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I Am Single

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    I've grown to feel that I prefer isolation to

    the possibility of pain's return. Not a great position to be.. but I feel.. safer.. you know? Less exposed.
    ReecyReemz ReecyReemz 16-17, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    No offence but if you're 12 you can't be

    complaining about how you've been single all your life and that relationships don't work for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 23 Responses Jul 6

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    dambookworm17 dambookworm17 13-15, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    to young to be taken.

    ... haha i just want to have fun rather than be tied down
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I've been single all my life.

    Honestly, I'm perfectly fine with it. 😋
    SpiffyNinja SpiffyNinja 18-21, F 46 Responses Jul 12

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    Reznin Reznin 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    And I'll be single untill spongebob gets his

    license... Calliou grows hair...and Phineas and ferb go back to school Cx
    PrincessAyyoBbyBoo PrincessAyyoBbyBoo 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me chasing a man and begging him to stay would

    be absolutely absurd. There are millions of men out here
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    what do women want from me?

    do they not want me at all?
    starfox22 starfox22 22-25, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm in high school. I've just been theough

    such crappy relationships lol. Relationships irritate me b/c It feels like im pressed to keep someone happy & take care of him. Ugh, i'd rather wait. I'd rather wait until im ready b/c I don't like games. Mehh
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I have been single

    for 2 years now...I guess I am not the kind of girl that guys don't particularly go for..this is me everyone..what do you think?
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 134 Responses Aug 13

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    "No wonder you're single.

    " Let me stop you right there, friend. You have no right to judge me. You have no right to assume why I'm single. You have no right to think I'm weak, when you don't know a damn thing about me, or what I've dealt with.
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel like the only person

    who is single. I see happy couples everywhere I go and it depresses me. For once, I want to be like that. I went to school and have a fairly decent job and I think I'm funny, usually. Lol
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Illw84u Illw84u 26-30, F 25 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm single and i want a boyfriend

    but whenever i get to know someone who really loves me, i begin to doubt. Even if i like him, too, i imagine what it feels like to be in a relationship and i think i'd lose my freedom...
    Catelynn Catelynn 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A conversation with mi mom.

    Mom : You're already 19 and never had a boyfriend. I'm worried about you. Me: Yeah, me too.I'm worried that all I have to worry about is my grades and college. And I'm very worried that I prefer spending my time alone, playing games, reading and meditating than going out and...
    onebeatleft onebeatleft 18-21 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    17 years-old or less kids saying they are sick

    of being single, are they for real?
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 46 Responses Jul 28

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    It makes me sad that

    so many of the people in this group are 13-15 years old and are desperately looking for someone. Please, do not waste your time. Build your personalities and self-esteem before going into a relationship. Do not look for love because you are lonely.... I made that mistake and it...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 25 Responses Aug 11

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    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 39 Responses May 8

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    It's been 3 years since an actual relationship

    has occurred in my life. Trust me, I've tried. Countless no shows on dates. Countless "you're like my little sister"s. Endless, "So your friend is single?"s. I guess sometimes life steers you in another direction. It's just too bad my direction doesn't fall with a significant...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 108 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    normal people flirting: hey you're cute,

    we should go out sometimes. me trying to flirt: so do u like bread?
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 17

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    Single... It isn't a status.

    But it's a word. A word that describes a person to live and enjoy life WITHOUT depending on someone else.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 16

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    heart it if you are single.

    lets see if we can get a record!! I want more than 100. heart even if you are not single!!!!!!!!!!!
    manyquestions101 manyquestions101 13-15, F 12 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm 19 years old and I've been single

    for 19 of those years. Guys just don't find me interesting. I'd like to think I'm not hideous. Even if I am, I've seen hideous women who are in relationships. I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying that to be honest. I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to be in a...
    BuffaloSoilder BuffaloSoilder 18-21, F 64 Responses May 21

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    Single I am single Because I deserve

    something better then just a fairy take ending I have a loving caring daughter that I raise on my own...
    mtndew25 mtndew25 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate valentines day,

    it's just another opportunity for you to feel lonely
    Rebeccaej Rebeccaej 16-17, F 44 Responses Jan 15

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    Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who’s Single

