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I Am Single But Not Looking For Love

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    I prefer staying single,

    saves me from getting another heartbreak. I rather just work on myself first.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Honestly, I've always been scared of being too

    dependent on someone so when i start having feelings i normally turn it into an easy to get out of 'one night' thing.
    kas4 kas4 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Single and Happy

    "Love thyself, know thyself, be thyself..."  ...before trying to love someone else.* *I'm working on it and until I get there, this shop is closed.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Waiting

     I don't think I should be looking for love, I am too young. I'll let love find me :)
    HandsAllOver HandsAllOver 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2010

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    Jenner43 Jenner43 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    having a girlfriend sucks to be honest.

    you cant like act like an a$s with your friends. and you are tied down to one person. plus i hate romance. literally everytime im forced into a slowdance i am so bored i hardly look at the person and just look around. and it annoys me so much when people without dated make a...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Love Is Not My Thing... Yet

    I'm 28 and I've never been on a date or in a relationship... people around me are anxious as to when I will get married, personally, I'm not bothered at all but the pressure from my relatives and parents is killing me. I can't say that no one courted me but I get really bored...
    MegumiTakani13 MegumiTakani13 26-30 Oct 16, 2012

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    I'm just done. I'm tired of people saying they

    love me, then telling me I'm more important than anything to them, then the break up with me saying that their school life is more important.
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Never Find Love

    never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever find love or a girlfriend ill be alone forever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever.i might as well marry death because i will never touch another human being i show kindness to those who show it...
    hossboss123 hossboss123 18-21 Feb 6, 2013

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    I more need friends than love.

    my last romantic relationship convinced me that I am not ready. Me time.
    kfg4279 kfg4279 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Why Look For It...??

    It will come when it has to. Till then it simply means- it's your time so chill out and have fun!!!!!!!!
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    How Things Are

    A little bit of history first. I am 44, married at 21, divorced at 39. For the last 5 years I have had a couple of serious relationships, by which I mean a year long, and involving sleeping together, and a few short-term romances. I did get close to one woman, but we both had...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2007

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    My Happy Valentine'S Day

    I sometimes read stories about people who do not have a signifcant other to spend Valentine's Day with.And it just disturbs me to hear these people saying they are incomplete.I have been a single person for just about all of my 47 years.And instead of pining for a signifcant...
    ultrasensitive ultrasensitive 46-50, M Apr 9, 2013

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    I wish people would quit insisting on what's

    best for me, as in I shouldn't stop looking for love. Maybe that's the problem, because I spent literally half of my life looking for a guy and now I'm sitting around with zero accomplishments. Everyone I've chased has moved on to jobs, marriage and even children. They have...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    jackcrand jackcrand 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I've been around the block. I've married the guy who really wanted to marry me, and the guy who I really wanted to want to marry. I've been used, abused, cheated on, courted, and...
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    I'm hopping to find a women that wants to be loved Delicately and treated like a lady, open doors pull out the chair without making you fall, and putting you as more important then...
    doug2018 doug2018 41-45, M Jan 7

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    Where are all the cuties who just wanna chat?(:
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    i am 44 single dad looking for a babygirl. she should love kids as i have 4 and would love more. if you have kids im fine with that. i can be strict and believe in creative...
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    A commercial comes on for Match, a dating website. Somewhere in the commercial the male recruiter says "what if I told you there was a place between friends and desperate for...
    singlemom1254 singlemom1254 36-40 Dec 29, 2014

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    Been single for 3 years now and believe me I've been looking for someone but no one shows the slightest bit of interest in me ( due to my looks) it's so frustrating and in my line...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I am a British asian 26 year old guy looking for a single lesbian for MOC i am very friendly happy go lucky individual and would enjoy becoming very good friends with my partner to...
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    I am looking for a man who is older than me, intelligent, good looking, not a liar.He may be married, but eager to divorce his wife and be with me.
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    StarrRavena StarrRavena 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    im looking for a bf here ... message me if your single
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    I'm 22, looking for some good friends. please add me if u want to chat with someone. ima good listener
    Monisher Monisher 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Hi. I am 27 , well-settled and well traveled Indian living in PUNJAB. My family is living in abroad. I am Self Employed. I am looking for a DECENT , good-looking, closet girl...
    decentlife decentlife 26-30, M Jan 15

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking gay guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the conventional methods...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 Jan 18

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking gay guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the conventional methods...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 Jan 18

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    Hey there whoever is reading this:) I'm looking because I have never been in a relationship before...I'm looking for a guy who loves drawing and food as much as I do:) whenever I'm...
    wolflover514 wolflover514 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just wanna find what I'm looking for, a girl to love .... I'm tired of looking , I just wanna long relationship
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    I am 26 year old muslim feminine lesbian. I’m looking for a MOC due to family pressure and also because I want to have children!! I come from a respectful family background, I...
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