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I Am Single

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    I am 20 years old and i have been single

    forever . I dont know whether i am suppose to be happy or sad but i certainly do feel lonely attimes
    cluemisa cluemisa 18-21, F 17 Responses 2 days ago

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    It makes me sad that

    so many of the people in this group are 13-15 years old and are desperately looking for someone. Please, do not waste your time. Build your personalities and self-esteem before going into a relationship. Do not look for love because you are lonely.... I made that mistake and it...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 26 Responses Aug 11

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    Both of my closest friends have crushes,

    and one confessed to the person they liked, with a somewhat good reaction. I feel like the odd one out because I don't like anyone /that/ way, yet.
    mintycat mintycat 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I post too much!!! Oh well.

    But yeah I just wish every dude didn't think of me as just their best friend :/
    cicizzle cicizzle 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    All those chubby pretty girls having boyfriends

    and im here still single. 😅 ~still waiting for u 😁
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    Illw84u Illw84u 26-30, F 25 Responses Apr 11

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    Beware. I’m in a mood.

    Apparently I’m intimidating to men. Me, a person who shouldn’t be intimidating to anyone, ever. I intimidate people.. so I’m a liability.Do you know what I miss? I miss not having to be perfect. I miss not having to be conspicuously interrogated by potential suitors to see...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 42 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    I have been wanting a girlfriend

    for some time. But whenever I like someone I don't have the courage to tell them, partly because of my social anxiety and partly because those people generally think I'm weird, but they just don't understand me. Therefore I have decided to take my chances on an online...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'm too hot for ugly people

    and too ugly for hot people
    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 77 Responses May 5

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    I am an expert at getting friendzoned.

    Seriously. I could write a book and call it "Nice Guys Finish Last." Someone kill me ugh :(
    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Currently just trying to branch out

    and test the waters again. Improving myself along the way. Looking to create a serious friendship/ relationship with a female :) I'm kind, compassionate, loving and I will respect your boundaries and wishes. Just wishing to start up again and experience new people. Hmu if...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Single... It isn't a status.

    But it's a word. A word that describes a person to live and enjoy life WITHOUT depending on someone else.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 16

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    Met a girl at this pool club

    who doesn't live to far away from where I am now. She seemed interested in me and I hope she comes back! :D
    TheComicAlien TheComicAlien 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 46 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've only had a few relationships,

    and none were good relationships. One girl suddenly stopped talking to me when she didn't want me anymore. Another just used me for my car and money. They made me feel worthless. I pushed away the last girl I dated because I was afraid of being hurt again. I tried to apologize...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I never used to worry about it,

    but now that I'm almost 18 I find myself craving intimacy with a girl more than anything else. I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about a girl that I can enjoy cuddling and watching movies with. A girl that doesn't mind listening to what I have to say about...
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 22 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I hate valentines day,

    it's just another opportunity for you to feel lonely
    Rebeccaej Rebeccaej 13-15, F 44 Responses Jan 15

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    "Seven Virtues of Singlehood..."

    I received this forwarded text message from one of my friends and I just wanna share it to you: "1. the joy of flirting 2. the thrill of anticipation 3. the freedom of choice 4. the challenge of the chase 5. the gift of guy friends 6. the adoration of self 7. the...
    unappreciated unappreciated 22-25, F 39 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    HONESTLY I'M PROBABLY SINGLE BECAUSE.

    .. I never forwarded those chain messages in 2009 :/
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    and I think it really doesn't matter.

    Lol I'm not gonna waste precious time moping around only because I haven't met a significant other. I'm single and I'll be living my life to the fullest, spending each second doing something fun and crazy with the people that truly matter in my life
    rruser27 rruser27 13-15, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    normal people flirting: hey you're cute,

    we should go out sometimes. me trying to flirt: so do u like bread?
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 17

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    heart it if you are single.

    lets see if we can get a record!! I want more than 100. heart even if you are not single!!!!!!!!!!!
    manyquestions101 manyquestions101 13-15, F 12 Responses Jun 29

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    CeeAirAHH CeeAirAHH 13-15, F 13 Responses 1 day ago

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    single and ready to feel nervous around anyone

    i find attractive.k bye im done.
    buymeconcerttickets buymeconcerttickets 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Oh yes I am! i've never dated anyone before

    but that's okay I'm pretty happy being single :)
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 46 Responses Jun 8

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    Hello4563 Hello4563 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    nothingme nothingme 22-25, F 49 Responses Jul 25

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    Sometimes the person miles away from you can

    make you feel better than the person next to you 👍💯😉
    Tyler8432 Tyler8432 16-17, M 10 Responses Jan 21

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    No offence but if you're 12 you can't be

    complaining about how you've been single all your life and that relationships don't work for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 23 Responses Jul 6

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    Ready

    Dear future boyfriend, Im ready to be in a relationship, I'm done being single. Please be kind, make me laugh when I'm crying, and above all, please be faithful. In return, I will eventually give you my heart, and I will be faithful. When your sick I will take care of you, when...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 44 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    I'm a 15 year old bi girl.

