I Am So Angry At My Husband

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    Let's face it, every relationship has up

    and down days. We all want that loving, soul mate, got it together, and not terribly unattractive love. I've got it..... sometimes. And sometimes I feel so betrayed by this unknown character living in my husband's body. So deeply angry that we don't seem like anything other...
    someonelikemyheart someonelikemyheart
    31-35, F
    Sep 9, 2015

    No Communication Whatsoever!

    Well he's not my husband yet, but nevertheless, i'm sooooo angry at him. He doesn't understand anything. He lives in his own world where everything is fine apparently and he doesn't want to talk about anything that's wrong in our relationship. His only "solution" to the issues...
    FinstereGasse FinstereGasse
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 2, 2013

    Practical Example, Am I Crazy?

    So I'm writing right now as my husband is sleeping - a typical response when we have a communication issue he's not happy about. He huffs and goes to bed. What happened? Please tell me what you think of this random example of what I see as wrong in our marriage. We have an 11...
    Shanafornow Shanafornow
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    I'm going to see a solicitor today to see what

    my options are regarding divorce... I may have to wait another 5 months before I can apply for a divorce but I don't care as long as I get the alcoholic waste of space out of my life! I never thought I'd feel as much hatred towards him as I do now. I really do hate him to the...
    deleted deleted
    May 7, 2015

    My Husband Said He Just Needed Some Time Alone. But He Moved In With Someone Else and Lied About It.

    I'm so angry at my husband, and so sad and so betrayed. My anger at him is threatening my sanity. I just can't believe that he can live with himself after what he did... We have been together more than 16 years. Our 12-year wedding anniversary is tomorrow (Monday...
    feelbetrayed feelbetrayed
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

    Found my hubby chatting online with girls

    asking them to go out of couse lying saying he's single. Is that cheating? What should I do?
    suleka33 suleka33
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    What He Does Best

    This is one of those times again when I feel like kicking him out of the house. I don't know how and why I ever married such an irresponsible man. As they always say, if I only knew then, what I know now. (Sighs) I really love my children that's why I am trying to keep things...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jun 11, 2013

    The dog eats an entire Hershey bar,

    a bag of chips, marshmallows and beef jerkey bc my effing husband left the pantry door open. As usual he's too busy thinking about himself and his stupid effing golf game. Completely self absorbed in his own little world. The wrappers are strewn all over the house and will stay...
    typsygypsy typsygypsy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    My Husband Has Been Gone For 5 Days

    Ok we have been together for 6 years I love my husband more then anything in the world he is my everything! He has a drug problem he tries to get clean by him self but it only last about a week and then he takes off some times for a day some times for multiple days right now he's...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Apr 1, 2012

    I had a bottle of 30 Percocet I had filled back

    in Aug. for severe headaches. Up until today I never had to take any. I have a horrible headache today, finally broke down, go to open the bottle and they're all gone. So in addition to all the other ways my husband sucks he now apparently has a pill popping/ prescription drug...
    typsygypsy typsygypsy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2014

    So Much For My Day At the Gym!

    I am sooooooooooo angry at my husband! I was supposed to be at my gym class an hour ago. Instead I am here at home watching the kids because my husband is in bed. I know that in his heart he doesn't want me to lose weight because he is insecure and is worried that he will have...
    jedimojo jedimojo
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 24, 2008

    Fried Green Spouse

    Today, as always, I arose from the king-sized bed in which I sleep alone, and reached for the phone to check for a text from my lover. Of course, it was there. Immediately, I felt guilty and mentally self-flagellated for being such a lovesick idiot. On the drive to work, I...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Jul 8, 2010

    Sometimes I hate my husband

    so much. Sometimes I really resent him. He can be such an ***. Sometimes I wish he'd just fall off the face of the earth & I'd have the opportunity to start fresh. The only thing that's keeping me here right now is our daughter. But if he can't figure out what he has, I will not...
    wantingconnections wantingconnections
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I Don't Know What To Do

    Today my husbad and I went to talk to a lawyer about filing bankruptcy. He wanted to add the second mortgage to the filing and the lawyer told him we can't. He's been yelling and spouting at me all day since. We can't afford the house, we have never been able to afford the house...
    duckie2 duckie2
    61-65, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    Years Of Unsolved Problems

    I'm just so sick and tired of our relationship, what there is of one! I don't know why I bothered spending money on the marriage book, his bookmark has been stuck on page 61 for a month now!  My anger is building up, and getting worse; my patience has ran out. I want...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2009

    He saw my orange medical jug,

    in the car, and asked what's that for? I told him it was for testing, my pregnancy is having complications. He said wanna go to royal farms for chicken? WTF! I guess fried chicken is more important than inquiring about the health and mental state of your pregnant wife.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid
    36-40, F
    Apr 9, 2015


    My husband of almost 6 years was so furious with me yesterday. Why? He wouldn't tell me. He said he was too angry to talk. He played video games and was all laughs. Then I come into the picture and he cannot talk to me without snapping at me and being angry. Still no reason...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    Angry, disappointed and depressed.

