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I Am Single and Happy and Don't Need a Man

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    I'm a woman who is pretty content in life.

    I don't need a man to make my life "complete." I'm a woman on a mission to become more successful in life, travel more, live such a way I like, and I like being positive. I don't need a man to tear me down or being supported; I already have a support system. Men are just an...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    This Is Another Reason I Am Still Single

    I am glad the number of members in here are this small !!!!
    JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Awakening29 Awakening29 26-30, F Aug 3

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    Love It

    I enjoy being single I can be my self and I enjoy it when I'm in a relationship I always put his needs before my own and often feel like I'm cornered
    87dolphin 87dolphin 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Men Are Nothing But Trouble

    I don't need a man, to make me happy.  I'm doing quite fine as a single woman.  I have a lot of friends who are guys.  I did fall in love with a man, when I was in college.  He seemed sweet, at first, but than he turned out to be a real jerk.  He was also...
    Sid1977 Sid1977 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Well im back and single now

    for four months, At the start i thought i would be in a mess, missing my ex and being alone in this big house however its been a total pleasure .. everything seems to be calm and im calm too the cats are happy, the house has a nice feel to it .. im in the garden pottering...
    prettypoppie prettypoppie 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I Need Advice From People In This Group- You Are In The Place I Want To Be

    I'm 62 and my very long marriage ended about 3 yrs. ago. I have 2 daughters in their 20's whom I'm very close to. My marriage had a lot of problems, anger, emotional abuse, infidelity, disagreements about how to raise the kids...it got worse until it was intolerable. So I'm...
    TransitofVenus TransitofVenus 61-65, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    Men are mere mortals

    who are not worth going to your grave for - Shirley Bassey
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Selfishly Single

    I grew up listening to all the classic fairy tales and old-school Disney, where girls grow up to be princesses and eventually meet and marry their prince. For every girl there was a boy, for every Barbie there was a Ken (even if Mattel markets otherwise). I always wondered what...
    minutemaid511 minutemaid511 18-21 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    The Group's Name Says It All

    I'm single, happy and proud that I am. Why should women (and many men) feel that they must have a partner to be fulfilled? I no longer feel this way. I used to feel that I had to stay married or I had to find a man or my life would be wasted. What rot! Every person in this world...
    GraceandLucy GraceandLucy 41-45 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Single, Happy and Content With My Choices

    First off: I am a 44 yr old female with 2 daughters. One is 22 in her last year of college and the other is 10 and  a honor roll student. Now I dont take all the credit for this because both of them make and are still making capable decisions and choices about who they want...
    christieluv2209 christieluv2209 41-45 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    this experience about a girl that she don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun is interesesting because she is right what she says.I think that to have fun you only need a goods...
    scm97 scm97 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I don't know what I did to get fake friends. I don't need fake friends. I don't want fake friends.. I just wanna live a normal life.
    HayellsDorion HayellsDorion 13-15, F Aug 3

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    Yes, you don't need to do drugs or drink to have fun but there is nothing wrong with having a beer at a party. I also have no issues with pot, if that is your choice. If you need...
    galdran galdran 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I don't smoke I don't drink. As I'm told constantly by my family. I'm crazy enough sober I don't need anything adding to it lol
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a really fun person to be around. I'm not being cocky or anything but that is one thing I like about myself. I'm not afraid to joke around and make a fool of myself. (I do have...
    becxboo becxboo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I only have 2 real friends, and i m crushing on one of them...I don't have many friends...People always tell me to make more friends, but I think I am picky in making friends...don...
    RainbowSpectrum RainbowSpectrum 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I don't need drugs or alcohol to have a fun time... I just make stuff up as I go to have a good time and if that doesn't work... I have my ps3 for my plan B
    D3fau1THack3R D3fau1THack3R 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I tolerate other peoples decision. It's important for people to live their lives the way that they want to. I was at a small group hangout with friends. Four guys, video games...
    BuddyALloyd BuddyALloyd 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I once had a boyfriend, but I broke up with him after I saw it was obviously not working. I used to hate being single, but now I don't mind. My boyfriend didn't understand that to...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 10

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    People who needs drugs or alcohol to be happy then they need deserve what is coming to them no one needs drugs or alcohol to be happy I don't use drugs and I don't drink am I am...
    bloodstream11 bloodstream11 18-21, M Aug 8

