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I Am Single And Have No Children

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    I'm single with no children

    and I'm ok with that. I like being an auntie, but other than that I have no desire to be a mom. The problem is trying to find a guy to date that doesn't already have kids and doesn't want kids. Where are you guys??
    ZoeySpark ZoeySpark 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm Single

    I'm single with no regrets from not getting married and having kids. I am married to my job with a bunch of kids my mother tells me the only difference is when I go home my time is mine without demands. I have one special love in my life, just taking it one step at a time, no...
    Cac45 Cac45 46-50, M 5 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Just Turned 40

    ~ I grew up wanting to be a wife & mother. That's all I wanted. While all my friends & classmates were talking about being singers, actors, firemen, & doctors.... All I wanted was to fall in love, get married & have a family of my own. Through all my struggles with depression...
    GentleTears GentleTears 36-40, F 10 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Yup this is me, growing up I really thought I

    would be married by now with my own family well it didn't happen. Things change as we get older . Now I see things in a different perspective.
    Gracie182 Gracie182 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I Am Lonely,

    I have taken time since I have it. I try to enjoy it. Though I sometimes wonder what kids would be like if they were with me. I try to learn about them. I sometimes get really lonely. I like the time that I have to myself on the other hand. I enjoy kids also though. I am...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Children

    No, I have never had children, don't know why, just hasn't happened yet.
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M Jul 15, 2012

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    Unbelieveable

    I'm 31 been married and divorced. I have no kids and I like it that way. I love kids to their core.... I just don't have the desire to be a mother right now. I know it is not the "norm" but it is true. I teach every day and I am so glad to come home to a nice peaceful house.
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Thinking Of Adopting

    I have been single for the last 15 years. I have found it difficult to meet and date people since my mother had a stroke in 2000. I have always wanted children but now think it is unlikely that I will meet and marry "the one". I'm considering just going ahead and either getting...
    vasalisa vasalisa 31-35, F Jul 5, 2012

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    I Am Single And Have No Children Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr In An Adult Nursing Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 Nov 22, 2013

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    Wonders If Ever...

    I'm pushing 50 and I've been single most of the last 15 years.I've never had kids - when I was with my long term partner, neither of us wanted kids and before that in my marriage my wife already had a child and wasn't ready for another.Now I'm beginning to feel like I'm missing...
    Riffster Riffster 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Somewhere That's Green :)

    Yes, I'm single, but I long for the day when I can find the right person, get married and start a family. I hope it happens someday!
    smileylottie smileylottie 18-21, F Apr 7, 2012

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    No it is NOT because I have anything against Children , we all were one at some point Its more basic : 1. Most relationships never are stable or long lasting , so I never...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    I had two miscarriages and an abortion but I posted those experiences already. My first wanted pregnancy started of rocky. I started bleeding at 6 weeks but I held her. We were in...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Hellooooo world ! Don't make babies by default ! It is not an ooops I just wanted sex...oh well,let's be parents. Bring wanted babies and if you do the "oops" thing,be consequent...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I need to know how to get pregnant any tips
    roadrunner34 roadrunner34 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    My 3 year old grandson has serious behaviour issues. I think he has ADHD . Is there anyone on here I can talk to that knows about it that I can talk to. I'm at my wits end. Help...
    josiejosie josiejosie 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've spent the last 10 years of my life in back to back long term relationships. The first one, we just weren't right for each other. The second, I lived with all my heart. In...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm 18 years old and I've been having this since I was 12... I didn't noticed how bad it was until I started high school... I wanted to feel pretty and since then I started to...
    cbeautyangel cbeautyangel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I really adore people who adopt children. I was adopted at the early age of 6 months. The couple that adopted me were unable to have children of their own. Since adopting me...
    brunetteatthebeach brunetteatthebeach 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I don't know why, but I would like to have children of my own.
    StupidWiseGuy StupidWiseGuy 18-21, M Jul 3

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    Have you seen the young Mum in the shop trying to get her young daughter who doesn't want to leave without this toy, that packet of sweets, behave and frustrated she starts...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I've been trying to have children for years now and no luck. Not even false pregnancies, miscarriages, or any signs of being fertile. It really really gets to me sometimes and...
    Caramelly Caramelly 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    There are days when I desperately want to be pregnant and have a baby. I'm 34 and would like 3 or 4 kids. I already have them named and everything (potentially). You see, these are...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 16

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    I had to make a choice between 2 amazing men. A love triangle that I never should've put myself in. I chose the man I've been with for 12 years. We had a year long breakup. I met...
    Rojayazul Rojayazul 36-40, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    My greatest fear is not being able to have children. Ever since I was little I knew that I would want to be a mum someday. Then I started having strange nightmares about babies...
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    To long I was in the trap of a abusive marriage. Everyday waking up trying to convince myself it was the "right" thing to do by staying. To keep my family together. Everyday his...
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    In my last 'experience', I spoke about how I came out to my friends and I stressed at that point, I had NOT come out to my parents. Yet, as I write this, 5 months on from when it...
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    Jezzebel143 Jezzebel143 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    I have been asking for a daddy to help TAKE CARE of my needs. I would like for him to PROTECT and SUPPORT me. I'd like a young daddy who is mature... this is just my ideal though...
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    I am currently reading a book about controlling parents and how to deal with the past. It is helping, but I am emotionally stuck. Part of me feels that I am being over dramatic...
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    I have two wonderful boys and two girls. I had my first son when I was 20 my second when I was 22, When I was 24 yrs old I had my first daughter and my last when I was 29. In my...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    The daily struggles, financial burdens, trying to maintain my health and overall sanity is starting to get to me. I am a single mom of two. One with special needs and the other an...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I must live in Denmark. Looking for a man between the age of 30 - 45 years. You must be single and available, no drama. No children/wants children. Sweet and kind. Romantic and...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I am a 25 year old single mother of 3 children under the age of 7. I have a low paying part time job (the first one i've been able to find in 3 years) and my own vehicle. We lost...
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    I am a single lady of 57, I'd never heard of Sister Wives or polygamy until the television show. The very first episode I realized THIS was the type of family I'd always dreamt of...
    Darklydancing Darklydancing 56-60, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel Alone. Im 22 and im a single mum, when i found out i was pregnant back in 2013 my daughters dad left me and told me he didn't want nothing to do with me or our baby. I felt...
    Toriaxo Toriaxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I don't know what I did to deserve being a single mom of two. I loved their father for 12 years. Gave my everything to him. And after all the years I was still very much in love...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    My daughter's teacher just made my day!!! I'm doing my best and it shows. She said my daughter is a great student and great person. She said nobody deserves the credit but me and...
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    Sometimes as a mother I feel so lost. I see other parents who have clearly got their s*hit together. I take my daughter to school and feel like I don't fit in. The mothers are...
    CandiIsMastersLittleSlave CandiIsMastersLittleSlave 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 17

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    Jo here! I'm 44 and a single mum of four girls. I spank my girls with a hairbrush in the diaper position when they misbehave . A spanking in our house happens one to two times a...
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    My story is extremely complicated, but quite interesting if you erase all the negatives....I am from a mixed heritage and was born to a catholic mother and Jewish father. When I...
    londongirl98 londongirl98 16-17, F Jul 22

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