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I Am So Conflicted and Confused

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    my ex gf's moms ex gf kissed me tonight

    after we got really drunk and I liked it? I have no idea how to feel or what to do :/
    cubshadow cubshadow 18-21 1 Response Apr 28

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    Conflictedness Never Stops

    Heart: It's alright, you'll be fine! Brain: No you won't. You're going to mess this up just like everything else. Heart: No she won't! You be nice! Brain: You know it's true. You KNOW she'll mess everything up just like always. She'll just have to deal with being miserable, now...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Trying to Run In 3 Directions At Once!

     There are so many things to get done and only so many hours in which to do them so you prioritize and then comeone comes up with a new priority and you start the craziness all over again!  Why can't life be more predictable?  Well, in a cemetary it is but I'm not...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 9 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Thou Shalt Not Love.

    I'm torn between what I know in my heart and what I know from my Faith. At the moment, faith's winning out. I wish I knew what to believe.
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I Am Numb From This Morning's Meltdown

    The past few months have been so hard for me. In October, I was raped by my brother in law, in November my fiance and I broke up and this month has been nothing but family drama and trauma and an enormous amount of stress. A little background info.. I am disabled from a failed...
    tmarker86 tmarker86 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I just found the ticket stub from my first date

    with my boyfriend... Also just found that the date on the ticket is the same day my best friend killed himself. I don't know what to feel anymore. X.x
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Glorious Creatures

    So my best friend and I have basically told one another that we're in love with each other. Nice, huh? Well here's the catch ... I'm with someone whom i do love, but also hate. And I want to be with my best friend so bad. But I don't want to lose a potential good thing right now...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Am I Already Too Deep?

    What if all of this is a sick joke to him? It won't be the first time it's happened. If it is, I shouldn't be surprised. And yet, I find myself falling deeper and deeper. I caution myself of the insane abyss just a step away from where I'm standing, and at times I ignore it, but...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Conflicting Feelings

    I feel like I have a very hard time distinguishing right from wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Torn Apart

    So on the one hand there is my father. 81 yrs old, blind and no clue about handling finances, legal stuff or running a household. Also a compulsive hoarder and expects the house to magically clean itself and such. Has health issues that require administration of medications...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    I'm pretty sure I know how you feel.

    But I can't decide whether that's making me move on, or pushing me to try even harder.
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Constantly Fighting With Husband

    I haven't even been married for a year and I don't think my marriage will last.  My husband says that I am not the same since my friend died one year ago. I don't have many friends.  Neither does he.  He always says that we don't have any quality time together, but...
    salongirl salongirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I Don't Get It Why I'm Hurting And He Don't Give A Damn

    I been married for ten years now. We had our good times and what seems like more bad times as of late. I feel like he lost love for me and it prob is something i am not giving enough of or doing enough of but then when I ask I get the it's not you it's me crap. I am tired...
    WendyYang WendyYang 26-30, F Oct 5, 2013

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    Love As Thou Wilt

    I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't happy. He was controlling, but he was also trying to stop. He was trying to fix himself. But I just couldn't wait. I was hurting. From the past and the present. And I thought I was making a good decision, the right one. But now I'm so...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    I can literally feel my mind changing

    and personality changing. Sometimes I'm quiet , sometimes , I'm active , or lazy or thinking alot , being perverted , then being insightful , then being angry , ashamed , happy , goofy, cold , sober , high , drunk, rolling , come downs , I swear I'm my best friend and worst...
    reader44 reader44 26-30, M Apr 21

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    I'm 22 and my boyfriend

    and I started dating 5 years ago. We now have a 2 year old son. We had a rough year or so where we broke up a lot, but we were finally in a very good place when I got pregnant. I question whether or not I would still be with him if I hadn't gotten pregnant. My son truly saved my...
    Milly2012 Milly2012 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Sometimes I get lost in life.

    I have no idea what I am doing or why. Maybe I do, but repetitive failures blur my mind. Then I question myself. Then I forget. While I am stuck here waist deep in confusion, loneliness creeps in.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20

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    Conflicted-what would be the best decision

    for me? Should I be concerned more about the "us"? I feel like I know the answers but there are parts of me that constantly toss the doubts around, further tangling my emotions, thoughts, desires up into a knot of despair...one that is resting deep within me . I feel sick, I...
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I used to live in Germany.

