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I Am Single But Not Sure If I Am Ready to Mingle

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 100 People

    I Don't Want to Hurt Anybody...

    I'm alone, but want affection. I'm just asking you guys and girls one thing...be gentle. I can't be rushed or pressured one way or the other. It's just difficult to believe in true love after such a big disappointment... (Ahhh... NYC.)
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    I'm up and down when it comes to deciding

    whether I want to be single or not. One minute I want to be single and the next I don't. Sometimes I think about as a plan what if I can have a friend that I can kiss, have fun with, spend some time together and have him only sleep with ME nobody else!!! Guys sleep with anyone...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I often dream of meeting my soulmate.

    At 32 years old, I can admit that I haven't dated much. Seems like when I did in fact open myself up to someone I ended up hurt and somewhat scared emotionally. Theoretically, I'd love to be in a healthy, loving, trusting relationship. However practically I can't see myself...
    futurebbw futurebbw 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Love It Or Leave It ??

     My Friends are dating, my mum is dating, my aunts and uncles are dating........ Almost everyone i know are dating except me, it's not that i don't want to date or that im Ugly (or at least i hope not) I am just not ready to go head over heels, 1000 miles an hour into a...
    Wishergirl Wishergirl 13-15, F Dec 7, 2009

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    I Dont Know

    i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know i dont know :(
    georshar georshar 36-40, F 10 Responses May 12, 2009

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    sbenveniste sbenveniste 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I'm not ready at all,

    someone started flirting with me and I went home and cried. I didn't like it. I miss my ex.
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I more need friends than love. my last romantic relationship convinced me that I am not ready. Me time.
    kfg4279 kfg4279 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    it has been a couple of months now we have been apart, it hasn't been easy but it was the right decision to make, It was all good in the beginning like two lovers destined to meet...
    afiomai afiomai 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I prefer staying single, saves me from getting another heartbreak. I rather just work on myself first.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Honestly, I've always been scared of being too dependent on someone so when i start having feelings i normally turn it into an easy to get out of 'one night' thing.
    kas4 kas4 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Love is overrated. I just want to have fun.
    Jenner43 Jenner43 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    BTBFF :) born together best friends forever <3 twin soul F.R.P.3rd!!!!
    SnowAnngel SnowAnngel 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yeah I'm Still Single, but So What? I'm a 25 year old young woman and I still like being single. Just because somebody is in a relationship doesn't mean that I NEED to...
    ArtLover24 ArtLover24 22-25, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    When I tell people I'm single they look surprised. I don't know whether to feel flattered or think wtf is wrong with me then? I hate being single but I'm starting to think it's...
    0justme0 0justme0 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I really think I am. Like, all of my friends are in relationships or are about to get into one and I'm just over here trying to get ready for my next anime convention or something...
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    He's such an ******* sometimes. He got really sick last night so he went to bed and I stayed up late to set out all the Santa gifts and fill the kids stockings. I slept on the...
    Env06 Env06 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I have had three serious love affairs before being single,,, but none of them have stayed in my life forever,,,, and they have been married with some one else,,,,let me tell you...
    mdbest4u mdbest4u 26-30, M 8 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate being single, but there's always issues whenever I try putting myself out there. Either they end up not interested in me, or they try to move things too quickly and that...
    beingbrye beingbrye 22-25, T 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Im currently single but im happy i get to just focus on music and school and i k ow one day that special person will come into my life =) <3
    Millerbabe17 Millerbabe17 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 10

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    When your like oh it fine being single. But at times you will feel lonely and long for companion by an opposite gender. Just wait for the time πŸ˜€β€οΈ
    Regkid Regkid 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I try to remain positive and not think about being single, but when I'm alone and not playing a game or doing homework, I begin to feel depressed and just ask myself "am I that...
    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    So apparently its no longer okay to be single. Yes I'm 22 and most of my pals either have kids or are married or engaged or in relationships but I'm not the only single one. One of...
    RachiiM RachiiM 22-25, F 52 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I got married to have a family.I believed it be forever and the time in my life which would bring great joy. The woman I married gave me two children but she never gave me any...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I don't know about mingle but I could sure share sum with you
    Coddsack Coddsack 36-40, M Jan 7

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    Hello single life.. I'm ready for a new chapter!
    HalfPerfect HalfPerfect 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I'm single, and I'm ready to mingle.... I like boys :) and uhh guys my age like 20 is the oldest I'll go im 15 :)
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I'm single and ready to mingle.. boys hit me up ;)
    deafcollegeboy deafcollegeboy 18-21, M Jan 3

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    "Oh give it Time you have your whole life ahead of you" umm first of all Ya I know but then I'm pretty sure I'm just going to look the same second no one isn't even going to care...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to go to meet people any more. Around here, unless you are part of the bar scene, you won't meet anyone. Not only can I not afford the bar scene, but I don...
    ChristinaPilar ChristinaPilar 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Love is a gift from above,we all need love but with the right one's
    princeghartey71 princeghartey71 22-25, M Jan 9

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    Life is full of fun and worries? but sometimes it pays to wait for the right person in your life...to complete your imagination of the person you want to build life with.
    princeghartey71 princeghartey71 22-25, M Jan 9

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    tl;wr: I'm on the verge of single fatherhood to three boys still hoping to make it work and I'm worried about how I will do. (tl;wr=to long;won't read) I am not a single father...
    LOMD LOMD 31-35, M Dec 26, 2014

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    Ethan5814bpc4 Ethan5814bpc4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    I am single. Sometimes, I enjoy it. Sometimes, I hate it. Most of the time, I'm just 'meh' about it. I wouldn't say I'm indifferent, I think that it is because I've been put...
    lemonista lemonista 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Why can't I be alright with being single? I thought that I had accepted it but really I haven't.
    Str8sweetness Str8sweetness 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I really dread tomight in some aspects. Going to meet some old high school chums to bring in the new year. I'm not even sure how I'm supposed to act. I want tonight to be fun and...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    SingleπŸ˜₯😫😩πŸ˜₯ Need a BF ASAPπŸ˜‹πŸ˜œπŸ˜πŸ˜›
    detrius150 detrius150 13-15, M 16 hrs ago

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    Single and looking for an understanding person. Message me if you are interested!
    Djcman331 Djcman331 13-15, M 11 hrs ago

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    Shout out to all my other single lesbos out there! πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘
    StarSeed08 StarSeed08 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    i am a single parent who have never really known how mutual love feels like.. and i'm over 30. despite being happy being a mom, the love of my family doesn't seem to fill me..
    lovefoolnobody lovefoolnobody 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm so in love with this one guy. He's 2 years younger than me and it bothers me because he doesn't act his age. He has a passive aggressive personality, a tad bit socially awkward...
    LadyBug8788 LadyBug8788 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    A couple days ago I was in a store and saw all these Valentine gifts and I thought yes I get to save money this Valentimes day but I'm actually sad because I don't have a...