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I Am So Conflicted and Confused

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    Conflictedness Never Stops - Heart: It's alright, you'll be fine! Brain: No you won't. You're going to mess this up just like everything else. Heart: No she won't! You be nice...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Love As Thou Wilt - I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't happy. He was controlling, but he was also trying to stop. He was trying to fix himself. But I just couldn't wait...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    I Am Numb From This Morning's Meltdown - The past few months have been so hard for me. In October, I was raped by my brother in law, in November my fiance and I broke up and this...
    tmarker86 tmarker86 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I Need Quick Respnse. Its About My Boyfriend And His Ex - Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. I've been in a long term relationship before, but this by far is the...
    singergal545 singergal545 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2009

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    Conflicted-what would be the best decision for me? Should I be concerned more about the "us"? I feel like I know the answers but there are parts of me that constantly toss the...
    iDntCurr iDntCurr 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Sometimes I get lost in life. I have no idea what I am doing or why. Maybe I do, but repetitive failures blur my mind. Then I question myself. Then I forget. While I am stuck here...
    AnomicNorme AnomicNorme 18-21, M Mar 20

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    We'll im a 12 year old boy with divorced parents lately meaning the past year or so I have wanted to become and act like a baby again. If anyone has any advise please tell me. By...
    BabyAgain BabyAgain 61-65, M Apr 3

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    Glorious Creatures - So my best friend and I have basically told one another that we're in love with each other. Nice, huh? Well here's the catch ... I'm with someone whom i do...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Trying to Run In 3 Directions At Once! -  There are so many things to get done and only so many hours in which to do them so you prioritize and then comeone comes up with a...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 9 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Constantly Fighting With Husband - I haven't even been married for a year and I don't think my marriage will last.  My husband says that I am not the same since my friend died...
    salongirl salongirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I just found the ticket stub from my first date with my boyfriend... Also just found that the date on the ticket is the same day my best friend killed himself. I don't know what to...
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Conflicting Feelings - I feel like I have a very hard time distinguishing right from wrong.
    justcallmeit justcallmeit 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Am I Already Too Deep? - What if all of this is a sick joke to him? It won't be the first time it's happened. If it is, I shouldn't be surprised. And yet, I find myself falling...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Thou Shalt Not Love. - I'm torn between what I know in my heart and what I know from my Faith. At the moment, faith's winning out. I wish I knew what to believe.
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Torn Apart - So on the one hand there is my father. 81 yrs old, blind and no clue about handling finances, legal stuff or running a household. Also a compulsive hoarder and...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Confused Conflicted and Lost. - it seems to me that i  don know my self, or anything really. every time i think i am getting a solid notion of life, people, relations ANYTHING...
    bambiblue bambiblue 16-17 4 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    I was so much in love with him..I took good care of him and make sure that he feels happy...but when i discovered that he was cheating on me..I broke up with him ..then he came...
    musungu musungu 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I'm 24 and met my husband in college when I was 18. We got married, and we've been together for about 6 years total. I've had bad depression my whole life, and an obsessive...
    FeelsTooMuch FeelsTooMuch 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I am quite confused over a few things that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi there, sorry if this post is a bit long, I feel like there's a lot to explain so 1st of all thank you if you take the time to read this! Here goes... So basically i've always...
    pinkdiamondxo pinkdiamondxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I broke up with my bf of 6 years, not because I didn't love him or care about him. But because we went through a lot and I had a lot to get over. So I broke up with him so I...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I'm confused.This one time my friend showed me a picture of Jeff the killer (from creepypasta) I literally freaked out and got paranoid but a few months later now I have lots of...
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend who I have been "friends" with since we broke up in October, told me the other day that we need lots of time apart. I agreed. I vowed to have no contact with him...
    londonqueen londonqueen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I still couldn't accept why is he treating me so cold all of a sudden. We were having our sweet time for almost few weeks and a sudden 360degrees change in his attitude towards me...
    Jaqque23 Jaqque23 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I feel so lost I am driving myself insane over random **** I really think i need actual help, but I don't know I was about to ask my friends about it i started, said that I think...
    chocolatelover987 chocolatelover987 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I am so confused. I am in two different relationships at the moment. Both from a distance. Guy 1 is sexy and attractive. A bad boy but caring as well. And I know there is no...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    There are time when she just doesn't understand. I mean how could she? She did so much for me. Alot. I want her but the slightest thing gives her the thought that I want another...
    mkenzi0924 mkenzi0924 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    It's really not a relationship yet. He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Super confused- my crush doesn't mind cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, holding hands, or kissing. But ever since my drunken stupor I feel like now he's pulling away...
    Peanutnumber22 Peanutnumber22 22-25, F Mar 21

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    I feel confused Like i donno wat to do with my life I want a job and i even got 2 offers but im a student too and well the parents said i shud first complete my studies But then i...
    swordsmith swordsmith 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I am so confused about so many things. I am so uncertain about so many things: who I am, why my friends like me, my abilities, things I like... I feel so empty like I'm just going...
    ayang1150 ayang1150 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I am a really confused person, i am so indecisive i cry myself too sleep
    charlotteK charlotteK 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I don't know for real what is going on with my life and wish if things will be cleared soon. Am i that bad for showing how much i am in love with some girl and being there for her...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    It all started six years ago. This girl and I became friends when we're on our senior year in high school but before, we barely talk to each other and we're not even that close...
    myheartscore myheartscore 22-25 Mar 30

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    I don't know why but lately I have been getting angry at the smallest thing. I don't want to talk to my parents(I'm not mad at them I honestly just don't know why I don't want to...
    rcola rcola 16-17, M Mar 31

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    We dated 2 years then he tells me we should take a break. But even though were on a "break" he's still texting me everyday trying to make conversation. I'm confused.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I usually am,I dont know that I feel like writing all the nitty gritty details etc but Im confused at the moment about a situation..maybe im afraid of being honest with myself...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Soooooo confused............................ Well i know i am not straight. I have this friend who is a girl and i love her. But i had a few bfs that i loved too. And that is not...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    I thought I was sure of myself but I guess I'm not. I was so sure I wanted to date a guy and start to be happy but tonight I was talking to a girl and the feelings I felt for her...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm so confused with my life, like what the ****? I don't even know anymore, but I won't give up
    alexnewsom alexnewsom 16-17, M Apr 4

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    I have been attracted to girls since I hit puberty. I have only had sexual relations with a few girls and they were either drunk or barely curious so it made it very uncomfortable...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    This is something very personal. I have never in my life told anyone I know and probably never will. First off, I have never dated a anyone, boy or girl but im a bit confused. Don...
    prodigious95 prodigious95 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I've been in a relationship of almost 2 years... we have arguments like some relationships had... i think it is just normal.. our dilemma starts when we are almost 1 year... I've...
    Lyra1001 Lyra1001 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    April 9. Giving. Learning to be a healthy giver can be a challenge. Many of us got caught up in compulsive giving - charitable acts motivated by uncharitable feelings of guilt...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 9

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    Dunno hw to say.....but is it that I observed or all out here are this way...???? means y every new person has a masked personality...ppl chat smooth n sophisticated bt gradually...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9