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I Am Single and Happy and Don't Need a Man

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    This Is Another Reason I Am Still Single

    I am glad the number of members in here are this small !!!!
    JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Single, Happy and Content With My Choices

    First off: I am a 44 yr old female with 2 daughters. One is 22 in her last year of college and the other is 10 and  a honor roll student. Now I dont take all the credit for this because both of them make and are still making capable decisions and choices about who they want...
    christieluv2209 christieluv2209 41-45 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Selfishly Single

    I grew up listening to all the classic fairy tales and old-school Disney, where girls grow up to be princesses and eventually meet and marry their prince. For every girl there was a boy, for every Barbie there was a Ken (even if Mattel markets otherwise). I always wondered what...
    minutemaid511 minutemaid511 18-21 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Love It

    I enjoy being single I can be my self and I enjoy it when I'm in a relationship I always put his needs before my own and often feel like I'm cornered
    87dolphin 87dolphin 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Men are mere mortals

    who are not worth going to your grave for - Shirley Bassey
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I Need Advice From People In This Group- You Are In The Place I Want To Be

    I'm 62 and my very long marriage ended about 3 yrs. ago. I have 2 daughters in their 20's whom I'm very close to. My marriage had a lot of problems, anger, emotional abuse, infidelity, disagreements about how to raise the kids...it got worse until it was intolerable. So I'm...
    TransitofVenus TransitofVenus 61-65, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    I'm a woman who is pretty content in life.

    I don't need a man to make my life "complete." I'm a woman on a mission to become more successful in life, travel more, live such a way I like, and I like being positive. I don't need a man to tear me down or being supported; I already have a support system. Men are just an...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Awakening29 Awakening29 26-30, F Aug 3

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    The Group's Name Says It All

    I'm single, happy and proud that I am. Why should women (and many men) feel that they must have a partner to be fulfilled? I no longer feel this way. I used to feel that I had to stay married or I had to find a man or my life would be wasted. What rot! Every person in this world...
    GraceandLucy GraceandLucy 41-45 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Men Are Nothing But Trouble

    I don't need a man, to make me happy.  I'm doing quite fine as a single woman.  I have a lot of friends who are guys.  I did fall in love with a man, when I was in college.  He seemed sweet, at first, but than he turned out to be a real jerk.  He was also...
    Sid1977 Sid1977 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Well im back and single now

    for four months, At the start i thought i would be in a mess, missing my ex and being alone in this big house however its been a total pleasure .. everything seems to be calm and im calm too the cats are happy, the house has a nice feel to it .. im in the garden pottering...
    prettypoppie prettypoppie 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Related Experiences

    I can do what i can by myself so i don't need anyone
    TheDesecrated TheDesecrated 13-15, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Amen to that I don't need a high to feel happy and if u do then you should stop and rethink your life
    dambookworm17 dambookworm17 13-15, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    I have many acquaintances who use drugs others alcohol I can't condemn them as it's their life, money and minds they are abusing or loosing. Quite honestly some are wealthy...
    onebrightday onebrightday 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't smoke I don't drink. As I'm told constantly by my family. I'm crazy enough sober I don't need anything adding to it lol
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I've never been into drugs, but I realised I don't need alcohol to have fun when I became pregnant and couldn't have any haha. I used to always go into social situations thinking I...
    sgawlik sgawlik 26-30, F Sep 1

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    I don't need drugs or alcohol to have a fun time... I just make stuff up as I go to have a good time and if that doesn't work... I have my ps3 for my plan B
    D3fau1THack3R D3fau1THack3R 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I tolerate other peoples decision. It's important for people to live their lives the way that they want to. I was at a small group hangout with friends. Four guys, video games...
    BuddyALloyd BuddyALloyd 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    The worst thing I ever did was smoke a joint. It was okay but I don't need to alter how I feel with stuff to have fun.
    SweetSillySusan SweetSillySusan 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Soo.. I need some help really bad. I Don't know what is real and what is not in my mind. I just started to smoke spice and I need help, I know it's a synthetic of marijuana. I've...
    Kyze Kyze 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I do believe that people that need drugs and alcohol are just throwing their lives away, I personally don't have any troubles with anyone drinking around me but the drugs have got...
    acissej10 acissej10 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm not very fond of the concept of alcohol. It gives me too many painful memories that I wish I could forget. I think it makes people become a different person, it changes you and...
    PhiawithaP PhiawithaP 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Go to be honest. I had many friends when I was in high school. That did drugs. Pure pressure never got a hold of me on that. Except alcohol. Drank a couple of times at parties...
    keepitreal78 keepitreal78 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I had a house party at mine last weekend. I don't know if I'm to crazy or today's generation of young adults just to boring. I mean I don't have anything against alcohol and drugs...
    freebirdOz freebirdOz 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    If I have a problem, I'll try to fix it myself. I don't like it when people say I need them. I'll prove them wrong by doing whatever by myself. I don't want to depend on anybody.
    MajorCutie MajorCutie 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    Once someone told me that drugs could ease you out of all your troubles. I asked what if one wanted to fight back; what about Will Power and Determination? And then there was...
    hiddentears hiddentears 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 8

