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I Am Single And Have No Children

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    Unbelieveable

    I'm 31 been married and divorced. I have no kids and I like it that way. I love kids to their core.... I just don't have the desire to be a mother right now. I know it is not the "norm" but it is true. I teach every day and I am so glad to come home to a nice peaceful house.
    BlueRose601 BlueRose601 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    I'm Single

    I'm single with no regrets from not getting married and having kids. I am married to my job with a bunch of kids my mother tells me the only difference is when I go home my time is mine without demands. I have one special love in my life, just taking it one step at a time, no...
    Cac45 Cac45 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Yup this is me, growing up I really thought I

    would be married by now with my own family well it didn't happen. Things change as we get older . Now I see things in a different perspective.
    Gracie182 Gracie182 41-45, F Jan 28, 2014

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    Somewhere That's Green :)

    Yes, I'm single, but I long for the day when I can find the right person, get married and start a family. I hope it happens someday!
    smileylottie smileylottie 18-21, F Apr 7, 2012

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    I Am Lonely,

    I have taken time since I have it. I try to enjoy it. Though I sometimes wonder what kids would be like if they were with me. I try to learn about them. I sometimes get really lonely. I like the time that I have to myself on the other hand. I enjoy kids also though. I am...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Wonders If Ever...

    I'm pushing 50 and I've been single most of the last 15 years.I've never had kids - when I was with my long term partner, neither of us wanted kids and before that in my marriage my wife already had a child and wasn't ready for another.Now I'm beginning to feel like I'm missing...
    Riffster Riffster 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    I'm single with no children

    and I'm ok with that. I like being an auntie, but other than that I have no desire to be a mom. The problem is trying to find a guy to date that doesn't already have kids and doesn't want kids. Where are you guys??
    ZoeySpark ZoeySpark 36-40, F Jan 18, 2014

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    Just Turned 40

    ~ I grew up wanting to be a wife & mother. That's all I wanted. While all my friends & classmates were talking about being singers, actors, firemen, & doctors.... All I wanted was to fall in love, get married & have a family of my own. Through all my struggles with depression...
    GentleTears GentleTears 36-40, F 8 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I Am Single And Have No Children Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr In An Adult Nursing Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 22, 2013

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    Children

    No, I have never had children, don't know why, just hasn't happened yet.
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M Jul 15, 2012

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    Thinking Of Adopting

    I have been single for the last 15 years. I have found it difficult to meet and date people since my mother had a stroke in 2000. I have always wanted children but now think it is unlikely that I will meet and marry "the one". I'm considering just going ahead and either getting...
    vasalisa vasalisa 31-35, F Jul 5, 2012

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Jun 2

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    Typing this makes me feel like I seem needy or am complaining about being single, but that is certainly not the case. I know that I have my "while life" to live so I can't...
    Ominousity Ominousity 18-21, F 1 Response 34 mins ago