    After high school, i came back to start college in South Carolina. After two years, i moved up to Philadelphia with friends. Now i moved back down to South Carolina to 'finish college,' start a homestead with my brother, and build a business with him as log home builders. On...
    seimiol seimiol 22-25, M Aug 7

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    We'll im a 12 year old boy with divorced

    parents lately meaning the past year or so I have wanted to become and act like a baby again. If anyone has any advise please tell me. By the way i have not told my parents because I'm afraid they will get very mad.
    BabyAgain BabyAgain 61-65, M Apr 3

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    A year ago my best friend

    and I were having conversation at chow baby with one of our old teachers and she was concerned that she was settling for her boyfriend. Back then I thought that she should just leave, like what's the problem but she felt too conflicted for it to be that easy. She thought it...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I Need Quick Respnse. Its About My Boyfriend And His Ex

    Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. I've been in a long term relationship before, but this by far is the happiest I've ever been. We never fight and I consider him my best friend. This is beside the point. The problem isnt my relationship... it is his, with his...
    singergal545 singergal545 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2009

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    Confused Conflicted and Lost.

    it seems to me that i  don know my self, or anything really. every time i think i am getting a solid notion of life, people, relations ANYTHING it changes. there are so many things so many feelings i feel like i can barely speak..and i probably shouldnt because i cant even...
    bambiblue bambiblue 16-17 5 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm trying to make all the different parts of me fit together I'm trying to make myself whole I'm conflicted about who I am And my place in this world There is still so much I don...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 5

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    I am so confused I love my Husband but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being...
    mb1973 mb1973 36-40, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Over the past year I've been struggling with my sexuality a lot,although I don't feel like having a boyfriend,I think it might help me identify weather am a lesbian or not.Am just...
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have a fiance who loves me, treats me well generally....but I seriously doubt my love for him... or I'm so confused. I feel immensely guilty thinking negatively about someone...
    ladymacbeth99 ladymacbeth99 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F Aug 17

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    i am confused whether to go back to my home town or not... am a single mom, and the father of my daughter left us and lived with a married woman. his support is so insufficient...
    ahho ahho 31-35, F Aug 19

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I am so confused... I don't know what I should do with my life, and it stress me, and when I try to think about it i realize my life is pointless and I get so depressed.
    wheredolostsoulsbelong wheredolostsoulsbelong 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm 21 and I "came out" (I don't know for sure what to classify myself as) a few days ago and have been feeling lost/depressed/alone/suicidal to a point, ever since. I was with my...
    sparkyj22 sparkyj22 18-21, F Aug 1

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    August 3. Owning Our Power in Relationships. "So much of what I call my codependency is fear and panic because I spent so much of my life feeling abused, trapped, and not knowing...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Aug 3

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    Ah, the age old question...at least in my case. My whole life I have struggled with this. I've been confused about my gender since I was little girl. Back then, I wanted to be...
    conflictedismymiddlename conflictedismymiddlename 16-17 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I am really confused about my studies, should I carry on , I dont know, I will have next semester soon but the thing is the fees, I dont know , It just too much and still two...
    rockfordseagull rockfordseagull 22-25, M Aug 4

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    I recently started spending time with a group of friends that I had been away from for a long time. When I left, their kids were little... now, not so much. One child in particular...
    CrusherKreel CrusherKreel 41-45, M Aug 5

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    General information about my situation. I met this girl at a mutual friends birthday party. Her presence striked me because she was the only person in attendance I had not met...
    HalfGate HalfGate 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Hi guys:) I am definitely sure that you people out there will be able to assist me in the dilemma that I am currently experiencing!! So there is this guy he is really sweet we met...
    Qila02 Qila02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I am so confused!! I'm scared.
    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    well in the city i was born in and i live in and grew up in has many memories and there have been people i have hurt there... i still live there yes but i applied for a college...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I want to study biotechnology -I found this out today while browsing the web about zoology,my dream subject-and I want to do a major in it through distance education.All my...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F Aug 8

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    I found my boyfriend with one of my friend!! I'm confused and I don't know what to do! I saw he grabbed her with his arms and I didn't wanted to watch it so I leave them alone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 9

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    My guy text me 6 days a week. Recently he started giving me excuse like he needs to call his friend, he cannot chat from FB cox his fren has his password. One day back he said he...
    taradolma taradolma 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm confused. Why am I here? What does it all mean? Do I have a purpose? Or is my purpose to make my own purpose. I don't know. Sometimes, I'd like to know and sometimes I don't...
    disasterland disasterland 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Not True. I was never Confused about my any Relationship. My Heart is Clean as Crystal. I could see through the other persons. My Soul as Pure as it could be as a humble Allah's...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Well again, I am inexperienced in love. I have been married before, but I don't think it was love. As for what qualities are the best in a man, another person put it nicely on here...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I've never been with a girl but I can't stop thinking about how horny they make me. Curious to see where this leads me, any lesbians horny and willing to help a confused girl out...
    Beckybabe16 Beckybabe16 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I was born an XX. But, I don't know if that's me. I don't dress up. Period. I wear jeans and t-shirts on a daily basis. I play video games. I'd rather strap down my breasts than go...
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F Aug 12

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    Confused and worried and also quite tired I'm trying, really i am... but somehow, it keeps going wrong again and again with so much to think about keep getting asked, what's wrong...
    Beanrua Beanrua 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14