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    I just want to say that maybe people don't do drugs or alcohol to be happy, maybe they do it to numb everything. For me, not that I can generalise this to everyone, drugs are just...
    nochurchinthewild nochurchinthewild 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I do believe that people that need drugs and alcohol are just throwing their lives away, I personally don't have any troubles with anyone drinking around me but the drugs have got...
    acissej10 acissej10 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I remember my 18th birthday, my cousin was supposed to distract me while at home my family prepared everything for a surprice party. He gave me alcohol, i didn't refuse by the time...
    pjoel123 pjoel123 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Soo.. I need some help really bad. I Don't know what is real and what is not in my mind. I just started to smoke spice and I need help, I know it's a synthetic of marijuana. I've...
    Kyze Kyze 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a teetotaller. Don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs. I guess tea would have to be my only real poison, if one could call it that :) I've never really understood the culture...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I have never done this and I have good friends who don't drink and I hang out with them! Plus I love food so why even bother with drugs and alcohol!
    Keespanker Keespanker 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I don't either but I still like getting high or tipsy from time to time.
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm really tired of feeling like the worst person in the world because I don't go clubbing all the time and get hammered or take drugs. It sucks.
    chelseybrooke chelseybrooke 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 2

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    I don't drink anymore. I'm allergic to alcohol and narcotics. I break out in handcuffs.
    jasminelasher jasminelasher 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 5

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    I remember once my "friend" was having a birthday party, and she told me I was invited. I was excited because i love parties!! I was even gunna help her set up and plan. Now i...
    craziijessy craziijessy 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 6

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    I don't understand whether people like to have alcohol and drug for fun or being cool. Or maybe they are told that fun is all about going bars, drinking and dancing. Even a walk...
    Keler Keler 18-21, M 12 Responses Aug 8

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    Most of the time I am on my own. I usually stay home or am at school for class or tutoring. I see my family and my co-workers often. I don't really have an entourage. It makes me a...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 1 Response Aug 9

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    As long as I am not doing drugs or drinking then I don't care I got friends that stuff but that's them not me and this not intended toward anyone
    bloodstream11 bloodstream11 18-21, M Aug 9

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    I learned that last year, just to fit in. Now where ever I go. I notice more and laugh more even if I don't feel like a group leader I always look like the one running the place.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Aug 13

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    My boyfriend currently is curious about drugs. He loves to do it with his best friend behind my back. I try to tell him that I'm not comfortable with him doing that but he insists...
    stephanies97 stephanies97 16-17, F 18 Responses Aug 16

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    Never did drugs. Don't think I'll ever want to. When it comes to alcohol, I think I have a wine cooler every eight months or every one, two, or three years. I don't drink that much...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I've been clean and sober for about a month now, and I'm looking to find friends 18-30 in the Bay Area that don't drink or do drugs.
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 18

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    My boyfriend's friends and especially their girlfriends have all told him that I'm stuck up. Oh really? I'm sorry that I don't want to do drugs and drink with my kids in the next...
    prittyinpink prittyinpink 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    At all. In my life I had 3-4 glassess of beer and tasted a few other drinks(only once). Literarly when I go out wih my friends(though I rarely do) I am usually the only one not...
    hitgod hitgod 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I've reached this stage where i don't see why these things are necessary to live your "life" you're not missing anything and i bet if you were never exposed to it you wouldn't care...
    zaynisbae zaynisbae 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't drink Alcohol, or smoke or take any drugs. It's part of my personal code of honor, if that makes any sense.
    TheComicAlien TheComicAlien 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't drink anymore because I am epileptic and my medicine reduces my tolerance to alcohol significantly. Also, I'm just not that kind of person. Yesterday made me feel ever...
    sjchevalier07 sjchevalier07 31-35, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    At one in my point in my life I did. At another I couldnt go a single night with out some sort of substance to enhance my night. I loved how with a few sips changed everything...
    AxiosThanatos AxiosThanatos 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    I do not need drugs & alcohol to make myself happy & have fun. I do fine without them. I do not allowed negative bad behaviours to impaired my judgements. Always be true to...
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I was little I wanted to smoke. I wanted to be like my aunt. She's just an awesome person, crazy (like me), but she's great. I thought it was so cool, that thing called...
    SPIDERLIMBS SPIDERLIMBS 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Never did drugs never will! People who do have hang ups! It's cool to be you without all these unnecessary chemicals. What seems cool to one who's young really is not cool when you...
    123relax 123relax 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    There's so many things I do which doesn't involve those things
    imshy1234 imshy1234 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 20

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