    MLW1123 MLW1123 18-21 Jul 22

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    My self esteem has been severely knocked down. I'm staying indoors today. I just fear if I go into town all crushed like this that I'll do something stupid. Like let 5 guys take...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Yesterday a friend and I were in a park relaxing. A group of guys came and approached her, my friend is more curvy then I am naturally petite. My friend is really developed for her...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I literally hate myself with about everything I have inside of me . I can't even look into a mirror without wanting to barf . I'm trying to become a happier me but it's hard when I...
    r3alfri3nds r3alfri3nds 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have low self esteem as it is. I feel so low about myself. I have since I was really young (it seems more often than not). I have stooped so low today. I messaged my ex and told...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 13

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    From years of my mom telling me that I was fat and that I needed to lose weight my self esteem has plummeted to an all time low. I avoid mirrors, clothes shopping, hanging out with...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    To those who are hurting because of betrayal, a break-up or whatever else that could go wrong in a relationship- don't worry, everything will be OK. You will survive! Let this...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I don't write letters to those who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 21 hrs ago

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    Care For Those Who Dont Even Care About Me
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I must confess there was a time when I enjoyed making fun of others...so mean.It was pure act of creativity how I would analize stuff others worn or behaviours I found odd.It...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 10

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    Especially when it comes to body issues. I know I'm not perfect and there's a bit of room for improvement, but I also know I'm not fat or awful looking. I'd venture to say that I...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm sick in the head and I can't fix it I think I will start to get better but then it comes back even worse than before I need help with this and have no one to turn to cause...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    For the longest time I've been the fattest person in my family and around me and I've never fit in. I never stop thinking about how much it hurts me when I look in the mirror an...
    JennieKathleen JennieKathleen 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Look I don't think you guys understand what you are about to do. You may think you do but you don't Someone will lose their kid. Someone will lose their friends and someone will...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Doctors send so much time trying to make people feel good about them self. Some people only have a very limited amount of things to feel about. When the job you have been at for 2...
    Linndsay Linndsay 26-30 Jul 22

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    I hate life I hate society I hate myself and I want to die. I don't have a bad life I have loving parents a nice home nothing to complain about there. But I don't fit in with...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I constantly criticize my self. I hate how I look and hate how I act around people some times. I always say stupid things and even find my own self annoying some times. I feel like...
    Cartwheel3694 Cartwheel3694 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I don't think I'm pretty. I really don't. I mean I joke around a lot and I don't send pictures. People get to know me and I'm great but as soon as I show them who I really am, they...
    TheVampireQueen92 TheVampireQueen92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I'm not good enough never have been and never will be I wish people understood how bad im struggling right now going out tonight to a bar with friends sucks enough since I don't...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a really low self steem, i'm so damn scared of rejection and also scared of people making fun of me, i really can't think of me as a successful person in the future, and...
    nati900 nati900 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok, well, it was an accidental situation that only occurred once but I've often thought about it.... You know, from the perspective of "what if?" I just love life and myself too...
    infinitegratitude infinitegratitude 51-55, F Jul 3

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    No ones gets you more than yourself. People can only see and judge and not understand them. Some people are hard to understand but you can not always judge people by what you see...
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Yessssss. Big time. My brain wants their weapons in my trash. My brain say protect others by attacking. My heart says its a trap. To stay free and heal victims...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 11

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    Oh, hate is not the right term. He not only killed my parents, he, they, destroyed everything. Massacre. And then they got me. He certainly got what he wanted. And when it all came...
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 13

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    What a dumb question. I especially hate it when guys who want to date me ask this. When I was single, it was completely by choice. It was because, although I had guys who liked me...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I hate my ex boyfriend who couldn't be with me any more because he wasn't attracted to me. I hate him for saying that he wanted to be my forever and watched while I planned our...
    mooflower mooflower 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    OMG - BEST day ever!!!! I work in a completely male dominated industry. I am attractive and I get hit on a fair amount. I never respond, I just keep it all business. Today, one...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I explained in my previous stories, along with steps and resources, that my husband and I attend a monthly marriage support group for marriages that have run into trouble. This...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Jul 7

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    Alright so, Forgiveness - the art in which we "Allow oneself to overlook something someone has done" I've spent weeks, months, years even...talking to people researching, trying to...
    OGPrefix OGPrefix 26-30, M Jul 11

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    Hellu, If anyone here is interested in possibly getting to know me just send a message or add me. I'm very kind, open minded and would enjoy getting to know you. :) "If you can't...
    Yeci Yeci 22-25 Jul 21

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    I'm one of then people that had landed into the role of councillor among my friends... I don't mind, looking out for everyone, listening to there problems all the time...
    Charcaine Charcaine 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am really shy and I never think that I have done something well when apparently I have, my teachers have clearly noticed this as me and a few other under confident students have...
    Melonfriends Melonfriends 13-15, F Jul 2

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    I think I feel the worst when I think about the size difference between me and my boyfriend. I always felt the male should be bigger, that it was simply a sign of masculinity. My...
    genericidiot genericidiot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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