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I Am Single

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    I'm 19 years old and I've been single

    for 19 of those years. Guys just don't find me interesting. I'd like to think I'm not hideous. Even if I am, I've seen hideous women who are in relationships. I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying that to be honest. I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to be in a...
    BuffaloSoilder BuffaloSoilder 18-21, F 63 Responses May 21

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    i am scared to change this too

    because i always end up getting hurt and cheated on
    Codyweb Codyweb 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The girl I like found out

    that I like her. I was never going to say anything until she asked because I was afraid of ruining the friendship.
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    17 years-old or less kids saying they are sick

    of being single, are they for real?
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 46 Responses Jul 28

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    When I see a happy couple its more like "you 2

    are so adorable". I hope I can be as happy
    animegeek889 animegeek889 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    sinsoftheflesh sinsoftheflesh 18-21, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who’s Single

    I just discovered a blog called "Single Dad Laughing". He's brilliant. I thought I'd share one of his posts about the dumb things people say when you tell them you're single... I laughed so hard when I read it I had tears in my eyes. So, why are you single?Ummm, maybe because I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Sometimes i think about my ex

    and ask WHY? He was a compulsive liar and I'm not talking about he lied once in a while he lied about EVERYTHING. if i asked him what color was the sky he would tell me red or if i asked what color was the grass he would say blue. he also used me because i had a car and he didn...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    nothingme nothingme 22-25, F 49 Responses Jul 25

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    I hate it. Love is like crack.

    Once someone "gives" it to you, you want more and more. I want somebody to love... shout out to Queen...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    "Seven Virtues of Singlehood..."

    I received this forwarded text message from one of my friends and I just wanna share it to you: "1. the joy of flirting 2. the thrill of anticipation 3. the freedom of choice 4. the challenge of the chase 5. the gift of guy friends 6. the adoration of self 7. the...
    unappreciated unappreciated 22-25, F 39 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    No one wants me ,I'm not good enough

    and I'm replaceable. I've been feeling like this for sometime.Not fishing for attention, it's simply my reality..I feel like I'm cursed..
    cassh3rn cassh3rn 22-25, F 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It's been 3 years since an actual relationship

    has occurred in my life. Trust me, I've tried. Countless no shows on dates. Countless "you're like my little sister"s. Endless, "So your friend is single?"s. I guess sometimes life steers you in another direction. It's just too bad my direction doesn't fall with a significant...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 108 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I'm too hot for ugly people

    and too ugly for hot people
    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 78 Responses May 5

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    normal people flirting: hey you're cute,

    we should go out sometimes. me trying to flirt: so do u like bread?
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 17

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    Beware. I’m in a mood.

    Apparently I’m intimidating to men. Me, a person who shouldn’t be intimidating to anyone, ever. I intimidate people.. so I’m a liability.Do you know what I miss? I miss not having to be perfect. I miss not having to be conspicuously interrogated by potential suitors to see...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 43 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    People Who Mean Well.....

    EDIT: I have since found someone incredibly special--just goes to show that when you aren't even expecting it, the right love can come along and ♥♥♥♥ I'm so glad I didn't rush, it allowed me to find the perfect guy♥I have since left this group....... but go ahead and...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 97 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Remember Cinderella didn't need to take off her

    dress to get her Prince Charming, and neither do you. Just be patient.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 21

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    Always have and always will.

    And even if i do meet a girl i wouldn't marry her or have kids with her. So there is no point in me getting into a relationship.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm single and honestly right

    now I'm kinda happy about it. I have no pressure to do anything I don't want to do and I can look at all the boys I want to.
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate being single. So lonely.

    I'm 30 and no family of my own
    nanook30 nanook30 26-30, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    So I have been single

    for 2 years now...I guess I am not the kind of girl that guys don't particularly go for..this is me everyone..what do you think?
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 125 Responses 6 days ago

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    And having a relationship isn't everything.

    You can still have fun without a boyfriend/girlfriend.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 23 Responses Jun 29

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    I never used to worry about it,

    but now that I'm almost 18 I find myself craving intimacy with a girl more than anything else. I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about a girl that I can enjoy cuddling and watching movies with. A girl that doesn't mind listening to what I have to say about...
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 22 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Single... It isn't a status.

