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I Am Single and Not Sure How I Feel About It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 136 People

    A Startling Contrast

    I  am single but have a special someone in mind, I have found an annoying contrast though. When I am just a rogue flirt, I am rarely taken seriously and people consider me like leftovers - something to be sampled at a later date. Suddenly when I voice that I have a special...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 13, 2010

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    Is There Any Hope???

    I have become numb from my past relationship....
    multimia multimia 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2008

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    Screw Dating

    What happened to the days I was single and could care less? What happened to the days when I was single, didn't care, and men flocked to me ANYWAY?! I don't know. All I know now is that now that I'm single, I feel only half as good without a boyfriend. Since my break up, which...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    Still Standing

    When we broke up, I was getting out of the car. We had just shared a small dinner date of silence and lobster, and I expected to hear the usual "I love you," and a goodnight kiss. This time, I got the kiss. Then, I got the, "I'm leaving you for your stepsister." And then he was...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F Mar 23, 2013

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    The Jury Is Deadlocked On This One ...

    Being 36 and single - this is a STRANGE place to be! My entire life, all the women in my family graduated, found a man, got married, had kids, etc. Everyone is still married - and here I am - divorced. It's a good thing - but after devoting your life to a husband...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    Sometimes I want a relationship

    but then I talk to people and I am like hmmm how about no.
    VivianeDarkbloom VivianeDarkbloom 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2014

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    Still Conflicted

    So I am 29 years old and have always been conflicted about being single. I have been single all my life, there have been times that I wanted to be single and wasn't interested at all in dating, there have been times I was literally desperately trying to find a girlfriend. I'm an...
    Austin83 Austin83 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I kinda like being single.

    But when I see all these couples I'm kinda like, dang I want that! But then I think if my past relationships and I'm happy I'm single.
    shaebears shaebears 18-21, F Jan 29, 2014

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've been single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    I Have Responsibilities

    i have my job my daughter to support so its not really time to think about gabby but sometimes it gets lonley being without someone but i do feel proud that i put my child first
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 2, 2012

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    I Used To Hate It

    I used to hate it and then I realized when I was in Florida I was FAKING it to fit in. I mean everywhere, left and right, more hardcore music, I always had to have the "Baddest *** this" "Baddest assed that" when I moved to NC and got dragged off on my own I started to go...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    I Just Don't Know...

    I was completely unprepared to be single again. I was with the girl I really expected to spend the rest of my life with. So yeah it killed me when it ended out of the blue. However, it has been more fun than I've had in years to see all my friends that I never saw and doing...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M May 8, 2009

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    I love the single life

    but then again I want someone to be there for me, to cuddle me when I'm down so yeah don't really know...
    lucymate lucymate 16-17, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Conflicted

    I feel like my last relationship messed me up emotionally for a while. On one hand, I am wary of losing control of my emotions again. Then again, I really would like to experience a committed long-term relationship. Maybe it is possible to be with someone and not break up?
    DayDreamingInTheSun DayDreamingInTheSun 22-25 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Wow, That Hurt a Bit... But...

    Joining this group stung like ripping a plaster from a wound but it's true. I'm not sure yet, I just need to wake myself up. No regrets.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 16 Responses May 7, 2009

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 7, 2011

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    My Story

    ì am also single as well  like you all right now and i dont know how  i feel about it because i have been there and i did that all over and over again feel free to tell me any thing about  being single i have  been loved before it hurts so bad dont let anyone tell you...
    keme keme 26-30, F Feb 6, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm single. although I'm not the best looking guy out there. my personality makes up for it. I'm caring loyal and funny and I know that I would make a good boyfriend to someone...
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 59 mins ago

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    I dont feel like i belong in the world. The universe has for me always been fascinating. I always look up at the stars in the help for guidance and understanding. I always feel at...
    Funrabbits Funrabbits 22-25 4 hrs ago