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    Besides being sins for me, I don't see any need for myself to poison my body for pleasure. I could have pleasure and fun in other friendly ways
    Alip900 Alip900 22-25, M 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I've reached this stage where i don't see why these things are necessary to live your "life" you're not missing anything and i bet if you were never exposed to it you wouldn't care...
    zaynisbae zaynisbae 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I don't drink Alcohol, or smoke or take any drugs. It's part of my personal code of honor, if that makes any sense.
    TheComicAlien TheComicAlien 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I don't drink anymore because I am epileptic and my medicine reduces my tolerance to alcohol significantly. Also, I'm just not that kind of person. Yesterday made me feel ever...
    sjchevalier07 sjchevalier07 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I've never had a one night stand you know when you **** a guy and never hear from him again, yes! well I got really drunk and partied a little to hard, when I woke up I still...
    SusieBlu SusieBlu 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I'm 19 and have never done drugs or drank. I don't care about this sort of thing. I'm also a virgin (but from the way I think, some people would assume otherwise, lol), and proud...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 4

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    I have always been strongly against drugs and drinking. Ever since health class in 5th grade when we first started talking about the dangers of alcohol and drugs, it scared me and...
    Samhopexo Samhopexo 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 8

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    Although there was a time in my life where I didn't think this was true...Drinking i've never really done but drugs however...That goes far into my life and at one point that was...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I just don't want to. I want to freely express myself without fear of recognition or rejection. I just want to be me. I wish to find people who are understanding enough to accept...
    missph missph 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    People often ask me (especially in this nation of drunks we call Australia!) why I don't drink or smoke. I tell them that it saves me dollars and brain cells - and I don't have...
    murphysmaster murphysmaster 51-55, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Im settling in to college and don't really have any one to talk with so anyone on this that wants to chat boy or girls I'm not picky on who I talk with
    tinieTempah tinieTempah 16-17, M Sep 12

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    I do not need drugs & alcohol to make myself happy & have fun. I do fine without them. I do not allowed negative bad behaviours to impaired my judgements. Always be true to...
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 27

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    I like being "different" it's just who I am. I like staying in the background...playing it safe, I've given myself the nickname "The observer" cause it fits me well heh. I always...
    starlight109 starlight109 13-15, F Sep 3

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    Natural drugs are good like weed shrooms Ayuascha etc man made drugs like LSD crack cocaine heroine meth etc are bad. Alcohol Is bad period
    kwill754 kwill754 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I've been sober for 6 years. I love it. It has nothing to do with my own alcoholism (I'm not an alcoholic), but my father's... And the way alcohol negatively affects my brain. I...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    All i need is my swag, and my yolo. and my yoloswag.
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M 7 Responses Aug 28

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    all i need is doritos and pepsi.
    Mcduck8982 Mcduck8982 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Or at least i dont need alcohol to have fun but drugs woop woop
    NilsPetter NilsPetter 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    All I just need to have fun is coffee & orange flavoured my water from sodastream
    ValerieFrizzle ValerieFrizzle 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 11

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    To be honest, I am not here to make friends, I only need help, from people who can understand..
    Idonotcareanymore Idonotcareanymore 18-21 a week ago

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    Going skydiving on Saturday can't wait
    ethanwalley ethanwalley 22-25, M 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have maybe two friends that I can really count on. I thought I made another one at work, but it was a really self-centered woman who has made my life a living hell. She couldn't...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M Sep 6

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