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I Am Single and Not Sure How I Feel About It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 139 People

    I Have Responsibilities

    i have my job my daughter to support so its not really time to think about gabby but sometimes it gets lonley being without someone but i do feel proud that i put my child first
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    My Story

    ì am also single as well  like you all right now and i dont know how  i feel about it because i have been there and i did that all over and over again feel free to tell me any thing about  being single i have  been loved before it hurts so bad dont let anyone tell you...
    keme keme 26-30, F Feb 6, 2011

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    Sometimes I want a relationship

    but then I talk to people and I am like hmmm how about no.
    VivianeDarkbloom VivianeDarkbloom 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Conflicted

    I feel like my last relationship messed me up emotionally for a while. On one hand, I am wary of losing control of my emotions again. Then again, I really would like to experience a committed long-term relationship. Maybe it is possible to be with someone and not break up?
    DayDreamingInTheSun DayDreamingInTheSun 22-25 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Still Conflicted

    So I am 29 years old and have always been conflicted about being single. I have been single all my life, there have been times that I wanted to be single and wasn't interested at all in dating, there have been times I was literally desperately trying to find a girlfriend. I'm an...
    Austin83 Austin83 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Is There Any Hope???

    I have become numb from my past relationship....
    multimia multimia 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2008

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    I kinda like being single.

    But when I see all these couples I'm kinda like, dang I want that! But then I think if my past relationships and I'm happy I'm single.
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F Jan 29

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    Wow, That Hurt a Bit... But...

    Joining this group stung like ripping a plaster from a wound but it's true. I'm not sure yet, I just need to wake myself up. No regrets.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 18 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Still Standing

    When we broke up, I was getting out of the car. We had just shared a small dinner date of silence and lobster, and I expected to hear the usual "I love you," and a goodnight kiss. This time, I got the kiss. Then, I got the, "I'm leaving you for your stepsister." And then he was...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F Mar 23, 2013

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    I Just Don't Know...

    I was completely unprepared to be single again. I was with the girl I really expected to spend the rest of my life with. So yeah it killed me when it ended out of the blue. However, it has been more fun than I've had in years to see all my friends that I never saw and doing...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M May 8, 2009

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    Screw Dating

    What happened to the days I was single and could care less? What happened to the days when I was single, didn't care, and men flocked to me ANYWAY?! I don't know. All I know now is that now that I'm single, I feel only half as good without a boyfriend. Since my break up, which...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    I Used To Hate It

    I used to hate it and then I realized when I was in Florida I was FAKING it to fit in. I mean everywhere, left and right, more hardcore music, I always had to have the "Baddest *** this" "Baddest assed that" when I moved to NC and got dragged off on my own I started to go...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've been single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 7, 2011

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    I love the single life

    but then again I want someone to be there for me, to cuddle me when I'm down so yeah don't really know...
    lucymate lucymate 13-15, F Dec 27, 2013

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    The Jury Is Deadlocked On This One ...

    Being 36 and single - this is a STRANGE place to be! My entire life, all the women in my family graduated, found a man, got married, had kids, etc. Everyone is still married - and here I am - divorced. It's a good thing - but after devoting your life to a husband...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    A Startling Contrast

    I  am single but have a special someone in mind, I have found an annoying contrast though. When I am just a rogue flirt, I am rarely taken seriously and people consider me like leftovers - something to be sampled at a later date. Suddenly when I voice that I have a special...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 13, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I'm in live with the idea if it, but I'm not sure if I've actually experience real love. :(
    wallflower01 wallflower01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    If the saying, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, is true, then loving someone will surely make you strong.
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    This is gonna be a really long "thought" of mine. I had my first boyfriend at senior year in high school. I came from a quiet school and this guy moved in from a different school...
    ANNunknowngirl ANNunknowngirl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    Love is that moment when, no matter what struggle you go through, the moment you think about the one you love, you feel like you rule the world.
    Merrcury Merrcury 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    When you feel true love you finally feel truely unselfish.
    louisthe17th louisthe17th 46-50, M Sep 22

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    I can't say they're murderous feelings but..... Oh look at all the hairs go on end on your neck! You're wondering where I'm going with this.... ...some guys just won't accept no...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Love is the best feeling in the world....till it's lost
    kb1226 kb1226 46-50, M Sep 22

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    I'm in love again with my man and I feel so happy❤️
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Sep 22

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    You can't put love into one sentence in my opinion. It's terrifying, dangerous, nerve racking and makes your heart stop at the slightest thing... BUT it's also the most exciting...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26 18-21, F Sep 22

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    I just went through my first breakup and honestly I don't know how anyone could go through it all again if they knew what you're left with when it's over.
    PoppyHayes PoppyHayes 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I feel grateful. So grateful.
    FinlayBrowne FinlayBrowne 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    To love is to suffer;and many run from suffering, few know how to love!
    duduroes duduroes 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    Very few people know how to actually love someone nowadays.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Sep 22

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    It's a mental choice before giving any feelings
    Hozifa Hozifa 22-25, M Sep 22

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    Love is a feeling I don't want anymore.
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F Sep 22

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    Love is what I feel when me and another girl are bound to each other with loyalyy, respect, and a crazy desire to be with each other.
    Anonimus2 Anonimus2 18-21, F Oct 11

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    It's a wonderful and a beautiful feeling.
    lori18 lori18 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    To me it just exists as a chemical reaction not a feeling you get with only a specific person, the whole concept of it seems too fairy tail-y....
    MissGorgeous MissGorgeous 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Love is just a temporary fake feeling which comes when someone talks sweetly to you and after 5 minutes, it disappears when they show their real rude self!
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    An emotion that I am currently too immature to comprehend, much less feel.
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I feel it's something that is as dangerous as a cobra but as fragile as glass and it's not something to at around with. It's shorter terms- this stuff is some serious sh!t(:
    dambookworm17 dambookworm17 13-15, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Love never fails. - Corinthians 13:4
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23 18-21, F Sep 22

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    Heaven and hell...................(more than 25 characters!)
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M Sep 22

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    I believe in love at first sight and it's name is French Toast.
    guideme2truth guideme2truth 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    You need to keep up with it. It's a never ending process. You already have it in you and you need to awaken it.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    Love is like handing another person a knife trusting them not to stab you
    99Problems99 99Problems99 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    Can u love somebody u did not seen,just talk by phone and messages?
    duduroes duduroes 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 22

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    When you can't live without someone when ever they look at you , touch you , speak to you , your whole world stops .
    Shaileyrae Shaileyrae 13-15, F Sep 22

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    I believe when someone find a true love, a person truly suitable for him/her , it s gonna be the best thing on their life.
    Saradomin Saradomin 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    I dont think ive experienced true love in a relationship, i just thought thats what it was at the time.
    Dotty73 Dotty73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 22

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    It would be a nice idea!.............
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 22

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