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I Am Single and Loving It

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    Loving It!

    I am single and I love it. I don't, repeat don't, want that to change. No, I do not have an account in an online dating site, I don't do speed dating, and I don't lament my single status. I love it. Every decision I make is by me, for me, and about me. There is NOTHING in my...
    nobodyknowsbutme nobodyknowsbutme 46-50 3 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Thrive On Being Single!

    Some people were probably never suited to be married and it took me three divorces to figure out that I was one of them. I stayed married 9 years the first time, 10 years the second time and 16 years the third time and it was me who got the divorce from each of those marriages...
    onefallingleaf onefallingleaf 46-50 1 Response Nov 17, 2010

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    I Value My Independence

    I've been looking for "love" since I was thirteen years old. I went about it in all the wrong ways. I dated the worst kinds of people, then I dated the right kind. Yet I was never happy in any of these relationships. I tried to be less demanding. I tried to give more of...
    MamaMoopsie MamaMoopsie 22-25, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    Is It So Bad? I Don't Think So! ^___^

    I'm turning 14, and have never had a boyfriend before, but i hear people say: "Oh i had my first boyfriend at 11," or ," Ya I just made out with my boyfriend," and people who say this are my age.. And when people say "You have never had a boyfriend before...
    damnit5838 damnit5838 13-15, F Aug 23, 2009

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    So, I was in a relationship .

    . a bad one.. very bad one! My biggest problems was breaking up!! and living by my own without anyone in my life.. I was experiencing something I'm not used too! It's just weird ... to even walk alone on the street.. I'm not used to be alone! me.. only me! Then I started to...
    A3LD A3LD 22-25, F Jan 30

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    I'm single and not looking

    for a relationship or a f** buddy of anything like that! I'm happy being single and I don't need someone to make me happy! When that special person comes around they can change that. I'm not Desprate Nor do I look for a relationship every where.
    xgabbersx xgabbersx 18-21, F Jan 29

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    I'm Single And Living It!

    Sorry I couldn't think of a better title. I've never had a bf and I'm 23 years old and that's just fine I've been set apart for Gods glory not my own. If you can't understand that oh well that's too bad. My life Is not my own I belong to God. I've been bought with blood :D My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    Me, Myself, and I

    I Love being single!  I love eating what I want when I want.  I loving going to bed when I want and getting up when I want.  I love being surrounded by my stuff, stuff I love that has meaning to me.  I hate to share! I have dated many guys, been engaged...
    swirlingmist swirlingmist 51-55, F 9 Responses May 13, 2009

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    Boyfriend Or Not?

    Do you know that I only ever want a bloke/some male attention when I don’t have any. The minute I have a bloke on the scene or someone who wants to be my boyfriend, I realise that what I was trying to tell people all along is true, I really do not want a boyfriend. Sure...
    Leyla Leyla 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2008

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    Single and loving it?

    Or nah. Or nah seems to describe me better
    SecondStars SecondStars 16-17, F Jun 15

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    Okay. So let us see. For the first time of my 18 years, I am shocked that guys would actually like who I am. Ut started last year, when I was 17 and people started commenting on...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I never imagined I'd be in this situation at my age. I'm 35, almost 9 months pregnant with my first baby. I thought I'd be married, happy and content, not single, lonely and...
    ARealSweetheart79 ARealSweetheart79 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    I am single and happy with that. I don't need a girlfriend to make me happy. But Sometimes, i become sad and lonely, so i need someone to be there for me and guess what? i already...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    and...I'm lovin' it! Sure, I've never been in a relationship, but as a young independent woman I'm lovin' my life and my singleness. Yes, I hope it's not this way forever, but I...
    SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Single now broke up with the ex I didn't feel the distance was working and I just wanted to friends cause it wasn't fair on her I felt . She didn't take it too well
    jakekelly97 jakekelly97 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    I'm happy single..... but ready to mingle..... lol
    hrtbeat hrtbeat 26-30 3 hrs ago

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    Yes, I am single now but, I don't plan to stay that way for long!
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 8 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I don't really find anything wrong with being single, but there are times when I sit and wonder what it would be like to have someone care for you. I'm 19 years old, and the only...
    GloriousGrey GloriousGrey 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I want to be taken by a beautiful girl, preferably by a blonde, so I won't be single anymore.
    AngelOfL1ght AngelOfL1ght 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I just assume that i'm going to be single for the rest of my life, guys suck. :/
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 5 Responses 50 mins ago

