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I Am Single

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    The other night I went out to a club with a

    group of friends for one of their birthdays, and in clubs drinks are very expensive so I don't usually buy them there, I also don't usually ask guys to buy me drinks but that night a guy offered to buy me one and I thought yeah ok why not? After he got me the drink he leaned in...
    angellerose angellerose 18-21, F 2 Responses 24 mins ago

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    Illw84u Illw84u 26-30, F 25 Responses Apr 11

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    Oh yes I am! i've never dated anyone before

    but that's okay I'm pretty happy being single :)
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 46 Responses Jun 8

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    Yep, main reason why is

    because I honestly am not a confident person and I am very self deprecating toward myself. I end up just pushing the few people I've been interested away. I don't want to be alone but I still have some work to do.
    shyguy38 shyguy38 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well, not anymore <3 And she's perfect

    for me, quite literally.
    Drumhellar Drumhellar 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Mmaaaaaaaan. I just want someone to cuddle,

    make out, tell me dumb jokes and play wrestle with. Ugh, I hate being single.
    xAnonxx xAnonxx 13-15, F 42 Responses May 4

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    It's been 3 years since an actual relationship

    has occurred in my life. Trust me, I've tried. Countless no shows on dates. Countless "you're like my little sister"s. Endless, "So your friend is single?"s. I guess sometimes life steers you in another direction. It's just too bad my direction doesn't fall with a significant...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 108 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who’s Single

    I just discovered a blog called "Single Dad Laughing". He's brilliant. I thought I'd share one of his posts about the dumb things people say when you tell them you're single... I laughed so hard when I read it I had tears in my eyes. So, why are you single?Ummm, maybe because I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Been single for about a month

    or two now and I just don't like it. I just don't like be alone. I want to meet a girl/boy, in real life or online, who'd want to date me. I'm tired of waiting. I know I'm only 15 3/4, but it really sucks being single for me.
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And having a relationship isn't everything.

    You can still have fun without a boyfriend/girlfriend.
    Mikaylaxo Mikaylaxo 13-15, F 23 Responses Jun 29

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    Who needs just one man,

    when I can have two! How I love you Ben&Jerry's <3
    Elexiaseng24 Elexiaseng24 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I'm gay and single I'm 15

    and want a bf 15 and up no old guys plzz and be fit I also have kick and Skype but ask me for it
    rileyolsen44 rileyolsen44 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Remember Cinderella didn't need to take off her

    dress to get her Prince Charming, and neither do you. Just be patient.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 21

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    Ready

    Dear future boyfriend, Im ready to be in a relationship, I'm done being single. Please be kind, make me laugh when I'm crying, and above all, please be faithful. In return, I will eventually give you my heart, and I will be faithful. When your sick I will take care of you, when...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 45 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    I never used to worry about it,

    but now that I'm almost 18 I find myself craving intimacy with a girl more than anything else. I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about a girl that I can enjoy cuddling and watching movies with. A girl that doesn't mind listening to what I have to say about...
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 22 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    No offence but if you're 12 you can't be

    complaining about how you've been single all your life and that relationships don't work for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 23 Responses Jul 6

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    Today I learned to let go

    after spending sometime with my "ex" whom I went out with, 3x , and thought about everyday. Were going to watch a movie "the fault in our stars" and I brought chocolate cake (here favorite) and nothing really happened we barely touched the cake. I confess the on-and-off...
    BSRivera01 BSRivera01 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    still waiting........

    ............................................................................ hahaha :)
    smilejem smilejem 16-17, F 8 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    normal people flirting: hey you're cute,

    we should go out sometimes. me trying to flirt: so do u like bread?
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 17

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    I am told that I should be a good find

    for the right girl, and I guess they are right. But there isn't any of those left unmarried around here...Hummmm
    tommiatkins tommiatkins 51-55, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    "Seven Virtues of Singlehood..."

    I received this forwarded text message from one of my friends and I just wanna share it to you: "1. the joy of flirting 2. the thrill of anticipation 3. the freedom of choice 4. the challenge of the chase 5. the gift of guy friends 6. the adoration of self 7. the...
    unappreciated unappreciated 22-25, F 38 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    People Who Mean Well.....

    EDIT: I have since found someone incredibly special--just goes to show that when you aren't even expecting it, the right love can come along and ♥♥♥♥ I'm so glad I didn't rush, it allowed me to find the perfect guy♥I have since left this group....... but go ahead and...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 96 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Everything happens for a reason.

    . Break up is like a broken mirror, it's better to leave it then hurt yourself trying to fix it. Oh well..
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Beware. I’m in a mood.

