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I Am Sick Of Those Who Kill Others Self Esteem Or Confindence

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      I have found in my experience that overly judgmental people and those focused on everyone’s business are generally some of the most insecure humans in life. I hate when these persons put down others to make themselves feel better.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Because I Know How It Feels

    And I hate it. Hate is a very strong emotion, but thats exactly what I feel towards those people. Most of them do it on purpose which makes it even worse.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Spirit Of Self

    ALL MY LIFE I've been abused Mentally/Emotionally by a pair of Heartless, Egocentric,Western Monsters. I had such Childhood Dreams when I was a tiny child. (Go right on ahead, ask me what they were) Now I'm so Depressed I'm willing to Kill to get what I want. To protect myself...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    When Your Best Friend Crushes Your Self-confidence

    My own experience is from my grade school and middle school years where I had this best friend, a neighbor girl who was in the same class as I, and she was perfect. Or at least did her best to be and make it look like that's the way it was. And she was nice too, fun to hang out...
    katasia katasia 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    They Are Ignorant, Cruel People

    These people belong in hell.  I should not say that, but I just did.  I know it is harsh, but I will continue almost regretting what I said.  When the poor girl in the corner is crying because she is made fun of, how do you think she will react if it continues...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Self Esteem And Self Confidence

    I can't stand people who have to drag others down because they want to feel better about themselves.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    A Mix Of Things: No One Should Kill Our Self Esteem

    In sixth grade (I am going into eighth grade ) I had moved in the middle of the year to a different home and school. Many things had changed in that time. I was a not to short awkward 11 year old girl and somewhat attractive. I had self esteem issues, never thinking I was as...
    Subsetic Subsetic 13-15, F Jun 6, 2013

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    Because I Seem To Be An Easy Target

    I've always dealt with this type of thing, but I usually bounce back quickly or can at least pretend to bounce back. However, a little over a year ago, I was cut so deep I'm not even healed enough to remove the stitches yet. I usually avoid making friends, because friends tend to...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 11 Responses May 1, 2011

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    A Broken

    the broken spirit is an absued child .so many dont see how toxic thier words cut so deeply . words has so much power to break the spirit the toxicness of words always ecco in the broken spirit the scars run deep , so choose words wisely you hurt with words with hate, yelling...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    It's Just Human Nature!!

    I understand that we all tend to want to make ourselves feel good, so we tend to lean a little towards making others feel bad and kill their self confidence, but I believe there is a lot of difference between feeling like doing and actual doing it. I hate when people make others...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Self Esteem

    Low self esteem,Or confidence,It makes me sick,When it's caused,Needlessly by others,Why do they do it,?I'll never know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    How many of us look into the mirror and hate what you see? Wait a second. Did you create yourself? No, you didn't. I made myself feel bad for years because of my appearance and I...
    ladybug96 ladybug96 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I guess I have suffered from low self esteem for a lot of years maybe even always There's also been experiences in my life that's not helped like I was in an emotionally abusive...
    Ellievale Ellievale 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I was washing my hair when I thought of the following today: I can't allow anybody else to determine my sense of esteem. Nobody knows me well enough to judge me anyway, so why...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 11

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    for as long as I can remember I have been teased and made fun of called ugly and worthless. People have told me that I should just be a guy because I'm too ugly and manly to be a...
    jazzyxxav jazzyxxav 22-25, F Oct 14

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    I've dealt with low self esteem and confidence issues for as long as I can remember. I grew up as the only disabled kid in school and had to deal with the bullying that came with...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    My self esteem feels really low how do you know what your worth? In a confused and lost state...
    Anna85xo Anna85xo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    A year ago I was diagnosed with Complex Trauma PTSD, Major Depressive Disorder with Moderate Episodes, and Anxiety Disorder NOS. All of this originated from physical, sexual, and...
    mjh8808 mjh8808 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    as an 11 year old, how to gain confidence and stop having low self esteem? it sucks. Badly.
    haya08 haya08 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    yes i have low self esteem but no one know about it cz i can always fake it. hard for me to believe that someone will ever love me
    fraufraufrau fraufraufrau 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Going to bed with tears running down my face. I'm sick of this ****. It's the same old crap every day. I'm stupid. I'm ugly. I'm fat. No one cares about me. I'm a **** up.
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not a fan of Ulrika Johnson. But I do know one thing about her: she said whenever anybody told her they loved her, she automatically lost respect for them. Because how could...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M Sep 29

