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I Am So Angry At My Husband

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    Not So Angry Today.....

    Hello again.... Well my ol' husband actually earned some brownie points yesterday.... I've been sick with strep throat, and he actually went to the store for me, and picked up my medicine, and took care of the kids.... all without complaining!!  Amazing!  I knew...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Wtf????

    My husband of almost 6 years was so furious with me yesterday. Why? He wouldn't tell me. He said he was too angry to talk. He played video games and was all laughs. Then I come into the picture and he cannot talk to me without snapping at me and being angry. Still no reason...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    I Am So Angry At My Partner

    because I am a stay at home mum who is just not meant to be! I feel like I am wasting my life and that there should be more to life than this. I love my kids more than words, but I feel so useless and hopeless without a career to go to each day. I don't think that men understand...
    jenski1102 jenski1102 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Fried Green Spouse

    Today, as always, I arose from the king-sized bed in which I sleep alone, and reached for the phone to check for a text from my lover. Of course, it was there. Immediately, I felt guilty and mentally self-flagellated for being such a lovesick idiot. On the drive to work, I...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Why Do We Keep Our Anger a Secret?

    I am furious with my husband. I have been for weeks, maybe months or years. I don't know where to start so I'll start with this evening. I was online looking for a job and he came in the bedroom obviously exhausted and ready to go to bed. So I logged off the computer, shut...
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    Today my husbad and I went to talk to a lawyer about filing bankruptcy. He wanted to add the second mortgage to the filing and the lawyer told him we can't. He's been yelling and spouting at me all day since. We can't afford the house, we have never been able to afford the house...
    duckie2 duckie2 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    My husband it's always on craiglist looking at

    personal ads and messaging, asking for pictures, and giving out his phone number to set something up. He tries to hide it from me but I always catch him. This last time, he told me to get over it because he isn't doing anything wrong because he didn't actually meet up with...
    jesuissarah1 jesuissarah1 31-35, F Jun 15

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    im not completely sure

    if i should be upset with my husband or not but i am, i have never been married before so i dont know how these things work. I think my husband's ex is very pretty (even though my friends think its all in my head) and this makes me insecure, sometimes i just think about it and...
    izzyd izzyd 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Back From the Marriage Conference.....

    Hello again... I want to write and give you an update on how the marriage conference was...... but I'm dead tired right now and it's 2:30 in the morning.  But here's a brief synopsis.... I was very uncomfortable during the whole thing - they had these group exercises plus...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2008

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    First I would like to know

    why men go to **** shops and watch people have sex. This has been going on several times a week. It disgusts me.
    hughecar hughecar 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I had a bottle of 30 Percocet I had filled back

    in Aug. for severe headaches. Up until today I never had to take any. I have a horrible headache today, finally broke down, go to open the bottle and they're all gone. So in addition to all the other ways my husband sucks he now apparently has a pill popping/ prescription drug...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    Tired Of My Husband He Is Selfish

    I work full time as my husband . During our marriage I have picked up second jobs when things have been hard. He has never gotten a second job and I feel tired of struggling when he could actually help with the burden. Also he is drowning in debt. So tired.
    katemz katemz 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    My toddler girl has been having tantrums most

    of the morning. I'm not sure what set her off. Anyways, I called my H and asked him to come home from work, but he said he had meetings and things to do. He spoke to her over the phone to try to calm her down. It didn't work. He said that he'd help when he got off from work. I...
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    So Much For My Day At the Gym!

    I am sooooooooooo angry at my husband! I was supposed to be at my gym class an hour ago. Instead I am here at home watching the kids because my husband is in bed. I know that in his heart he doesn't want me to lose weight because he is insecure and is worried that he will have...
    jedimojo jedimojo 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    It's The Petty Crap That Is Getting To Me....

    We live in a 55 plus community and so we live in a very tiny house. We have a 1 person kitchen but no matter how many times I say "I am cooking Get Out" - he just has to make his cup of tea - and it's not just water and tea bag - It's a flippin production. (kettle, cup, milk and...
    ktr924 ktr924 46-50 4 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    Why Me

    Im so angry right. i found out almost a week ago that my husband cheated for the THIRD time in 3 years. the first time i ignored because we weren't even in love. we got married bc i was pregnant and since we were both in the Army we didn't want to be separated trying to raise a...
    heavenslilangl14 heavenslilangl14 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    I Resent My Husband.