    I just discovered a blog called "Single Dad Laughing". He's brilliant. I thought I'd share one of his posts about the dumb things people say when you tell them you're single... I laughed so hard when I read it I had tears in my eyes. So, why are you single?Ummm, maybe because I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Mmaaaaaaaan. I just want someone to cuddle,

    make out, tell me dumb jokes and play wrestle with. Ugh, I hate being single.
    xAnonxx xAnonxx 13-15, F 41 Responses May 4

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    got told by a womanon EP

    before im cute man, but i lack confidence, how could she know im not confident????
    starfox22 starfox22 22-25, M 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Ready

    Dear future boyfriend, Im ready to be in a relationship, I'm done being single. Please be kind, make me laugh when I'm crying, and above all, please be faithful. In return, I will eventually give you my heart, and I will be faithful. When your sick I will take care of you, when...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 44 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Single and looking to mingle (: I'm kind

    caring respectful and loving. :) Heart this and ill PM you my #
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm too hot for ugly people

    and too ugly for hot people
    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 77 Responses May 5

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    I never used to worry about it,

    but now that I'm almost 18 I find myself craving intimacy with a girl more than anything else. I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about a girl that I can enjoy cuddling and watching movies with. A girl that doesn't mind listening to what I have to say about...
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 22 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Sometimes the person miles away from you can

    make you feel better than the person next to you 👍💯😉
    Tyler8432 Tyler8432 16-17, M 10 Responses Jan 21

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    Most guys around me are jerks.

    ....and the nice ones are taken. Glad I have internet and food💕
    Ancllevyn Ancllevyn 16-17, F 32 Responses Apr 30

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    Remember Cinderella didn't need to take off her

    dress to get her Prince Charming, and neither do you. Just be patient.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 21

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    I can't asleep, again.

    Anyone like to talk? Guys of age, please. 18 to atleast 35.
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 15 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It's hard knowing what you think you want

    and what you need are two different things...
    aftie aftie 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    People Who Mean Well.....

    EDIT: I have since found someone incredibly special--just goes to show that when you aren't even expecting it, the right love can come along and ♥♥♥♥ I'm so glad I didn't rush, it allowed me to find the perfect guy♥I have since left this group....... but go ahead and...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 97 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    nothingme nothingme 22-25, F 49 Responses Jul 25

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    I really only find the idea of a relationship

    with a women who's a minimum of ten years older than myself appealing. I get around enough but I find my age group to be boring. It may just be because my friends have been older than me my whole life but its just easier to get along with them. Approaching them however...
    Noyce1993 Noyce1993 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am single this is true.

    Now, what do I plan to do, I haven't a clue...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have given up on trying to find a

    relationship. It has been so long and lonely on my own for all these years. Women turn away when I try to talk to them. No girl has ever wanted to talk to me. I am short and ugly and I think I should just try to live a life alone. All I have ever wanted is a relationship...
    memph31 memph31 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Oh yes I am! i've never dated anyone before

    but that's okay I'm pretty happy being single :)
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 46 Responses Jun 8

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    and I'm having way more fun

    than I ever was when I was married aha :)
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 27 Responses Jul 5

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    Maha123k Maha123k 22-25, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    0121nat 0121nat 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Jasondakidd Jasondakidd 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I've only been in one relationship ever

    and it was with someone who wasn't a very good person, so honestly I have just about no relationship experience. That doesn't mean I don't know how to treat a person right however. While I do want a girlfriend, I won't rush into anything. My "relationship" taught me what I...
    carmeloo16 carmeloo16 16-17, M 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Confessions Of A Single Gal

    Here is a little insight into a girl’s perspective on being single. As we all know, being single especially after a certain age, is looked down upon, rather than admired. Because let’s face it, having standards and meeting them, is much harder than just settling for the next...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 29 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    For the past few days I've had a ache in my

    heart. This ache has consumed every ounce of me and I'm now longing to act on it. Longing to plant a kiss on a woman's forehead, to hold her hand and caress her skin, to make her feel beautiful and loved. To look into her eyes and smile at her. I long to enter a relationship...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    HONESTLY I'M PROBABLY SINGLE BECAUSE.

    .. I never forwarded those chain messages in 2009 :/
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    And having a relationship isn't everything.

    You can still have fun without a boyfriend/girlfriend.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 23 Responses Jun 29

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