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I Am Single and Loving It

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    I'm single and not looking

    for a relationship or a f** buddy of anything like that! I'm happy being single and I don't need someone to make me happy! When that special person comes around they can change that. I'm not Desprate Nor do I look for a relationship every where.
    xgabbersx xgabbersx 18-21, F Jan 29

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    Me, Myself, and I

    I Love being single!  I love eating what I want when I want.  I loving going to bed when I want and getting up when I want.  I love being surrounded by my stuff, stuff I love that has meaning to me.  I hate to share! I have dated many guys, been engaged...
    swirlingmist swirlingmist 51-55, F 9 Responses May 13, 2009

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    So, I was in a relationship .

    . a bad one.. very bad one! My biggest problems was breaking up!! and living by my own without anyone in my life.. I was experiencing something I'm not used too! It's just weird ... to even walk alone on the street.. I'm not used to be alone! me.. only me! Then I started to...
    A3LD A3LD 22-25, F Jan 30

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    Is It So Bad? I Don't Think So! ^___^

    I'm turning 14, and have never had a boyfriend before, but i hear people say: "Oh i had my first boyfriend at 11," or ," Ya I just made out with my boyfriend," and people who say this are my age.. And when people say "You have never had a boyfriend before...
    damnit5838 damnit5838 13-15, F Aug 23, 2009

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    Single and loving it?

    Or nah. Or nah seems to describe me better
    SecondStars SecondStars 16-17, F Jun 15

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    Boyfriend Or Not?

    Do you know that I only ever want a bloke/some male attention when I don’t have any. The minute I have a bloke on the scene or someone who wants to be my boyfriend, I realise that what I was trying to tell people all along is true, I really do not want a boyfriend. Sure...
    Leyla Leyla 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2008

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    I'm Single And Living It!

    Sorry I couldn't think of a better title. I've never had a bf and I'm 23 years old and that's just fine I've been set apart for Gods glory not my own. If you can't understand that oh well that's too bad. My life Is not my own I belong to God. I've been bought with blood :D My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    Loving It!

    I am single and I love it. I don't, repeat don't, want that to change. No, I do not have an account in an online dating site, I don't do speed dating, and I don't lament my single status. I love it. Every decision I make is by me, for me, and about me. There is NOTHING in my...
    nobodyknowsbutme nobodyknowsbutme 46-50 3 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Thrive On Being Single!

    Some people were probably never suited to be married and it took me three divorces to figure out that I was one of them. I stayed married 9 years the first time, 10 years the second time and 16 years the third time and it was me who got the divorce from each of those marriages...
    onefallingleaf onefallingleaf 46-50 1 Response Nov 17, 2010

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    I Value My Independence

    I've been looking for "love" since I was thirteen years old. I went about it in all the wrong ways. I dated the worst kinds of people, then I dated the right kind. Yet I was never happy in any of these relationships. I tried to be less demanding. I tried to give more of...
    MamaMoopsie MamaMoopsie 22-25, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Okay. So let us see. For the first time of my 18 years, I am shocked that guys would actually like who I am. Ut started last year, when I was 17 and people started commenting on...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    "Why I need to be single" Only now do I realise What a fish I've been, adapting to my surroundings Going with the flow of everything normal and never beyond While there is...
    LilyLua LilyLua 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I have come to embrace being single. I've started to realized that being single isn't a curse but a gift. I'm not in some waiting room waiting for "real life" to start with my...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    July 10. Ending Relationships. It takes courage and honesty to end a relationship - with friends, loved ones, or a work relationship. Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 10

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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I'm really enjoying my own single life!!!! I don't have worry about anybody or "court" to their needs. I can say yes or no, come and go as I please. Don't have to wait on nobody...
    shon1982 shon1982 31-35, M Jul 16

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    and it is not bad for me.. as I am able to get what I need... I have had some conversations with my wonderful CP man... and we have worked out some things... so here is the...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    so far, i had not read a single bashful comment or experience people here are all so open-minded and accepting; the best kind there are :) i hope it remains that way
    kathl33n kathl33n 18-21 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My best friend. I loved him, and still do, so much. I literally spend my weekends sitting alone crying wishing I knew why he would cut me out of his life. I called him my Prince, I...
    Mjjim86 Mjjim86 26-30, M Jul 6

