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I Am Single But Not Looking For Love

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    Waiting

     I don't think I should be looking for love, I am too young. I'll let love find me :)
    HandsAllOver HandsAllOver 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2010

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    having a girlfriend sucks to be honest.

    you cant like act like an a$s with your friends. and you are tied down to one person. plus i hate romance. literally everytime im forced into a slowdance i am so bored i hardly look at the person and just look around. and it annoys me so much when people without dated make a...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Jenner43 Jenner43 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Honestly, I've always been scared of being too

    dependent on someone so when i start having feelings i normally turn it into an easy to get out of 'one night' thing.
    kas4 kas4 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I more need friends than love.

    my last romantic relationship convinced me that I am not ready. Me time.
    kfg4279 kfg4279 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Never Find Love

    never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever find love or a girlfriend ill be alone forever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever.i might as well marry death because i will never touch another human being i show kindness to those who show it...
    hossboss123 hossboss123 18-21 Feb 6, 2013

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    Single and Happy

    "Love thyself, know thyself, be thyself..."  ...before trying to love someone else.* *I'm working on it and until I get there, this shop is closed.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    I wish people would quit insisting on what's

    best for me, as in I shouldn't stop looking for love. Maybe that's the problem, because I spent literally half of my life looking for a guy and now I'm sitting around with zero accomplishments. Everyone I've chased has moved on to jobs, marriage and even children. They have...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    My Happy Valentine'S Day

    I sometimes read stories about people who do not have a signifcant other to spend Valentine's Day with.And it just disturbs me to hear these people saying they are incomplete.I have been a single person for just about all of my 47 years.And instead of pining for a signifcant...
    ultrasensitive ultrasensitive 46-50, M Apr 9, 2013

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    I'm just done. I'm tired of people saying they

    love me, then telling me I'm more important than anything to them, then the break up with me saying that their school life is more important.
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I don't know why people think they can change

    that. It's like they see a challenge. I'm happy with how my life is for the most part. I only know one guy that can change that. And I'd still have my doubts about him. I mean I love making new friends but hate how guys think they are gonna weasel their way in.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Mar 31

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    Love Is Not My Thing... Yet

    I'm 28 and I've never been on a date or in a relationship... people around me are anxious as to when I will get married, personally, I'm not bothered at all but the pressure from my relatives and parents is killing me. I can't say that no one courted me but I get really bored...
    MegumiTakani13 MegumiTakani13 26-30 Oct 16, 2012

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    How Things Are

    A little bit of history first. I am 44, married at 21, divorced at 39. For the last 5 years I have had a couple of serious relationships, by which I mean a year long, and involving sleeping together, and a few short-term romances. I did get close to one woman, but we both had...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2007

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    Why Look For It...??

    It will come when it has to. Till then it simply means- it's your time so chill out and have fun!!!!!!!!
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I just come from a long distance relationship that didnt work, I have been single for over 8 months, now I am looking for love. Anyone with tips on how I can avaoid the pitfalls of...
    peterkatula peterkatula 31-35, M Apr 19

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    I have been searching for so long. I have been looking for you forever. I wish for you to come and find me I am just here to make that process easier. If you find me here know that...
    LilithPersephone LilithPersephone 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    When I love I love hard. Looking for an amazing man. Has to be trustworthy, BMW, and must have morals.
    lrobinson426 lrobinson426 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    So, yeah. Looking for a girl that's younger than me. Preferably, only about two to four years younger. It'd be nice if she's accepting of unusual quirks and kinks. If...
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I wish I found Someone who loves all of me, my flaws, my happiness, my stubbornness, love my family, and loves animals.
    gizmolover101 gizmolover101 18-21, F Apr 24

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    I really don't like being alone and I just want somebody to love
    KidNova45 KidNova45 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    So, not having much luck in the "find a girlfriend" process. There's likely something I'm doing wrong, but damned if I know what. I've mentioned it before, but I wasn't exactly...
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706 22-25, M Apr 23

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    me and my gf want to Skype with a female and play truth or dare with a female and have a good time
    Irishman333 Irishman333 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    and add my Skype spider516201 add my Snapchat dfinlay3311 females and I'm on right now
    Irishman333 Irishman333 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    im 28 m from uk hit me up if u want a prince cause i need a princess x
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 17

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    I'm pretty picky about the girl I'll go out with. I don't suppose there's a girl out there willing to put up with that pickiness?
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706 22-25, M Apr 22

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    It's so difficult to find a genuine, honest person.
    sleep2dream sleep2dream 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    i am kind,caring,loving,respectful,open minded,
    vandorsten vandorsten 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    looking for love. guy or girl is fine. preferably furry.
    mrpaulraptor1849 mrpaulraptor1849 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Just what the title says I have trained a couple girls in the past. So I am looking for a girl who is new to this kind of relationship or has been in one before. I am willing to...
    domlifestyle domlifestyle 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    My name is Becca just looking for someone to talk to. Send me a message if you want to talk.:)
    beccaw2193 beccaw2193 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I was looking for someone to talk to right now. I'm so bored
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am a chick that is looking for a girlfriend that will treat me right if you would like to know more message me
    Peewee12414 Peewee12414 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm Looking for a master online and offline, if interested please message me
    missfunloving28 missfunloving28 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i am looking. for friends.my own age...
    muggs45 muggs45 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Looking for anyone interested or who are fat or chubby as a friend. Message me
    chubbylg chubbylg 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I have been single for almost 3 years now and I can honestly say I am ready and looking for a serious relationship. I want someone who shares the same interests as me and someone...
    JessicaAlways JessicaAlways 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm glad you now realize that nothing will stop the pain. That's a good thing, you know why? Because you will now realize you have only one place to look for real help. The one and...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Midwesterner looking for a beautiful stylish, attractive, and fun lesbian (or bi woman) to become BFF's with. Prefer 35-55, no children, fit and healthy, single or partnered...
    MikesterSTLMO MikesterSTLMO 46-50, M a week ago

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    Hey everyone once again with a hope here I am looking for a girl(straight/lesbian/bi/assexual) girl to get into moc relationship..Obviously girl will get her own space as well...
    moc4gals moc4gals 26-30, M Apr 7

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    Hey everyone once again with a hope here I am looking for a girl(straight/lesbian/bi/assexual) girl to get into moc relationship..Obviously girl will get her own space as well...
    moc4gals moc4gals 26-30, M Apr 7

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    Hey everyone once again with a hope here I am looking for a girl(straight/lesbian/bi/assexual) girl to get into moc relationship..Obviously girl will get her own space as well...
    moc4gals moc4gals 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Hey everyone once again with a hope here I am looking for a girl(straight/lesbian/bi/assexual) girl to get into moc relationship..Obviously girl will get her own space as well...
    moc4gals moc4gals 26-30, M Apr 7

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