    It's kind of annoying when all of your friends are in a relationships & you're the only one who isn't.
    lilkalaraxx lilkalaraxx 13-15, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    She pulled me outta the grave I was in with

    pretty words just so she could dig it deeper and push me back in like a siren to a sailor.
    Samster23 Samster23 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People Who Mean Well.....

    EDIT: I have since found someone incredibly special--just goes to show that when you aren't even expecting it, the right love can come along and ♥♥♥♥ I'm so glad I didn't rush, it allowed me to find the perfect guy♥I have since left this group....... but go ahead and...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 97 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    I've been single all my life.

    Honestly, I'm perfectly fine with it. 😋
    SpiffyNinja SpiffyNinja 18-21, F 46 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm 19 years old and I've been single

    for 19 of those years. Guys just don't find me interesting. I'd like to think I'm not hideous. Even if I am, I've seen hideous women who are in relationships. I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying that to be honest. I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to be in a...
    BuffaloSoilder BuffaloSoilder 18-21, F 63 Responses May 21

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    Confessions Of A Single Gal

    Here is a little insight into a girl’s perspective on being single. As we all know, being single especially after a certain age, is looked down upon, rather than admired. Because let’s face it, having standards and meeting them, is much harder than just settling for the next...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 29 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Sprinklesnstuff Sprinklesnstuff 13-15, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Most guys around me are jerks.

    ....and the nice ones are taken. Glad I have internet and food💕
    Ancllevyn Ancllevyn 16-17, F 32 Responses Apr 30

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    Hi, I'm Sarah. I'm 16

    and have never dated! A nice romantic relationship is what my other friends seem to have, not me. Not that I'm THAT bothered about relationships at the moment.... I'm single and pretty happy to be single.... Sarah x
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 25 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm 16 Canadian, I play music,

    know how to cook, Ap classes... And it still doesn't matter to some people .-.
    ThatGuyMTL ThatGuyMTL 16-17, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    BraedenPhillips BraedenPhillips 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    17 years-old or less kids saying they are sick

    of being single, are they for real?
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 46 Responses Jul 28

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    and I'm having way more fun

    than I ever was when I was married aha :)
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 27 Responses Jul 5

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    I like guys who dont like me

    and dislike guys who like me :( I thought it was because my standards were too high but then i dated a guy who i had no feelings for and tried to be really nice at him but he left me for a really ugly girl..
    vernikung vernikung 18-21, F 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I have been single

    for 2 years now...I guess I am not the kind of girl that guys don't particularly go for..this is me everyone..what do you think?
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 133 Responses Aug 13

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    It's been 3 years since an actual relationship

    has occurred in my life. Trust me, I've tried. Countless no shows on dates. Countless "you're like my little sister"s. Endless, "So your friend is single?"s. I guess sometimes life steers you in another direction. It's just too bad my direction doesn't fall with a significant...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 108 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    And having a relationship isn't everything.

    You can still have fun without a boyfriend/girlfriend.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 23 Responses Jun 29

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    Remember Cinderella didn't need to take off her

    dress to get her Prince Charming, and neither do you. Just be patient.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 21

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    myraaxx myraaxx 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    There are a lot of temptations in the city.

    .. I'd feel a lot better if I just settled down and had a nice girlfriend. I should have an older girlfriend, one that'll take care of me.
    AwesomeGardevoir AwesomeGardevoir 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 39 Responses May 8

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    Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who’s Single

    I just discovered a blog called "Single Dad Laughing". He's brilliant. I thought I'd share one of his posts about the dumb things people say when you tell them you're single... I laughed so hard when I read it I had tears in my eyes. So, why are you single?Ummm, maybe because I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I do not understand some girls,

    I had a girlfriend and was treating her like a princes, giving all of me to her and she just was not able to do the same back... But I still been wiv her because I fall for her badly, and I mean I would do anything for her. She went on holiday, and when she came back I went to...
    PurePositive PurePositive 18-21, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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