    I have been with my husband for almost 11 years.  For most of the time we have been quite happy, but recently I seem to want to blame him and hate him for EVERYTHING.  A year ago we had a little girl.  We planned the pregancy and I listened to all his lies about...
    loribrenne loribrenne 26-30 8 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I'm So Freaking Pissed At My Husband I Could Scream!

    Living with a man that I cant stand everyday I watch him and listen to his lie's... He tells me that he love me? He doesn't even know the meaning of the word Love. Love doesn't mean you can carry a hidden cell phone? Love doesn't mean that you can rip your family off so you can...
    walkingonsunshine walkingonsunshine 46-50, F 15 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    Yesterday, I heard my man in the bathroom

    and he was obviously m@sturb..... Instead of stop, he kept going while I asked him a question about the dishwasher. Doesn't that seem so disrespectful?
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 23

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    My husband was supposed to take our tax return

    money to pay off his 401B loan (or whatever that's called) so we could take out another one to pay off our credit cards. I go on maternity leave Aug. 1st and will prob. not be returning to work since we'd end up barely breaking even with paying for childcare vs. me working. 2 1...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    My Husband Has Been Gone For 5 Days

    Ok we have been together for 6 years I love my husband more then anything in the world he is my everything! He has a drug problem he tries to get clean by him self but it only last about a week and then he takes off some times for a day some times for multiple days right now he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    No Communication Whatsoever!

    Well he's not my husband yet, but nevertheless, i'm sooooo angry at him. He doesn't understand anything. He lives in his own world where everything is fine apparently and he doesn't want to talk about anything that's wrong in our relationship. His only "solution" to the issues...
    FinstereGasse FinstereGasse 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2, 2013

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    Stuck Like Chuck

    I have been in this marriage for 19 yrs and I truly do love my husband but he has some ways about him that I totally hate. Okay, we own a bar and I manage it but I do have a problem with alcohol which is not the right thing for me to be going through. I am in counseling for...
    avonex1 avonex1 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2010

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    What He Does Best

    This is one of those times again when I feel like kicking him out of the house. I don't know how and why I ever married such an irresponsible man. As they always say, if I only knew then, what I know now. (Sighs) I really love my children that's why I am trying to keep things...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 7 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    He's gone from home two weeks

    and when he comes home its a kiss, a snooze, and then TV followed by phone calls to his friends and then a quickie in the shower before bed. This morning his 3 hour golf game became he's gone all day. What am I? Chopped liver, a trophy wife to be showed off at his convenience...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 41-45, F Mar 22

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    Once Again He Can't Support Me

    Tomorrow I've got to get a digital retinal scan because of diabetes. I've been told not to drive for a few hours after so had asked my husband to take me and drive me home. Not a big ask, given that it's only about a mile away - but too far tobwalk with my disability. I also...
    Momamoo Momamoo 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Years Of Unsolved Problems

    I'm just so sick and tired of our relationship, what there is of one! I don't know why I bothered spending money on the marriage book, his bookmark has been stuck on page 61 for a month now!  My anger is building up, and getting worse; my patience has ran out. I want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    The Frontyard Project From Hell

    My husband and I have been married for 18 years now however we dont have children but we have dogs. Ever since my back injury , I lost any drive to be sexually close to him and what makes it worse that we havent gone on a vacation . Slowly we are doing other things on our own. He...
    iaKogami iaKogami 46-50, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Well, really more sad

    and disappointed...My husband and I had a fight about sex again...He said that he is moving out now. I'm in such a bad place right now. I never thought that he would do this!! He's looking for places to stay now and hopes to be out within the month. I'm worried that we're...
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    Dont Even Know What To Do

    So this just happened, earlier this afternoon my husband Pa was out at the pubs and when he got back I was still cleaning. He was sweaty from work earlier that morning so he decided to take a shower. Pa was in the shower and I was resetting the clocks now that we have electricity...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    How Do I Stop Being So Angry?

    I am not sure if I am angry with my husband or just hate him.As I am sitting here in the bedroom angry with him, a 45 year old man is downstairs playing video games! That is something I would expect out of one of my sons, not a so called mature man. I work full time, have 4...
    Sugar1975 Sugar1975 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    So Angry At My Husband

    I am so angry at my husband. We got married 2 and a half years ago. He is an artist and I am a hard working professionnal working extra long hours, always away from the house, always on business trips around North America. I am probably away from the house 75% pf the time. I...
    mafuta mafuta 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Embarrasses Me In Front Of Others

    My partner has a thing for embarrassing me in front of others. Usually it's to contradict things I say, or to re-tell something humiliating that happened to me. Just now, in front of someone we barley know, he announced that I'm in receipt of social welfare. Now, to me, this...
    porcelain1 porcelain1 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    New. Am I Allowed To Be Angry?

