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I Am So Conflicted and Confused

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    I just found the ticket stub from my first date

    with my boyfriend... Also just found that the date on the ticket is the same day my best friend killed himself. I don't know what to feel anymore. X.x
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Glorious Creatures

    So my best friend and I have basically told one another that we're in love with each other. Nice, huh? Well here's the catch ... I'm with someone whom i do love, but also hate. And I want to be with my best friend so bad. But I don't want to lose a potential good thing right now...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Constantly Fighting With Husband

    I haven't even been married for a year and I don't think my marriage will last.  My husband says that I am not the same since my friend died one year ago. I don't have many friends.  Neither does he.  He always says that we don't have any quality time together, but...
    salongirl salongirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    We'll im a 12 year old boy with divorced

    parents lately meaning the past year or so I have wanted to become and act like a baby again. If anyone has any advise please tell me. By the way i have not told my parents because I'm afraid they will get very mad.
    BabyAgain BabyAgain 61-65, M Apr 3

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    I Don't Get It Why I'm Hurting And He Don't Give A Damn

    I been married for ten years now. We had our good times and what seems like more bad times as of late. I feel like he lost love for me and it prob is something i am not giving enough of or doing enough of but then when I ask I get the it's not you it's me crap. I am tired...
    WendyYang WendyYang 26-30, F Oct 5, 2013

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    Sometimes I get lost in life.

    I have no idea what I am doing or why. Maybe I do, but repetitive failures blur my mind. Then I question myself. Then I forget. While I am stuck here waist deep in confusion, loneliness creeps in.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20

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    I Am Numb From This Morning's Meltdown

    The past few months have been so hard for me. In October, I was raped by my brother in law, in November my fiance and I broke up and this month has been nothing but family drama and trauma and an enormous amount of stress. A little background info.. I am disabled from a failed...
    tmarker86 tmarker86 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Conflicting Feelings

    I feel like I have a very hard time distinguishing right from wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    my ex gf's moms ex gf kissed me tonight

    after we got really drunk and I liked it? I have no idea how to feel or what to do :/
    cubshadow cubshadow 18-21 1 Response Apr 28

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    I'm 22 and my boyfriend

    and I started dating 5 years ago. We now have a 2 year old son. We had a rough year or so where we broke up a lot, but we were finally in a very good place when I got pregnant. I question whether or not I would still be with him if I hadn't gotten pregnant. My son truly saved my...
    Milly2012 Milly2012 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm pretty sure I know how you feel.

    But I can't decide whether that's making me move on, or pushing me to try even harder.
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Torn Apart

    So on the one hand there is my father. 81 yrs old, blind and no clue about handling finances, legal stuff or running a household. Also a compulsive hoarder and expects the house to magically clean itself and such. Has health issues that require administration of medications...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Am I Already Too Deep?

    What if all of this is a sick joke to him? It won't be the first time it's happened. If it is, I shouldn't be surprised. And yet, I find myself falling deeper and deeper. I caution myself of the insane abyss just a step away from where I'm standing, and at times I ignore it, but...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I can literally feel my mind changing

    and personality changing. Sometimes I'm quiet , sometimes , I'm active , or lazy or thinking alot , being perverted , then being insightful , then being angry , ashamed , happy , goofy, cold , sober , high , drunk, rolling , come downs , I swear I'm my best friend and worst...
    reader44 reader44 26-30, M Apr 21

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    Conflicted-what would be the best decision

    for me? Should I be concerned more about the "us"? I feel like I know the answers but there are parts of me that constantly toss the doubts around, further tangling my emotions, thoughts, desires up into a knot of despair...one that is resting deep within me . I feel sick, I...
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Confused Conflicted and Lost.

    it seems to me that i  don know my self, or anything really. every time i think i am getting a solid notion of life, people, relations ANYTHING it changes. there are so many things so many feelings i feel like i can barely speak..and i probably shouldnt because i cant even...
    bambiblue bambiblue 16-17 4 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    I Need Quick Respnse. Its About My Boyfriend And His Ex

    Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. I've been in a long term relationship before, but this by far is the happiest I've ever been. We never fight and I consider him my best friend. This is beside the point. The problem isnt my relationship... it is his, with his...
    singergal545 singergal545 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2009

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    Trying to Run In 3 Directions At Once!