    I have only been married for a little over a year but I just can't seem to take it anymore. Our communication is a disaster and I get more frustration out of our relationship than anything else. We dated four years before getting married. Our relationship was very rocky from...
    Supportiveone Supportiveone
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014

    I Resent My Husband.

    I have been with my husband for almost 11 years.  For most of the time we have been quite happy, but recently I seem to want to blame him and hate him for EVERYTHING.  A year ago we had a little girl.  We planned the pregancy and I listened to all his lies about...
    loribrenne loribrenne
    8 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    He's gone from home two weeks

    and when he comes home its a kiss, a snooze, and then TV followed by phone calls to his friends and then a quickie in the shower before bed. This morning his 3 hour golf game became he's gone all day. What am I? Chopped liver, a trophy wife to be showed off at his convenience...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest
    46-50, F
    Mar 22, 2014

    Tired Of My Husband He Is Selfish

    I work full time as my husband . During our marriage I have picked up second jobs when things have been hard. He has never gotten a second job and I feel tired of struggling when he could actually help with the burden. Also he is drowning in debt. So tired.
    katemz katemz
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    So he went for a beer run

    and never made it back. He left with his buddies nine hours ago. I was texting him as it was getting later about his location so he blocked my cell phone and house phone. I am so angry and so worried. I even made a lap around the neighborhood hoping to find him and the road...
    mammabee1 mammabee1
    6 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    He is perfectly fine laying on the couch all

    day watching tv but wants to ***** at our 9 year old for being on the computer. Here's a novel idea DO SOMETHING WITH HIM! Take him out side and throw the ball ride bikes or play a board game. Such a sorry excuse for a father
    bethany444 bethany444
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    "what's For Dinner?"

    I joined this group so I can rant about all the **** my husband does that ****** me off.He doesn't cook, he doesn't clean the kitchen when I cook. He has a long list of things he doesn't like or can't eat. He won't eat leftovers. If I don't feel like cooking, he goes and spends...
    lisa36 lisa36
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Jan 18, 2011

    It's Hopeless......

    I'm so angry at my husband that we've hardly spoken all week......  I just don't care anymore.  It's just SO much easier to ignore him than to try to talk about things and get in a big fight.  Oh, and the hilarious thing is that we're going to go to a marriage...
    Psalm23 Psalm23
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2008

    Stuck Like Chuck

    I have been in this marriage for 19 yrs and I truly do love my husband but he has some ways about him that I totally hate. Okay, we own a bar and I manage it but I do have a problem with alcohol which is not the right thing for me to be going through. I am in counseling for...
    avonex1 avonex1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2010

    Why Do We Keep Our Anger a Secret?

    I am furious with my husband. I have been for weeks, maybe months or years. I don't know where to start so I'll start with this evening. I was online looking for a job and he came in the bedroom obviously exhausted and ready to go to bed. So I logged off the computer, shut...
    deleted deleted
    18 Responses Jan 13, 2009

    Not So Angry Today.....

    Hello again.... Well my ol' husband actually earned some brownie points yesterday.... I've been sick with strep throat, and he actually went to the store for me, and picked up my medicine, and took care of the kids.... all without complaining!!  Amazing!  I knew...
    Psalm23 Psalm23
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2008

    My divorce is final! After nearly 20 years of

    being married to a selfish, cheating, emotionally bankrupt narcissist, I am finally free. I thought I should cry when my divorce papers came in the mail. I tried to cry. But at that point, I felt too free and too liberated. It wasn't easy and it still has challenging moments...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    Embarrasses Me In Front Of Others

    My partner has a thing for embarrassing me in front of others. Usually it's to contradict things I say, or to re-tell something humiliating that happened to me. Just now, in front of someone we barley know, he announced that I'm in receipt of social welfare. Now, to me, this...
    porcelain1 porcelain1
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

    First I would like to know

    why men go to **** shops and watch people have sex. This has been going on several times a week. It disgusts me.
    hughecar hughecar
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    My husband it's always on craiglist looking at

    personal ads and messaging, asking for pictures, and giving out his phone number to set something up. He tries to hide it from me but I always catch him. This last time, he told me to get over it because he isn't doing anything wrong because he didn't actually meet up with...
    jesuissarah1 jesuissarah1
    36-40, F
    Jun 15, 2014