    Feel so trapped right now. Been married 18 years to a very complex man. 4 beautiful children now teenagers who I/we love very much. Just awesome kids who love their parents. From the outside we have a beautiful marriage and family, and everyone says so. Is this where all...
    Shanafornow Shanafornow 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Angry At My Husband

    I have been married for 4 years. My husband is an *** but can be a good guy when he wants to. I have found lately that he makes me so angry every day. Some days I can't believe how angry he makes me. We work for the same company so we tend to spend a lot of time together. We go...
    Confusedandangry3 Confusedandangry3 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    Now What??

      I am currently staying at home with my kids and my husband works.  Money is pretty tight right now, but we felt that it was important that we raise our own kids and not someone else. Whenever we have money issues my husband brings up the fact that all the...
    immi4444 immi4444 31-35 6 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    Found my hubby chatting online with girls

    asking them to go out of couse lying saying he's single. Is that cheating? What should I do?
    suleka33 suleka33 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 22

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    Angry, disappointed and depressed.

    I have only been married for a little over a year but I just can't seem to take it anymore. Our communication is a disaster and I get more frustration out of our relationship than anything else. We dated four years before getting married. Our relationship was very rocky from...
    Supportiveone Supportiveone 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    Reciprocity Defined

    Here's a term used in the social sciences. Reciprocity in communication means that when you divulge important, personal information to an intimate partner that your partner should ideally "reciprocate". When this doesn't happen, you likely feel shortchanged and a little annoyed...
    ubasti ubasti 70+ 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Tamona35 Tamona35 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Practical Example, Am I Crazy?

    So I'm writing right now as my husband is sleeping - a typical response when we have a communication issue he's not happy about. He huffs and goes to bed. What happened? Please tell me what you think of this random example of what I see as wrong in our marriage. We have an 11...
    Shanafornow Shanafornow 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My Husband Said He Just Needed Some Time Alone. But He Moved In With Someone Else and Lied About It.

    I'm so angry at my husband, and so sad and so betrayed. My anger at him is threatening my sanity. I just can't believe that he can live with himself after what he did... We have been together more than 16 years. Our 12-year wedding anniversary is tomorrow (Monday...
    feelbetrayed feelbetrayed 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    The dog eats an entire Hershey bar,

    a bag of chips, marshmallows and beef jerkey bc my effing husband left the pantry door open. As usual he's too busy thinking about himself and his stupid effing golf game. Completely self absorbed in his own little world. The wrappers are strewn all over the house and will stay...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    "what's For Dinner?"

    I joined this group so I can rant about all the **** my husband does that ****** me off.He doesn't cook, he doesn't clean the kitchen when I cook. He has a long list of things he doesn't like or can't eat. He won't eat leftovers. If I don't feel like cooking, he goes and spends...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    My husband has been tired

    and on edge due to work. He works 14-16 hour days and when he gets home he has nothing left for me. Tonight, we ordered Indian takeout with two types of bread. Garlic (mine) and plain (his). Without thinking, I reached for a piece of his bread and he snatched it away from me...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 23

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    Small Smiles

    even through all of this horror that is my life right now i feel the need to remember there is some good. for the past couple months i have been trying to lose weight with no budge. i eat right work out and dont over indulge. well im finally seeing the scale move in the direction...
    heavenslilangl14 heavenslilangl14 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Casting: Divorcing Couples

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    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F May 9, 2013

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    Testimony

    First of all i want to thank kristina for the post she made on how dr khakani helped her in bringing back her lover before christmas.At first when i saw the posting i was so happy and in the other hand so scared,That this might not be real, Then i decided to give it a try in...
    vanpretty001 vanpretty001 26-30 May 16, 2013

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    It's Hopeless......

    I'm so angry at my husband that we've hardly spoken all week......  I just don't care anymore.  It's just SO much easier to ignore him than to try to talk about things and get in a big fight.  Oh, and the hilarious thing is that we're going to go to a marriage...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2008

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    My husband didn't get me anything

    for our first wedding anniversary, and it's even on valentines day!
    nizzle33 nizzle33 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 26

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