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I Am Single Again, And I'm Ok

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    Healing.

    i didn't want to see the disappointment the look on your face the crack in your voice when you beg me to stay i didn't want to tell you the words i knew would break your heart the things that i tried to keep hidden from you, hidden from me locked away to avoid what i knew...
    annalea annalea 22-25, F Aug 24, 2011

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    One Day At A Time

    Hi to all,   I have never been on this site before.  And I like it so far!  About me, well I am a single mom. I have been divorced, re-married, and now I am going through a separation.  I tell you, this is not fun at all.  I have three kids from...
    liketotalk liketotalk 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15, 2010

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    It's Been Almost 2 Years...

    Since I left my now ex-husband.  I've been single since.  I have my moments when I wonder if I did the right thing by leaving and divorcing him.  Then I think back and I try to remember the good times.  They were so few and far between that I realize we weren't ever a true...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    Broke up with the BF just

    after New Years. I want a man I can build a home with. He wasn't willing to do that, so I left. I've learned I'm very codependent...so I'm taking some time off from dating to work on my own issues in therapy. So that my next relationship works a lot better. I am a bit lonely, I...
    TheMorrigan TheMorrigan 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    When I married my husband in 2003,

    I never imagined I would be saying those words again so soon. I am single again. They are pretty haunting words after the past 6 years of going through his illness. And, I didn't imagine that I could say that I'm ok. But, I am. Each day I make myself get up, I get stronger. He...
    andimann andimann 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm Divorced...

    I'm divorced and things are working out okay. I had a slow start, financially, but things a going in the right direction and I'm doing okay.
    callmebill callmebill 51-55 Nov 2, 2012

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    jayissosadlike jayissosadlike 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    The grass seems greener on the other side, when I'm in a relationship wishing to be single, when single wishing to be with someone.
    maks1m maks1m 22-25, M Aug 24

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    So the man of my dreams turned out to be the man of at least one other girl's dreams and became a nightmare! I'm single and not looking for anything serious. I love to be with...
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    After my wife died, I devoted all my emotional energy to raising my daughter as a single dad. Now she's grown and on her own and I'm suddenly alone and lonely. I don't know what to...
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    I'm so glad I'm single. People are so hard to deal with. LOL
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I am 30 and still single and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine...
    Singlegirl30 Singlegirl30 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm single. I've had relationships yes, but those days are over for me and I don't talk so no one I've dated. I'm not bitter but they have boyfriends now and that's fine. I'm glad...
    Thomasjcox Thomasjcox 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I want to know what you think of me and I'm single
    kylescott1 kylescott1 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    I f uck up every single friendship i have. I'm so selfish. I should just kill myself. Oh wait! I have tried to, so....many....damn....times. I JUST WANT TO DIE, CAN'T YOU GIVE ME...
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    My day today was great, I did so many things I forgot , I had my neighbor to put all the cords up to his play station and his Xbox, they have been down since he passed my son and I...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 20

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    Who wants to chat while I'm making a nice spaghetti dinner!!? ;)
    livemanlive livemanlive 26-30, M Aug 26

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    donttellana donttellana 18-21, F Sep 4

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    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 28

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    I don't know that I'm 100% ready but it want to start talking to people. I'm gay btw
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F Sep 3

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    My God I feel so broken, I feel like my insides are being turned inside out, sounds like what my son experienced , every day now i die and the relive over and over again and again...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Sep 5

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    Again. REALLLLY bored xD ((i'm straight-sorry gurls x3)) But on a scale 1-10 i guess. Idkkkkk Have a fantabulous dayyyyyyy ^_^
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 19

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    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Someone a little while ago brought up (unintentionally) a very low point of my life for my memories. I don't understand why it still hurts me so much, since it was such a long time...
    Austinforshort Austinforshort 18-21, M Aug 31

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    Okay, first off I'm gay. I have a bit of a problem. I dated a friend and we broke up, we recently became friends again and he just screenshoted a photo of me on snapchat. I guess I...
    AndrewFlewTheTardis AndrewFlewTheTardis 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    For the last few days, i'v been in very dark and familiar places, and returning to old and evil habits. A quick fix, just to get away from reality and the anger, the hurt, the...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So my ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. The whole time we've been apart we've stayed friends. Now he wants to get back together, but I'm not sure. He told me that he really...
    ramennoodlesistaken ramennoodlesistaken 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Please forgive me if this post is extraordinarily long. I'm well aware that anyone out there shouldn't be asked to sit through this, but I would really appreciate it if someone did...
    jojo2450 jojo2450 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm Scottish so any words used or grammar, will be due to me simply putting it down as I would actually speak these words. So forgive me everyone, just think it gets across a bit...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 1 Response 5 days ago

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    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 18

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    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F Sep 7

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    I have a big smile on my face right now, I don't know who you new people are yet but I have a feeling I'll get to know you all, Lance you made me smile, thank you, I hear my sons...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 19

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    My day was good, very exciting, I having felt like this in a long time the feel that a child has at Christmas just can wait to unwrap my presents, my first year of grief, my...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 23

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    kayloulou kayloulou 22-25, F Aug 19

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    Bobby and the girl at a friends birthday party Britney and Kathleen took me to a friends birthday party Saturday. I wore a printed knee length dress with a short net petticoat...
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