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    I am a single mom and my son is 8 years old now. I was pregnant as a teenager by my boyfriend then. We never married and are not together today.
    amberbethcoed amberbethcoed 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I think about being impregnated over and over again. I fantasize about my boyfriend making me submit to him and forcing me to bear his children. To be honest, I have thought about...
    cuddleraptor cuddleraptor 26-30, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Being single VS being in a relationship...wow a tricky one for sure.Btw these two 'categories' are the only ones i know of, thus being married, divorced, or widowed i wont talk...
    Hisinfernalmajesty5 Hisinfernalmajesty5 26-30, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    People think that they're single and will be single forever but after sometimes or years , when they meet right girl or boy, they will think that they were wrong... so if u are...
    sreyance24 sreyance24 16-17, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Every. Single. God. Damn. Relationship.
    bubblebubba bubblebubba 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I had a full hysterectomy two years ago at the age of 29 without ever having the opportunity to have children. I have been sick ever since. I was told the surgery would change my...
    Genergy84 Genergy84 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Of course God only gave to those morons and arseholes kids, those who only wanted to fvck not to have kids.. Then claimed I'm a pro choice.. Or the kids ended up growing only with...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    My exboyfriend is on his way over and I'm feeling ambivalent about it. I tried to meet a new group of people today and it didn't turn out the way I wanted it to. Often when I spend...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I didn't want to share this on this site. She's... the best part about my life. We get along fantastically well. She's my best friend, as cheesy as it sounds. She's the hot pretty...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    What are bullied children like as adults? I mean severe bullied children.
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 9 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I woke up at 6:40 this morning to my little sister knocking on the door. I had told them to wake me up when they woke up the night before so I'd make them breakfast. I rolled out...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    My writing and my stress are one and the same bone, before men and children and life taking a huge festering **** on me i was a pretty decent writer, I wrote often and never seemed...
    Aliandras Aliandras 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    It shouldn't hurt to be a child, yet most abuse cases, are from parents. You would never think that someone who is suppose to Love and protect you, to hurt you, yet it is happenin...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    So 4 years ago I found out that I had fibroids but I wasn't going to the doctor so last year went and now they're so big that I might need a hysterectomy I'm 32 and single and I...
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I know a man and a woman, who don't deserve their kids. They have 3 boys, who are 5, 4 and 2 years old. If they do something bad, like hit each other while playing, their parents...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses a week ago

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    I never meet my dad and my mom hate me. like her drugs more. I want to move away
    11yodiaperboy 11yodiaperboy 13-15, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am having trouble believing that my future will be any different. My family loves me and tells me that this is a minor problem compared to others and I agree. except...I had...
    BeautifullyadoredbyGod BeautifullyadoredbyGod 31-35, F Jun 27

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    My entire family is criminally insane. From my Mom, her oldest son, who is 31, to my youngest brother who is 10. I'm the youngest daughter, being 21. And there are 8 of us...
    Awesg Awesg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I rush into everything. I am 22 years old, looking back on my life and I can honestly say I don't remember one thing that I haven't rushed into. I rushed a relationship and ended...
    cosmicburst cosmicburst 22-25, F Jun 25

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    This is tough. Every single day. My whole life I wanted to have a child. I planned my life around it. I got all my partying and promiscuity out of the way when I was younger...
    Whatsmystory Whatsmystory 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I am a 14 year old boy living in Tennessee, I have been a very quiet, shy, and emotional person, these past few years I would stay locked in my room and never come out unless it...
    santana772 santana772 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Notes To My Children: Things I Want Them To Know.This book is dedicated to my children, Odarely Monserrat, Sharon Paulina and Alan Gabriel: mi alma, mi cielo y mi luna...
    puckit600 puckit600 46-50, M Jun 23

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    I believe that a woman's main purpose is to have children and I think it's the most natural way to have as many as possible. I plan is getting pregnant again almost instantly after...
    mariafatiha mariafatiha 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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    Keep having life threatening tonic clonics. Going to the hospital soon to change meds. Hopefully it makes a difference. Even if I'm not cured, I'd be ok just having a couple a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 23

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    FIRST I want to ask if any of you have had or thought about having surgery done to fix the webbed-neck and low hairline most of us are born with? I’m considering having it...
    CousinV CousinV 18-21, F Jun 21

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    With Father's Day tomorrow, I was thinking on this subject. My father, to this day, tells me he loves me at least once every day that we see each other or talk on the phone. When...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    Father's Day is painful. My two wonderful boys have now been without one for ten years. He left after I divorced him and moved a thousand miles away. There have been three couple...
    elizabethmariejazz elizabethmariejazz 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    but im cool with that. I like other peoples children, I am not a child hater and I am not desperately broody and heart broken about not having them either. Seems to me we get...
    anonmemyselfandi anonmemyselfandi 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    It is more like a social status than anything else. Everyone I know is in some kind of relationship. A majority of my friends and family are married with children. Some even have...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 51-55, M Jun 18

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