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    I am 20 years old and single,

    I've never been in a relationship actually. Partially bc it never appealed to me up until like 5 years ago when I started trying to get a gf. No matter what I do or try I can't get a girl, I've been told I'm cute by many girls but every time I start talking to one something...
    Sierra737 Sierra737 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I never used to worry about it,

    but now that I'm almost 18 I find myself craving intimacy with a girl more than anything else. I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about a girl that I can enjoy cuddling and watching movies with. A girl that doesn't mind listening to what I have to say about...
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 21 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Jerrym2014 Jerrym2014 16-17, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I dont fear commitment,

    I fear wasting my time.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 24

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    honestly I've been single

    for a really long time. i often think to myself why don't girls like me. i feel that i'm a nice person if i ever got a girlfriend i would never cheat on them or lie to them because i believe that its wrong. instead i would care for them and always be there for them. i often see...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Illw84u Illw84u 26-30, F 23 Responses Apr 11

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    Ready

    Dear future boyfriend, Im ready to be in a relationship, I'm done being single. Please be kind, make me laugh when I'm crying, and above all, please be faithful. In return, I will eventually give you my heart, and I will be faithful. When your sick I will take care of you, when...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 45 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Most guys around me are jerks.

    ....and the nice ones are taken. Glad I have internet and food💕
    Ancllevyn Ancllevyn 16-17, F 32 Responses Apr 30

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    i don't wanna be ur girlfriend

    but I don't want anyone else to be ur girlfriend either what do I do
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    So, they say the way we perceive our reality is

    very important. I realized that when I perceive being single as a sad thing, I feel sad.... I feel deeply sad... It's the thought of being incomplete unless there is someone to validate my existence... how sad that I think this way sometimes... How unfair towards myself this...
    Loufree Loufree 26-30, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    A lot of **** went down last night.

    Long story short: I went home with Ollie and Lia to have a sleepover, when suddenly we found her brothers alcohol (vodka, beer and black vine). My girlfriends best friend texted me from her phone He called me a freak and got angry because I called him cold My girlfriend didn't...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My first relationship was

    when I was in 8th grade. The relationship was more of a one-sided love. I loved him more than he loved me. We broke up a few months after we entered high school because I wanted to focus on my studies and as for him, he got involved with the bad crowd. My second relationship was...
    Alekz2816 Alekz2816 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I should also mention.

    .. Right about now one year ago (December 17/18 2013 around 1am) was the last time I kissed former-cuddle-buddy (FCB)... And I was sick with food poisoning (from his apartment, no less), so that was "fun"... As I struggle to find love again, I miss those warm, moist, and...
    Drag0nMaster Drag0nMaster 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    31 year old female with no kids

    who broke up with a 44 year old manchild who had 6 kids maybe even more...and him and his kids drained me..something about a needy man that can't be by himself..I feel sorry for the kids..I had to push him to get more involved in their life and less focused on me...I didn't help...
    bwalke7 bwalke7 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    someone Asked me what is UR attitude?

    ... then i simply replied... " BEING SINGLE IS MY ATTITUDE?"
    weirdboyz weirdboyz 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    hilarycc12 hilarycc12 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    and I'm having way more fun

    than I ever was when I was married aha :)
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 29 Responses Jul 5

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    coccoc coccoc 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    So I just seen this study lol annnnnd it said

    that when it comes to online dating, women are more worried about meeting a serial killer or a murderer online. Where MEN are more worried about meeting a fat girl or woman online. LMAO !!! I'm sorry it's funny to me lol
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 65 Responses Dec 12

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    I was in the hospital today

    and saw a cute guy with a cast around his leg . My first thought was : "Hey , this one can't run away"
    jhastme jhastme 18-21, F 23 Responses Sep 2

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    It's been 3 years since an actual relationship

    has occurred in my life. Trust me, I've tried. Countless no shows on dates. Countless "you're like my little sister"s. Endless, "So your friend is single?"s. I guess sometimes life steers you in another direction. It's just too bad my direction doesn't fall with a significant...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 106 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Perks of dating me: im nice looking

    but i might still be in love with someone else but atleast I'll have sex with u
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 18

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    Recently single. He ended it.

    His loss. I'm realizing I'm a lot stronger and he was just too scared to commit to someone. I was and still am. Not for awhile though... I'm going to enjoy being single, flirting it up, and matchmaking all my friends now.
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    First time I have been single in a while

    and I don't know whether I feel good or sad yet
    J3N11 J3N11 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Two days ago my gf broke up with me.