    Apparently I’m intimidating to men. Me, a person who shouldn’t be intimidating to anyone, ever. I intimidate people.. so I’m a liability.Do you know what I miss? I miss not having to be perfect. I miss not having to be conspicuously interrogated by potential suitors to see...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 45 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    IamSid07 IamSid07 13-15, M 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    17 years-old or less kids saying they are sick

    of being single, are they for real?
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 32 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Is anyone else at that age

    where you see everyone else getting married or having kids, and it just depresses you because you feel like the one person left out?
    GabeR1991 GabeR1991 22-25, M 29 Responses 3 days ago

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    ahh being single. it can be lonely sometimes

    but sometimes its not. you don't have to worry about looking pretty for your boyfriend. but we still tend to dress to impress lol. I don't mind being single but sometimes I feel like I need someone there for me . for me to feel comfortable talking to my partner about everything...
    metalchick123 metalchick123 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm single and okay with that.

    I've been single now for like 3 years. I have learned that I don't need a guy to be happy, but I still would like a guy to give me attention and make me feel loved.
    mkxhedrick mkxhedrick 16-17, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    i really want what alot of straight people have

    with their gf/bf but i cant have it cause im not out yet and there arent alot of gay guys at my school that im interested in if u want a bf or just someone to talk to message me
    keeponswimming4 keeponswimming4 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    'Ello again. I've received many comments about

    my posts being too long...I'll try to not make this journal entry so long lol. As usual, I'll talk a little bit about my non-romantic life first. Things are going fairly well, actually. I applied for a job and heard back in but a couple days! I discussed my available hours...
    Drag0nMaster Drag0nMaster 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm so sick of hearin there's other fish in tha

    sea.. I DONT CARE it's a woman i want, not a freaking fish :P
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    I'm okay with it though.

    Finding a girlfriend is not a top priority right now. If it happens, great. If not, that's okay. I'm very relaxed about it. :)
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Does anyone like being single?

    I never did. So it sucks now
    KuTcH KuTcH 18-21, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 19 years old and I've been single

    for 19 of those years. Guys just don't find me interesting. I'd like to think I'm not hideous. Even if I am, I've seen hideous women who are in relationships. I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying that to be honest. I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to be in a...
    BuffaloSoilder BuffaloSoilder 18-21, F 64 Responses May 21

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    I'm currently single

    and idk weather I wanna stay that way or not. There's a guy that likes me (idk if I like him back) and another guy that loves me, I love him too but maybe I should move on from the past and let go of him. I don't know. I give up.
    Mysweetsuicide1357 Mysweetsuicide1357 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just wish there was boy

    or girl around my age who I can have a relationship with.. Im sick of being single
    IzzyIrwin IzzyIrwin 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Most guys around me are jerks.

    ....and the nice ones are taken. Glad I have internet and food💕
    Ancllevyn Ancllevyn 16-17, F 33 Responses Apr 30

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    and it is not bad for me.

    . as I am able to get what I need... I have had some conversations with my wonderful CP man... and we have worked out some things... so here is the skinny on what is going on with me.. lol.. not that you all care... I think it is more for me to say out loud and then I usually...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Single... It isn't a status.

    But it's a word. A word that describes a person to live and enjoy life WITHOUT depending on someone else.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 16

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    i dont need ms/mr "right" i think netflix

    and hanging out with my friends sounds a lot better than forcing myself to be emotionally available for someone. treat yourself right!!
    mewtoi mewtoi 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yes but I am not heartless,

    I've learned how to use my heart less eeeh.
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    What exactly is single ?

    Not having a label? Your heart not being with someone?
    Gold2gold Gold2gold 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    heart it if you are single.

    lets see if we can get a record!! I want more than 100. heart even if you are not single!!!!!!!!!!!
    manyquestions101 manyquestions101 13-15, F 12 Responses Jun 29

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    Being single is smarter

    than being in the wrong relationship
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 14

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    HONESTLY I'M PROBABLY SINGLE BECAUSE.

    .. I never forwarded those chain messages in 2009 :/
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    Is any girl out there single .

    I am single and lonely . Looking for someone who enjoys some of the same things I do. If you interested. Message me
    ballboy24 ballboy24 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Confessions Of A Single Gal

    Here is a little insight into a girl’s perspective on being single. As we all know, being single especially after a certain age, is looked down upon, rather than admired. Because let’s face it, having standards and meeting them, is much harder than just settling for the next...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 30 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    nothingme nothingme 22-25, F 49 Responses 3 days ago

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    Cool12367 Cool12367 22-25, T 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes the person miles away from you can

    make you feel better than the person next to you 👍💯😉
    Tyler8432 Tyler8432 16-17, M 10 Responses Jan 21

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    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 40 Responses May 8

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    I'm single since I was born,

    and I am hella fine with it ;)
    DoItLikeADude DoItLikeADude 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago