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I Am Single and Don't Know Why

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 211 People

    Fed Up

    i,m fed up of being single i,m a nice guy and i dont know why i,m going through this people telling about i dont need one but i do need onei mean i have never had a gf and it really annoys me when people tell me to wait. wait WHAT 7 f------- years what do i do because i have...
    Shyboy123 Shyboy123 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    "Too Together..." Um, Ok

    That's what I've had people say to me, that I'm too "together" for guys and they're intimidated. I've had people say to me that men are intimidated when a woman is smarter than them or when she shows that she's independent. To me, that's completely insane. But I suppose that's...
    Susannahjade Susannahjade 26-30, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why...

    There's a common thought that if your thirty-whatever years old, never married, single and have no kids, there must be something wrong with you.  Well, that's me, and that's probably a bunch of people on here too, I don't know. I feel so sad I'm off to see my doctor...
    Candle13 Candle13 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Worst Holiday

    Valentines day. I mean honestly I know that it's not just about your significant other. It's about everyone you love; friends, family, etc.. But it is absolute torture having to walk around ALL DAY and see the lovey dovey stuff happening between couples. It's like "Dude. Stop." I...
    LivinInTheClouds LivinInTheClouds 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    I Feel Like I Should Quit Looking For My Soul Mate

    I don't understand why life can be so silly! I have been blessed in some ways and yet feel like I have also been cursed. I fell so in love in high school and married my high school sweetheart. I gave him a son and daughter. We were married for 13 years, however, i discovered he...
    Gator2 Gator2 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Am Single Am Lonely ; I Fall For The Wrong People

      I don't know why am here i guess i just needed to talk to someone that doesn't know me. someone that woud listen without judging/ I am single again and it hurts. every body is getting engaged or married while am singl once again. Ok I mean for me am fine without marriage...
    foufame foufame 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Used To

    Maybe I offend the delicate sensibilities of the female gender at large, maybe I am too nice, too good or too honest and open. I really could not tell you why I am still single. Some would say I am aggressive, whereas I would call it ambitious and determined. Others will say - I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    I am 18, a bit nerdy: Comic books,

    Anime, Star Trek, and a whole bunch of other stuff. I am not selfish and am very open minded to anything, I am not discriminative and get along with people, I am not overly loud but tell jokes and get a laugh out of people to hide my insecurity about my little over weight (12...
    olivertoy olivertoy 22-25 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    Bahaha I Know Why.

    Pshhh.I think a lot of us know why, but refuse to come to terms with it.Personally:-I'm fat-I have no self worth-I'm ugly-I'm too needy-I  live in the middle of nowhere-I'm VERY shallow-I'm immature-Did I mention I was fat?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 37 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    BasicallyRUN BasicallyRUN 22-25, T Jun 23, 2014

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    I Just Want To Love You

    I want to be there for you, I promise I won't abandon you I want to be the one who picks you up and takes you out on dates, we can go anywhere you want to it really doesn't matter to me I want to show you off to the world, because you're amazing and worth more then anything...
    LivinInTheClouds LivinInTheClouds 18-21, F Oct 28, 2012

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    I'Ll Love Later

    People don’t much understand why, To love I am not willing to try. They keep on insisting me to take the bite, Of the apple that brings passion and delight. Urging me that to men I should never be choosy, Just avail on what they offer and never be bossy. Pushing me to attract...
    LG077 LG077 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why...

    There's a common thought that if your thirty-whatever years old, never married, single and have no kids, there must be something wrong with you.  Well, that's me, and that's probably a bunch of people on here too, I don't know. I feel so sad I'm off to see my doctor...
    Candle13 Candle13 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Nonetheless A Born Gentleman (vent)

    Why is it that in my generation, I have to be penalized for being a gentleman. At least thats what it seems. I've heard of what girls were "looking" for, usually Im the one they come and tell after they've had a fight with "john or hakeem". No offense to the johns or hakeem's out...
    RevolutionarySoul RevolutionarySoul 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    kiarababesss kiarababesss 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    My Dear Friend Just Joined This Group...

    Let's turn this around and share what we know and fix. I can't join this group cause I -know- why I am "single" (but I wear the rings.... long story). Nobody has anything in common woth me. That's probably your problem too... So what's the neggst step yall?
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 Jul 17, 2010

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    He's Just Not That Into Me

    This post might make me seem conceited but I promise you that I am not. Just noting my good points and venting. Anyway, here goes nothing... I've been single for a year and a half. Prior to that I had been in a long term, four year relationship. My ex broke it off by ignoring my...
    vbunny vbunny 26-30, F Sep 27, 2011

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    what am i to do

    I am single and i dont know why. I've always been told "you're too pretty to be out here by yourself" or "where your man at". And i would always kindly reply "i dont know" *shrugs*. Every guy that i've had previous relationships with always fell in love (first) and i would go...
    macy4 macy4 22-25, F Sep 28, 2012

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    I am not single. I've been in a relationship

    with myself for the past 15 years.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    I'm single always have been always will be no

    girl wants me they never have will. I'm forever alone but look on the bright side more money in my pocket.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    Well Actually I Do Know Why

    http://www.help4aspergers.com/pb/wp_a58d4f6a/images/img244154ad237783e339.JPG^ that's why. I don't have everything on the list but enough of them to keep men away. :)I'm not bi-polar or battle depressionI don't normally like talking about feelings/ emotional issues. (not a good...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2011

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    Want To Know

    I would love for people to tell me upfront what they want to accomplish rather than leave me hanging and disappointed;all it leads to is future discouragement. If they don't want to communicate to let me know and not forever wondering.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Mar 12, 2013

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    What is a long term relationship?

    I've been single since forever.. Basically my whole life save for one month and a week. I remember back in high school always wanting to date but I either fell for the guy who was the player or who was just not interested in me. And guys have liked me but I'm just so picky...
    renbrooks521 renbrooks521 18-21, F Dec 19, 2013

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    I'm 19, never had a Velentine,

    Never kissed someone I liked. I don't even know why I even bother getting crushes on people because it's not like I'm gonna end up dating them anyway so like it's such a waste of feelings. I not Insecure, in fact, people who know me say that I have a big ego and I'm super...
    FaFiPe FaFiPe 18-21 Jul 31, 2014

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    I'm a good guy. I'm nice,

    I'm caring, I'm funny, I'm giving, I'm living, I can be intimate, I don't crave sex 24/7, I love kisses, tight hugs, and cuddling, I give all I am if I love you, and lastly, I've been told somewhat frequently I'm not too bad looking by friends, and insanely damn hot by ex...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    idk why but i always put "lol" , "haha" at the end of a txt so i dont sound so serious all of the time oops...lol
    thatgreyangel thatgreyangel 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Why do members of age 50 _ 60 especially of women is lower than the other range? Do they have an understanding, agreement and have happiness? Or they are tired of complaining and...
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    it's usless for other people to help me. i'll thank them for their advice & kind words, but I won't use s h i t of it. I won't care when i'm feeling down. that won't cross my mind...
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    last year was bad year in lots of drugs and **** but now im older and more mature minus the bad grammar and terrible spelling and somewhat still bad habits and not caring bout...
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    this is going to be one of those brittany rants that i'm not going to filter and make pretty. if you like pretty, then stop reading. THE SAME WAY THAT IF YOU ONLY LIKE PRETTY GIRLS...
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    I think I am a bad person. After 10 years of working jobs that have made me unhappy (and I have self medicated with alcohol) my husband has finally given me the chance to work on...
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    I'm starting to fall apart. I can feel my integrity break. I can feel my mind is unable to focus anymore. I really don't know what's going to happen when I come undone.
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