    I understand where she was coming from not being happy. Next year would of been six years and my heart is torn in two. I don't blame her our relationship started rock and I guess it was going to end either way.
    wiznerd14 wiznerd14 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I honestly didn't think I would miss u this

    much. I've been up all night thinking about you and the times we had. X
    loverman115 loverman115 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Anyone else feel like they are gonna be single

    forever lol I have been on numerous dates with guys who all seem to be in the same league as a fungus! Where are all the good guys at!!
    xangeleyesx88 xangeleyesx88 26-30, F 90 Responses Nov 22

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    17 years-old or less kids saying they are sick

    of being single, are they for real?
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 45 Responses Jul 28

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    I been keeping busy mostly,

    I'm not too bad a job with working and going out walking and watching movies I'm not doing too bad. I just miss someone to talk to a lot :/ if anyone would like to chat and get to know each other to turn into a friendship that would be cool. I'm not all about message me for sex...
    Duke87 Duke87 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It makes me sad that

    so many of the people in this group are 13-15 years old and are desperately looking for someone. Please, do not waste your time. Build your personalities and self-esteem before going into a relationship. Do not look for love because you are lonely.... I made that mistake and it...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 23 Responses Aug 11

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    It's hard becoming single

    after living with someone. What I miss most, is when iv had a terrible day at work, and i come home and get the biggest cuddle in the world, nothing has to be said, just to be held. It makes all my worries go away. Even though I want that again and want to come home to someone...
    strawberryblonde89 strawberryblonde89 22-25, F 35 Responses 4 days ago

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    "I don't want a relationship,

    they hold you back. I want a bestfriend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner in crime, a life partner. Someone that I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust with my heart, my money, and...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 13 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    ladies if u want to find a prince you're

    supposed to kiss a frog not **** the whole damn pond
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 42 Responses Dec 9

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    Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who’s Single

    I just discovered a blog called "Single Dad Laughing". He's brilliant. I thought I'd share one of his posts about the dumb things people say when you tell them you're single... I laughed so hard when I read it I had tears in my eyes. So, why are you single?Ummm, maybe because I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 25 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Is being single a curse?

    At times we can't share that single emotion with someone and it's kinda scary… for me. I know I have a family to share emotions with, but there are something's I can't do with them. Is being single a curse?
    BlackBunny17 BlackBunny17 16-17, F 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    "Wait for the man who does what he says

    and isn't afraid to express how he feels. A man who is clear about what he wants in a relationship, has dwelt with his past, and is emotional adult. Don't settle, conscious relationship is worth the wait."
    sunnywinter sunnywinter 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    No offence but if you're 12 you can't be

    complaining about how you've been single all your life and that relationships don't work for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 23 Responses Jul 6

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    My Gf cheated on me and I've been single

    for long time because of it. I just feel like if i get emotional attached I'll get hurt again.
    TerranceMaloish TerranceMaloish 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    l feel like i am in hell

    because of lonely
    mechsaravanan mechsaravanan 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I have been single

    for 2 years now...I guess I am not the kind of girl that guys don't particularly go for..this is me everyone..what do you think?
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 124 Responses Aug 13

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    People are always saying "How are the ladies

    not all over you?", or "How are you not married already?" or "How is it that you are still single?" or some variation of those How do you even respond to that... if I had an answer I probably wouldn't be single anymore ya know
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    "Seven Virtues of Singlehood..."

    I received this forwarded text message from one of my friends and I just wanna share it to you: "1. the joy of flirting 2. the thrill of anticipation 3. the freedom of choice 4. the challenge of the chase 5. the gift of guy friends 6. the adoration of self 7. the...
    unappreciated unappreciated 22-25, F 38 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    My current feeling--- I just want someone

    who I can talk to all the time and not feel like I'm bothering them.
    fayluv fayluv 22-25, F 24 Responses Oct 11

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    HONESTLY I'M PROBABLY SINGLE BECAUSE.

    .. I never forwarded those chain messages in 2009 :/
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 28 Responses Jul 13

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    Oh yes I am! i've never dated anyone before

    but that's okay I'm pretty happy being single :)
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 38 Responses Jun 8

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    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I was on again off aga in with this guy named

    Tyson but it's done for good now. I am kind of relived tho. He is 20 and still in high school.
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Guys are so boring. Not adventures,

    can't hold a conversation, no passion,( not speaking of sex) not exciting. JUST BORING!
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    I like this pic!!!!..

    ...................
    Shai15 Shai15 22-25, F 26 Responses Dec 8

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    My bad cheated on me we I dumped him we ended

    on semi good terms but still really upsetting
    jaquelynlupi123 jaquelynlupi123 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There are many lessons in life

    that only time can teach you, like how much you love someone. It's nearly impossible to know that, until you spend your days without them. And then there are those lessons that you can learn only through the beating of your heart, and through feeling such strong emotions that...
    salvation76 salvation76 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 20

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    People Who Mean Well.....

    EDIT: I have since found someone incredibly special--just goes to show that when you aren't even expecting it, the right love can come along and ♥♥♥♥ I'm so glad I didn't rush, it allowed me to find the perfect guy♥I have since left this group....... but go ahead and...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 98 Responses Sep 2, 2009