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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 16-17, F Jun 6, 2013

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I'm battling issues that I don't know how to handle. In the past my boyfriend would talk with girls both online and off, it never went past talking but it still hurt finding out...
    cindyboo14 cindyboo14 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 9

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    Self esteem issues are real! In fact they are more real now, than they have ever been! Living in a society obsessed by Image! Image! Image!, a society where the world is at the tip...
    pristee88 pristee88 22-25, F Dec 2

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    I used to have a low self esteem. I used to be emotionally dependent, albeit secretly, upon boyfriends for a sense of worth and happiness. I still have my moments where I wish I...
    topsykrit topsykrit 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My experiences growing up haven't been good ones I was befriended a lot and didn't have anyone to take care of me I came from a broken family and didn't care much about myself. My...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I'd like to be honest with you. I don't know you, and you don't know me, and that makes it easier for me to get all of this out. I want to be really honest with someone other than...
    kurioussubmissive kurioussubmissive 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    So earlier tonight I went out with a friend to try and study for finals and as I was waiting for her to pick me up, I realized that I had forgotten to put on makeup. Yes, we were...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 24

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    Low self esteem and poor body image is something I've struggled with all my life. Growing up as the only kid in a wheelchair in my town, I was always a bit of an outsider and spent...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    I find it sadly ironic that the people who often ridicule or belittle you for having low self esteem are the ones who play the biggest part in damaging any you may have left.
    AirleasAyres AirleasAyres 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I've had low self esteem problems all my life. I grew up being the only kid in a wheelchair in my town and because of that I was bullied relentlessly and the affects of it really...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a very low self-esteem. Like I like my body, but I hate my face. I took the manly features of my dad's face and my mom's hair. I have a big head for my height too. And it's...
    azngirl123 azngirl123 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not really poor body image as much as low self esteem. I can not talk to a pretty girl to save my life. I get all light headed then think its a waste since they'll just tell me to...
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    I dont remember the last time that I felt good or happy about myself. Im not a girl with overweight problems but neither Im skinny model. I've never saw myself at the mirror and...
    Bella1314 Bella1314 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 28

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    Especially low self esteem. Which I have. I don't find myself useful or attractive. Not that I care. I just try to make people happy that are most important in my life, and it's...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    Yes. I have a lot of anger cos my crushes rejected me over years. I was rejected so many times , i cant remember. Im not even ugly, they were just not into me. I saw so many ugly...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 Dec 4

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    Yes. I will kill myself. Tonight :)
    imjustmex33 imjustmex33 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm going to. I have wanted to for about six years now and tried to two years ago. The only thing that kept me and has kept me from doing it is being afraid of what other people...
    TheAmityAffliction TheAmityAffliction 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 14

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    It's almost 4 am and I should be asleep but I can't tonight. I don't know why. but I was scrolling down the list oh groups on here and I came across this. A year ago, I would spend...
    bakeittwice bakeittwice 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 14

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    You know what's ****** up? People who say they are going to kill themselves and don't. I'm not saying you should kill yourself; please, please don't kill yourself. But to put the...
    airisfleeting airisfleeting 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    Thanks to everyone who's said nice things to me. I have **** for self confidence and some of you have made it better. That's pretty cool. Still feel pretty worthless overall, but...
    worthlesssluttttt worthlesssluttttt 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 12

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    I'm ugly I'm fat everybody makes fun of me I hate who I am I always feel sick I have nobody I'm all alone I hate my job I hate my meager she's always bulling me I hate everyone!
    MermaidUnderneath MermaidUnderneath 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I'm 20. Never had a boyfriend. I am extremely insecure. I hate the way I look. I'm tall, have a slim body, nice hair, and have been told that I have a nice personality. Some guys...
    parisjade12 parisjade12 22-25 Dec 4

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    I'm going on a self harm/self hate marathon since I'm off on break next week I'm going to bleed and sleep the depression away. I've come to the conclusion that no one REALLY cares...
    alentecia alentecia 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    how do we measure selfworth ??? what ever it is i need micro units to measure mines ...
    rajmelotra rajmelotra 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    One of these days I am going to hang myself. For those of you who might try to say that me ending my life is wrong, I disagree. I believe that I have every right to end my life. I...
    bloomingheart bloomingheart 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11

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    I feel so sad and so much pain in my heart. I have an exam tomorrow, and I didn't study till now ;its the end of the day where I live.  I just entered the bathroom and tried...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I hate that I will have times this comes back. I'm not as bad as I was but I still have a moment here and there. The last time I was being compared to two other guys. It bothered...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    Ya know how on social media people post Tbh & rates well there were these 2 boys that were giving them out to whoever liked their picture and I liked the picture but then unliked...
    BrightInspiriation BrightInspiriation 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    For most of my life I have been told by adults that I am worthless and will never make anything of my life. I have not had a very good support system as I've been growing up. My...
    amykingery amykingery 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    I have no clue if you even know how much you hurt me without even saying a word. You will always be a challenge to me now and it sucks. I want to feel like I am his only one, but...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F Dec 7

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    I don't want to feel like this anymore. I feel like I'm being suffocated and there's nothing for me. But, then I think about how selfish I'm being for wanting to kill myself that I...
    SugarNub SugarNub 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    can anyone relate to me here? 39 years old. healthy. had great parents and family. world at your fingertips. college grad. had big dreams, wants to make a difference but it all...
    twarner84 twarner84 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I get really upset that people result things by committing suicide, things could of gotten better, but the fact they hate themselves so much they would rather die then to face the...
    alexx39 alexx39 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I tricked hundreds of good people. I hurt an innocent person. Someone so sweet that I would rather die than have this happen to her. I can hear it now. You did this you should take...
    ChangingFaces5 ChangingFaces5 22-25 1 Response Nov 28

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    Hi,Its my first time on EP so I thought I'd write about a subject I am passionate about.Bullying.Whether it be at school, workplace or even online it's all around us. I went to a...
    PYazmin PYazmin 13-15, F Dec 9

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