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I Am Single And Have No Children

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    I'm single with no children

    and I'm ok with that. I like being an auntie, but other than that I have no desire to be a mom. The problem is trying to find a guy to date that doesn't already have kids and doesn't want kids. Where are you guys??
    ZoeySpark ZoeySpark 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Yup this is me, growing up I really thought I

    would be married by now with my own family well it didn't happen. Things change as we get older . Now I see things in a different perspective.
    Gracie182 Gracie182 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Just Turned 40

    ~ I grew up wanting to be a wife & mother. That's all I wanted. While all my friends & classmates were talking about being singers, actors, firemen, & doctors.... All I wanted was to fall in love, get married & have a family of my own. Through all my struggles with depression...
    GentleTears GentleTears 36-40, F 10 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I Am Single And Have No Children Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr In An Adult Nursing Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 22, 2013

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    Thinking Of Adopting

    I have been single for the last 15 years. I have found it difficult to meet and date people since my mother had a stroke in 2000. I have always wanted children but now think it is unlikely that I will meet and marry "the one". I'm considering just going ahead and either getting...
    vasalisa vasalisa 31-35, F Jul 5, 2012

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    Wonders If Ever...

    I'm pushing 50 and I've been single most of the last 15 years.I've never had kids - when I was with my long term partner, neither of us wanted kids and before that in my marriage my wife already had a child and wasn't ready for another.Now I'm beginning to feel like I'm missing...
    Riffster Riffster 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    I Am Lonely,

    I have taken time since I have it. I try to enjoy it. Though I sometimes wonder what kids would be like if they were with me. I try to learn about them. I sometimes get really lonely. I like the time that I have to myself on the other hand. I enjoy kids also though. I am...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Somewhere That's Green :)

    Yes, I'm single, but I long for the day when I can find the right person, get married and start a family. I hope it happens someday!
    smileylottie smileylottie 18-21, F Apr 7, 2012

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    I'm Single

    I'm single with no regrets from not getting married and having kids. I am married to my job with a bunch of kids my mother tells me the only difference is when I go home my time is mine without demands. I have one special love in my life, just taking it one step at a time, no...
    Cac45 Cac45 46-50, M 5 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Unbelieveable

    I'm 31 been married and divorced. I have no kids and I like it that way. I love kids to their core.... I just don't have the desire to be a mother right now. I know it is not the "norm" but it is true. I teach every day and I am so glad to come home to a nice peaceful house.
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Children

    No, I have never had children, don't know why, just hasn't happened yet.
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M Jul 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I realize that If i'm going to accomplish, those accomplishments won't mean much unless I have children that are going to bear that legacy. So that's why i want kids eventually. I...
    indosavior indosavior 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    When I was young, I wanted to have kids without really thinking about it. I thought it was a part of growing up. You get a job, a girl, a house and kids. The road to happiness...
    HermitKatWan HermitKatWan 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I've wanted to have a baby for about 3 years now but I knew it wouldn't be good if I got pregnant before I finished school. I'm done with school now so I'm ready for the next...
    KacyB98 KacyB98 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    My bf is ready, and I mean I'm kinda ready. I have my college degree, he is close to his. But.. Idk i just want to do it proper. Give my children a good role model and something to...
    krazykaylove krazykaylove 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I suppose it'd be natural to want kids, but I actually hate the thought of having to care for something that helpless. And by the time it gets older, there's a risk we wouldn't...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M Aug 24

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    ************* need to grow the **** up first before raising their child how to mature. I hate when parents complain about the things they're missing out in life when they have a...
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I feel like it makes fully functioning people into gooey voiced zombies. My sister used to be rational and intelligent before having a kid. Now that she has one, it's all gooey...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I have 3 kids already one is bio mine I want one more me & my g.f are waiting lol for the "one" mr perfect ***** lmao
    tightblunt tightblunt 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    i'm at the time in my life where i wanna find a guy, be in love and have kids. being pregnant is a fantasy of mine i wished it be true
    deedeebear deedeebear 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    We really messed up on the pregnancy.... I was totally illiterate on the woman body and the conceive part when I was bachelor and after getting engaged, we started getting physical...
    Ravidesai Ravidesai 41-45, M 22 hrs ago