    But it's a word. A word that describes a person to live and enjoy life WITHOUT depending on someone else.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 16

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    I'm single. Ain't got no man,

    who wants to flirt? ;) no one over 35 though!
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 13 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I hate valentines day,

    it's just another opportunity for you to feel lonely
    Rebeccaej Rebeccaej 13-15, F 44 Responses Jan 15

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    As long as I'm happy,

    being single is not a big deal! mmm hope so...
    purpleczsai purpleczsai 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'd rather be single

    and miss you than to be with you and feel single.
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    HONESTLY I'M PROBABLY SINGLE BECAUSE.

    .. I never forwarded those chain messages in 2009 :/
    SecretiveLady SecretiveLady 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    (Sees happy couple) *singing*

    imalonerimalonerimalonerimalonerimalonerimalonerimaloner.
    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Partly by choice, partly not.

    Almost all of my friends and family say that I need a boyfriend. I'd be fine with one too if he didn't get in the way of band, school, racing, sleeping, or college prep. However, I am attracted to intelligence and wit. There's just no one I want to be with. There is no one that...
    ZydecoVivo ZydecoVivo 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Aren't you happy they got together at the end

    of the movie?! "It's not my thing." You should give him a chance, I see you two working out. "It's... not my thing?" Let's watch this show, I totally ship that brunette with blue eyes. "Not my thing." Let me get this straight... you don't want to go out with guys? "It's not...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Most guys around me are jerks.

    ....and the nice ones are taken. Glad I have internet and food💕
    Ancllevyn Ancllevyn 16-17, F 32 Responses Apr 30

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    Sometimes the person miles away from you can

    make you feel better than the person next to you 👍💯😉
    Tyler8432 Tyler8432 16-17, M 10 Responses Jan 21

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    It makes me sad that

    so many of the people in this group are 13-15 years old and are desperately looking for someone. Please, do not waste your time. Build your personalities and self-esteem before going into a relationship. Do not look for love because you are lonely.... I made that mistake and it...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 25 Responses Aug 11

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    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i am currently in a super-serious relationship

    with Ariana Grande......she just doesn't yet
    piercethemack piercethemack 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    No offence but if you're 12 you can't be

    complaining about how you've been single all your life and that relationships don't work for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 24 Responses Jul 6

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    I am a person, didn't care what the other said,

    I know who I am and I know what I want....I am a lesbian that love a care of a woman, love a love of a woman...but I have no experience to have a girlfriend because I want to have an honor to take care of woman...
    Jae10 Jae10 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been for just over a year

    and a half. Its fine, I hated it at first but I like my own company so thats ok. Trouble is now I have no idea how to meet new people lol.. and your confidence goes down. Still I get to do things I enjoy alot more so thats great:)
    staticdreams staticdreams 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I forget what are feeling in love.

    I think fall in love is easy than break up. So even if a boy told me he like me. I chose to be alone.
    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want one of those cute relationships

    where you call each other name but don't get offended, give each other cute nicknames, play fight, text until like 2 in the morning, stay home and play video games all day.. But that's not gonna happen :c
    marvelherogirl marvelherogirl 13-15, F 10 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Ready

    Dear future boyfriend, Im ready to be in a relationship, I'm done being single. Please be kind, make me laugh when I'm crying, and above all, please be faithful. In return, I will eventually give you my heart, and I will be faithful. When your sick I will take care of you, when...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 44 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Devinette Devinette 18-21, F 40 Responses May 8

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    People ask me why are u single

    or they ask is any one chasing after u but i just say nope :) because im waiting for that special someone who will treat me like a princess and that i give him my heart and my everything to so in till then i will be waiting <3
    desitor desitor 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Oh yes I am! i've never dated anyone before

    but that's okay I'm pretty happy being single :)
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 46 Responses Jun 8

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    heart it if you are single.

    lets see if we can get a record!! I want more than 100. heart even if you are not single!!!!!!!!!!!
    manyquestions101 manyquestions101 13-15, F 12 Responses Jun 29

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    imjon imjon 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Mmaaaaaaaan. I just want someone to cuddle,

    make out, tell me dumb jokes and play wrestle with. Ugh, I hate being single.
    xAnonxx xAnonxx 13-15, F 41 Responses May 4

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    I'm afraid that I'll become

    so used to be alone that I won't know how to "share me" when that special someone comes around.
    vidalynna vidalynna 26-30, F 39 Responses Apr 28

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