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I Am Single Again, And I'm Ok

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Healing.

    i didn't want to see the disappointment the look on your face the crack in your voice when you beg me to stay i didn't want to tell you the words i knew would break your heart the things that i tried to keep hidden from you, hidden from me locked away to avoid what i knew...
    annalea annalea 22-25, F Aug 24, 2011

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    Broke up with the BF just

    after New Years. I want a man I can build a home with. He wasn't willing to do that, so I left. I've learned I'm very codependent...so I'm taking some time off from dating to work on my own issues in therapy. So that my next relationship works a lot better. I am a bit lonely, I...
    TheMorrigan TheMorrigan 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    When I married my husband in 2003,

    I never imagined I would be saying those words again so soon. I am single again. They are pretty haunting words after the past 6 years of going through his illness. And, I didn't imagine that I could say that I'm ok. But, I am. Each day I make myself get up, I get stronger. He...
    andimann andimann 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    One Day At A Time

    Hi to all,   I have never been on this site before.  And I like it so far!  About me, well I am a single mom. I have been divorced, re-married, and now I am going through a separation.  I tell you, this is not fun at all.  I have three kids from...
    liketotalk liketotalk 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15, 2010

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    It's Been Almost 2 Years...

    Since I left my now ex-husband.  I've been single since.  I have my moments when I wonder if I did the right thing by leaving and divorcing him.  Then I think back and I try to remember the good times.  They were so few and far between that I realize we weren't ever a true...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    I'm Divorced...

    I'm divorced and things are working out okay. I had a slow start, financially, but things a going in the right direction and I'm doing okay.
    callmebill callmebill 51-55 Nov 2, 2012

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    I am 30 and still single and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine...
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    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F Sep 3

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    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Sep 5

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