     There are so many things to get done and only so many hours in which to do them so you prioritize and then comeone comes up with a new priority and you start the craziness all over again!  Why can't life be more predictable?  Well, in a cemetary it is but I'm not...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 9 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Conflictedness Never Stops

    Heart: It's alright, you'll be fine! Brain: No you won't. You're going to mess this up just like everything else. Heart: No she won't! You be nice! Brain: You know it's true. You KNOW she'll mess everything up just like always. She'll just have to deal with being miserable, now...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Love As Thou Wilt

    I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't happy. He was controlling, but he was also trying to stop. He was trying to fix himself. But I just couldn't wait. I was hurting. From the past and the present. And I thought I was making a good decision, the right one. But now I'm so...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    Thou Shalt Not Love.

    I'm torn between what I know in my heart and what I know from my Faith. At the moment, faith's winning out. I wish I knew what to believe.
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    At least I think I am. I'm almost confused about being confused... I don't know if you can even call this a normal relationship but it sure makes a big impact on me and that counts...
    emilyymariee emilyymariee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    My father died when i was 1 year old. He died after being in coma for 9 months. I don't remember anything about him. It's sometimes upset me that the fact i have to grew up without...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    My life is confusing. I feel so furlong and distant. I just can't wait to be myself. I know I will be an adult but I will always be me. Crazy, loner, dark, confused, mysterious...
    WolvesSong WolvesSong 13-15, F Jun 24

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    I'm not really sure how to start. So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I've never been so confused about my feelings. I started seeing this guy about 2 months ago & he is the most genuine person I've ever met. I've never had someone care for me so...
    LeeC91 LeeC91 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I am always confused about life. It's so hard to understand. Sometimes language also confuses me. What do these words mean? I'm so confused. I'm in my head too long. I need to...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm so confused and I wanna scream because I swear yesterday I was second guessing our relationship and now I don't second guess it at all but now I'm second guessing not second...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 5

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I am really confused right now...my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm not confused about whether I'm in a relationship, I am, but I'm confused about where things will go. In 2 months he'll be moving out of the country, going abroad to study with...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    July 17. Love, in Words and Actions. Many of us have confused notions about what it means to be loved and cared about. Many of us were loved and cared for by people who had...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I'm confused about my --- orientation. I haven't spoken much to boys. And I used to get easily scared if some boy called me for friendship or more. I've spend much of my time with...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm so confused I wish I knew who I really was.
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Sometimes I'm happy, and sometimes I get sad all of a sudden.. I'm lying if I say that I don't know the cause of my problems, because I do.. It's just that I get confused sometimes...
    xxxxxuu xxxxxuu 16-17, F Jun 24

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    so, last week i was going to the club with 3 friends of mine. i talked a lot with one of them, i think he likes me or something. im not really sure. but he said he doesn't want a...
    klooey klooey 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I grew up in a very ****** up family. I have a lot of problem going on in my life, between career and relationship. Besides i also have bipolar disorder and depressed. Since i...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm new here. I'm sorta confused about my gender. Sometimes I can just be me but other times, my gender matters because the bathrooms and locker rooms are segregated and when I...
    thunderstruck14 thunderstruck14 18-21 2 Responses Jun 25

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    This one guy always made me feel confused .
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I didn't talk with my gf 6 months ago for 1 month and at that time my best friend went to relationship with her and I just was quiet and said nothing so I tried to forget that and...
    mehradiano mehradiano 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    One moment he acts like he cares, the next moment he's barely talking to me like he doesn't.. Just wish there was some consistency here. #confused 😶
    Jayduh97 Jayduh97 18-21, F Jun 25

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    Okay so there's this friend. A guy friend and i think he likes me. And he wants to see me but i don't think he'll like me. So i'e been avoiding all the heart break by mostly not...
    fios fios 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Suppose I said the following; what would you think? I’m wondering if I really like this guy more than I’ve let myself realize. I know he’s really into me. But I’ve been...
    patjemison patjemison 46-50 1 Response Jun 26

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    There is this guy in my class and at the beginning of the year i think he had a crush on me and he asked me to text him one time. I didnt because i was waiting for him too and...
    jazzylush jazzylush 13-15, F Jun 26

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    I hate that I'm starting to get deep feelings for a guy I met on Facebook I really do. We've been chatting for over a month everyday and night, He tells me he loves me but I think...
    myn1 myn1 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    my bf loves me like crazy and i have known him since 7 to 8 years i dont even remember. i was just a flirt and 15 and he grew serious. he loves me a lot and puts up with me and my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm quite confused about my gender. I was born female but some days I feel like being a girl and sone days I feel like being a boy (to the point of wearing wigs and talking in a...
    Areiaado Areiaado 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I remember in high school I fell so hard for boy who messed with my head. We had some kind of connection for two years. No we didn't date but I know what we did have was special...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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