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I Am So Conflicted and Confused

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    Love As Thou Wilt

    I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't happy. He was controlling, but he was also trying to stop. He was trying to fix himself. But I just couldn't wait. I was hurting. From the past and the present. And I thought I was making a good decision, the right one. But now I'm so...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    Confused Conflicted and Lost.

    it seems to me that i  don know my self, or anything really. every time i think i am getting a solid notion of life, people, relations ANYTHING it changes. there are so many things so many feelings i feel like i can barely speak..and i probably shouldnt because i cant even...
    bambiblue bambiblue 16-17 4 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    Conflictedness Never Stops

    Heart: It's alright, you'll be fine! Brain: No you won't. You're going to mess this up just like everything else. Heart: No she won't! You be nice! Brain: You know it's true. You KNOW she'll mess everything up just like always. She'll just have to deal with being miserable, now...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Torn Apart

    So on the one hand there is my father. 81 yrs old, blind and no clue about handling finances, legal stuff or running a household. Also a compulsive hoarder and expects the house to magically clean itself and such. Has health issues that require administration of medications...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Sometimes I get lost in life.

    I have no idea what I am doing or why. Maybe I do, but repetitive failures blur my mind. Then I question myself. Then I forget. While I am stuck here waist deep in confusion, loneliness creeps in.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20

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    Glorious Creatures

    So my best friend and I have basically told one another that we're in love with each other. Nice, huh? Well here's the catch ... I'm with someone whom i do love, but also hate. And I want to be with my best friend so bad. But I don't want to lose a potential good thing right now...
    verkozigan verkozigan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Am I Already Too Deep?

    What if all of this is a sick joke to him? It won't be the first time it's happened. If it is, I shouldn't be surprised. And yet, I find myself falling deeper and deeper. I caution myself of the insane abyss just a step away from where I'm standing, and at times I ignore it, but...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    We'll im a 12 year old boy with divorced

    parents lately meaning the past year or so I have wanted to become and act like a baby again. If anyone has any advise please tell me. By the way i have not told my parents because I'm afraid they will get very mad.
    BabyAgain BabyAgain 61-65, M Apr 3

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    I Don't Get It Why I'm Hurting And He Don't Give A Damn

    I been married for ten years now. We had our good times and what seems like more bad times as of late. I feel like he lost love for me and it prob is something i am not giving enough of or doing enough of but then when I ask I get the it's not you it's me crap. I am tired...
    WendyYang WendyYang 26-30, F Oct 5, 2013

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    Conflicting Feelings

    I feel like I have a very hard time distinguishing right from wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Thou Shalt Not Love.

    I'm torn between what I know in my heart and what I know from my Faith. At the moment, faith's winning out. I wish I knew what to believe.
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Conflicted-what would be the best decision

    for me? Should I be concerned more about the "us"? I feel like I know the answers but there are parts of me that constantly toss the doubts around, further tangling my emotions, thoughts, desires up into a knot of despair...one that is resting deep within me . I feel sick, I...
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I Am Numb From This Morning's Meltdown

    The past few months have been so hard for me. In October, I was raped by my brother in law, in November my fiance and I broke up and this month has been nothing but family drama and trauma and an enormous amount of stress. A little background info.. I am disabled from a failed...
    tmarker86 tmarker86 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Constantly Fighting With Husband

    I haven't even been married for a year and I don't think my marriage will last.  My husband says that I am not the same since my friend died one year ago. I don't have many friends.  Neither does he.  He always says that we don't have any quality time together, but...
    salongirl salongirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    my ex gf's moms ex gf kissed me tonight

    after we got really drunk and I liked it? I have no idea how to feel or what to do :/
    cubshadow cubshadow 18-21 1 Response Apr 28

