I Am Single and Happy and Don't Need a Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 90 People

    Men are mere mortals

    who are not worth going to your grave for - Shirley Bassey
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    I hate people say to me ''Awww,

    why are you single??hon,you will find someone soon.'' Especially i dislike if men says'' i enjoy being single''is oh okay.. But if women says same thing,people look at me like i am desparate. Plus I am not just saying..i really don't feel need to have relationship with someone...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA
    31-35, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    I'm silage I'm happy

    and I sure as he*l don't need a man
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Feb 16, 2015
    tnt2015 tnt2015
    31-35, F
    May 20, 2015

    I am not the kind of girl

    who requires a man in her life. If I can't be happy with a man I will be without one.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2015

    just got dumped by a girl

    who told me she was ready for a same sex relation ship! so im like **** relationships right now
    LGBTeen LGBTeen
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    The Group's Name Says It All

    I'm single, happy and proud that I am. Why should women (and many men) feel that they must have a partner to be fulfilled? I no longer feel this way. I used to feel that I had to stay married or I had to find a man or my life would be wasted. What rot! Every person in this world...
    GraceandLucy GraceandLucy
    41-45
    1 Response Oct 6, 2008

    Single, Happy and Content With My Choices

    First off: I am a 44 yr old female with 2 daughters. One is 22 in her last year of college and the other is 10 and  a honor roll student. Now I dont take all the credit for this because both of them make and are still making capable decisions and choices about who they want...
    christieluv2209 christieluv2209
    41-45
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

    Men Are Nothing But Trouble

    I don't need a man, to make me happy.  I'm doing quite fine as a single woman.  I have a lot of friends who are guys.  I did fall in love with a man, when I was in college.  He seemed sweet, at first, but than he turned out to be a real jerk.  He was also...
    Sid1977 Sid1977
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2008
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    Selfishly Single

    I grew up listening to all the classic fairy tales and old-school Disney, where girls grow up to be princesses and eventually meet and marry their prince. For every girl there was a boy, for every Barbie there was a Ken (even if Mattel markets otherwise). I always wondered what...
    minutemaid511 minutemaid511
    18-21
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

    Love It

    I enjoy being single I can be my self and I enjoy it when I'm in a relationship I always put his needs before my own and often feel like I'm cornered
    87dolphin 87dolphin
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    Well im back and single now

    for four months, At the start i thought i would be in a mess, missing my ex and being alone in this big house however its been a total pleasure .. everything seems to be calm and im calm too the cats are happy, the house has a nice feel to it .. im in the garden pottering...
    prettypoppie prettypoppie
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2014
    Awakening29 Awakening29
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    This Is Another Reason I Am Still Single

    I am glad the number of members in here are this small !!!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 25, 2012

    I Need Advice From People In This Group- You Are In The Place I Want To Be

    I'm 62 and my very long marriage ended about 3 yrs. ago. I have 2 daughters in their 20's whom I'm very close to. My marriage had a lot of problems, anger, emotional abuse, infidelity, disagreements about how to raise the kids...it got worse until it was intolerable. So I'm...
    TransitofVenus TransitofVenus
    61-65, F
    1 Response May 19, 2012

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