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I Am Single and Happy and Don't Need a Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 72 People

    I hate people say to me ''Awww,

    why are you single??hon,you will find someone soon.'' Especially i dislike if men says'' i enjoy being single''is oh okay.. But if women says same thing,people look at me like i am desparate. Plus I am not just saying..i really don't feel need to have relationship with someone...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I'm a woman who is pretty content in life.

    I don't need a man to make my life "complete." I'm a woman on a mission to become more successful in life, travel more, live such a way I like, and I like being positive. I don't need a man to tear me down or being supported; I already have a support system. Men are just an...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    Men Are Nothing But Trouble

    I don't need a man, to make me happy.  I'm doing quite fine as a single woman.  I have a lot of friends who are guys.  I did fall in love with a man, when I was in college.  He seemed sweet, at first, but than he turned out to be a real jerk.  He was also...
    Sid1977 Sid1977 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Awakening29 Awakening29 26-30, F Aug 3, 2014

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    This Is Another Reason I Am Still Single

    I am glad the number of members in here are this small !!!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    I am not the kind of girl

    who requires a man in her life. If I can't be happy with a man I will be without one.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 16

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    Men are mere mortals

    who are not worth going to your grave for - Shirley Bassey
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Well im back and single now

    for four months, At the start i thought i would be in a mess, missing my ex and being alone in this big house however its been a total pleasure .. everything seems to be calm and im calm too the cats are happy, the house has a nice feel to it .. im in the garden pottering...
    prettypoppie prettypoppie 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I Need Advice From People In This Group- You Are In The Place I Want To Be

    I'm 62 and my very long marriage ended about 3 yrs. ago. I have 2 daughters in their 20's whom I'm very close to. My marriage had a lot of problems, anger, emotional abuse, infidelity, disagreements about how to raise the kids...it got worse until it was intolerable. So I'm...
    TransitofVenus TransitofVenus 61-65, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    Love It

    I enjoy being single I can be my self and I enjoy it when I'm in a relationship I always put his needs before my own and often feel like I'm cornered
    87dolphin 87dolphin 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    The Group's Name Says It All

    I'm single, happy and proud that I am. Why should women (and many men) feel that they must have a partner to be fulfilled? I no longer feel this way. I used to feel that I had to stay married or I had to find a man or my life would be wasted. What rot! Every person in this world...
    GraceandLucy GraceandLucy 41-45 1 Response Oct 6, 2008

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    Selfishly Single

    I grew up listening to all the classic fairy tales and old-school Disney, where girls grow up to be princesses and eventually meet and marry their prince. For every girl there was a boy, for every Barbie there was a Ken (even if Mattel markets otherwise). I always wondered what...
    minutemaid511 minutemaid511 18-21 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Single, Happy and Content With My Choices

    First off: I am a 44 yr old female with 2 daughters. One is 22 in her last year of college and the other is 10 and  a honor roll student. Now I dont take all the credit for this because both of them make and are still making capable decisions and choices about who they want...
    christieluv2209 christieluv2209 41-45 2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    I'm silage I'm happy

    and I sure as he*l don't need a man
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 16

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    kota134567 kota134567 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I've never had any alcohol, drugs, and never smoked. I don't need or want it either. I've seen the results. Smoking makes you stink. Alcohol can make a person act stupid. Drugs can...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Have enough weirdness when I'm sober don't need liquor or drugs adding to it lol
    LipsOfAnAngel89 LipsOfAnAngel89 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 7

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    random I just typed in fun and that was at the top but yeah people aways trying me to smoke weed or drink or anything I'm just like I don't need this ant gonna benefit me
    DangBobby DangBobby 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 12

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    Don't Need Drugs and Alcohol to Have Fun
    goodnites1091 goodnites1091 22-25, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm so sick of people saying "I don't need that to have fun" like good for you and your life but some people like drinking and like smoking. Maybe they like that it makes the world...
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Who wants to be single? I know I don't but seems to be my fate. Going on 4 years now. I'm not one to reach out or approach though. Wish meeting people was easy. Till approached...
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Feb 23

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    I get so sick and tired of everyone telling me that I need to talk to someone about my problems. To others I apparently have "gone through traumatizing events"and if I just talked...
    wonderlust99 wonderlust99 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    I couldn't stress this enough 👌 my thoughts exactly. I'm done being there for people when they need me, when they don't give a damn when it comes to me. some people just care...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Through your toughest time you know who your friends are. those that clearly see you have a problem and actually ask you how you are. those that don't get ignored. just how it is...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F Feb 6

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    People don't understand how I can have fun without alcohol or drugs. I don't understand why they like it so much.
    MaxyD MaxyD 18-21, F 26 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really don't,since no one ever did anything good to me and I will always try to do good for others. ,cause im not like others .
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    I'm a little surprised that even people who do take drugs and drink alcohol don't want me to touch the stuff.
    andrewD51 andrewD51 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 20

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    It's been two and half years since I quit drinking alcohol & beer. Going on three years this coming July. I don;t do any drugs..but it still feels good to be sober and clean. I...
    FourEyedLad FourEyedLad 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My dad had some drug and alcohol problems. I don't want to end up like him, so I'm not letting myself take recreational drugs or drink alcohol on a regular basis (in fact, avoid it...
    fireraven23 fireraven23 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    No you don't. I'm 16 and a lot of kids my age already drink and smoke. Hell the only thing I drink is tea, water, soda, and milk.
    hondurananonymous hondurananonymous 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a single dad but I'm fed up being single.
    agonyuncle agonyuncle 36-40, M Feb 21

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    It's all good fun being single, no-one to answer to and doing what you wanted any time without compromise. But there's so much about being with a special someone that I miss. The...
    gazzapocotron gazzapocotron 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    being single sucks i just wish i had someone to hold me when i cry and cuddle with me when im cold or text me cute messages in the morning to get my day going and most importantly...
    kissmebabe15 kissmebabe15 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Though I was an addict sometime time in the past and had undergone therapy, now i feel like i have wasted a part of my life that i could have done something constructive with. I...
    misterweirdo misterweirdo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I've always been the one to stay away from anything to alter my mood, but sometimes just feels like I need to fall back on that so bad and just break facing to the music and fun...
    aDesperado aDesperado 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Because I'm weird and crazy enough. and alcohol and drugs not really good things. so I doesn't feel like they make you have fun or enjoy.
    dooola90 dooola90 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I had a thought. Why do people drink alcohol? Especially in uni where the definition of hangout is getting drunk at some random party and waking up with a hangover. I think people...
    pam88 pam88 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 10

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    Doesn't mean I won't take them though, they just heighten the experience and deepen the hangover is all!
    Miansk Miansk 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Okay so like not drinking alcohol is easy for me cause I hate it but it is tempting to smoke weed cause it is all arounds me and I haven't smoked yet but I have a feeling I might...
    AwkwardTyler AwkwardTyler 13-15, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm so unhappy right now I just want to end it all!!
    agonyuncle agonyuncle 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    I've only had small amounts of alcohol, but I always got sick and felt like sleeping while drinking. I rather have Kool-Aid. :)
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I've never tried anything illegal except weed. It was so embarrassing not being able to control myself and knowing that other people knew I was high. I felt like a real loser.
    KingLaserDestroyer KingLaserDestroyer 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    What you do with your dog it's not what I am into!
    GrecoItalianBella83 GrecoItalianBella83 31-35, F Feb 13

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