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    I'm 22 and my boyfriend

    and I started dating 5 years ago. We now have a 2 year old son. We had a rough year or so where we broke up a lot, but we were finally in a very good place when I got pregnant. I question whether or not I would still be with him if I hadn't gotten pregnant. My son truly saved my...
    Milly2012 Milly2012 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I just found the ticket stub from my first date

    with my boyfriend... Also just found that the date on the ticket is the same day my best friend killed himself. I don't know what to feel anymore. X.x
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I can literally feel my mind changing

    and personality changing. Sometimes I'm quiet , sometimes , I'm active , or lazy or thinking alot , being perverted , then being insightful , then being angry , ashamed , happy , goofy, cold , sober , high , drunk, rolling , come downs , I swear I'm my best friend and worst...
    reader44 reader44 26-30, M Apr 21

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    Trying to Run In 3 Directions At Once!

     There are so many things to get done and only so many hours in which to do them so you prioritize and then comeone comes up with a new priority and you start the craziness all over again!  Why can't life be more predictable?  Well, in a cemetary it is but I'm not...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 9 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    I'm pretty sure I know how you feel.

    But I can't decide whether that's making me move on, or pushing me to try even harder.
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I Need Quick Respnse. Its About My Boyfriend And His Ex

    Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. I've been in a long term relationship before, but this by far is the happiest I've ever been. We never fight and I consider him my best friend. This is beside the point. The problem isnt my relationship... it is his, with his...
    singergal545 singergal545 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2009

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    I am really confused right now...my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm not confused about whether I'm in a relationship, I am, but I'm confused about where things will go. In 2 months he'll be moving out of the country, going abroad to study with...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    July 17. Love, in Words and Actions. Many of us have confused notions about what it means to be loved and cared about. Many of us were loved and cared for by people who had...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 17

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    I'm confused about my --- orientation. I haven't spoken much to boys. And I used to get easily scared if some boy called me for friendship or more. I've spend much of my time with...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm a separated Mom of two kids..I have a boyfriend now, I'm a filipina and his Taiwanese.. he meet all my standards so I fall for him..only this one thing that still make me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm quite confused about my gender. I was born female but some days I feel like being a girl and sone days I feel like being a boy (to the point of wearing wigs and talking in a...
    Areiaado Areiaado 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I remember in high school I fell so hard for boy who messed with my head. We had some kind of connection for two years. No we didn't date but I know what we did have was special...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 7 years now. I just moved to the state he lives in for the second time in our 7 yr span and things just aren't getting better. We...
    elleon88 elleon88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    For while I been confused about my feelings for my guy friend. It's really odd. I usually know when I like someone. For a few weeks I been wondering do I like him or not? I could...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I was confused with this thingy that I'm ashamed to share, because this one person is confusing me this past few days about how he treated me. I don't know why he treats me very...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    You know something, this is gonna sound really like "seriously get over yourself and shut up" type of thing and like "get over it you're young!" etc etc but I don't really right...
    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 13-15, M Jul 7

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    I was born a female. Sometimes I feel like a girl, other times like a boy. But I mostly feel like a guy. I like to dress in clothes that hides my gender, I feel uncomfortable...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    This is not like other experiences and I'm a bit embarrassed to say this. I normally have my period for 2 weeks and I only had it for 1 day. I'm a bit confused
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I confused, I words can't.
    Kayrouille Kayrouille 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm confused as to why I'm so messed up in the head. That is all.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I might've recently found out that I could possibly be into women? No more than a week ago, I met some pretty amazing women and I suppose it's always been in the back of my mind...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    i feel like im ion my head im tired and worn out and feeling afraid everything is too much i have to cope buy the computer i think i feel confused dont feel like a human being i...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I am a 17 year old guy, i am gay but nobody knows about it. I have a really close friend, he is the best friend i have ever had in my life. We have a awesome friendship, we tell...
    ConfusedOT ConfusedOT 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Always confused, zoned out, not paying attention, but hey you only have one life to live 👌😏
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I'm am so very confused about my gender. I was born in a male body. Grew up male, but started to crossdress at a young age 5ish, I'm now married 21 years to kids, I love my wife...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Confused with my sexuality... :P anyone wanna talk?
    runskiscore runskiscore 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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