    Why would my husband text Hope you fed the

    kids bud Wtf I always cook for them why would tonight be any different
    Graceof5 Graceof5
    31-35, F
    Aug 15, 2015

    My husband has been tired

    and on edge due to work. He works 14-16 hour days and when he gets home he has nothing left for me. Tonight, we ordered Indian takeout with two types of bread. Garlic (mine) and plain (his). Without thinking, I reached for a piece of his bread and he snatched it away from me...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    He works normal hours,

    8-9. Desk Job for the military, that is sometimes so slow that I hear stories of how they watched whole movies and got to just hang around and laugh at things on Imgur for most of the day and order food. Along with all weekends and holidays off even the little ones. But he comes...
    MonsterMonster MonsterMonster
    1 Response Mar 14, 2015

    What a ******* *****.

    .. Do do do for him, what do I get ZERO, yes I get it you went to work, welcome to ******* adulthood jackass. Oh, you need that? Sure I'll get it for you, awwww you bought a new Xbox game, here let me put these groceries back on the shelf.... Because seriously it's getting to the...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 1, 2015

    My husband was supposed to take our tax return

    money to pay off his 401B loan (or whatever that's called) so we could take out another one to pay off our credit cards. I go on maternity leave Aug. 1st and will prob. not be returning to work since we'd end up barely breaking even with paying for childcare vs. me working. 2 1...
    typsygypsy typsygypsy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2014

    im not completely sure

    if i should be upset with my husband or not but i am, i have never been married before so i dont know how these things work. I think my husband's ex is very pretty (even though my friends think its all in my head) and this makes me insecure, sometimes i just think about it and...
    izzyd izzyd
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2014

    My husband's son, daughter-in-law,

    three grandkids, their four dogs, various lizards, snakes, and a cat moved in with us last November, six months ago. They are losing their house in California and my stepson is studying to take the Texas electrician's license exam (he's been an electrician in California for...
    NeglectedTexan NeglectedTexan
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    Now What??

      I am currently staying at home with my kids and my husband works.  Money is pretty tight right now, but we felt that it was important that we raise our own kids and not someone else. Whenever we have money issues my husband brings up the fact that all the...
    immi4444 immi4444
    6 Responses Apr 22, 2009

    Small Smiles

    even through all of this horror that is my life right now i feel the need to remember there is some good. for the past couple months i have been trying to lose weight with no budge. i eat right work out and dont over indulge. well im finally seeing the scale move in the direction...
    heavenslilangl14 heavenslilangl14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

    My husband didn't get me anything

    for our first wedding anniversary, and it's even on valentines day!
    nizzle33 nizzle33
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 26, 2014
    Tamona35 Tamona35
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    We had a bad birth experience with our first

    daughter being delivered sleeping at a large hospital. It was a much more pleasant experience in a small country hospital for our second. Now I'm pregnant with our third but have put on too much weight to birth at the small hospital. My husband says if I birth at the large...
    aussiegirl2014 aussiegirl2014
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    I don't think it's right to eat meat

    or dairy, but if we're taking it in turns to cook, my husband makes chicken for us to eat together.
    SunshineRosy SunshineRosy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    New. Am I Allowed To Be Angry?

    Feel so trapped right now. Been married 18 years to a very complex man. 4 beautiful children now teenagers who I/we love very much. Just awesome kids who love their parents. From the outside we have a beautiful marriage and family, and everyone says so. Is this where all...
    Shanafornow Shanafornow
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    I'm So Freaking Pissed At My Husband I Could Scream!

    Living with a man that I cant stand everyday I watch him and listen to his lie's... He tells me that he love me? He doesn't even know the meaning of the word Love. Love doesn't mean you can carry a hidden cell phone? Love doesn't mean that you can rip your family off so you can...
    walkingonsunshine walkingonsunshine
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Apr 2, 2011

    Back From the Marriage Conference.....

    Hello again... I want to write and give you an update on how the marriage conference was...... but I'm dead tired right now and it's 2:30 in the morning.  But here's a brief synopsis.... I was very uncomfortable during the whole thing - they had these group exercises plus...
    Psalm23 Psalm23
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2008

    I Am So Angry At My Partner

    because I am a stay at home mum who is just not meant to be! I feel like I am wasting my life and that there should be more to life than this. I love my kids more than words, but I feel so useless and hopeless without a career to go to each day. I don't think that men understand...
    jenski1102 jenski1102
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    How Do I Stop Being So Angry?

    I am not sure if I am angry with my husband or just hate him.As I am sitting here in the bedroom angry with him, a 45 year old man is downstairs playing video games! That is something I would expect out of one of my sons, not a so called mature man. I work full time, have 4...
    Sugar1975 Sugar1975
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Oct 28, 2012
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