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    It's so ridiculously low today, I hate everything about my appearance. I've been so self conscious for literally as long as I can remember, my earliest memory of it is when I was 5...
    Gallowsweet Gallowsweet 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I want to be someone else so badly. Everyone else's lives look so much better than mine. I wish I was pretty and popular and smart and I know it's shallow but I wish I had money...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I'm learning to love my self a little more each day, I'm not dumb or stupid or helpless and I do have a future and I will go far and i am smart, very smart. I can achieve my goals...
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I know I'm intelligent, but I want to be my own definition of perfect. I compare myself to so many girls and my self confidence got so bad once that I started crying in front of...
    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Criticism: disapproval based on mistakes/faults. That's me. Constantly thinking about all the things that are "wrong" with me. Going over each and every flaw in my mind...
    BelieveInU BelieveInU 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm running out of reasons to get out of bed. I'm hurting so much and I need someone. My life is spiralling down and this is the only place I can express what I'm feeling. I think...
    Gordonzobeanz Gordonzobeanz 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    There are plenty of things that I will never understand. How other people behave, why I was never good enough, why this is happening, why we're different. I am the kind of person...
    lydiathethingy lydiathethingy 13-15, F 21 hrs ago

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    I'm done trying. like I'm done that's it. I'm going to kill myself. no one cares that I have feelings or that I have a different sexuality. I don't care anymore. I just know that I...
    Lovehate2013 Lovehate2013 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Seeing Spots. The weather turned from sunshine to cold an hour before the parade was to commence. The wee village has two parades. The Memorial Day Parade and The High-School...
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Im soo stupid. I had my chance at love a while back but i was too stupid and blind to notice she was in love with me. I messed up i just want to kill myself so i dont have to keep...
    CuddlesNSnuggles CuddlesNSnuggles 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    I tried to kill myself four times in 2012. The fourth attempt put me in a coma for two weeks. My family was very traumatized. My sister now has a drug and alcohol problem and I...
    medicinehead medicinehead 41-45, M Oct 5

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    I want to kill myself because I'm a horrible person and no one cares about me I'm still trying its just slitting my wrist didn't work neither did popping pills anybody have any...
    rosetta52213 rosetta52213 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    Mistakes can not be undone. All the regret and apologies are are insufficient. My advice to those considering doing something that has the power to cause irreparable damage to your...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 13

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    I can't take it anymore. Is there anyone out there who can help me? I don't think I can last the night. I'm trying, but I don't think I can do it when I am alone like this and in...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate it when i offer a helping hand to someone and they start reading my profile and they see im a fcked up girl who's depressed and ****** and then they would rub it in my face...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F Oct 2

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    I found out that my husband cheated last year with some girl. I always saw myself as a strong person because I have been through quite a few trials and I'm also the rom for my...
    Tina2249 Tina2249 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So its still happening til now. its not something that i made up, nor it is something from 1950s. its basically just my life in highschool. I just graduated from middle school...
    barbie13 barbie13 13-15, F Oct 11

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    And may contemplate leaving this world.... You feel freer as the weight of earthly life and troubles slowly melt away. Floating...your spirit is joyous at what it can do, no...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Points finger > You don't know who you are.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    Oh god yes. My mom's whole family are nothing but bigoted asshats. They think they're better than everyone else, and judge and look down on everyone.
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I honestly do wish it was easier to forgive the ones who hurt me. But once i think about what they did to me i become so angry and i don't want to feel this way anymore. I don't...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Are you ready to show the jerks in your life just how strong you are? Is it time for people to recognize? I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV where people who have a rivalry or an...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F Sep 29

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    It's really bad. When I like something and someone else shares an interest in it or seems to threaten it I immediately give up on it and go back into my shell
    MissManaged MissManaged 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    its like not fair how god makes people. some people have it all while other have a saddist unfair life. ITS SO ****** UP. im tried of hating myself and how i look i had to do that...
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    I really just don't like myself.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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