I Am Single But Not Looking For Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 140 People

    Jenner43 Jenner43
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    I don't know why people think they can change

    that. It's like they see a challenge. I'm happy with how my life is for the most part. I only know one guy that can change that. And I'd still have my doubts about him. I mean I love making new friends but hate how guys think they are gonna weasel their way in.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    I more need friends than love.

    my last romantic relationship convinced me that I am not ready. Me time.
    kfg4279 kfg4279
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2014

    How Things Are

    A little bit of history first. I am 44, married at 21, divorced at 39. For the last 5 years I have had a couple of serious relationships, by which I mean a year long, and involving sleeping together, and a few short-term romances. I did get close to one woman, but we both had...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2007

    I wish people would quit insisting on what's

    best for me, as in I shouldn't stop looking for love. Maybe that's the problem, because I spent literally half of my life looking for a guy and now I'm sitting around with zero accomplishments. Everyone I've chased has moved on to jobs, marriage and even children. They have...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    Single and Happy

    "Love thyself, know thyself, be thyself..."  ...before trying to love someone else.* *I'm working on it and until I get there, this shop is closed.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 25, 2010


     I don't think I should be looking for love, I am too young. I'll let love find me :)
    HandsAllOver HandsAllOver
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2010

    Honestly, I've always been scared of being too

    dependent on someone so when i start having feelings i normally turn it into an easy to get out of 'one night' thing.
    kas4 kas4
    18-21, F
    Dec 29, 2014

    Why Look For It...??

    It will come when it has to. Till then it simply means- it's your time so chill out and have fun!!!!!!!!
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    Love Is Not My Thing... Yet

    I'm 28 and I've never been on a date or in a relationship... people around me are anxious as to when I will get married, personally, I'm not bothered at all but the pressure from my relatives and parents is killing me. I can't say that no one courted me but I get really bored...
    MegumiTakani13 MegumiTakani13
    Oct 16, 2012

    My Happy Valentine'S Day

    I sometimes read stories about people who do not have a signifcant other to spend Valentine's Day with.And it just disturbs me to hear these people saying they are incomplete.I have been a single person for just about all of my 47 years.And instead of pining for a signifcant...
    ultrasensitive ultrasensitive
    51-55, M
    Apr 9, 2013

    I find women generally hard to handle difficult

    to understand or maybe it's just me i mean i am socially awkward and every thing i say/do women don't like it. well after several disappointments i decided to take a break for a loooooong while, i don't maybe i'll try searching again after 4-5 years maybe i'll just sit and wait...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy
    18-21, M
    May 28, 2015

    Never Find Love

    never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever find love or a girlfriend ill be alone forever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever.i might as well marry death because i will never touch another human being i show kindness to those who show it...
    hossboss123 hossboss123
    Feb 6, 2013

    I'm just done. I'm tired of people saying they

    love me, then telling me I'm more important than anything to them, then the break up with me saying that their school life is more important.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2014
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