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    Single again and ready to mingle! lol, actually no. I am single again and I am trying to find more of myself and loving myself more with the time I am given. It is also njce to...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 29

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    "Why I need to be single" Only now do I realise What a fish I've been, adapting to my surroundings Going with the flow of everything normal and never beyond While there is...
    LilyLua LilyLua 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I know I'm young but I've been in one super serious relationship and he was sweet and he would walk me to my classes and hold hands or put his arm around me and it was cute but I...
    cocopuffff cocopuffff 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    July 10. Ending Relationships. It takes courage and honesty to end a relationship - with friends, loved ones, or a work relationship. Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 10

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    I'm in New York and I'm not looking for the perfect one, I'm looking for the Right :) im a loving guy 19 with blue eyes and long hair :P been single for a while and want to have a...
    TheGamerGuy95 TheGamerGuy95 18-21, T Jun 30

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    I'm really enjoying my own single life!!!! I don't have worry about anybody or "court" to their needs. I can say yes or no, come and go as I please. Don't have to wait on nobody...
    shon1982 shon1982 31-35, M a week ago

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    June 27. Achieving Harmony. When a pianist learns a new piece of music, he or she does not sit down and instantly play it perfectly. A pianist often needs to practice each hand's...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'm 12 and I'm looking for a caring and loving boyfriend xx I recently broke up with my ex and I think its time to move on.
    Simi2128 Simi2128 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    The Elder Brain is looking for a girl, 18 and up, to be with a Caribbean, nerdy, sci fi, science, comic, artist, tribal, cultural anthropology loving, man that is me. I am in NYC...
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    so far, i had not read a single bashful comment or experience people here are all so open-minded and accepting; the best kind there are :) i hope it remains that way
    kathl33n kathl33n 18-21 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My best friend. I loved him, and still do, so much. I literally spend my weekends sitting alone crying wishing I knew why he would cut me out of his life. I called him my Prince, I...
    Mjjim86 Mjjim86 26-30, M Jul 6

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    am looking for mature honest and loving woman
    moris100 moris100 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    Yaaayyy! Free and loving it day-by-day.
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    July 13. God as We Understand God. "God is subtle, but he is not malicious." —Albert Einstein Recovery is an intensely spiritual process that asks us to grow in our...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 13

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    loving every minute of it too... I just wish it was easier to keep the really nice men who chat with me, as friends.. seems when I tell them I am not the kind of gal who will...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    O single Muslim! -By UmmGhareebah O single Muslim! How chaste are you! While others engage in haraam and fulfill their desires, You shun the many calls to sin, For fear of the...
    NoBodyCanHideReality NoBodyCanHideReality 18-21, M 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm single. I've been single for nearly four years now. I had one date with one guy who just didn't find me physically attractive. Hey, everyone has a preference, and his wasn't...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    being a childless single woman is not easy. if people dont assume youre a lesbian they find some other group to stick you in. why do men and women of the strait world think they...
    luckylassie luckylassie 51-55, F 8 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm 19 and have been single for quite some time now.... Although I never really believed I ever had any boyfriends before.. If anything I did have a make out buddy, a moocher, and...
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    If you are single you are not a single person saying im looking for my other half. when people say they are looking for their other half?.. who wants to marry a half of a man or...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Single. I'm different than single. I'm married to my business, I'm never alone since my children are almost always around me, I get to cuddle almost any time I want and sometimes...
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I've never been in a relationship before. I've been in love twice, but they never really worked out. I guess I am young and a lot of people are single. This shouldn't impact me as...
    QuadrupleM QuadrupleM 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I think I love my partner still,but I am considering leaving him. It is difficult because there is good between him and I, but we either need to see someone and he needs help or we...
    TheWicked TheWicked 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I don't understand why there are so many people on here that complain they are lonely and depressed because they are single. Being single isn't bad and you're not single simply...
    Bec333 Bec333 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Single huh... Some say "It's awesome being single" others "I hate being single". I'm that kind of guy that's alright with both. Yet, when you meet that person... Your mind just...
    Roy186 Roy186 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I love being single. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy and enjoy life. You can have guy friends and have a blast, but you can be single and love it. I absolutely love not...
    LoverofKids LoverofKids 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Sometimes being single sucks. I mean I don't mind being single, but sometimes I wish I had someone by my side!' Just feel like I'm going to stay single forever.....
    Pawes Pawes 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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