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    so in my family, we are cursed with only boys so i made a list of just boy names that i like. Bailey Alexander Avery Carlisle Gerard Michael Raymond Antonio Tobias Perry Devon...
    piercethemack piercethemack 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    And wanna keep it that way but I truly respect those that do, just not for me ;)) XX
    38NHotStill 38NHotStill 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Yes. I'm 27 and I fall in this category
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I think I might be pregnant at last!!
    littlelisauk littlelisauk 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 6

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    Having a child is a lifetime commitment. Birth control is available for free or very low cost. If you're not ready to raise a kid and be available to them for at least the next 2...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Well, I guess that just about confirms it :))
    littlelisauk littlelisauk 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Never ever ever never ever...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am a working and single mom. I have adopted two girls soon after they were born to women who put them up for adoption. I am unable to have children so I adopted. I cherish the...
    momandher2girls momandher2girls 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 15

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    Anyone in my family is married. My sisters both are married and have children and my parents married 44 years ago and are still happy with each other. Somehow it wont work for me...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I wrote these words in meditation. "The seeds of peace are sown in the eyes of children, an innocent knowledge of the world, not corrupted by sin." I have known children who...
    quianominorleo quianominorleo 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    I have always known from a very young age that I did not want to have children. Maybe I would be a good father, but I do not want the responsibility of raising a child. I like my...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I know I'm still to young to have children but Iv always wanted children. Ever since that day when I went to the mall by myself when I was 12 I wanted kids, everywhere I walked I...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Eh, I say I don't but I wouldn't mind it. Then I realize that my fertility is questionable for one. My uterus and hormones hate me. For real. Two, I am ALWAYS in dire straits. I...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I have suffered with and lived with anxiety which i think stems from being verbally bullied at school, and when younger i was encouraged to be the quiet shy girl. I left school and...
    anxiety1sufferer anxiety1sufferer 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I really struggle to think of any boys' names I feel really passionate about. I can think of girls' ones like that. I could be watching a film or reading a book, and any names I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I am 34 and he is 22. Next week will have been two years that we have been together. Age means nothing as far as I'm concerned. I really don't even acknowledge the difference...
    Rabs22482 Rabs22482 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Physically and mentally and emotionally as well and I've just gotten out of it and it ended very badly. On top of it all I could be expecting and I had sent him a picture of the...
    Mjkittycass1985 Mjkittycass1985 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We are listed here often times and really loved ourselves,the meals is brilliant but the vast majority of all the leisure is excellent.N0 the place else that we know of does...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    It has been two very long weeks since I was told I would need surgery. My fiancee and I found out we were pregnant and quickly scheduled our first baby appointment thinking it...
    cdwinters83 cdwinters83 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I have no problem with interacial any thing but sometimes its not that simple ....like people say love is color blind..maybe love is...but people are not......and it depends on who...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    As a person who is absolutely proud of being able to deal with difficult or unpleasant people with grace, I have hit the wall with dealing with my mother in law. Here is a woman...
    Xiramat Xiramat 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Hello ep, I'm Emma and I'm 40. I live in Yorkshire with my husband John and our nine, beautiful, annoying, loud, mischievous, hilarious children. Seth is 11;Daniel is 10...
    mumsnineangels mumsnineangels 36-40, F 41 mins ago

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    Hello ep, I'm Emma and I'm 40. I live in Yorkshire with my husband John and our nine, beautiful, annoying, loud, mischievous, hilarious children. Seth is 11;Daniel is 10...
    mumsnineangels mumsnineangels 36-40, F 1 Response 45 mins ago

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    Hello ep, I'm Emma and I'm 40. I live in Yorkshire with my husband John and our nine, beautiful, annoying, loud, mischievous, hilarious children. Seth is 11;Daniel is 10...
    mumsnineangels mumsnineangels 36-40, F 42 mins ago

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    Hello ep, I'm Emma and I'm 40. I live in Yorkshire with my husband John and our nine, beautiful, annoying, loud, mischievous, hilarious children. Seth is 11;Daniel is 10...
    mumsnineangels mumsnineangels 36-40, F 42 mins ago

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    September 2. Detaching with Love with Children. "It's one thing to let go of my husband and let him suffer the consequences. But how do I let go of my children? Isn't it different...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 2

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