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I Am Single But Not Sure If I Am Ready to Mingle

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    I Don't Want to Hurt Anybody...

    I'm alone, but want affection. I'm just asking you guys and girls one thing...be gentle. I can't be rushed or pressured one way or the other. It's just difficult to believe in true love after such a big disappointment... (Ahhh... NYC.)
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    I'm up and down when it comes to deciding

    whether I want to be single or not. One minute I want to be single and the next I don't. Sometimes I think about as a plan what if I can have a friend that I can kiss, have fun with, spend some time together and have him only sleep with ME nobody else!!! Guys sleep with anyone...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    Love It Or Leave It ??

     My Friends are dating, my mum is dating, my aunts and uncles are dating........ Almost everyone i know are dating except me, it's not that i don't want to date or that im Ugly (or at least i hope not) I am just not ready to go head over heels, 1000 miles an hour into a...
    Wishergirl Wishergirl 13-15, F Dec 7, 2009

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    I'm not ready at all,

    someone started flirting with me and I went home and cried. I didn't like it. I miss my ex.
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I Dont Know

    i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know :(
    georshar georshar 36-40, F 10 Responses May 12, 2009

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    sbenveniste sbenveniste 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I often dream of meeting my soulmate.

    At 32 years old, I can admit that I haven't dated much. Seems like when I did in fact open myself up to someone I ended up hurt and somewhat scared emotionally. Theoretically, I'd love to be in a healthy, loving, trusting relationship. However practically I can't see myself...
    futurebbw futurebbw 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I would like to say he's mine but he's not :'(
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I know there's a good reason that I'm still single. I just haven't figured out what that reason is yet
    forbidden19 forbidden19 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Are you tired of being alone?Many people are now still single ,It's not because they are not good,it's just because you didn;t find a right place to meet right person. -- b b w p e...
    Celialee Celialee 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    This is really getting me scared...because am not sure if i am weird. If so many people around me are falling in love and getting married, why not i? Why cant i? I know i am...
    Significant Significant 26-30, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    no more anxiously awaiting you to text me back. no more fighting over you talking to other girls that you say you'll stop talking to. no more wondering why you lie. being...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Though I don't wanna mingle ._.
    jellyfishz jellyfishz 13-15, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Two opposite choices and are you able to make either one equally? I am so ready for this. I am ready to give up as if nothing has happened yet i am also ready to embrace it for...
    msb2015 msb2015 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    im so sick.of being single... i want to have.bf but obviously no luck because boys said " to test how strong ur relationhip. is through sex" and i dont like having sex yet im not...
    maryabcd06 maryabcd06 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    okay. here is to all the guy that message me and ask. " hey , I saw ur single, wanna be my gf?" um mm no. idk u?! so pls. know that I am single for a reason! I. Am. Not. Ready. y...
    WonderStruckLove WonderStruckLove 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So the other day I went to my cousins house and she likes to show buttcrack too so when she was watching tv I decided to sit in front of her on the ground and before I pulled my...
    RileyBlanchard13 RileyBlanchard13 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've always wanted to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, so while in elementary through high school I saw so many pretty girls with there boyfriends/girlfriends & I just always felt bad...
    the90sversionofme the90sversionofme 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    To all of you who know, and to those that don't know, I recently got out of a relationship - a sort of trial relationship. I learnt a lot about myself and the nature of...
    KilljoyKitty KilljoyKitty 18-21, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm single. Yeah, that is indeed how it is. Sometimes I'm not sure if that status brings joy or pain to my heart. My romantic life has been empty and vague ever since I was born...
    Junderbalt Junderbalt 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Havent you had one of those days that it would be nice just to be deleted. Its bad enough to take all these med to kill the pain from a disease intent on making me spend the rest...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    well im not sure...ive been spending the last 2 nights here at my exes. we havent talked about getting back together. but hes calling me babe and acting like last week didnt happen...
    ami4406 ami4406 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Girlfriend and I broke up over a week ago and she is staying at girlfriends in the process of moving out...sure could use someone to talk to, maybe get some recipes from etc will...
    pianodan1976 pianodan1976 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    I hate being single but then sometimes I love being single, today I hate being single!
    paramore1995 paramore1995 18-21, F a week ago

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    Lets Get this clear...Im single....But im not desperate like some of the ************* on here. im straight and im from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. My name is Eric. My rap name is...
    TheoneandonlyX TheoneandonlyX 16-17, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Just tired of it. I know people have waited longer but I am ready for a relationship!
    blowloudpack69 blowloudpack69 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am mature in some areas and immature in others. I don't believe that I am mature enough to try to get into a relationship with someone. I have attempted it before, but it felt...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    It's so ****** up that singles are looked down upon all because being single isn't considered "normal." We are considered as lonely and depressed. I call that bullshit. How can you...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    For some reason I keep attracting the wrong guys. I wonder why that is. Most of the men I am meeting these days seem to only want sex from me and it's getting old. I mean I...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 19

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    I am single but a person who claimed to be my soulmate is not. How funny is life?
    EsteeVonne EsteeVonne 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I am 27 and a single mother of 2 girls. One 9 and one 16 months. I moved to a new area to complete a university degree, i do not know a soul and i have been here nearly a year. I...
    Alexandra88xXx Alexandra88xXx 26-30, F Jul 16

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    I know most people hate being single , and so do I. Not to sound arrogant but I know that its not because of my looks nor my personality . My situation in in makes it hard for me...
    Thomasjay Thomasjay 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    As it pains me to write this, there are truly days where this is true. Yes, I love my wife, but being rejected, feeling rejection isn't something one can get over easily and...
    Herestosmiles Herestosmiles 46-50, M 6 Responses Jul 15

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    i cant believe i am married... What i mean is, 'i really cant believe i am married. i mean really.Two weeks before writing this, i did a court marriage (which is somewhat similar...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 14

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    I want a secnd child so badly, but i fear that i couldnt handle both kids alone at home. My hus works all day, if he comes home he helpes me a bit with our daughter and goes to...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F Jul 13

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    I'm not ready to move on with my life to plan and go through with my goals and ambitions. I want to go back to foster care... go back to the shelters...go back to the man I loved...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I can be your shoulder to cry on A reason to smile when the time's gone Never a reason to cry upon Let me hold you, love you, be the one to look forward to Days aren't endless and...
    ImPhenom ImPhenom 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm ready for another baby. I'm a single mom to a beautiful baby girl. And she's been talking about a sister. I have a BF, who is not her biological dad, but treats her like his...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    tbh I don't mind being single, but sometimes I hate it BC I feel like there's something wrong with me. I ask myself.... Am I not worth it? Is there something about me that guys can...
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I want a gf age 14-16 I am ready to love u girl and buy you anything I am not rich but i am not poor but I am ready to buy you what u love but I want to really love me
    polo898 polo898 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I know there are others who have been single for much longer than I have, but from what I've observed from my own experience is that the longer I've been single the more difficult...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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