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    I love my family. I love Soccer I believe in Holy Trinity I like classical music and Beethoven I am laconic I am introvert I am romantic I like Maths and science I love countryside...
    IndieTechGuy IndieTechGuy 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    What a great “weigh” to start a Wednesday! My morning weigh-in was 201 lbs., so not only did I meet my 200 lb. goal, but also gained a bonus pound! Must have been...
    New2fat71 New2fat71 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have had a roommate for the past 6 months... I took him in because he needed a spot, and also because I knew his mom paid the bills. I assumed this meant that he'd be a great...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    this jealousy of mine is just too much for me. idk why I do it to myself or why I just can't stop thinking. every time I see someone with more than me, had a job, has money, has...
    xdizzybutterflyx xdizzybutterflyx 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    People always ask me why I'm single? I really don't have answer to them. Even after getting 4-5 proposal from girls I didn't accept them just because I was not sure, I could manage...
    sreyance24 sreyance24 16-17, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I saw you today My heartache from 12yrs ago I waited for those feelings to resurface and they haven't. I should be glad but I'm not anything. I havent thought about you in years...
    Guilty1982 Guilty1982 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    1. I'm Bi. and I'm proud of it. 2. I am studying something I'm not very sure I want to do when I grow up. 3. I consider myself pretty weird. 4. Being alone is better than being...
    coldplay26 coldplay26 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    Today is so bad, I just want to wake up and not think about suicide or death, but I just don't want to do this anymore, any of it. I keep waiting for my hormones to get regulated...
    mljenkins mljenkins 41-45, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Hello! Is it possible to get ex back? I was sure that recovering my relationship and increasing chances of getting back with my ex boyfriend is possible. I search whole web and I...
    Keisha011 Keisha011 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Miss..Some one being playful,affectionate,passionate and caring.Some one to count on reliable,that makes me feel safe and protected.Someone loyal and trustworthy.Some one i felt...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I don't know who I am. My ten year relationship just ended. My partner woke up one day 6 months ago and told me she wanted to leave. I was in shock, our families were taken by...
    malaiseguy malaiseguy 31-35, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    A)slow thinker(=not big texter) B)Art is my world. C)MSP.New Order,The Libertines,Nineties&Eighties brit rock and french rap,pop,Swedish rock D)I'm into salty or sour foods.not...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    So I met this girl back when and i fell in love with her and she fell in love with me very deeply. she was there for me when i was feeling down, day and night she would stay up...
    bliss1197 bliss1197 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I think it is important to most people to feel desired. Atleast for me I know that to be a fact. Sometimes I need the validation of others to feel good about myself. Why do we have...
    lostinbeauty lostinbeauty 31-35, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Everytime I see you smile Is like the stars are shining bright You talk to me with that style Saying you love me every night. You are mine, and only mine Until death comes far so...
    myra17 myra17 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    You would think that a person with such a large nuclear family could not possibly feel alone and disconnected. Add to that mother, sister, brothers and a few friends it's ludicrous...
    colorbuff colorbuff 51-55, F 2 days ago

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    any single females that feel alone and want to chat and possibly meet. feel free to add me and well chat. im located in lower michigan and single and lonley.
    spankyouhard9 spankyouhard9 56-60, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have no hate for single women who are not looking for a job while they're pregnant. There is a difference between still working while pregnant and looking for a job while...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm 35 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years doesn't spend time with me. We live together but he works a lot (he owns his own business) and then hangs out with his friends and...
    Shel122193 Shel122193 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I dunno where to begin yet i just wanted to say something about being single. I believe being single isn't good for everyone. Lets face it! In the world of being single. It make us...
    rheasnool rheasnool 26-30 3 days ago

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    I like to sing and write songs. I think I'm really good at it. I've been through a lot of trauma and it's my way to cope. It's the only way I can ever make sense out of anything I...
    Lyric8 Lyric8 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So the other day I was running through the woods with a friend of mine and he said I run much faster in the woods than anywhere else. He then said he thought he saw an outline of a...
    AngelOfDeath92 AngelOfDeath92 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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