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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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    Argh

      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 16-17, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I am the type of girl who has low self esteem but I pretend I have a lot of confidence. My self esteem is so low that when any guy or girl calls me pretty, I believe I owe them...
    jswdancergirl1 jswdancergirl1 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always feel like I can't do anything right and put myself down a lot. I don't recognise my achievements because I focus on the people who helped me to get through. I went to a...
    LinkinParkMuse LinkinParkMuse 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I guess it's an issue that stems from childhood, and has sort of followed me ever since. I was bullied in primary school. Looking back on it now, it probably wasn't as viscous as...
    DropsofJupiter1 DropsofJupiter1 18-21, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    It wasn't until I searched low self esteem, did u find , and confidence. To read this was to feel validated. The internal conflicts the eternal of my existence each and every day...
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F Feb 26

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    I lost it long ago and now i have rediscovered it within again.Well being traumatized has made me a weakling and dependent person and i ended up being clingy and a bit over polite...
    GenuineAngel GenuineAngel 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Let me get this off my chest..... Since I was little I was made fun of by the only male figures in my life (my bro and father). I blossomed into a woman who gets pleasure when...
    nancylu1234567890 nancylu1234567890 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    DO MEN SCREW THE SAME GARBAGE BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO SELF ESTEEM AS MEN? THIS GOES FOR BEING MARRIED TOO SH.T WIVES WITH NO MORALS IN OUR SOCIETY
    PHONEBURNALLDONE46 PHONEBURNALLDONE46 51-55, F Mar 6

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    I battle low self-esteem daily...DAILY... :-( I don't want to talk about it :-(
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M Mar 13

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    It sucks having low self esteem and I think its all because of my last relationship..
    dawwnn dawwnn 16-17, F Mar 15

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    LOL. This is funny, because this group is judging others who judge others. Hypocritical? Everyone judges someone's character. How many people have NOT judged Hitler?
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 1

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    I have the tendency to reach out in love to those who seem mean and angry. In my experience not all mean, hurtful, and angry people are bad. Instead, a lot of them are hurting on...
    OneRose OneRose 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I hate almost everything about myself. No matter what I do, I always feel like the weird outsider who doesn't belong anywhere. For one thing l, I look like a little kid most of the...
    animegirl63 animegirl63 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    is more like a rant about my life so far. Everytime I got the chance, I like to go out by myself and think about things (everything and anything so far) and here is what I got so...
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I realized today that the main cause of most of my problems was shame. I am ashamed of myself to the point that any little thing I do wrong makes me hate a part of myself. This...
    ChelseaJN ChelseaJN 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've alwys had... Since I was a kid. I grew up so scare of people. And I felt myself so insignificant. Always. Even now. And the saddest part is that I've been in therapy for six...
    Starinthedeath Starinthedeath 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've never really told anyone how I feel truly because I don't want anyone to feel bad for me or worry about me. But for the longest time, ive been plagued with negative thoughts...
    cbeez25tree cbeez25tree 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The constant feeling of insecurity, of feeling judged, of hating yourself for the way you look... It's all so exhausting. Why can't I have even the slightest bit of self-confidence...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    good quote time: "When you're different, sometimes you don't see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn't." - Jodi picoult
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I always have had a lack of confidence in myself. Mostly I am doing ok these days, but there are just some times when i fall back into the self-defeating ways of thinking about...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    i know what its like to feel like your worth nothing, have no purpose in life, and am never going to have a social life. i used to self harm but luckily i have stopped. i know how...
    that0one0guy7199 that0one0guy7199 22-25, M Mar 16

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    I just want to kill myself or die more than anything . I lost everything in my life. I'm even losing the things that kept me from killing myself such as my ability to do well I'm...
    IntrovertedKat IntrovertedKat 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    If you are suicidal, please get help if you can't find help within yourself. But, please, do not seek help from your teenage friends, especially if they struggle with their own...
    junipersun21 junipersun21 18-21, F Mar 12

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    If you are suicidal, please get help if you can't find help within yourself. But, please, do not seek help from your teenage friends, especially if they struggle with their own...
    junipersun21 junipersun21 18-21, F Mar 12

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    So I was reading the "I want to know if you think I'm attractive" posts ... Then I thought holy **** that's depressing, do you really have to be rated by other people in order to...
    jlove987 jlove987 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So many years of my life I have been so suicidal. Bravest thing I did was take so many pills to kill myself (sort of...) which was a mistake and I suffered the after after effects...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Feb 27

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    The wish to has become stronger now I've been pressured more in my life. I'm now forced weekly to go and see two women and get humiliated early in the morning. It's forced upon me...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Mar 5

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    can I borrow a gun? pls? I'll make it quick, and I'll write a note and sign it saying I killed myself, or a recording. and I'll do it in the woods where no one will hear it
    Eragon232 Eragon232 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    Any ideas?! please?! Im sorry this whole thing sucks.
    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 12

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    im a lazy stoner who does nothing but play video games i have social anxiety and ive never had a job at age 22 im just waisting my life anyways whats the point of me being alive if...
    elbonke elbonke 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    Another attempt was stopped because of my ******* big mouth and a friend who "cares". If she cared the she would have let me shot myself but noo she ******* called me. She said...
    Thatrandompersonme1 Thatrandompersonme1 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    God comes first and I come second, and then the people,pets I love and care about. Most people are insecure and need to worry about themselves, I made a choice being concerned only...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M Mar 12

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