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I Am Single and Not Sure How I Feel About It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 141 People

    No Definite Answer...

    I've been single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    My Story

    ì am also single as well  like you all right now and i dont know how  i feel about it because i have been there and i did that all over and over again feel free to tell me any thing about  being single i have  been loved before it hurts so bad dont let anyone tell you...
    keme keme 26-30, F Feb 6, 2011

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    I Used To Hate It

    I used to hate it and then I realized when I was in Florida I was FAKING it to fit in. I mean everywhere, left and right, more hardcore music, I always had to have the "Baddest *** this" "Baddest assed that" when I moved to NC and got dragged off on my own I started to go...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    Still Standing

    When we broke up, I was getting out of the car. We had just shared a small dinner date of silence and lobster, and I expected to hear the usual "I love you," and a goodnight kiss. This time, I got the kiss. Then, I got the, "I'm leaving you for your stepsister." And then he was...
    TheBareFootedTruth TheBareFootedTruth 18-21, F Mar 23, 2013

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    The Jury Is Deadlocked On This One ...

    Being 36 and single - this is a STRANGE place to be! My entire life, all the women in my family graduated, found a man, got married, had kids, etc. Everyone is still married - and here I am - divorced. It's a good thing - but after devoting your life to a husband...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    No Definite Answer...

    I've single all of my life. Sometimes I don't like it, sometimes I do. The good thing is, I don't get jealous when I see couples anymore. Maybe I know too much about human nature to care. Hmm...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 7, 2011

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    I Have Responsibilities

    i have my job my daughter to support so its not really time to think about gabby but sometimes it gets lonley being without someone but i do feel proud that i put my child first
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Conflicted

    I feel like my last relationship messed me up emotionally for a while. On one hand, I am wary of losing control of my emotions again. Then again, I really would like to experience a committed long-term relationship. Maybe it is possible to be with someone and not break up?
    DayDreamingInTheSun DayDreamingInTheSun 22-25 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Still Conflicted

    So I am 29 years old and have always been conflicted about being single. I have been single all my life, there have been times that I wanted to be single and wasn't interested at all in dating, there have been times I was literally desperately trying to find a girlfriend. I'm an...
    Austin83 Austin83 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    A Startling Contrast

    I  am single but have a special someone in mind, I have found an annoying contrast though. When I am just a rogue flirt, I am rarely taken seriously and people consider me like leftovers - something to be sampled at a later date. Suddenly when I voice that I have a special...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 13, 2010

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    Wow, That Hurt a Bit... But...

    Joining this group stung like ripping a plaster from a wound but it's true. I'm not sure yet, I just need to wake myself up. No regrets.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 18 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Sometimes I want a relationship

    but then I talk to people and I am like hmmm how about no.
    VivianeDarkbloom VivianeDarkbloom 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Is There Any Hope???

    I have become numb from my past relationship....
    multimia multimia 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2008

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    I kinda like being single.

    But when I see all these couples I'm kinda like, dang I want that! But then I think if my past relationships and I'm happy I'm single.
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F Jan 29

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    I Just Don't Know...

    I was completely unprepared to be single again. I was with the girl I really expected to spend the rest of my life with. So yeah it killed me when it ended out of the blue. However, it has been more fun than I've had in years to see all my friends that I never saw and doing...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M May 8, 2009

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    I love the single life

    but then again I want someone to be there for me, to cuddle me when I'm down so yeah don't really know...
    lucymate lucymate 13-15, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Screw Dating

    What happened to the days I was single and could care less? What happened to the days when I was single, didn't care, and men flocked to me ANYWAY?! I don't know. All I know now is that now that I'm single, I feel only half as good without a boyfriend. Since my break up, which...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    it just seems like i cant figure out what to do with myself. i have 2 years of college a steady well paying job yet i still live at home i dont know why i just dont leave. people...
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    Love is a feeling that is craved by every human, whether or not they admit it, and it opens the soul up to a wide range of emotions from complete insecurity to unimaginable...
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    Love is a made up word that doesn't exist. Humans think they feel what we call love but as humans are programmed to find a mate, reproduce and move on to the next mate. the human...
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    It's not for everyone, some people like me just can't feel it or believe in it.
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    So I just feel amazing right now, kind of inspired I guess. It just came out of no where, while I was contemplating the future. Goals, ideas, etc. etc.. But at the same time i'm...
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    Love doesn't exist everyone chat.
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    Love doesn't Exist everyone cheat. I don't care what you have to say. Everyone cheat. They figure my wife or girlfriend not here "what she doesn't know Won't hurt her"
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Love doesn't exist. People figure if their partner doesn't know it won't hurt them. I don't care what you have to say. Everyone cheat. I cheated, he cheated, you cheated, your...
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    Love is hard work, dedication and faith.
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    Love is not promising to be together forever but promising to respect each other even when things don't work out.
    J20LOST J20LOST 18-21, F Nov 9

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    Love is something that can only truly exists between a parent and child; all other love withers and dies.
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    Like a movie, seems like nothing goes wrong but when it does it's all part of the film.
    Jaysee90 Jaysee90 22-25, M Nov 9

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    Love is good, but so much more is needed to make a marriage work.
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    The truest of love is between God and his children.
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Nov 9

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    ...............................Love is GOD.
    dashuria dashuria 13-15, F Nov 9

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    Love is blind...............................
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    Love is pretty chill when it works out.
    decorus decorus 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    Love is extremely overrated.
    SerineTheSquirrel SerineTheSquirrel 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    Love can make you do crazy things & it makes you act stupid. ❤️
    akatherine17 akatherine17 13-15, F Nov 10

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    Love, the essence of life and the detriment of mind, carried on wings of betrayal or embodiment of hope.
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    Love is wonderful as a concept, and indescribably magnificent when fully experienced.
    Writerguyep Writerguyep 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    As Bertrand Russell so eloquently said; "To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead."
    KCN33 KCN33 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 10

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    Love is for those who are foolish enough to believe they need it.
    StraightTruth StraightTruth 18-21, M Nov 10

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