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I Am Single and Not Sure How I Feel About It

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    Is There Any Hope???

    I have become numb from my past relationship....
    multimia multimia 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know...

    I was completely unprepared to be single again. I was with the girl I really expected to spend the rest of my life with. So yeah it killed me when it ended out of the blue. However, it has been more fun than I've had in years to see all my friends that I never saw and doing...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M May 8, 2009

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    The Jury Is Deadlocked On This One ...

    Being 36 and single - this is a STRANGE place to be! My entire life, all the women in my family graduated, found a man, got married, had kids, etc. Everyone is still married - and here I am - divorced. It's a good thing - but after devoting your life to a husband...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    Sometimes I want a relationship

    but then I talk to people and I am like hmmm how about no.
    VivianeDarkbloom VivianeDarkbloom 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Still Standing

    When we broke up, I was getting out of the car. We had just shared a small dinner date of silence and lobster, and I expected to hear the usual "I love you," and a goodnight kiss. This time, I got the kiss. Then, I got the, "I'm leaving you for your stepsister." And then he was...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F Mar 23, 2013

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    Screw Dating

    What happened to the days I was single and could care less? What happened to the days when I was single, didn't care, and men flocked to me ANYWAY?! I don't know. All I know now is that now that I'm single, I feel only half as good without a boyfriend. Since my break up, which...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    A Startling Contrast

    I  am single but have a special someone in mind, I have found an annoying contrast though. When I am just a rogue flirt, I am rarely taken seriously and people consider me like leftovers - something to be sampled at a later date. Suddenly when I voice that I have a special...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 13, 2010

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    Wow, That Hurt a Bit... But...

    Joining this group stung like ripping a plaster from a wound but it's true. I'm not sure yet, I just need to wake myself up. No regrets.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 18 Responses May 7, 2009

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    I Used To Hate It

    I used to hate it and then I realized when I was in Florida I was FAKING it to fit in. I mean everywhere, left and right, more hardcore music, I always had to have the "Baddest *** this" "Baddest assed that" when I moved to NC and got dragged off on my own I started to go...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    I kinda like being single.

    But when I see all these couples I'm kinda like, dang I want that! But then I think if my past relationships and I'm happy I'm single.
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F Jan 29

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    My Story

    ì am also single as well  like you all right now and i dont know how  i feel about it because i have been there and i did that all over and over again feel free to tell me any thing about  being single i have  been loved before it hurts so bad dont let anyone tell you...
    keme keme 26-30, F Feb 6, 2011

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    Still Conflicted

    So I am 29 years old and have always been conflicted about being single. I have been single all my life, there have been times that I wanted to be single and wasn't interested at all in dating, there have been times I was literally desperately trying to find a girlfriend. I'm an...
    Austin83 Austin83 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've been single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 7, 2011

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    Conflicted

    I feel like my last relationship messed me up emotionally for a while. On one hand, I am wary of losing control of my emotions again. Then again, I really would like to experience a committed long-term relationship. Maybe it is possible to be with someone and not break up?
    DayDreamingInTheSun DayDreamingInTheSun 22-25 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    I love the single life

    but then again I want someone to be there for me, to cuddle me when I'm down so yeah don't really know...
    lucymate lucymate 13-15, F Dec 27, 2013

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    I Have Responsibilities

    i have my job my daughter to support so its not really time to think about gabby but sometimes it gets lonley being without someone but i do feel proud that i put my child first
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It seems like no matter how hard i try i cant find happiness in anything anymore. Believe me ive tried but im only happy while im doing whatever activity i tried then im right back...
    Tater13 Tater13 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Hi really like this guy and I know he likes me but I don't know how to tell him! We have been friends for awhile but I'm scared things will get complicated as soon as we get into...
    SplashCrystal17 SplashCrystal17 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I would still love and be with someone irregardless if they were in an accident, sick or burned in a fire. I feel this video actually explains my true or innermost feelings...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F Aug 22

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    My ex makes me so mad sometimes... Miss him, but I don't. Married 24 years, together for 28. I'm 43 now. I have to stop reading the text messages he sends me. 💔
    silnomorerodarte silnomorerodarte 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Check back when that trend returns. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    You know the mood ring changed by the temperature right?
    MisterHerbert MisterHerbert 70+, M 5 days ago

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    Just looking for friends to share with. I am fun but serious too.
    jomarch69 jomarch69 56-60, F Aug 18

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    True story. Anyone else thinks this site is.... Eye opening. Is that PC? I honestly had no idea some people think they are vampires and others wear diapers. Hey, not judging, just...
    Keekeem Keekeem 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I believe there are infinite kinds of love.
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F Aug 29

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    ******* ruins your life......
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F Aug 29

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    Love can be so strong that it can last for eternity.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    A beautiful thing can easily be turned into something ugly.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Do you know what comes before love... Boliving
    whome67 whome67 18-21, M Aug 29

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    essential!! <3 it's a way of life I live by these three words "love, peace AND acceptance"
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Aug 29

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    Love is when you look at the person in front of you and you realized you are not just willing to be with this person but you are willing to suffer for them.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Aug 29

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    Love is fleeting... Intense love is intoxicating
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, but trusting them not to
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Aug 30

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    You must tread carefully .
    CJCA CJCA 18-21, M Aug 30

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    Joyful admiration filling souls like a balloon of light and willing to sacrifice everything to promote itself is love.
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme 46-50, F Aug 30

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    Love is an open door!!!!!!!!!!
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Love is a waste of time. .
    nigelthekoala nigelthekoala 16-17, M Sep 6

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    It's challenging, thanks to the unique needs and past experiences of each participant.
    ceirdyrael ceirdyrael 46-50, M Sep 6

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    A weakness, If you love no one then no one you love can be used against you, but sometimes, loving the right person, is worth it
    diegosauns diegosauns 16-17, M Sep 6

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    It's like doing a jigsaw puzzle but fruitlessly searching for a missing piece.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    It keeps you up at night, it stops you eating, it makes you a different person and can change your life; that's the fun of love.
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I should have guessed that you would be the one with the most elaborate car in the entire parking lot. Only you would drive a car in that color red. It makes a whole lot of sense...
    Romantical Romantical 22-25 Aug 29

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    Jonah7 Jonah7 31-35, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Ryan1208kzi1 Ryan1208kzi1 31-35, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
    pa901104 pa901104 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Oops! I did it again! That seems to be the running thought in my head currently. To give a little background here is my story. I became pregnant with my first at 17, but even...
    baby4ontheway baby4ontheway 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Doctors have always told me I had slim to no chance of ever getting pregnant, but as I have recently realized doctors are not always right. In April-May of 2013 I had an extreme...
    hhgarfeildd hhgarfeildd 22-25, F 22 hrs ago

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