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    am looking for mature honest and loving woman
    moris100 moris100 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    Yaaayyy! Free and loving it day-by-day.
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    July 13. God as We Understand God. "God is subtle, but he is not malicious." —Albert Einstein Recovery is an intensely spiritual process that asks us to grow in our...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 13

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    loving every minute of it too... I just wish it was easier to keep the really nice men who chat with me, as friends.. seems when I tell them I am not the kind of gal who will...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 19

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    July 29. Have Some Fun. Have some fun. Loosen up a bit. Enjoy life! We do not have to be so somber and serious. We do not have to be so reflective, so critical, so bound up...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    I want to love a girl unconditionally. I want to be able to make her feel special, loved, cared for and beautiful. I want to make her feel precious and like a queen. I want to be...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    O single Muslim! -By UmmGhareebah O single Muslim! How chaste are you! While others engage in haraam and fulfill their desires, You shun the many calls to sin, For fear of the...
    MySecretDesirexxx MySecretDesirexxx 18-21, M 10 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm single. I've been single for nearly four years now. I had one date with one guy who just didn't find me physically attractive. Hey, everyone has a preference, and his wasn't...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    If you are single you are not a single person saying im looking for my other half. when people say they are looking for their other half?.. who wants to marry a half of a man or...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I think I love my partner still,but I am considering leaving him. It is difficult because there is good between him and I, but we either need to see someone and he needs help or we...
    TheWicked TheWicked 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I don't understand why there are so many people on here that complain they are lonely and depressed because they are single. Being single isn't bad and you're not single simply...
    Bec333 Bec333 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Single huh... Some say "It's awesome being single" others "I hate being single". I'm that kind of guy that's alright with both. Yet, when you meet that person... Your mind just...
    Roy186 Roy186 18-21, M Jul 6

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    I love being single. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy and enjoy life. You can have guy friends and have a blast, but you can be single and love it. I absolutely love not...
    LoverofKids LoverofKids 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Sometimes being single sucks. I mean I don't mind being single, but sometimes I wish I had someone by my side!' Just feel like I'm going to stay single forever.....
    Pawes Pawes 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    The daily struggles, financial burdens, trying to maintain my health and overall sanity is starting to get to me. I am a single mom of two. One with special needs and the other an...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Maybe I'm destined to be single. Everything has always seemed to go wrong in my relationships. I'm turning 17 on the 24th. I've been in a total of 5 relationships throughout my...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 7 Responses Jul 18

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    Big props go out to those single mothers out there. They've got to be the father and mother of the family and that has got to be sooo tough. Not only that, but single mothers are...
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M Jul 18

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    I definitely admire single moms. I was a single mom when I was 16 and in high school. I have two pregnant daughters that are soon to be single mothers. I give them all of my...
    bustymomanddaughter bustymomanddaughter 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    What a dumb question. I especially hate it when guys who want to date me ask this. When I was single, it was completely by choice. It was because, although I had guys who liked me...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Loving the wrong person We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us, but if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I don't mind being single, but when your parents are so in love, along with my sister getting married soon. I'm the only single one pretty much in the whole mom side and dad side...
    theshellofthesea theshellofthesea 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Someone told me I wasn't a very loving person the other day. It confused the bees outta me because I've always perceived myself as an incredibly warm, affectionate person. I always...
    schemily03 schemily03 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Even though I love being single,I miss the cuddle of a beautiful,smart,funny,interesting girl. Am picky and I know,but I would never dumb down my standards for the experience. I...
    code254 code254 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Currently single. Me and Alex broke up yesterday. He said that he wasn't ready for an actual relationship. THAT ***** TOOK MY VIRGINITY! (Lol, nice way to tell the world Zoe.) But...
    ZoeAmilia ZoeAmilia 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    I have been single for most of my life. I have had a few... relationships. I prefer being single to being in a fake relationship!
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M Jul 6

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    I've made a lot of great strides this past two to two and a half years or so, but I'm still super single. I still have yet to meet someone that I can talk to and click with and can...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Jul 7

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    I hate being single all of the time. I have been single for the past five years, I thought if I went to college to get a degree it would take my mind off of it but in reality it...
    Allan856 Allan856 31-35, M Jul 7

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    Everyone views being single as such a negative thing. I know im only 16 but honestly im single and irdgaf. You dont need a bf or gf to be happy. I never had a boyfriend and i feel...
    azuhh azuhh 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 7

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